Nightmare First Wedding Leaves Bride Scared To Say Yes! | Say Yes To The Dress

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[@nancygibson4380]

Love how Randy gets excited over every bride. If I ever remarry; I'd enjoy Randy and Lori fit me in my gown. I'm almost 75 and as the years pass me by; the pickings get slimmer. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@McCarthy0000]

Randy is a doll, he wants everyone to be happiest on their wedding day ❤️

[@brandywineblogger1411]

I have to say, when it comes to brides like Becky - Randy and his team have the patience of saints. I'd be fired before lunch break.

[@shuckydarn2856]

Lol. That's the response I get when he wants me to hurry up.

[@Stacyr4567]

The second bride with the previously purchased dress seemed so sweet. Her dress was beautiful and unique.

[@4legs4paws55]

Yeah I am mad that they didn’t show us the alterations though - wasn’t that the whole point 😅

[@grytlappar]

It's a proper wedding dress!

[@thisgurlownsgames843]

The second bride’s dress was drop dead gorgeous

[@Leafygreen123]

Agreed! I watch many of these wedding dress shows and have never seen a dress as gorgeous as that second bride’s gown! WOW!

[@heididepotter8136]

And a beautyfull couple together too

[@mumu87]

It had vintage style elements which I loved!

[@Leafygreen123]

@@mumu87 Yes! There was not one thing I didn’t love on that dress! She looked so beautiful!

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@Leafygreen123 I actually did not like the second bride’s gown.

[@TightyWhiteyTrash]

Aw the husband thought she looked beautiful in everything! What a great guy she has 🤍

[@veritykiv6958]

SO SWEET! Reminds me of my man. He always thinks I look perfect, even when I’m a mess. Makes it impossible to get an actual opinion out of him though 😂😂😂 like you must think one dress looks better than the other, right??? Super cute though.

[@TightyWhiteyTrash]

@@veritykiv6958 aww, lol *YOU’RE VERY LUCKY*

[@veritykiv6958]

@@TightyWhiteyTrash I sure am! I tell myself that every day ❤️

[@4legs4paws55]

He is married and has kids with another women now - turns out a do over wedding won’t solve your problems I feel sorry for her but maybe it was for the best she seemed depressed

[@TightyWhiteyTrash]

@@4legs4paws55 youre kidding? How did you find that out 😳😳😳

[@nidhi6699]

The husband said ‘her wedding’ instead of ‘our wedding’ 😂

[@annettevertalino9273]

I noticed that, too

[@haleytruslow7200]

I definitely noticed that

[@Grace69B]

He’s now married to someone else as well. Who looks so different from her. Sometimes things just aren’t as they seem. He must have loved her but they’re divorced now.

[@packieplace1379]

Glad someone else noticed that comment too😂

[@marysheffield190]

I love the way her husband supported her dress choice.

[@Chanelnumber7394]

The husband’s smile on the 2nd dress so cute aww

[@almondleslie1410]

I'm so jealous he is so kind, and his eyes are filled with so much love.

[@debbieparcells367]

She is a pretty girl but she seems to have an underlying sadness even when she finds the perfect dress.

[@davinashaffer9623]

She seems very sad.

[@samrabufkinsmjapr3939]

It seems like having a perfect wedding is more important than a good marriage. He seems like a great guy. Two years after the wedding she's so sad and afraid she's not going to have a perfect wedding #2. There's something else going on with this bride.

[@evegreenification]

Yes. This is the vibe I get too.

[@karenleemallonee684]

That last dress is just stunning, so glad Vera was able to fix it for her!!! 💐

[@nicolefox777]

I can’t imagine having a second wedding because you thought your first wedding a couple of years ago went terrible. A wedding is not the important thing, it’s all about the marriage.

[@jessicafisher958]

Yeah her reasons were all so superficial

[@joycepino5346]

​@@jessicafisher958 I agree.

[@muka0301]

Yeh for my wedding, all the things that went "wrong" just added to the memory. Maybe because I'm the type that can laugh at myself and others can't. My husband splitting his pants would be hysterical and an awesome memory.

[@Chezzera]

I had a corona wedding. It was actually bad in the end. But I would not do it again, it is not important.

