Not what you think - The Real Deal about Maids in the Philippines

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Күн бұрын

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@JasperBlackwood
@JasperBlackwood Жыл бұрын
Went to the Philippines in 2019 for work, i needed a maid to help keep things tidy as i was legitimately busy every single day with two jobs. 4 years later she is my wife and we have two children together lol.
@PartlyCloudy1965
@PartlyCloudy1965 Жыл бұрын
EXCELLENT way to really get to know who you end up being married to, even if by accident, i wish you and her well, made me smile to read it
@TheRogerhill1234
@TheRogerhill1234 Жыл бұрын
Do you still have to pay her? Probably, a lot more now !!
@mabuhayproductionltd3627
@mabuhayproductionltd3627 Жыл бұрын
that how it goes, hard to remain Single in the Philippines 🙂
@StoicEver
@StoicEver Жыл бұрын
You win at life sir! Congrats!
@raiban719
@raiban719 10 ай бұрын
Sometimes it works out :)
@Lawrencerice
@Lawrencerice Жыл бұрын
NEVER SLEEP WITH THE HIRED HELP. If you wish to engage in a romantic relationship fire her, and make her your girlfriend. You can always give your girlfriend an allowance. This avoids any legal issues from sleeping with the help, and shows her proper respect.
@misternobody9801
@misternobody9801 Жыл бұрын
I’ve never had any legal problems sleeping with any of my maids over the years. 1 year contracts and always left on great terms. Perhaps the guys struggling are not being clear in the beginning.
@Lawrencerice
@Lawrencerice Жыл бұрын
@@misternobody9801 You don't until you do. It only takes one angry or opportunist woman to file a complaint on you, and BOOM, your life can become instant misery.
@jtns2845
@jtns2845 11 ай бұрын
make a contract with services specified, including massages if desired.
@williampowell2722
@williampowell2722 8 ай бұрын
if you want to bring your maid back home with you things can get complicated
@gearsofbaird3529
@gearsofbaird3529 6 ай бұрын
​@williampowell2722 why would you do that?
@cynthiagonzalez658
@cynthiagonzalez658 Жыл бұрын
I grew up un Manila and we were not rich. We always had a maid. They usually came from provinces, wanting income in between the planting and harvesting seasons. Some younger ones, my Mom sent for further education in vocational schools. Some have to be trained to clean the way we expected. Usually, laundry was done by other people hired from the neighborhood.
@dosbaggos5575
@dosbaggos5575 Жыл бұрын
A guy I used to work with brought his bride back to California. She had a maid there. Not a happy camper here.
@ChochiT0-ddd7fd
@ChochiT0-ddd7fd Жыл бұрын
@@dosbaggos5575 Man, what do you mean by "Not a happy camper here". I'm under anger management classes ordered by the court or else and guys like you really make just want to go back to prison. So using Gio In the Philippines voice, read the following: Sir, what did you mean by "Not a happy camper here" and what does that have anything to do with your earlier statements? Thank you for your time.
@dosbaggos5575
@dosbaggos5575 Жыл бұрын
​@@ChochiT0-ddd7fdMy co-worker's wife was used to having a maid do her menial tasks in the Philippines; Had to fend for herself in the USA. *Anger management" usually means you've havent met somebody bigger and badder than you.
@ChochiT0-ddd7fd
@ChochiT0-ddd7fd Жыл бұрын
@@dosbaggos5575 It makes a little better sense now. You have an issue with "here" and "there" without specifying where you mean. Regarding the *anger management* comment, I ​ seriously doubt I'll ever meet that someone one day, unless he comes at me with a G.. Hasn't been born yet.
@thegoat11111
@thegoat11111 Жыл бұрын
@@ChochiT0-ddd7fd 😂😂😂
@ChochiT0-ddd7fd
@ChochiT0-ddd7fd Жыл бұрын
Things are more relaxed than it seems. People don't care about any of these laws and stuff. It's the Philippines. However, don't abuse your Filipina maid just because you can get away with it. Some of you can afford to put them through school, pay them a little bit more, etc.. Treat them like you want to be treated. They are human beings in need. I'm not one of those guys worrying about saving a couple pesos with the trike driver or at the market. Come on guys, these people are human too. You all can afford to pay a little bit more. I said "a little bit" more!
@michaeledwards5173
@michaeledwards5173 Жыл бұрын
Well said friend,,as stated we are all human and the ladies deserve the same treatment and respect as we would expect, they are wonderful ladies ,,
@jlawrence0181
@jlawrence0181 Жыл бұрын
Do realize that if you pay them more, you will catch the ire of your other Filipino friends. There is a crab mentality that employees should not be paid much more "than they should be" and paying too much will upset the social order. Seriously.
