Nrauj Tus Zoo Khaws Tus Phem. 2/10/2023

[@purpleheart9887]

Why do men feel they’re the victim in every situation. The only person you should blame is yourself.

[@genalor4795]

You dug yourself a hole. Don't blame it on others but yourself

[@kelbra3689]

I don't understand these types of men. If you're an old man and you think your wife that's the same age as you look unattractive because she's too old, LMAO, what makes you think a young girl doesn't look at you and see you as an unattractive old man? What a joke.

[@junemoua7667]

Didn't you hear what he said in the beginning, when he got there these girls kisses and hold him like he's so handsome, he was so valuable there, it makes him feel special. Of course if these a** old people will just realize that it's all fake and for a better opportunity.

[@lnchannel1186]

Wow zoo kawg li. Txoj kev npam ces yog li no mas. Zaj no ces yog ib zaj zoo tshaj. Mloog nawb cov mi txiv tsev siab phem aws. Mloog nej lub neej ces yuav mus raws li no thiab nawb

[@chaylocx8795]

Advise for all men, dont let your little brother down there make decisions for you!

[@chiavue6701]

😂🤣😂😂

[@mailee7449]

Sorry, but you reap what you sow. So many stories like this but men/women like this never learn. Karma xwb os...

[@tlee0909]

If you can’t take care of your kids stop having kids! Don’t expect other people to take care of your kids!

[@meelee9553]

Ney ney.. lesson learned!🎉

[@nkaujhmoobvwj]

He no learn any lesson, he's still mad n angry at niam loj kids.

[@chouathao2122]

you thought she loved you for who you are. you must be crazy

[@hlubkojxwb8441]

Zoo tshaj plawg li os , ntshawv nkauj mos ab nas

[@yangthao5242]

I have a feeling, we are going to hear so many more of these, lol. Think before you act. Desire is not love, and it has destroyed many, many life. For, we men, life does go on after dark, and if you do not see very well at night, then you have to turn on the lights. So many Hmong men are blinded when they go to Laos. They can't see a thing and usually bring back the "ghost of desire" which usually taunts, tricks, and coerces the soul to unimaginable evil. Realty hits as desires are usually short lived, and regrets set in when morality clears. But, it's too late; what's done is done, and we cannot go back. We pretend that it's alright and that fantasy love can be real as we have seen in movies and on TV. Until the next wave hits and all collapses and goes to shame. We finally realize the fool that we are, and run into the covers of the very night. Please think; it doesn't hurt to think.

[@Gurlhmong]

Well said!

[@Gurlhmong]

I’m going to look at the good side. 🤔 Thank you for telling your story so other men KNOW their risk of leaving a good wife and home. 🤣👏

[@hlubforlife]

Uncle😡 & Son😁 sharing the LOVE inside the family. 🤣😂

[@nkaujhmoobvwj]

They like to keep it in the family lol 😆 😂 🤣

[@mayalor5081]

These are called men with no shame. Especially no one acknowledging that she's your wife because she's younger than your youngest child. Accept it, you signed up for it.

[@mlee6150]

Can’t blame your family for not accepting you to live with them. I don’t want other people living with me besides my kids and husband. You did all this to yourself. Learn to rebuild your life on your own without burdening others.

[@mayvaungh5377]

Let's give this gentleman a break, everyone! I'm sure he has learned his lesson, admit his guilt & regret. He's simply trying to send us a good note not to repeat his mistake. So, txhob cem2 nws thiab os!!

[@bonher69]

True, we as a hmong community should be offering ideas and support for the man to better his life.

[@zuagyang2321]

I agreed. He wants to tell his story so others will not do what he did. He’s giving his lesson for others to learned.

[@txhuazaum]

I don’t feel sorry for him at all. He destroyed his first wife and kids life and you want us to give him a break. Oh hell no he don’t deserve any breaks. His regrets and sorry means nothing because his first wife and kids life already destroyed by his own hands. Yet he still regret and hurt more from his child bride leaving him then him ruining his first wife and kids. He still mad because his kids takes his wife side. Sh!t this guy got no right to be tu siab about his kids not loving him. He chose a child hoe over his wife and kids. He lucky his older kids don’t cut him out of their life. Always sees himself as a victim. You don’t love your kids when they younger then why you expect your kids to love you when you older.

[@lisvaj7375]

Agreed! This one he’s at least telling his experience to not follow unlike most other stories.

