BTS TikTok Compilation 2021 | Reaction

[@Seaeve]

I don’t “hate” men, but I’m TERRIFIED to be alone with men that are strangers to me. Too many traumatic experiences. Us saying we hate men is because it is A LOT of men but not ALL. I constantly feel in danger and wary of men. When people say “I hate white people” I don’t feel offended because there’s history and trauma that causes people to say this and there is most bad interactions.

[@lunalovesyou875]

Exactly. I don't take offense to I hate white people cuz I know I'm not one of the ones doing what white people have done to them, and they're entitled to their feelings

[@abrilmonroya]

Same, I only trust 3 men in my life and yet my dad still has some treats I need to be constantly pointing them out.

[@kim-berly]

when women say they "hate men" it's a generalization meant to target a specific sect of men who engage in misogyny or participate in oppressive actions/methods, we don't mean the entire male species, it also works to scope out the men we interact w/ bc if a man were to get offended by the phrase it is most likely bc they engage in behaviors that women are calling out i.e harrassment, misogyny, discrimination, racism, etc.

[@blank-xs2qs]

Periodt

[@uzumaki7112]

I am a men and I don’t get offended or mad when girls say they hate men cause let’s be real some men are disgusting

[@blank-xs2qs]

@@uzumaki7112 thank you so much

[@viannebelle]

“Not all men…” 🙄

[@lindalarsen45]

That was the best explanation i have ever heard

[@gakufan]

The term “I hate men” isn’t really a trend. Women historically has been seen as lesser than or abused by men. And yes to answer your question some of that hate for men does first start with their father, brothers, uncles, etc.

[@ellam464]

Also just because we have men in our lives that we love doesn’t erase the trauma caused by other men and doesn’t mean that we don’t hold our loved ones accountable to unlearn the misogyny ingrained in them. Maybe not all men are evil but all men need to educate themselves on women’s rights.

[@alisha3796]

periodt sis

[@Seaeve]

This exactly

[@najmina5064]

purrr

[@alice8108]

Pls don't get offended, it is same logic as when black peopel say they hate cops

[@charlynemejia9399]

Exactly. Not all cops are bad and corrupt, but enough of them are.

[@cerisejackson2747]

OMG THIS

[@cathykaeshow7779]

I hate the fact that I actually totally agree this

[@cerisejackson2747]

@@cathykaeshow7779 same

[@alyssabrooke5638]

I agree, it's the same stupid logic. Like "all mexicans are illegal," "all cops are bad," "i hate all men," "i hate all white people." These are so fucking dumb.

[@vedogon343]

Let's say you're in the wather and you see a shark, are you gonna think "not all shark" or are you gonna swim for your life? I have several traumatic experiences with men (dad included), now I'm just scared of all of'em We know that "not all men like that" we talk about terrible ones that treat women badly, if you know you're not one of them you shouldn't feel attacked tho

[@blank-xs2qs]

Periodt sis

[@ynarighthere320]

Exactly. If you're not THAT kind of man you won't feel offended.

[@witcherye]

that's not a trend, women have always told each other that they hate men (but it's between the lines that not all men)

[@zeyz193]

It’s not all men but it’s enough men. You may have had bad past experiences with women and no one’s allowed to underplay that but it’s just too many men hurting too many women, children, including men. There’s just too much harm done that can’t be taken back. I hope some of the comments could give an outer perspective to you.

[@cynaken]

“it’s not all men but enough men” such a powerful statement. definitely keeping this one in mind.

[@blank-xs2qs]

YES. Thank YOU

[@lafranco.123]

ask to every woman that you know if she was already harassed and you will know why we can say "I hate all men", of course not all men do that, but every woman has already felt it

[@aashanair6734]

this! there is not a single woman/girl i know that hasnt been harrassed by a man. plenty of other women like me. that already freaking shows you the statistics.

[@ellam464]

Hearing men talk about how bad they have it is infuriating. It's so sad to see how people only start to care about equal rights when THEY feel attacked. Instead of putting your energy into talking about how unfair it is that you can't say you hate women without being cancelled, maybe put that energy into talking about how unfair it is that women can't walk anywhere alone without being terrified or how the majority of sexual assaulters don't go to jail or how every girl I know has had an eating disorder because of the pressures put on women to look a certain way. Maybe if you took the time to listen to women's struggles you'd understand why they say they hate men.

