I just told my friend this. She was so stressed by friends and family and their expectations for their day. I reminded her that it’s their day!! Plain and simple and you’ll start to resent the ppl you love if you don’t put up boundaries. Yes they love you and yes you want them to feel a part of it all but it’s the couple that should decide because it’s your union.
@nik0531 Жыл бұрын
I would push the wedding date back if it were a venue I absolutely wanted! This celebration should be about you all and you should do it just the way you want. I think families will be understanding and also would want nothing but the best for you!
@gailsokol7832 Жыл бұрын
me too
@francinethomas7762 Жыл бұрын
Noorie. A thought... Consider investing in wedding planner to assist with venue, options and details. Let a professional be stressed to get both of you your wedding vision. In terms of a venue, no guarantees on venues, or time. Consider search for a better one! Both of you are the focus of this union, so make it easy for yourselves. A wedding is what you create it to be, no right or wrong!
@bintidigo5359 Жыл бұрын
Don't push back the wedding date just find a new venue because, you don't know what tommorow is made of then, celebrate sooner and not later. ❤
@abianapatton-toure8545 Жыл бұрын
Lol she said she wanted to push it back. Let that be her guide. Not anything else.
@bintidigo5359 Жыл бұрын
@@abianapatton-toure8545 no, she asked herself and us if she should push it back while waiting for her dream venue or find a new one. At the end it's her final decision that matters not ours but, since she asked our opinions I gave mine. Tommorow doesn't belong to us nobody knows what it would be made of so, I'd rather make plans that are near than far away. Her wedding, her choice.💛
@laurasellan7325 Жыл бұрын
Push your wedding to the time that will make you both happy! ❤❤❤
@yk2314x Жыл бұрын
You only get to do this once (hopefully😁) so make it exactly what you have dreamed of because you will relive that day in your heart and mind forever. If you’re not in a rush, wait for the venue. A caveat of that is that you could probably find another stunning venue and once you have your close friends and family and husband by your side, the day will be so special regardless of where you are. As cliche as that sounds, it’s fact. ❤
@melodya4833 Жыл бұрын
As long as it doesn’t compromise your vision for the wedding too much find another venue. The venue can be second best it’s the marriage/union that must be top tier!
@brittneyk0158 Жыл бұрын
Keep in mind that your loved ones are happy for you and simply want the best for you and Treu. Moving into a new residence and trying to make it a home; what can be a demanding profession; and planning for events, can be a lot AND bring on a lot of stress, even with help! It’s normal to feel overwhelmed. You and Treu simply need to do what is best for YOU two! If you are feeling “pressure” from others about how you should navigate the days ahead, don’t hesitate to let them know how you love them and value them, HOWEVER, you need space. Let them know that you are feeling pressure and it’s making you feel stressed. They will understand.
@CMK2712 Жыл бұрын
This exact thing happened to me during covid. I opted to find another venue because time is the one thing you can't get back. Although I had a very beautiful experience I would recommend following what gives you the most peace. Which would be a different choice for every bride or groom. Also be open to possibly doing photos at your initial venue for engagement photos or pre-wedding event images. What I found was I really just wanted images in the space which isn't just limited to having a full event there. I would also recommend asking a lot of questions to the venue since it determines the overall experience. I had an estate wedding and the venue was really strict and had so many limiting rules that we didn't know about until it was too late. I hope this helps! Enjoy the moment this is such a special time!
@chereeriggs7671 Жыл бұрын
U’ve been so busy Noorie. I feel like I’ve seen u in the background at events of every influencer’s vlogs lately.❤
@feyioye4041 Жыл бұрын
More cooking vids please! Love getting inspo from you guys!
@Serwinmm Жыл бұрын
Find another venue! Your wedding is going to be amazing no matter what! There are so many other beautiful venues and I'm sure you're going to figure it out! Don't wait with these things, tomorrow isn't guaranteed! xx
@nathalienurse3336 Жыл бұрын
Your flat is coming along nicely. Those 3 dresses scream your name ❤❤❤ them. Have a great week……🤗🇨🇦
@principessa9505 Жыл бұрын
Love Treus little cooking segments.
