As a rule, I never date single mothers. Life is easy, don't make it more difficult than it needs to be.
@reviewandbuy79553 жыл бұрын
I take them out as a guide and not as a date. I tour the city with her in her car with her child and pay her as a guide. I get a local guide and she gets a deserved help
@roberthornbrook83743 жыл бұрын
But be carful that that they don’t want to much money for schooling the child can be complicated but can be a good experience
@chrisjuricichxl53 жыл бұрын
@@roberthornbrook8374 fwiw, we shoulder our ex-driver's three daughters' college and high school expenses but do it cuz we can afford to and just as a way of giving bck to the local community. we fired her dad for various reasons but the kids are still good
@johnerdelyi483 жыл бұрын
You are low on there list child, parents, brothers, sisters, relatives, friends then you no thanks been there done that !
@chrisjuricichxl53 жыл бұрын
@@johnerdelyi48 this presumes one has gotten involved with a bargirl, I'm thinking. I've never dated nor had any long-term interest in sexworkers and all that you say is probably true, but my wife worked in advertising, made good money, etc.
@mommyscouch83703 жыл бұрын
this guy thinks every woman wants him but i sée he is always alone 🤣🤣
@totosugiarto10613 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@Historian19423 жыл бұрын
Hahaha !
@genesis11983 жыл бұрын
The flip side is you have got to accept and support her kids and her family members as well. By that I mean financially. That's how it usually goes in Thailand.
@MaxhAllenh3 жыл бұрын
Yes because everywhere else when you take on a step child it is acceptable to be negligent? What’s your point ? Have you met women ?
@genesis11983 жыл бұрын
@@MaxhAllenh You can bet your last dollar I have. Perhaps you didn't get my drift. You could end up supporting the rest of her family members, which if you think is reasonable then you will be in for a nasty surprise.
@MaxhAllenh3 жыл бұрын
@@genesis1198 no I’m just interested in which Thai women you’ve met. You must associate with such women generally because I’d bet that there are sukhumvit girls that have rings worth more than your house
@MaxhAllenh3 жыл бұрын
@@genesis1198 you also seem to be unfamiliar with a ‘nuclear family’ where, stereotypically, the husband as the head of the family is the breadwinner. This idea cannot be new to you
@Imshivrajmeena10 ай бұрын
😢true, I was in relationship with a thai single mother even I never married in real. I still love her but dating or being in relationship with a single thai mother was a terrible experience of my life. She cheated on me and deserted me alone. And honestly I was thinking to marry her this year. But before I confess I caught her cheating. After it I went through a hard break up. I genuinely love her and she did this.. many things more beside this but bad experienced, never date otherwise u will lose everything
@maxthereof3 жыл бұрын
Sry man, I kinda disagree. Too many beautiful non-mothers available out there. Kids are cool, i like them. But unless it's a natural, organic, everything clicks attraction, why complicate things..
@johncitizen99962 жыл бұрын
Lived here 7 for years. Thai women are wonderful. The problem with most foreigners is they fall in love with a bar girl. Her aim is to send you broke. Most of them have pimp boyfriends. I live in a village with only Thais. I'm the soul foreigner. Married a beautiful lady and we have a child. Your words ring true 👍
@10MinutestoRouletteFortune3 жыл бұрын
My lady friend is a single Mom and a school teacher in Udan Thani. Her kids are grown and her brother is a cop. That's a great connection to have. She's a great friend with.......for now......in country benefits with a mature woman that doesn't play games. She knows for now we have to be apart until I fully retire in a year. She knows I don't want to marry and she is OK with that. She really is a kind calm lady to be around. Good for the soul and very caring. It's such and unusual feeling.
@lamegamer27763 жыл бұрын
It's to many single woman to be dating a single mother. End of story. If you don't have kids don't take on someones else kids.
@chrisjuricichxl53 жыл бұрын
i'd think twice perhaps but it all worked out for me some 39 years ago.
@lamegamer27763 жыл бұрын
@@chrisjuricichxl5 your a lucky guy Chris but the world has changed.
@Boobie.Rashard3 жыл бұрын
*unless you want too
@martingarcia37873 жыл бұрын
In my opinion single moms are like ladyboys.. they must be avoided at all times 😂😂
@partybythepool97463 жыл бұрын
Ç
@hanglee55863 жыл бұрын
Single moms in SE Asia are taboo by the local men, but I love Filipina single moms had a girlfriend there for 5 years and now starting a new relationship with another one.
