In my opinion, Xjoob loved Paj more than she loved him. She broke up with him, didn't look for him after her divorce, didn't recognize him, didn't ask for his number, didn't recognize his voice on the phone, and it was always him pursuing her after they reconnected. I honestly think if she recognized him at the store, but he never saw her, I don't think she would've approach him at all. I was hoping that it would be reveal why Paj's father didn't want her to marry Xjoob. If her father is still alive, I'm also wondering if he finally gave his blessing.
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Hello, Thank you very much for listening to my neej neeg. Perhaps I can answer this question for you. From talking to Pa when she told me her story, Hmong women during that time were more conservative than Hmong women today. Hmong women then were still playing their roles for the men to pursue them more. Both of her parents had passed. The reason her father didn't allow her to marry him in the first place was that her family had a higher social status than the boyfriend. The boyfriend was an orphan with having just his mom and they were from lower social status than Pa's family. Pa's father preferred her to date and marry someone with similar social status as theirs. For that reason, he forbid her to marry him. Both parents had already passed when Pa and Xyoob got reconnected.
@angie-gz4yg4 ай бұрын
@@meeliving1345 Thank you for answering my questions. I enjoy listening to your stories.
@PM-oe5mk4 ай бұрын
@@meeliving1345 Did Paj ever mentioned if her father regretted his decision concerning Xyoob, especially after her failed marriage to John? Also, did all the heartbreak destroy her relationship with her parents? Just curious to see if she said anything concerning these since it wasn't mentioned in the story.
@beevang73334 ай бұрын
Mk😅 😊😅😊 13:19 in p😊😊0😊😊
@hakh49683 ай бұрын
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@chaoxiong6352Ай бұрын
Wow, cas zoo mloog kawg li thiab ncaj ncees kawg li.
@meeliving134529 күн бұрын
Ua tsaug os.
@KayLy-yd4pc4 ай бұрын
Wow happy ending story tias meb nrov los sib sau nyb ua kev zaum kawg. Sib2 hlub kom txog hnub tsi muaj lawm thiaj tsim nyog ib zaum mog.😊😊😊
@agentkerxlor9512Ай бұрын
Sister Mim aws....koj always hais tau zoo heev. Cas yuav tu siab, mob siab, hlub nkawv thiab nkawv yog ib khub nkauj nraug ua muaj hmoo tshaj plaws nyob rau tiam no. 30 tawm xyoo los tseem rov los sib ntshib hlub dua zaum 2. Kawv 2 leeg muaj kev sib zam txim thiab sib hlub tiag thiaj rov tau los ua ke. Thov cov niam thiab txiv ua coj zoo li cia ua ke kawm thiab hloov nawb mob. Zaj no cas yuav zoo muab ua movie rau peb saib ua luaj!
@meeliving1345Ай бұрын
Nyob zoo os sister, zaj neej neeg no tu siab tabsis zoo siab heev rau nkawv thaum kawg os. Yog 1 zaj neej neeg zoo rau peb cov ua niam thiab txiv kawm os. Ua tsaug koj tuaj mloog kuv nawb.
@maiyangLee-ox8cp2 ай бұрын
Kuv xav qhia txog kev sib hlub sib pab tsim kho neej neeg... Peb nyob rau qub.teb chaws xav hais los tub qaug neej hais g tau li
@evabhmongocadventure98314 ай бұрын
Sad story but sweet ending. Happy for you to meet each other in the end.
@maimoua13714 ай бұрын
Li cas los kav liam xyoob yeej ok wim koj twb xub ua xyoob daim lev pua chaw los thaum koj tseem fresh 6 xyoob ua ntej . Nrog xyoob neb zoo siab 6 yav laus nawb
@PM-oe5mk4 ай бұрын
My advice to women out there: NEVER marry an intelligent man with a SHORT temper! I believe Xyoob loved Paj more than Paj loved Xyoob, and that's why she was able to drop him for her parents. Paj's marriage to John failed because John only married her due to the pregnancy, NOT because he loved her with all of his heart. Her biggest mistake in her adult life was making an important life decision NOT for her happiness but for her parents' happiness! If she had just followed her heart originally, she might have had a happier life in her 20s to 40s. Live for yourself and your happiness, NOT for your parents because it's YOUR LIFE! OG Hmong parents care very little about their children's happiness, just face that can be brought to them----this mentality has ruined plenty of children's lives in the Hmong culture!
