Niam Nplooj Siab Dua Twg Lawm. 11/15/2023

[@kvang1045]

Alot of people may bash and say youre an unfit mother by not protecting your child, however i want to say thank you for sharing your story. It may help other women who are in similar situation and men who abuse stepchildren to avoid jail time, but then again, people will be people until they face the consequences of their actions. Im sorry you lost your child. May he RIP.

[@itsmaichee]

Sorry for your loss. I know there’s a lot of negative comments but I want you to know you did what you thought was best 🥺. Your son loves and miss you and wish you to continue living a happy life for yourself and his siblings. May you find peace and heal from this. ❤️‍🩹

[@alexisandfriends9537]

You should be jail, too! You did not protect your kids. If your husband abused your son, I’m sure he has also abused your other children. Stop trying to play dumb. You knowingly stayed with your husband for a couple more years after your son told you about the abuse. It’s heart breaking to hear that your son is no longer with us but you don’t deserve to be his mother. Please don’t ask him to come get you!

[@MissPeachie]

I pray that her son will go find a better mother in the next life, if there is such a thing.

[@HouaVue-yd6du]

Ladies when it comes to someone abusing your child. You don't need to go to your relatives, clan members, you need to report the abuse to authorities. If you choose to have kids, they come first. What a sad story.

[@maipha8560]

Abuse and trauma have lasting effects. Sadly, this mom did not get the help her son needed early enough to prevent this from happening. It's truly heartbreaking to hear this story. I'm just disappointed that the loser didn't go to jail sooner. May this young soul rests in peace. 😢

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

Hmong men have the little heart in the world. Don’t remarried if you have kids. Wait till all of your kids is grow up and they are on their own before you marry

[@oraleholmes1263]

And hmong women so eager to remarried ..if anything blame the mom, always worrying about her itch and didn't pay attention to her kids smh

[@nkaujhmoobvwj]

Areed

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

@@oraleholmes1263 if Hmong men can’t love other people kids. Don’t remarried too. Just date them don’t marry them and pretend to love their kids

[@oraleholmes1263]

@@lovetoplaywithyou3530 but it's the women's fault lol..how can the dude marry her if she's says no duh hahaha , it's not like he put a gun to her head and said ..marry me or die haha she had a choice

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

@@oraleholmes1263 both are to blamed

[@CouaYang-fw8fq]

This lady keeps saying the kids didn’t tell her about the abuse but I think she’s just denying them. Shame on her! She should go to jail! I’m so sad for this child. I can’t imagine what other abuse he has endured to turn from a naughty boy into a scared boy. Tu siab heev. RIP sweet boy. Next life I hope he finds better loving parents.

[@TaHarThao]

She actually mentioned many times that he did tell her, but she believed her husband’s words over his. She was in denial. She wanted to keep her husband more. Evil lady.

[@hmongsiabzoo]

You failed your child on so many levels. You should have called the authorities when you learned of the abuse. There’s no sitting down with families and to talk about it. You should’ve sat your kids down and tell them they’re your priority. No matter what anyone say, you will always take their side and believe them. I’m sorry you and your children when through such a traumatic tragedy. Sorry for your loss. Lesson learned for everyone.

[@akulathao4654]

She is all about herself as long as she get that 🪱!!

[@KathyLee-o7k]

I agree with u because she not there for her son n not protecting him too..when abuse happens to him by her new man

[@cheeshd1036]

🎉🎉😢

[@yl7495]

She should have done the right thing and given up custody of the kids to their biological father.

[@yl7495]

In this case, “lesson learned” is not appropriate here b/c a kid lossed his life, there’s no turning back. This is a case of “reckless negligence”The kid was the victim here and the mother was a willing abuser.

[@lilythao1965]

Such a sad story no matter the circumstances😭I am sorry you lost your son… my son also past away and the scene when i got to the hospital will forever remain in my head n heart. You have other children so love them. I only had my son n no other children. Thx for sharing ur story. May he RIP. May u also forgive urself n move on with ur life.❤

[@lillianli29]

Omg! How I hate all of us mother, who failed to protect our children. This is so sad , I am glad you share, so we can watch out for ours too. Rip to this boy in this story, may you find a better parent, who will protect and love you.