[@junemoua7667]

Great story for all hmong men to learn, especially for those who love cheating on their wife and planning on going back to laos for a niam mos ab.

[@tongkafamilyuasi2223]

Hmong men never going to change till the day they die, so many stories like but they still never change their minds, they love niam MOs ab they like to have strokes and heart attacks.

[@bonher69]

Yeap, the lesson is not to bring her to the states. 😂

[@MissPeachie]

Men don’t learn from other men’s mistakes. They have to make the mistakes themselves in order to learn. They always think, “I am different, that won’t ever happen to me.”

[@baothao1728]

Cov Txiv npua teb laus no mas tsis zeem li ntxim ntxub kawg li haum xwb…

[@dialee5629]

Txob tu siab rau leej twg li yog tim koj xwb

[@haislustseeb9533]

Don't blame anyone but yourself. Your kids are your responsibility. So stop saying your family hate you. After all, you are a burden to your family.

[@jalynnkat]

What did u expect marrying someone younger than your youngest child? SMH. Next.

[@kaoxiong6148]

You are not a sugar daddy. You are just an old man. This is why younger woman won’t stay with an old man…you are her only ticket to a better life in America…live and learn…just love the one God gave to you and be happy with her…God gives us the “free will” to choose and live our lives…not luck…you choose to leave your first wife and go to Laos and marry a younger woman…a good lesson learn to old men…😩👍🤠!!!

[@omarlo4568]

I don't feel sorry for you, you did it to yourself. Just like my ex did it to herself.

[@llee35]

You did it to yourself! 😂

[@ameeshayang8949]

Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb os cov neeg tsis shawm zoo no na..

[@maimoua1371]

Old dude only learned when niam mos ab completely her journey .keep up all niam mos ab aw LOL

[@iaducel6518]

Nyuam qhuav ntxim rau cov txiv tsev siab coob xwb os.

[@paitongthiaj5976]

Great learning experience for these old men.

[@dejntshiabhawj8224]

Vuam kev npam kev khaum mas muaj tseeb tiag22. Kav tsij tu siab rau koj tus kheej xwb os mog.

[@dub2465]

Somehow I don’t feel sorry for u. It was the choices u made so this is the consequences u have to live with. I do feel sorry for the innocent children though. Karma for u so good luck!

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

You bring this on yourself

[@kuvxwb11]

Tu siab ua dabtsi koj ua rau koj xwb es txhob tu siab. Niam loj cov me nyuam tsis hlub koj vim koj tsis hlub lawv niam ne.

[@7stars2love]

Mloog nawb cov txiv tsev laus2 lawm los pheej ntshaw2 niam mos ab na.

[@courtneysfoodtravel1269]

It's a lesson for you to learn but it's too late now heheh

[@chouyang2955]

Niam mos ab khiav lawm lov. Koj hais yog lawm dab obceg muaj zog heev li os. Niam tij hais qhov tseeb xwb txhob tusiab os thaub aw.

[@chuevlee9050]

Poj niam hmoob Nplog maum dev qias neeg nrhab ceg rau txiv thiab tub tib si. Nrhuav luag 2 lub neej. Tseem tshuav dab tsi zoo rau cov txiv dev hauv lub ntiaj teb no thiab

[@cheeyang2055]

I would love to have your old wife, because she is a responsibility person just like I want.

[@bvang8370]

If you already has a wife, house, car, money in the bank, etc, marry a nkauj mos ab will only make you poorer. But if you're at rock bottom, marrying a nkauj mos ab might help because at rock bottom, there's no where to go but up. But then again, if you're poor, nkauj mos ab will leave when he/she gets her green card. Finding true love is very difficult in this day and age where everything is money. But as I've always said, love isn't forever... nothing is forever. So think of it as a blessing for a nkauj mos ab to have loved you for 3 nights or 3 years.

[@PhoHmooAmerica]

Well said. Just like the sun, one must fall to get up again

[@วะแซ่เล้า-พ4ล]

Nyav hum xwb os

[@xayxiong1061]

True!

[@นางสาว-ญ5น]

@@PhoHmooAmerica .ท่าวังผา

[@7kangher]

All these old guys bringing over these young girls for the young men in the US to hook up with.

[@cicex2]

Txhob tu tu siab os. Kav tsib nyob koj txhoj kev pham kom tas tiam no.

