Nigerian Childhoods Are Equal Parts Fun And Insane

This time, it's just your favorite girls on the podcast ! FK & Jola spend the entire time gisting about childhood shenanigans, the weird and sometimes violent discipline tactics Nigerian parents use and of course they help some of you solve your problems with the wisest advice in the country. Enjoy!
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[@MetrogypsieS]

Well done on the MTN gig.. loving Jola’s elevated style so much in the recent past episodes.

[@ekehfaith1799]

Jola, we are actually in sync with the bridal robe. I have told my friends that there is a corset pandemic because why will robe have corset and be snatched.

[@gbemiolaoye]

My fully Nigerian parents rarely beat us and I won't call it a gentle parenting thing. I feel like them being genuine Christians heavily influenced the way they brought us up, they were consistent in their kindness, respectfulness and generosity to everyone. Down to the way we spoke to each other, using words like "stupid" or "fool" wasn't even in our vocabulary. Now that we are all grown-grown you'd never hear any of us call someone "foolish" or "idiot" or anything similar, not even as a joke.

[@onyekachiqueennette1732]

Lucky you!!! My mom would beat the living daylight out of me and quote bible verse " He who thou lovest, thou chastiseth" Would never forget this one. Or is it the "spare the rod and spoil the child" one? Leemfaoo! Lucky you.

[@vickialexis3307]

⁠@@onyekachiqueennette1732lol😂 😂sorry I should not laugh but Bible scripture got me….I have Jamaican parents my mom beat me too

[@gbemiolaoye]

@@onyekachiqueennette1732 😭😭😭😭 I really tried not to laugh, but you actually quoting 2 verses out did not help. Ndo, pele, sorry 😅

[@TimiOkoya]

Jollz's evolving style. Love to see it! 🤩 - PS: Thank you, Jollz, for getting FK icecream. 😊

[@MBE674]

The bounce is slaying!! Please can you start tagging your outfits in the description 🙏🏾

[@abbyaroy7436]

My mum would still be in jail if we were raised abroad. Now she lives with my sister's family in America and we remind her everyday that she dares not do same to her grandkids else na prison. I did ask her for an apology a few years back. She started out arguing but after I broke it down, she calmed down and apologised

[@Songsyouneverknewyouneeded]

I really love it when it's just the two of you

[@pounds_sterling]

I feel FK gives the best advice, she's so cool

[@chineduu6617]

Grateful that we know better now and can make informed choices to intentionally parent our children. Correcting a child in anger is always reactionary and rarely effective.

[@DamolaKayode]

Thank you Jola for the ice-cream o❤

[@chiossai6314]

That part of being flogged in Nigeria hit home a lil too hard!😭😂😂

[@amakachukwudebe2930]

Jola should go into acting full time😂😂😂 " E wa wooo ooo"

[@preciousoke1056]

The problem is our parent used to pour out their frustrations and stress on us through beating..... smacking is not wrong, but not using frustration and anger to hit children in the name of beating....it damages children......and it is abusive

[@dukevlogs78]

Hello All !!!!

[@zikoraozor8947]

The stick is having special effects 😂😂😂😂😂. This episode was so interesting and funny

[@toyinadeoye1386]

My brother also checked to see if he could iron my hand😂😂😂😂

[@sandran6922]

Me and FK shouted JESUS at the same time😂😂😂

[@preciousadamu7130]

Love your show. I think it would be beneficial if you guys stop talking over each other, it gets frustrating for the listener. ❤

[@sobadakuku-peterside9583]

Jolaaaa will not kill me 😂😂 Rollecoaster oo

[@damilolakayode4407]

I absolutely loved this episode 😹😹see me unashamedly watching it even though I listened on Wednesday 😹😹😹 I love you girls so much🤍😭 I discovered this podcast late may and I've been hooked🤍🤍🤍

[@deeiahh6780]

Fk said “that place that we went to “ referring to school 😂😂😂😫

[@oladapoolarinoye982]

I loff love Jollz outfit😍

[@blessingnwogu152]

Hello boys and girls!!!!🥳🥳🥳🥳

[@Melaniavelli]

The Bounce needs to know where FK got her lenses from... The Bounce thanks you in advance!

[@JaneHart-gc7ew]

Jola and FK❤️ I LOVE YOUR OUTFITS

[@PeterMolokwuE]

Lmao this beating conversation is so spot on

[@chisommaduike]

I would say the lady who had the abortion should have a deep talk with her man, it just might be in her head, and even if it is not, they can see a therapist together. It would help if she unburdens all FIRST before God and asks for his forgiveness and clarity, before having the conversation with her man. Darling, if you are reading this, GOD LOVES YOU, regardless. Leverage that, babygirl!

[@najewasiddique]

It’s like a rollercoasterrrrerrr

[@TheAlkebulanTrust]

Facing us makes so much sense but used to you both facing each other.