[@dawnb8123]

I know someone that had her second wedding under a year after her first, because the first they couldn't have flower girls and she'd promised 🙄 She wouldn't postpone her first small manor house wedding so about 9 months later they did the whole shebang again. Celebrant, cake, flower girls of course, string quartet, caterers, live band ............... It still makes me shake my head..

[@KVeren]

Love the second woman's "old" dress - although was surprised that she waited until 4 weeks before her wedding to bring it in when she hadn't taken it out of the closet in 4 years

[@bethanyl6158]

As a wedding coordinator I can honestly say that a perfect wedding is a fantasy. Something will inevitably go wrong no matter how thoroughly planned out it is. Ultimately, the most important thing on your wedding day is your commitment to one another... not your dress (sorry Randy), hair, makeup, weather, or any other detail. My husband and I have a beautiful marriage and family. Our marriage wasn't ruined because it rained on our wedding day or because my dress alterations were messed up and I looked ridiculous (in my opinion). At the end of the day all that mattered was I was his wife. And now I can look forward to the day when my hubby and I renew our vows so I can get a knock out dress then 😉

[@BlackGrapes]

I don't understand the concept of a vow renewal though.. it seems from watching SYTTD that it's just a wedding all over again just that the couple's already married, and often also becuase the wedding was not ideal.

[@bethanyl6158]

@BlackGrapes You are so right! Some people just redo their wedding for a vow renewal... which I find silly as well. The two vow renewals I've personally attended were for couples celebrating their 25th and 45th anniversaries. The couples just wore what they would have worn if they were a guest at someone's wedding. Their vows were making a recommitment to each other in their new season of life. The one couple was about to become empty nesters, and it was like they were saying, "we're still committed to each other, even after the kids are gone." It was super sweet, and that's kind of what I want to do. I won't be getting a second wedding dress but just a knock-out cocktail dress 😉

[@Luckybird1215]

My mom told me that the things that “went wrong” were the interesting wonderful things we would remember - and I ended up a Covid bride so just about everything went wrong.

[@starpunk2283]

My wedding was perfect, low budget, and planned by my mum and sister. After 18 years it was time to move forward but my ex-husnad is now my best friend and, if i marry again, he'll be there.

[@christyefuller6346]

She just doesn’t show emotion much. Hope she isn’t always like that. Her husband has a heart of gold

[@zabindhanji]

The first bride, unfortunately, the dress didn't do it for me. As long as she liked it, that's what matters. The second bride looked gorgeous!

[@michelleschulman914]

I have to agree with you. None of the gowns were flattering. I think A-line or Empire Waist might have worked better. A ballgown put on weight on her. I pray the seamstress can alter that gown to fit her properly. It was too small and hiking up but maybe not correct size?

[@4legs4paws55]

Seriously the dress from her first „horrible“ wedding looked much better on her in my opinion - 5700$ wasted but I am happy that she feels better

[@LuckyLarry]

Great admiration for the second bride wearing the dress she had previously…classic beautiful lines and gorgeous detailing…I love tucks! She got a real cutie….best wishes!

[@rosallumetta2864]

I feel the bride is dealing with depression!

[@isi9061]

My thoghts exactly, and I wouldn't be surprised if the second wedding is by "doctors orders".She has a loving husband and family and thats great

[@ingewagenaar1486]

I have to agree. She does not look happy at all. 😢

[@brandywineblogger1411]

She's not dealing with life. She has a little girl belief in the Cinderella wedding, the perfect day, the perfect dress, the perfect husband. Some girls who have poor social standing and/or poor self esteem use a wedding as their mark on their social circle. If a wedding where the groom rips his pants (too tight?) - hilarious, is enough to send her unto a mental tailspin, then God help her.

[@EH23831]

@@brandywineblogger1411 have to agree - life is full of challenges (and disasters) it’s about how you navigate them that matters. But if a do over will help her be more optimistic, then why not have a holiday in Hawaii 😍

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@brandywineblogger1411 My thoughts exactly and I think she is too ideal so any little thing that goes wrong like her husband ripping her pants is a no no for her. The marriage is important not the wedding. She is living in Cinderella/Disney Princess world like Peter Pan living in Neverland.

[@Jelena2022]

I found the groom on Facebook...he married a whole other woman in 2022....but he has other kids....I can't blame him though....this first bride is just walking sadness.... couldn't have been an easy life....

