Nyiaj Yuav Tsis Tau Txoj Siav Os Me Koj Niam. 12/19/22

[@GhenhVu-q3c]

Tus me kwv tij koj zaj neej neeg cas tu siab ua luaj os ua neeg paub hnub nyob tss paub hnub ncaim xav log ces yuav tsg muaj siab khwv li os kwv tij

[@neejkhuamsiabyang2944]

Tsis txhob tu .. siab os mog peb ua neeg lub neej Rau lub qab ntuj no peb yuav txua Tus yeej yuav tsis plis vim peb yog neeg txhaum tsis mloog vaj tSWV Lus es peb txhua Tus thiaj yuav txawj muaj mob thiaj Li yuav Tau tuag .

[@zoualee4807]

Him going back to the hospital to look for his wife hits me hard. 😭😭😭 I'm so sorry for your lost brother.

[@maipha8560]

Yes, life is indeed too short, spend your money and time together while you still can. Tomorrow will come but we may not be here to witness and enjoy it.

[@Loves_GodSR]

Awwww... I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you comforting prayers

[@krystalyeu799]

Super sad to hear and see the majority of Hmong or Hmong couples work so hard yet never enjoy their lives when their loved ones are alive - only realize and regret after one is dead. My husband and I have been dating since High School. Once we completed undergraduate and graduate schools, we married, worked, traveled, and finally conceived after ten years of scientific help. The minute our first daughter arrived. We took her and traveled as much as possible, both in the USA and out of the country. When our second and final daughter came - we continued to go on trips and have fun. By the time our oldest daughter turned 12, and our youngest daughter turned 9 - we had traveled to most major cities and continents. We set foot on famous beaches like Fiji & Bora Bora, plus many no-name beaches. We saw small islands on all corners of the four oceans, such as the Atlantic, Pacific, Indian, and Arctic. We visited European historical architects and towns, American national parks, monuments, and buildings, waterfalls (including Vitoria Falls in Africa), and many other famous falls. We then started hiking - our 3-4 or 7 days backpacking trips with our daughters on the soil of our beautiful USA and Canada alpine mountains, valleys, lakes, and running creeks, even in the middle of the Grand Canyon (the Havasu Falls/Creeks/Confluence of the Colorado River) along with Alaska Frontier, the Weeping Wall of Hawaii, the Appalachian Trail of the first 13 States of the US, to the country of Peru at Machu Picchu, Mount Fuji in Japan, the wild of the Himalayas Trails, the Great Wall of China to the Angel Landing in Utah, the Safari ride in wild Africa, Iceland lava land and countrysides with tallest waterfalls and biggest geysers plus so many more nature joys before our firstborn entered college. And today, we still travel! Either just the two of us or with our 22 & 19 years old daughters whenever they can because they are young and have less flexibility than my husband and me. We had road-tripping everywhere from the USA to South America. We would make 1-7 trips (the 3-4 or days trips) and 3 huge trips (the 2-3 weeks trips) per year. We only live once on this earth, so why not use our hard earn money plus vacation time and enjoy every inch of this fantastic globe? We live in a country where we all have set aside retirement funds for old age needs and carry 100 to million dollars of life insurance coverage that can bury or burn us. Don’t just sit there and get drunk; get face reputations in the Hmong community. Get out and experience a real-life journey….so when that last day on earth comes, you don’t come to Niam Ntsuab Teev Channel and cry your heart out, wishing to turn back time!

[@xiongvang9584]

You have been very lucky sister. Bless your family. I pray that the pol who can, will be able to do this. I have been a single mom most of my children’s lives and did my best to raise them by myself. COVID took my health since 2022 and now it will be even harder for me to be able to do anything. But I believe God has a plan for everyone and I hold on to that belief, I will one day be able to travel the world now that my kids are older.

[@krystalyeu799]

@@xiongvang9584 Thank you! My life has been very fortunate. I am very sorry to hear about your struggle as a single mother. I give you lots of credit for taking care of your children by yourself! I pray for you to get better and venture out to places you like to visit soon. No hurry - one step at a time, sister!

[@yangxwb6493]

@@krystalyeu799 damn! Some people life aren’t easy like yours.

