This is why I feel so uncomfortable with small talk and casual get-togethers. And I do know it all too! Yikes. Great info, thanks.
@soulinvibration Жыл бұрын
My pleasure
@mtlgirl314 жыл бұрын
💜 we have two things in common (north node in gemini and life path 7). I’m a very spiritual and philosophical person and I like to have deep conversations. I find it really hard to accept that my life purpose is to connect with people through small superficial talks and mundane conversations 😫
@Ntshina4 жыл бұрын
We really need an online community of our own.
@Giftedtarot73 жыл бұрын
Same here life path 7
@herbalvenus2093 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way too, I had so much trouble relating to my partners friends when I just met them. They are experts at small talk and I’m there like wow the impact you’re making on your community is really going to show through the children of these mothers/ you’re healing generational trauma and by that time they are long gone checked out of the convo 😂😭
@destinymckim11962 жыл бұрын
Me too🥺
@destinymckim11962 жыл бұрын
I was seeking guidance for my purpose in life & I get the worst possible answer😭😭😭
@themoonchild68334 жыл бұрын
Self awareness is a true super power
@sarar31744 жыл бұрын
I connect with this so much. I absolutely hate small talk and feel myself get physically angry by it and disliking many people.
@soulinvibration4 жыл бұрын
Lol, it might help to challenge yourself to have small talk but look at it like a game between you and yourself to gauge how much you’re growing. in the sense that you try to walk away from each interaction knowing a lot about a person by genuinely listening to them and engaging in the small talk.
@angelabeech4194 Жыл бұрын
It has been challenging but I’m willing to constantly learn and change accordingly 💜💜💜
@SeanIdemudia2 жыл бұрын
Definitely can’t stand the small talk I have to go to the deepest depths and ask why and how having to look at things from a galactic scale and have to dumb myself down resonate with this a lot
@trenchrock2 жыл бұрын
You perfectly described everything about my life, lol I also have Chiron in my 11H and have a very hard time connecting with people. I think with North node in Gemini, we might not also say it out loud but in our minds are constantly screaming "How can everyone be this stupid!!?!" I guess people pick up on that energy from me. I try to understand...I really do but I just don't "get it". Honestly, my sister is a Gemini Sun and I think without her, I would be completely lost when it comes to Gemini energy. She says things like "well that's YOUR opinion" and "Well, that's what YOU would do in that situation, not everyone is the same."Ugh.. 😨
@jadajenira3 жыл бұрын
I definitely prefer deeper conversations but I see the value in surface level connections 💜💜 sometimes our “superficial” friendships can be useful.
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
✨💜✨
@allme8132 жыл бұрын
💜💜 it's definitely has been an experience. Feeling like the black sheet and misunderstood. Now, as an adult with more relatable experience it's been much easier. I learned to spoon feed all those around me. I'm welcomed more and sometimes the go to person.
@thehelpfulgoddess3 жыл бұрын
I understand the objective of the north node in Gemini, but I find it so difficult. I may have to opt for the internet community because being around others talking about basic shit is soooooo counter intuitive and soul draining for me. Nothing fulfilling about that at all.
@don-eb3fjАй бұрын
"EAT. DRINK. BUY. VOTE. WORSHIP. SEEK STATUS. PRODUCE. REPRODUCE. REPEAT." Yeah, no wonder I always felt like I got put out at the wrong bus stop.
@karenshields87653 жыл бұрын
💜 thank you for sharing. I struggle with this all the time. Get irritated that people don’t get me and bored trying to understand others. Feels easier to clam up and remain in my own world. The idea of breaking me down into small spoonfuls and listening first to know what advice to share is very helpful. Remembering that I cannot force people to swallow my elephant is very helpful. Bad habit to break is thinking that others are beneath me instead I will look at it as I must be patient with them and take slow steady small steps to understand where they are on their journey and offer my experiences with what is relatable to them. Again, thank you for sharing your wisdom.
