Niam Txiv Yog Koob Hmoov. 9/8/2022

[@already_taken_00]

I had a similar experience. I have 4 brothers and they were not able to take care of my father so my husband said that we'll bring him to come live with us. 3 of my brothers were supportive but I had one brother who rather put my father in a nursing home than let him live with me. He told my father, he'd call my husband's family and "foob" us. He told my dad that I'd throw him out in the garage when the time came for my dad to pass which was not true. My father lived with me until he took his last breath. I dropped him off at dialysis one morning and an hour later, the police came to notify me he had passed. From the day I was born till the moment he took his last breath, my dad protected me. He did not pass in my house so that my brother wouldn't create problems for me. My brother came to the funeral as a guest and tried to create problems for me but my other three brother stood in front of me and protected me. Sometimes we forget all the sacrifices our parents made for us and we could never repay them but the least we can do is give them our love in their past days. If you still have your parents, don't forget to tell them that you love them.

[@godness7770]

Oh, no, sister. I too have a similar story but would prefer to not say at this time. I'm so glad you stepped in and help your dad.

[@ILJA-c2q]

My heart breaks for mothers that have ungrateful daughter in laws. One day her sons and daughter in laws will regret it. You are a wonderful daughter; you will be showered with years of blessings.

[@NcoNtsoovLuagTejTxiajNtsim]

Koj ob tug nus no yog dev yug xwb thiaj li mus yuav tau ob niag maum dev los nrog nkawv ua neej. Niam txiv tam lub ntuj daim av rau yus. Thaum kuv hnov txog qhov es cov tub cov nyab siab phem es ntxub ntxaug niam pog txiv yawg no mas kuv ntxub tshaj plaws vim tias qhov peb muaj peb lub neej twb vim yog muaj niam muaj txiv es peb thiaj li muaj lub neej ua hnub no. Kuv hais kuv cov lus no kuv yeej tsis thov txim rau ob khub niam txiv dev no li vim ua rau kuv lub kua muag poob thaum niam tais hais rau tus vauv tus tub hais tias “kuv tuag hnub twg kuv yuav tso koob hmoov rau koj vim koj twb tsis yog kuv yug” no mas touch kuv heev. May God Blessed you and your son!

[@moobxaavvaammeej5725]

You are a good daughter and nyab, blessing is yours. I wish all Hmong daughters and nyab are like you.

[@koslis6833]

I did to my niam tais she don't have any son. I m the son in-law. I marry to her daughter she passed away 3 months before her daughter passed away. I did take care niam tais funeral cost.

[@xevue594]

Me kuv txiv cem kuv niam tais saib tsis tau kuv niam li wb nyob wb tsis tsev sib los nws cem kuv tais phem tiag li zoo li es puas muaj txoj kev npam thiab os

[@7stars2love]

Yog tshaj plaws, koj ua yog kawg li lawm os viv ncaus. Txoj kev laus txhua tus yeej yuav ntsib.

[@joethao1424]

Tau koob hmoob lawm ces zoo kawg ua zoo ces yeej tau qhov zoo tiag2

[@godness7770]

Awesome! Wish everyone have a good heart like you. I'm glad that in the end when no one cares, you stepped in and helped your mother and she blessed you more that you will ever know. Yes, we all need to be consideredate and love our elders.

[@baoyang6462]

Wow npam saib tiag2 li nawb cov nyab siab phem ceev faj ov mloog mus hlub tej laus nawb .

[@souavang8583]

Txoj neej neeg zoo tshaj plaw zoo siab rau tu Niam lau muab zaj neej neeg no tuaj rau peb mloog nw yog ib tug ntxhai coj tau zoo heev ua tsaug rau koj thiab os niam lau may koj lub sij hawm muab lo piav rau peb mloog mog ua tsaug

[@pajlee3167]

Yog kawg me viv ncaus aw Ua tsaug koj zaj neej neeg os

[@7mouths]

You're a very good daughter. You do deserved everything your mom left for you. May god and both of your parents continue to bless and look over you from above. This is a good lesson for everyone . Thank you for sharing your life story with us ❤️ 🙏

[@nuchareenuch847]

ฝน

[@baoyang6565]

Omg this story makes my blood pressure high at the beginning. But at the end I cried 😢 so much. Thank you sister for taking your mom in. You deserved everything your mom left for you 🥰

[@kiavang6954]

HIas Tua zoo kawg

[@yerthao2055]

Yes love your mom and dad no matter what. They are the ones that gave you life.