@ChochiT0-ddd7fd
@ChochiT0-ddd7fd Жыл бұрын
@@jlawrence0181 "you will catch the ire of your other Filipino friends" I don't understand what you are trying to say there. What other Filipino friends? "There is a crab mentality that employees should not be paid much more "than they should be" Where did you get that from and how will that affect you as an employer? First of all, nobody has to know what you pay your employees. That's a private matter. The only crab mentality that exists in the Philippines is Filipinos trying to bring down other Filipinos when they are trying to achieve success. "" and paying too much will upset the social order." How? Explain. How will a few foreigners paying an extra 1000 pesos to their maids upset the social order?
@HunkyMan777
@HunkyMan777 10 ай бұрын
Treat her with dignity and respect. She is making your life easier
@Neiltj
@Neiltj 4 ай бұрын
that's a fair point try telling that to the people that want to rip you off. I'm all for fair price and giving a wee bit more on a tip if that person gives me value gos above what is expected.
@gandalfstormcrow8439
@gandalfstormcrow8439 8 ай бұрын
Quantum physics isn't actually all that complicated. Women are.
@leonwangls
@leonwangls Жыл бұрын
My friend married his maid. 30 yrs ago. Now with 3 children and she is having her own business .
@joiesamaniego3056
@joiesamaniego3056 Жыл бұрын
correction po. Our housemaid still use automatic washing machines and only delicate clothes should be washed by hand. It takes time off the more important things and usually detergents are really harsh for skin. So please don't make them wash your clothes by hand. They will be thanking you and beore productive in their everyday
@Phil-Am_in_the_Philippines
@Phil-Am_in_the_Philippines Жыл бұрын
Maybe in Manila. But still in the province likes to washed by hand. Its more cleaned well in heavy stained.
@Johnrich6969
@Johnrich6969 Жыл бұрын
​@@Phil-Am_in_the_Philippinesthat is not true. People from provinces still longing to have washing machine . That's the fact now adays
@Phil-Am_in_the_Philippines
@Phil-Am_in_the_Philippines Жыл бұрын
@@Johnrich6969 Maybe you. But we still stick on basic way in our province.
@balsafarmers10
@balsafarmers10 Жыл бұрын
Living in the province and Manila, I prefer to handwash my clothes and the kids clothes esp if they are new. if house clothes I wash them with soap n washing and cleanse them 3x by hand. I handwash new clothes or I use them when I go out. I often do the same even in Manila.
@joiesamaniego3056
@joiesamaniego3056 Жыл бұрын
@@Phil-Am_in_the_Philippines If you yourself are the one to wash that way then it is fine. We never force that on anyone. I myself would wash or even “kuskos” clothes that are heavily soiled. But on our housemaid,nah. Kaya nga sila nag housemaid kase KAPOS silasa buhay so ayaw ko naman samantalahin given na madami rin gawa sa bahay and washing by hand, PAGOD NA PAGOD na sila when they do another work. Well if that is the only thing they do it for the whole day then fine, but I still can’t imagine more than a dozen clothes with different fabric thickness pa. Well, sometimes depends on your agreement na and how much clothes. But imagine a family of 3 with kids or even for two people lang for 3 days laundry madami na yun EDIT: We’re in the province din po. After ng laba sa morning pwede sya magsiesta ng after lunch then resume ng work sa hapon. The work load isnt that heavy then may social time pa sya para naman turing na tao rin diba. Kase pets nga may social needs then tsaka para may time sa self nya and paglago whatever they chose to spend their time bahala sila.
@FoundingYouTuber-2005
@FoundingYouTuber-2005 3 ай бұрын
Wow, that felt like I was back in college, in a physics class lecture. Fast and to the point, this was an excellent presentation. Liked, subscribed, and rang that bell.
@Josco31
@Josco31 Жыл бұрын
I just clicked on this video just for the sake of. No real interest in going to the Philippines or hiring a maid. You've given a wealth of information. Your newest subscriber!
@Nonodelibre
@Nonodelibre 11 ай бұрын
Don't come here to the Philippines!
@Josco31
@Josco31 11 ай бұрын
@@Nonodelibre Not even for a visit, lol?
@Nonodelibre
@Nonodelibre 11 ай бұрын
@@Josco31 Yes! Not even for a visit!
@Josco31
@Josco31 11 ай бұрын
@@Nonodelibre 🤣😂🤣😂 Too bad! I got cousins who are going back to visit with family and I'm going with them!
@Nonodelibre
@Nonodelibre 11 ай бұрын
@@Josco31 A very sad day for the Philippines!
