Not All Men - Jidnya Sujata ft Abhin | UnErase Poetry

"Not all men are the same..."
Credits:
Written & Performed by: Jidnya Sujata
Music by: Abhin Joshi
Curated by: Simar Singh
Shot at: NCPA, Mumbai
Video Production: Vision Of Gap
Live Sound Recording: Sohaill Gandhi & Varun (NCPA)
Lights by: Saurabh Tawde (NCPA)
Sound Mixing & Mastering by: Sohaill Gandhi
Edited by: Abhishek Bhutwani
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[@rohansaini2026]

They way you choose your words and quoted your sentences. The flow you kept and the rhythm you carried out. EXTRAORDINARY !!!

[@anasalavudeen3651]

It is still a dream and I won't deny feeling uneasy when I hear these uncomfortable truths, but I appreciate your courage in addressing them. Your words are a reminder of the work we need to do to create a world where everyone feels safe and respected. I believe art like yours contributes to a difference and thank you for your impactful craft.🖤

[@salina_paudel.]

What a beautiful piece is this ... not every one is same not every situation is same ..

[@DrAkashraj]

I knew the purpose of art is to spread love and bind people :)

[@naomiscott601]

demm😂

[@mayurdas6273]

Not all women are like jyoti Morya ❤

[@renegadelaw9303]

Most are bro😂😂

[@aries6046]

Not all men are the harasser but all women gets harassed at some point in their life. But here comes few dillusional men with expected defensive and humiliating come backs. She didn't say anything wrong about the Auto driver but any women and any men related to that women with feel the same way while she is traveling alone at night. And yes, mens are still respected but only men use the fear of other men to control the women. Think about it.

[@riddhijain2633]

Absolutely right!

[@unmlksh]

Not all men are demons, not all women are angels. Some delusional misogynists and some delusional feminists cause the inconvenience. Its never about the gender, Its always about one's heart, character and belief system.❤

[@Cryboutet]

Men are the reason why there are laws to protect women. Had all men been united on raping women, you think they'd stand any chance?

[@Canvas73120]

we men have stopped saying anything afterall we r born criminals and women r the superior class

[@knowledgedbrains]

Why are we not raising this point also that not all womens are angels🙄 With all due respect to my beutifull sober womens & girls......

[@mimitabiswas4534]

Women don't rape like men do, all men are not harassed like all women are at some point in their lives

[@knowledgedbrains]

@@mimitabiswas4534 I mean what kind of a baseless point you're giving in, Rape is rape why you're even giving it a gender? Yes, you're right women don't usually don't do this but these kind of stories are not out, because we laugh on boys. I mean can't just explain it more but when it's a boy we make fun of it & don't even give it that much of attention that's why women doesn't comes in front of a lot of people.

[@mimitabiswas4534]

@@knowledgedbrains it's the boys only who make fun of boys, I remember in my class one guy was bullied to no end and all the boys sidelined him and called him gay. Why do you think bullying and harassment incidents don't happen in women's college as much as they do in other DU colleges which are co-ed? The patriarchy and toxic masculity against which feminists fight are the reasons that hurt men too lol. Also, not all men harass but every woman is harassed by a man in her life at some point, did you not get the message of the video? Do you even know what goes on in the dark web? Explain why it's only men who are so sadists that they take pleasure in women's pain and put on barbaric stuff there and other men are buying them too, there are infinite examples of how immoral men have been and still continue to be but alright put on a blindfold

[@Aladdin_OG]

​@@mimitabiswas4534sorry but that doesn't justify your point

[@avishekmukhopadhyay6086]

​@@mimitabiswas4534you donkey, women also r*p*.... they are evil, ungrateful & selfish

[@DeepakAMenon-gd2um]

Well ,I won't blame you , Even I am also scared of Some females,who file False rape Case ,False Dowry Case Recent Example is Jyoti Maurya case and there are times when Men are also Harassed by perverted Women,also Some Women don't understand Consent too

[@rayana·ara]

But not all women🥺 💀

[@manthannegi567]

Not all men!!💓

[@KakashiHatake-vv4cw]

not all women are sweet and say good stuff to cheer you, not all women love only one guy and wont cheat, not all women respect men and not all woman see them as a tool to get money, not all women make fake divorces just to ruin a man life, not all woman bully other.