[@springday6449]

and to think that men think of it like a trend instead of realizing why women even came to that point where they say they hate all men, makes me wonder how removed they are from reality. they wont survive a single day being a woman for real

[@ellam464]

@@springday6449 YESS

[@girls4chuu]

its kinda disappointing seeing as how i rlly liked him n his channel but i don’t have tolerance for men who think they have even the slightest bit of similarities in struggles compared to women

[@gray_7]

@@girls4chuu Right, like we aren't living in a patriarchal society or anything. Misogyny abounds, it is so ingrained.

[@elisagonzalez4868]

@@girls4chuu he doesn't seem to understand how deep the topic is. I understand how to people who don't know the phrase 'I hate men' is targeted towards men with misogynistic behavior, not really ALL men, can think of it as a 'double standard' phrase. He needs to learn more about the topic, but he doesn't really seem like a bad guy. He needs to learn more, and that can be fixed doing research. We can help sharing valuable information for him to understand, I've seen some helpful comments. Hopefully he'll read them and understand the meaning.

[@Aly-jl4fp]

Women hating wen is definitely justified and not weird considering the way we’ve been historically treated and still to this day seen as objects or less than and living in constant fear of men. And my hatred of men did start from my brother so I guess the answer to your question is yes.

[@jitaprovadey184]

that video of them singing in pink overalls was the "Boy In Luv" cute ver. performance. you can check it out, it's so cute and funny 😂

[@jamuntae]

the way women have been oppressed for so long by men its more of us saying it to the general male gender. it is so terrifying to even be in a room alone with a man. we're always in a defensive mode if its someone we dont know. so it doesnt matter if its 'not all men'. even men are scared of other men. i do agree with the body shaming part tho. some women think its okay to shame men on how they look which isnt okay at all. also recently in my country a lot of men took one singular incident of a woman taking advantage of her gender to slam the whole of feminism. which is just shitty. and its mostly 90% of men in general that are shitty. in one way or the other. just because it isnt like that where you live doesn't mean it doesnt apply to other places. PS. i dont blame you for feeling bad about the whole thing. i understand how its kinda annoying to see women use it for every little thing but there's a reason why. just like how in my country they use 'the upper caste' to get mad at the ones that are being oppressive. but me being from the "upper" caste still agree with what they're saying.

[@slow_unsteady]

It's like when poc say they "hate white people". You don't have to agree in order to understand why they say that. I wish we lived in a world where no one had to say things like these but being oppressed and being scared of what could happen to you in certain settings is so hard to get rid of, especially when they keep happening 💔

[@d.amiaka9710]

i agree with what you said... but for the bodyshaming, i'm not. cuz girls too get bodyshamed, and not olny by men. the bodyshaming doesn't have much to do with men and women, it's a social problem, socity gives standars to women AND men, and then shame them for not being like they "need to be". and it's clear that women are more and more and mooore opressed by socity when it comes to their bodies than men. but in both cases, it's a problem.

[@slow_unsteady]

@@d.amiaka9710 that's true. The amount of men and women I've seen bodyshame both women and men...it's really heartbreaking. Because of the standards set by society, people like me or anyone else would struggle with their body and feel uncomfortable in their skin. It's so easy to forget that self-love we once had as kids. 😥

[@d.amiaka9710]

@@slow_unsteady you almost made me cry, it's so sad how children want to become adults fast, when adults wanna be kids again.. socity gives you dreams when you're a kid so that they break it brutally when you grow up..

[@slow_unsteady]

@@d.amiaka9710 it's sometimes because some kids get bullied and wish to be older and stronger, without realizing that the struggle would continue into adulthood. Plus, in the society we live in, it's so hard to have dreams because they always find obstacles to put in your way. It could be money, how boring school actually is, sexism, homophobia, racism, etc That's why most people need support from a family member, a friend, a lover, or, well, BTS.

[@vi2061]

I really like you but was really caught off guard by the whole ‘i hate men’ rant :( like, I really hope you read the many constructive comments and pleaaaasse address it, don’t just pretend nothing happened. Its makes me sooooo sad that we still have to explain why most women resent men, like, it’s literally gaslighting T-T after so much shit woman have to go through everyday a man asks you “geez, why do you gotta hate men, tho?” Like shhahbahaq did not expect this in a bts reaction video. This has the same energy as people saying “all lives matter” you know? Which is absurd having yo explain why that’s fucked up. Of course all lives matters, but the movement is about BLACK LIVES which have been systematically oppressed. Of course we dont hate every man, but we’re systematically oppressed and abused by them every day. Its makes me so so sad that a guy as nice and chill as you struggles to understand this like, if a nice person like you doesn’t get this, then like hahah we’re screwed. At this point ion even hate men anymore, I just hate being a woman.

