OHIO’s “What Were You Wearing?” Survivor Art Installation

[@goldensentinel7715]

The amount of children's clothing there is depressing.

[@imrrai]

And still people dared to ask - WHAT WAS SHE WEARING

[@AndreeaCe]

Depressing is little said.

[@proverbs30-4]

What you're calling "children's clothing" was probably worn by women.

[@AndreeaCe]

@@proverbs30-4 tell me you're a joke.

[@starlightgarnet]

Ain't THAT the truth!

[@oliwiakasjanski3922]

Most of these are little girls. :(

[@kornelialeszczynska1539]

I'm just crying that little girls and little boys have that in their life ;(

[@ebi4005]

I was a little girl as well, maybe around 6-8, and to make it better, that was the exact time that I was being abused by my father and didn't have a loving family when I was at my fathers.

[@malinnohall3707]

"the perfect victim"

[@malinnohall3707]

"the perfect victim"

[@aarongunthrie8462]

@@malinnohall3707 ?

[@GuardGirlIGuess]

My parents always tell me my shorts are too short or my shirt is too tight. Then I wear sweatpants and a baggy shirt and they say it’s better. It doesn’t matter what you wear and these videos are proof of that. It’s not about the clothes you wear, it’s the mindset of the abuser.

[@Heavenlygood4]

im so scared to dress provocatively cause i know if something happens everyone will blame me:(

[@hannahkennedy2854]

When this happens to someone people always go "well what were you wearing?" What I am wearing is NOT a invitation to My body.

[@Mal2008]

Say it louder for the people in the back!!

[@lifecrisis88]

never heard 1 person say that in real life fortunately. Online perhaps but never irl.

[@daustin8888]

Yes it is

[@janellekm]

As a survivor, I think this question of what I was wearing was saying to me, that it was my fault and for so long I believed it. I was drugged, I couldn't even fight for myself, it wasn't my fault!

[@everythingsgonnabealright7924]

what were you wearing when it happened to you if may ask?

[@janellekm]

@@everythingsgonnabealright7924 mid length skirt and a tshirt, no one could ever use my wardrobe of having any items that could make my mum use the phrase of my time as "advertising my wares" .

[@everythingsgonnabealright7924]

@@janellekm is that a skirt that goes to the middle of the knee?

[@janellekm]

@@everythingsgonnabealright7924 no it us between knee and ankle. But it shouldn't matter.

[@janellekm]

@@everythingsgonnabealright7924 A person, no matter how they are dressed or the job that they do, do not deserve to be rape.

[@Strawberrylovestacobellright]

Its horrifying how many minor's clothes are exhibited, and also the fact that there are toddler's clothes. (I have gone through that too.)

[@notyourdoggo7540]

I was 9, I was probably wearing long jeans with a red plaid shirt. Idk, that’s the type of clothing I used to wear back then.

[@betteratbedwars4477]

i am so sorry that happened to u. it was not ur fault and i hope ur doing better

[@PanPaige]

I’m so sorry

[@biertjewithmenno886]

Jesus christ

[@arandompasserby1725]

@@biertjewithmenno886 look, nevertheless of your personal belief, Jesus never sexually assault anyone (or have sex at all), He stayed virgin from born to death. If anything, Jesus is the best role model. Curse with something else please.

[@biertjewithmenno886]

@@arandompasserby1725 fine: “oh my god.”

[@avocado3-in-182]

I saw a similar exhibition like this in fb. Most of the clothes are from female survivors. I saw normal clothes, a soldier’s clothes, and then children’s clothes. I think I saw a toddler’s too. It’s sickening and sad.

[@Nykki72]

I wish police officers would have seen this. To this day, the same question is asked “What where you wearing?”

[@dollsandstuff5348]

It's so sad that the first question they get asked is "What are/were you wearing??", and not "Are you Okay??"

[@daphnedixon36]

The second question of course in certain situations (parties, bars) is "how much did you have to drink?"

[@sadhbhhilliard7865]

It is so sad to think this is what is going on today. People being judged for there clothes. As a survivor I got asked that question and i cried, I cried because I felt it was my fault again!

[@DesGardius-me7gf]

The fact that there are children’s clothing in this exhibit is heartbreaking.

[@All_mixed_up-4]

Yes.

[@wolfiestar5185]

The fact that this museum has to exist at all is heartbreaking

[@iamthesandguardian9065]

I was around 6-7, I was wearing my school uniform, which was a blue polo shirt and baggy, black trousers. A new kid joined the school a few weeks prior, he didn't understand much English. We were on a school trip to this place called Magna, which is a science museum. I was looking at the fire tornado desplay, he came up to me and grabbed my butt from behind, this carried on throughout the trip. I never told anyone.

