No feast lasts forever: some people are here only for a brief, beautiful moment

[@bbwalk100]

Dear Miss, Erica, this is coming from my heart. I watched plenty of Ziheng's, previous videos. I remember when you first started filming you were such a brave confident lol, bold young lady. You pursued Ziheng, from the beginning I know you have face many challenges. Please do not let outside people influence you. You know Ziheng, character the best you guys travel all over Africa and China together. Miss Erica, if you truly love Ziheng, you will stay in fight like a warrior in a battle because REAL LOVE DOES CONQUER ALL EVIL.

[@moniquefrisch-dreischor4716]

Totally agree with you. I will advice her to look back on the old video's where Ziheng was not interessted in a relationship, only an Englisch teatcher and look how far they come❤

[@NadiaTuks]

​@@moniquefrisch-dreischor4716she chase the poor guy just to break his heart I am very upset with Erica cause I was rooting for them

[@moniquefrisch-dreischor4716]

@@NadiaTuks please, dont be upset. Lets hope they Kiss and make up. You never know. Fingers cross🤞🏽❤️

[@selleyisaac6323]

@@moniquefrisch-dreischor4716 I am with you and pray and keep my fingers crossed 🙏🤞😔

[@Leo-kf2xy]

@@bash547 so what?

[@empress_keziah]

Stop paying attention to hater’s and Erica trust is very important in a relationship so trust him and not hater’s. The sad part is that those saying this to you are not even in a relationship and they are full of jealousy, enjoy your relationship and stop listening to others wish you both the best ❤

[@huayou]

Their breakup was all a play directed and acted by Ziheng's family. Their parents didn't like Erica at all.

[@gabelynnyenp]

@@huayou Will you stop this nonsense comment

[@Odgin]

@@huayou Speaking of haters, here's one hater making things up about someone's parents who they never met in real life.

[@kevinchen7458]

@@huayou It's obviously Erica who wants to break up with Ziheng, but you blame Ziheng's parents for everything.

[@selleyisaac6323]

@@kevinchen7458 It’s Erica who is wanting the separation!

[@Alteori]

Man those so-called friends are jealous of Erica. People are miserable and so they like to see others miserable too. Erica, please do not let your friends ruin the good thing you have with Ziheng. Let Ziheng prove himself. Many women in the past listened to their friends which ruined their marriage and relationships. Most of those women end up regretting and wanting the man back. Unfortunately, it will be too late. You cannot marry your friends. Only you and Ziheng know your relationship and the other person. Look at his actions and what he shows YOU. I hope you guys work through this. My husband and I have gone through similar up and downs. This year will be 9 years we are together. What makes a relationship last is working through all the bad times and deciding that you love the person enough to fight for them.

[@Kathie6767]

Wonderful comment!

[@debrajoseph7235]

Erica read the comments that people sent to people are jelous and don’t want to see u happy stop listening to stupid people your friends are jelous of you just block them and go on with your life with Ziheng he is south a good guy don’t make stupid decisions you 2 are ment for each other ❤❤❤

[@hijodie7480]

你們真的很不懂中國的文化，沒有人是因為忌妒或歧視非洲人，而是生活方式飲食差異書卷文化完全不同，再說艾瑞卡太懶惰了。

[@maggieaminat8511]

Ziheng is a great person, mature and as I have watched he is also selfless, always calming down situations. He is also very generous, genuine and really loves Erica. In any relationship:I love you, I'm sorry, forgive me and thank you come in handy. Erica please, please say sorry to Ziheng and ask for forgiveness even if youve decided to leave.I would however advice you not to bow to the pressure from outside cuz you will lose and they will achieve their goals. Humility and respect are also a great virtue. I pray you reconcile for the sake of your successful destiny and inheritance.Looking forward to watching you together.❤❤ Shalom.

[@Mark-tq7ko]

A very good comment

[@veredianajaphet4613]

Hey bby girl am Tanzania 26 yrs married to indian man and have kid I have learnt alot through my relationship up to now most of we Tanzania girls have really jealous they don't like other ppl have good relationship and don't put your family first u need to build your relationship with him they want to see suffering only if u come back u gonna regret the rest of your life thank God my husband helped me understand how bad our friends are and sometimes our families don't let go of him sit down and talk out bcz now am happy with my family

[@LienNguyen-mn6ti]

Người ngoài thích phá hạnh phúc của người khác hơn là vun đắp hạnh phúc cho họ.

[@roheysagnia1839]

Hello Erica and zhang please I just want to tell both of that there is no tower in this world that is built overnight I know the pressure from family and friends can be too much but you guys are growing slowly and Erica you need not to listen to people outside you need to be patient and respect zhang and same to you zhang her protection depend on you please talk this out because we love you both some people don't want to let you enjoy life together don't let them ❤❤❤❤

[@Cloud7.8]

I agree

[@Cloud7.8]

I would have unsubscribed if it was a different reason because I subscribed to the channel for Erica, but after getting to know Ziheng for a while. I got to like him. Erica, don't let your friend pressure you into making decision that appease them. They could be lealous of your relationship. Be mindful, and careful. Ziheng is not perfect, but he is a good man. What's going to happen when you return to Tanzania? Do you have a plan? Think wisely. I know you are an adult but think wisely.

[@selleyisaac6323]

@@roheysagnia1839 Agree 110%

[@Docuseries2]

ERICA DONT GO BACK WITHOUT SOLVING YOUR PROBLEMS, YOU WILL REGRET IT AND LOOSE A GREAT GUY. Be mature

[@NiklessCele]

But Trust has been broken

[@Cloud7.8]

​@@NiklessCeleI know, this is unfortunate.

[@ritahnamuddu-st5hq]

She has failed to grow up. Very childish.i think ziheng's father is clapping his hands bse he didn't like Erica. But Erica has lost a good guy

[@Cloud7.8]

@NiklessCele yes my thoughts too. I am questioning whether she genuinely loved him. I know he genuinely loves her.