[@ravisenv]

Thank You for Your thought provoking lines , Beautiful .

[@shreya_mallick]

Such powerful message and an even better way of delivery! ♥️💫

[@priyankapriyadarshini7713]

How some people here in the comment section are proving this point. I pity those people who are downgrading this woman.

[@Cryboutet]

Infact our indian girls are proving how much of a male hater they're, regardless of how much comfort you provide them. Do you think an entitled lady like tis in video is a victim and the poor auto driver is a molestor demon? Do you think all men are rapist or all women are saints?

[@सुजलशरण]

Congratulations to the ujjain girl for becoming a new headline now I feel worried about my real one 😞.. what should I do ? All mens are not same but how to predict that my real one is not going to be the next rape victim 😢.. what should I do when I feel bad when I thinking about my mother sister grandmother aunt gf female friend what should I do... unse jyada pareshan toh ab mein rehne lga hu 😢...

[@BrigSushilBhasin]

It was so nice to hear your intensely emotional poem yesterday at TEDx Gateway. It was super amazing. Proud of you

[@shashanksingh950]

the same logic can go for not all muslims or not all jews or not all christian or not all hindus .

[@ishaan4719]

someone needs to make a not all women skit like this asap

[@sanjhsolanki2419]

❤ beautifully penned

[@sushantsharma5336]

Beautiful piece ❤, but I will always fail to understand how saying not all men is problematic, when everyone without a thought keeps accusing a whole gender based on acts of few. We don't grow with pride anymore, when we grow up hearing all men are pigs and what not ...... just being a man is already an evil act according to the society.....and trying to defend a lil respect left in you by saying not all men is problematic? Men don't say not all men unless there is an accusation on all. And it kills a part of us everytime we hear that. It's not a pleasant scenario to be generalized in a same category of a criminal (rapist , molester , etc) just because I was born with a penis.

[@parineetasharma24]

hey buddy seems like you have got a lot of negative comments or maybe social media has taken over your thinking well you are not wrong you are just spitting out the facts that actually needs to be said but cuz of few speakers not all men can become good you are good human keep going for that nd if you think you are true than keep it to yourself world is deaf it will not hear you

[@sushantsharma5336]

i wouldn't say its something negative to have an opinion differing from the rest, it's not the social media rather the social stigma which made me ask that question..... i will never say that all men are saints or we as a coummunity have not let women down.... but people gotta understand that how big of an unspoken issue it is to generalise all men in the category of shame..... as you said, cuz of few speakers not all men can become good but at the same time don't you think it's hypocritic to generalize all based on few ? and don't get me wrong here that i am trying to undermine the wrong commited to women by men on a daily basis.... i just want people to be more understanding of this side of the story. (give Helly Shah's poem : what society teaches men a try) out of all poetries telling people how saying "not all men" is a bad thing ....she told where does this defensive stance of "not all men " came from . @@parineetasharma24

[@prachisingh7353]

"Not all men" is not wrong, yes ofc not all men but it's problematic as it nulifies the main issue. When we say we are scared of all men, we don't say it because all men are bad but because there are enough of them to make us scared or defensive of all. So yeah, not ALL men but surely enough men to make ALL women feel unsafe. (I don't know a single woman who has not been harassed.) I understand your point and rage. I hope what I say is making sense to you and you'll understand too.

[@roshnik5137]

If it bothers you that much, you would have done something about it, the world is A shared place, all people belonging to one gender have faced harassment due to the other, nit all men, but enough men for every woman to have experienced it multiple times

[@aditiagarwal4798]

Beautiful❤

[@avishekmukhopadhyay6086]

Forget about "all men", the topic should be 'how to task the women criminals'. We're looking for real equality now, not patronizing 😊

[@rasmitarait7745]

U are judging females just because they wear revealing clothes on social media but u won't judge those guys who post shirtless pics on social media and also make shirtless reels on social media...I would have agreed with u if u hadn't made the sexist comments on women's body...If u really had really believed in equality then u shouldn't have called out those women only!

[@avishekmukhopadhyay6086]

@@rasmitarait7745 where did you find women body topic ?? I commented about women criminals who make false r*p* case on men... And men & women are different...a man doesn't get attention if he opens shirt, many beggars in the street are shirtless. But if women wear short clothes, we men dont care how much money she has...we just stare at her.