@actuallyitstesera Жыл бұрын
Ultimately it's yours and Trieu's special day. Once you start bending to the opinions of other people then it just spirals into that the entire wedding planning process. Personally when I fell in love with my venue, I still went to see other one's but in the back of my mind I knew I didn't want to get married anywhere else than the one I set my heart on and my husband agreed. Regardless of whatever you decide, it's still going to be the most special day ever, just make sure what you choose is for you both first and foremost!
@VerasteguiDani Жыл бұрын
The cooking part is always my fav! 😍
@swazzi12 Жыл бұрын
Here for the salad!! That looks bomb!! Defo making it👏👏
@dadlilady Жыл бұрын
Decorating your new space, working and planning a wedding is going to be overwhelming. I would focus on getting the house to a point where I feel satisfied then focus on the wedding. Set a date and list all your must haves for your dream wedding. If the venue is one of them I would wait. But definitely go after your must haves early to avoid further setbacks.
@cucuinmia9474 Жыл бұрын
Bought the CE dress because of this, can't wait to get it. Perfect summer birthday dress
@averysterling8483 Жыл бұрын
WOW!! That salad looks so good....... Yum!!!
@OliviaZao Жыл бұрын
I’m also planning my wedding at the moment and can completely relate to outside pressure 🙃 Ultimately, it’s about the two of you! So do whatever you think is best for you to have the day of your dreams. You don’t want to have any regrets.
@StephanieJarman Жыл бұрын
have you thought about a custom sofa? i watch a lot of hgtv (canadian version) and one of the deigners i like, Sarah Richardson frequently does custom furniture for her clients. i think it sounds more expensive than it is - i think for sure it would be less than $15,000 and you could adapt the size for your space. if you showed the furniture maker the sofa you like they could make a similar one! or you could consult an interior designer to help! i googled it and it appears there are tons of bespoke furniture business companies in London!
@chereeriggs7671 Жыл бұрын
Push the wedding back another year. What’s another year? In the grand scheme of things, another year is small compared to the rest of your lives together. The venue is probably the most important part of the wedding planning & something that u shouldn’t compromise on. I’ve been married for 16yrs by the way.💖
@lauraosswald5812 Жыл бұрын
I think it would help if you just sat down, closed your eyes and the first thing that comes to mind, push back or get a different venue is the right choice. Not thinking about anyones wishes or expectations. At the end of the day this is your special day and you want to look back on it for the rest of your life and bot feel any negativity or pressure associated with it. Just follow your gut instinct because this day is about you guys and your beautiful love xxx
@veralindberg1284 Жыл бұрын
I love your vlogs! thank you for being you, you are so cool :)
@StephanieJarman Жыл бұрын
oh! i just finished watching and you got caper berries! the first time i tried them was in an italian dish called "Aqua Pazza" - "crazy water" it is fish poached in a tomatoe, wine, olive, caper broth! it is so good!
@Sizzzzm Жыл бұрын
Super random summer recc but try the ‘REN prefect canvas primer’. It’s skincare based, and keep my skin breathable and matte throughout the Australian summer.
@rac.cartier Жыл бұрын
Be open to finding another venue. Whose to say that the venue would be available if you wait another year. who knows what could happen
@saverasavera3652 Жыл бұрын
Exactly my thoughts
@sanakahloon6553 Жыл бұрын
Yes push the dates , wait for your dream venue 😊
@leratokgang Жыл бұрын
Sundays are amazing with your videos ❤❤
@adamayalo Жыл бұрын
41:23 This salad 🥗 looks delicious 😍 Where is Trieu cooking channel or tiktok?