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
You're correct here. Thanks for listening to my neej neeg. Appreciate it!
@maimoua6164 ай бұрын
Story zoo kawg li ❤ Mee hais dab neeg tau zoo heev li
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Ua tsaug os mog.
@kwvtxhiajhmoobqouaxeemvwj21883 ай бұрын
👍💗🎉👌👌👌👌👌👌
@mosvaj13854 ай бұрын
Wow xyoos neb lub neej rais rov los ua ib zaj dab neeg tu siab thiab zoo siab ua luaj😭😭 . Qhov tu siab yog neb sib ncaim mus , Nyias mus ua Nyias neej tsis raws siab Xav😭😭 qhov zoo siab yog qhov neb tsee tseem rov los sib ntsib rau yav laus. Es neb puas rov los txias txoj kev hlub lawm nas Nkawv????
@pangvang40404 ай бұрын
Exectly right , thaum mus yuav Cabtsib cas Paj txiv ho hais tsis tau ?
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Thaum Paj mus yuav cobtsib ntawd ces Paj txiv chim heev thiab yeej tsis pub Paj yuav li, Tabsis mas, Paj twb muaj cobtsib menyuam lawm ces Paj cia li ua tawv qhawv mus yuav lawm xwb.
@mosvaj13854 ай бұрын
Wow he is not a bad person. Nws qhia qhov tseeb thiab nws tseem xauj tsev nej nyob, nws tseem muab luv rau koj tsav. Nws yeej zoo kawg thiab. Kuj tu siab kawg thiab😭😭😭😭😭
Kuv Xav p pom paj thiab xyoob los PIB lub neej mus. Paj thiab xyhob, kuv Xav kom hnub no neb nug thiab mloog neb 2 lub siab es yog neb sib hlub tiag ces txhob cia plan mus lawm mog. Marry him and be together til death. Listen to your heart.
@hlubforlife4 ай бұрын
Just remember that Vietnamese made the BEST PHO. They don't want Hmong imitation PHO. Being Hmong, it's BEST that you stick with boil pork with mustard green and boil chicken.😁
@peachtreee46494 ай бұрын
I respectfully disagreed. I'm hmong and my mom makes the best pho.
@mosvaj13854 ай бұрын
Yog. Kuv yeej Xav tias tim koj lawm thiab! Yog hnub ntawd koj txiav txim nrog xyoos mus ntsiag to es xyoos lawv cov neeg mam tuaj mus fi xov es seb koj txiv lawv yuav txais lub xo los yuav tsis txais😭
@whocared..11284 ай бұрын
Wow.. very sad.. story..
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Yes, a very sad life with a happy ending.
@Bartony083 ай бұрын
Xav hnov ib zag txog tub ntxhais tsis sib paub zoo tab si niam txiv pom zoo es coj tub tuaj nqis tsev hais tus ntxhais mus yuav tab si tsis tau raws li niam thiab txiv txoj kev ntsaw thiab xav.
@ChuMua-zf8nz4 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@ilikenuggets12484 ай бұрын
I love your storytelling so much. You are so detailed and put so much emotion into your stories. This one was is by far the saddest story. I hope parents listen to this story and put their children’s feelings before their own social status.
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Thank you for liking my stories. I like telling the stories being the main character instead of narrating the story. That is why there are emotions involved. At times, you guys will see me crying on the videos. Yes, I totally agree with you. Most of that older generation is almost gone. Our generations now should be more open minded and supportive of who our children choose.