[@cecillec2331]

@@NiklessCele You make it sound irreparable. Haven't you ever had ups and downs in your own relationships?

[@Ntuthu-ZA]

Really pray and hope that you guys are doing well, despite whatever has happened. We love you together and we wish you a fantastic future together.

[@wongada8230]

喜歡你們在一起！子恒是真誠的男孩子，Erica也是很不錯的女孩！大家不要怀疑！錯過大家就很可惜。希望看到你們開心快樂的樣子！

[@CVGBTSFanClub]

😢I am in tears now...really. The two of you showed hope for humanity in this troubling word. You showed that love can be found in the most distant of hearts and were age old borders of race lye. The way the two of you looked into each other's eyes...always sank my heart and I quietly longed for that experience. So beautiful, compassionate and loving. Somebody is truly hating on this love, that the two of you have shown to the world. I am sure there are private issues you may or may not have, but TRUE LOVE can conquer any infiltration of the enemy including each other's doings and input. I am so proud of your love. Erica, Ziheng is sooooo very handsome and you captured a delicate foreign treat for a woman, especially from another country. You are especially beautiful as well and a beauty he fought for against the world. He is mad and hurt as a human would be. You want to leave, so this is on you to make right if it's not too late. If you truly love him, stay with him and work it out to the better days that are ahead. And Ziheng, please make any necessary adjustments to please your woman. Make her not want to leave and forgive her.

[@huayou]

Their breakup was all a play directed and acted by Ziheng's family. Their parents didn't like Erica at all.

[@gabelynnyenp]

@@huayou But shes the one leaving. Why cant she trust her partner?

[@kevinchen7458]

@@huayou It's obviously Erica who wants to break up with Ziheng, but you blame Ziheng's parents for everything.

[@顧芙蓉]

光看標題心都碎了 子恆是個很不錯的大男孩 感情的事只有自己知道 無論如何都祝福你們

[@tt3760]

Never mind what other people think. As long you two love and support each other you all will have a happy life ❤️❤️❤️

[@huayou]

Their breakup was all a play directed and acted by Ziheng's family. Their parents didn't like Erica at all.

[@王曼-l3c]

@@huayou 对

[@kevinchen7458]

@@huayouIt was obviously Erica who wanted to break up with Zi Heng because of the advice from her female friends, but you blame Zi Heng's parents for everything.

[@mapularapholo]

Erica, please don't forget how much Ziheng loves you and how he is treating you like a queen. Those haters don't like it. So please don't go home by yourself. Try to work on your problems without a third party. Otherwise you will lose your partner for good.

[@huayou]

Their breakup was all a play directed and acted by Ziheng's family. Their parents didn't like Erica at all.

[@kevinchen7458]

@@huayou It's obviously Erica who wants to break up with Ziheng, but you blame Ziheng's parents for everything.

[@NadiaTuks]

Cant you see that Erica is the one who was planning and plotting to break up with her friends by flying to her country without Ziheng knowing, she is the one who broke up with him,hence his very hurt​@@huayou

[@estelleholderharildstad310]

Ziheng don't make mistakes, you love your Erica and she loves you...A friend from Switzerland

[@brammacdesigns693]

Wow! so truthful!.... Jealous people will try everything to destroy happiness. As an elder I can see Ziheng is truly in love with erica and he has wooed her relentlessly and respected her family. These friends sound like very envious of her happiness and want to see her at their level like crabs in a barrel syndrome. Im almost 60 and love the love story and I would say to her be careful because life gives us KARMA when we hurt others without a just cause. IGNORE Them and be true and kind to one another... One Love Ottawa, Canada💑💑❤

[@ShakiraDanda]

True I totally agree with you ❤❤❤❤. thanks for saying this

[@nataliemeclean9435]

Everything in life is a choice. In every relationship you have good days and bad days BUT what matters is how you handle it. Communication is the more important and powerful tool you can have in any relationship. I hope that you both work this out and become stronger. This young man has shown you a new experience in your life. Always Respect each others opinions and remember that Trust is earned. Show the negative people that they will not tear your Love ❤️ apart. I wish you all the best.

[@簡國威]

希望你們倆別分開，永遠在一起🙏🙏🙏

[@selleyisaac6323]

I agree 100% and I am praying for them! 🙏💔🥲

[@LaRoseMKYA]

🙏🏽!

[@Jousieshipepe]

Erica, you will end up ruining your relationship because you choose to listen to people from outside. once you loose him, you will never get him back and it will be too late. please avoid the outsiders and concentrate on your relationship. Those with negative energy , please broke them . they are celebrating when they are seeing you like this because their motives is to separate you guys

[@huayou]

Their breakup was all a play directed and acted by Ziheng's family. Their parents didn't like Erica at all.

[@kevinchen7458]

@@huayou It's obviously Erica who wants to break up with Ziheng, but you blame Ziheng's parents for everything.

[@derichsu1694]

你说的很对，我赞同你的观点！

[@sankhar2484]

How many older folks wish that there was someone to broaden their horizons like this. What I have seen on those videos is what love and respect is about. People will have disagreements, that’s part of life but that’s what talking is there for. You talk things over. There’s a limit as to where you let other people in. Jealousy is a curse. Be very careful who you listen to. You two were making Global Strides in breaking down the Barriers of Love. Don’t leave evil make you both lose out on your blessings. Blessings in abundance!!! Whatever the relationship is because there are various kinds of love. We were created for relationships and we should always love and respect each other. Kindness and honesty are keys here! No one should be taken for granted. Every encounter with a person is an opportunity and a blessing!

[@YUKI-lc1jk]

子恒，你都知道她很单纯，你别急，别生气，把心放宽稳住，把事情跟艾瑞卡说明白，让她知道什么是脏心眼的人，还有关于你父母对于你和艾瑞卡恋爱的种种看法，没必要事无巨细的在这里说，给别有用心的人以口实，子恒你太实在了，你适合呆着国外生活，至少不用那么卷，急的我都不知道该怎么说了😂心疼你们俩

[@philomenasason7733]

These people are jealous on the two of you and these people are haters.just ignore them and carry on with your life.

