Not Letting Him Work it Off

[@minae9935]

She needs to just coparent and not give him another chance. When someone shows you who they are, believe them

[@misterbee66]

Exactly, which was said by Dr. Maya Angelou.

[@sheilataylor7497]

Right! He cheated before the marriage, during the marriage and she's consiering taking him back. smh Ignore him.

[@dantej2024]

Facts 💯

[@Luckymeee555]

She keeps complaining but keeps taking him back smh

[@dinahbriggs5190]

dickmatized😢

[@sheilae.9670]

Exactly! Just let him cheat in peace 😒

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

if NEVER take them back, it only gets worse🤦🏾‍♀️

[@sereneamani1713]

@@dinahbriggs5190 And if that's the case, she could be that without having babies that she's had to take care of by herself.

[@markquarto8159]

WOMEN LIKE JERKS. 😂

[@HellokittyLuv03]

Having an outside baby is extremely reckless. I would not take him back that’s crossing the line

[@trecialangley5535]

Like Judge Mathis said she’s looking to be hurt. He’s already shown her who he is.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

its putting your life at risk when they are out out here having unprotected sex

[@NKAB4]

@@trecialangley5535exactly girl that’s on you…

[@sereneamani1713]

I am going to make a silly comment. I wonder who's taking care of that child.

[@mjake21]

U sound like my sister she love her bad but he did that and she just can't get past that

[@msladycmo]

Sounds like he want to get back with her so he don't have to pay her back.

[@sheilataylor7497]

And she falling for it. 🙄🙄😏😏

[@alturrick]

It's ain't the money fam'

[@jasonclyburn1499]

Theodora she is definitely named after her dad name Theodore lol

[@essencejackson8123]

Right ❤😂🎉😅😊

[@Crystal-Love]

Facts 😂😂😂

[@N.B988]

It's actually a really common name in slavic countries and eu. It don't gotta be a spin off from her daddy name.

[@deetheefoodie]

I was gonna say the same thing 🤣🤣🤣 I was named after my dad (David) and mom (Felicia) ☺️

[@amberhi874]

You already know lol

[@shereekern6801]

Made some mistakes 😂😂😂 that’s an under statement.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

They ALWAYS down play their BS🤡🤛🏾😒😑

[@Proverbspsalms]

Well, she made some bad choices. Did she not say that he was cheating on her before they got married yet? She married him anyway.

[@Jelliebean86]

She’s crazy for trying to run him over, crashed into someone else’s vehicle, could’ve killed someone!!! People need to learn to just walk away.

[@heathab...._-_]

It's crazy how she blames him for her craziness, then continued to stay with him and allowed him to continue to keep cheating

[@shani9165]

All while pregnant and threatening to miscarry..

[@paulettesalomon2520]

Just to take him back 🤡

[@Jaxya1]

Well said I agree it’s not worth it

[@Proverbspsalms]

Well, she obviously wasn’t in her right mind anyway if there were problems prior, and she thought the other girl was the side piece before they got married. No, she was the side piece because they were only living together.

[@asiaanderson5556]

They're both clowns

[@33Tiffny]

Yes

[@ShesFromVenus]

Exactly.

[@Proverbspsalms]

Finally, somebody said it. They keep blaming him for everything.

[@lovelylee7322]

Cheating is a choice, not a mistake

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Facts💯

[@mikeprice8307]

Ah thanks for enlightening me

[@brandone869]

If u are taking a math test and the question is 2+2 u answer 5 that was a choice as well as a mistake

[@renadachandler9068]

Good 1

[@mikeprice8307]

@@brandone869 I think OP is confused with accident. If you cheat with wrong one, BIG mistake 😂😭

[@chancest.thomas5160]

She shouldn't Have Married Him If When just Datin', He was already Cheatin'!!

[@red_icee962]

Yeah she already knew what her future with him would be!

[@brilliantlybritt1928]

Exactly!!