@paullee39523 жыл бұрын
Dating a single mom can be a great experience. But be aware of any financial issues
@chrisjuricichxl53 жыл бұрын
particularly so if you're a senior and she's a much younger lovely...and where you met her...and if she's a bargirl...or was...
@realbro1415 Жыл бұрын
I'll pass, don't want another's Man responsibility on me. Too much of a headache and unnecessary drama...💯
@Imshivrajmeena10 ай бұрын
Oh, I missed the red flags in blind love and now paying mental health issues, financially almost bankrupt... and back to home after 5 years. Everything good until you don't know that she is using you. Trust a woman and u will see real world.
@luisaevans47553 жыл бұрын
This is so disheartening to be honest, It’s not easy to raise kids alone as a woman. I’m a single mom and I felt really bad seeing this. I lost my husband to accident but that didn’t make me give up on my kids. Thank God I made some good decisions about my finances, today I own a house in CA and I live happily with my 3 kids. Right now I don't need any man
@lindabarbara96443 жыл бұрын
I'm inspired! Currently saving to buy a house too, this means alot to me at this time. Can you share tips to improve my income
@hermannweber24413 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to you! You need loads of cash to own a house in California. You did it! Congratulations 🎉
@luisaevans47553 жыл бұрын
@@lindabarbara9644 I can share some that helped me 1. Plan towards it 2. Be frugal and minimal on spending (don't buy what you don't need) 3. Save money towards retirement(Roth IRA/401k) 4. Build and emergency fund 5. Invest! Save to invest, it's a proven way to get richer. Very important to financial success
@lindabarbara96443 жыл бұрын
@@luisaevans4755 speaking of investing, I've heard alot but I don't really know how to get started
@ohno57183 жыл бұрын
Well see that's the problem to begin with. You think a man is only worth being with if you need him. You should be with s man because you love him, need is completly irrelevant.
@Neddie2k3 жыл бұрын
There is no upside to playing another man’s saved game.
@kinknight822 жыл бұрын
Cue the black kids meme running around saying OOOHHHH!!!
@H1GHD3FF2 жыл бұрын
@@kinknight82 he's right. Whether you do it the right way or not. Men dont want someone else's responsibility
@ma.melinegarcia5639 Жыл бұрын
Great video
@raymorales50994 ай бұрын
Minos how do you validate/verify if they are married, separated or with many boyfriends? How do you trust them if they are seeing others? Thx great channel. Keep up great work. From California/USA
@SHAFARTE.3 жыл бұрын
Well done, outstanding on the music, and yes life is hard for any mother, without a GREAT, MEN BY HER SIDE... SO ALL MOTHER SHOULD Choose wisely When trying to find a GREAT man, IN THIS WORLD. PEACE OUT.
@kinknight822 жыл бұрын
I'm guessing you was raised by a single mother? 🤣🤣🤣🤦
@farangforevet17093 жыл бұрын
The vast majority of bar girls in Thailand is single mams.......if a lady is working with this job for too many years and she get used to easy money and sponsors it is difficult to help her return to a normal way of thinking. Saying that I know many people who are married and have a strong and happy marriage with a Thai single mother even if they worked in a beer bar.
@Fiat-kl6lt3 жыл бұрын
Don't look for trouble... Being carefree, free n easy is the way to go in Thailand.
@san991692 жыл бұрын
Where do I get this single mom's in Pattaya can anyone tell me the place where do I get single moms
@chrisjuricichxl53 жыл бұрын
i married a single Mom some 36 years ago; my wife born in the Philippines.You get a 'package deal' in that now you're as responsible for a child as she is. Daughter is now 46 and a college professor.
@bobbydelgado45023 жыл бұрын
Only a good deal for a man w no kids and doesn't want any of his own . Any woman with a child means You are NOT her 1st Priority. Never will be. 2) All the$$, emotion and time you put in ? does Not benefit you nor your DNA-Legacy. Anything time, $$ spent on Her kid(s)? Takes away from your own You helped propagate and enhance Another man's DNA-Lineage. Facts. Generally speaking.. the only reason a single mother is available for us to date is because the man before us Didn't want her. So a man better make Damn sure if he is taking that on? That he gets Everything he needs and wants in a partner, And some.