[@rickx2223]

She is so innocent that she cheated on him by talking privately to other people, isn't that right? If she were innocent, she would have shown the entire conversation to her husband and not hidden it and then deleted it.

[@NiklessCele]

She is not innocent she deleted conversations and plotted to go to Tanzania alone without him so she can go do whatever her friends were suggesting

[@yannychen6994]

@YUKI-lc1jk，男方不是救世主，婚姻一定要门当户对！我指的门当户对不一定是物质上的，精神上更应该要门当户对。中国和非洲文化差异本身就不容易融合，而且女方智商也根本跟不上男方的智商，这样的婚姻过了荷尔蒙时期就注定悲剧。你这样一直不遗余力地撮合，人家要是过不好，你也有责任！

[@王王-r8j]

我也遇到过这样的女友，真不值得，很容易受到挑拨，说到底就是不信任我，然后没有独立思考的能力，也算倒霉，我认识几个月就直接提出分手，一点也不想留念。

[@ThatsEunice]

Ericah, you need to stop listening to other people and focus on your relationship with Ziheng. You need to become more mature in how you communicate and handle situations. Most of the people talking bad about your relationship, how is their relationships going? If they are even in one. How can you say you want yo marry Ziheng but don’t trust him? I don’t understand this behavior after being together for so long. You are easily influenced by others. For the first time, I am disappointed in you, Ericah.

[@marvaxavier7199]

Yes, I am so disappointed, and despite his father's objections, he continued to pursue her. I am so upset to say the least.

[@喵队长]

I think She is too young to keep a relationship, and too easy to be influenced by other people.

[@funip7468]

你跟這女孩走在一起確實在KZbin視頻的流量賺了不少樞樞是不爭的事寶 當然你也有付出 不然不會跟父母一直爭取認同 分開依下待相方面冷靜深思 先別衝動 太早下決定日後的事 感情事是你2人的事 ERICA 不夠成熟不像24歲 給她反思總會令她成長 另一方面令我感覺這女生懂會尊重人 看她在你父母面前總不曾耍脾氣值得讚佩 今時今日的小姐難得會有這樣體面 能否一起看你們的緣份

[@brammacdesigns693]

Those same friends will laugh after you in the end. Ziheng is handsome with any haircut and it shows maturity.

[@beautylacehair173]

@@brammacdesigns693 Agree her friends will make fun of her 100

[@nataliemeclean9435]

You can see the pain in his eyes😢. Be strong . Do not let the negativity distract you. Nothing worthwhile is easy. Stay strong in your ❤️ LOVE.

[@fikilemathonsi7616]

Exactly that man is hurt it's all in his eyes

[@selleyisaac6323]

@@fikilemathonsi7616 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲

[@rowenagilmore105]

Listen to your own heart. Ziheng has been very good to you. He's worthy of your trust. He's done everything for you. These people talking bad about him have done nothing good for you! I wish the best for both of you.❤

[@huayou]

Their breakup was all a play directed and acted by Ziheng's family. Their parents didn't like Erica at all.

[@babsinnocent6287]

Erica if you loose this guy then you are finished cause he is a good ,honest guy

[@fikilemathonsi3713]

She lost a good guy by listening to her jealous friends

[@timbatee7433]

@@fikilemathonsi3713 Her friends and family know her a lot better than you or I. All we see are just a small fraction of carefully edited content of what happens in their lives. We don't know what happens 99% of the time when the camera is off. Her friends could be jealous, or they could know facts and details we aren't aware of

[@fikilemathonsi3713]

@@timbatee7433 I understand that and by my observation it's seemed like she didn't want to be with him anymore but it's the way she handled the situation she was even plotting to secretly leave him that why she even requested to go alone she should have been transparent and not being sneaky

[@timbatee7433]

@@fikilemathonsi3713 Regardless of how she handled it, it looks like it's over. On the newest vid, she's packed up and ready to go.

[@王曼-l3c]

@@fikilemathonsi3713 这个男人在立牌坊,看不出来吗

[@lthill4656]

You guys are so cute together. Despite your many challenges I hope you keep fighting for each other. Love will win❤

[@P2004-cQ]

Erica stop being a child. You keep stressing that man for nothing he will be gone and soon other women will scoop the jackpot. Wake up young lady and behave like a matured person and not a kid who is breastfeeding

[@aquabonsu1]

That's the problem with dating girls that are too young, they haven't experienced life enough to know what they want and that they have a good partner. Hope you do not regret this.

[@Angelsv527]

​@@aquabonsu1She isn't too young she is 24 yrs old The problem is she doesn't know what she is doing she behaves like a little child 😢😢😢 Not even a teenage 😊

[@WWJD-gj8jl]

That s no that simple. Everything is New for her, she is just discovering the world. Living IN Tanzanie is different than living in a huge and so complicated big country.

[@zinhlekheswa5237]

Yep she should grow up

[@gwenmutsago1010]

@@Angelsv527thank you

[@wangyuyeung7821]

如果外人能这么容易就离间你们那么这说明不够爱！子恒为了这女孩顶着很大的压力，对女孩的家人也付出很多，对他太多批评也公平。要好就好好相处，要分就彻底分不要拖泥带水。

[@LienNguyen-mn6ti]

Con gái yêu thì rất yêu nhưng cũng dễ tự ái.

[@yannychen6994]

@wangyuyeung7821， 男方现在刚好趁女方对不起他的时候及时止损吧。

[@nessiwanwan3172]

你们俩个好好的为什么要搞破坏，这样做很不好 不积德

[@火爆全球]

男的没有和她登记这是事实

[@amandavan55]

Unfortunately being on social media, one runs the risk of being critisized by all. You'll need to learn not to not take all the bad comments to heart. You will have to grow thick skins and learn to laugh about all the uncalled reactions. You know yourselves and you know the truth. Do not let unknown people, who think they know you, spoil your relationship! Be strong!

