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[@Mini_EclipseJuly16]

I love the relationship you have with your parents & siblings. And thank you for opening up about your sister & Kevin. I am sure they have their head in the clouds & maybe one day they will come around. ✌🏼

[@vanessaumudi6807]

at what time did she talk about them? trying to find

[@Mini_EclipseJuly16]

@@vanessaumudi6807 I was a comment on a video she made.. she said “Ruby has decided to removed herself from the family.

[@Mini_EclipseJuly16]

@@vanessaumudi6807 the “no hurt feelings video” look at the comments

[@featherjean6291]

@@Mini_EclipseJuly16 this is the no hurt feelings video and I did not hear any mention of Ruby.

[@summerfun20111]

Bonnie saying to Julie, she would store things for her. That’s family. Treasure things from your childhood, they make up your life. One thing I wish I would have done, is write down stories my mom and dad told us, from their childhood. You think you will remember, but you don’t.

[@christinedesnoyer1378]

I just love this sister and her family!! She is so loving and thankful for all she has. Her house is a home. There's a difference between the two. Everyone is together not far away and sharing family time. With larger homes, the families now are separated in different areas different levels. Yes, we all wish for bigger homes. I see her children playing, doing their school work and being so close. Her involvement with them when she brought her baby home was truly touching. She was right there with them all as she was sitting rocking and nursing. What a beautiful caring mom she is. She included all of them and showed interest no matter how tired she was. I remember those days now that I'm older. The days were long, but as I look back now, the years were shorter. It goes by fast Julie. Your home will be filled with all those memories and still be the prefect place and size for you and your children to come home to visit.

[@tsianspencer2898]

Aspen Robinson are u kidding me....they have big families and bigger spaces will be much needed....whats materialistic about that

[@jacquelynnjones1372]

it is so nice to have sisters who are loving and kind. ☺️ I always wanted that but God gave me a tough bunch and we aren’t close sadly. lots of pain in my family. watching you all helps me be hopeful that my children may break the cycle. I am a stay at home mom and the first in my family. I focus a lot on teaching them how to communicate and interact in a Godly way. 🌺

[@alican5695]

Love the relationship you have with your mom, you are all so sweet. ❤️

[@gemmablaza2569]

The love and respect you have for all of each other is so lovely to watch, it shines out so bright it’s almost tangible. Must be so hard to have a part of that withheld from you and very hard for your parents to leave knowing this. You are a beautiful family and I hope one day that the missing kids will see your family light shining through and will have the courage to make their way back to you all. X

[@HeatherSC02]

I feel like time is passing so quickly before they leave but I’m excited for them. I am glad you all can help out now and while they are away. Love to all!

[@zoelynn8774]

So sad to hear about Ruby distancing herself from the rest of the family. But honestly I'm not surprised she is absolutely brainwashed with the connexions cult. Very scary. Sending love to you all xx

[@shellyplant78]

omg i totally agree with you and the way ruby treats her kids i never liked it

[@rachelblache3689]

Where did you heard about it?

[@katieohanlon8721]

I wonder if ruby has ever met Amelia

[@queenofhearts1819]

Ruby has gone off the charts I wish the family could do some sort of intervention for the kids sake.

[@haileyardis3789]

When did she talk about that? I missed that part lol

[@AnxiouslyLiving]

I think this was one of my favourite videos! Your family really does have something so special, you can just feel it. I love seeing all your old childhood toys and trinkets. You girls really took such wonderful care of your things💕

[@Sanecrist]

It’s so sweet your parents kept your stuff in the closet until you were ready to go through memories. My mom converted my childhood bedroom into a massive bathroom.

[@irenemathieson4229]

That was such a sweet video. I loved learning more about your beautiful family. Lucy, you look just like your beautiful mommy. Thank you for singing your Christmas song and showing us the ornaments.

[@sandyc6569]

😊👍.

[@thenemethsfamily2898]

Julie i want to be part of your family.. i dont know but whenever i watch your family vlogs your siblings and parents it makes my heart warm.. im so happy that you guys share your life on KZbin. I am grateful for you guys.

[@JulieDeru]

This means the world. Thank you so much.