[@waatchdogs6184]

Omg sister i just want to hug your son 😢 I'm so sad for him. I went thru this too but now im older and i promise i will hurt anyone who hurts my kids or grandkids. Im so sorry you and your son suffered so much 💔 because of these stories i will never allow this to happen to my kids

[@MiaKim24]

You don't deserve to be his mom in this lifetime or the next and infinity. You failed to protect him. May his soul rest in peace and reincarnate with loving parents.

[@LinaLina-gv3hs]

I’m a mother of 3 boys. Boys are definitely more full of energy. I can’t imagine the pain you are going through. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@kong7535]

Easy for all you listeners to point fingers. Practice empathy, it won’t kill you. Your words have impact on others! To this mother, you did right by divorcing that monster. What you didn’t do right was pay attention to your son and you didn’t act fast enough. We all live with regret. May you heal knowing your son loved you and know he is no longer in pain. To all the moms and dads out there, be careful who you marry and never ever stop keeping an eye on your children and new spouse! No matter how loving they are in your presence, you will never know what they are doing behind your back. Protect your children at all COSTS!

[@nkaujmoobleeg]

Your nyab is absolutely right, puj ruam. You don't need nobody to tell you what to do. Your kids love should be enough to let go your txiv dev.

[@redangel3937]

Thank you for sharing your story. I hope it will help others too.

[@Pajdabtsi]

What a heart drenching. May his soul rest in peace.

[@LiaMoua-v9q]

Sister, everything is ur fault. All u divorcee’s need to stop being so desperate to have a man in ur life. He’s divorced for a reason!! Being a single mom, a widow or a divorcee is not as bad as u think. I feel sorry for ur son, for wat he went through, for wat he endured. May he RIP. 😢😢

[@oraleholmes1263]

You are 100% correct

[@nkaujmoobleeg]

Wow! So depressed! Why did you let your child went through this dark journey alone? Koj mas xuab tshaaj plawg. You failed to protect your child!😢

[@yl7495]

Yog! Tsi muaj leejtwg yuav xuab tshaaj tug Puj moob nuav. Nwg yeej paub tej teebmeem nuav los nwg ntshaw ntshaw yaav qos ces nws xum zais tsi qha cov mivnyuas txiv es nwg xwm yuam cov mivnyuas tiv qws tau ntau xyoo.

[@Eelgnayjules]

You failed as a mother. Your kids should be your #1 priority!

[@Hangouttimez]

This is why our parents are so afraid to restart new. Yeej tsis muaj leeg twg yuav hlub yus cov menyuam paub li cov Ua yug kiag.

[@maryly09]

Sorry for your loss. I'm glad the monster is in jail. May he rot in jail forever.

[@neejhmoob9347]

At this point you either choose your husband or your children. Me, I rather choose my children and dump that poor man. You can marry any man to call a husband. But you can not find your children anywhere, you can’t buy any children to be your children.

[@poggersrus1802]

It is very sad and heartbroken to loose someone you love so much. So sorry for loss sister. May he rest in peace and hopefully you can find peace too.

[@AwVv-yo1fg]

ເສຍໄຈມາກ

[@pangxiong8615]

Stories like this makes my blood boil. This is the hardest challenge when remarrying with kids, we need to protect our children and pay attention and listen to our kids and communicate with them. The poor child was so hurt, betrayed, and sad to the point that his soul and spirit probably wanted to go and get a new life. Child abuse from parents is the ultimate betrayal, I hope he rip and get a better life next lifetime. That evil man will get what he deserves rather that may be here on earth or judgement day.

[@user-bw9ro3jz4v]

I'm sorry that you lost your child. No matter how hard life gets, no one wants to lose a love. Take it as a lesson learn.

[@MloveL559]

Please believe in childhood trauma.

[@qaihleevaj]

My kids will ALWAYS come first! ❤

[@Nyang677]

Lawv awb hnov tej zaj dab neeg li no mas tu siab tshaj li os. Sib sib hlub me nyuam thiaj tsis ntsib kev txom nyem os.

[@159nightangel]

True, studies show anger causes liver damage, and fear causes kidney damage.