[@krystalyeu799]

@@yangxwb6493 Thank you for commenting on my opinion thread - I never said life is easy; each of us struggles in different types and stages. But we live in a country where opportunities are within reach, and anyone can obtain them, including you. I still remember how much my husband and I hate eating the four cans of Campbell soup and the three cups of Maruchan ramen noodles on sale every Wednesday for one dollar per set. We would stock them - and this is our eight years journey where all my boyfriend (now husband) and I could afford to eat during our undergraduate and graduate schools. We attend college, and each of us works two part-time jobs to survive. No Hmong kids in the late 80s and early 90s to late 90s were spoiled because every Hmong parents were super poor. The question is: Do you commit and dedicate enough to achieve your goals and enjoy real life, aka the American dream? We never knew what sitting in a restaurant was like in those early days. Every penny we earned was for rent, books, food, etc. Student loans are up to our heads, but we never give up, and that is how we reach our dreams. We don’t spend 20-30K or 30-40K on our wedding day and graduation ceremony. We put this amount of money into cheap houses and live mortgage free. We don’t care about the 500K or 1 million dollar homes. We rather earn residual incomes from our multiple properties. We don’t spend 4-5 hundred dollars at the clubs/bars buying beers each night on the weekend. We have never touched or bought blue/red-label liquors to impress our friends and relatives; we reside in the 2nd largest Hmong population State in the US that parties hard every weekend, yet we never set foot in any of those Hmong places even though we drive by every day. We are not stingy, but we know our money’s value, treat our loved ones, relatives, and friends on the right occasion, and ensure that our treatment shows them how much we love and appreciate them with great memories. And this is how we have lived and enjoyed life for 30-plus years. P.S. the smell of Campbell soup and any ramen noodles is what I still hate the most today. I never eat them ever again since the day I finished graduate school. Also, my husband doesn’t touch Campbell soup anymore, but he still eats ramen noodles here and there as long as it is not a Maruchan brand. LOL!

[@yangxwb6493]

@@krystalyeu799 I understand! Your words are so encouraging! I just wish I had it better 20 years ago. 🥺 that way maybe today I would have been happier.

[@tonyyan1777]

Niam ntsuab teev koj ma keej kawg cas nyob nplog teb thaib teb los Tseem hais tau dab neeg neej neeg nrov nphas thov qhuas 😂😂😂😂😂

[@yausncokojmusibsimxyoojxyo9833]

Nrog koj tu siab os tu nu..😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@moobxaavvaammeej5725]

So sad, and so true brother. Enjoy your life when you still can. Do not live for good wealth but live in good wealth brothers.

[@hnublis6765]

Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj no os mloog e tu2 siab hv li ke mloog ke quaj xwb os😭😭😭

[@tubhmoobhmoob2944]

Tus kwv tij nrog koj tu siab thiab os.. cia siab tias ib hnub twg neb yuav rov tau sib ntsib nyob rau Ceeb Tsheej Ntug

[@hmongremark2686]

Txoj kev ploj tuag ces tsis muaj leej twg yuav khiav dim. Thaum txog leej twg zeeg lawm ces tus ntawv yuav tau ncaim ploj pliag hauv world no mus lawm. Tus neeg hlub hlub koj tau ncaim koj mus lawm vim yog txoj kev ploj tuag mas koj muab nws nco sawv nraim hauv koj siab mus txog ntua 2 los yog 3 lub xyoo mam li tsuag taus. Thaum nws txoj siav tu nrho mus txog ntua 3 lub xyoo ntawv mas koj tsis lees tias nws tuag lawm tiag tiag. Koj tseem pheej tos ntsoov saib nws puas lam hu ib tsab xov tooj rau koj los yog koj lam ho hnov tias nws tseem nyob nrog lwm tus.

[@pahouaxiong6142]

Xyov uas cas cov txij nkawm sib sib hlub ces lub neej pheej txog ib nrab xwb? Nrog koj tus siab kawg. Thov hlub thiab tiv thaiv koj cov menyuam. Kuv tus muam tau ncaim nws tus txiv lawm thiab. Niaj hnub no nws ces niaj hnub quaj lis koj thiab.