@tttg80504 ай бұрын
Zoo mloog kawg li os hai kom ntau 6 peb mloog os
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Ua tsaug koj mloog kuv os. Kuv npaj tias lub October ces kuv yuav tso neej neeg rau hnub Wednesday thiab no. Npaj tuaj mloog nawb.
@ninhsungnu21033 ай бұрын
@@meeliving1345x xử ấy😅 để mở nccó p bị hưubb mở hư hư hư hư
@qaib-qus-chanel_653 ай бұрын
Nias subscriber caum koj lawm os mi muam.
@meeliving13453 ай бұрын
Ua koj tsaug os mog.
@KoobmeejXyooj-tf3jv3 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
@genuanneli3 ай бұрын
Txoj mi kev ntshaw ntshaw tau ntsej tau muag rau leej niam leej txiv thiaj li ua neej yuam kev rhuav tau lub koob POJ NRAUJ kiag. Mag rejected hajyam ua rau niam thiab txiv poob ntsej poob muag. Should have ran off with Xyoob mus lwm qaib xwb.
@bliathao58784 ай бұрын
Ab khoos khoos me nyuam ce yuav nyab laj los tau los maj tsuav tsi yog poj niam yuav poj niam xwb tiag rau qhov yus txwv tub ntxhais naj
@shuachangyang16994 ай бұрын
Paj niam thiab txiv qhov teebmeem ko ces yog li peb Hmoob niaj hnub hais uas yus tsuas ua tau rau yus haiv neeg xwb tabsis tsi muaj peevxwm ua tau rau lwm haiv neeg no ntag mo!
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Yog los mas.
@piamoua36494 ай бұрын
I no feel sorry for you . That's the choice you make. "Vim Koj tsis xaiv Kuv"
zaj dab neeg paj paj raum rov quav paj txiv.tsis hlub paj paj thiaj daig huab tsis tau txoj kev hlub tus yus xaiv ua kev nco rov quav lig caij caum tsis tau kevkaj siab yog tim paj
@YTruHa4 ай бұрын
😭😭😭❤❤
@changyang54783 ай бұрын
The story you talked about it's true
@meeliving13453 ай бұрын
Yes, this is a true Hmong story.
@nkaujnyiaglis96902 ай бұрын
Hais tau zoo hev li
@meeliving13452 ай бұрын
Ua tsaug os.
@NkaujLag-f2l4 ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@YTruHa4 ай бұрын
👍🏿👍🏿❤❤❤❤❤💯💯
@dannylee7078Ай бұрын
Niam txiv tsis pub sib yuav chim niam tais cob ntxhais xav tau muaj nyiaj kub, vim niam tais ntshaws nyiaj 😂😂😂😂😂
@rhinostujlub7735Ай бұрын
Oh thaum pib hais zaj dab neeg es xav ntshe koj tso xyoob vim koj mus tham tau John lawm no. Cas thaum xaus ho yog cia li muab xyoob laim pov tseg es mam li paub john later. Ua neej nyob ces yam yus xav tau yeej tau tsawg. Fewm xoob yeej plam tag tom qab mam khuv xim.
@maivntsuabvaj72414 ай бұрын
Nyob zoo os
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Nyob zoo rau koj thiab os.
@Paul-c8k4i4 ай бұрын
Hais tau zoo heev. Xws li proffesional story lawm ntag.
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Ua tsaug rau koj lo lus txhawb os tus mi nus aw.
@mosvaj13854 ай бұрын
Sister Jenny. Koj yeej hais yog heev li lawm. Cov laus mas ib co mas lawv saib lawv lub neej mom muaj2 nuj Nao’s, thiab kuv pom tias lawv saib dej ua ntu saib neeg ua phlu ces yuav txwv tej minyuam txoj kev sib hlub ces yog cov minyuam tsis mloog lus ces lawv yuav txo lawv txoj sia tiag2 li so stop that cultural thing and stop saib dej ua ntu saib neeg ua phlu na.