[@JaNaeSmith-vk7uk]

Agreed

[@nadiaw.7229]

It's not just the cheating he not financially responsible

[@ThePrettyProfessor]

Exactly

[@greaterishe7197]

True

[@Luckymeee555]

These grown men act like big kids

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

True💯

[@beautifulsoul5882]

*BM

[@sereneamani1713]

@@beautifulsoul5882 MEN. Are you that ill-informed. Or you just have disdain for Black men?

[@christopherwilliams5459]

Grown women been acting kids since the beginning of time a bunch of spoiled liabilities and dependence

[@JM_HUh]

It’s so embarrassing smh like at what point do they grow up?

[@teamleoaug15]

How do yall fall in love with these type of bums?! 😂😂😂😂 he don't or hasn't brought anything to the table in 18 years smh

[@vonyorker4482]

Why would you take it upon yourself to help him do anything, HE'S A LOSER!!!!

[@Proverbspsalms]

She’s a losette- clearly he was no good before they got married. But she took him anyway.

[@dawniipoo322]

She's the perfect example of why you shldnt take back a cheater,you'll never be able to trust them

[@carolekelly5384]

Or move forward.

[@BXPOSSETV]

They got like 5 kids at some point you gotta stop having kids. Take responsibility with your actions. And at the end she still wants to deal with him

[@xclusivechristina4693]

As soon as they got back together judge Judy would have have dismissed the plaintiff case

[@heathab...._-_]

Yup

[@Jackstone3333]

Yep she would have said madam you took him back case dismissed

[@izzybee7162]

​@@Jackstone3333 or a simple "BALONEY!"

[@Jackstone3333]

​@@izzybee7162😂😂

[@scaryanima9268]

​@@izzybee7162"Just a second."

[@urluvizmyluv1999]

He had a baby on you, and you were willing to work it out? This must be the twilight zone.

[@Foxy-nw2gg]

😀😀😀

[@Ginaaaa555]

She was one step away from brandy on thin line between love and hate

[@mjake21]

Yep I can see that ,she said multiple times stop playing wit me

[@Strawberryfreeze3000]

😂😂😂😂

[@BeeShae]

😂😂😂😂

[@webbc23]

If I have to check up on you like I'm an investigator I don't want you

[@KJay-ql3hq]

Teaching your daughters it’s okay to disrespect yourself & run back to a no good toxic situation is crazy ..whether it’s their dad or not .. as mothers you have to lead by example .

[@amberhi874]

He keep touching his head, when he talks.... Reminds of Tommy on Martin. "Errrrraaaa", bald head lie! 😂😂😂

[@oodief88]

🤣🤣🤣

[@takeiarobinson2311]

😂😂😂

[@kamariasia]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kaylee3867]

But I noticed he rolled his eyes at the top of his head like a woman at the beginning of the show I wonder was it in regards to Judge Mathis or the plaintiff

[@softersideofc.c.5655]

😂😂😂

[@tangelacarter6620]

Girl. Be done with him.

[@Proverbspsalms]

No, no no she picked him. He was doing her wrong before they got married. They deserve each other. She deserves everything she got.

[@LeshaFBaby]

They love to say He needs counseling But still take them back every time without it. Don't keep wasting your good years

[@kaylee3867]

Some women is scared to be alone they will do anything for a man presence

[@LeshaFBaby]

@@kaylee3867 agreed

[@Mrs.Standard]

Sometimes it’s better to walk away instead of torturing yourself.

[@meicolar1724]

She knows who he is....taking care of him after his disrespect....but won't cut ties....🤦🏾‍♀️

[@molisnia]

It is hard to regain lost trust.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

which is why you should NEVER go back🤦🏾‍♀️

[@LajaHiggins]

That's is very true.