[@PinkieJoJo]

So they got divorced after she had to have a whole second wedding? This was never about being married to him in the first place in my view. She wanted perfection not just in the ceremony but in life. Doesn’t happen.

[@lotus4u2]

Wow! So she was a miserable person! Guess he realized he couldn't change her lack of happiness!

[@shuckydarn2856]

Actually, it could be he was saying "her wedding" because he was probably he was trying to make up for something like cheating? Who knows.

[@L.Spencer]

I missed your comment and was looking them up, too, found the same info - I'm glad to see I'm not the only "researcher" :)

[@hennykatz-moryoussef1716]

To all searchers: IMO the wedding was before 2022, his daughter seems to be about 4y in 2020... didn't understand the other 2 teens, maybe 1 from his earlier relationship & 1 from her earlier relationship ?! Some ideas?? They all look happy & that is the most importance in life.

[@TG-fq6vy]

She needs to get some confidence in herself, no other dress will fix out. She’s not picky she is insecure. What a waste of money when the wedding should be about the two of you

[@lindasussman8695]

She’s more about the wedding ….than a marriage.

[@kyliepechler]

With an emphasis on the "waste of money", imagine what else they could have spent that $5700 cost of the second dress on.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@lindasussman8695 That’s what I thought too… she just wants to have a wedding. If anyone in my family ever did that, my whole family would think they are crazy.

[@workethiclovetimetruth]

NOT NEVER HUSBAND WIFE

[@tatianarizktaylor1818]

I feel there is something unusual about this first bride wanting to re-do her whole wedding. So the wedding wasn’t perfect? Nothing in life is perfect. Build a bridge & get over it & plan something else to look forward to. The most important thing is her loving husband is by her side & she should be happy to continue planning a good life with him. To go back & have another wedding seems like a waste of money that instead could be used for housing or future children they may have or even a romantic holiday. Something deeper going on here, she seems a bit spoiled. Maybe I’m wrong but she definitely looks & sounds depressed & I hope she finds her peace & happiness in life.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

My thoughts exactly and I would have used the money for a honeymoon, towards a house, future kids or something else. What is the point of having a second wedding? She seems to be depressed or stuck in some fantasy land.

[@kateyare4708]

I agree. Whatever is bothering her about her first wedding is not likely to be remedied by a second wedding. No wedding is perfect, and she will be doubly disappointed when something goes wrong with her second wedding.

[@ravenousruby6407]

Girls dress that she came for the fitting… That has got to be the most beautiful wedding dress I’ve ever seen. So different than anything I’ve seen and I’ve watched this show for years. I love it.

[@Momof2_91]

My husband and thought about redoing our wedding a few times. The thing is the wedding we had wasn’t actually our wedding. We got married a year before in the courthouse and had a vow renewal for family a year later. We planned and paid for ourselves, and the whole day was not memorable. But we grinned and moved forward with the day. I wouldn’t want to redo that day, because it wasn’t our actual wedding day. Despite everything that went wrong that day it wasn’t for us it was for our family. Instead of a redo I want pictures of us together In front of the courthouse that we got married at, we have no pictures just the memories that are just ours and nobody can take that away from us.

[@del_ecuras1836]

Wow that 2nd bride dress was stunning

[@naumche1]

I’m sure many women buy a dress that they think is perfect and beautiful, then look back in it in ten years time and think “What was going through my head when I chose that dress?!” Have you seen some of the brides from the 80s? 🫣. But they loved it and were happy when they chose it and wore it. Relax and enjoy the day - nothing is ever perfect.

[@ΠαρασκευηΚωστελιδου]

Nope....many brides don't listen to the entourage cause they have that specific idea about what they want but in the end it isn't the best choice!! Personally, after 10 years I still see my wedding photos and video and think that I made the perfect choice!! Classic, elegant,timeless!!

[@RevLeigh55]

Styles change. Of course things look dated after 20+ years.

[@MLMLW]

​@@RevLeigh55 - Yeah, but nowadays with the newer brides gowns look dated & go out of style after only a couple of years.

[@patriciaburger8138]

Haha, I was one of those 80s brides but, thankfully, my dress did not have those horrid puffy sleeves😂 Mine was more Princess Kate and less Princess Diana! But you are right about picking what looks good on you and then just enjoying the day and making a wonderful wedding memory.