[@AyeAborang-kh4ep]

Erica tu as maintenant ,24 ans donc tu n' est plus un bébé réfléchir par toi même et faire confiance à ton copain c'est toi qui le connait réellement pas les autres

[@Tasha870]

They have 2 choice to fail or pass

[@Tasha870]

Social media is for grown up if they were going thru pples comments early when they started They could have learnt something And today they will not be seating in one corner trying to explain anything

[@Tasha870]

I hope they can read your comment it will change there aspects of what being said and done

[@Tasha870]

Stay strong mature together Build ur own empire worry more about u too and ur family Pray for each other

[@userJAM703]

Love conquers all. It is clear that you both love each other. I am hoping that you can resolve this conflict privately with Erica and remain committed to your relationship. Blessings to both of you 🙏🏾

[@BlasianJamaican]

It’s just about hair

[@huayou]

Their breakup was all a play directed and acted by Ziheng's family. Their parents didn't like Erica at all.

[@王曼-l3c]

@@huayou 是的,男人没担当

[@Jatchina]

The main issue here is the question: Does Erica love Ziheng? When you love someone, it does not matter whether you can be a success with the person or without. Erica should not fool herself by thinking she is the main star of the videos. I started watching because of Ziheng.

[@emiliakahenge]

Exactly 👍

[@fen-g2s]

相愛❤一切都不容易 雙方冷靜下來思考❤祝福你們

[@楊健生]

子恆，你們倆好就好了，別管別人，別讓別人人，挑撥離間你倆的感情，加油

[@oesine]

有其父必有其子 子恆和善溫柔 委屈吞肚內 的母親 天下能有幾個..聰明女子不會選暴躁家庭..

[@RachelTws1107]

為什麼要讓一些無關痛癢的外人去影響到你們的感情，兩個人在一起，憑感覺憑相處憑真心，外人說什麼是他們的事，要一起過生活的又不是他們，要一起有將來的又不是他們，別等失去了才後悔，世界沒有後悔藥，不要一時之氣，他日成熟了再回想就會覺得自己太孩子氣，認真好好想想，錯過了就不能回頭，有裂縫了怎修補都是有裂縫

[@LaRoseMKYA]

🎉

[@elizabethejike3599]

Have been watching your videos,this is my first time commenting. Am just watching both of you and tearing up bcos whenever am in pain ,l watch one of your videos,you and Erica smiling helps me heal alot, please don't let what people say come between both of you.❤ From US.

[@姜浩洋-c3i]

你倆一路走來不容易，受到很多阻礙，不管未來如何，祝福你們。

[@irieify9334]

Well said! 💯

[@eunicemusyoka7244]

True... fight till the end.

[@lerLee-ce2]

好好的在一起吧，别闹蛮喜欢你们两个在一起

[@tonychoi4903]

I have watched your videos the longest time. This is my first time commenting. All your videos are very genuine . Nevermind what other people think . Keep up the great work.💪

[@poncht8430]

After two years and facing many challenges together, if Erica chooses to believe that ziheng is using her and went so far as to ask him to buy her a plane ticket, then Ziheng is doing the right thing by letting her go. Trust is an important cornerstone in a relationship. As an adult Erica need to be accountable for who she chooses to believe. My sympathy goes out to Ziheng.

[@Cloud7.8]

I am so sad. I really want to hear the side of her story. Why? I just saw a post on his Instagram, and he really loves this girl, but what happened? I am really curious.

[@NiklessCele]

​@@Cloud7.8she lashed out on someone who was attacking in the comments on her chanel that we don't know what happens behind the scenes

[@kimeichelimo5089]

Im not that young,but it happened that i came across your posts,and because of its uniqueness,i started following you to see how it will go,i want to say that you people are ambassadors of peace love and unity across the globe,your storry brings sense to humanity and it hurts me to think that you want to end this sweet historical storry,forgive my english.what im saying is we are rooting for you,life is about ups and downs,ziheng take controll and make it work,Erica be mature and think things over,i wish you well

[@alinamatselisobonde5354]

ERICA WHAT ARE YOU DOING,,, LOOSING THIS KIND MAN,,, I TELL YOU YOU RE GOING TO CRY AND IT WIL BE LATE ☹️☹️☹️🥲🥲🥲🥲LOVE FROM DANMARK 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲

[@Aspire2Greatness]

To my girl Erica ❤ I’ve watched yu guys and yall are so nice to watch and have great potential.. I honestly don’t think he is using you he truly loves yu out of all the women he could have used …. Just take time and think people want to see yall down not happy people are jealous and want what yu have .. don’t let them pull yu into something yu will regret .. follow your heart stop getting folks involved that’s the problem including KZbin .. hope yu reconcile❤

[@joycedong900]

Eric和子恒在一起的压力其实很大，Eric其实很爱子恒，只是她爱得没有安全感逐渐失去了自我，Eric需要成长，尽快找回自己。加油Eric!!!

[@王曼-l3c]

这件事跟女孩一点关系都没有,完全是男人没有坚定的心.别人说什么女孩管的着?这个男的想分手还狡辩

[@kevinchen7458]

2023年5月1日當他們第一次見面，子恆說他要找的是英文老師， ERICA說你不是要找女友嗎？她想了想，接著她就說那不然我也可以當你的英文老師~真是個奇怪的女人！2023年5月25日在她剛剛認識子恒不久，她就約子恒去她家喝酒，然後她還想讓他喝醉，真正單純的女人會計畫讓男人喝酒醉嗎？😂

[@kevinchen7458]

2023年6月14日她收到子恆來自中國的禮物，子恆幫她穿戴配件，只見她整個身體都要貼上子恆了， 2023年6月27日 合租直接變同居了，可見得她貼上男人的節奏相當快~她以前應該是常常去夜店玩的，她總是戴著超長的假睫毛，濃妝豔抹...😅

[@kevinchen7458]

在這段關係裡是Erica 主動追子恆，現在想分手回非洲開創新生活的也是Erica，她不是没有安全感，Erica小姐很清楚知道自己在做甚麼，好嗎？😁

[@michellemouandjo195]

Ziheng is a great guy and a loving person,Erica. Do not allow anybody between you two. He has been there for you no matter what. Be wise , Erica .