[@mayseeyang5953]

I am so sorry for your loss brother. You are probably around my age and I sympathize with you and your children❤. I understand why you moved on so quickly after the death of your wife since your children are still so young but i believe that you are still grieving. Your children are still grieving for their mom. Marrying your current wife at such a time is also not fair for her as well. I really do hope that she is patient enough to help you and your children through this but if she can’t please don’t put the blame on her. Please heal first, learn to love yourself and your children first before trying to love another in hopes of replacing old memories with new ones. It doesn’t hurt to seek out grieve therapies for your children as well. This will help them heal and hopefully accept it when you move on.

[@MyConfessions]

😪😭😭 ua cas tug tuag thiaj li yog tug zoo xwb? Ua cas cov sib sib hlub thiaj li tau sib ncaim xwb?? So sad.

[@txwbvwj3056]

Yg lawm o nyiaj ces khwv tau txhua lub sij hawm tab sis lub sij hawm nim tig mu g tos yus txoj sia li o

[@1leeglauj920]

Wow...txoj kev hlub yog zoo npaum no tiag, ntshe kuv yuav xum ua tus tuag ua ntej es thiaj tsis pom tej kev quaj ntsuag, kev nco ntawm yus tus txij tus nkawm thiab ntawn yus tej me tub me nyuam...But wait, I must not die so I can take care of everything and be the strongest for my kids...

[@maivpaxiongandjulie9721]

Good work sister ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@mplph8358]

Cas tus siab ua luaj 😢😭

[@caaspasvang7427]

Brother mloog mas koj hlub koj poj niam kawg os so sad now on enjoy your life together because life is too short 😥😥😥

[@barneyv3008]

I cry my eyes out while I drive to work lol it so sad

[@touyang3403]

Tuag es neeg tsis txeeb ua lub cawv xeeb, vim tshuav ib pob nyiaj zoo tshaj qhov tuag Tsis muaj ris tsho hnav

[@DinaMeYoung4797]

Tus nus aw pab koj tu siab os mog

[@jackieyunan4899]

Cov poj nrauj tam no heev heev tsis zoo yuav los ua niam tsev nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw...

[@YangLee-x5y]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@emilyxiong4270]

This is why spending money on everything you love and wants before is too late. Money is not everything without love

[@colleenchan9872]

Yog nyiaj yeej yuav tsis tau txoj sia os!pab koj tu siab koj tus niam tsev tso koj tseg os

[@jeanpaulthao7610]

Txoj kev sib hlub ces sib hlub tseem muaj Txoj siab xwb tsis txhob tos ib twg zoo lis zaj neej neeg no ces tag lawm xwb mog.

[@cilis915]

Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li vim lub neej tsi kawg thiaj li pib dua lub neej tshiab los niam los khaws tau lub kua muag iab xwb

[@user-ky4be7lw8n]

Lub neej no leej twg ntsib thiaj paub oslub neej ntsuag thiab lub neej dib nrauj txawv deb li ntuj thiab av

[@ชลธิชาแซ่หมี่-ช6ซ]

เมย์ ฉันชอบฟังละครชีวิตของคุณมาก หรือ(neej neeg) ฉันเขียนภาษาม้งและอ่านได้แค่ไม่กี่คำ คำง่ายๆฉันเลยต้องเขียนเป็นภาษาไทยให้คุณ ฉันชอบฟังคุณ เล่าเรื่องมากฉันฟังทุกวันหรือเรียกว่าทั้งวันเลยก็ว่าได้ เรื่องที่คุณเล่าไม่พอฉันฟังเลย วันละ 2 เรื่องก็ไม่พอ ฉันต้องมาฟังเรื่องเก่าซ้ำๆที่ฉันชอบ เพราะเรื่องใหม่มาไม่ทัน ฉันติดตามคุณทั้ง saib lom zam และhmoob channel ฉันดีใจที่คุณมาเที่ยวที่ประเทศไทยแต่เสียดายไม่มีโอกาสได้เจอคุณ ขอให้คุณเที่ยวให้สนุกนะ ทั้งที่ไทย ลาว และเวียดนาม ฉันอยากคอลคุยกับคุณแล้วบอกคุณว่าฉันชอบเรื่องเล่าของคุณมาก สุดท้ายนี้ไม่ว่าคุณจะเดินทางไปไหน ก็ขอให้ปลอดภัยนะคะ