[@shouryasharma2657]

Beautiful poetry that offers great insights. I’d like to share an alternative perspective. As a school student trying to navigate this landscape, I find it incredibly challenging to connect with peers who truly respect women and don’t engage in objectifying language or behavior. It often feels like there's a culture of silence around this, and those of us who want to uphold these values end up feeling isolated. It’s disheartening that many men seem to find it easier to laugh along with sexist jokes rather than challenge them. This dynamic not only creates a barrier to building genuine connections with women but also fosters an environment where even the simplest acts of friendliness are met with suspicion. Sometimes, when I just want to start a conversation or build a friendship, women might look at me as if I have ulterior motives or am being 'creepy.' It’s frustrating because all I want is to connect on a human level, yet the prevailing stereotypes can make even innocent gestures feel inappropriate. It can be incredibly lonely at times because finding men who share respectful and progressive views is rare, and finding women who trust that a man genuinely wants to be just friends is even rarer. This loneliness can make some men doubt their beliefs and question whether standing up for women is worth the cost of feeling isolated. I understand that women have every right to be cautious given the negative experiences they've faced, but it creates a situation where men who genuinely want to be allies or friends feel shut out. I really believe we need to break down these barriers and build an environment where genuine, respectful connections can thrive. It may take time, but I hope more people will step up and be part of this change.

[@snehark8797]

Well said, golden words. If #not all men do really care about women they won't feel threatened when women live freely. They will never use the notion Not all men to subjugate others pain regardless of gender.

[@Cryboutet]

Toh behen apne bhai aur baap ko samjhao na.. tumhara ghar khrab hai isme dusre kya kare

[@dhananjayjadhav7208]

Apne Grand father ko bhi bolna

[@knowledgedbrains]

What kind of poetry it was.......🙃

[@fromthebackroom]

kudos to the man who played the guitar.

[@subhodeepmondal7937]

does "Not All Men" means "Most of the Man"? Ma'am the kind man you mentioned are all friend zoned!

[@Sanjana_5296]

This is beautiful ❤❤ Ya not all men are same But some men destroyed thinking of women's And we think all men are samw

[@massivevoice3636]

ya, Not all Women are the same. Now who will explain it?

[@Ritik0603]

Hope you meet better MEN in life

[@doctorjackal6556]

But first she will have to try dozens.❤😅

[@a.huminist]

​@@doctorjackal6556 so jackal you are saying there is 1 % nice man only 😮

[@doctorjackal6556]

Like I care.

[@doctorjackal6556]

With kind of cloths you are wearing,you are not safe😮don't blame men.you only invite them to follow you.

[@rasmitarait7745]

Can't believe men with such mentality still exist....Still blaming the girl...Ask yourself if u would rape a girl by seeing her in a short dress! If yes then definitely u are a molester... Because men are not animals they know what consent means...You are rather an animal

[@vixxkigoli345]

5 Years ago all environment was filled with feminism, even UnErase Poetry was used to post men hating content or fully feminized content, but men are raising voice against pseudo feminism, that's why this sudden shift from many industries and even long time feminist are forced to talk about men issues. This video is posted because author does not actual respect men but she had to create this content, she need atension from men, because nowadays men are fighting back with pseudo feminist. A friend of mine has suffered a lot because women filed false dowry case on him and one is suffering because her girlfriend filed false r@p case on him. You may say AllMenAreNotSame but I am afraid to even talk to any girl. Girls want boys with government job but dowry is bad. She won't earn anything but it's her choice husband can't force her says court. She says she don't want In Laws but her mother is always the first her priority. why should men marry nowadays ? I will daaayiiii alone instead of marrying pseudo feminist.

[@mohammedshairiazahmed2338]

💖

[@Bugsbunie]

Vice a versa Didi

[@robertblak5790]

not all men are same not all women are the same, katnewale kaat'tehein

[@nandinikhandavalli]

Beautiful piece 👏

[@minakshibastapure6117]

#NotAllMenAreGood

[@hotfyraraber]

Women used to respect and admire men, and men would respond with protecting them, helping them, building houses and roads for them. Men still build houses and roads and get clean water to your home but Women left beyond the respect for men. Still if a fire happens men stay last and burn to save the Women and children but women continue to disrespect men, and give birth to a son and that son becomes a weakling and timid of course because the mother never respected the father or the men that were willing to sacrifice thier lives for her safety. Many times Woman listen to banal advice from femal friends who would gossip her from top to toe but she will not listen to advice from a man that loves her and would never hesitate to give his life to protect her, and she sometimes not hestinent to call him a pig. Women forgot to use the force of thier words and thoughts to inspire and admire men but instead they use it to gossip ridicule and downgrade men. Be aware when you MeToo all men, you might MeToo your son putting seeds of shames and guilts on him for actions he never done. Be aware when you put label on men those labels might also effect the man you love or your son that you dream of becoming a great man.