[@Jackie-z4f2u]

Ambiguity can mess up a relationship. In the videos while they seem to get along and look cute together..it also seems ambiguous no clarity or progress with the relationship.

[@mn8931]

@@Jackie-z4f2u no progress? They literally announced they are getting married

[@Jackie-z4f2u]

@@mn8931 it was mentioned but then this video is posted. I hope it works out for the best.

[@mn8931]

If Erica listens to others and not to Ziheng she is jeopardizing their future. You have to remember, Ziheng had a very successful channel in China before Erica. To say he is using her is just stupid. Both benefited from the relationship.

[@NadiaTuks]

Thank you

[@irieify9334]

Agree!

[@Cloud7.8]

Agree!!

[@marvaxavier7199]

I know. I just don't understand, but she refuses to speak her part, which is sickening. Ziheng is so transparent. I can see why he is upset.

[@NadiaTuks]

@marvaxavier7199 true she refuses to tell her side of the story

[@crystalmada1823]

Erica do NOT let ANYBODY ruin your relationship with that man It's Clear you both Love Each other He's Your Divine Counterpart High high level soul mate! Be wise misery loves company And people can become jealous of your happiness Even Family & Friends so Think for yourself Follow your Heart you're an adult Can't marry family you deserve to be in Love! Happiness is your birthright! Love don't judge

[@NkosinathiMathonsi-vt7cr]

Now Erica is playing victim crying while you chose to listen to haters i mean the guy did everything for you going against his parents and yet you choose to believe your jealous friends

[@MinLiu-f8c]

這很遺憾，很心疼，但兩种文化的不同，真的需要强大的內心和經濟實力做後盾，父母看式不近人情，但他們看見了今后的結局--你不会快樂，所以他們才反对，還好，在沒有結婚之前就stop了，這很痛，但也是一种成长，望未來兩个人各自安好，各自幸福

[@gabelynnyenp]

Erica looks so timid and unhappy. This is not the bubbly and confident Erica i saw when she initially came to be an English Teacher. Sometimes social media affects relationships because everyone wants to give their opinions. If you want to do this you have to learn to trust each other and stand by one another. Communicate and don't hide things from one another. Ignore people's opinions. Most are jealous and unhappy in their own lives and will project in unto you. I wish you both all the best. I think its best for her to go home and take a break. She has become a shadow of herself. I believe that you guys will work things out eventually.

[@王曼-l3c]

问题是男人没有担当,别人说什么跟女孩有什么关系?这个男人把自己打扮成救世主,好像给了女孩很多恩惠,这样的不平等关系以后受苦的是女孩,早点离开是聪明的选择

[@cheahkim-c2m]

@@王曼-l3c ziheng is wasting his time and money for the all travellings, expensive gifts for her and family, then travelling around. without ziheng, erica couldnt have the opportunity to experience so much.

[@NiklessCele]

You are so correct Erica is not the same bubble and confident person who we first saw when she appeared seems to me like she lost herself along the way in this relationship its best for her to go and take a break and whatever they decide to do I wish the well

[@mapularapholo]

What I have learned is that not all friends are good friends. Erica please don't listen to what people are saying about Ziheng bcos some are jealous of what you have and you will lose a great person, the love of your life. Same to you Ziheng. We know that you love each other and you make a great couple. Don't disappoint us please, we love you ❤❤❤

[@user-Mandy3xS2v]

你們相愛.不要爲了別人説好説壞.受到影響.過好自己的日子就行.小倆口加油💪💪🎉

[@bbwalk100]

Miss Erica, I remember watching one of Ziheng's, old video. You guys were living together as roommates but not in a relationship. The time you were out partying and was drugged all your belongings were stolen. Who came to your rescue Ziheng, where were your friends during that time?

[@selleyisaac6323]

SERIOULY, did they even care then????? 😢

[@hjh3186]

若因為不信任而分開 除了遺憾外也要記起教訓 學會理解對方 包容彼此的不足 以期未來能建立更健康堅固的關係

[@RachelLHearn-wl5mq]

Mature people who love one another don't care about haters. Let her go and live your life. If it's meant to be it will happen. Why would someone tell her to delete the message?

[@SimplyRodah]

On another note, Ziheng, don't give up. Follow your woman. If she's gone home already, go after her, go to her parents. It will also show how serious you are. Go get your girl.

[@ndoyisilemogale6855]

So ziheng must forced the spoilt brat to love him?

[@RachelLHearn-wl5mq]

She has to make a choice.

[@ndoyisilemogale6855]

@@RachelLHearn-wl5mq must rewatch the video sis ,erica planned to leave ziheng for good and planned it behind his back with her friends but when she was few days b4 leaving thats when ziheng found out from her phone that she was dumping him actually

[@msapplebeeb.9119]

Ziheng saw Erica's personality change, and he believed someone was in her ear saying bad things. He said someone must have been talking to her at that time, giving her bad advice. He looked through her phone.

[@NkosinathiMathonsi-vt7cr]

​@@ndoyisilemogale6855😂😂😂😂😂

[@陳素-z9i]

加油、雨過天晴、各自祝福。

[@selleyisaac6323]

Yes, absolutely 110% and more! 🙌

[@Cyn205]

As much as we love the both of you together, it doesn’t seem like this is sustainable anymore. Ziheng you seem like a great, generous partner and you will find your person. Maybe it’s not that Erica doesn’t see a future with you anymore but she just can’t see a future in China forever. You both shared so many great memories together some people are meant to be in your life for only a season.