[@solomoua5520]

Peoples know money can’t by health but instead we still work work work for money and forget about spending time more together and say nice things until someone is dying, also don’t want to spend that money on what we want to go or eat. Don’t just put your money away peoples spend it because you don’t know when 🫵🏼

[@kabriaxiong1531]

Me nu ca koj wb txoj kev hlub nim tu siab thiab zoo ib yam li os kuv tu txiv lo twb tuag tau ob xyoo lawm lo kuv tseem niaj hnub to nw nco nw tsi ploj li os

[@sengyang5402]

Ed cas nej cov txiv tub nim tu siab ib yam li peb cov niam tub thiab os lawd Aws. Xyov yuav nco mus txog thaum twg yuav tu siab mus txog hnub twg mam tsi nco qab os lawd.

[@sauvwj7394]

Only soul loves from the heart will understand the pains! 😢😢😢😢

[@hlubkojheev3109]

ຜະຳກູຜູະູ

[@yangthao5242]

Brother, I'm so very sorry about your 1st wife. In life, with time, we can never know what challenges we will face. At the beginning, we are bias about assigning the value of things to the things that we don't have but want. For example, money is important, but not as important as the air that we breathe. It is better to fucus on wealth because it is not just money but a fuller encapsulation of wellbeing. So at all stages of life, share all the good things with all of the family and friends to enrich each other. And, at the end in which we all must face, it can be said that life was lived to the fullest. To your new relationship, I feel you may have jumped into to it too soon. Keep in mind that in life we don't always get lucky. You should have known that from your first marriage. You were lucky in love but not in time. In any major decision, please take the time to safeguard the very basic needs of you wellness. There is always a risk, but it is absolutely okay to lay down everything that is important to you before moving forward. Remember that time can be a friend, so use it and make sure that your choices reflects your needs.

[@heymaiv]

Well said.

[@xayxiong1061]

Agreed!

[@dolliilov3144]

You should ALWAYS choose your kid(s) over your evil partner because your kids will always be there for you if you love them and if they love you as their parent.

[@daisyvue]

Agree!!! And, you should not remarry just to say you have a significant other. It's completely okay to be a single parent if you are not ready to move on.

[@xayxiong1061]

Exactly! Most men will chose the evil new partner over their kids

[@kaher5815]

Cas peb cov txiv neej hmoob es tus uas poj niam tuag ces ho hais hlub thiab khuv xim Tiam sis cov uas tus poj niam tsis Ua mob tsis Ua phem los ho muab tua thiab tsis hlub li

[@rosemarylohr1301]

You’re lonely for another one but you can’t let go of the past. You’re still mourning, you’re not ready to move on yet.

[@pkcyang2910]

Tu siab tshaj li os. Txojkev tuag ces yog ib txojkev tu2 siab tsis muaj leejtwg yuav dhia dhau. Cas yuav pojniam saib ua luaj na tus brother aw. Cas ib nyuag xyoo xwb twb yuav dua tus tshiab lawm. Puas nco koj tus pojniam tiag2 mas?

[@supervong1]

Sad but remember all relationships ends. We all have to go through this in life. No one walks away from it. Rip to your lovely wife.

[@meexiong9961]

Neb twb sib hlub tsim nyog kawg li lawm o....kuv Mas thiaj li tsis tsim nyog kiag li. Vim khwv khwv Los tau 28 xyoos nrog nws ua neej..kuv muaj 3 keej Tub 1 leeg ntxhais thau kawg nws cia li tsis xav ua neej nrog lawm ...nqs cia muab kuv nrauj yam tu siab nrho...tiam ces tu siab nrho rau txiv Neej hmoob lawm o lawv e...