[@Jelena2022]

She says the first wedding was RUINED by bad weather, and this time she goes to ....... A BEACH??????? Giiiirl.... she's a bad planner, but also something else is going on here.....

[@demigreen6495]

She didn’t say that what are u on abt ??

[@coraline1503]

​@@demigreen6495 really? look into your trash can!

[@sahtification]

The second bride sister was so lovely with her

[@akaCONSTANTINE]

What happens if things go wrong this wedding too? They going to get married a third time? 🤪 I mean, things go wrong. That's part of life, no?

[@brandywineblogger1411]

You're 100% right! A wedding is basically a legal contract. That's why we get a marriage license. Getting married in a church in the eyes of God and with family and friends is icing on the cake. There's nothing to do over.

[@louiseerlacher5729]

True.. So many things went wrong at our wedding, but now we see them as funny tales to tell 😊

[@happyash6048]

​@@louiseerlacher5729 I thought that too. Even though the guy seems great, I wonder about the marriage. My first wedding was a disaster followed by an even worse wedding. It really bothered me and I think I somehow got fixated on it because everything was so bad. For my second wedding, we got married and on a weekday morning with just our parents, a best friend each, and the pastor. Then we had a barbecue for our friends the next weekend complete with a piñata for the kids. It was "perfect." And I couldn't care less anyway it because my life and my marriage are good.

[@taiyabazaheer9492]

Yeah I read the title and thought it was her first marriage that went wrong. Then I realised it was her look at the first wedding. 🤦🏻‍♀️ The immaturity of some people.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I agree this bride is too picky and ideal. She will never be satisfied.. Everyone’s taste and all changes over time. Sadly it happens with your spouse too which is why there are so many divorces.

[@MLMLW]

My daughter married a guy in the U.S. Army who was about to be deployed to Iraq so she had 2 months to plan her wedding. She got engaged in February & married in April. She loved the gown she picked out & her wedding was beautiful & she was happy with every aspect of her wedding day. They went on a cruise for their honeymoon then 3 wks after they got back he deployed to Iraq for 15 months. That 1st bride just seemed too hard to please. She seemed emotionless & blamed not having any time to plan for not liking their 1st wedding. Something tells me she's not going to like her 2nd wedding either. I'm surprised the 2nd bride bought a dress 4 yrs before she actually got married & just put the gown in her closet until she met the right guy. It was really pretty though & was still in style. My daughter-in-law bought her gown over a year before her wedding then regretted it because she found so many other dresses she liked better. The thing about that is unless a bride buys off the rack it takes 4-6 months for a gown to come in after being ordered so you have to buy a gown well in advance.

[@danielledenis5160]

I really don't think the first wedding was that bad, I think she has bad outlook...she comes across as being absolutely miserable...definitely think she's experiencing some major depression

[@leahpope8672]

I feel like she wants to look like the magazine models, and if that's the case, she will always be unhappy....

[@juanita_rocksteady2761]

I didn't think the first wedding looked that bad either. She does seem to be dealing with depression.

[@4legs4paws55]

@@juanita_rocksteady2761honestly I liked her original dress more than the 5700$ kleinfield one 😅

[@lorislivon2583]

I think she has underlying issues. It will always be the 1st wedding she will remember. She needs emotional help

[@shawntaecardoza5427]

Can we ALL just say that Vera is an ANGEL from Heaven!!!! LOVE her!

[@Grace69B]

So sad that after spending 5,700 on a wedding dress, they end up divorced and he’s now married to someone else. Hope Becky is doing well and has found love as well.

[@nnbnbnn]

source?

[@dramanda7296]

i'm not sure a dress can help becky fill whatever hole that is

[@kyliepechler]

Precisely.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Exactly!

[@dianeambrose683]

Poor girl seems so sad. It was not his fault that his pants split. $5700.00 in two years is insane! They are divorced and he moved on. Just so sad.

[@mariesmith1616]

I’d had divorced her prior to the second wedding…

[@mgichndz]

Becky is so monotoned lol. She has 2 speeds; slow and slower. Bless her heart.