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

To the children. Don’t take your dad and his kids in

[@kerlee7015]

Txhob tu siab os txoj kev no yog koj xaiv os thaub laus aw.

[@fulovelyly9161]

Tseem twb tsis tau txaus thiab os… kav tsij mus yuav dua ib tug tuaj ntxiv hahaha 😢😢😢😢

[@ir0nm0nkey123]

🤣🤣!! This dude is funny. There’s no Crazy monster over there, you’re the monster yourself😂.

[@joshualee2133]

True love knows no age LIMIT, but make sure you found a true love. Most young girls or young men from Laos wanted to flee poverty and limited opportunites.

[@monkeybanana9269]

There is no such thing as true love between young and old. 90% of the time- definitely if they can't physically match. But money will always look plenty attractive at any age.

[@chouafang9763]

Because they want money. They don’t anything else

[@botmcg6886]

Qhov ko koj zoo koj siab koj xaiv koj.tsis muaj leej twg xaiv rau koj.zoo kawg2 cov txiv no mas haum siab tshaj plaws.

[@TMoua79]

Surely, you’re the the first. And, you won’t be the last. Thanks for sharing your story. GL.

[@yerthor4207]

Awb yaw ua neej Tsi taug kev ne Koj ua neej taug cav Xwb ne ce cav tw ce kawg poob Xwb tiag me txiv tsev luag tej lau yeej hai tia Ua zoo tau zoo ho Ua phem tau phem no ce Yog lawm os txhob tu siab mam pib dua tshiab es hloov siab tshiab os mog

[@npaujbais]

He's not the first. Hmone men know this about Hmoob Nplog girls but they do it anyways. There's this really old hmong guy, in a wheelchair. His wife from Laos is so young. She acts like she loves him and I'm she does, especially his money and the fact that he doesn't have long to live.

[@Springadel7775]

Ntuj aw cov thaub laus no ua cas tsis kawm li lauj! Yus ua yus xwb los yus pheej mus chim rau tus ub tus no.

[@peaceful246]

Yus muaj yus neej zoo2 tsis yuav es pab tsis tau lawm os thaub aw!!

[@nugmoo8233]

I don't understand, Hmoob keep on blaming everything for their txoj hmoo. You lead a life with your decisions, so don't blame txoj hmoo

[@Hmoob-LisTsuamYeej]

Luag hais tias, Nyuj ua nyuj thauj.. Nees ua nees ris os..!

[@mandyxiong1149]

😂

[@panglor137]

Kev npam muaj tiag hos yus ua mob2 niam loj los niam yau mam ua mob yus haha

[@xaiher9236]

hahaha👏👏👏👏👏👏zoo kawg nkau li os thaub aw, thiab koj quaj ua dab tsi nawj qhov ko twb yog qhov nej cov txiv neej xav tau ne tseem tu siab thiab tseem quaj ua tu dab maj qhov ko yu twb yog tu xav ne ce tsi muaj kas tu siab li os, muaj zoo xwb twb yog xaiv nev tseem tu siab li ca thiab twb tau kiag li koj txoj kev ntshaw kev xav tau lawm ne😆😆😆😆

[@MySunshine71]

You have no one to blame but yourself!

[@moobxaavvaammeej5725]

Tsi yog Nplog Teb muaj dab, dab twb xub nyob hauv koj siab lawm os tijlaug. Peb cov txiv neej Hmoob yog cov khav theeb nyiam kev nkauj nraug ne. Peb tsev dab tsi ces peb tau sau yam ntawd los mas.

[@maivue3224]

Xyov li Lau, cov me txiv neej no! LUB NEEJ PUAS TAG CES MAM TIG TXAWJ 2 NTUAS LWM TUS TAB SIS THAUM UB MAS LEEJ TWG NTUAS YUS LOS YUS TSIS YUAV CIA YUS MAM NTUAS YUS LI KOM XWB MAS YOM,

[@maylo8993]

Lesson learn, you think you win and your wife lost but at the end you're a loser and your wife is the winner. Like they say she is a trash to you but a gold to other man out there.

[@mouavang3371]

Brother, thaum tej me nyuam tsis tuaj yus tog lawm tej zaum yus yog tus phem lawm. Yuav tau txawj xav me ntsis mam maj mam mus pib dua. Your kids are right.

[@Peter123969]

Look into government assistance for daycare for your young ones. I'm sure they have it in your city where you live. Assistance will be 100% covered under their program. As for the older ones, put them into after-school activities to by you some time. Try to find a day job that will work around your children. Do this until you can get back on your feet. Best of luck.