[@mangkhang4108]

Niam ntsuab Teev thaus twg nej mam los tsev os los tsuag tsuag peb nco nco nej os nawb 😮

[@kheevlamle4184]

niam youa teng, koj tsis txhob quaj2 rau zaj dab neeg no na. koj nco ntsoov tias koj tseem mus vacation, tsam koj muaj mob os. we want you 2 to have fun & enjoin your trip. we hope you all come back home safe. Thanks

[@nyajloojyaj600]

So sad story to listen to…no words can describe it….

[@สุดาเเซ่โซ้ง-ซ4ศ]

Me cas zaj no yuav tu siab ua luaj os

[@noumoua1002]

Zaj no tsis quaj lis kua muag lo. Tseem ua mov noj cheem tsis tau lub kua muag ces kua muag kua ntswg los ceev heev yuav tau muab so. Cas tu siab ua luaj. Hlub thaum tseem muaj txoj sia nyob noj taus haus taus, muab lus zoo hais txhob roos lus phem thiaj tsis ntsawv siab os.

[@myprecious6751]

Brother, you should just divorce your second wife. She's not good for your kids. She doesn't love nor want your children but expects you to love and accept and treat her kids with entitlement values. She's making you and your kids miserable.

[@akulathao4654]

This fool let his worm take over his head!

[@cal3243]

Agreed

[@gaothy007]

That's what it sounds like. New wife don't expect herself to love and treat his kids right but she want him to respect and treat her kids right!!! These type of divorcee women be the worse!

[@myprecious6751]

@@gaothy007 unfortunately in tge Hmong marriages this kind of thing runs deep. Either the man/woman. They do not think or understand more so they just chooses to ignore it. When the man married its you he's marrying not your children. He doesn't want all your excess baggage. You have to understand especially if he's willing to abandoned his own flesh and blood children, what makes you think that he'll treat or want yours? Than there are the women too they're worse. They're evil asf. Mistreating the stepchildren with such malicious behavior. Divorced folks need to think of their children and not their own selfish greedy needs.

[@botmcg6886]

Yog lawm

[@pvp503]

Muaj ib pob los thaum yuav tuag yeej tsis muaj nuj nqis, ua tib neeg yeej tsi sawm zoo. Khoom qab mas tias kim heev tsis yuav noj,qia dub tshaj plaws. Yeej tsis yuav ib ce zoo hnav, tab sis khaws tau tsheej pob nyiaj mas txaus siab, sov siab tshaj plaws thaum kawg ces tsuas ntshaw txoj sia xwb.

[@yeevue7322]

May aw, yog no ces koj thiab kuv wb ces tso siab lug noj lau yom hehehe

[@homephone8903]

ขอ

[@locthaiienmayxanh9801]

☺️☺️

[@เบ้าทรงสวัสดิ์วงศ์]

Nyob zoo os niam luag

[@ameliachia4807]

Such a sad love story. When you know you have your best friend by your side, do everything you both love and never take each other for granted. Yes, there may be bad days but that is only temporary. Love and commitment with your soulmate is for eternity. No one knows when life may end, so love each other unconditionally and never badmouth your significant other to die.

[@khaylo1844]

Nyob zoo os

[@xwmkabyang354]

Kev ua neej nyob ces kavtsij mus vacation thaum tseem hluas menyuam tseem me es txhob tos kom muaj nyiaj kom menyuam loj tag vim tsis paub tagkis yus yuav tseem noj qab nyob zoo od.

[@bryanchannelzl5296]

Kuv ces ho muab siv travel yuav ntau yam Kuv Tshaw ntau dhau Kuv ho rov Tsis muaj nyiaj lawm loa Kuv Xav tias paub hnub no xwb no os sad story

[@shouathao6281]

Nyiaj tsis muaj nuj nqis muab pov tseg thoob khib nyawb mas koj Poj niam tuag twb tsis Yog nyiaj ua ne. koj qias dub nyiaj koj feel required xwb yog koj tsis muaj nyiaj koj nyob Taus 8 hlis koj haj yam tus siab os me nus aw muaj hmoo thiaj khwv tau nyiaj ho

[@tyrannosaurrex1350]

😭😭😭😭

[@chuvang5487]

Hmoob twb haistias noj tsis taus ces yuav tuag, hais tsis taus ces yuav swb. kwvtij txhob tu siab cia sib ncaim thaum tseem sib2 nco txhob cia txog hnub ob leeg sib2 dhuav mam li sib ncaim ces tsis zoo dabtsi lawm. Ib tug neeg txojsia tu lawm tseem hnov koj cov lus cas yuav xyaum dag ua luaj.