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
✨ You're Welcome. Thank you for sharing 💜💜
@yeshua3332 жыл бұрын
💜 difficult and not easy no one will listen to me and I have a hard time trying to express myself because knowone understands and thinks I'm weird
@soulinvibration2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and sharing💜
@sumayzebecreating4 жыл бұрын
I definitely am not good at small talk but I didn't myself into it. I feel like a nomad because I literally moved across country 3.5 years ago to California and I want to move again. I actually want to be apart of VanLife so I'm going to get an RV when I get the chance. I think a LOT! Very intuitive. I can always sense when something in wrong with a person or a space.
@shondacheesecake4 жыл бұрын
I wanna try van life one day, too!
@Syn4143 жыл бұрын
thinking about doing van life now !
@capricorn14-7773 жыл бұрын
Same here
@jessicadoster84233 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜 oh wow!!! The part where you said that social media’s is my audience! 🤯🤯🤯 It’s time! I have to learn more about small talk. Sometimes I do feel like no one understands me! I got to get back in V-steaming I was in my element. Thank you
@Giftedtarot73 жыл бұрын
Life path 7 and this describes me and I hate small talk or people that are easily manipulated so I like to stay to my self because I see things before they happen then try to tell others and they look at me like I’m crazy so I would rather be to my self instead of fitting in with rest
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@don-eb3fjАй бұрын
So much THIS! It's like Cassandra in Greek mythology, warning the Trojans to not bring that giant wooden "gift" horse into the city... that worked out so well for everyone...and they NEVER LEARN! 🙄 DOH! The most frustrating thing is that we don't always know and can't fully explain with an entertaining catchphrase exactly HOW we know (that small talk Achilles heel), so when we're right, no one remembers, or it's "just a coincidence".
@nataliamiddleton35934 жыл бұрын
That’s crazy I have NN Gemini 9th house SN Sagittarius 3rd house I used to feel like WTF 🤯 but I feel as though it’s going from taking myself out of my surroundings to expand and now having to take my surroundings and bring the expansion to them if that makes sense I’m 18 still trying to decrypt the code that I Written in myself. Plus I appreciate your spirit✨💕🧚🏾♀️
@alwayshavestrengthjoy74503 жыл бұрын
Oh my, you hit the ball off the tee. North Node in 3 Gemini and South in 9 Sag. I often feel like intellectually, I belong on The Star Track Voyager ship. Out of this Galaxy, with the need to investigate, learn and Philosophically forage into the stars of deeper knowing. This is toppled with me being a Gemini Moon and life path 1. All you have said resonates. Love your work sis! Subscribed!
@Carmela_Falco8 ай бұрын
Love this !!!❤❤❤
@aquarising76682 жыл бұрын
One of the best takes on the topic. Thank you.
@Chroma_hologram_spellbreaker3 жыл бұрын
My husband and my daughter are mirroring each other in this placement. My daughter has her north node in Gemini and my husband has his north node in Sagittarius. And they are always butting heads.
@sistarteedatopaz6520 Жыл бұрын
So glad I found your channel as I go through this journey of self discovery. 💜✨💖👑
@soulinvibration Жыл бұрын
Thank you💜
@jessiec6854 жыл бұрын
Yeah, this makes alot of sense. I have my moon and south node in sag, and nothing else in my north node in gemini. So i guess i really feel like being free with little inclination to being relatable 🥴
@QuietStorm_114 жыл бұрын
I feel called out...the accuracy! 😩
@soulinvibration4 жыл бұрын
💜
@herbalvenus2093 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your interpretation because I do feel there are a lot of things I have learned over the past years and I’ve struggled and struggled creating outlets to express these thoughts and ideas, but I cannot find the words to express it. I make it too complex and simplicity is def an art in this lifetime one that I am continuously practicing haha
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
🌻
@TruSpirit5554 жыл бұрын
💜 I’m neither but I’m here for it. My sun is a Sag.