[@jiarawat_4145]

not all men 💯

[@sonalpatil3954]

She is really talented girl ❤ Loves ua potery

[@zainabsyeda5644]

I LOVE your energy.

[@vivekbenedict2372]

Amazing!

[@doctorjackal6556]

How was rahul pitambar kelker as man.

[@user-gz4sw9ir8w]

how do i get my poetry posted on your channel??

[@jayram1855]

Nice

[@yashagar4443]

Impeccable

[@pankhurisai9697]

This video is so good ❤❤

[@ajitkumarsahu1242]

True❤❤

[@satyajeetsarangi8809]

So Good!!

[@TwinsMagic-uq6qv]

So true ❤

[@agranee2005]

❤

[@krishnansrinivasan830]

Nice :)

[@vishalkumar-us7vx]

Kon hain yeh log Kha se ate hain yeh

[@doctorjackal6556]

Ye Virar wale hei.grant road se atey hei.😂😅

[@rasikakulkarni3485]

❤❤❤

[@surajshukla5868]

Indeed.. all females will not understand this.

[@mangolrajak6667]

Joyti maurya laughing at corner 😂

[@5656abdul]

Give women a mic, short dresses to wear and some calibre to speak English, they come out loud and unnecessary.

[@rasmitarait7745]

Your user id explains your mentality Abdul 😂

[@Ketones-bi6nj]

Kabhi maksad na bhoolna

[@muralisai880]

Who is this creature 😂

[@shubhamtripathi9767]

Madem mujhe kuch samanjh me nahi aaya , par pata nahi mai kyu dekh raha hun

[@apurvpatil_]

💯🪷👏

[@SouravKrSaha-nm2xi]

So in her dreams also she expects men to be kind, humble, good, respecting women etc, but never spoke about what type of nature should a woman have. Her pov is a woman can never be ill minded, women r just godesses 😂😂, she must understand men women both carry burdens of society equally so unnecessarily blaming the other half of the population will never solve her problems . It doesn't seem fair of a woman to cry (& play victim card ) for a 100 year old issue in todays ultramodern world after exploiting all types facilities, privilages and undue advantages. She must understand that Understanding & accepting is way more mature act than unnecessary allegations & complaints.

[@rozinashaikh7647]

Womp womp

[@SouravKrSaha-nm2xi]

@@rozinashaikh7647 madam kindly place your arguments properly, what does this whomp whomp mean? That too you have made a spelling mistake..😅

[@Navneet07860]

Didi dress toh si se pehen liya karo

[@arghyapratimghosh5148]

really too much exaggerate😂😅

[@ShashankSaxena007]

ye chutiyapa karne k paise milte h kya'

[@Ritik0603]

Fata fat poori male community pe defaming poem bana deti hoon, logo se applause to mil hi jayenge. huehuehuehue

[@doctorjackal6556]

May be angoor khatte hei.blaming all men for her failed love affairs.😂

[@RavagersGaming]

Angrezi samazh ni aati toh dekhte kyu ho???? Sirf hate felana aata he na…. Kaash aap #NotAllMen me aate🤌🏽

[@jauharzahir]

@@RavagersGaming not all nhi most of men are good otherwise women wouldn't have been safer this much.....i know his audience who are applausing most of them are men

[@dhrubajyotidas]

Not all women dress like you.

[@rasmitarait7745]

Not all men judges women on the basis of her clothes... Only a guy with rapist mentality could do that

[@Cryboutet]

​@@rasmitarait7745cope.. wearing skimpy clothes doesn't make you a decent girl

[@doctorjackal6556]

You must be recalling your 9 th fail auto driver father who used to take you to school.

[@doctorjackal6556]

Why never mention your auto driver father.are you ashamed of him.

[@amolramteke31]

Not all men 💯

[@shivangintiwari]

❤❤