[@sandyfang5044]

I love this story. Makes me rethink that I need to do more to love my own mom and dad and my in laws.

[@JPfigspokemon]

The real hero in this story is the Dab Laug & Daughter!

[@wangmay958]

Tej no yeej muaj tseeb ua tsaug Ntau nawb niam ntsuab teev👍👍👍👍👍👍💘💘💘💘❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘

[@leenahlevanh396]

Wow koj mas muaj hmoo tshaj koj tus dab laug siab zoo siab ncaj nws pab koj tau gxoj kev ncaj ncees cov siab zoo tsis muaj coob li nws nawb nrog koj zoo siab thiab koj tau txais koj niam txoj koob hmoos vim koj gxoj kev hlub kev zoo rau koj niam. You deserve all the lucks she left you.

[@caaspasvang7427]

Sister your uncle do the right way👌I’m so proud of him

[@hlubvimkojusa2140]

Nice sister,maybe you should do something special for your uncle??…take him for a vacation?

[@tongmoua7982]

@@hlubvimkojusa2140 u Joomla

[@nkaujntse5196]

Zoo kawg muaj koj niam tus dab laug noj tau hais tau txuas yam koj ua tus tau. Hais txog koob hmoov, yeej muaj tseeb lis koj hais. Tus hlub niam hlub txiv yeej tau koob hmoov.

[@juliehawj3385]

Great reminder to love your parents ❤ yog lawm, yus niam yus txiv laus ib vuag dua xwb..ua siab ntev thiab nco ntsoov lawv txoj kev hlub

[@greentortoise4629]

For those who don’t want to take care of your in-laws. Please marry someone who doesn’t have parents.

[@toosay200]

Nrog koj zoo siab tshaj plaws os. Kev npam yeej muaj tiag2 hos. Koj muaj hmoo tshaj tias koj dab laug nrog hlub koj thiab txiav txim ncaj 100%.

[@leexiong5741]

Amazing story. Tus dab laug laus is 110% right in trying to protect her sister's family. Without him, things can get out of hand. Good lesson. Good daughter and son in law as well. Two sons got stuck with unloving wife. Wow!

[@qhovtseeb1083]

Definitely!

[@nkaujmoobleeg]

Agreed 500%!!

[@JRxwb]

Your uncle is “the man!” He’s the most righteous person/relative I’ve heard of. So proud of him and you for loving your parents and your mom. 👏👏👍👍 Niam Txiv yeej yog koob hmoov os. Kids these days are stupid, they don’t know anything about koob hmoov they only think they earned everything by themselves.

[@myself.kuvxwb8406]

Often times it is the brother's that must show that they love their mom. I'm glad that you took control of the situation, above all, you treat your mother-in-law with as much love as you give your mom. So proud of you and very inspirational.

[@kplaza2749]

Zaj neej neeg no Mas yog ib zaj kuv mloog kuv tus siab tiag tiag li os

[@vuexiong8050]

Yog kuv niam pog txiv yawg lawv tseem nrog kuv nyob kuv yeej yuav hlub lawv .

[@yukixiong9353]

Mam hmog ua kev kawm os ❤❤❤

[@DoSungthi-zw3hk]

Tu siab ua luaj li os yom

[@tonga71]

Ua tsaug koj ua ib tus ntxhais, ib tus nyab zoo.

[@panouthao6350]

OG needs to love us daughters the same as their sons.

[@kalo5351]

Rau koj zoo siab heev li os

[@cassihoney10]

Sis you are very lucky. My grandma passaway about 10y ago. I took care of her like you did for 10y cause due to her knee at her later age she couldn't walk. However, im not bless like you. I'm not mad nor disappointed in such unfortunate. I happy she's in a good place cause she suffered such life events at a later age. She taught me how to care for elders, how to humble life and think openly. Future are not written on stone.

