Off The Record: Should You Let Your GF Have Guy Friends?

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Special Thanks to Our Guest & Friend:
Kalyne Lionheart
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Cast:
• Hosted by Steve Greene
• Commentary by: Anthony Lee, Nick Dunn, Joe Jitsukawa, Ryanimay
• Edited by Candy Edits: www.candyedits.com
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[@kiarademoner]

So when I was starting to date my now husband I had a “bestfriend” that was a guy. My husband was super particular about him and didn’t like him at all! I used to get so upset with my husband telling him that he is my brother and he has NEVER tried to go there with me. He kept insisting that my friend liked me. Fast forward a month later when my husband asked me to be his gf and made it official I posted a picture of us on my insta. The next day my “bestfriend” called me spilling his guts and telling me that he has been in love with me for years and didn’t want to ruin it but now that he saw how serious I was getting with my now husband he had to let it out. My husband was always right. 😩😂

[@IvanGoldBit]

Lol all guys want sex few guys tell you upfront and maybe half of guys wait for it just because you want to friends doesn't mean the person just wants to friends.

[@coasterthekid8867]

If he really cared about you, he would’ve just kept it to himself. He told you because he needed you to know, it’s selfish really. He had so much time to tell you, but only did once he thought he was losing you.

[@kiarademoner]

@@coasterthekid8867 I felt so lied to. And kind of gross because I used to sleep in his house sometimes and felt “safe” because he never tried to do anything with me. I seriously thought he was like a brother to me. This whole time this man saw me differently and I can’t even imagine what he used to be thinking of whenever I was hanging out with him. And the thought that I used to get mad at my husband whenever he used to tell me about him smh lol

[@SpAzZzZz_]

Men know how men operate

[@jessicacastillo9186]

Kalyne and Nikki need to be a video together I feel like they would get along 😺😸

[@bethnichols2875]

Nikki is going to be in upcoming videos that she has already filmed with the crew. She mentioned it on her vlog. It will be interesting to see which crew members were there when she filmed her episodes.

[@CaliburPANDAs]

Nikki gets along with anyone though

[@it_punkkid7298]

Omg yess I agree that should happen

[@cynn_thor]

I agree. I don't think kalyne vibes well with Julia

[@it_punkkid7298]

@@cynn_thor well I think julia not been on forever so se don't know how things work

[@thersanothersidetome]

I’ve always been the boyfriend that wasn’t threatened or worried that my girl was gonna cheat because like Joe said, if she’s gonna do it, it’s better that I know rather than try to control and then create a sneaky habit. On the other end though, I have also been in situations where a female friend of mine would be touchy or just hanging out close to me when their bf was around and at that point I would act like I had superglue in my arm pits so I would not be touching them even accidentally lol.

[@isaacmettle]

I gonna borrow your ideology

[@cierragallarza1264]

Joe's shirt kept making me laugh throughout the whole video xD The face kept getting all crumpled in the funniest ways lolll

[@thomaschristopherwhite9043]

HAAHHAHA at one point it looked like an ewok.

[@I.love.tennis]

He’s a viet singer

[@ivyyang7752]

Sometimes the face has a mustache, sometimes it doesn’t

[@simpleitsdanny]

Legendary viet singer

[@nicolepi517]

The down payment comment took me OUT 😂

[@victoriaskyful]

I wish this vid never ended LMAOO

[@thomaschristopherwhite9043]

Dude this is fun as shit! This is definitely going in the "Im gonna come back to this one once in a while" type of video.

[@daisyw23]

Omg can I please get the guys’ perspectives on the difference between 1 on 1 hangout vs a date!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@bethnichols2875]

Tim makes it work. He said he has a lot of homegirls he's been friends with for years. And when he got together with Chia, they became her friends, too. One of them is even Chia's OBGYN. And another is the one Chia has him take to events because she doesn't like going out to the events the way his friend does.

[@ivyyang7752]

They really need to ask Tim this question on here though

[@BowlofPeaSoup]

These past couple uploads have been the best ones in a while! Thanks guys!

[@k.iskandar]

I mean every guy would wish for a no. But ultimately your partner should be able to be friends with whomever as you both should have that level of trust where you know your partner wouldn't do anything to jeopardise your relationship. But people do stupid things.