[@motunrayooyawoye215]

The way I laughed through out this episode 🤣

[@Rahmatuu]

I don laugh my life😭😭😹😹😹😹 I'm in love with this episode!!!😹❤

[@ginikaob6838]

I don laff taya😂😂😂 This is so relatable!

[@MetrogypsieS]

I don’t have marks but my mum was brutal with flogging.

[@olamayowa975]

I love you both soooooo much ❤

[@Yvonne-ox8sv]

They couldn’t beat me tooo much , my scars would show

[@oluwaferanmi4501]

This episode was so hilarious 😂

[@Mentwoman]

The fits❤

[@toyinadeoye1386]

I've been beaten o but the one my older brother got put the fear of God in me. Ahhh nooo, I have stories. One episode was the PES 2 one when baba left home to go and play game and didn't come back till late. Everyone was worried and we were already talking going to police. When he arrived, my mama gave him ass whooping. At the end, there was a swollen part of his head and pepper in his eyes. An example that was. Naaaaaa

[@ejeteb]

This was so funny😂😂🤣

[@Vickyakpotor]

I felt my mum hated me because of how often she beats me. On one faithful day when I was 16,she hit me and I hit her back,we got into a big fight and was exchanging punches . Not proud of It but I was fed up

[@bibio7236]

So sorry you had to experience that 🫂

[@DamolaKayode]

This was too funnyy😂😭 Anyways, yeah we need to do better as parents.

[@abbyaroy7436]

I think that mad teacher was taking out his anger on you all for the loss of his thumb 😂😂😂😂

[@DamolaKayode]

Sharrap mum, Sharrap dad😂😂😂😭

[@faridatmusa879]

Please, bring Ada Beyonce on the podcast if she mistakenly enters Nigeria this year.

[@ThingsbyAnthea]

35:26 please FK how do you accidentally use clippers on someone’s eyebrows 😂

[@kwameopoku3576]

Honestly jola ur sooo beautiful

[@toyinadeoye1386]

The last wedding I attended, I was in the bridal party and the waiter on his own accord, started on the table behind me and started building from there. Ah egbami, when he passed like the fourth time, I pulled baba ‘how far’ and he goes ‘I thought you people weren't settled’ on who's assumption dear? Please serve us😂😂😂😂😂😂. I will redirect service with queen’s English and a smiling face. Don't do that

[@_y.e.t.u.n.d.e_]

❤❤❤

[@petramuolokwu4378]

29:30 😂😂😂

[@damilareoladele1309]

4 fingers is crazy😭

[@zikoraozor8947]

Jolaaa 😂😂😂😂. It’s like a roller coaster

[@boomb814]

I just finished listening to the full podcast, and I decided to come over here to give my own unsolicited opinion. You two are looking gorgeous as always ❤️. When it comes to what some of our parents did to us in the name of punishment, some of it are heart breaking. I remember a friend who's father use to teargas them in the name of punishment. 😭😭 I know a guy who's mother would lock them outside and refuse to feed them that night, whenever the misbehave. The stories are crazy. Secondly, about Jonah Hill's drama. I believe FK and Jola's analysis about him and his ex girlfriend Sarah Brady, was a bit hypocritical. I remember 2 weeks ago in SE05 EP19, during the Agony Aunts section. There was a message about a lady who is dating a guy that has a different lifestyle and beliefs from her, and she talked about trying to change him. Which is similar to Jonah Hill's and his ex girlfriend. During that section you two didn't consider her actions as controlling, FK also talked about how she changed the dressing of a guy she was with. But I'm sure if the table was turned, and a guy was trying to change FK's dressing, or lifestyle he would have being called controlling, especially if you didn't like the idea. And there's nothing wrong with someone setting boundaries in there relationship. If the person they are with don't like the boundaries, they are free to leave, which is what Jonah Hill's ex girlfriend did. And that's ok. I saw some screenshots of their messages, and I don't see anything wrong with his demands, in the ones that I saw. And no one, except the two of them, knows the events and full story of what happened in that relationship, which lead to him sending those messages. Also I don't know for you guys, but I find it weird, that Jonah Hill's ex girlfriend decided to share a screenshot of messages before their break-up in 2021, right now in 2023 after he just had a baby with his new girlfriend. About his S.A accusations, if it's true, let him be punished severely for it. Jola's is right on how it's not good to meet someone living a certain lifestyle, and then alone the way you start trying to change them, because you don't like that lifestyle. It's better to date or marry someone who share the same ideology and lifestyle with you, than dating or marrying someone who's different and then trying to change them. I also believe people can change, but let them change on their own terms. Fk and Jola's childhood stories are hilarious 😂😂.

[@MetrogypsieS]

The abortion dilemma.. you don’t need to talk to anyone. Just your man if you choose to and God to Ask for forgiveness. With time, you’d be fine. Sometimes telling people things doubles the burden on you.