[@สุเนตรแซ่ยะ]

Koj zaj dab neeg no zoo tshaj plaws luag tej li nawj

[@c.lee-soulisak327]

Such..such good advice! And you are right, lead by example. Thank you for sharing your family's story.

[@phumua6645]

Niam laus cas koj yuav haib yog ua luaj na kuv lub neeg zoo li koj haib no thiab os thov kom peb cov me nyab hlub hlub koj niam thiab txiv thiab mos

[@tusneegzoohlub7724]

How sad… tu siab tshaj os Niam tais aws tsis tsim nyog yug kiag

[@mv.3dfsm715]

Niam thiab txiv txoj koob moov yeej muaj tseeb. Ua zoo thiaj tau ntuj ntoo fwm niam fwm txiv thiaj tau zoo.

[@ปวีณ์นุชแซ่ระย้า-ล3ฉ]

ua cas peb cov nus tsis muaj siab ntsw li o niam laus tu siab kawg

[@meejyajsabchannel9440]

Tu mes niam laus aws hlub2 koj tu txiv os nw siab zoo tshaj plaws lis nw thiaj kam koj niam lo nrog kj nyob os tu niam laus

[@yervue5742]

😭😭😭😭 tu siab tshaj plaws ua niam rau me nyuam tej tub tsis hlub mas txom nyem siab tshaj li.

[@maimoua1371]

Now more and more stories come out of most daughter are valued than many sons .God bless you and your family tus me niam tsev

[@maiaflatebo]

This is why I love my mother-in-law as much as my mom!

[@kpmobile2342]

Thov ua tsaug os niam tij

[@khuyenhangoc9918]

Noog zab neeg neeg no kaj siab tshaj

[@sacleo786]

Bless you, sister! You have a good heart! Wish there’s more people like you.

[@Pai_Chiang-Mai]

Hais yos kawg.

[@hlubmiji09]

Doing good is the best but it also depends if your parents love you. My parents have passed away. I do alot for my mil but I am not the nyab they love and like so I know they will never get their blessing.

[@maolee8152]

Rt? Same here… I’m trying to do my best too for everything . I’m not the daughter in law my father in law likes n wanted my husband to stop dating me when we were dating… but now that he’s retired, he chooses to live with my husband n me. He has like… 3 other daughter in laws he could live with.

[@Nkaujhmoobmaus2024]

I agree. This is just from the daughter side of the story. I am sure there's the daughter in law side too. Some in law will never love you even if you're the one to care for them. My husband is the baby. After my FIL passed away my mil give everything away to everyone else but my husband. And she moved to live wirh her daughter out of state. Now she old but won't come back to us cause they know they have done me wrong. So as good as the daughter in this story make herself to be. I am sure she is the cause of why her aister in law dialike the parents so much. Some parents love there daughter more than the son. She even says it in the beginning of the story that her dad love her more than her two brothers. It show how those parents favorite one child Over another child. The daughter was the favorite. That's why she fought for everything.

[@chuvang5487]

Tsis hlub niam thiab txiv uas ib hnub twg niam txiv tuag tas ces nej txhua tus yuav txom nyem pluag ti txha nkaus, sawvdaws tej neej yuav sib nrauj sib tso thaum ntawd nej mam li paub.

[@cmxiong8989]

This is why we need to have daughters more then son. Whoever don't have daughters its sad nowadays. Karma is getting close to their son.

[@iabyangchannel6541]

Yog leej twg yug tsis tau tub los txhob tu siab os

[@suxiong2240]

Lwv tiam txob lo yuj tub. We r hmoob people.

[@NubYaj-r7j]

😭😭😭😭😭😓😓😓😓😓

[@xengher72]

เรื่องนี้ผมฟังแล้วน้ำตาไหล

[@gaokueher3478]

Yg ib zaj neej neeg ua zoo heev li o mloog tag lm ua rau kv hlubb kv niam kv txiv li os

[@ky3079]

Thank you to you, your husband, and kids for taking care of your Mom. Bless your hearts. You deserve all the Koob Moov.