[@putriazalia9248]

This needs pt. 2

[@bfgboy2]

Wow. The conversation on this topic was quite surprising to me. I've been a JK fan for many years now and I recall the days of Ask the Feels when the topic of platonic relationships was brought up. The crew back then had such strong opinions on the matter, and simply saw it in black & white: "platonic relationships good" end of story. If you were against it, you were just "ensecure" and "immature" about it, no concessions. And now while their overall opinion on the matter hasn't changed...the fact that the crew is now capable of not seeing the matter so simply as black & white, and were even capable of providing counterpoints and other perspectives is rather refreshing. It shows a level understanding, growth and experience over the years.

[@Ecosteven]

You do realize the cast of people is completely different and maybe only joe was there back then. Lmao

[@GYSMelanie5]

I'm older and the older I get I think it's fine if there's trust between two people and trust in the friends. There Def needs to be boundaries, don't disrespect the relationship the girl is in, by any means. No late night calls or rides unless it's an emergency. My daughter is in her early 30's and has ONLY guy friends and she's been that way her whole life. So my answer is yes, it's possible.

[@sxhxlzxb]

Your daughter and me are alike, grew up just around boys too

[@crossingboundaries56]

If your daughter gave the opprotunity to fuck to anyone of her guy friends most would likely do it. Like they were saying in the video. Guys are kind of animals LOL

[@GYSMelanie5]

@@crossingboundaries56 that's why she set boundaries and if they even try it they are no longer friends, I've lived long enough on this earth to know you have a point lol

[@MYNAMElSDAVID]

Your daughter is getting passed around by a pack of dudes, buddy. They are not her friends

[@GYSMelanie5]

@@MYNAMElSDAVID you know what you are sick, my daughter has two beautiful children and a significant other, shame on you.

[@tinabeee7350]

Poor Ryan 😂

[@_Maxten]

i feel like if your gf is gonna have guy friends those guy friends need to be your friends too, or at least be properly acquainted and sometimes around and friendly with each other.

[@ssenluong17]

Laughed so hard in this one “dress so pretty”

[@BritheKop]

Anthony "you know what I mean" Lee! 😁

[@stellahaynesworth5833]

Joe is definitely the Alpha "If i want you I'll get you!" 😄

[@-amosc.presley-7192]

I think I believe that my Girlfriend, Fiancé are Wife should have guys for friends as long as I get a chance to know them also and if she allows me to have ladies as my friend a 2 for 1 agreement.

[@a_mamj]

20:55 that was so in sync!!! 😂😂😂

[@djWOOF]

There's a difference between when you're in college or younger and when you're a grown ass man and woman. I have friends that are girls and we can just say I love you to each other without it being sexual and they have their own husbands. And we're definitely not trying to fuck each other. Also my fiance has guy friends who I'm also friends with and it's totally cool.

[@GYSMelanie5]

Amen!!!

[@peaceout41]

My friend his best friends girlfriend was around 24 at the time and the other Guy whose kink is older married women was about 27 the last time I spoke to him. He had no age range too. From 23-60. I knew him since college so about 9 years from first time I meant him in college.

[@jasin95]

i've learned things about why social things are the way they are from this video

[@jk4115]

the title of this video should've been try not to pounce on ryan challenge

[@sxhxlzxb]

As a female with majority of male friends since my childhood it’s just a lot of explaining when it comes to dating, I always try to introduce them. Ive learnt the insecure ones are always iffy and complains ab it. My other BFs were cool w my guy friends.

[@-amosc.presley-7192]

You’re lucky.

[@masst7732]

It's so funny the fact that women think those men just want to be their friend. I guarantee that if you call any of your male friends and ask them "do you want to have sex", they will ALL say yes.

[@King_Me]

A female with majority male friends, there’s a word for that. 😂😂

[@GYSMelanie5]

@@King_Me that's not nice, my daughter has always had guy friends and I can guarantee you she's not what ever word you're trying to get at that's disrespectful.

[@GYSMelanie5]

@@King_Me I mean honestly, why comment at all if you don't have anything nice to say.

[@GYSMelanie5]

The snake 🐍 🤣 🤣🤣🤣

[@ASAP-Pocky]

18:20 😂😂😂😂😂 joe with these sneaky ones

[@martinc1647]

11:59 "Yeah she does" kills me haha

[@ku9145]

No way, Stephen 'tWitch' Boss took his own life. Seen him since his SYTYCD days and he was always such a positive light. RIP

[@bethnichols2875]

Damn. He always seemed so happy and smiling. 😔I feel for his wife and kids; esp. losing him in such a way and during the holidays at that. May they all receive the comfort, strength, help and healing they are gonna need.