[@ashylove909]

Ntuj aw nrog koj tu siab heev li os me niam hluas aw nrog koj hlub2 koj tus me tub kawg li os twb yog Tim yus ua niam coj yus tej me nyuam mus raug txoj keV nyiaj siab heev li os mog cas kuv yuav nrog koj khuv xim nws ua luaj li os mog

[@Focky446]

.........THIS IS A PRIME example of a son without a father figured. Rare and few divorced parents did not think of their children instead think of their own lust, greedy, egos...and ultimately cheats and ultimately led to divorced. This is the consequences for parents who divorced. Sadly, these children are innocent. May this child rest in peace and find a new parents his next life. I wish he traveled well....

[@NpaubXeemXyooj]

Hais zoo heev

[@hello-lt8dd]

Hais tau tu siab thiab hlub tus menyuam dhau lawm os me viv ncaus kuv los lub neej es nim zoo li koj thiab es tu siab tshaj plaws li o😂

[@lilyv.628]

It took you losing your son's life to finally take a BIG step in protecting him. I'm so sad for your loss, but even more sad that your children had to endure abuse just for your happiness. His biological father is just as selfish as you.

[@MissPeachie]

Yes, sadly her kids suffered for the sake of her having a man. Her needs are met but not her kids’ needs. 😢

[@chumua7828]

Cag tu siab ua luaj li os 😢😢😢😢

[@BUTTERFLY75ful]

Wow, this story hit home so hard for me! I cried cried and cried some more!

[@phem55]

Menyuam ntsuag ciaj mas tusiab tshaj os…., some children really long for love….

[@paynicha4458]

I'm sorry for your loss sister. Sometimes we search for love in the wrong people and it effects our children. But sister you made the right decision by leaving. Only if you would've left sooner, maybe things would be different. Maybe not. Don't beat yourself up. I'm sure your son sees how much you loved him. He wouldn't want you to be living this life blaming yourself. He'll always love and miss you. Sis. Take care of yourself and your babies. Your story teared me up. I have a naughty youngest son from my ex husband too. I understand. The only difference is that my new husband loves my babies. Sending you lots of love and hugs, Sis

[@poggersrus1802]

If your children tell you about an abuse from their stepdad, why would you go and ask the abuser and his relatives? Never do that!!! Leave the abuser and stay with your children.

[@MissPeachie]

Because she wanted to hear them tell her to stay with him. If she asked her side, they would tell her to leave him.

[@whachamamacallit]

Omfg, I am furious listening to this story.

[@koumoua2980]

Nrog koj hlub thiab Khuv Xim koj tus me tub os mog tus me niam tsev aw. Thov qhuas koj qhov uas koj Xaiv koj cov menyuam es niag yawg dab ntawv nrauj pov tseg lawm. Tab sis qhov tu siab, Chim siab thiab mob siab tshaj yog qhov uas koj tus ua niam cia koj tus me tub nco koj, cia nws pw sofa quaj nco koj, quaj nrhiav koj ua hnub ua hmo hlub nws tshaj li os💔😭So sad.

[@BâuVàngthị-p5w]

Nyob zoo os niam laug mes hais tau zoo hv kv nij hnub nug kj hais neej nees zoo hv❤

[@Bombshell209]

where is the biological dad when all this happened? He should play a big role too very irresponsible parents. When you noticed your child changed it's your job to start questioning. Kids are innocent but yet, they had to pay the price for their parents selfishness.

[@BANNA_007-r6q]

See I think she a bad mother too keep them kids away trying get that child support money. Let the real dad in their kids life too ppl

[@isabellexiong227]

Vim koj ntxhawb txiv neej sib hlub koj cov me nyuam thiaj ntaus

[@dohcvtecboy]

How would he know? The kid didn't even tell his mom, what makes you think he told his dad when the kid lives with the mom. And the mom was probably indenial at first.

[@KathyLee-o7k]

I can tell this story..she not stand up for her kids n not care about them n also not protecting them..when her kid tell her or real dad about her new man hurting him or abuse him..I never go pick person like him over my kid at all..my kids always come first in my life than guy....