[@vi2061]

I guess we are not addressing it and pretending like nothing happened

[@vi2061]

@ANIYAH WILLIAMS yeah, exactly. Most of the comments were very polite, which shows how awesome a community he’s gathering here. I really respect and appreciate that, but I think he isn’t going to address it because his opinion didn’t change hahaha it is very disappointing to see how many comments were ignored, it probably doesn’t make a difference but he lost me with how he chose to deal with this situation.

[@marveled.maggie]

he hasn't said anything about it yet... at least from what i checked

[@artificialbreadsticks]

@@vi2061 still hasn't from what i know

[@amtulhajra2318]

this is where you're wrong. when we say we hate men, it DOES NOT have to be all men. and men who are amart enough to understand that do not feel affected by it.

[@jinssugarkookie5115]

U mean some men who are educated about this topic dont take offense.....but if we are talking about men who have no idea we should just educate them and then determine if they are masgonistic

[@amtulhajra2318]

@@jinssugarkookie5115 yes, this

[@MirinaeH]

Honestly these TikTok compilations can rly be a hit or miss lmao

[@slow_unsteady]

I don't hate men, I'm just scared of people

[@parkjm_minyg5807]

same

[@meadow_mota]

valid, completely agree.

[@minjkth]

wow i felt that...

[@elisaifran5806]

Same

[@april2782]

Same

[@afternoontaee]

the thing with the "i hate men" thing is that, being part of that 1/6 is really terrifying, and the fact is we will never be able to tell if we're gonna get taken advantage of until after the fact, you know? it's not really that we hate men, it's more like we will always have to be wary of men because 1/6 is a big fckin number and you never ever know when some nice guy is gonna switch up on you. we are not built to fight off large bulked up dudes, idc what radfems say, we ARE weaker, so we always have to be wary of who might take advantage of us. the sad thing is that almost all s3xual assaul7s against women are by men, and nearly 20% of all women have been seriously s3xually assaul7ed. you never know when it could be you. i hope that kinda clears things up. and ik a lot of people say "the worlds not out to get you" but we're supposed to be able to trust the police and our government too and look where that got us. idk, i'm not some crazy b who thinks every man is awful, like duh, there are plenty of actually great guys out there. but statistically, if i'm walking by myself, even in broad daylight, i have a 1/6 chance of being attacked. that's where a lot of that memeified 'hatred' comes from i think.

[@charley5650]

the thing with 'i hate all men' stems from the alarmingly global experience (97%) of women experiencing some form of trauma from men. its a generalisation; like i can acknowledge men in my life that i adore and respect, but due to my experiences with other men, i have lost an incredible amount of trust when dealing with those im unfamiliar with. systemically, men still hold more power than women, more so in some countries rather than others. women, in particular young girls, are often belittled for their interests where boys are praised, the entire process around reporting sexual assault/rape ALWAYS demonises the victim (statistically more women and trans people) to some extent, wage gaps are still a very real thing, women, particularly black women, are perceived as angry/bitchy when theyre passionate; whereas men are praised as impassioned and in-charge. people STILL make excuses for toxic behaviours of young boys and men 'boys will be boys' or 'he's teasing you because he likes you' rather than pulling them up on their disrespect. i go into every situation knowing what COULD go WRONG, not what MIGHT go RIGHT. ive personally dealt with misogyny, biphobia, general disrespect, belittlement, sexual assault, r*pe, and violence from more men than i havent, and so for that exact reason, i say 'i hate all men'--its the notion of what behaviours and ideologies we have learned, usually and unfortunately through traumatic experience, to associate with men. hope that explains things a bit

[@naur9880]

8:39 is the Boy in Luv cute version they performed during the 3rd muster, they also performed fire and dope cute versions

[@winslow924]

ofc saying i hate men does not have the same weight as saying you hate women, it’s cause of historical reasons, it’s like saying that racism exists against white people

[@storagebox3649]