[@likoon2710]

艾瑞卡：子恒為妳所做的一切我們都看在眼里，子恒說得對，妳愛的是子恒，妳應該相信他，别把别人的惡意毁了你們的感情，太不值了。

[@shelettaglenn1869]

Not 100% sure what's going on but I am cheering for you two. True love always prevails. Hold on to each other and ignore outsiders. I know you love her and she loves you.

[@rdurgans]

i pray you both overcome your challenges, this is small in a relationship. Commitment is commitment, try to stay together through thick and thin

[@juinchaudhuri]

Why do you 2 think about separating every time you fight? It's the natural process of building up a relationship. Pls don't be impatient. Talk, argue, and debate all you can, but never think about separation.

[@moniquefrisch-dreischor4716]

Dear Erica, when your parted from Ziheng an back in Tanzania, your socalled friends will be there the help you get rid of your money and you will long for the life with Ziheng. I know you are homesick but you cant stay with your parents forever. I wish you and Ziheng all the Love and Luck you deserve❤

[@selleyisaac6323]

Yep, like when she bought all those things for her friends and miscalculated and lost lots of money, and Ziheng was there to teach her and support her!

[@唐書雯]

相處有問題不開心就不要勉強，遇到對的人會很順利很舒服，沒有不開心的感覺😊一切都會順理成章的😊

[@mn8931]

not true, no relationship is ever just smooth and comfortable. Humans are very complicated, if we can have problems and issues with our parents, siblings and relatives, love relationships are not different.

[@suzzy-chi]

@@mn8931true,relationship,marriage and friendship are not bed of roses,they can work this out.they are just allowing those negative comments control their attitude towards the relationship,they should take a break off social media and seek counseling from both parents❤️❤️

[@LaRoseMKYA]

🤨…?

[@FreedomWalker-xz1ss]

那有這麼順暢,娑婆世界呀,没不開心感觉,低智

[@nikkimclay5474]

Ziheng is the kindest guy ever who fought for his love against his own family. Erica you need to mature & trust everything this man has done for you & your family. Stop acting like a spoilt princess.

[@irieify9334]

Sigh. Erica, please don’t repeat what you did. Tune out the noise. Why let others dictate your future? I imagine the people saying negative things and hating on Ziheng are just envious of your relationship. They want to see you fail so they can laugh at you. Don’t give them that satisfaction. Be smarter than this. Block out the chatter, ignore the haters, and focus on being transparent with each other. I get why Ziheng is annoyed-you’re not showing much trust in him. I was so happy when you appeared in his Africa vlogs. It’s clear how happy you both are together. I don’t believe he’s using you-I genuinely believe he loves you. Be happy together and fight for your love.

[@LucyML123]

Eric do NOT allow negative people ruin your relationship please. This is your life. ❤ these people see videos they do not know you'll

[@madgiemadgie9128]

Ziheng, it’s hurtful to read those things but if both of you start resenting each other, or getting angry, the beautiful relationship will wither. Don’t forget, Erica had to witness horrible racist rejection from your father, when they first met. Your beautiful and loving mother did her best to make up for that. Erica did not reject you for that. She didn’t blame you for the sins of another, so also reciprocate. Don’t blame her for the wickedness and manipulation of others. Any couple on this earth, no matter their race, religion, etc, have to form a ring around themselves, preferably God-centered, and don’t permit ANYONE to invade that bond. Until you marry officially, people will continue to believe that you are using her. I can see you are good hearted, not just to Erica, but to people in general. Make Erica secure.

[@NiklessCele]

He did make her secure he even proposed to her

[@ewanbreizh5675]

​@@NiklessCelehe didn t marry her yet or choose a Day for the wedding did he ?..

[@NiklessCele]

@ewanbreizh5675 he didn't but he was busy planning to and she was busy entertaining her friends and plotting behind his back

[@正順王]

其實男女朋友互信是很重要的，或許艾瑞卡還太年輕不太成熟，因為拍視頻要面對好壞的評論覺得不要太在意，如果真心相愛別在乎別人的批評作自己就對了❤

[@3dyou337]

Eric是单纯的女孩， 但不智慧和理性， 如果一辈子子恒会很累！别在乎别人说什么， 子恒支持你从新开始新的生活！

[@wangyuyeung7821]

@@3dyou337 找伴侣应找個能相互扶持子恒你才不会累，如果一直要你照顾她和她家人，将来有孩子更累了，终有一天你会扛不住的那时就更惨了。父母的反对都是最忠肯为你着想的，决对不会害你。聪明的比单纯的好，能干的比只会发娇的好，找个能干的会帮自己好多，请三思！！

[@kevinchen7458]

2023年5月1日當他們第一次見面，子恆說他要找的是英文老師， ERICA說你不是要找女友嗎？她想了想，接著她就說那不然我也可以當你的英文老師~真是個奇怪的女人！2023年5月25日在她剛剛認識子恒不久，她就約子恒去她家喝酒，然後她還想讓他喝醉，真正單純的女人會計畫讓男人喝酒醉嗎？😂

[@angieharris8049]

Every mother wants you to be their son in law, because you are matured, and very caring, Erica should value you or being grateful to have you in her life.