[@TheSkandranon]

It's amazing how much of a difference the veil can make. She was unsure of the dress at first, and as soon as she had the veil put on, her face transformed

[@blueice011]

True. It's a sales tactic always when customer or entourage need a push towards purchasing. However, that wasn't the right dress for her, IMHO. If she felt good in it, that's all it mattered, but, that dress was meant for entirely different height and body type.

[@andreutza5]

why is this series soooo addictive???? 😂😂❤❤

[@dorenemadrzykowski8426]

Can't wait to see Randy's wedding!

[@julinelson1775]

It's a beach wedding - needs to be light & flowey......

[@Sand1955]

When things don’t go perfectly, it gives you a good story to tell. But you also need a positive attitude and a good sense of humor. It seems other issues are at play here.

[@JodiLeaSnakeQueen]

3:36 HER wedding? Did I hear that right?

[@shuckydarn2856]

Yep,you heard that right.

[@britt1784]

Yep I thought that too!😅

[@paigeaustin7107]

The husband called it "her wedding "! Um to me that says a lot. This girl is giving brat vibes and when he said that I was sure she was! I🤔

[@ainnochaim9450]

She didnt even go out in my favorite. That one with all the tulle really suited her.

[@mandamorris7934]

$3k - $5k budget for a second wedding? Just because the first wasn't good enough? Good grief... you printing up your own money? You might not like it in a YEAR??? Omg really...

[@keithgiblin2636]

The first bride was being very self-indulgent, I felt. Your actual wedding, and the vows you make together are *all* that matter. She's in for a massive learning curve if she becomes a parent.

[@rolandoesteban9514]

The second dress is a big surprise. It is unlike so many dresses that I have seen on SYTDD. I looked great on her.

[@DawnSp]

Ugh, the first bride. What a joyless demeanor she has. That kind of money when from the pics before, they had a perfectly nice wedding with tons of stories to tell. She won't be happy with it this time either.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

She has deeper problems then just the wedding. I can imagine her being unhappy again and wants a third wedding. She needs therapy not another wedding. Her first wedding seemed fine.

[@leahpope8672]

I always say, if you don't like yourself, nothing will look good to you.

[@tinaakers1752]

Getting remarried two years in won't fix their marriage problems. Obviously she's a very unhappy person.

[@LovinglfDesigns]

The second dress was gorgeous and so was the third. I'm just glad I had a low key wedding that was all about having fun with friends and family. No white dress and that was fine with me. My kids did the same low key wedding and they were relaxing and fun.

[@ronimiller397]

That wedding , that dress , her silly wedding will not fix what is really wrong . There is something really really wrong.

[@lizcoon6120]

No wedding is perfect. You just have to be ready to laugh off the glitches. I did plenty of laughing on my wedding day!

[@malpqueen2.057]

The story of the groom in the first part, splitting his pants brings back a story to mind. So my Grandma on my mom's side was a seamstress. Fast forward to my parents wedding, the zipper on my dad's pants he was suppose to wear for the wedding broke. My grandma had to literally sew my dad into his pants. His future mother in law had to sew his fly shut. This was back in the 80s. Then in 2016, my baby brother was getting married, and the same grandma had to sew my sister in law into her wedding dress, because the zipper broke. 😆

[@theraweggfiles]

I feel like too many women put too much pressure on both themselves AND the wedding itself to have everything be "perfect". Nothing is ever gonna be perfect and the sooner women begin to embrace the imperfections and look at them from a different perspective the happier they'll be. This bride said that everything that could go wrong did. So what? She wasn't there for the wedding, I assume. She was there to marry the man she loved. That should be all that matters. When I married my husband, some things went wrong, but at the end of the day, we laughed it all off because we knew none of it mattered. All that mattered was that we were there to get married. We were there for each other, not the food, the music, the people, the dress, etc. We were there for each other and nothing else. To this day, I can say with absolute honesty that I would not have changed a thing just to have everything be perfect because life is not perfect and neither are we. So all the little things that went wrong just amounted to be "us" and we loved it. I say this only to try and ease some of the suffering too many women put themselves through. Just remember that no matter how perfect or not the wedding is, NOT a single person there is gonna notice or care, so why should the brides? Life is too short to get hung up on the little things that just don't matter in the big picture.