“I hate all men” is not as much a trend as it is a lament for what women have had to face at the hands of men for centuries. Of course we don’t actually hate all men or think all men are horrible, but, unfortunately, we do have to live in fear of all men because we never know when they will disrespect, violate, or take advantage of us. “I hate all men” is a statement of frustration from women because all men benefit from the patriarchy in a way we never will or can. Moreover, many of us have experienced sexism even at the hands of the men closest to us. This kind of trauma forces us to be wary of all men. It’s the same way a POC might say “I hate all white people”. Even though we don’t actually think all white people are bad, we constantly have to be wary of them due to the trauma we’ve faced at their hands. That’s also why it’s different when men say “I hate all women”. It’s the same reason a white person saying they hate all POC is different than a POC saying they hate all white people. Men are not systemically oppressed by women, just as white people are not systemically oppressed by POC. I hope this helps 🤞🏽

[@hadescalling8690]

Very well said.

[@mikajung4242]

Having good men doesn't erase the trauma bad men gave to us women so... :)

[@maeve332]

yh it’s not just men tho bro it’s a trend for a group of ppl to hate another group who treated them bad or oppressed them etc for examples poc saying they hate white ppl lgbt hating cishets women hating men i don’t really see the issue tbh

[@maeve332]

usually it’s not meant serious

[@maeve332]

it’s like yes women saying “i hate men” may be annoyed to you or men in general but compared to the reason why women say it in the first place it’s no comparison as well as this when women say all men it’s not actually all the body shaming etc tho and more serious things i agree is wrong and fucked up

[@cerisejackson2747]

It’s not an issue at all this guy just needs to think on it.. hard

[@maeve332]

@@cerisejackson2747 yh :/ it comes off ignorant a little ngl

[@bluesideace]

I mean all of these examples are people who are being opressed, using these phrases as a joke, because in reality they are scared and traumatized...it's not a trend, it's people trying to deal with their trauma and finding comfort in community

[@AyspenMitchell]

some of these tiktoks were a mix hard-stan edits, soft-stan edits funny edits i cant ya'll are messing with my emotions 😭

[@totchi6]

Obviously you've seen all the comments but that's what it is. Women are being extra loud right now for the same reason all minorities are being extra loud. We can, and we have to in order to draw attention to all the little things even GOOD men do because subtle misogyny is so deeply ingrained in all cultures that it's just how life is and has always been. We have only recently been considered more than a father's or husband's property, and the mindsets behind it are slow in changing. Most women grew up with that same subtle misogyny and don't see something is wrong until something loud enough happens. When other minorities make huge sweeping statements about their oppressors, they aren't doing it to hurt the feelings of allies any more than women are doing it to hurt the feelings of good men.

[@cerisejackson2747]

Yesssssss

[@SallieAndrea]

THIS

[@justpeachy_honey4430]

I’m not even going to write a whole paragraph bc I don’t want to get into it. All I’m going to say is take time to read through these comments

[@Allyouhoees]

No because men actually scare me everytime I see them In public my heart start racing idk why maybe I'm too paranoid 😭✋🏽

[@soboksobok9488]

oh like in a good way or in the bad way??

[@Kiwibatz]

@@soboksobok9488 bad way i think

[@springday707]

ok but same, my anxiety 📈

[@soboksobok9488]

@@Kiwibatz probably

[@DEE-305]

Well I don't get scared but i am cautionary alot of time. Can't trust just like that.

[@mrinmoyeetarafder4498]

"That penguin is on drugs" 🤣🤣😂😭😭😂 I'm dead LMAO

[@anngiegarzon3243]

You really need to read more, and google things when you feel like you don't understand where it comes from before talking when you have a platform, when lots of people already follow you. So yeah, don't feel offended or close your mind because there are a lot of comments about the issue and it maybe makes you feel uncomfortable, try to learn from this and try to understand.

[@cerisejackson2747]

1000%

[@namjooningOT7]

It's nice you finally found a good tik tok compilation and not the first your eyes caught during livestream

[@hals970]

12:47 as you can see V has very fast reflexes

[@hayleycameron4591]

Did you just call Steve Irwin Crocodile dundi? 🤣mate ones a movie character and the other is an Aussie legend 😂

[@morganmomo101]

If I walked into a room and it was just BTS...I would simply ✨pass away✨

[@faithebikeme2596]

I should send you my “I hate all men” Manifesto. I wrote it for my college and my professor gave me a 100. He was a man. You should give it a read.

[@kelisejohnson729]

I'll give you my email, would love to read this

[@faithebikeme2596]

@@kelisejohnson729 it’s not perfect but sure!