@Katiemaam Жыл бұрын
Definitely push it back. You should have the venue you want
@Nasreen2792 Жыл бұрын
I would go visit the dream venue but organise visiting other venues nearby in the same visit…it may seem like the dream venue but other places may surprise you and avoid changing your date
@_KristiK_ Жыл бұрын
My sunday is fulfilled when i see you have uploaded a new video🤍🤍🤍
@sarat1625 Жыл бұрын
I would suggest looking for another venue. It’s really easy to get caught up in planning for the wedding day when the most important thing is the marriage that you and your husband will build together for the rest of your lives.
@saverasavera3652 Жыл бұрын
I mean a lot can happen in a year, one can die and not be able to get married to the love of their life if the wedding is pushed back to like a year. I’d personally get another venue cuz you never know what tomorrow holds.
@d.y.e3803 Жыл бұрын
Not that I'm married, but over a decade ago, my big fiftieth birthday luncheon was like planning a wedding as it took me a year of planning. If I couldn't have gotten the venue, a friend's Thai restaurant on the date that I needed, then I would have just kept the same date, but chosen another restaurant. The date was the most important as I was planning around when guests could be present. My birthday luncheon even ended up the month before my actual birthday in order to accommodate the guests. My friends leave for vacation in the month of my birthday as it's in the summer. And since some friends were flying in from the East Coast of the U.S. to me and everyone else here on the West Coast, I also wanted to make things convenient for them. So, I put the luncheon in a decent weather month/season in hope that they would be able to fly without possible East Coast weather delays or flight cancelations. I wasn't worried about the weather here, during any month, but more about guests trying to get here from wherever they lived in the U.S. As for folks telling you and Trieu how you should do your wedding, well, just smile, keep the peace, and then do what you two want to do as it's your wedding. Set the boundaries from the start. Or don't tell anyone what you two are planning, like I did with my birthday luncheon, and say that you want it to be a special surprise to everyone. Folks were blown away when they arrived at my luncheon as they had no idea what to expect. To this day, some still talk about what a great event it was. Don't get stressed out over it all. I have a lot of friends who are married, but who set boundaries from the start and didn't end up with drama or uncalled-for stress and they've been married for decades as most married in their 30s and are now in their 60s. I've been to a lot of weddings over the decades. I think that the younger one is, the more stress, due to parents usually dishing out the money for the wedding. But, when one is older, like my friends were, and paying for their own weddings, it was a different situation. In the end, the weddings turned out great and the family members and guests were happy. Greetings from Los Angeles
@MissKhadijaAli Жыл бұрын
Does anyone know which concealer this is and what shade? 🤔 7:32
@MichelleSebastianRealtor Жыл бұрын
Find a new venue! Lots of choices out there that will provide what you want. Pushing back another YEAR is too long! Good luck!!🥰💕
@gk181072 Жыл бұрын
We have the Saba pixel and its amazing
@beyamy9392 Жыл бұрын
The wedding is not about other people. It’s about you. Get what YOU want. Take your time. And certainly do not allow other people to tell you what to do about YOUR wedding. Do it your way, no one else’s. ❤
@FreeElf25 Жыл бұрын
Did you vlog the Harrods event? ❤sounded lovely
@LittleMissDeeDee Жыл бұрын
It all depends on what’s important to you. If that wedding venue is your dream choice and you couldn’t imagine getting married elsewhere, then push it back, however, I’d explore some more options first before making that decision.