[@albertaowusu3536]

He's try'na work out his loan 😅

[@idanilee3]

She’s silly and she does like to hurt herself. She initially said that she was AT RISK OF MISCARRYING HER CHILD, yet she still spun the block to catch him in some mess ALMOST KILLING HERSELF AND HER UNBORN CHILD in the process. Still married him. 🙄

[@heathab...._-_]

And still wants to be with him now, talking about some counseling hoping they can work it out, she wants to continue to be hurt that dude ain't change

[@b.dailey3180]

Definition of toxic relationship.

[@shynbryt11]

She said something wrong with him. No something is wrong with you, you keep taking him back…

[@paulettesalomon2520]

Taking a man back after he had a baby on you is WILD

[@b.dailey3180]

That ish at the end tells me why these two came on the show in the first place.

[@Tina-wb2hm]

The only thing he changed was his clothes. Same man😢

[@Junegermaine]

The fact that she’s willing to rekindle the relationship really made me look at how foolish I was in my past relationship…. Girl go thee other waaay!!!

[@karendorsey4780]

They deserve each other ! Just constant drama! Some people that’s all they know! Don’t want to change! If you can’t afford to loan money, don’t do it! Most of the time you don’t get it back!

[@wellthatsinteresting1]

Ughhhh he is soooo full of excuses and she is so confused

[@MrsB320]

11:12 GIRL 🙏🏽 PLEASE … that’s NOT WORTH IT!!

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

NOT AT ALL🤡🤛🏾

[@greaterishe7197]

She hasn't healed 🙏

[@bryannaexume107]

Not to be off-topic, but don’t you realize the bystander lady has been glowing up and losing weight😩😍

[@Alesana907]

Wow didnt even notice her until i read this comment. She looks really good!

[@tgrant6518]

Judge always go hard on women who snoop but never go hard on men not to cheat and lie which ruin’s lives

[@SRT_DRE]

Cheating and lying doesn’t ruin lives. Plus, most men cheat these days. Not all, but the vast majority do. This isn’t the 60s where you had the meet people at the grocery store or church. If you’re the right woman for a man, he won’t cheat. If he cheats, there’s clearly something you’re lacking to him. Be better or move on.

[@criminalsurveillance]

Right! And it's immature. They know they don't want a monogamous relationship but still get into one knowing it'll hurt that individual then complain when presented with the consequences. It's sadistic and delusional. Only a cheater would disagree.. She should've taken those red flags seriously. Unfortunately by considering going back again, she is going to miss out on someone who would actually love her and he will be her downfall but she's allowing it.

[@KayB-l5h]

She keeps saying ex like she not still tryna be with her ex. Loaning him money and sleeping with him don't make her look anything but foolish. He than had a baby on her. That's the line in the sand right there. He gon get her back long enough to get them loans thrown out.

[@donnabethea8164]

Judge gave a valid point. That’s toxic shit

[@davidmanson7159]

I believe some people loves drama, she have been there once over money. Keep your money in your pocket, and this won’t happen. I found out lending 95 percent of the time don’t work. I don’t feel a man should borrow from a woman anyway, that use to be unheard of. Get two jobs if you have too.

[@jerrandorose5443]

Time change both can barrow just paid back,

[@davidmanson7159]

@@jerrandorose5443 that’s true, but we have so many weak men now days.

[@misskb2363]

@@davidmanson7159 but you got to remember who raised those weak men.

[@oodief88]

​@@misskb2363 sure wasn't these weak absent fathers.

[@davidmanson7159]

@@misskb2363 truth to that, for sure.

[@oodief88]

It's amazing how one party would continuously cause pain and heartache to the other and think that just because they've finally "grown up" that everything should be fine.

[@sereneamani1713]

Truly amazing. I wonder how he faces or represents himself to his children.

[@wesleychasady]

He just tried to get over on you in court, cheated, took away your peace. He’s giving you every reason to leave and not look back.

[@honeybeeklo83]

😂 Judge must have personal experience with the ‘searching for ways to hurt yourself’ example

[@jacinthbailey4483]

She's gonna go back to him...he knows it

[@sybilwhite1259]

Taking my original statement back if my x husband had a child on me it would be completely over!