[@niammeejvaj2980]

😭

[@MIsyajYaj]

Me aw lawv pom koj lawv muaj khoom ces lawv muab ua dej siab pub rau koj os ho kuv ces twb tsis tau pom koj es tsuas yog niaj hnub mloog koj cov neej neeg xwb los thov koj zam txim pub thiab mog

[@mart5963]

Tus me txiv tsev koj thiaj yog tus txiv neej muaj siab ntsws tiag2 nyob zoo nawb

[@wendyher6594]

Thaum muaj neeg tuag lawm….nej txhob muab lub ntees eb li wedding party hlo li. Yog nej ua li ntawd yog ua neeg khavtheeb thiab npabnuaj dhau cai lawm os. Hais lawv li qhovtseeb xwb. Lub ntees ces ua ib hnub thiab zais ib ntawd xub thiaj li tsis tag nyiaj ntau ntau es tseg ib txhia thiaj li muaj nyiaj rau lub neej thaum caij ntsib kev txomnyem. Txhob saib nyiaj hlob hlob vim tias nyiaj yuav tsis tau kev hlub, tsevneeg thiab txojsia hlo li. Kev hlub hauv ntiajteb yeej tsis muaj tus hlub yus tshaj lub ntuj nawb. Ua txwjnkawm tsua yog ib vuag xwb nyiag yuav mus nyiag txojkev….tsis yog uake hlo li nawb. Ua neej nyob ces hlub thaum ciaj thiab tuag ib yam nkaus. Yuav tsis sib pom tag ib simneej hlo li lawm. Zaj nkauj tias “Yaj yuav mus yaj…tshis yuav mus tshis…yuav tsis ua niamtxiv”. Sawvdaws tsua yog yug los ua qhua xwb. Thaum kawg ces nyiag yuav tso lub ntiajteb no tseg lawm xwb. Thaum ua neej nyob khaws nyiaj los siv rau vacations kom tsimnyog qhov uas nej khwv khwv es thiaj li muaj txhua yam. Thaum yug los lab qab….thaum tuag rov mus lab qab….yeej nqa tsis tau ib dabtsis mus hlo li nawb.

[@rcmobile8894]

Koj ma hai tau kuv lub kuas muag lo hee li os

[@hl6615]

Your new wife shouldn’t have any problems with your visitation to your deceased spouse. What a bad woman.

[@avnamo5787]

👎 for not acknowledging and responding to anyone's comments on here. Sau comment rau May tuag kiag los May yeej tsis teb nej os.

[@poheu9307]

+niam ntsuab teev koj mas phim hais cov neej neeg tu tu siab li no xwb .

[@wendyher6594]

Spend on funeral only 25K under…not more than 25K. Why Hmoob spending so much money 💰 on such funerals that can only cause family go poorer?!?! Ntsia mas Hmoob siv nyiaj loj dhau cai lawm. Qhovtseeb tiag nej rov ua rau nej txomnyem vim siv nyiaj ruas dej ntws. Hmoob ces yog ruam tsab ntse xwb os.

[@ชลธิชาแซ่หมี่-ช6ซ]

อ๋อ ม้ง story ค่ะเขียนผิด

[@panouthao6350]

I lost my late husband to a drunk driver and I am crying to this story. It hit close to home.

[@mayseeyang5953]

Sorry for your loss❤

[@png6086]

You charge too much money with a little advertise with your channel

[@hlubkojforever1901]

I stopped crying when he said he re-married a new beautiful wife. Hmong men are never good despite any stories. Disgusting. Your ex wife was right, you probably super happy now.

[@lospeb100]

😄 well, hmong tradition requires a hmong men to have a house wife to be considered a txiv tsev. Without a niam tsev hmong society considered hmong men tsis txiaj