[@Ghvchnjo]

I'm obsessed with BTS, and actually i really like this dude he has great personality

[@agustd1e791]

I don’t have much else to add to the ted talk but I remember a quote that went like “it’s not all men! Until your daughter starts dating then it’s all men are the same and they all want one thing”

[@JumpingMuffinGirl]

So you know how "I hate Black poeple" is hella racist because they are systemically marginalized but if you say "I hate white people" it's like whatever cause like...how is that "hate" going to affect us in society? Same with men and women. Men have been saying "I hate women" for centuries and they've done a lot about it as well. The "I hate all men" trend is just a response to it, meant to bring awareness to what women go through. So at the end of the day it's more educational than anything. It's not going to negatively affect men in society. The most it can do is cause some self-reflection and change and/or expose some butthurt sexists. ;)

[@ms.soapii]

I don’t hate men, I just have had bad experiences with them. Even when im walking my dog, ive had experiences where a random middle age dude would whistle at me or mumble something when they pass by. Even a group of teen boys legit started following me on their bikes and tried starting a conversation with me and wouldn’t leave me alone. I was only 13 then and I started to never feel safe leaving the house from then.

[@mlcsdqii]

This man tryna being serious but I keep on laughing 😂🤣🤣

[@dani3456]

you should react to the second part! bts tiktok compilation 2021 #2 💜

[@darlacooper7930]

That whole thing with kicking the bottle cap was like the three bears; one did too much, one did too little, and the third did just right.

[@Peachytae]

If ppl say they hate men some shouldnt be triggered if they arent one of them u should know what they mean when they say that

[@Peachytae]

like it wouldnt be even a "trend" to say it if it didnt have a history in the first place

[@xxxx-rx7co]

When we say "i hate all men" its mostly a joke or an exaggeration. Most of us have a lot of trauma because of men so just let us have this. edit: for example. im only 14 and my father left me at the age of 3 after not taking care of me at all. then i had an abusive stepfather for 10 years until last year. the outcome is (social) anxiety, depression, not being able to see relationships as something good anymore, being uncomfortable around men to the point where i cry, and sexual trauma. right now i constantly face misogyny AND racism from boys in school. do you really think its fair to complain just because women dont feel safe around men and use this phrase to cope or have a feel of solidarity?

[@simona_merkinin]

I also have had experiences with that kind of stuff, ffs my own grandfather tried to touch me when I was 12, but I wouldn't want to joke about it. And I don't hate men, I might feel uncomfortable with someone that I maybe find to suspicious but I don't hate them.

[@Dora0022]

It really is not a trend. I can honestly say that I‘m afraid of most men because of the way women are generally treated by a majority of men. Hate is not towards men. Hate is towards the actions of a huge group of men who are terrorizing women their whole life. I don‘t hate my father or my grandfather and I also have some good male friends. But I‘m hesitant to sit next to a man on the train or the bus. I‘m hesitant to go somewhere mostly attended by men. Men have been touching me and other women on public transportation since I can remember. Even if some call for help, nobody helped. I have to be afraid walking alone in the dark or in the countryside. So many of my friends have been mistreated in relationships. I developed a fear of men. And I live in a safe European country. I cannot imagine what women of more unfortunate backgrounds have to go through.

[@cieraluv100]

That's why Magic Shop is my favorite song. I imagine walking into ARMY Magic Shop and seeing a BTS universe. I love BTS.

[@southernbtsgrl1530]

I appreciate your honest BTS appreciation.

[@ynarighthere320]

Your bit about women hating men was really disappointing. Until you get to walk at night or in the early mornings or just whenever alone and not be afraid, then you don't have a say. We do not want to hate men. But it's just there....

[@krystallivingston1506]

Oh please! Until you see a women groom a teen boy but said boy doesn't want to speak up out of fear then you don't have a say! You don't get to invalidate or hush Sebastion either. Abuse of power happens on both ends. Yeah...there are men that are evil, but there's boys/men that have been made to feel the powerless by evil women too.Yes historically this world glorifies/sides with men over women in all aspects, the inequality is ridiculous. But being a survivor of child molestation, having three princes and a princess I'll never justify blanket hate towards all men or women. Its Asinine!

[@lacon4]

I wouldn't be able to speak if they walked into the room. I would be frozen.

[@fallenpandora5598]

V Catching things is an underrated hotness 😂

[@hanniefaerie2984]

It’s not rlly a trend it’s a generational realization. When girls say they hate men you personally shouldn’t be offended unless you KNOW that you are a misogynist, a manipulator, or a rapist/pedo, then you’re good. The generalization shouldn’t offend you if you aren’t the target demographic.