[@robinnieto2703]

Julie, I just love your family and love how you include your parents on your videos. I hope they keep up their channel as much as possible while on their mission. I totally get the thing about donating and your dad’s reaction….lol, my husband does the same because he’s sentimental about things.

[@daisystar25970]

Ahhhhh Julie that Hilary Duff CD brought back so many memories! It was so nice seeing a peek into your childhood!

[@heiketheangel546]

This was a very cute video. It’s so exciting to stroll back memory lane and see all the stuff with which we played as kids. Very sweet. Thank you 😊

[@brendad940]

Ahhhh Julie that was sweet to see a peek into your childhood! The vase your mom gave you was beautiful. I love your sweet family. Sending hugs from Wilsonville Oregon.

[@JulieDeru]

Thank you so much. I was so honored to receive such a special gift

[@haleyphillips916]

Hey neighbor! An interesting place to find another Wilsonville Oregon resident. 😊

[@brendad940]

@@haleyphillips916 small world isn't it? 😊 Hi back at you neighbor!

[@anthonylipari5717]

I never really like playing with dolls I always thought they were evil

[@brendad940]

@@anthonylipari5717 I love dolls! Always did and now my granddaughter does, however there are some creepy looking ones out there!

[@Toffee146]

Julie, you look so much like your grandmother. You have her eyes. Beautiful. 💜 Has your mother ever said that? It must be a comfort to her, to see her mother in you. Love sent from Sheffield, England. 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧

[@ames218]

I love that Bonnie comes in and she's like I love this doll for Julie so sorry kids we're keeping it😂 so cute

[@ames218]

Also I'm a little mind blown how I wasn't subscribed to you when I was and never unsubscribed myself..... 🤔

[@kimcwhite6509]

This was a really cute video Julie! I enjoyed seeing some of your childhood treasures. I like that you don't get easily offended. You are a very kind daughter❤️

[@ilyboo1995]

Its so fun for me to go through old memories with pictures. I wish I had a closet like this at my mom's house. Thank you for letting me live vicariously through you. What fun treasures for you to share with your littles! I enjoyed the video 💕 I love keeping up with your whole family!

[@justcallmejessz3712]

It's actually such a great idea keep a box of your siblings keepsakes. It really does change the mindset of keeping a box in storage. It's easier to go through a box and think.... awe... maybe one day I'll want this... and then easier convincing yourself you really don't need to keep it and take up space. But if it is a box of your siblings stuff there isn't that tug of war in your mind about keeping it or tossing it. And then one day everyone appreciates it.

[@LJ13222]

I love seeing your interactions with you mom, and entire family! So sweet and genuine and so much love ❤️❤️

[@monstana]

Julie, what a fun video! Thank you so much for showing us your personal items! I love to reminisce.

[@yugenyugen4594]

Hi Julie! I just came from the Connexions KZbin channel. And I must say, from the bottom of my heart, how sorry I am for your family. Their content is so devastating and damaging for the children, and everyone involved. I really hope Ruby comes to her senses one day. Beau must feel so betrayed by Rubys close relationship with Jodi, given that Jodi broke her confidentiality agreement with Beau. Especially when he was in such a vulnerable state in the first place. I also feel deeply for Julie, who I saw felt so safe being around Olivia. Lastly, I feel for you and your family and I wish you all the very best.

[@marlaf2712]

What do you mean? Where did you hear about the situation with Beau?

[@tbausten2383]

How do you come up with this stuff?

[@noramcnabb1361]

@@marlaf2712 jodi lost her mental health licensing years ago because she broke confidentiality to tell the BYU honor code office of someones porn addiction.

[@iamthatchild7308]

@@marlaf2712 face book

[@tanyaess4463]

@@marlaf2712 the thing about Beau is on Conexxions Google review page. He left a one star review about Jodi breaking her confidentiality agreement!!

[@dianeh.3327]

It’s so fun going through old stuff and the memories it brings up! Enjoyed this video!