@chiron43644 жыл бұрын
I have north node in 3rd house but I have a Gemini stellium with Virgo rising too. So I’ve been able to naturally follow the path of my north node
@TypicalCandy3 жыл бұрын
i am virgo rising too!
@aliciawilliams65562 жыл бұрын
I needed to affirm this again
@destinyeffinvanity3 жыл бұрын
Chiron, North Node and Sun in Libra in my 3rd house while Aries moon in my 9th house w/ South Node. It’s rough🙃
@blacklilith68552 жыл бұрын
Everything applies but I've got my North node in cancer in my fifth house Gemini. I was very Sagittarius in my past life
@Manz1l12 жыл бұрын
💜 Thank U so much 4 this Gr8 Insight👁️🤗
@soulinvibration2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure 💜💕
@hthax3 жыл бұрын
💜 thanks for the video. My love is a N Node Gemini 💜💜
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
✨ You're welcome 💜
@irisdivinemessages13503 жыл бұрын
A babalowa told me in a past life I left my family in search of knowledge. Omg
@leonie36214 жыл бұрын
💜Thank you for this🙏🏾....Life Path 7 and Gemini in North node. This video makes so much sense! So nice to find someone who can relate x
@MsRFarrell3 жыл бұрын
💜 "bitesizeable" is wonderful and applicable advice. Thank you!
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
✨ You’re Welcome💜
@naiaraGU4 жыл бұрын
we have a lot in common,7 life path,north node in geminis,and so on 11/1/1984,god bless you,merry christmas
@soulinvibration4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, sending you an abundance of blessings also 💜💜💜
@soulinvibration4 жыл бұрын
I like your profile name 😉
@5EmBem3 жыл бұрын
I relate to this. I hate small talk urgh. I see it as a waste of time and I feel like it turns my brain in to mulsh 🤯
@LevePalestinaKrossaSionismen4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Kathy 🙏🏼 I have North Node in Sagittarius, 3H and my South Node in Gemini, 9H 🌌💛
@LevePalestinaKrossaSionismen4 жыл бұрын
I used to think I knew a lot, but during a Saturn transit a few years ago, I discovered that I don't know as much as I thought I did. I've been researching and expanding my mind for years, and now I'll never know enough. I've had to focus on family and community most of my life, I just got married (I only met my husband after my Saturn Return started this year!) to someone of same religion and similar background; that's one kind of community, maybe? People are always impressed by how many languages I speak, how much knowledge I have in general, but since the past couple of years, I feel like I don't have enough knowledge. I was always curious about the truths of this world, but I didn't always feel comfortable researching them. It's like I finally grew a spine at 23, and I'm not afraid of my world views being challenged anymore, not afraid to dig deeper for the hard truths, and I'm at a place where I can have informative and well worded discussions with others who think differently, even disagree, in a much more relatable way, and it usually ends in people appreciating that I could help expand their minds. Many disagree with my views on the world, but I don't bring views up to people I know will not receive it well, so I decide to talk about things they are more receptive to instead, and that makes me more relatable, I think. I have had a lot of difficult and humbling experiences, so I have a lot more empathy for others. Now at 27, I am still working on improving myself, but I believe there has been a great deal of progress. Now it's like I have to hide my power level from others and talk to others at their level, and everyone is really different. Your words really resonate with me! 💜
@anyalaskalanka4 жыл бұрын
@@LevePalestinaKrossaSionismen thanks for your comment! It's inspired me so much since I'm also 27 and have the same placement of nodes!
@LevePalestinaKrossaSionismen4 жыл бұрын
@@anyalaskalanka I'm so glad writing down my experience helped you!!! Sending you positive energy and vibrations 🌠✨💖
@MsSoshea Жыл бұрын
This was amazing thanks sister
@soulinvibration Жыл бұрын
My pleasure
@khadijahwiggins7962 жыл бұрын
I have this placement (Sagittarius/2nd H South Node) (Gemini/ 8th H North Node)
@Ninethborn3 жыл бұрын
Oh wow! Thank you so much for the information❣️
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
✨ My Pleasure❤️
@ayarekk98604 жыл бұрын
absolutely beautiful and perfect explanation, so on point
@soulinvibration4 жыл бұрын
💜
@MrSamsonbass3 жыл бұрын
Thank u. U touched a nerve. Love ur work....