[@mincraftcod397]

i’m sorry

[@mincraftcod397]

that happened to you

[@Akiraa116]

Pls don’t keep it to urself share it with ur family or anyone u shouldn’t keep it to urself that boy should be ashamed of what he did

[@wonderstorm116]

I don’t even remember what I was wearing, but a similar thing happened to me. Just in public, shameless.

[@Mimi-cq4bg]

I drove past a woman who was very drunk, and completely naked, out and about in the neighborhood. Naked, drunk, and its not an invitation. Its not consent.

[@Strawberrylovestacobellright]

I'm proud of you :D

[@siqxyre8473]

You probably should have called the police to escort her home LOL

[@pizza1468]

I was 13-14. I was wearing pajamas with an baggy oversized hoodie. I was at a friend's sleepover and she had her boyfriend over (who was a year older than us). While I was half asleep, he grabbed me and ripped my pants off, he then got on top of me and began putting it inside me. I kept fighting, kicking him and begging him to stop but he still wouldn't. Then that morning I told my friend about him SA'ing me that night, but she said it was my fault because I didn't fight him off (even though i did, i tried so hard to get him off me), she also said it was okay because he was autistic. I'm no longer friends with that pathetic girl, and I keep a good distance away from her boyfriend (even though he keeps catcalling.) For months I thought it was my fault because he was drunk (he was underage drinking btw), and she kept saying the same thing to me. It was only until a month ago, I realised it was not my fault.

[@derkeksuchtige3416]

Only in ohio 😮

[@christinastein2817]

Report that shit!!

[@pizza1468]

@@derkeksuchtige3416 Seriously?

[@janesvirtualworld]

I’m sorry that happened to you:(

[@UrDadBroughtMilk]

I’m so sorry that happened to you😞 I hope that monster and your ex bitch gets karma

[@pat8060]

Clothes. That’s what they were wearing, they didn’t deserve it no matter what clothes they wore.

[@SnowWhite-tc5vr]

Rape os about asserting power over someone who is weaker at that moment. It's not about clothes or any thing the victimn was doing. Rape is about not consensual intimacy that is forced upon someone. Rape is rape. There's no way around it.

[@crabsaresilly8317]

If I decide to leave my windows or door open because it was a really nice day outside, that isn't an excuse for a robber to just run in and take my stuff. I would still have the right to report what's happening or even use the castle doctrine on them!

[@drhadj]

I know your very strong and brave❤

[@TsArieAna]

We are all different in different places in our lives…no ones story is the same! People need to stop victim blaming! I was wearing a tshirt and basketball shorts and two men I trusted tore a hole so deep into my soul and self worth it’s still gives me nightmares

[@Aria_2K2]

I was wearing my school uniform. I was thirteen.

[@Strawberrylovestacobellright]

I am really sorry that people are this cruel... :( I hope you broke contacts with him/her. :(((

[@ekamdeep128]

I hope you're alright

[@starrykrewfamx8380]

The dislikes are from disgusting people who disagreed

[@Ar_ika]

I was 11 year old. I was wearing long white shirt that reach to my thighs, black long skirt it's reach to my foot wrist,a white hijab and black sock also black shoe People be like: WHaT aRe YOu WeaRinG! It's was scary....

[@Fushigurofreak]

I hope you recovered from that and feel much better 💕

[@ekamdeep128]

May God bless you 🙏

[@F4esf4iry]

I hope you recover ❤️

[@1fish146]

i think i was either 4-6 at the time, i don’t really remembered much that happen but i just known i was wearing sandals, a shirt, and leggings. it was horrible. i still get nightmares thinking about it and i fucking hate it

[@umbra4233]

I’ve been fortunate enough to not have this happen to me and I want to hug every one of you who had this happen. It’s always disgusted me hearing about these types of stories especially if it happened to literal children! Also the “what were you wearing?” question always posses me off

[@TravellerLover-m5b]

Hey I have a question i have never been assaulted but one day a boy of my class like he was standing behind me and say to me side pls and I feel that he touched me in a wrong way but I was not sure because i feel that maybe he doesn't mean that or maybe I just imagine that so I didn't share this with anyone because I know that if I will tell my parents they will complaint against the boy and i don't want that because if it it will be my imagination so he will be punished for the thing he hadn't done so after that I always maintain distance from him i was feeling that it was my fault that i didn't tell my parents what will you do if you were in my place

[@NIAAESTHTIC]

@@TravellerLover-m5bit’s not your fault if you felt uncomfortable you did

[@Infinitymc1mu]