[@lalabear6]

OK but that Hilary Duff CD was my LIFE!!! Core memories right there 💗💗💗

[@jennroberts5763]

Thank you for sharing. Not that you owe us to share every detail of your personal life to us. I really loved this video. Sending prayers your way :)

[@kristacarlson4138]

Of all of Julie’s siblings, I think Julie is the most half/half of Chad and Jennifer. Bonnie is all Chad’s side and Ellie is all Jennifer. Ruby and Beau also favor the Griffith side, but that’s just me!

[@sandyc6569]

I loved this! Thank you for sharing yur beautiful family with us!! 👍💞💝💞👍

[@andariusmcguire5501]

And I’m so sad that your grandma and grandpa is gone for 2 year mission and they will come back really soon to love all the grandkids

[@TheMichellebickel]

There is something so special about handing down an old childhood toy or stuffed animal. Thanks for sharing!

[@sandyc6569]

I agree! 😊👍

[@lisalovessummertime8453]

Love the vlogs and oh my goodness is Amelia ever getting big...she is crawling and so cute. 💖🤗

[@martiem2500]

That was my favorite of your vlogs. I loved all the interactions and memories and the love of family.

[@SusyTH]

Just gone done watching! Gets busy when you have 5 kids to tend to, and have to plan a trip to Walmart without the hubby seeing his gift! (I have a feeling he saw it, as I required the Store Standards to help cart it to the cash area, and to the car. I looked to my right, and he was sitting there with one of the kids....)

[@rawlyroo5975]

Praying for all of you and your family members ❤️

[@lucyvalencia7738]

Ruby is crazy not allow her family to be apart of your wonderful loving family that so many won’t ever have the chance to be apart of.

[@amypletcher4411]

What happened that they became so distant??!! It is so sad that she is not on camping or reunion adventures or just regular gatherings anymore with all of you guys!

[@lucyvalencia7738]

@@amypletcher4411 the connexion’s cult has ruined their whole family

[@iamthatchild7308]

@@amypletcher4411 she joined a this spiritual thing and lost her mind! They had a problem wit them not agreeing on it so they just stop coming around completely

[@schenellefrancis6874]

This is a wholesome truthful vlog. We love you all!

[@JulieDeru]

It was definitely a fun day with my parents

[@SusyTH]

Memory lane is always fun, especially good memories! ...but it sure does make decluttering hard & a very long process.

[@abbywenger2328]

Awwww I love the flashback memory pictures and trinkets!

[@pathofadragonfly]

You have such an amazing loving family! Love your vlogs!

[@navjotbal6904]

Goodmorning Deru Crew family.Awww these are the beautiful memories. Love watching your volgs.❤️❤️

[@edithdimuro101]

I really enjoyed this.

[@KLAY1946]

Y'all should really discuss the real family feud with ruby. I came to your familys KZbin channels because of the entire family and the bond y'all all had with each other and I miss seeing everyone together.

[@JulieDeru]

We miss it too .

[@KLAY1946]

@@JulieDeru I'm praying for your family, love to you all

[@sandracahill7521]

I’d say it’s their business if the whole family wanted to discuss her they would .

[@lastdays8500]

@@sandracahill7521 agreed. It's their family, not ours even though for years it was as though we all were one family virtually too.

[@KIM-kp9tq]

@@JulieDeru shame connexions has made ruby view you guys as distorted and toxic. How tragic when all there was was love

[@landonderu8814]

This is probably one of my favorite videos. ❤️

[@livinglifeacademy777]

I love watching your family!!

[@stinkyjett]

Lucy looks just like you as a kiddo Julie!!

[@jacquelynglickertharringto6748]

I started watching your sister Bonnie and Ellie KZbin and then I found your channel I just love the relationships between your kids and cousins and your sisters and brothers family you feel like your apart of my family I love watching all of your videos with family

[@mayamiller8748]

I know it's not part of my business to intervene but because it's close to my heart I will respond.. My family recently is going through a family breakdown and it's complicated and I'm sure it's complicated in your case as well. My grandfather and grandmother don't answer my phone calls. I can not explain the feeling and pain of granddaughter who wants to be in touch and does not get an answer. My grandparents were not at my sister's newborn son's birthday party. Have never seen their great-grandson. hope all goes well for you as for me. family is were love is unconditionally!