[@hlubvimkojusa2140]

Noj qua xwb mas!!!

[@monkeybanana9269]

There goes our tax dollars again. Just count your blessings if you live in those state with plenty of government programs. Otherwise if you live in a state like mine, best bust your ass working hard.

[@bonher69]

As other berates this gentleman for opening his story…this is by far the best advice. We have to understand that people make mistakes and once they accept their mistake, we have to offer ideas and support. Their is no honor to kick a man when he’s down.

[@txhuazaum]

@@bonher69 if he angry at his older kids not letting them live free with them when he left them for a young wife then he hasn’t learned his lesson yet. If he learned his lesson he would not bother the older kids cuz he would be embarrassed about how he ruined their life. This guy is a joke. Just remember he kicked his first wife and older kids down when they were at their lowest by leaving them to fend for themselves and marrying a child bride.

[@Pai_Chiang-Mai]

Thaub laus aw thau neej zoo tsi kom zoo vim yog koj ua rau koj xwb.thxob los foom foom tej menyuam nawb.

[@JRxwb]

2,3 job is your answer. Is what you need to do to live on your own after you destroy your Good life. 🤣🤣

[@yeevang1223]

Nej cov siab phem npam kawg zoo li thiaj zoo.

[@yinglee1160]

Tsis yog hmoov os yog yus tus niag cwj pwm xwb. Yus zoo li cas ces pes tsawg tus los yeej zoo ib yam. Nyav qhuav ntxim xwb.

[@Loves_GodSR]

A lesson for others to learn from.

[@maivang8072]

Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb

[@missysmart8620]

I know, right! Yog niam loj ces saum deb2 ntsias luag ntxhis xwb tiag.

[@touyang3403]

Tu siab kawg nkaus. Tso yus coj txoj hmoo neej thiaj tawg. Qee lub caij, yus yuav tau tswj hwm txoj hmoo. Thiab neej puas, twb tsis yog tim xyob cuab. Tim yus xwb. Vim txoj kev thaum lub paus, yus yog tus tho. Tsam no yuav tau taug mus kom tshwm rau kev tshuam. Thaum ntawv, mam hloov kev taug.

[@maipha8560]

Oyo, she was looking for a young lad too. He just got to drink his own medicine. I don't even pity this old dude. Guess she needed someone to satisfy her needs in the bedroom as well. I guess he forgot that actions have consequences. Freedom of choices doesn't equal freedom of consequences. Lastly, if you can't afford children and need to depend on someone else, you shouldn't have them in the first place. Your children are absolutely right, everything costs in America so if you can't afford don't do it.

[@tengvang83]

You betrayed their mother and broke her heart and you said you don’t understand why your kids didn’t understand you? WOW!!

[@heymaiv]

Go apply for public house. You should get it soon with 3 kids

[@chuevlee9050]

Yus ua yus tsis txhob npav mus foom tej me nyuam quav dev xwb

[@maiher2182]

Thaum no koj mam paub lig los thaub khuvxim tsis tau dab tsi lawm tau qhov lig xwb tiag

[@colleenchan9872]

Koj yuav tau txhob tu tu siab rau cov ntxhais koj tu rau koj tus kheej xwb vim koj txoj kev siab phem siab dub saib pojniam qis qis es koj txoj kev hlub koj muab cais tawm kiag tsis hlub lawv.. nov yog kev kawm os

[@jarvaniv4328]

Kwv tij qhov no yog tim koj xwb os. Tu siab ces tu rau yus tus kheej xws os. Twb yog lawv zoo es lawv thiaj li pub koj nrog lawv nyob os. Tab sis koj tsis txawj xav es lawv thiaj xav muab koj ntiab tawm. Yus nrog luag nyob txhawm thias luag tsis hais yus pab luag los, yus yuav tshum tau muab me ncis nyiaj pab luag. Kav tsij tsis txhob mus mus tag hluas nkauj lawm os. Yus mus nyob yus, thov Daycare tom Social Services es mus ntiav ib tug Lawyer pab hais muab cov nyiaj tem poj niam ro vim hais thias tam sim no koj twb muaj ib co me nyuam lawm, es lawv nij koj pab lawv dua koj tus qub poj niam nij koj. Kav tsij mus ua hawj lwm ces los tsev los tu tej me nyuam es lawv thiaj ncawg koj os. Lawm hnub, lawv loj tam, koj yuav ua dab tsi los mam ua.