@jimoncken6936
@jimoncken6936 11 ай бұрын
Refreshing to hear coherent, well-spoken commentary! 😊
@RatgenerationX
@RatgenerationX 8 ай бұрын
We all know why we really clicked this video 😂 hahaaaaaa
@gailmaplesden7380
@gailmaplesden7380 10 ай бұрын
If you do hire a full-time maid through an agency, you will be required to house and feed her as well as provide medical care and pay her, including payroll taxes and the agency fee. You will need a maids quarters or have a 2 bedroom 2 cr apartment which will also cost you more . For a single man, a part-time maid would be the best way to avoid the extra costs of a live-in maid . Also, have a safe or place for your valuable items as if you misplace your items, you won't have an awkward situation.
@jeeveswinston2545
@jeeveswinston2545 Жыл бұрын
This is supervision / management 101… applicable to any base business or personal home management. This is what female head of household did in the US before the nuclear family broke apart. The family CEO was the wife. The production manager was the husband. The product was the child.
@AmeraPina
@AmeraPina Жыл бұрын
Family CEO was the husband and the family COO was the wife.
@Rob-bq6ek
@Rob-bq6ek Жыл бұрын
You can ask her to get a chest x-ray. TB is very common in the Philippines. Ask her to get the doctor to write a simple letter on the doctor's letter head stating whether she has it or not.
@daturon1885
@daturon1885 Жыл бұрын
lol who says its very common, my entire 32 years living here in philippines, i only knew 2 people who had TB
@Rob-bq6ek
@Rob-bq6ek Жыл бұрын
@@daturon1885 Philippines has the highest TB incidence rate in Asia, with 554 cases for every 100,000 Filipinos, according to the World Health Organization (WHO) global TB report in 2020.
@daturon1885
@daturon1885 Жыл бұрын
.05% and every worker here requires medical certificate.
@daturon1885
@daturon1885 Жыл бұрын
saying common from us is pointing that majority of us here have TB. is more than 50% is not equal to more or less 0.5%?
@Rob-bq6ek
@Rob-bq6ek Жыл бұрын
@@daturon1885 stats don't lie 🤥🤡. Common means prevalent (look at a dictionary), NOT 'majority' as you defined it.
@jannarkiewicz633
@jannarkiewicz633 7 ай бұрын
My wife most of the chores you list :-) She is my language buffer against deliveries.
@qbanlink25
@qbanlink25 11 ай бұрын
@ 13:55, the most important part of the video, i'm tracking, enough said sir.
@GeorgesCanadianVentures
@GeorgesCanadianVentures Жыл бұрын
Excellent Goertz! 🇨🇦 🍺
@esthergloba9527
@esthergloba9527 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your very useful information. Keep up godbless
@Discoverandlivephilippines
@Discoverandlivephilippines 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, I will
@90836usaful
@90836usaful 7 ай бұрын
Excellent information
@Discoverandlivephilippines
@Discoverandlivephilippines 7 ай бұрын
Glad you liked it
@alanaldpal950
@alanaldpal950 Жыл бұрын
‘We westerners have our own take on time and punctuality” said in what sounds like a German Accent….. HaHa
@liamstone3437
@liamstone3437 Жыл бұрын
Ihr aussprache is wirklich sehr gut. Great no nonsense content too. Veile grusse von USA.
@Discoverandlivephilippines
@Discoverandlivephilippines Жыл бұрын
ThaNk you very much
@timothytomblin
@timothytomblin Жыл бұрын
His pronunciation is very bad.
@liamstone3437
@liamstone3437 Жыл бұрын
@@timothytomblin you don't hang with many Germans I can tell.
@MichaelSuarez-yq3wt
@MichaelSuarez-yq3wt 11 ай бұрын
Some of them ask overtime or extension of specific time.
@dicksyphilis3914
@dicksyphilis3914 Жыл бұрын
A maid is more important than a girlfriend. The girlfriend would have to go.
@mypelagic4926
@mypelagic4926 8 ай бұрын
There are plenty of girlfriends in the Philippines
@KingSausage74
@KingSausage74 3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 cool name!!!
@jtbrown5801
@jtbrown5801 Жыл бұрын
Good information thank you
@Discoverandlivephilippines
@Discoverandlivephilippines Жыл бұрын
Welcome
@DaveD4v3
@DaveD4v3 Жыл бұрын
Good solid advice 👍
@Discoverandlivephilippines
@Discoverandlivephilippines Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@youreright3664
@youreright3664 11 ай бұрын
Maid /wife same thing. Both cook and clean. Both have sex with you for a while, till they find someone younger or wealthier. Both will extract as much money as they can from you.
@444truth
@444truth 11 ай бұрын
I have 7 maids....one for each day. don't judge.
@coco19661
@coco19661 Жыл бұрын
Good video
@Discoverandlivephilippines
@Discoverandlivephilippines Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the visit
@roberthampson6659
@roberthampson6659 6 ай бұрын
Just pay more for extras if they agree
@Dan-the-man-
@Dan-the-man- Жыл бұрын
I'd def want two maids... Gigity... I'm joking. Ay ay ay.