@chrisjuricichxl53 жыл бұрын
@@bobbydelgado4502 well, I'm not quite as mercenary in my approach to viewing women as you seem to be. I wouldn't even consider a bargirl or a woman in the sex industry as a potential mate in any case, with a kid or not. That's just foolish. My wife was from the Philippines, had a 7 year old and at the time it all made sense to pursue therelationship. I have no regrets...and she wasn't a bargirl...just for the record. A 'working girl' with a 9-5 job
@bobbydelgado45023 жыл бұрын
@@chrisjuricichxl5 No man should consider any bar girl for anything serious. Should be common sense. But the saying goes .. that common sense.. isn't that common. Raising another man's child isn't easy. But if the natural father Isn't there? And You are? Good for the kids to have you. Good on you for stepping up. All children deserve a Father. Households are usually better with one present. Sounds like both the mother and child Love and appreciate you.. .as they should. I am glad you have that. Nor sure if we were supposed to not agree? Or argue? But I have nothing but happiness when things work out well for people. Happiness/ Love Is always the goal. Happy 4th.
@chrisjuricichxl53 жыл бұрын
@@bobbydelgado4502 good to hear. my only point is that having a one-size-fits-all view of avoiding single mothers as potential partners will cut you out of possible pluses. It's risky enough with just a single woman; at least with the kids one might get 'saddled with' they're usually very happy to have you around.
@bobbydelgado45023 жыл бұрын
@@chrisjuricichxl5 I don't disagree with that at all. And in my experience, many of them are lovely Women and try har, work hard and do their best to be good mom's. Still, even with the best single moms? Some facts Still are also True. Generally, you STILL HAVE ALL of the Responsibility of the Father, Bills, mental, emotional,spiritual health and we'll being for the family. Protection, Yet None of the Rights as th Father. No say in discipline or custody, because they ain't yo kids. At the end of the relationship, All the $$ , emotions, Time and All resources that you put in? Gone, Over. You get Literally Nothing. She/ they Alllll benefitted from You. What do you leave with? Do you have any right or visitation? With kids you loved, invested in and raised as your own? Aside from Sex/ dating? Why would Any man do that? More women than men, just go get your own, start your own family. Step daddy moves, are what blue pill/ beta guys do to secure Regular sex w a chick they think is above their level. But by offering her stability, safety, and protector of Her kids? He enhances his position in her life.. maybe even eventually making 1 for himself. It's how Betas evolved to survive.. possibly pro create.. Taking Alpha leftovers and making a meal of it for their table, legacy. At the end of the day.. the main reason most baby mom's are even available.. is because He didn't want her.. she had a baby for him... For dudes they ain't Married to? Anchor baby bro... Her way of ensuring there is a legacy/ bond/ contact.. until it gets so toxic they part.. Why would you? Anybody want to come bat cleanup With those Dynamics? Not even talking about a toxic, angry, loud mouth Every man is dumb, dawg, wrong types of mindsets?
@jnk37753 жыл бұрын
Do not cheat her or she would cheat you back.. You cannot trust anybody in a short period of getting to know someone…
@MASSEY503 жыл бұрын
I like the narration videos best Minos has a great humor
@bakbak353 жыл бұрын
You will never be her 1st priority in life , her family is number 1 , maybe if lucky you will be around 4th or 5th
@deanmohamed7952 жыл бұрын
Good advice 😃
@skyjacksonA12 жыл бұрын
That's so nice I though that I was going to have a hard time finding a life partner as a single mother but me and my husband have a great relationship I asked him why he didn't just date someone with a kid years ago he said they were too dumb irresponsible and easy
@shyamrathod86992 жыл бұрын
good👍
@bossdog14803 жыл бұрын
This guy doesn't understand single mothers at all.😁Only some of them are like he is describing. 90% of beer bar girls are mums anyway. You need to ask yourself, How did they get to be single mums in the first place?
@mikeharrington55933 жыл бұрын
Makes a lot of sense at the personal level but no good if you like to travel light. You know what I mean - baggage, & also a lot of them are damaged emotionally from the previous abusive relationship(s)
@Boobie.Rashard3 жыл бұрын
This is the issue. Prejudice assumptions based on one fact you know about someone. Not every single woman was in an abusive relationship to become single.
@avituschia764 Жыл бұрын
isit in phuket?
@kishormails3 жыл бұрын
nice vlog you touch a very good sublect meturity honesty gurented 😊
@Lenny44003 жыл бұрын
I would rather date a single mother instead of a woman without a child.l been married before.l know a lot of guys would love to be involved with a single mother! How to meet these type a women?