[@CoreYogaMeditation]

I am sorry to hear this sad sad story. I have been the supporter of your channel from the time you and Erica first met and I remember that I clashed with a lot of negative commenters in the comments section. I became frustrated when Ziheng started posting through Instagram and I remember being so upset that I said some tings that I regret and apologised for because they were unfounded. From the beginning I advised Erica to try and protect her relationship with Ziheng, NOT ONLY from the fans but from her own personal friend group. I may be wrong, but your issues became a topic after you guys came back from Tanzania where Erica celebrated her birthday with her friends. I a not saying having friends is wrong or not good, but one should NOT share ALL their joy and happiness on social media and friends. Some things should be kept between the two of you until your relationship is strong enough to withstand all jealousy and ill wishes from the world and personal friends. Saying all of this to say, the mere fact that the two of you love each other, you make an ideal couple, you are young and have the whole world in front of you, there is just as much STRONG ENERGY that will try to destroy your beautiful union. Eric and Ziheng, you are blessed with beauty, charisma, light and a successful future TOGETHER, not SEPARATELY. The two of you have succeeded in many ways that you wouldn't have if you guys were NOT together. People are confusing Erica by saying she will be successful without you, she may be, but it will take time for her to get to where she is now without you. Remember that it took Ziheng time and many efforts to get his channel to where it is now, and being with Erica has a lot to do with it. Erica, I believe that Ziheng has sacrificed a lot in loving you, but he has also grown a lot as a man by having you in his life. He is one of a kind, a young man whose values I deeply respect and if you are willing to throw that away because of some jealous people in your inner circle and youtube comments I will be heartbroken as Ziheng is WORTH MUCH MUCH MUCH MUCH MORE THAN THAT. I LOVE YOU ERICA AND I LOVE YOU ZIHENG. I WISH YOU A DEEPER UNION WHERE IT'S JUST THE TWO OF YOU AND NO ONE ELSE.❤❤

[@Fatu-s1d]

@@CoreYogaMeditation well done 👍

[@ndoyisilemogale6855]

Wow you have said alot her friends are the once who misled her bcz if jealousy ,remember not even one of friends is married its only a few who were advising her the right way ,she has let go of a very good man 😢

[@CoreYogaMeditation]

​@@ndoyisilemogale6855I think you have misunderstood me. But that's okay... 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@funmilayoalagbe8663]

You have said it all, SUCCESSFULLY TOGETHER NOT SEPARATELY.

[@funmilayoalagbe8663]

Zihenge should reconsider because Erica loves you, unless you are just looking for an excuse to break the relationship. I don't think 3rd parties comments should break your relationship. Many a times I've fought with many of your people saying negative comments about Erica especially your relationship with her. Those negative energy not only from Erica side but also from your people.

[@mmmwzzzz]

It seems like Erica lost her own identity and confidence in the relationship and herself. I feel like I don't see much of her confident personality in new videos. So it's no wonder that outsiders' words, especially ppl she thinks are friends, would further drag her down, causing her to believe in them instead of her partner, Ziheng. Ziheng fought hard for their relationship, even going against his own parents. Erica also sacrificed her family and homeland by staying in China with Ziheng. Relationships are not easy, and both sides have to equally give and take. Wishing the best for them no matter what happens in the end.

[@楊慧眞-h7t]

別太在意別人說什麼⋯⋯那些都不重要的⋯⋯他們又不是妳的家人⋯⋯妳不用太在意別人說什麼⋯⋯不要心情不好

[@lookingup7638]

Many of us started watching because of Xiheng, and then continue to enjoy watching him and Erica. They are both kind people.

[@kay67]

Don't listen to people..they have jealouse mind..break up will give the negative people happy..show them that you two win your relationship

[@SimplyRodah]

Erica , I'm married to a chinese man , Ziheng really loves you , I tell you if you let people influence you you going to regret this choice, people hate to see good things, trust me the people telling you negative stuff are jealous , you wont realise it now however you will know it sooner. Really consider your choose well don't be influenced by anyone about your relationship, ziheng already pave a good future for you , no Chinese man will stand with. u if he doesn't really love you. his family accepted you so what could be the issue. if money talk about it with your ma sis. all the best.

[@collinssilver7075]

Is she the only African girl marry to an Asian guy? We have a lot of them like jennyK from Malawi married to a Japanese guy, so Erica is evil, no remorse and a party and club girl who has no atom of wife material, she was crying acting as the victim

[@milesyang8225]

天啊！到底真的假的啊！你們在一起是如此快樂，為何要聽別人說的呢？😢😢😢我看到的是子恆對艾瑞卡很好，你們是互相的，艾瑞卡必須要有自己的主見，你真的要相信子恆，一路看過來，都是子恆對艾瑞卡的愛，真的希望艾瑞卡理性想想，子恆眼眶都紅了，希望越難走的路你們必須越堅定，好的對象然後自己喜歡的對象其實並不好找，如果真的找到了，必須堅定，因為這個世界上是沒有後悔藥的，艾瑞卡希望你能夠冷靜思考😢

[@justbcuzamhoney]

i love to watch you guys videos and keep up the good work

[@roheysagnia1839]

It is painful but don't listen to them they're the haters just block them, we love you guys ❤️ 😘

[@joyon9569]

能有你这样好的朋友也赚到了,你条件这么好,有你是她们的福气,我看到都是你在帮大家、经济、视野、成长！你是最棒的！

[@chuck3991]

Oh no ... this is sad. I know you guys have a lot of love for each other, maybe this little break will be a good thing. But don't give up on each other. Erica, you need to stand your ground and realise this relationship is more important than those negative friends you might have. I would recommend not seeing those friends while you are back in Africa. Spend time with your family and positive people that accept your life choices and that do not try to manipulate you. Ziheng has always been nothing but good to you, I actually feel bad for him.

[@nasheeanjel9967]

I do hope you two are able to work through this. Trust is the most important thing. You both have to communicate well. You can buy all of the things in the world, but if you are not emotionally satisfied, things will unravel eventually. As far as friends it's ok to emotionally vent or ask for advice to true friends that love you. A true friend that loves you will be fair to both you and your man and tell you after you have vented if you are being unfair and perhaps better ways to work through it. Unless your safety is at risk or your planning a surprise, there's not a reason to hide your interactions. It may still be able to be recovered if you want to. Remember, some people are jealous or mad at their situation and find delight in ruining your relationship. It sounds like the both of you are hurt right now. Take some time and evaluate where you went wrong and how you can make it right to be stronger. I see the affection you have for each other. Do not let friends mistreat your partner, either of you. Also don't let internet comments get into your head. You know your relationship and each other better than someone that sees an edited vlog. Some of the comments are toxic. Support each other positively. Tell each other what you need from each other. No relationship is without its trials. Whatever your insecurity is could be manifesting in another way. Sit with yourself and self reflect. If the love is still there fight for each other. I wish you both happiness!