[@annajung1503]

Wow that penguin is soo cute! Seb: Omg that is terrifying! that penguin is on drugs😂😂😂

[@0hunene]

you have listened to the albums but there are still so many live performances that you have'nt watched.

[@sunnysacks]

i know Jin is WWH and he will always be. but can we talk about the Jin with hair slicked back like 2:56 cos goddamn 🥵

[@은애-y7t]

3:03 ...sebastine...ikyfl.... not all sharks are dangerous but ur still conscious of them, right?

[@huffiejin5448]

armys edits are insaneeee

[@bangtangirl9412]

Should I be ashamed of the fact that I’ve watched all these tiktoks😂

[@marijesauthenticchannelenj9437]

And i agree with Mr Sebastine, cause they r amazing, & so r u.💜

[@katherineblood3414]

Nah when some of us women say ‘I hate all men’ we don’t mean it literally, some of us probably just mean, we love women and are hella gay.

[@twilightrhapsodist]

I actually do hate my brother. He sexually abused me all through my childhood and then tried to gaslight me into believing I was making it all up thanks for asking.

[@aashanair6734]

i hope he is nowhere near you now :((

[@twilightrhapsodist]

@@aashanair6734 I’ve gotten a break from seeing him cause of covid. But that won’t last. He still comes to all family functions. Plus my best friend married him. 😩

[@BritneyNicolee97]

The “hate all men” thing is meant to target certain men who sexualize and degrade women. A lot of women have trauma that steams from men. For example, I often joke that I have “daddy issues” and I don’t trust most men because of my father. From the day my mom found out she was having a girl my dad never wanted anything to do with me. He blamed my mom for me being a girl and tried to talk her into giving me up because I was a girl, even though men control the gender of the baby because of the two different chromosomes. I don’t know much about him except for his name. I kinda know what he looks like cause I’ve met him two times in my whole life. My seventh birthday party where he brought his girlfriend at the time and she bought me presents he didn’t and on my actual seventh birthday when him and his girlfriend took me and my mom to see Princess diaries 2: a royal engagement where he gave me beenie babies that he stole from the McDonald’s he worked (which I had to give back) and he told me his girlfriend was pregnant and I never saw him again. He only paid child support or wrote me a letter when he had a warrant out on him because he wasn’t paying his child support. And in every letter he tried to degrade my mom and tell me that everything I feel about him was put in my head because of her and my grandma 🙄 I’ve been afraid of men my whole life. Only two men in my life have a ever not been afraid of or felt uneasy around and that’s my grandpa and my neighbor. They are the only two that I’ve never gotten weird vibes off of. So I think it just comes down to experience. But when woman say they “hate all men” they usually don’t mean all but they mean enough men that it sometimes feels like it’s all men, if that makes sense.

[@Regmuslima]

You did not just call Steve Irwin aka The Crocodile Hunter, "Crocodile Dundee" 🤣

[@ulilliareinhart3659]

If I walked into that room I’d be like: 👀 and then pass tf out😂😂😭😭😭😭

[@janroland8859]

I don't hate men, I actually love them when they can behave normally. The thing is I always avoid them because 90% of the time they'll be trying to flirt and I don't want that. It doesn't really count as harassement I guess but it sure feels like it.

[@sissy2608]

When you said “how the hell did he do that” when V popped two balloons at once I always say that like how?! 😂😂💜

[@anninaninana1070]

Points have been made in the comments. If you just listen and educate yourself you should be good and understand where we are coming from when we say we hate men. Just wanna add that when we say "we hate men but..." we use that phrase to emphasize how safe a specific man/type of man makes us feel in comparison to the other 90% that makes us automatically wary of every man before we are going to be sure they wont hurt us in any way. So thats why this phrase is often mentioned in combination with bts bc they seem like genuine nice and respectful men - the good kind - and we want to emphasize how safe they make us feel (perhaps even DESPITE being men, bc strange men always pose a risk of being the bad kind). The bar is pretty low anyway i feel like, so often as soon as a man shows human decency or even a slightly feminist side/view he will be regarded as the "good exception" to "all men". So, if you really feel actually offended or called out thats on you.