[@caaspasvang7427]

Peb txhob hais tias tiam tshiab no Tsi npam yeej npam tiag2 txhob xav hais tias muaj lawm Tsi paub pluag Tsi hlub tej laus pluag tiag2 hos

[@pajlee3167]

Ca peb yog ib leej niam ma tu22 siab li os

[@maolee8152]

Wow… amazing story!!! Thanks for sharing your story… I’ve learned a lot from this story and it makes me think a lot and about being an “even” better person then what little I’ve done!

[@l0v3lyzeblauj]

😢 I guess this generation's is the same if the nyab is in control within the family then all the niam tais will have to go through that it's so disappointing. I had been through the same experience with both side! But I saw that with my mom and my mother in law and I loved her till her last breath I can see my life has changed. Not just my in law I took but my father in law sister she pass in my house. I'm a Christian now so I don't believe the old tradition anymore. The more I love them I believe I'll receive more in return. Praise God!

[@cdhmoobchannel2282]

Yog tiaggggg

[@hlubtsocia90]

Tus me niam tais aw. Koj hais yeej yog kawg li os tab sis tseev koj hlub koj ua zoo rau niam pog txiv yawg los koj yog tus nyab liag tsis nyiam ces koj yeeh kawg ua ib siab os

[@annemarietho7241]

Lub neej tiam 21 no ces yug tau ntxhais xwb los txhob tu siab lawm nawv mog vim nim no cov ntxhais yeej yog cov hlub niam txiv tshaj li os

[@EmTsu24]

I’m so proud of your mom’s brother. This is why I wish I have a brother

[@yangmeethao2327]

Niam laus aws...koj yog ib tug qauv zoo 2 kawg li os es 3 cov viv ncaus hmoob yuav tau kawm thiab tag nraim tus qsuv no thiaj li zoo rau 3 s/d ua lub neej mus rau yav tom ntej nawb ...

[@leeyang7593]

Yus ua zoo ces yus yeej tau txais qhov zoo

[@tongher8912]

Zaj neej neeg no zoo heev li tab sis kuv thov hloov lub npe tshiab ua tub siab dev ntxhais siab nom..

[@diannaxiong693]

Luag yeej hais tias kev khaum kev npam yeej muaj tseeb nawb lawv aw.

[@tshajmeejlauj8413]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@MartinaVang-u8t]

Great story....❤❤❤

[@ShouaTojsiab]

Hmong elders have a saying that the way you treat your parents, you will get the same treatment from your children. I dislike daughter-in-laws that treat their in-laws the way yours treated your mother. Your brothers have no balls. Thank you for sharing your story. Loving parents.

[@paajRose]

I commend this sister! 👏🏻👏🏻 She sounds like a very smart woman. Bless you and your husband for many happy and healthy years. Glad to hear your uncle stepped up and took care of his own. This is how karma works, good or bad. Zoo sab os tus viv ncaus aws.

[@BaBa-nk3yj]

😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@vavang4773]

May Vang, you are a unique and beautiful woman! To this story: You are a good person and you deserve all the good fortune that come to you. Love this story…

[@baobaivue9913]

Love hearing a karma story

[@greenladylalaland4222]

WOW.. what a story!! Bravo sister! Your hard work rewarded at the end! Congrats on your son doctorate degree! Be kind. God is watching 👀 👀 everybody 🙏🙏

[@joshvang3819]

Koj ua ib tus qauv rau ov nyab ziag no kom paub hlub lawv niam thiab txiv es zoo kawg li os. Good for you and you get alll the luck from your parents for taking care of them just hope very one will learn from this story and take care of their parents better.

[@p2kchannel195]

It’s good story ❤️❤️❤️, peb yug los lawm peb yeej txawj tuag peb mes peb yeej txawj laus peb. Hnub koj ua phem rau koj niam koj txiv ces lwm hnub koj cov me nyuam yuav ua phem rau Koj xwb thiab

[@singkeothao463]

Yug tub zoo li ob tug no xwb ces tsis thas yug li lawm os yom hmoob awd

[@brendayangvang9756]

Npam tiag2 li lau

[@kaciewanh1986]

Koj tus txiv neb siab loj, koj siab zoo hlub niam/txiv ces tsuas tau lub neej zoo xwb.