[@Fatu-s1d]

Erica please stop listening to others when it comes to your relationship, work together to build trust. Not all friends are genuine good friends. I wish you both all the the best.

[@BlasianJamaican]

Erica Ziheng is a good guy,he did so much for this relationship. So said that you are listening to outsiders who probably jealous of your success and want your relationship to fail. Never listen to friends who is not doing better than you

[@fikilemathonsi3713]

He did alot to make this relationship work ,I feel the problem is every time they had a conflict or argument she went to vent to her friends which is normal and ended up planting bad seeds on her brain Imagine she was secretly trying to leave Ziheng cause her friends suggest that and told she can find another boyfriend ..Shocking

[@chris_manga.5627]

Erica please fight for your love this time don't leave the relationship is both yours and zheing don't let the opinions of others bother you ❤don't keep running away

[@kitty3980]

God bless you both ❤❤❤ beautiful Erica and handsome Ziheng! Love forever!!!

[@ThembiMpungose-gw3qy]

This haircut is so refreshing ....newbeginning,new start ❤❤we love you guyz

[@simon671110]

雙方要考慮清楚是分開好還是走一輩子好。不要到了無法挽回後再來懊悔。你們倆人需要深談一下。把最心底的說出來。讓對方知道。

[@mrdouglas5482]

You will never find another man like Ziheng believe me,there is only one Ziheng out there .

[@ndoyisilemogale6855]

She's finished 😂 the won't be another man like him😮

[@annler1705]

Erica, you have known ziheng for so long, how could you don't trust him?😢 Think and look back...all along he was the one helping you to see the world and guided you and both of you also from employee to your boyfriend.. hope do not anyhow listen to others opinions.. Ask yourself do you love him? Once you give up not becoz he is treating you badly or not loving you, you will regret for giving him up. No big issue and do not understand why you give up on him...Hope you think it over😢😢😢If you love him, you stay and must trust him fully in future.. Others opinions is only for you to analyze and think only.. He is a nice, considerate and handsome guy♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️He really loves you🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@kukusyhlygmail.comsyhly]

Without you Ziheng she will not be how she is today. She is beautiful and have and a good person ignore others. If other's comment play a big part of your relationship think over and over again. All the best to both

[@michelleedward8755]

They are both so cute and have really good-looking in every aspect. Beautiful couple.❤

[@Create-d6i]

After watching am searching Erica's channel to speak directly to her. Ziheng has been so good to her and her family she cannotturn back on such a good guy. In Africa such guy are rare. Also I have noted her sisters are not excited of her relationship with ziheng they could also be pressuring erica that she is been used. Erica should mature up and build her relationship

[@userJAM703]

Her channel is still active miss_ericah

[@rosemarywhite4258]

Erica, you have not just a man, you have a Very Good Man. The way he cares for you is more than what most women get from their men. And I said Most. Stop listening to evil people that want to see y’all fail. Misery loves company But when you’re with them, in the same position they are in, they ain’t got nothing for you, But to laugh at you for your loss. Look at that Man, Trust that Man, AND make it that; (ITS YOU AND HIM AGAINST THE WORLD.) YOU AND HIM. So show Him Much Deserved Love And Live Happy. Hope y’all don’t break up. Seeing how He treats You makes me Smile. Give Him more and more of that Same Treatment. Love y’all ❤❤❤

[@gwenmutsago1010]

Erica needs to stop like a toddler she’s 24 years for Christ sake

[@boonteoh2346]

Truly a time to reflect if your relationship is worth your love. Outside influence always interfere in people's love affairs. But, if you are both strong and committed, you both can be a great couple!! ❤❤❤

[@Wantor-Yesu]

Listen to me Erica 🙏 a good man who loves you for you is hard to come by these days. Zheng is a good guy, don't let haters, like i saw in the comment section of a video post, sabotage your relationship. I am really looking forward to your marriage, i love you guys and wish you all the best. May God preserve your relationship. And Zheng please don't let her read those negative comments, protect your relationship from trolls. Hope it makes you stronger

[@RitaTurner-q3f]

I love u2. This my second time watching. I will continue to watch. Stop letting what people say get u down, rise above that. She didn't want to hurt u reason she didn't want u to see what they said. As long as u2 are happy it's good. Be your selves. Stay close an love each other. ❤😊

[@novlettemarshall5813]

Trust in your relationship and each other not in people outside of YOUR relationship. Blessings to you both 🙏🏽🌻

[@中村麗子-t5l]

子恒 我一直在关注你的视频 这是我第一次为你留言 好聚好散 这不是一件坏事 没有信任的爱情是不牢固的 放手吧 你是一个阳光帅气 诚实善良的大男孩 一定会遇到更适合你的女孩的 同为人母 我为你父母松了一口气 祝福你❤🎉🎉🎉

[@activeobserver1150]

“Relieved for his parents.” lol sounds like you believe he is too good for Erica when both of them are of the same energy wavelengths. Let it go. Ziheng loves Erica

[@中村麗子-t5l]

It's my view no matter it's right or not. You can keep your view.​@@activeobserver1150

[@hamandishesibanda7206]

Ericah my dear u really hit jackpot by having Ziheng in your life can't u forget about every advice on your and just focus on Ziheng he is really a blessing to you. He really loves you, I Kno u love him too just give u independence for just one year and focus on your life with Ziheng and see where God will take u to

[@morenitad.3340]

I pray you both be stronger!! And please don't worry about the outside world, because people can be and are cruel to everyone. Dont allow the outsiders to take your peace. You both have endured a lot and also had so much fight within your hearts. Continue to fight and be strong. Pain is strength, and if you believe and stay with good faith. You both will make it. Praying for you Both many blessings 🤍