@The_Judge300
@The_Judge300 11 ай бұрын
When getting a maid, I highly recommend that you get a maid that you do NOT find attractive at all. Do NOT get a maid to get a sex partner or a future wife. It is dishonest and the totally way to do it. That can lead to way more problems that you want. And it will also not lead to any jealousy issues if you meet a woman that you really like and she realizes you have a young and attractive maid in your house.
@donniedotzler7387
@donniedotzler7387 7 күн бұрын
Maid can be male. Better
@thesubgenius1676
@thesubgenius1676 Жыл бұрын
Phili maids are very helpful, and submissive.
@don7154
@don7154 11 ай бұрын
😂there submissive to u
@thesubgenius1676
@thesubgenius1676 11 ай бұрын
@@don7154 It's in their cultures. We must respect it
@kuzinit2374
@kuzinit2374 Жыл бұрын
Maids are the ticket for single men , you can trade them in , untill you get a compatible one , if you end up getting married, just keep paying her and expect her to do her work , with benefits, probably save money
@nanbolz2238
@nanbolz2238 Жыл бұрын
Smh. Unbelievable statement. Exploiting the vulnerable. Just unbelievable!
@ottowokeninger9617
@ottowokeninger9617 Жыл бұрын
I'm literally shaking I'm figuratively shaking Oh, the horror Literally simp shaking
@Mottleydude1
@Mottleydude1 Жыл бұрын
When you’re living in the Philippines a good Yaya is a treasure that will take care of your home, do light labor and run daily errands for you. As long as you treat them right and with dignity they will also be very loyal. After a while they become like a member of the family and often are treated as such. I have known folks who have paid for their Yaya’s kids college education and paid for serious medical expenses for them when they are in no way obligated to. If your Yaya is helping to raise your kids your kids will often become very attached to her. So it’s not going to be a typical employee/employer relationship. For the single guys who think that a Yaya would be a nice sexual surrogate where providing you sex is part of the job. Well you’re a special sort of creep.
@cadillacdeville419
@cadillacdeville419 Жыл бұрын
I agree. But Yaya is filipino name only for the babysitter, not for the housekeeper! Those are two different persons, completely different professions. You need Yaya if you have a small child only and she won't do chores, you need a housekeeper for that. Luckily they are not expensive, both around the same price so you can afford both to make your life easier :)
@stephendunn2860
@stephendunn2860 Жыл бұрын
My wife’s Yaya still lives with my in-laws after 37 years! She is indeed part of the family.
@ottowokeninger9617
@ottowokeninger9617 Жыл бұрын
Every average male is a creep in the west. Welcome to the new order.
@mrmikecebu
@mrmikecebu Жыл бұрын
age 50 to 60 had 4 to 5 gfs/dates imade maids and slept with who i wanted. ALL married foriegners except a lesbian one. $100 A MONTH EACH, replaced as they married . all 18 to 21. AT 62 I had slowly let them go and lived with 1 for 6 years and married. i took all dancing on weekends in sexy clothes i got them. turned heads. SEXnever mentioned, just happened after live in few days, one day off a week. picked maids who had a bf before. EXCEPT ONEwho was a friend and virgen who knew all before hire and oldest at 24 and wanting to learn. as a retired rn, i had ball. all were model or pin up beauties. LAST ten years 3 daughters, one in sweden, i built home in pinoy sons name and finally married. LIFE HERE IS WAY YOU WANT. IN usa? NOT SO MUCH.
@markjohnson3616
@markjohnson3616 3 ай бұрын
Thete lazy they just live off you and your internet i had three not worth your time
@eyeofefil
@eyeofefil Жыл бұрын
You are teaching peple how to expoit the needy ones!
@dennispetty4405
@dennispetty4405 Жыл бұрын
Here's my take on hiring a Filipina maid.. first of all, they never get any real jobs that "will actually pay them any good rates" for the entire day of work.. trust me, I know this first hand..my Fiance used to be one of these slave workers all day..not as a maid, but in general.. her average daily wages would be around 400-700 pesos a day guys... then she would have to minus transportation to and from work, plus minus her food for the day... crazy.. she'd bring home about 3-4 dollars... that sucks... it makes saving anything in her bank very hard to do... So.. if you ever get a chance to hire a nice, sweet person as a maid, she'll be very happy to do all the house cleaning, ironing, dishes, food preparing, etc without complaining... you could off her like 500 - 800 pesos, or even a cool 1000 pesos, which is only $20 bucks a day, or for like a couple times per week, it'd make a world of difference to them.. my thoughts
@rgtunderworldrgt7773
@rgtunderworldrgt7773 Жыл бұрын
$20 is too much and sets you up to be a sucker. Stop advising people to do that. Of course someone can pay much more than what avg pay is but Don't be telling people to just give their money away.
