Not Letting Him Work it Off

[@minae9935]

She needs to just coparent and not give him another chance. When someone shows you who they are, believe them

[@misterbee66]

Exactly, which was said by Dr. Maya Angelou.

[@sheilataylor7497]

Right! He cheated before the marriage, during the marriage and she's consiering taking him back. smh Ignore him.

[@dantej2024]

Facts 💯

[@HellokittyLuv03]

Having an outside baby is extremely reckless. I would not take him back that’s crossing the line

[@trecialangley5535]

Like Judge Mathis said she’s looking to be hurt. He’s already shown her who he is.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

its putting your life at risk when they are out out here having unprotected sex

[@NKAB4]

@@trecialangley5535exactly girl that’s on you…

[@sereneamani1713]

I am going to make a silly comment. I wonder who's taking care of that child.

[@mjake21]

U sound like my sister she love her bad but he did that and she just can't get past that

[@Luckymeee555]

She keeps complaining but keeps taking him back smh

[@dinahbriggs5190]

dickmatized😢

[@sheilae.9670]

Exactly! Just let him cheat in peace 😒

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

if NEVER take them back, it only gets worse🤦🏾‍♀️

[@sereneamani1713]

@@dinahbriggs5190 And if that's the case, she could be that without having babies that she's had to take care of by herself.

[@markquarto8159]

WOMEN LIKE JERKS. 😂

[@Jelliebean86]

She’s crazy for trying to run him over, crashed into someone else’s vehicle, could’ve killed someone!!! People need to learn to just walk away.

[@heathab...._-_]

It's crazy how she blames him for her craziness, then continued to stay with him and allowed him to continue to keep cheating

[@shani9165]

All while pregnant and threatening to miscarry..

[@paulettesalomon2520]

Just to take him back 🤡

[@Jaxya1]

Well said I agree it’s not worth it

[@Proverbspsalms]

Well, she obviously wasn’t in her right mind anyway if there were problems prior, and she thought the other girl was the side piece before they got married. No, she was the side piece because they were only living together.

[@msladycmo]

Sounds like he want to get back with her so he don't have to pay her back.

[@sheilataylor7497]

And she falling for it. 🙄🙄😏😏

[@alturrick]

It's ain't the money fam'

[@jasonclyburn1499]

Theodora she is definitely named after her dad name Theodore lol

[@essencejackson8123]

Right ❤😂🎉😅😊

[@Crystal-Love]

Facts 😂😂😂

[@N.B988]

It's actually a really common name in slavic countries and eu. It don't gotta be a spin off from her daddy name.

[@deetheefoodie]

I was gonna say the same thing 🤣🤣🤣 I was named after my dad (David) and mom (Felicia) ☺️

[@amberhi874]

You already know lol

[@chancest.thomas5160]

She shouldn't Have Married Him If When just Datin', He was already Cheatin'!!

[@red_icee962]

Yeah she already knew what her future with him would be!

[@brilliantlybritt1928]

Exactly!!

[@JaNaeSmith-vk7uk]

Agreed

[@shereekern6801]

Made some mistakes 😂😂😂 that’s an under statement.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

They ALWAYS down play their BS🤡🤛🏾😒😑

[@Proverbspsalms]

Well, she made some bad choices. Did she not say that he was cheating on her before they got married yet? She married him anyway.

[@teamleoaug15]

How do yall fall in love with these type of bums?! 😂😂😂😂 he don't or hasn't brought anything to the table in 18 years smh

[@lovelylee7322]

Cheating is a choice, not a mistake

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Facts💯

[@mikeprice8307]

Ah thanks for enlightening me

[@brandone869]

If u are taking a math test and the question is 2+2 u answer 5 that was a choice as well as a mistake

[@renadachandler9068]

Good 1

[@mikeprice8307]

@@brandone869 I think OP is confused with accident. If you cheat with wrong one, BIG mistake 😂😭

[@vonyorker4482]

Why would you take it upon yourself to help him do anything, HE'S A LOSER!!!!

[@Proverbspsalms]

She’s a losette- clearly he was no good before they got married. But she took him anyway.

[@nadiaw.7229]

It's not just the cheating he not financially responsible

[@ThePrettyProfessor]

Exactly

[@greaterishe7197]

True

[@asiaanderson5556]

They're both clowns

[@33Tiffny]

Yes

[@ShesFromVenus]

Exactly.

[@Proverbspsalms]

Finally, somebody said it. They keep blaming him for everything.

[@Luckymeee555]

These grown men act like big kids

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

True💯

[@beautifulsoul5882]

*BM

[@sereneamani1713]

@@beautifulsoul5882 MEN. Are you that ill-informed. Or you just have disdain for Black men?