[@noahmc7804]

So the one of the first parties I had/went to when I moved to FL and was at my roommates friends house for a Halloween party. It was just my ex-roommate his friend and my friend. So we played some drinking games and at one point in the night I gave my friend my phone to invite girls over here. He ended up adding one my friends that’s a girl that I never intended to get with. She was a pen pal from Snapchat. She’s in WI and he’s gone there and she come to visit. He won’t let any guy talk to her, me included. He was going to move into a house with my current roommate and another friend. He stayed in WI for awhile and I rarely hear from him. Is there an exception or was he right?

[@dare98]

You guys are hilarious 🤣

[@Rpgotoko]

Always interesting topic

[@shhv3448]

I had to block someone once because they could not be my friend. I told him that I didn’t want anything with him other than friendship and he said he was okay with that. But not long after he “put me on notice” that he wanted to date me. His exact words, “I’m putting you on notice”. I was like if you want to be my friend, then be my friend, quit hitting on me. And I have told my current partner that we cannot be friends because of I was attracted to him when I was dating someone else before we got together.

[@o6fade800]

As a Guy I have my own boundaries. You can think another person is attractive looking and not fuck that person. To me that’s kinda plain and simple. I like to respect people in their relationship cuz I don’t want people to do things to my relationships.

[@FiveSubj3x6]

I love the way you guys end every video

[@victorc1922]

I'm more worried about her 'gay friend' xD

[@andrewortega7833]

This gona be a juicy one

[@BBoyDrkNova]

18:50 is this why Ryan grew out his beard ? lol 😂😂

[@eringutsch]

I mean, I think it is possible. But I've been friends with my guy friends for years now. It's an interesting topic for sure and you guys are hilarious talking about it 🤣

[@Jiisica]

Loved this video 🤣🤣🎄

[@lionelldalguntas]

Kalyne talking about her to ryan.

[@FiveSubj3x6]

"Wheather or nor I would let you" After this statement is the FIRST time ever I seen Joe get caught off guard lololl Mann! So funny lol

[@ivyyang7752]

❤Steve not wanting to bang Anthony. ❤Everyone wanting to spread Ryan’s cheeks. ❤️Steve and Anthony singing together

[@testing123.]

Ah i needed to hear this

[@Mykeynikey22331]

This discourse always reminds me how blessed I am to have a man be my actual best friend 😅

[@Youknow6969able]

You give a fuckable vibe. "WHATS GIVING YOU THAT?" ryan gonna go home and train just in case, these snakes are hungry 😅

[@zizzybaby3695]

Love from Ghana 🇬🇭

[@couchpotatoe9062]

13:08 that "NO" is so satisfying

[@PengxueYG]

14:04 lol steve thinking about anthony lately haha

[@SnowLilies]

I only have 1 guy friend that I fully trust, he's younger and like a little brother to me. He's the only one my bf trusts too. Most guys pretend to be my friend and then ghost me or lash out when they realize I'm not going to give them what they want. I've stopped trying to connect, it's not worth the disappointment. It's really hard to get accepted into a female clique so I just don't have friends. It's lonely out here 👍

[@IvanGoldBit]

Just because he's younger and you feel on top because of your age lol 🤣 and "you" say we are friends doesn't mean he feels the same. I've seen guys wait years for chance men and women can't be platonic friends its just a matter of time for someone to catch feelings. Trust me as random guy all guys want sex some just longer than others watch for the 🐍 and im sure you know 9:13

[@SnowLilies]

@@IvanGoldBit He calls me one of his best friends, we have a mentor type relationship. Are you saying that I shouldn't trust him either? 😂

[@IvanGoldBit]

@@SnowLilies He's your friend not mine 😏

[@pushingp5193]

All these little guys commenting their insecurities, y’all never had female friends in highschool? Or from socializing after uni?

[@BurittoSandwich]

20:51, that's how you know they're good homies

[@CaptainCJ97]

1:18 need that as a gift

[@JoshuaPark505]

I'm dying here😂

[@CaliburPANDAs]

Ryan and Joe should start an OnlyFans together 😍

[@thatvietguyonline]

Joe is wearing a Tuấn Anh tee 😂

[@Naing2lin]

the face on joes shirt looks funny

[@onka3895]

🤔Ryan be lookin' like a snack tho 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@bethnichols2875]

"Dominate Humbly" 😏

[@o6fade800]

Lololol😂

[@Phillip-ino]

I just have this feeling Tony is going to bring this up in the Joemalia group

[@stinkynoodles8312]

i feel a little bit about joe because although I'm not attracted to my female friends, I do fantasize about them. But they're all clearly separated in my head because sex and relationships are two separate things to me, and I value relationships more than I value sex. I might lust after everyone, but I would never act on it. I cherish my friendships with people and I think having a deep and emotional connection to them is much better than just being deep inside them. It'd be nice, but so long as I am in control of myself, I would never fuck my friends.