[@mrshanglily5647]

What a great lesson for this old man…😂

[@nkaujsaiszimwang6990]

Yus ua yam twg ce yus kawg sau yam ntawd xwb os mog. Yus laus lawm ca yus ho tseem mus yuav niam mos ab thiab ce nyuam qhua phim xwb os yawg aw. Txij no mus yuav tau xyaum tsim txiaj es sub thiaj li muaj lub chaws nyob os nawb. 😅

[@nayang3397]

Cov thaub laus hmoob yeej tsis sawm zoo tsis sawm hlub, twb laus ua tsis taus lawm los tseem mus phov siav, qhov kawg ces tau lub khuv xim mus tag tiam.

[@baoyang9157]

Puas xeeb muaj nyiaj mus yuav nkauj mos ab diam Tabsis tsis muaj nyiaj them apartment nyob. Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb os

[@mfnfmfwm]

He has no right to be mad at anyone.

[@xaothao8787]

Tam sim no yog yus yog tus ua phem ua ntej ces menyuam tsis tuaj yus tog os. Pab koj tu siab thiab os, tab sis yus ua rau yus tus kheej ne.

[@kumapandax8729]

Nev nev nev

[@jarvaniv4328]

Wait, a grown man with 3 small children expect to live with others and don’t pay a dime for rent or food? Give this guy an award for being a freeloader. Even if you have to pay alimony for your ex wife, you still have some money left. The least you can do is give half of your remaining paycheck to help your son’s wife or brother’s wife pay for rent and buy food for your kids. You’re not the victim here, you’re just a greedy thoughtless cheater who got hit with karma.

[@xwmkabyang354]

vim yus ntshaw qhov tshiab ces thaum kawg yus thiaj li kho siab, menyuam hmoob meskas tsis zoo li yus yav tag.

[@maiher2182]

Lawd thiaj hu me nyuam hmoob meka no mas thaub aw vim koj yog tus ua ne thaub laus aw

[@hlubyang4072]

Txhob nrog ntxhais nyob tsam vauv nrauj koj cov ntxhais thiab nawb

[@maitongvue5397]

Hlub txij yus niam xwb txhob kk nej txiv li os

[@missysmart8620]

Ob yos! Taus zoo nyob tsis nyob es mus yuav niam mos ab tuaj tsim yus uas dabtsi os yuav?! Pab tsis taus koj os thaub laus awb!

[@maiher1164]

YOUR DREAM COMES TRUE . THAT'S WHAT YOU WANT GOOD FOR YOU. DONT FEEL SORRY FOR YOU !

[@ShouaTojsiab]

👏👏👏👍👍👍

[@diannamoua2273]

You are a baggage and filled your dream

[@QSL.]

Wow, you wine a lot.

[@yermoua8300]

Teb chaw nplog tsis muaj dab nkauj dab nraug qhov Teeb Yog koj tus kheej xwb koj yeej paub tias luag hluas2 tshaj koj tus me ntxhais nkauj ntxawm es luag puas yuav hluas koj txog hnub tuag Yog koj ho hluas2 li ntawv koj yuav ib niag pog laus los Yog ib niag thaub laus no koj puas yuav kam yuav nws kom txog hnub tuag thiab mas

[@songvang1309]

Why do these elder when they fail their marriage and life but always foom xwb.

[@chouyang3197]

Txhob muab liam rau lwm tus vim koj xwb os yog koj yog ib tug txiv zoo yeej tsis zoo li ko li os thaub laus aw tim koj nkaus xwb tab tom twb tsis tau txaus os thaub aw

[@baolee945]

You get what you craved for.

[@luvinniceboxers]

I've yet to hear a story where these hmoob OGs take responsibility for their actions, instead of putting the burden on others after they get dumped. LOL

[@akulathao4654]

You can't do the job that why your son will have to take it over 🤣😂😂. He learned from the best!

[@maiyang570]

😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆 Karma!!!

[@maileevang1034]

Tus txiv tsev Koj txhob hais lus phem2 rau koj cov me nyuam yus phov yus es yus phem2 yus os

[@lasong3666]

😅😂😂😂😂😂

[@evabhmongocadventure9831]

These Hmong men learn the hard way because they think they can just marry young chicks and let go the old wife and children.