@ottowokeninger9617
@ottowokeninger9617 Жыл бұрын
Well, we could all drive the prices up. Yeah, that seems like a good idea. Not like prices in the Philippines haven't already gone up. (Yeah, don't do it. Misguided altruism thing.)
@theglobalvagabond3074
@theglobalvagabond3074 Жыл бұрын
I had a live in maid from Vietnam in the States for a few years. I had a detailed to-do list and clear boundaries. From day one, she addressed me as Mr... and followed the checklist to the letter. Ten years after she moved on, we have remained friends, but she refuses to call me by my first name is still calls me Mr...Today, she is one of very few people that I would trust in my home, including my now x wife. I'm seriously considering her to be the executor/trustee of my estate. The bottom line is that if you establish clear boundaries, it makes everything better AND you may end up with a close friend for life.
@GeraldBeagan-ee6se
@GeraldBeagan-ee6se Жыл бұрын
That sounds right
@PartlyCloudy1965
@PartlyCloudy1965 Жыл бұрын
when you do the right thing for the right reason it usually does end up good, if both follow that "rule"
@Gary-vl7lp
@Gary-vl7lp 11 ай бұрын
You people make me sick .. " friend "
@Laurin-y3q
@Laurin-y3q 7 ай бұрын
Great job I would keep her
@PlateletRichGel
@PlateletRichGel 11 ай бұрын
i've always had a maid in the US, and always hired an older lady 45 years or more and no funny business. One came on to me, and I told her, she could be my mother in law. In the phillipines, give your girlfriend a small allowance, and tell her she can give to her family when they are begging for loan, but you don't pay more. Trust me, these two things will help you so much.
@angiep8217
@angiep8217 Жыл бұрын
House girls are all around in the Philippines. They can even answer calls & take messages if you have a landline. Feed them well, give them weekly day offs. Don’t shout or insult them if they are not too smart. I usually train them first the way I would like things to be done & I let them teach me also what they already know. Eventually you will see how she can be trusted.
@mirajulhaque6464
@mirajulhaque6464 10 ай бұрын
So nicely written 💓
@chriscampbell7776
@chriscampbell7776 Жыл бұрын
Well done. First of your videos I’ve watched. You not only concurred with several others I’ve watched, you were more comprehensive yet more concise. Again. Well done.
@Discoverandlivephilippines
@Discoverandlivephilippines Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!
@sunnydaze5022
@sunnydaze5022 Жыл бұрын
This is a gem of video. Thanks for the information. I've always considered hiring a maid to help in the household duties. You made some good points that I will consider when hiring a maid.
@Discoverandlivephilippines
@Discoverandlivephilippines Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@jackibagbaga7638
@jackibagbaga7638 Жыл бұрын
If you are Filipino and didn't know, you are clueless of your own country. These channels are only making money on Filipino misfortunes (looking for negative news) insulting the majority of educated and hard working pinoys.
@HereIGooooo
@HereIGooooo 2 ай бұрын
I think mine and your experience would be different in almost every aspect of life.
@johnsherman4035
@johnsherman4035 7 ай бұрын
It's refreshing to hear some insightful and informative content. Thanks!
@jmadventures9830
@jmadventures9830 Жыл бұрын
I got a maid. She's a lifesaver. It's my wife's sister so the kids love their tita, it helps their family it's a win win and my goodness gracious my wife is less stressed cause she's pregnant so yeah ...
@ashdobbs
@ashdobbs 2 ай бұрын
you probably don't mind her titas either
@frankkie3849
@frankkie3849 Жыл бұрын
We have had a maid , laundry lady and yard maintenance guy for over 14 years. Always get them from our local area. Plus we hire xtra people especially the older ones when they’re in need of money..Anything form cleaning windows to washing floors etc. Stuff needs cleaning and they are happily working. Word of advice not always is this the case other place’s are different and maybe not going to have the best experience with workers.. You need to be on top of your game on this and if your spouse is not equipped to handle people then you’re going into gray areas and going to have issues..IF You have a GIRLFRIEND I suggest she’s the house cleaner and laundry person that will ensure that she doesn’t just need a support dog like you..
@stevelawson68
@stevelawson68 Жыл бұрын
Support Dog😅
@MrArcher181
@MrArcher181 Жыл бұрын
I've had three maids during nearly 9 years in the Philippines. Word to the wise, clean up after yourself! All were horrible, did little except snoop.