[@christopherwilliams5459]

Grown women been acting kids since the beginning of time a bunch of spoiled liabilities and dependence

[@JM_HUh]

It’s so embarrassing smh like at what point do they grow up?

[@BXPOSSETV]

They got like 5 kids at some point you gotta stop having kids. Take responsibility with your actions. And at the end she still wants to deal with him

[@xclusivechristina4693]

As soon as they got back together judge Judy would have have dismissed the plaintiff case

[@heathab...._-_]

Yup

[@Jackstone3333]

Yep she would have said madam you took him back case dismissed

[@izzybee7162]

​@@Jackstone3333 or a simple "BALONEY!"

[@Jackstone3333]

​@@izzybee7162😂😂

[@scaryanima9268]

​@@izzybee7162"Just a second."

[@amberhi874]

He keep touching his head, when he talks.... Reminds of Tommy on Martin. "Errrrraaaa", bald head lie! 😂😂😂

[@oodief88]

🤣🤣🤣

[@takeiarobinson2311]

😂😂😂

[@kamariasia]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kaylee3867]

But I noticed he rolled his eyes at the top of his head like a woman at the beginning of the show I wonder was it in regards to Judge Mathis or the plaintiff

[@softersideofc.c.5655]

😂😂😂

[@Ginaaaa555]

She was one step away from brandy on thin line between love and hate

[@mjake21]

Yep I can see that ,she said multiple times stop playing wit me

[@Strawberryfreeze3000]

😂😂😂😂

[@BeeShae]

😂😂😂😂

[@webbc23]

If I have to check up on you like I'm an investigator I don't want you

[@dawniipoo322]

She's the perfect example of why you shldnt take back a cheater,you'll never be able to trust them

[@carolekelly5384]

Or move forward.

[@LeshaFBaby]

They love to say He needs counseling But still take them back every time without it. Don't keep wasting your good years

[@kaylee3867]

Some women is scared to be alone they will do anything for a man presence

[@LeshaFBaby]

@@kaylee3867 agreed

[@tangelacarter6620]

Girl. Be done with him.

[@Proverbspsalms]

No, no no she picked him. He was doing her wrong before they got married. They deserve each other. She deserves everything she got.

[@Mrs.Standard]

Sometimes it’s better to walk away instead of torturing yourself.

[@meicolar1724]

She knows who he is....taking care of him after his disrespect....but won't cut ties....🤦🏾‍♀️

[@KJay-ql3hq]

Teaching your daughters it’s okay to disrespect yourself & run back to a no good toxic situation is crazy ..whether it’s their dad or not .. as mothers you have to lead by example .

[@urluvizmyluv1999]

He had a baby on you, and you were willing to work it out? This must be the twilight zone.

[@Foxy-nw2gg]

😀😀😀

[@idanilee3]

She’s silly and she does like to hurt herself. She initially said that she was AT RISK OF MISCARRYING HER CHILD, yet she still spun the block to catch him in some mess ALMOST KILLING HERSELF AND HER UNBORN CHILD in the process. Still married him. 🙄

[@heathab...._-_]

And still wants to be with him now, talking about some counseling hoping they can work it out, she wants to continue to be hurt that dude ain't change

[@b.dailey3180]

Definition of toxic relationship.

[@wellthatsinteresting1]

Ughhhh he is soooo full of excuses and she is so confused

[@albertaowusu3536]

He's try'na work out his loan 😅

[@molisnia]

It is hard to regain lost trust.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

which is why you should NEVER go back🤦🏾‍♀️

[@LajaHiggins]

That's is very true.

[@karendorsey4780]

They deserve each other ! Just constant drama! Some people that’s all they know! Don’t want to change! If you can’t afford to loan money, don’t do it! Most of the time you don’t get it back!

[@donnabethea8164]

Judge gave a valid point. That’s toxic shit

[@shynbryt11]

She said something wrong with him. No something is wrong with you, you keep taking him back…

[@honeybeeklo83]

😂 Judge must have personal experience with the ‘searching for ways to hurt yourself’ example

[@paulettesalomon2520]

Taking a man back after he had a baby on you is WILD

[@b.dailey3180]

That ish at the end tells me why these two came on the show in the first place.

[@bryannaexume107]

Not to be off-topic, but don’t you realize the bystander lady has been glowing up and losing weight😩😍

[@Alesana907]

Wow didnt even notice her until i read this comment. She looks really good!

[@Junegermaine]

The fact that she’s willing to rekindle the relationship really made me look at how foolish I was in my past relationship…. Girl go thee other waaay!!!

[@oodief88]

It's amazing how one party would continuously cause pain and heartache to the other and think that just because they've finally "grown up" that everything should be fine.