[@BH-85]

This dude rubbed all his hair off lmao

[@jac8571]

Why do people START with “like I said” when they just start talking?

[@Pinkblueflowerlady]

Never marry anyone that cheats, things aren’t gonna get any better don’t bring more stress on yourself..

[@tayrenee378]

Wasn’t expecting that “no cap” 😂

[@gwendlynjohnson10]

JM is right. Stop going through the phone and people's property in general. If you're not willing to work on trusting them again, leave them alone. It's less stressful.

[@9lifes979]

How can you love somebody more than life itself, when without life there’s nothing.

[@tosha0508]

She's crazy. Girrrrrrrrrl........ That man doesn't love you.

[@tannyshayearby8698]

When you have cheated on someone repeatedly and want to restore the relationship, you have to be willing to go through what it takes to gain that person's trust again. A part of that is almost always dealing with their hypervigilance until they move past it

[@savedonlybygrace4705]

It's almost like he used her because as soon as they are together now he was using her money with no problem.

[@deetheefoodie]

There’s an old saying in Tennessee - I know it’s in Texas, probably in Tennessee - that says, fool me once, shame on - shame on you. Fool me - you can’t get fooled again.” -G.W. Bush

[@sherisespillsh5838]

Ladies why are we taking care of men like they are our children . Husband x husband or not ! Sickening!!!!!!

[@wellhydrated359]

Brains blew back now he wants his wife👴🏾smh

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

He still gone cheat🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Bolobei]

Its Monday, I'm here

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

🧐🍿☕

[@juniorstarks7494]

I’m here too

[@Prettythompkins242]

I commend her for leaving after the baby. I know a few who stayed. Ps: he will not stop

[@nadiaw.7229]

When you choose to have sex outside the relationship, you jeopardize all stability within the house and individual health/ well-being

[@amandamiller4586]

Let that man cheat in peace! All you going to do is take him back! If you going to keep spinning the block and you know what that man is capable of doing, let him do it in peace! Sis you need to go heal!

[@SaxWithShad]

With Judge Mathis getting a divorce now maybe his wife was mad about her money

[@ThePrettyProfessor]

I like her. She seemed like the leader in the household. How could you respect a man when you’re making all the decisions & you got a whole family.

[@reginaharrigan7454]

Sis you can't stop a man from cheating

[@michellec2899]

What a beautiful woman, move forward,he’ll,never change. Get your self another real loving man. YOU deserve to treat yourself better, EVERYONE MAKES THERE OWN CHOICES!

[@TommiTommy]

If I have to do all that …I’m not gon be with you …Nothing is worth your mental peace… because All that she doing to make sure he not cheating is insane …

[@MrsB320]

He ZAPPED all her JOY. 15:48

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Energy Vampire and Parasite 🤡🤛🏾💯

[@ShesFromVenus]

And she let him. 👏🏽

[@MariwittheI]

Hello Judge Mathis, this was a beautiful case. I like when you (Judge Mathis) play advisor and match maker. I hope that they will work it out and he tightens up for good.❤❤❤like frfr❤🎉❤

[@fundifferent1]

I don't have sympathy for someone who marries a known cheater then gets cheated on.

[@vanessacampbell7110]

THE PLANTIFF IS TOO NICE I WOULDNT HAD LOAN THE DEFENDANT NOTHING AT ALL 😮😮😮😮😮

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

NEVER loan males money🤦🏾‍♀️

[@sereneamani1713]

NICE is not the word for what she is.

[@vanessacampbell7110]

@@kayshawnsimmons5585 EXACTLY 💯 👏

[@katrinagarnett3256]

If you have to inspect, walk. He should want you so bad that he holds his own self accountable.

[@ULTRXBLXCK]

When Judge Mathis said no physical violence, she scrunched up her face and I was confused. Fast forward, she's telling a story about her trying to run him over with her car.