@donaldttv3 жыл бұрын
I think this was put together well, but most if not all of your opinions about Thailand single moms would apply to most single moms around the world... raising a child will do that to a person and I'm also thinking there must be some single moms in Thailand who don't mature properly but i believe they are the exception and not the rule.
@raselcma3 жыл бұрын
Bro, You have a lot of sense of humor and have a good heart. I know a korean men who has been living in Dhaka, Bangladesh for 13 years. He may be now 23 years of age. He have two youtube channel named " KOREAN VHAI " He is so popular in Bangladesh because of his youtube channel. This channel is in both from korean and Bangali. So I have learned lots of things about so many koreans good sense of humor but one thing bother me about korean society, it's "Racism" but I believe everyone is not same. Thanks for your this sensible video.
@shuroddaniels80523 жыл бұрын
Single mothers are pretty much the same all over the world.
@alexp.21662 жыл бұрын
That's true. But only the half truths. In Thailand you have special culture of the family. It's all about the old family. You are tolerated as long as you pay, or bring a situation that the women can give all her money away. You want come forward in your life....dream on. The priority nr1 is support the family. You are the last on the list. That is what the most men don't understand in the blind love.
@chunderwunderwhinger13312 жыл бұрын
Single mothers ,..simple intention for you as a FALANG...pay for me & my FAMILY... mother,father,sisters,brothers,cousins, ex hushband ,buffaloes,chickens, pigs & dogs n cats ...this is Thailand ...you will never understand the BEAUTY of its SOUL !
@roberthornbrook83743 жыл бұрын
But let’s be honest not all but most of these thai woman have two children with a local Thai man but then say there know good and drink to much and then want to meet a foreign man with a good heart note I said not all but yes some are hard working so if you do choose one make sure she is at least on 30 000 per month
@toomuchinformationforu99193 жыл бұрын
If you meet a Thai woman and she says she has kids under 20 years old then run for your life , I made the mistake of being in a relationship with a Thai with a 12 y/o and I regret it every day .walk away guys ,go find a singe lady.
@rajubhaivyas14503 жыл бұрын
Are you sure...!? Then Witch country's lady good for we...!!? Sir please help me...!! Please my lord i am really want your type of persons answers need...!! Please sir help me 🙏
@jimcameron98483 жыл бұрын
Do not date your own single mom, with the exception of West Virginia, Kentucky, and Prince Edward Island.
@Boobie.Rashard3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao nice
@Neo-zg9zz3 жыл бұрын
How about my widowed mom, She's HOT and from South Carolina. My sisters Dad, our Uncle passed away last weekend so she's up for grabs now. Although my Granddad is eyeing her for his third wife.
@realbro1415 Жыл бұрын
You forgot Alabama and Mississippi...😂😂😂
@makgedambyah6883 жыл бұрын
a Thai's single mom promotional video. nice!
@rajubhaivyas14503 жыл бұрын
What are you asking Sir..!?🙏
@makgedambyah6883 жыл бұрын
no I'm not asking something.. just commenting about the video
@jimchokdeesal30573 жыл бұрын
it all depends on the personality of the woman isn't it ...
@MylittleDiary22-233 жыл бұрын
My life is useless.....I hope I can become useful someday to someone
@reviewandbuy79553 жыл бұрын
Bro please help me. Or will you help only girls?
@rajubhaivyas14503 жыл бұрын
@@reviewandbuy7955 .... what is your problem....!!?🙏 Please ask me...
@imageguyimageguy13163 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed dating single moms, they do have their priorities! YOU just have to understand you are last on the priority list UNTIL you're trust worthy in Their eyes.. If you offer to help and it's not always about money.. more or less the chores that are every day.. Sharing the chores. being dependable is probably the most important. mo ey always makes things easier.. of course. right it takes a long time before trust with children happens.. Its a MUCH longer process to date single moms.. It is a challenge but I enjoyed the challenge. I have children all grown all successful.
@davidmichichim46282 жыл бұрын
Why second hand when you can first ✋
@user-pu8hl7zc8f3 жыл бұрын
In my country Singapore million. Hahaha
@dr73193 жыл бұрын
The title says "Dating" Single Moms not "Marrying" single Moms.
@mickeysouky30023 жыл бұрын
I love that one video are they the same type has in the USA just currious cause I don’t want the same mentality if it worthed I might go visit Thailand I want a loving serrious relationship.