@angiemaniapoto8176 Жыл бұрын
Great vlog guys😊❤dresses r just amazing like u noorie ..classy classic n just beautiful❤..loved the meal as well gonna try to make it delicious ❤🎉😊
@ingridnh1 Жыл бұрын
Try not to stress too much when it comes to the wedding planning and engagement party. Yes, all eyes will be in you but it’s people who love and want to celebrate you! Family and friends will have their opinions and want you to keep your date as planned, but if your dream venue is booked than wait! I tell all my clients DO NOT SETTLE!! You and Trieu have to be happy as it is your day!😊 Also so many super cute things in your haul, especially the summer dresses! Salad looks yummy…simple, fresh and perfect for a summer meal! ❤
@tiffiindanii Жыл бұрын
Straciatella is the creamy part inside the burrata
@thegoldpanthera Жыл бұрын
where is the beautiful salad bowl from? :)
@y.m.6667 Жыл бұрын
Hey Noorie! Don't move the wedding date, find another nice venue. I'm sure there are tons of them in Europe 😉 I ❤the white strapless dress, it really fits you well. That could be an engagement party dress or a reception dress. The other white dress was very beautiful as well. That dress could be a bridal shower dress or just for summer. I ❤ it! The salad looked yummy. Is "rockets" arugula or something else?
@asq4867 Жыл бұрын
I would find a different venue and get married when I'd originally planned
@ENQXO Жыл бұрын
Push it back for your dream venue! ❤️
@MetrogypsieS Жыл бұрын
I’d find another venue. To get it all over with and focus on life and marriage. If you push it back the wedding stress and thoughts will keep lingering.
@raychelmcbride8965 Жыл бұрын
It’s your day… you have decide if it’s more important for you to have your dream venue or get married and begin your new journey as a wife. I personally would get married but thinking back on my wedding day there is so much out of your control - It will never be perfect. As a perfectionist it made me wish I would have eloped and used the money for a dream honeymoon. Give yourself grace and be flexible ❤
@collegegrad2955 Жыл бұрын
Hey noorie!!!
@ShanaKayLiving Жыл бұрын
I would just find another venue.
@hollybabyyy Жыл бұрын
Def change venue
@haniqb Жыл бұрын
So cute, you two foodies 😄
@dloe5750 Жыл бұрын
The second white dress OMGGGG so beautiful on you!!
@unehmosa6804 Жыл бұрын
Is that chicken in the salad? 👀
@thenomaphelo Жыл бұрын
I wouldn't change the date.
@maxinemuhammad5979 Жыл бұрын
👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍love great haul
@abianapatton-toure8545 Жыл бұрын
DREAM VENUE for a dream girl/couple😊
@navycorrola98 Жыл бұрын
What is your gut telling you? Trust your intuition. ❤
@sofmarsofmar Жыл бұрын
If I were you, I’d push the date to get the venue you want. You’ll only do it once so you may as well get everything you want ☺️
@mad2684 Жыл бұрын
Push it back. Everyone that loves and support you will understand. Do what makes you guys happy. ❤
@cocoswan3844 Жыл бұрын
Find another venue
@AK-xxxx Жыл бұрын
Don’t push the wedding back. Just find another venue 😊
@ezgidemirkaya8344 Жыл бұрын
If you don't find another venue that you like as much as this one then push the wedding. Hopefully you marry once in your lifetime so id should be your dream wedding!
@KWBlueyediva Жыл бұрын
Find another venue. It’s one day. Or Elope. Lol. Just get married.
@manatolia205 Жыл бұрын
Find a new venue.
@josephineburr198 Жыл бұрын
Find a new venue! The wedding is not as important as what comes after. It is the marrige you should focus on. So actually, you should just get it over with. It will be wonderfull no matter what, but it is only the beginning of the rest of your life. That is what matters❤
@c_wangui3784 Жыл бұрын
Push the dates! It’s that’s serious! This is about you, not other people !
@spencerhailee9175 Жыл бұрын
Promo sm
@hollybabyyy Жыл бұрын
Genuinely how are u affording luxury designer bags/clothes, expensive furniture, a big expensive apartment in london, holidays AND a, i assume, fancy wedding when ur only mid 20s
@missc541 Жыл бұрын
You should ALWAYS wash your salad NEVER go with what packet says. If you examine closer you will find live tiny insects that camouflage! Trust me! I love salad bought too many from reputable shops and have had in restaurants- and I return it's disgusting!
@UzeNdjoze Жыл бұрын
Id push it back 🤎,would hate for you to not have your dream venue and end up not being happy with it 💔