[@rithireachthet6417]

u guys getting 40% paycut but still laughing i guess thats a daily bonus.

[@negiihimanshu]

Ryan 🤣🤣🤣 18:50 .... This dude 🤣🤣🤣

[@donnguyen2517]

Wish we had more perspectives on this topic. Cuz does that mean bi ppl can't have any friends at all?

[@pinoyakosumagang]

🔥🔥🔥episode

[@SunnyB_NewPeace]

I've never been that guy myself to be jelly of guy friends since it'd be hypocritical of me since I've always had lots of lady friends myself. I'm also polyamorous and that may be a whole nother topic on its own haha

[@ruchidesai]

13:24 😂😂😂😂

[@CaptainCJ97]

As long they don't cross the line I'm fine

[@sagathekawaiikilla]

Ryan u better b carful it’s a black leather couch back there …….

[@pkruez2089]

Take away, "nedding the dough."

[@mynamesjeffhardly]

We need to clip the gay jokes on Ryan 😆

[@n1r1d15]

19:07 to 19:22 Ryan and Kaylen talking about each other.?

[@bethnichols2875]

Probably, since there are just friends. And there is no denying that they are good looking people, they just are not attracted to each other.

[@otakkuanimegeek7892]

Yes.

[@ourhappyplace791]

😂😂😂 the whole time

[@timmyle8741]

joe i need that shirt

[@lil_rata6994]

Im pansexual, so this question confuses me sometimes. Like on the real, I find most people attractive in some way (physically) most of the time so ig from my pov it's just hella control and reflection. also, im poly so like in all my relationships i say from the start that i dont mind what they do during their time just when i get home its us time and it takes A LOT OF TRUST AND CONFIDENCE but still its possible if u find the right people.

[@thomaschristopherwhite9043]

My head hurts thinking about what's going on with you.

[@lil_rata6994]

@@thomaschristopherwhite9043 valid

[@jaydenyoung4851]

If she’s known them longer then me aka childhood friends that’s calm

[@angeliquequan4275]

I’m surprised to see Joe wearing Tuan Anh’s t-shirt. He is a great performer. You guys are hilarious.

[@raawger]

e-reptile-dysfunction

[@zureai]

I don’t know .. I’ve always tried to have female friends but every time they get a Bf they ghost me. I’m like “damn i thought we were homies”. Maybe I’m just young and the women in around ain’t mature enough for that

[@KYCN8]

OTR is my favourite

[@abrahamzatarain547]

This is probably the truest jk vid that is speaking to me with a sledgehammer.

[@djford1999]

Yo mama 😂😂

[@shirtdirt1874]

bro just let them have boyfriends too.

[@matthewchang954]

This a Hard No . I Agree

[@Barely___Editing]

It’s not chill, NEXT VIDEO.

[@IvanGoldBit]

This is the truth 9:14 women know they just love 💘 the attention

[@AustinJones-qo8dr]

I seem ready lubed 😂

[@matthewchang954]

I am laughing a lot

[@namrehh]

pleaseeeee lower the volume for the intro, startles me every time lol

[@sagathekawaiikilla]

Older not as worried but depend on scenario ~ but Younger id look out cause when I was like 17 ….. I ain’t no home wrecker , but if the relationship was on the rocks 😅 i was tryna break em up so I can get a w . Also did 10:25what joe ant said

[@michael43567]

She's an adult, I can't control her. But if she does have a bunch of straight male friends, I'd find that weird & probably wouldn't take her serious. Because I don't trust guys, not her

[@jk4115]

16:24 nick is so funny

[@peterlongac]

I was cringing in the beginning of the video but by the end it was smooth sailing

[@endlessgameone3640]

It ok until shit happened

[@joshualopezuribe7805]

i like how the whole video was basically just them saying no but complicated

[@MartyD]

red flag if she even has time to just hang out with her guy “friends”

[@SleepingSoldier]

Not threatened. Shit's just weird. I'd say put a limit on it. If she has like 30 male friends and 2 female friends, play at your own risk.

[@jessicalucia1523]

❤

[@maximustitan8171]

Damn funny