[@TheLynierose]

Mom is irresponsible not protecting, she want the guy badly… not pay attention to the boy.. his spirit tell him to go b4 time

[@mailee702]

Why this woman didn't protect her son?

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

Thank you for sharing your story.

[@susanyang2176]

Vim kev hlub pov koj qhov muag lawm es koj thiaj coj koj cv me nyuas mus txom nyem li kov nawj

[@xyoojmeelauj7355]

Zoo siab kawg qhov nws mag kaw lawm..yog tseem tsis muab nws mus kaw mas peb yuav ntxub koj heev nawb.

[@payang6882]

Peb cov poj niam na yog thaum peb nrauj txiv tag es peb tseem tshuav ib pab me nyuam me2 ces tseg kiag txoj kev coj cov me nyuam mus yuav txiv tshiab nawb cov poj nrauj tej me nyuam tseem me kav tsij Nyob twj ywm zov lawv hos yog tseem ntshaw2 txiv no ces txhob nrauj txiv es tos kom lawv Loj tso yog ntshaw txiv mam yuav txiv tshiab nawb sawv daws yeej paub zoo tias twb muaj ntau2 case tsis hais meskas Los hmoob naw !

[@crystalxiong735]

Txoj kev niamtshiab txivtshiab tsim cov menyuam yeej muaj. Yog vim li cas yus ho ras tsis txog. Ntxov tiv thaiv ces tej zaum yus tus menyuam twb tsis tuag. Hais tau zoo kawg.

[@maiyang1508]

I’m pretty sure even if your son told you you are still going to pick your new husband over your own kids…. Some women are like that. I have seen it before

[@oraleholmes1263]

That's true, hmong women always worrying about what other people will say about you if you don't get married and always taken everyone else words before your own kids words smh

[@chiliayang5832]

Muaj ib pab me nyuam es tsis tas mus yuav txiv tshiab lawv tsis hlub yus tej me nyuam li os viv ncaus 😢

[@xeelee2124]

Kuv Los hais ib yam li koj hais thiab.

[@ZibMuv]

Tu siab 😭

[@jackieyunan4899]

Poj nrauj thiab yawg nrauj sib sau los ua neej ces yeej lwj siab li no ntag nawb lawv aw...

[@kellielee9829]

Stories like this makes my blood boil. I hope you learned your lesson. Sorry you realized it too late. Should have listened to your kids and not your husband’s relatives or him. They told you first and you ignored it so they stopped telling you is how your son suffered through the abuse.

[@pt01407]

Thov peb cov poj niam es neej tsis zoo lawm los thov siab ntev tu me nyuam kom loj tso es tsis txhob coj me nyuam mus rau txiv tshiab niam tshiab txim os lawv aw

[@BeaSong-d3g]

To all hmong ladies out there if u divorce...please keep your children safe first and put them first before remarried or.finding love. Date them longer before married.

[@nouyang3166]

The thing about these og hmong men, they don't show their real personality. They like to pretend to be Mr Nice until you get married then the true color comes out. Unlike these new generations where our kids are themselves and not trying to impress anyone

[@kaliaxiong4011]

Nrog koj Tu siab heev li os niam laus a😭😭😭😭😭

[@kevinher3546]

Prb cov poj niam uas yog ib leej niam txhob tsaw 2 txiv yuav tsum tiv thaiv yus cov me nyuam vim me nyuam tsis xaiv lis yug rau peb tab sis vim peb xais kom muaj me nyuam peb yug cov me nyuam los ua ib leej tib neeg nyob lawd tsaw2 kev hlub tsaw leej niam lub xub ntiag peb cov poj niam uas cas peb pheej yuav ntseeg txiv neej lo luas dah tias hlub txiv neej yog siab dab xwb yeej tsis capable hlub leej twg but him self xwb poj hmoob ruam koj tsis tsim nyog nco nws kaem mog

[@sengmanyloa5605]

Ua kev kawm rau peb os

[@PH-ThailanD]

tu siab kawg yug tej me nyuam yog tug yug hlub tshaj 😢😢😢😢😮

[@chevangchannel7425]

Cas koj tseem pheej yuav ntshaw ntshaw koj tus niag txiv ko li nas kuv yuav pab hlub koj tus no tub ua luaj li os

[@YyyYyy-sd9nn]

kij tsis yog neeg los viv ncaus aw cas koj yuav uv tau ua luaj li txiv tag lawm los

[@houaxiong9996]

Lawv cem koj los txhob xav li cas vim koj yeej tsis tiv thiav koj tus me nyuam.