[@L.Spencer]

and it's fun telling stories about all the things that went wrong, like family getting lost, forgetting the ring, the person bringing the food ran out of gas, coffeepot didn't work, etc...

[@theraweggfiles]

@@L.Spencer Exactly. Imagine telling the story of your perfect wedding to others. They're gonna sit there yawning and praying for the boredom to end. But, whip out the stories and pics of things that went wrong and they'll be on the edge of their seats as you laugh along with them. I've learned that in life, the MOST interesting and memorable moments that MAKE UP our lives are the imperfect ones or the unusual ones. Even on vacations, the most memorable moments are the ones that were out of the ordinary.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Exactly and the first bride definitely has psychological issues and needs therapy not a second wedding. Life is not perfect.

[@theraweggfiles]

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj I feel like life would be boring and not remotely story-worthy if it were perfect. Who wants to sit back and reminisce about perfection when you could sit back and laugh and smile warmly about the imperfections? I'll take door#2.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@theraweggfiles So true and a perfect life would be boring. Imperfections is what makes life interesting.

[@maggiemea]

Did you hear the first groom say he’s excited for “Her” wedding? It’s his wedding too but it seems that the bride is making this all about herself and the groom is just going along for the ride.

[@TatyanaKosh]

He was most likely perfectly fine with their wedding 2 years before. For whatever reason, she just seems miserable. Even the sobbing at finding the right dress does not sound like tears of joy like many brides experience. It’s like she let that moment be a release to her for her depression or something. The whole time she is emotionless or sad, and here is a chance to just sob. The groom and any family or friends that joined that second wedding were likely just playing the part in an attempt make her feel better. Her issues run much deeper than a not perfect dress or wedding.

[@sandrafaitel4318]

It's so much about the wedding but about the marriage. She looks so sad and hard to please. She will never be happy until she learns contentment and what's most important in life.

[@jenniferscott375]

What a colossal waste of money to have a second weddings. The day doesnt matter, the marriage does.🙄

[@rachelgarber1423]

Did he just say “her” wedding, not “our” wedding?

[@britt1784]

Yep 😅

[@annettevertalino9273]

her sure did

[@TatyanaKosh]

I mean they had “their” wedding two years prior. This is simply a bandaid she is trying to put over something that requires 4000 stitches. And he is trying to please her. It is her do over day. By the comments of others, seems that that second wedding was not enough to save the wedding. She likely should have spent that money on a therapist instead

[@rachelgarber1423]

@@TatyanaKosh That’s true

[@karenpage5674]

2nd dress very pretty. Classic and elegant

[@josyperez7483]

I switched off at we were married already 😂🤦‍♀️

[@cathywarriner]

This is crazy, is she going to want to keep getting married every year or 2 because she doesn't like the lookof the dress anymore. Feel sorry for that man marrying her.

[@mariagentles1106]

Becky said that she wanted a dress to match her personality. Her and her husband had super meek personalities 😂

[@suchikaaggarwal5436]

Both brides are so sweet ❤

[@keithgiblin2636]

Really?

[@dr.sammypryor]

$5000 for Canadian Army must make more money than US Army people! As a veteran of the US Army, I never got much ahead.

[@Bolted_C]

She’s had the dress 4 years but doesn’t check if the dress fits till 4 weeks before the wedding!?!?

[@anayelisoria37]

Buying your wedding dress before even being in a relationship is actually an smart move, because that way you don't have to listen to anybody, you get the dress YOU like and avoid all the drama, and in the end, if you don't like it later you can sell it and get another one.

[@1mol_wAter]

Damn that’s true

[@bonnieketterman6542]

Yes I really love her beautiful dress w/ her beautiful veil. She looks beautiful

[@tinaroberts5858]

I didn't even care about my dress. I just loved the man I was marrying so much. Unfortunately it didn't last. The wedding and the dress were just a cherry ontop of our future together. Sometimes we put to much effort into things that really don't make a difference. I'd never do it again, even though my dress and wedding was extremely inexpensive compared to today's extravaganzas. Lol.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

If you loved him so much then why didn’t it last?

[@anna1417]

Ok, pause, wait.... The wedding is no longer about the union (hopefully for life) between two people who love each other but about a passing party turning out "perfect"? Wow, the superficiality of some humans never ceases to amaze me.