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
✨ You’re welcome. Thank you
@don-eb3fjАй бұрын
Ah, yeah, the small talk ... why bother (me) with it when I have MILLIONS of more interesting things to think and talk about? It just doesn't make sense - like most things people do, seen from way up here in orbit👽. It's always so much more helpful hearing these placements described by someone who actually has experienced it - my own N.N. placement is 3rd house in Taurus, conjunct (5°) IC, with Neptune in Scorpio 9th 3° from MC and 2° from S.N. - it's like being stuck in a roundabout, and all the signs are in a foreign language, I can't tell if I'm coming or going! AAaaarrrg!! You earned your 💜 for this one - I think anybody with this placement did, just for holding it together. Thanks Kathy.
@soulinvibration26 күн бұрын
I definitely relate to this. It does hit different when I’m hearing about something from someone who can relate. Thank you for watching and sharing. I appreciate you.💕💖
@Divine333Guidance13 жыл бұрын
I'm a Gemini North Node 💜
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
💜
@Memphizm8 ай бұрын
💜 I'm a natural orator and love being on stage but I just feel paralyzed from overwhelm on what I should be doing and how I should be doing it. I feel like my past life of being a master spiritually combined with my early childhood indoctrination with a Jehovah's Witness mother and Baptist preacher father has me constantly judging and shaming myself and worrying about if I fall from grace once I step out and embody my oratory however I do it.
@soulinvibration8 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@TheBeccasol13 жыл бұрын
Amazing. Thank you ! 💜😇🙌🏽 very accurate. 😁
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
✨You’re welcome 💜
@ivanvillafane37023 жыл бұрын
💚 makes a lot of sense 😊
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
💚
@Esabreya4 жыл бұрын
💜🕊️ This helped a lot, thank you!
@soulinvibration4 жыл бұрын
I’m happy to hear that, you’re welcome 💜
@keithjackson10423 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!
@MystiqueSunshineGoddess3 жыл бұрын
Great video, thank you ☺️
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure
@KVixen_ Жыл бұрын
😢 this has been very informative 💜💜
@LevePalestinaKrossaSionismen4 жыл бұрын
3:09: EXACTLY!!! I CANNOT AGREE WITH YOU MORE!!! 💯🌹❤️
@tminus68954 жыл бұрын
North Node In Gemini Life Path 11
@milliondollarappmaker45663 жыл бұрын
Same 😩🙏🏾❤️
@TypicalCandy3 жыл бұрын
same here!
@moongoddreamaftonelf21643 жыл бұрын
💜thank you. That totally got me. Lol i have a hard time with the small talk. 🤓
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
✨ You're welcome 💜
@bosspriestess58234 жыл бұрын
North node in Gemini 11st house ugh the struggle 🥴🤣‼️
@Chikay5093 жыл бұрын
Why this is a struggle for you? I have this placement as well.
@yonderchild3 жыл бұрын
This hits
@Bazmimoon4 жыл бұрын
Life path 7 and NN in ♊️
@Leilani13693 жыл бұрын
Coul this also be why I always think I need my husband who is Gemini 🌞 in my life although I sometimes don't understand him. Do I feel this way because my North node is in Gemini.
@margamarga24743 жыл бұрын
💜 Thanks for helping to understand my soul :))
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome💜✨
@danielpapielpupstv49802 жыл бұрын
Me and my partner share the same NN in Gemini. I'm a Cancer and they a Sagittarius. I have Sagittarius in three placements and Leo in Venus. He has lots of water, pisces and cancer in his chart. Can you tell me more about our partnership with that being said.