[@isabellexiong227]

Cas nej ntxhaw txiv txoj kev zoo nyob thiaj zoo li

[@cindyxiong7697]

Cov me vivncaus hmoob aw nco ntsoov tias lub ntiaj teb no tsis muaj leej twg hlub koj cov me nyuam li koj es txhob muab ib tug txiv neej los pauv koj cov me nyuam qhov chaw os. Nco ntsoov hlub koj thiab koj cov me nyuam tshaj lwm tus txiv neej os

[@kaoxiong6148]

Shame on you both…you both failed to protect him… The stepdad deserved to be in prison for what he did… no one will love any kids more than their own parents…

[@cellanthao7682]

Hais rau peb cov nkauj nrab muaj menyuam coob txhb ntshaw2 txiv zov peb cov menyuam kom loj kom lawv tiv thaiv tau lawv tus kheej tso vim tamsim no cv yawg nrauj thb cov pog nrauj lawv yeej hlub g tau nej cov menyuam nb,nrog koj mob sb kg li os

[@ShouaTojsiab]

So sorry for your loss. Yog peb sib nrauj tas lawm tej me nyuam tseem me peb yuav tau hlub tej me nyuam Nrog lawv nyob kom loj mam mus nrhiav neej ua vim peb tsis paub xyov tus neeg peb yuav ntawd siab puas zoo. May your son rest in peace.

[@maiyang1118]

Wait, you paid to send him when you could have called the cops on him. He’s lucky you didn’t call the cops on him, why would you be stupid to pay $1,200

[@shawnyang3400]

So sad for me because I only have two children, a daughter and a son. I love them both so much.

[@yermoua7812]

Me viv ncaus aw cas yuav hlub koj tus me tub ua luaj li os nrog koj tu siab ua li li o

[@gaosayvu6554]

😢😢tu siab ua luaj hlub koj tus menyuam kawg li os

[@Cindy-s1t]

You did the best, given the circumstances. Never choose any man over your child. 😢

[@sombunman5551]

MI tub ntxim hlub aw yog koj ua siab nrog koj txiv cais twb tsis mag koj niam nkawd muab koj tsim tuag os ! Txaus hlub koj kawg li os MI tub aw yug tau niam txiv siab phem phem ais mus yug dua tshiab mog , nto phiv ob niam txiv phem pov tseg mog

[@cagiang4086]

Tu sjab heev os

[@misstaytay9694]

Hmong people are the biggest victim shamers. It’s a sad reality. We really need to work on ourselves. I hear too many stories about the perp’s families blaming the victims. Whether it’s rape or physical abuse. The audacity of the sisters to come and blame the son and the mom for their own horrible brother’s actions. So sad that the son died tho. My condolences to the family.

[@louher3855]

Kuv nrog tu siab hlub koj tus me nyuam xwb os txawm li cas los yog koj uv koj tus txiv qub no tej zaum yuav zoo rau yus cov me nyuam os lawv tsis hlub yus los lawv hlub nws cov me nyuam tshaj tus txiv thiab os peb cov viv ncaus aw peb txhob ntshaw2 txiv os yus hlub yus cov me nyuam zoo dua os😢😢😢😢

[@VivoY17-z9z]

😭😭😭😭

[@lavang3143]

TU siab tiag2 aw kuv los2 kua muag pab koj khuv xim koj tus tub os

[@chavang210]

Zoo tshaj koj yuav txiv tseg cov me nyuam rau txiv qub better

[@o-shua1474]

😢😢😢

[@xisha873]

Hlub koj cov me nyuam kawg li os tus viv ncau aw 😢😢

[@TxhobciasligYaj-kk6qd]

😢😭😭, cas nim nrog mob siab ib zaag, ib zaag. Li no es thiaj li nim ntshai2 es tau txiv lo me nyuam tsis tau txiv, tau niam lo me nyuam g tau niam nim yog ntshai rwg tsam zoo li no. Yog yus yuav los ua luag ib leej niam los yog ib leej txiv, nco ntsoov tias tus niam lo sis tus txiv comes with a package, yog yus paub zoo tias yog yus los ua lawv niam/txiv tshiab es hlub tsis tau lawv pab me nyuam, qhov zoo tshaj koj txhob sib sau.