@iamjv2k
@iamjv2k 9 ай бұрын
Omg..are you talking about maid or slave? Just for your knowledge, generally, a maid is treated like a distant relative, especially in the province. We have a maid growing up and we call her auntie. We learned when we turned 16 that she was not a relative at all. Our parents want us to respect her like our aunt. We even try to avoid using the word "maid" to introduce them to friends/relatives visiting. We introduce them as " kasambahay" which means house companion because "maid" is almost like calling them slaves. In a lot of instances too the maid is a real relative. Your rigid rules exist in the minority (for example: multi-millionaires or maybe some politicians). Just so you know too, even if we have maid, that does not mean we are just going to just sit and wait to be served. We still do chores. Not even the multi-millionaires expect their maid to do everything. They will have 3 or 4 maids with specific jobs, like one in charge of cooking, one for cleaning and laundry, etc.
@TRICK-OR-TREAT236
@TRICK-OR-TREAT236 Жыл бұрын
COME ON DUDE ! GET WITH IT. NOTHING IS MAID IN THE PHILIPPINES ANYMORE. EVERYTHING IS MAID IN CHINA ! 😂 🤣 😂 🤣 😂
@ernestoaranda717
@ernestoaranda717 3 ай бұрын
If I hire through an agency, who do I pay: The maid or the agency? How often is payday?
@ashdobbs
@ashdobbs 2 ай бұрын
a shock collar could prove invaluable
@timmySmith-jl8jx
@timmySmith-jl8jx Жыл бұрын
I've been looking for this information for months. THANK YOU SO MUCH!! subbed
@Discoverandlivephilippines
@Discoverandlivephilippines Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the sub!
@crafter2u
@crafter2u Жыл бұрын
been in the Philippines 19 years lots of maids never stay long and not beautiful
@faronray5765
@faronray5765 Жыл бұрын
It's hard to find a good maid, and harder to keep them. We have went through 4 "maids" in 3 years. If you find a good one, they are well worth it and can actually save you money.
@wildbill7081
@wildbill7081 Жыл бұрын
wow thats very true for sure now days, but many years ago it was much easier to find maids
@CCoburn3
@CCoburn3 Жыл бұрын
I don't want dating advice. Too many of these channels are about sex. I'm glad you stick to the useful facts.
@ciluvanlac6540
@ciluvanlac6540 3 ай бұрын
Truy sta safe ❤❤❤ u vidos
@bert671
@bert671 4 ай бұрын
with all that big talking about your wants you're going to pay her that much? makes sense in the province but not for city lifestyle, especially for the outside errands you have her doing just to be back home asap to cook your meal and wash your underwear. 8k should be a starting point.
@michaelwuji1758
@michaelwuji1758 11 ай бұрын
Excellent content! I just moved into a house in The Philippines and my landlord has a maid that I can hire part time. Now I know what to ask & expect, Thank you so much!!!
@anneb3170
@anneb3170 11 ай бұрын
You can always hire a maid in Philippines because they work for cheap
@jimicrack29
@jimicrack29 Жыл бұрын
NO like take care my self
@ellebleisch6853
@ellebleisch6853 Жыл бұрын
Would a male maid be possible? Some woman just dont like other women.
@philrose7716
@philrose7716 25 күн бұрын
Great information. Thank you
@Discoverandlivephilippines
@Discoverandlivephilippines 24 күн бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@stuartsmith5308
@stuartsmith5308 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir, for a full informative video. It must of taken so many hours and days to prepare to this high standard.
@Discoverandlivephilippines
@Discoverandlivephilippines Жыл бұрын
So nice of you
@kimcosmos
@kimcosmos 2 ай бұрын
Pay on demand instead of in advance. The minimum wage including benefits is U$360 a month in Manila. 1/3 of which is benefits and holiday pay. Kasambahay (live in) get 1/3 less for food and lodging. In other cities its 2/3 and in the province down to 1/2. Kasambahay law started at minimum wage equivalent but was not pegged to inflation. Never the less the going rate roughly follows it. There are 13 paid regular holidays. Those are already included in the numbers I gave.
@MrBilldo426
@MrBilldo426 Жыл бұрын
We just hired a family member to help us out. She lives there cooks and cleans. It’s a win win. She gets to live in a nice house and make a little money and we get much needed help to fit the budget. That’s the benefit of getting along well with a Filipina wife’s family 👍
@wildbill7081
@wildbill7081 Жыл бұрын
very true comment there, Mr. Bill and I am called Wild Bill maybe from my younger days hahahaha I am over 72 now been living in the Philippines over 33 years and I actually been looking for a new maid to help the other maid we currently have now.