[@slow_unsteady]

"I hate all men" lmao it's like when you choked on that one ice cube and decided "never again". Not all ice cubes are mean you know 😂

[@marisbitchass786]

Glad to find a comment section where the top comments are filled with common sense

[@Aurora_252]

Y'all saying do you hate your father like the problem didn't start from there 🤠

[@alyssabrooke5638]

I am a female and even I acknowledge that men are oppressed by women. Who usually gets the child in custody cases? Who is more likely to be believed in rape claims? Who gets shamed for crying/ being emotional more often. Who would get charged with assault more often for domestic abuse based off of accurate stories. AKA if a woman starts hitting and punching a man and he fights back, will she be charged or will he? Most likely the guy. Women have the upper hand and I'm sick and tired of us women victimizing ourselves. It's getting ridiculous. It's like we are doing the opposite of what the movement is trying to do. And then there are those who are complaining about men who say they have it bad. Look up suicide rates by gender. The statistics are there. And to those who are saying "I'm leaving because i can't stand how he views the movement and is acting towards women." Good fucking riddance. Nobody wants you here. Bye bye, go on your way now.

[@YoongisAurora]

I hate men does not equal I hate ALL men. And once men realize that and stop being offended or annoyed when women say this, thats a step in the right direction. Because obviously the resentment is coming from years of either neglectful fathers, harassment from random men, misogynic rhetoric and behavior plus just a HOST of other things. So if you are a man not engaged in these activities, don't take a woman saying I hate men to heart.

[@sofi19.99]

Nobody: Me: trying to find only one comment actually related to the video ._.

[@mariakrein9059]

if i walked into a room and BTS was there I would straight up faint 😂 then get up cry and cry some more

[@mylovelyjubbly2842]

Congratulations Kim Taehyung aka V have crossed 1.5 billions streaming across Spotify, SoundCloud and KZbin.. He also the first Korean act to achieve 500 million streaming on soundcloud..

[@briettesolis7662]

You hit that euphoria note PERFECTLY.

[@MintYoongi309]

This fool said crocodile Dundee lmao it was Steve Irwin crocodile hunter 🤣🤣🤣🤣 that's why I love your channel.

[@jacklynkwarteng883]

I would probably faint and they didn’t will have to drag my ass out the room 🤣🤣🤣

[@visureddy726]

SEBASTINEasy to remember😁.💜

[@Des0937]

To answer your question -> 3:54 I feel like why society is so OK with women body shaming men, is because women are held up to higher beauty standards than men. Like men will get made fun of because how big their junk is, or if they have a belly or something. But women get judged, and have to worry about their skin complexion like acne, cellulite, wrinkly skin, stretch marks from having children or gaining weight , not being overweight, and having a big butt and perky boobs, and making sure that their hair, or their eyebrows look nice so they don’t grow out bushier and wider like a guys, to smell good, and have smooth and soft skin, to act a certain way in public places because we are supposed to be lady like. And to shave their legs and their armpits because that’s what society says a woman should do to uphold her beauty. I’m not saying it’s OK to body shame men, but I just think the reason why society is so OK when women do it, is because of how high of a beauty standard women are held to compared to men. And in end Women are held up to such higher standards, to make them look more beautiful and attractive. But because of the work that they put in to looking *beautiful* to society standards it attracts so many bad and negative men, and people. So while trying to fit in with everyone else they have to worry about getting sexually assaulted, raped, molested, sold, and abused, which is something that has been happening to women for ages!!

[@Mhd.287]

The penguin 😂🤚😭

[@rin.shikto1255]

If I walked in to a room that had bts in it:🙍‍♀️I would just be on pause

[@memealicious787]

If I walked into a room with BTS, I think my heart might stop and sooner or later 911 will come by to get me 👁👄👁🤌🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[@nataliegmuitn8902]

4:42 yes I do hate my father😁😄😃

[@barbaralourenco1662]

I can't believe you've heard a Brazilian funk, I'm from Brazil and I listen to it every day

[@Mi3ol]

I am a woman and I get really uncomfortable at the "I hate men/ I hate all men". I understand the reasons behind this but I can't simply use such a generalized sentence, saying I hate an entire group of people based on their sex/gender, because of systematic cultural practices, biases, discrimination and hate. I can't, because people are never going to be just a demographic collective and I can't understand how one can hate a demographic collective because that info doesn't say, alone, who you are. You can hate an organization for what they stand for, you can hate a certain perspective people have, ideology, attitudes,you can hate people's traits and characteristics. But it is really unfair to say you hate all men when each and everyone of them is a unique individual. I used to hate when people would assume I am a certain way because I am a girl/ woman. I don't want to do that to anyone, especially out of some kind of "payback". I think people don't really mean that they hate men or that they hate all men, but I can't be okay with such statements. I certainly do not want to do use with them a phrase that represents so many things that were wrong in the past. You can say I am looking too much into it but it triggers me.