@maimoua13714 ай бұрын
She's mim vaj no Jenny lol😅
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Kuv yog sister Mee Vang os. Koj hais youg kawg lawm nawb. Ua tsaug koj tuaj support mloog kuv nawb mog.
@mosvaj13854 ай бұрын
Yog ua cas koj ho tsis ua hauj lwm? Tsis muaj hauj lwm? Yog tias John tsis pub koj ua hauj lwm lov?
@lotusvert70244 ай бұрын
Tus vivncaus koj hnav khaub ncaws hmoob phimphim... Koj kawg koj zoo nkauj tshaj li hnav khaub ncaws ສາກົນ.
First time kuv tuaj mloog koj os tus sister, koj hais tau zoo kawg li nawb.
@meeliving13452 ай бұрын
Ua tsaug koj tuaj mloog kuv thiab nawb. Ho rov qab tuaj mloog kuv ntxiv nawb mog.
@mosvaj13854 ай бұрын
Is this part 3?
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Yes, zaj no yog part 3 os.
@maytuekue99974 ай бұрын
Tuaj moog kj vi cau hai tau zoo hee mob siab chim siab tu siab Thaum yu tab Tam raug ke mob siab plag tu yu lhub g tau lo cov niam qhua sib nrauj ntxhiab 3 yuav tau nyob tu3 kom nte3 mam li yuav dua tu ntxhiab thiaj g yuav ke o
Tus muam kj hais Zaj no Mas tu siab tshaj plaws li lawm, kuv nrog nkawv tu siab txog tus siab txia ntshav tus siab nyoos siab phem ntais ntuj ntais teb, thiab tseem ntais rau tus hluas nraug. Kuv hais rau tus npawg xyoob li no, peb ua neeg nyob kj puas txawj tu siab puas mob siab puas chim siab, luag twb tsis hlub kj tsis nyiam kj tsis xav xav yuav kj tsis xav tau kj, nws thiaj txiav txim lub siab dev mus yuav lwm tus tseg kj Cia. Ua Cas thaum kawg tseem rov qaug quav mus hlub dua zaum ob. raws li kuv xav Mas tus npawg no ntshe tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws lawm pob, poj niam tshuav coob li coob es tseem ho qi muag nti mus xuas dua mus pw dua es xav li Cas lawm ma ib tsoom phooj ywg. Qhov no yog kuv txoj kev coj thiab xav ntawm kuv tus kheej, ua tsaug.
@SIMGA8873 ай бұрын
Tab Tom phim xwb os twg kom mus yuav cob tsib
@NOMLISHER3 ай бұрын
Kuv twb muaj ib zag zoo li thiab nawj hmoob
@meeliving13453 ай бұрын
Ua li los. Ua tsaug koj tuaj mloog kuv hais neej neeg os.
@kthoj664 ай бұрын
Great storytelling!!!
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Thank you for your encouragement.
@KajsiabMuaschannel4 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤😂😂🎉😂
@nkaujntsuab35944 ай бұрын
Zoo siab koj tau rov qab los ntsib koj tus qub hmoob dua ♥️
@nicolexiong21284 ай бұрын
Wow nrog nkaws zoo siab os 😅
@nkaujntsuab35944 ай бұрын
Koj hais tau zoo kawg li os tus me vivncaus, ua tsaug ntau2...
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Ua tsaug ntau koj tuaj mloog kuv thiab os mog.
@pazevang65793 ай бұрын
Cas koj tus tub nyab ho tsis nrog neb 1 niam ntxhais nyob kom yug me nyuam mtau tus me ntsis tso mam tawm tsev os tus muam aw
@meeliving13453 ай бұрын
Koj nug leej twg os?
@xyolis89384 ай бұрын
Niam lau aw hai ntev2 es ca kj g zaum tham os tsam mob ceg os
❤👎🏿👎🏿👎🏿👎🏿❤️koj hai koj twb tsi quaj li es tsi zoo li os
@meeliving13453 ай бұрын
Ua tsaug os.
@maytuekue99974 ай бұрын
Peb cov yuav xob txia3 tej me nyuam ke xav rau thaum yu lhuag yu zoo li ca
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Yog lawm os.