[@thaevang5369]

Khaws nkaus koj txoj kev npwb kev ruam no coj mus ua kon lub neej tom ntej. Tsis txhob nqhis nqhis txiv neej koj thiaj li tsis ua neej yuam kev rhuav.

[@moobxaavvaammeej5725]

Xum cia menyuam plam es tau tus txiv los puag. Heart broken to here this story. These parents are irresponsible.

[@vangyang1690]

I am a single mother of four kids. I am so protective of my kids. No men are allowed to yell and abuse my kids. I warned men at front, I discipline my own kids and you do not get involved unless I ask you to assist. Now that my kids are adults, they have nothing to use against me because I make sure they are my first priority. You should have listened to your kids and took action.

[@hmongremark2686]

Poj nrauj thiab yawg nrauj lub neej ib txwm muaj qhov tej mi nyuam raug abuse los ntawm leej niam los yog leej txiv ib hnub twg vim cov mi nyuam ntawv tsis yog txiv los niam yug.

[@nyobzoshavtaischannel9304]

Zaj story no kuv nkag siab yeej tsis yog tim tus txiv tshiab tas tas thiab yeej yog tim ob tog, niam los tsis noj nhnia qees me nyuam hos txiv los yeej pom tau tias tus me nyuam no yeej txhoj tiag! Hlub los tsis paub hlub lawm npau taws lawm xwb ces thiaj li tau hais nyhav kom ntshaivseb puas txwm txiaj los yim hais yim txhoj li niam los tsis los soj tis me nyuam novqab li thiab kam liam nws txhoj nws li ces thaum kawg thiaj zoo li jo!

[@pajthao4813]

Tim koj xwb yus yuav tau tivthaiv yus cov me nyuam 💯 ua ntej txhua yam txiv tshiab txiv yug los xij peem yus yog leejnam yus yuav tsum ua tib zoo saib txhua lub caij nyoog yog koj tshem tawm tus txiv neej no thaub pib kiag xwb yeej tsis muaj teebmeem loj npaum ko

[@BANNA_007-r6q]

Lessons to learn lady let your kids go to their real daddy too don't keep them to yourself

[@rainbowanimalsrainbowanima6743]

Ua cas ho tsis uv tus leejtxiv yog cov menyuam txiv nawd e ho xum coj tej menyuam mus rau luag tsim os. pom dej dag ces siab mam nqig yom ! tuaj qhia txog koj zaj li no rau cov pojniam ua kev kawm tias phem/zoo los swb tus leejtxiv / leejniam yog tus yug cov menyuam e yuav tau sib uv sib zamtxim 2leeg nyob uake nrog menyuam

[@xhhgd7940]

😂 CA tu siab ua luaj li os TU meViv ncau

[@adoralor7728]

Sorry for your loss sister, may you find peace and forgiveness .

[@leefamily6061]

As a mother you need to pay attention and listen to your child/children first. Kids don't generally lie about being abused. I'm sorry for your loss. Hmong women you need to protect your children stop allowing your new loser husband to abuse and take advantage of you and your children

[@juli3annl33]

Sigh, this is one of the reason why I remain a single mother. 😢

[@CuaUSAChannel]

Kuv los yeej tsis pom Cov me Nyuam dwb2 li no Thiab kuv muaj Ib tug Mas dwb tiag li. Tom qab no nws yug tau nws Tus los ntxhais xwb los dwb Tas Tas Thiab lau

[@ir0nm0nkey123]

OMG i feel so sad for kid.

[@AnMoblie-c4d]

Yuav ua li ca thb li mu mloog tau koj cov dab neeg qub Maiv vaj sau li ca los yeej tsi tawm li