[@marisolchavez7053]

9:11 this is from the song ''Boy In luv'' and a interesting fact is that the musical thing was sugas idea

[@WavingTerror848]

I agree with you. When people around me say they hate men, I just don't know how to respond. It just sounds wrong.. even if it isn't exactly what they mean.

[@justsomegirlwith2792]

If I saw them in a room I’d just stop and stare for a good hour or so. That’s if they don’t kick me out tho💀😂

[@swyjkdream]

you know sebastian women suffer a lot and the cause for that most of the cases are men so we need to generalize and we know all of men are not in that way(hope that) at that point we can't trust them so for that we generalize I know it's wrong but is the best and if you have done anything bad at woman so you don't need to feel ofended cuz you know who you are.

[@intheemood]

10:49 idk abt y’all but i’m walking right tf back out 😭😩

[@lunalovesyou875]

It was Irwin who died by a stingray, not crocodile Dundee lmaooo

[@afrinm8627]

Stingrays watching this video:👁️👄👁️

[@Namunamu358]

Sebastian: do u hate ur father? Me: 🧍‍♀️

[@taequilasilver7183]

yes, double standard are weird, a black person can say that she/he hates white people, but if a white person says she/he hates all black people it would be automatically canceled, the same with gay and heteros and men and women. I´m lesbian and mexican, but I think saying this is stupid. In Spanish the word men is "hombre", but in order not to generalize instead of saying "odiamos a los hombres" (we hate men), we call them "onvres" or "machitos", which comes from the word "macho"

[@girls4chuu]

lmao “double standard” 😭

[@taequilasilver7183]

@@girls4chuu sorry, are you making fun of my typo? i don´t speak english, as i said, i am mexican

[@elisagonzalez4868]

You don't seem to understand how deep the topic is. I understand how to people who don't know the phrase 'I hate men' is targeted towards men with misogynistic behavior, not really ALL men, can think of it as a 'double standard' phrase. Hope you learn more about the topic, coz you don't really seem like a bad guy. You just need to learn more, and that can be fixed doing research. We can help sharing valuable information :). I've seen some helpful comments. Hopefully you'll read them and understand the meaning 💜 Also: here's the cute video around 9:10 kzbin.info/www/bejne/hIrWe4h6lsidiJY

[@cerisejackson2747]

He does not understand/hasn’t bothered to educate himself/doesn’t have the same compassion for women as he does Black people (read:Black men).

[@undercoverfangirl5491]

@@cerisejackson2747 That’s just stupid and unwarranted. As a black women myself I didn’t know about the reasoning behind the phrasing either. And he has a problem with the phrasing not the meaning.

[@elisagonzalez4868]

@@undercoverfangirl5491 exactly

[@jiminslostjams5989]

"... That's the thing that killed crocodile Dundee... " ...... uh, you mean Steve Urwin?

[@LaylaPerez-jn1yh]

I'll probably scream cry and runaway McBean

[@ot7biasedmashups]

Bro you can't be so far removed from the world that you actually I hate men is directed at all men..... Most afab people are terrified to stay alone with a man and generally they treat us like garbage so that's why we say it.

[@krystallivingston1506]

🗣Sebastion I appreciate the reaction and questions. There is no bad question in my opinion.👏🏽 I detest the generalization of any group, so I don't appreciate the statement. All women don't hate men, but I do hate when another speaks for me. I get there are those that say, "I hate all men and mean that and for others they don't mean that literally its broader then that. But It's an individual perspective, not a collective. There are some really great studies out on the privilege of men that I'd encourage you to check out if you want and on the subject of how to be an ally. Especially for BIPOC women because there are diff cultural considerations and perspectives to consider. Keep doing you! 💜

[@Degnmaster]

The rhetoric about "not all men" goes something like this: "I know not all tigers kill people,but does it mean I'm not supposed to be scared of tigers?".So, obviously,not every man is gonna assault,hurt or kill, but you know,that any man you meet might just be one of those.So,you be cautious around any man.Me, personally,i don't use words like "hate" and "all", but i will be cautious around most.