[@kaycieb4464]

I think consoles are great if not better than traditional board game. My siblings and I definitely bonded more playing mario and wii party, but it also taught us patience and sharing as we didn’t all a controller each 😂 such a poignant childhood memory of mine.

[@lisashrader3638]

I just love your family !! All are so cute and sweet!!! 🤗

[@1daySomeday]

i adore all the sisters but my favorite is Bonnie!

[@katiealbers438]

Does your family still have a relationship to Ruby and her family? I haven’t seen her at any of your holiday festivities with all your other family? Just curious if something happened?

[@bealright834]

Ruby has control issues and likes keeping her family doing as she says… Kevin is also a Puppet sadly.

[@JulieDeru]

Ruby has chosen to distance herself. Hopefully one day she will come around.

[@bealright834]

@@helenmchugh4632 No doubt she loves her family to the moon and back but there are some toxic traits involved. I think the negative attention made things worse and now she’s distancing herself as Julie says above because she doesn’t want anymore of that bad attention. It’s a shame. I miss seeing the family all together.

[@bd2885]

@@JulieDeru Thank you for the answer! we are waiting for this answer for over a year now.. will pray for you 🙏🏻

[@josieloveyou2624]

I’ve never commented on this matter. It’s none of my business but it is sad for the cousins. They are missing out on so many memories and bonding because of their mother’s choices. Your cousins become your lifelong friends.

[@coisard5]

Your family is so precious.

[@Bindigirl7]

Wish I had a family like this.

[@NikkiScatch84]

Hope you guys had a great trip! Cruises are fun!

[@bryanbearsley6227]

aww i love your family so much

[@jillarmbruster6072]

I love you all so much hugs and smiles #stay strong and stay safe ❤🤟❤🤟❤🤟❤🤟❤🤟❤🤟❤🤟🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@jennacills5164]

this my favorite youtuber family vlogs

[@MultiCinderella23]

Lucy is precious!

[@vanessaspencer355]

Porclin Dolls scare the he'll out of me only because I had a haunted porclin doll that rocked off the shelf by itself. No one was walking, jumping etc nothing was disturbing it. It did by itself fell off the shelf lost its eyes

[@hannahbyas1488]

Loved this vlog from new Zealand been a fan for a while now Lucy is definitely your mini me 💕

[@carmenj5045]

I had a few porcelain dolls for my girls … they find them creapy

[@wanupgirl]

Julie i know how you feel my mom sold the home they've been living in since I was just graduating grade 8 and are moving to another province and she brought me a bunch of my old stuff so now I have nothing in that house and she's moving in a few months to start a new adventure for her and my step dad.

[@jillianstevens8960]

How are your parents doing with distancing yourselves from ruby and her family? I feel like it's always harder for the older generation

[@veronicaphiri7432]

Little Lucy is TOOOO MUCH CUTENESS

[@marykelley8965]

Miss Ruby and her family as well loved her videos…

[@daddy4728]

She chose to distance herself from the family. ‘Connexions’ KZbin should explain how her views are on her family.

[@esmee427]

Miss them too

[@chloefrazier1289]

It's So Sad That Ruby Pretty Much has Nothing To Do With Her Family At This Point It's All Jodi And Connexions Fulit.

[@pallaviphalke2492]

Awwwh Amelia is getting so big and cute

[@WildOrsonNatureAdventures]

Omg, Lincoln looks just like you!

[@freindude123]

It’s so funny because my family always refers to the thrift store as “the DI” even if it’s not DI😂 we call goodwill, Salvation Army, etc DI. So funny

[@Frickin_Corrine]

Memories are so fun!

[@hollieawad7780]

That’s so cute I love them

[@donnaellis3370]

I have an anti donation dad too. I had to sneak donations out of the house, or schedule donations and put them where the donations could not be seen from the front door. Hoping dad would not see the truck pull up. He is not living with me now. I can donate freely.