[@xayxiong1061]

Karma is real for evil sons and daughter in laws!

[@life-of-jy]

Vice versa. Karma in general is real for those who are evil.

[@gervang5243]

Ua zoo tau zoo… ua phem tau phem xwb

[@songxiong5674]

Way to go! Now a day, there's no such thing as being a daughter ces yog neeg sab nrauv. Thanks for breaking the norm.

[@mailee4756]

Muaj ib txia laus los yeej nkaus dhau lawm thiab nes tsuas ua li nws lub siab xav thiab xwb hos muaj ib txia hluas los yeej tsis txawj xav li thiab

[@maimoua616]

Zoo tshaj plaws li ❤️

[@lachangtiabhmoob8541]

Ua zoo tau zoo ua phem tau phem muaj tiag2 li nawb ub cov laus yus tsis tuag os

[@Loves_GodSR]

You're a very good daughter. I can't believe your brothers!!! Argh! Your mom was blessed to have you and your children.

[@surriyavang1929]

Karma! That's why they say no matter good or bad, you should love your parents.

[@christinavang4341]

I agree with you too but a good daughter in law always got the bad mother in law too. Why can’t a good Nyab go with a good mother in law and the bad Mother in law go with the bad daughter in law☹️

[@user-bw9ro3jz4v]

Your brothers cannot man up that's all. I am glad that your mom still have you. They say that having boys means everything to a hmong family, but only for the name. Hmong daughters will always love their parents more than the sons.

[@paLeevang]

😭😭😭

[@seevang9359]

Hai tau tu siab tiag2 li o

[@gyxyooj0609]

Yes very true what you say in this story love your elders

[@mcvaj02]

Why does the good in laws always get the bad nyab and the bad in laws always get the good nyab. Life is not fair

[@whatheck6797]

For real!!!

[@phienkhamphengxai5142]

eb.... cas kv nim mloog tus viv ncaus no txoj neej neeg no tag es kv yuav hlub kv niam kv txiv ua luaj nev....

[@geuher7315]

Ntuj es ... tsuas muaj niam txiv thiaj hlub me nyuam xwb me myuam tsawg tus thiaj hlub tau niam ntxiv xwb os... lawv aw....

[@juuluu9258]

Yog 1 zaj zoo heev

[@maylo8993]

Good for you lady for being there for your mom and your in-laws!

[@yenglee5523]

Why is that people are not scared of karma? Especially it’s the elderly. Once they drop a tears it will be karma to them in the future. How you treat your parents your very own children will do that to you too when you grow old.

[@vangviang9465]

Mloog zaj no ces NCO yus niam yus txiv heev li o lawv

[@thestoryofmylife6979]

Hmoob people are so complicated. My mom lives with me. Thank God we are Christians and don’t have to go through with these hmoob cultures like this. I have one brother and nyab but my mom lives with me and I’m a single mom but I’m not gonna make a big deal out of that.

[@hmongremark2686]

Tej mi tub mi ntxhais loj tiav nkauj tiav nraug tsis tau muaj cuab yig los yog twb muaj cuab yig lawm tab sis tsis tau muaj mi nyuam tsis lam paub txog niam thiab txiv txoj kev hlub thiab tiv thaiv nkawv cov mi nyuam. Tus twg muaj cuab yig tas thiab ho muaj mi nyuam lawm no ces lawv thiaj paub txog xwb. Niam thiab txiv hlub tej mi nyuam nkawv yug txhua tus unconditionally and firmly.

[@JasePlush]

Nursing home. Nothing wrong with the nursing home. I know many Hmong folks think nursing home is a no go but when it threatens your relationship, your mental health, and the quality of life of the disable one, best to take them to the nursing home.

[@YangFamOf8]

Agreed! However, our elders do not agree with nursing homes because they grew up in a different era. Elders do not want to live in nursing homes because most of them don’t speak English and they don’t like American food. Hopefully the younger generations would consider nursing home instead of putting a burden on their children. I’d rather be in nursing home. My kids have lives and they also need to work and care for their kids.