[@trippinggauntlet4520]

Unfortunately I know someone that did this, apart from the time scale was less. Didn't think their 1st wedding was "enough" So 2nd wedding was held under a year from the 1st. Height of vanity and entitlement. I. Just. Can't.

[@PinkieJoJo]

This!!! This is exactly what I was thinking. You don’t get married again unless you have gotten divorced. Why not just say you are renewing vows now that he is home. This whole I hated my whole first wedding thing just pisses me off. Then ya shouldn’t of gotten married until he was out.

[@britt1784]

I was waiting for this comment! The most important thing is the relationship and the marriage. If he still does and you still do, it’s a waste of money. Get new portraits and go on a nice vacation but another wedding is a bit much.

[@mezzogal]

From the description, it seems like it was a rush wedding. Even the groom said he didn't remember anything from the day. So I guess they want a do-over to be more meaningful where they can take their time to enjoy.

[@TatyanaKosh]

⁠@@mezzogalI’ve been to a TON of weddings, more than I can remember. Been a bridesmaid in 10 of them, and had my own wedding. The planning always is time consuming and the day of rushes by so quickly because there is so much going on. There is simply something deeply wrong with this woman that a 5.5k dress and a second wedding two years in just won’t fix

[@jeswainston]

But it’s a beach wedding. She needs a dress that is more flowy

[@jennydrumm7223]

I always wonder when the bride gives a budget of - in this case - $3,000-5,000, what happens if they show her a dress that's only $2,000? Will she refuse to consider it? I mean, it's below her stated bottom dollar! 😉

[@brandywineblogger1411]

I feel really ambivalent and uneasy about Becky's second, do-over wedding. Must be nice to be rich. $5,700 for a second dress. If I heard her say"no dice" one more time I would have had to put duck tape all over her mouth. OK - here come my Debbie Downer remarks: Why all the fluffy, feathery dresses? She's so pretty but "zoftig" and really didn't need that big fairytale look with a sparkly waistband, especially for a beach wedding. Made her look even bigger. Things didn't go 100% right at our wedding either. Just for one, instead of a golden autumn day we got a cold, blustery October wind... and there went the outdoor photo shoot. But we've been married 12 years, are more deeply in love than ever, have weathered storms, have a great house and a good life. I just feel really uneasy about her self image and perfectionism. Life is not perfect, and sometimes you can't get a do over. One of these days Mommy and Daddy won't be there to make everything right.

[@kp4911]

She needs therapy, not a second wedding. She seems to be struggling with depression. A little bit more compassion and understanding of mental health issues is always helpful in these situations rather than labeling someone a "Debbie Downer." It's not like she can help it. We don't know what she's been through in life, so we can't assume she's a spoiled child.

[@jeswainston]

And all of them are strapless….like, no…

[@annaritadefrancesco8812]

In Italy no one never never never will see her wedding dress to her groom

[@susanjohnson4354]

BLESSINGS 🎊 CONGRATULATIONS 🎊 BEAUTIFUL EACH OF THM!

[@jenniferbond7073]

So everything that could go wrong she mentions is so superficial…hair makeup weather? And wants another wedding for those reasons, wow. What about the marriage.

[@tangerinefizz11]

I hope they live happily ever after!

[@L.Spencer]

He's married to someone else as of last year.

[@natdivaz]

​@@L.Spencer 1st or 2nd couple?

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@L.Spencer Which couple? Sad that many of these couples spend so much money just to divorce later.

[@4legs4paws55]

@@natdivazthe first couple - you can find him on the known social media sites - he has a new family now

[@cathybaldry7822]

How many times does it take for this consultant to listen to the bride

[@nadinehealey790]

This girl is a walking red flag! The poor groom.

[@peach1267]

Why would you redo your wedding over? That's just strange. I'm worried about this bride, something is off with her. Her Hubby is adorable though, great taste in men, cute and sweet 😊

[@ashleyhay7682]

She's already married! She still wants to be the bride.