[@sereneamani1713]

Truly amazing. I wonder how he faces or represents himself to his children.

[@KayB-l5h]

She keeps saying ex like she not still tryna be with her ex. Loaning him money and sleeping with him don't make her look anything but foolish. He than had a baby on her. That's the line in the sand right there. He gon get her back long enough to get them loans thrown out.

[@MrsB320]

11:12 GIRL 🙏🏽 PLEASE … that’s NOT WORTH IT!!

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

NOT AT ALL🤡🤛🏾

[@greaterishe7197]

She hasn't healed 🙏

[@jacinthbailey4483]

She's gonna go back to him...he knows it

[@BH-85]

This dude rubbed all his hair off lmao

[@tgrant6518]

Judge always go hard on women who snoop but never go hard on men not to cheat and lie which ruin’s lives

[@SRT_DRE]

Cheating and lying doesn’t ruin lives. Plus, most men cheat these days. Not all, but the vast majority do. This isn’t the 60s where you had the meet people at the grocery store or church. If you’re the right woman for a man, he won’t cheat. If he cheats, there’s clearly something you’re lacking to him. Be better or move on.

[@criminalsurveillance]

Right! And it's immature. They know they don't want a monogamous relationship but still get into one knowing it'll hurt that individual then complain when presented with the consequences. It's sadistic and delusional. Only a cheater would disagree.. She should've taken those red flags seriously. Unfortunately by considering going back again, she is going to miss out on someone who would actually love her and he will be her downfall but she's allowing it.

[@sybilwhite1259]

Taking my original statement back if my x husband had a child on me it would be completely over!

[@jac8571]

Why do people START with “like I said” when they just start talking?

[@gwendlynjohnson10]

JM is right. Stop going through the phone and people's property in general. If you're not willing to work on trusting them again, leave them alone. It's less stressful.

[@tosha0508]

She's crazy. Girrrrrrrrrl........ That man doesn't love you.

[@wesleychasady]

He just tried to get over on you in court, cheated, took away your peace. He’s giving you every reason to leave and not look back.

[@wellhydrated359]

Brains blew back now he wants his wife👴🏾smh

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

He still gone cheat🤦🏾‍♀️

[@davidmanson7159]

I believe some people loves drama, she have been there once over money. Keep your money in your pocket, and this won’t happen. I found out lending 95 percent of the time don’t work. I don’t feel a man should borrow from a woman anyway, that use to be unheard of. Get two jobs if you have too.

[@jerrandorose5443]

Time change both can barrow just paid back,

[@davidmanson7159]

@@jerrandorose5443 that’s true, but we have so many weak men now days.

[@misskb2363]

@@davidmanson7159 but you got to remember who raised those weak men.

[@oodief88]

​@@misskb2363 sure wasn't these weak absent fathers.

[@davidmanson7159]

@@misskb2363 truth to that, for sure.

[@deetheefoodie]

There’s an old saying in Tennessee - I know it’s in Texas, probably in Tennessee - that says, fool me once, shame on - shame on you. Fool me - you can’t get fooled again.” -G.W. Bush

[@9lifes979]

How can you love somebody more than life itself, when without life there’s nothing.

[@tannyshayearby8698]

When you have cheated on someone repeatedly and want to restore the relationship, you have to be willing to go through what it takes to gain that person's trust again. A part of that is almost always dealing with their hypervigilance until they move past it

[@savedonlybygrace4705]

It's almost like he used her because as soon as they are together now he was using her money with no problem.

[@Bolobei]

Its Monday, I'm here

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

🧐🍿☕

[@juniorstarks7494]

I’m here too

[@tayrenee378]

Wasn’t expecting that “no cap” 😂

[@Pinkblueflowerlady]

Never marry anyone that cheats, things aren’t gonna get any better don’t bring more stress on yourself..

[@Prettythompkins242]

I commend her for leaving after the baby. I know a few who stayed. Ps: he will not stop

[@amandamiller4586]

Let that man cheat in peace! All you going to do is take him back! If you going to keep spinning the block and you know what that man is capable of doing, let him do it in peace! Sis you need to go heal!

[@sherisespillsh5838]

Ladies why are we taking care of men like they are our children . Husband x husband or not ! Sickening!!!!!!

[@katrinagarnett3256]

If you have to inspect, walk. He should want you so bad that he holds his own self accountable.

[@MariwittheI]

Hello Judge Mathis, this was a beautiful case. I like when you (Judge Mathis) play advisor and match maker. I hope that they will work it out and he tightens up for good.❤❤❤like frfr❤🎉❤

[@vanessacampbell7110]

THE PLANTIFF IS TOO NICE I WOULDNT HAD LOAN THE DEFENDANT NOTHING AT ALL 😮😮😮😮😮

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

NEVER loan males money🤦🏾‍♀️

[@sereneamani1713]

NICE is not the word for what she is.