@raiban719
@raiban719 10 ай бұрын
Although sometimes you get a family drama situation, I have been in the middle of something like that since the mid 80's we have been trying to stay out on the boundries of the situation but keep getting dragged in ... remember to stay out of family drama situations otherwise it may cost you a lot of money
@mabuhayproductionltd3627
@mabuhayproductionltd3627 Жыл бұрын
In the Philippines we Never had a Maid, My Wife wanted? to do all the Cleaning/Food stuf by her self (so it was done right). In Europe we Both Worked a Lot, so we had 5 Maids/Yayas (1 at the time), My wife did all the Talking,Testing and Hireing. She always hired Some very Christian, or Obese and One Guy so the Risk for Romantic encounters was reduced to almost Zero. It worked out quite Good, we had no problems with things dissapearing (we had some problems with one that was quite desperate to find a boyfriend and was close to leave us every time she thought she had found the love of her life). Only the last one we had, did run Away to a better paying Job after about 3 months time, we didnt hire a new one (we didnt needed it so much more and was too much hassel) 😯
@fmdday
@fmdday Жыл бұрын
Helper, not maid !
@rodrigodelaconcepcion7478
@rodrigodelaconcepcion7478 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the insightful comments and truthfulness in your video. Keep up the Fire! God Bless
@Discoverandlivephilippines
@Discoverandlivephilippines Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that
@craigk2644
@craigk2644 Жыл бұрын
My gf is the maid.
@TheRogerhill1234
@TheRogerhill1234 Жыл бұрын
and my mistress too
@purplemoose6431
@purplemoose6431 8 ай бұрын
14:44 Hi Goetz, first time viewer from the United States. Liked and subscribed. Your mention of working at a call center intrigues me. It’s my understanding that ex-pats aren’t allowed to have jobs in the Philippines. Could you make a video on what jobs ex-pats are allowed to have?
@aphilippinesadventure9184
@aphilippinesadventure9184 Жыл бұрын
If you want a maid, get one that is old enough to be very good as cooking and cleaning! Do NOT confuse maid with possible girlfriend or low cost hooker. This is a very bad attitude and will lead you to all kinds of trouble. Don't be stupid.. The good maid and good GF are NOT the same person!
@harveypolanski755
@harveypolanski755 Жыл бұрын
What's the problem with getting a two for one deal though? I see nothing wrong with paying for sex so long as it's legal and consensual. Also, nothing wrong with paying for cleaning. As long as both parties are open, honest, and consent is maintained why not?
@aphilippinesadventure9184
@aphilippinesadventure9184 Жыл бұрын
@@harveypolanski755 I'm thinking you have not lived in the Philippines. Your 2 for 1 idea usually means she will will not do either one very well. How many hot babes are going to be good at cooking, cleaning and general housekeeping? Yes, you can buy sex, but you cannot buy love and respect.
@ThinkAboutMyComment
@ThinkAboutMyComment 10 ай бұрын
They probably took the time off because you’re a stickler to work for so you had to let them poor to force them to put up with you. My nannies could have extra money and still won’t abandon me for a month
@frankkluz9787
@frankkluz9787 11 ай бұрын
Finding a good fit is difficult for the part time use I would only need. -- A day a week would be enough for me - not a live in. -- Shop a bit cook a bit and clean a bit - all in 1 day / week. Food prep for 2 or 3 days. I'll cook a bit eat out a bit and be a happy camper !
@cammontreuil7509
@cammontreuil7509 11 ай бұрын
Maid equals trouble. I wouldn't want someone in the house putting sh!t away and I can't find it. My wife is already good at that. Putting stuff where you can't find it. Filipina are border line lacking common thinking. Don't touch my stuff and leave it where I put it. Especially, don't mess with my pile of nuts and bolts. Looks like a mess to you filipina, but it's organized..
@maddysworldthechannel452
@maddysworldthechannel452 Жыл бұрын
u did read it nice of the screen we all can find in google like you did.. this content is not making sense ... at all..
@darrenthomson6315
@darrenthomson6315 Жыл бұрын
Very informative video my friend. I have now subscribed to your channel and look forward to watching more of your content. Stay safe and live your best life 😊
@Discoverandlivephilippines
@Discoverandlivephilippines Жыл бұрын
Thanks and welcome
@sh1nyarm0r
@sh1nyarm0r 8 ай бұрын
Foreigners should show respect to all workers/laborers in the Philippines, or else...
@chriselmore1969
@chriselmore1969 8 ай бұрын
I thought there would be no funny one liners? This video was full of them. LOL Well done
@sweproductions1
@sweproductions1 10 ай бұрын
The real concern should be implicit trust 😮
@varanid64
@varanid64 Жыл бұрын
wow, and here I was thinking of giving one 15k as efficiency pay....
@John-up7fq
@John-up7fq Жыл бұрын
Just found you and sub'd... I'm sure I can learn a lot from your vids ...take care and will be watching for the next
@Discoverandlivephilippines
@Discoverandlivephilippines Жыл бұрын
Awesome, thank you!
@CarlCutts
@CarlCutts Жыл бұрын
No.
@Multifuchs
@Multifuchs 10 ай бұрын
Was soll man denn da noch machen, wenn alles erledigt wird? Klingt nach einem faden Leben... =) Wenn ich überlege wie schön ich hier durchs Grundstück rotieren kann.