[@Carol-D.1324]

At my wedding (2007)..the baker was taking FOREVER bringing the cake..like 20 minutes before the ceremony. I called the baker personally and said how long until the cake arrives because the ceremony was in 20 minutes. Yep..there was no cake. He had written the date as the NEXT day. Even though we had spoken on four different occasions. You have two choices..flip out OR decide that this will make my wedding day MEMORABLE in a funny way. I chose to laugh while explaining the situation at my reception. There was no need to flip out because it wouldn’t change the situation at all. We have photos of us feeding each other a roll. 😂

[@jenniferbond7073]

Agreed! Flip over a cake, nah. When I walked into my wedding location, the planner was all flustered telling me my bouquets weren’t there. She was legitimately flipping. I told her it was fine……I am sure some brides would freak out but I had decided to just enjoy the day and not worry about things that went wrong.

[@Carol-D.1324]

@@jenniferbond7073 Exactly!

[@annakoshi3823]

Its more important what comes after the wedding!

[@ddwro1]

those feather ones make her look big

[@thisgurlownsgames843]

Yes literally looks like big bird

[@brandywineblogger1411]

And it's the consultant's job to tell her how fabulous she looks even if she looks like Big Bird. Their job is to make money and make a bride happy in her choice. The consultant who upsells and makes the most commission for the company gets the promotion.

[@Megan_Fiorilla]

the dress at 4:23 looked so good on her though..

[@ethelchaitstein6394]

Beautiful bride! Beautiful couple! Mazl tov!!!!!!!

[@llc1976]

I didn’t like my wedding either or my dress but the marriage is good

[@csandford6011]

The 1st girl that didn't have the wedding she should have had the 1st time look fantastic in that dress.

[@christinebrument6851]

Think theres more going on than the dress with furst bride. Her pessimism would ruin everything. Second bride looked fabulous theres logic in buying your dress before "the event," no pressure just you knowing its the one

[@jerrykeenan1848]

Thanks

[@richardkovacs2006]

If someone is disappointed in the wedding because of some bad weather and other unexpected things, what can one expect in marriage from that person??? Maybe her problem wasn't REALLY the wedding and the dress... My parents had all the bad luck possible at their wedding, but they still tell the story of it as the funniest thing ever and make others laugh too. So I grew up believing a perfect wedding is in fact not memorable enough. My parents are still happily married after 51 years. Luckily my wedding wasn't perfect, either. I know a few people, who believed the wedding was thr big thing and thry seemed to stuck in that moment. In a few.years they were divorced.

[@ddwro1]

no no no to the second dress

[@flowerpower8125]

Needs a beachy dress for a beach wedding

[@dietotaku]

@@flowerpower8125 i'm afraid her body type just doesn't suit a "beachy" dress. plus size women like us need structure to give us shape, it's just unfortunate that the shape she went for was "no torso." i think she should have given that sparkly lace dress more of a chance, it made her look longer and slimmer in the torso and still would've suited a beach wedding.

[@amynadeau2838]

All the dresses they put the first bride in were the same silouhette. They should have tried something completely different to give her more options.

[@sheilamuirenn6336]

A second wedding two years later because she didn’t like the first. What a spoiled brat.

[@stonew1927]

First bride doesn't like herself. Honey, the "perfect" dress isn't going to cover up all your insecurities.

[@dasikakn]

My parents and my in laws had their dream wedding on my wedding day, lol. I just wanted to get a court stamp and move on to the business of adulting. Even if you’re religious and want to be “blessed” etc, talking to God is free… We’re still going strong and kids are successful, so we’re investing in dream life, not wedding. Having dream weddings don’t matter folks. Even the court paperwork i feel is unnecessary as long as the commitment is in your heart and actions. I still wanted the court standing of “married” as it offers your kids and each other some legal protections. So, just make sure your paperwork is in order, finances are in order, protect yourself, protect your kids’ inheritance, education etc. Then go ahead and have a nice party for your achievements 🎉. A big dreamy wedding is like counting your chickens before they hatch. I still enjoy this show, btw, but I don’t buy into the pressure some of these women are putting on themselves. Very sad.

[@theresapennetti3986]

This woman needs major mental help. She had some nice pictures could it have been. Grow up. But, what is worse her family are all enablers!

[@Shasha8674]

Straps may help. Good to do the Wedding again so she can make it positive.

[@priscillajesudunmomiajober8061]

Dress number three was ittttt

[@robinkaufman8046]

I was my husband's bank teller. Good luck to you both.

[@kimberlyheibel8759]

She's doing a lot of comparing. She's upset about her first wedding.