[@phillipsimmons5586]

5:35 🤣🤣 no cap!!

[@twill1007]

Sooooo he was cheating while you were dating AND pregnant, but hey let’s get married . Plus how you call her the side chick, hell you more like the side chick 😒

[@jilly5727]

When I man know you ain’t going anywhere he’s not going to change

[@sereneamani1713]

Why do men (or anyone) not realize that if you are in school and/or not making much money, rent, mortgage, utilities, groceries, etc., still need to be paid. I didn't hear or see of a time mentioned where this man was being the head of his household making sure his children and the household were being properly cared for. I am puzzled as to what she is looking for from this man. A miracle? A dream? Something that hasn't happened to date? I am sincerely puzzled.

[@Beauty777_]

It blows my mind how many ppl go have raw sex with someone else and come back to their partner smh

[@seanhinton2331]

The judge did drop a gem he’s cheating she keeps taking him back and now she stressing worry if he’s still cheating pulling up checking phones that’s too much.

[@JM_HUh]

She got a hell of a first & last name 😂

[@ANTZPound4Pound]

That old Cliche "Back N D Day!"

[@brittneyberry4934]

Is it me or JM in a gr8 mood today. He's held ppl in contempt with better attitudes. He dnt like litigants tell him what to ask or disagree with him in general. No I didn't hurt myself I hurt my car...he's read ppl to filth for less.

[@tenny1010]

Get another man! There is too much water under the bridge with this man.

[@kimberlywilliams9144]

It is not worth the stress! Sis just MOVE ON

[@mom2babygkaterad946]

She continues to fall for his lies & foolishness hook🪝, line AND sinker.🎣 As a viewer, I’m sick of them already. Imagine how the kids must feel. Toxicity at it’s worst😔🥺

[@kingeazywright]

Bruh ain’t cheat his hairline was with the other woman. That’s a difference 😂

[@troyanthony4990]

She's so beautiful😍 move on babygirl 💯

[@misterbee66]

I respect his honesty, he is wrong however.

[@gwen8859]

She need to talk to Wendy Williams to get the way in her favor

[@AshleiKylie]

She has zero self control; she crashes her car into another’s car over him and has the nerve to be smug about it. smh I know their kids have witnessed some mess smh

[@anayasdad81]

I mean Mathis didn't ask why he was your ex

[@skorwolf2719]

Only time to admit to cheating is when they want that person back

[@tharris1906]

Theodora is the most beautiful name I have ever heard!! My name is Theodore 😂

[@Melanatedsoul_46]

Imagine having your wedding in court 😩😄

[@greateranointingtabernacle7882]

I Know This Episode Hits Different For Judge Mathis In 2024 👀🤔

[@Fluffyy808]

“Theodora” is crazzzyyyy😭

[@nyairagram3960]

Yo momma name is crazy

[@MrsB320]

He played himself. I can tell he’s the type of man that needs a good woman. He could be suffering from low esteem. 8:15 😢 poor dude .. he’ll never find a woman like her.. she sincerely lovED him. 🙏🏽🙏🏽‼️

[@johnnyb6151]

Lol. I don't know if low self esteem leads to a side chick and baby. And she's not going anywhere. He will when he finds something better.

[@jacksonernie484]

​@@johnnyb6151 His self esteem is low down in his crotch.

[@heathab...._-_]

​@@johnnyb6151yup he definitely would leave her for somebody else, because she don't know how to leave and never go back

[@ShesFromVenus]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MissAMY42]

She is going to keep playing boo boo the fool. He knows what to say in order to keep reeling her back in. At the end she had the nerve to say she's too old...I agree-she's too old to keep falling for the non sense. He is for the streets, therefore let him stay there and pay his CS. The end.

[@alcproduction7855]

Lol she sued her mom oh wow shes $$

[@KrisLim-kz6zh]

Mathis riding for him and giving him 😆 excuses

[@RacieRain]

I can't stand JM. IDC how y'all feel.