@solarfunction18472 жыл бұрын
As soon as I can make a living from an online business then I know where I will go for a wife
@sbfk13 жыл бұрын
I wish my mom was single so Minos could be my father.
@timdingleakajacksparrow27483 жыл бұрын
Maybe / Maybe not 🤔🤔🤔🤷🏼♂️⁉️Depends on the Person in Question 👌✅🇹🇭🇹🇭🇹🇭
@patrickmcdonald40963 жыл бұрын
Good job.
@John-hp2hg3 жыл бұрын
I don't want someone who's mature, I want someone I can mature along with. Having a child from another man is a big burden and it makes zero sense to date/marry them, unless the man is a bit of a failure himself. In business, marriage, or any other relationship, both parties involved need to be on a similar level, or else one party will end up resenting the other.
@wolschu58953 жыл бұрын
Some people get lots of buzz in being Mother Teresa. See how this can wear off, if not all good. In between a single mother and a bar girl there are many more choices.
@STOK5OH3 жыл бұрын
Yikes, not a chance. People need to let go of the codependency plague and raise their standards.
@dignifyrsuchiang60853 жыл бұрын
Yep its not good to just date them ,pass time, they already have problems raising their child
@1NobleGiant3 жыл бұрын
99% of the guys watching this video aren't going to be areas where non tourists would be welcomed.
@raanunnaki97192 жыл бұрын
Foreigners are welcomed and loved all over Thailand as long as you geniunely respect the culture and people.
@wendyshoo34763 жыл бұрын
Single moms are awesome
@sattarsikdar72683 жыл бұрын
Wow sweet
@positivethink40253 жыл бұрын
4.35♥️😍
@taneikfai47183 жыл бұрын
Ok💪💪💪
@taneikfai47183 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@goldaddict45893 жыл бұрын
Single moms thai are focus on life, not disco, only familly. It can be borring, but if you want real relation its the best choice😉
@MrMarloncorea3 жыл бұрын
Very useful data Bro 👍but how to detect if a single mum is really for a serious relationship or one night stand? How do u feel it from her? Helping her out on her duties with children and finance support is understanding.but what if she change?
@shutting883 жыл бұрын
So many of them are ok to have sex on the first date, so you and she can decide if both of you want to continue seeing each other.
@toomuchinformationforu99193 жыл бұрын
serious relationship but kids come first ,second ,third and fourth ,you my friend are after that.
@MsCwebb3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, no..hard pass lol
@jojohns19493 жыл бұрын
Why are they single Did there husband pass away and they have no support???
@rajubhaivyas14503 жыл бұрын
Right question Sir...👍
@Majestros2 жыл бұрын
Don't look after somebody else's kid
@Uprising7712 жыл бұрын
dont ever get involved with.another man's children
@Darius18663 жыл бұрын
I have all they need, where is the one I need?
@adotholland223 жыл бұрын
ps no date thai,,its not jour culture en country
@rexenawteckchin98983 жыл бұрын
I want it too....any chance for single daddy with little of sugar?
@carryminati47503 жыл бұрын
Don't make fun or dnt take advantage of depressed ladies.. somehow these girls managing with their child..
@rajubhaivyas14503 жыл бұрын
You are right Sir ji 🙏💐
@雷霆雨露皆是君恩3 жыл бұрын
subtitles no good
@황철-o7s3 жыл бұрын
수어이 막막..ㅎㅎㅎ
@jimandjackandhank79383 жыл бұрын
Why you speaking Korean in thailand lol
@mamunabdullah12653 жыл бұрын
Boos give me single mom fon no place
@bobjayboxing38043 жыл бұрын
Simpin not ez
@adamp.25173 жыл бұрын
I'd rather make single moms than take care of them.
@farangutan67733 жыл бұрын
stay away , it's all about your money .
@craigschuler15473 жыл бұрын
And she will want you to help pay for her mistakes.
@stewartcameron15163 жыл бұрын
Yes - like clear her debt - pay for her kids tuition - pay all the bills - and then they want all the rest a new house - new car - buy gold -- buy land - help pay for her parents sick buffaloe, etc .
@rajubhaivyas14503 жыл бұрын
Oh my God. .!!🙏
@rajubhaivyas14503 жыл бұрын
@@stewartcameron1516 .... what a true asking you man...!! Oh my God...👍