[@courtascot]

Rubys Julie looks a lot like you as a kid julie. And also Lucy looks a lot like you too

[@annalevermore7857]

lovely family

[@krmfam4878]

So I don't understand, are they cleaning it all out because Bonnie is going to use the house? The house looked so bare! I'm excited for them tho, they're going to have such an amazing time! Bet it was fun to go through all your old stuffs :)

[@JulieDeru]

It isn't bare, they have always kept things clean and simple. It's just easy for things to pile up that you don't need. They are cleaning it up because it always feels good to leave your home clean (whether that is for a week trip or a 2-year mission). Also yes, if Bonnie ends up living there it will be ready for her.

[@krmfam4878]

@@JulieDeru Yay! I'm so so excited for them!

[@AnxiouslyLiving]

@@JulieDeru I started to get rid of “crap” and have learned to appreciate a clean home and space because of your family. I’m 27 now but better late than never haha! Thanks for setting a good example💕

[@stinkyjett]

Oh my gosh!! The Nintendo!! How freaking fun!! 😆

[@hutchiea1]

Will your folks return to this house after their mission or are they selling it?

[@sandramahadeo4910]

Hi I’m a first time subscriber to your channel but I’m a subscriber to your parents and sister I’m missing your parents already because I watch all of their videos and vlogs to you and your family stay safe bye.

[@hollieawad7780]

You should keep everything keep it

[@spoostad]

I love your family videoes. Are you and Ellie twins? I also love to watch you moms channel and Elle and jared and Bonnie and Joel. All of the children are precious. Who are the other sibling couples?

[@nicholefrank1769]

Julie you are a gem 💎

[@YolandasLifeVlogs]

I CAN'T! 😭 I'VE SEEN ALL THE HOME VIDEOS. IT'S HARD TO WATCH. 😪 ❤️❤️❤️

[@Shiloh.Tumanuvao]

Ellie we Stan a 90’s Queen🙌🏽 Hilary Duff FTW🙌🏽💜

[@wendycooper3263]

Maybe Emma would like to have your porcelain doll on her dresser in her bedroom? Just a thought 🥰 She might even like the glass purse.

[@boxxi1126]

Hi Julie, super cute video. I have an honest question/concern.....do you think with the 'crazy that is Connextions' that Ruby's kids are okay? Are they 'allowed' or able to reach out to another trusted adult (other than their parents) with any concerns they may be having or feeling? Take Care

[@Belibra14]

Lol, I was just going to tell you to sneak the stuff your mom wants to get rid of out using your car and then you said it. 😆

[@miss_lyss2166]

That baby picture of you looks exactly like Lucy 😳😳😳

[@gina8546]

Your children are beautiful

[@533134]

Little Julie looks like Lucy!

[@kathymallory1044]

Lucy is so cute. Amelia favors Lucy some she has black hair but is cute too. You and Landon have cute children.

[@shellyplant78]

I LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEE DOLLS ❤️🌸❤️ please stay safe and well and have a a great day or night from Worcestershire in England ❤️🌸❤️

[@dangeiger9796]

Did Jared and Landon both go to Finland on missions?

[@JulieDeru]

Yep, that is how they met and how Jared met Ellie. It was all history from their ;)

[@dangeiger9796]

@@JulieDeru if you haven’t already, you should make a video telling that story

[@marleymae6746]

Lucy is your mini me Julie!

[@angieallen5810]

Julie and Grandma Griffiths, thanks for making me feel better about sneaking things into the garbage without telling my husband lol

[@JulieDeru]

Hahaha 🤣

[@stinkyjett]

How many years between you and all the siblings? Ellie looked so tiny in that photo with you girls

[@estirubner5825]

I’m a new subscriber ur family is so sweet love u guys I’m gonna get to know u now by being subscribed have a wonderful week❤️

[@33Missmeka]

Who else thought that was Ellie sitting in the rocking chair with the baby?

[@crc5035]

Some sale at

[@cwsjohn]

Julie, was wondering if your parents are renting their house out or just leaving it empty while they are gone on their mission. I think it is so sweet that your mom shares and gifts things that were special to her.

[@sandyleonard1605]

I’m not Julie but I can share what I’ve heard. Bonnie and Joel are building a new home and are putting their house on the market and will be living in Jennifer and Chad’s home until their’s is finished.

[@katieohanlon8721]

Just a quick question Has ruby ever met Amelia? Xx 😘