@symplywords3 ай бұрын
ohhhhmyyyygooooooooooooooodness! Girl you said that....all of that.
@jordanaestelle74423 жыл бұрын
Couldn’t relate more 💜
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
💜
@empress00154 жыл бұрын
Much respect sis
@soulinvibration4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, much love to you💖
@Freeflow2223 жыл бұрын
Thank youuuuuuu💜
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
✨ You’re welcome💜
@yeshua3332 жыл бұрын
💯this to exactly me
@indigenousdawta4 жыл бұрын
Appreciate the gems..💎💎💎💜💜 will use that quote that I love and make my pieces more digestible to others.. ☯️🧿🌠 #checkdaegoatthedoor#
@soulinvibration4 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜
@divinehumans Жыл бұрын
hard embodying this with a mercury in Aquarius
@soulinvibration Жыл бұрын
Anything is possible
@emmajames61894 жыл бұрын
Which do you follow the tropical chart or the placidus?
@adrianborden15463 жыл бұрын
you said a mouthful. thank you for this information. Bye.
@joshobrientftgu85503 жыл бұрын
Great vids!
@freespiritgoodvibes52954 жыл бұрын
North node Gemini life path 9
@Chikay5093 жыл бұрын
Same
@jjmystic32212 жыл бұрын
💜thank you
@soulinvibration2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure 💜
@aquarius15152 жыл бұрын
I have capricorn NN in 3H what does this mean?
@tiarawilliams8456 Жыл бұрын
Same
@philly1114 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, much appreciated! Is there an online community that I can join?
@soulinvibration4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome 💜 I keep saying I want to create one and I will. What are you looking for in an online community?
@philly1114 жыл бұрын
@@soulinvibration Soul In Vibration Facebook Group Chat! Connections, interactions, sharing knowledge, affirmations, arranging social events, small talk :-D
@ShanieWithAChance3 жыл бұрын
💜. Thank you
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
✨ You’re Welcome 💜
@knowen324 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@soulinvibration4 жыл бұрын
You’re welcome 💕
@pnksodaa3 жыл бұрын
well put
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
🌻✨
@winter_s_442 жыл бұрын
I truly dislike this placement (and my chart in general). I have tried to find/grow acceptance for it, but in the end, it all feels like just living from a place of phoniness, hoping something will "take" eventually (e.g. "fake it tiI make it") and it never does. I never really understood how to connect to people on surface things because the surface things about life that they talk about I don't have or want. So I could listen to you talk about your spouse or your kids, etc, but I can't relate and how much do I really have to listen to things about which I can't relate and don't care about? Is my life really meant to just be listening and not contributing for the sake of "learning" and "being a student"? I am just so confused and my chart full of mostly squares does not help. Sometimes I just want to chalk this incarnation up to a loss and hope for a better go around next time.
@hollybrooke99252 жыл бұрын
Completely agree! It took away my joy to have to small talk about general things in life…i felt icky. I found another way to look at it with a purpose and with intention. I still talk about the dumb stuff but with humor and it’s a very limited amount of time until they ask me intellectual questions later on. Just like she said…it takes small increment doses for people to be able to really get to know us bc they would be overwhelmed by how much knowledge we really have to say.
@queenari7562 жыл бұрын
💜💜💜💜
@mustakbelle4 ай бұрын
us 💚💚💚💚💚
@Cayloworld Жыл бұрын
i love you
@soulinvibration Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@akashacees3638Ай бұрын
💛
@idesignfreedom3 жыл бұрын
Me, again. 🤔
@soulinvibration3 жыл бұрын
I like the question that you ask the other day about taking gifts to the next level it inspired me to make a video about it.
@idesignfreedom3 жыл бұрын
@@soulinvibration that’s awesome. I’m totally giving into myself. I’ve been fighting me for years. I’m very appreciative. 🙏🏾