@maytuekue99974 ай бұрын
Peb cov tub nt haig e tuag3 twb yog cov txia ke lhub thaum kawg g tau tu cov laug xai hov tau lu lheb xwb
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Koj hais yog lawm mas.
@yengvue48494 ай бұрын
Txoj kev yuav rov mus yuav qub nkauj qub nraug kuv twb hnov muaj ntau2 tus los hais mas tas li kuv ib txwm hnov mas thaum tau rov los sib yuav rau yav laus mas yuav luag txhua tus yeej muaj teeb meem ntau xwb tas li kuv ib txwm mloog tab sis tej zaum neb txoj ho puas yuav tau li neb ob leeg ob lub siab ntshaw od.
@naotouyang88044 ай бұрын
Txoj hmoo dabtsi zoo ua luaj tsis tau thaum hluas es mam rov sib tau thaum laus. Nrog neb zoo siab kawg os ❤❤
@sayyang7673 ай бұрын
Hairs neej neeg hais lis no oh my god!
@meeliving13453 ай бұрын
Aws, nyias muaj nyias qhov style hais neej neeg os. Hais li kuv hais no ces yog KUV STYLE hais neej neeg os. Ua tsaug koj tuaj mloog kuv thiab nawb.
@nkaujtaujdubyang18782 ай бұрын
Thov kom peb cov niam cov txiv tsis Txhob coj li ntawv lawm os Hmoob aw.. vim peb cov me tub me ntxhais teb chaws no lawv siab tsis coob siab tsis Phem lawm nawj
@neebvwj8854 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@nkaujsuablauj79664 ай бұрын
Wow, cas pab Paj tuSiab ualuaj li os
@shuachangyang16994 ай бұрын
Zoo kawg nkaus li os.
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Ua tsaug os.
@nroogzajchannelthegatetoth673 ай бұрын
Txaus tu siab heev li tiag
@meeliving13453 ай бұрын
Aws, lub neej hauv zaj neej neeg no tu siab kawg os. Ua tsaug koj tuaj mloog kuv cov neej neeg thiab nawb.
@น.ส.รัตนากรชัยยะส่ง2 ай бұрын
Paj yuav ua kom tau niam txiv lub meej mom tab si thaum kawg tau nyab laj ces txiv lub meej mom poob qhov tsis muaj dab tsi li
@TongGiang-e6n3 ай бұрын
zooheeglios❤❤ 😢😢
@pakue98694 ай бұрын
Koj has tau zoo2 kawg le.
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Ua tsaug rau koj cov lus txhawb zog nawb mog.
@xxkk12414 ай бұрын
Good story..always your fan ..100%
@meeliving13454 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for your continuing support.
@goldbond84173 ай бұрын
Cov miao uas uas ruam2 taub hau twm es txwv tub ntxhais lub neej no mas tsim nyog coj mus nyob nkuaj tas tus lawm. .mob nej tes los ua cas ..? Yog leej twg ua zaj no ces kawg nyob nkuaj sai sai..xwb ok.....cas nej ruam ua luaj li..twb nyob 🎉teb chaws vam meej lawm ne....nej ho cia mus yuav cob tsib mab suav no ho zoo nej siab los....cov niag miao laus npua Ruam....awb vawb...aw...!!!! Ruam npuav quav tas tas li...lau....!! Tib co laus phev Ruam2 xwb....ok.
@Pajdabtsi3 ай бұрын
Kuv subscribed koj lawm os..
@meeliving13453 ай бұрын
Ua tsaug os mog.
@inewlao35483 ай бұрын
Quav aub
@MongKaolyThor3 ай бұрын
Ok zoo heev
@marychang51443 ай бұрын
ua rau kuv tu siab kawg li os
@meeliving13453 ай бұрын
Yog kawg os. Ua tsaug koj tuaj mloog nawb.
@changyang54783 ай бұрын
Very sad story, but it's very good story too❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