@jmantube1968
@jmantube1968 11 ай бұрын
And don’t forget to treat them with respect, always as you’d expect to be treated if your roles were reversed.
@leonardtownpl4081
@leonardtownpl4081 7 ай бұрын
I stayed over in the Philippines when I was in Navy
@billshaffer9689
@billshaffer9689 Жыл бұрын
My wife is Filipina but we have not lived in the Phils. We are thinking of retiring there so she can be near her family. i will likely get a housekeeper but i am not sure it would require full time since its only the wife and I and we aren't very heavy maintenance. Perhaps an ad on or separate video for part time Housekeeper help. your information was well delivered and i agree with all you explained. We have had housekeepers before in the middle east and its such a help to not have to use what little free time you get doing the daily chores a housekeeper performs. How much can one expect from part time housekeepers that don't live there full time ... and any other items that relate to part time help. thanks for your video.
@budolbes1317
@budolbes1317 11 ай бұрын
Great informative share about having help in the Philippines. New subscriber here.
@renatzkigab2616
@renatzkigab2616 8 ай бұрын
Hmm accent very Germanic sure of it.
@leonardtownpl4081
@leonardtownpl4081 7 ай бұрын
I remember my wife's maid who worked
@chaotic_scorpio
@chaotic_scorpio Жыл бұрын
I'm considering retiring to the Philippines in about 5-10 years, and having a maid was on my list if that's where I choose to retire. This video cleared up a few questions I had, great information!! From the research I have been doing, a good maid in the Philippines is almost a necessity for a single western guy, so I can spend more time enjoying retirement instead of standing in lines.
@raiban719
@raiban719 10 ай бұрын
Not really a necessity but if you want to have a relationship you don't want to have that with a live in maid, I learned the hard way .. with a maid keep everything professional unless you plan on her being your children's momma .. I will be retiring in the Philippines I own property, will be setting up a resort, have a business running a boat touring to the islands already, have some farmland and farm animals ... You need to be ready to take care of yourself if you plan on retiring there
@chaotic_scorpio
@chaotic_scorpio 10 ай бұрын
Definitely will be a professional relationship only with the maid. Having someone take care of the mundane day to day things is what I want, so I have more time to enjoy myself.
@jamesmarchetti3286
@jamesmarchetti3286 11 ай бұрын
Great and accurate information and also covering possibilities !!!
@stephendunn2860
@stephendunn2860 Жыл бұрын
6-9k would be low for Manila for a full time maid.
@daidavies6210
@daidavies6210 Жыл бұрын
NAAH Stuff it Shag the Maid 😂
@ricksdestinationcebu
@ricksdestinationcebu Жыл бұрын
Yea,im sure the wife will pick her out..
@chrisjuricichxl5
@chrisjuricichxl5 Жыл бұрын
we have a 'maid', though rather, the new operative term is 'domestic helper'. We currently have a husband wife pair who come in 3 days a week who do laundry, cleaning, occasional driving, and bill paying for us. Unfortunately, our previous maid who we got through college then stole over 100,000 pesos from us.
@GeraldBeagan-ee6se
@GeraldBeagan-ee6se Жыл бұрын
Woah, …did she lighten the wallet or how did she do that?
@PartlyCloudy1965
@PartlyCloudy1965 Жыл бұрын
thats just what you know of, probably more
@chrisjuricichxl5
@chrisjuricichxl5 Жыл бұрын
@@GeraldBeagan-ee6se my error in trusting. My bank pw and id were automatically showing when she was on my computer. Transferred on a weekly basis around 10,000 each week. Finally noticed; checked with bank atm CC and it was pretty much slamdunk. she continues to deny it all. guilty me of too much trust. never again--we'd known her 8 years by then. kinda embarrassing, actually, but I share this because you should always be careful with your household staff.
@chrisjuricichxl5
@chrisjuricichxl5 Жыл бұрын
@@PartlyCloudy1965 chances are if you've got household help, you're as much at risk yourself.
@introvert4everfreddy656
@introvert4everfreddy656 10 ай бұрын
Never leave money or valuable stuff anywhere except locked storage or cabinet.
@vegasdan9820
@vegasdan9820 Жыл бұрын
Well said. I’m a new subs.
@PeeWeeBarnes
@PeeWeeBarnes Жыл бұрын
Dude you look like Gio. At first glance, you look just like him on the thumb nail.
@stevepotter3056
@stevepotter3056 Жыл бұрын
Haha he does.
@KC-in9px
@KC-in9px 3 ай бұрын
Myk looks like Reekay
@ugenescott111
@ugenescott111 7 ай бұрын
Great advice 👍
@Discoverandlivephilippines
@Discoverandlivephilippines 7 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
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