[@vanessacampbell7110]

@@kayshawnsimmons5585 EXACTLY 💯 👏

[@michellec2899]

What a beautiful woman, move forward,he’ll,never change. Get your self another real loving man. YOU deserve to treat yourself better, EVERYONE MAKES THERE OWN CHOICES!

[@TommiTommy]

If I have to do all that …I’m not gon be with you …Nothing is worth your mental peace… because All that she doing to make sure he not cheating is insane …

[@MrsB320]

He ZAPPED all her JOY. 15:48

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Energy Vampire and Parasite 🤡🤛🏾💯

[@ShesFromVenus]

And she let him. 👏🏽

[@JM_HUh]

She got a hell of a first & last name 😂

[@ANTZPound4Pound]

That old Cliche "Back N D Day!"

[@nadiaw.7229]

When you choose to have sex outside the relationship, you jeopardize all stability within the house and individual health/ well-being

[@jilly5727]

When I man know you ain’t going anywhere he’s not going to change

[@twill1007]

Sooooo he was cheating while you were dating AND pregnant, but hey let’s get married . Plus how you call her the side chick, hell you more like the side chick 😒

[@SaxWithShad]

With Judge Mathis getting a divorce now maybe his wife was mad about her money

[@ThePrettyProfessor]

I like her. She seemed like the leader in the household. How could you respect a man when you’re making all the decisions & you got a whole family.

[@mom2babygkaterad946]

She continues to fall for his lies & foolishness hook🪝, line AND sinker.🎣 As a viewer, I’m sick of them already. Imagine how the kids must feel. Toxicity at it’s worst😔🥺

[@reginaharrigan7454]

Sis you can't stop a man from cheating

[@kimberlywilliams9144]

It is not worth the stress! Sis just MOVE ON

[@sereneamani1713]

Why do men (or anyone) not realize that if you are in school and/or not making much money, rent, mortgage, utilities, groceries, etc., still need to be paid. I didn't hear or see of a time mentioned where this man was being the head of his household making sure his children and the household were being properly cared for. I am puzzled as to what she is looking for from this man. A miracle? A dream? Something that hasn't happened to date? I am sincerely puzzled.

[@tenny1010]

Get another man! There is too much water under the bridge with this man.

[@seanhinton2331]

The judge did drop a gem he’s cheating she keeps taking him back and now she stressing worry if he’s still cheating pulling up checking phones that’s too much.

[@nomessnostress]

I'm definitely a searcher 😂😂😂😅 and hurt my own feelings lol

[@ULTRXBLXCK]

When Judge Mathis said no physical violence, she scrunched up her face and I was confused. Fast forward, she's telling a story about her trying to run him over with her car.

[@skorwolf2719]

Only time to admit to cheating is when they want that person back

[@brittneyberry4934]

Is it me or JM in a gr8 mood today. He's held ppl in contempt with better attitudes. He dnt like litigants tell him what to ask or disagree with him in general. No I didn't hurt myself I hurt my car...he's read ppl to filth for less.

[@tgrant6518]

Prayers and blessings to you sis. I know hindsight is 2020.

[@Fluffyy808]

“Theodora” is crazzzyyyy😭

[@nyairagram3960]

Yo momma name is crazy

[@Melanatedsoul_46]

Imagine having your wedding in court 😩😄

[@troyanthony4990]

She's so beautiful😍 move on babygirl 💯

[@sybilwhite1259]

Wish them both well whatever the outcome is.

[@sereneamani1713]

I wish their children well and hope they survive intact.

[@Beauty777_]

It blows my mind how many ppl go have raw sex with someone else and come back to their partner smh

[@misterbee66]

I respect his honesty, he is wrong however.

[@AshleiKylie]

She has zero self control; she crashes her car into another’s car over him and has the nerve to be smug about it. smh I know their kids have witnessed some mess smh

[@alcproduction7855]

Lol she sued her mom oh wow shes $$

[@chadaidavis92]

I love the way she talk. She’s so cute

[@tjneverdefeated4394]

Let him go.

[@fundifferent1]

I don't have sympathy for someone who marries a known cheater then gets cheated on.

[@anayasdad81]

I mean Mathis didn't ask why he was your ex

[@moneka1030]

All that cheating and baby making only to come right back begging for the very one you neglected.! Yall trip me out 😂😂

[@rayman1269]

She seems extremely patient 😂

[@thickseptember]

“Singleteary” is an interesting name. I wonder it’s origin

[@saffsuff]

How did everybody go past the running over attempt 😮