​@@TravellerLover-m5boh I have been there. Im not telling u to try this but I went to him straightaway, not on the moment but after I thought of it some hours . N told him I did not feel good about that. He said it was not on purpose,offc they say that . But after then he never came towards me. If they maintain distance themselves then yes they did have some intention..(this was for me )simply don't become their víctim, n make sure to carry Peppers spray something..I literally carry a whole knife! Small one haha

[@arriolachannel51]

i coudlve told my mum but i felt like it was my fault. Anyways i was wearing a pink dress (i was 6 or 7) and some black doll shoes :)

[@beepers4640]

It isn’t your fault

[@JustNuggie]

Omg! It was not your fault, you were so young

[@николяниколяевна]

@@JustNuggie it wouldn't be her fault even if she was an adult then

[@belynda1224]

number one, you were a kid who probably didn’t even know what s3x was. number two, those clothes are completely innocent, and all they prove is that abusers don’t care about your clothes, only power. you are valid and loved, none of this was your fault. i hope you recover.

[@_muifn]

oh my god. im so sorry for everyone who has gone through this. i don't wish death among people but people who SA children, anyone, should rot in hell. not everyone deserves a place on earth, especially not people who assault people in anyway possible.

[@Khan_Mirage]

I was wearing green pajamas with a butterfly pattern. I was in high school at the time. Late at night, my brother and I, who is 4 years older than me, were watching TV, the door was closed. He climbed onto my bed, hovered over me and started rubbing against me and touching me in this place, at that moment I didn't understand anything, but it seemed to me that it was very awkward... I'm afraid to tell anyone about this, so I'm writing here, for this I had to use a translator.

[@alishajennings2013]

I'm in my early 30s now but when I was 13 my older brother came into my room during the night and touched me. He is 8 years older than me. I didn't like it so I squeezed his penis as hard as I could and he left me alone. I never told anyone bc he was my brother and I didn't know how my parents would respond. I'm still glad I didn't say anything bc I believe my mom would've wanted to keep it a secret from my drunk violent dad who probably would've really hurt my brother. I'd rather not know for sure that she would've put him before me. This way I think she would have but I don't know for sure and that protects me from even greater pain and betrayal. I'm not saying that other people shouldn't say anything. Just sharing my person thoughts and feelings about my personal family dynamics. My dad drew a gun on my brother multiple times and he put a 45 to my head and threatened to kill me when I was 17. Everyone tip toes around d him bc no one knew what he might do. Mom always swept things under the rug to try to protect all of us kids. My brother wasn't her fav or anything, my dad was just very dangerous. I hope most people being assaulted by a sibling doesn't live in a similar situation and it could be handled appropriately.

[@Infinitymc1mu]

I'm so sorry this happened to u..im literally crying..why..ur own brother? 😭

[@BiggyJoyBoy]

I’m 20. This happened in February. I was wearing a matching Maruchan cup of noodles shirt and pajamas. “Send me noods” socks and my vans. Not getting into detail, but this was at a convention and we (me and my friends) were at the pool area cause they wanted to swim, and I wanted to hang before I slept. Then it happened.. after that my friend saw what happened and took me back to the room where I immediately took off my clothes and showered. Putting on something else cause I felt so dirty and gross.

[@marieeiskindadead5865]

I dont remember what I was wearing but I do remember him not caring when I told him he was hurting me. I remember looking at the TV trying to disassociate. I was 18 and he was a camp counselor for a cathoic youth retreat.

[@turquoiseturquoiseturquois1174]

Consent to wearing lighter clothes isn't consent to sex. Just like consent to open the door at your house isn't consent to giving away my stuff

[@mattheww.2912]

I was wearing a pink dress with white socks..I was 8, and i was in a target. I still blame myself for being stupid enough to follow that woman..

[@galh29]

This comment is 1 year old, but anyway let me tell you this: Don't blame yourself, you were 8. Do you think that any 8 year old is capable of knowing that there's people like this? Don't blame yourself over something which is not your fault. The woman is the only one to blame.

[@booth4one611]

" It happened to me said the short skirt, happened to me too said the burka, and the diaper in the corner couldn't even speak."

[@mermaid3597]

Seeing this breaks my heart 💔 May God Bless those children 🙏

[@furnstuff1256]

For me..it was online i blamed mysf for years and years i came out and people supported me! Its never ever ur fault

[@EmoPrincxss666]

I was 14 and I was wearing aethletic shorts and a hoodie and sneakers :/

[@sw33tteainthesummer]

i was wearing a blouse with a white tank top underneath, with jeans. he slipped his hands in between my legs. i thought it was okay because i had a crush on him. this happened two years ago. i was in 6th grade. i was a child.

[@sarahlee5428]

I’m so sorry for you, and I truly mean it. I was in fifth grade, wearing my school uniform. Two of my classmates slapped my (b u t t). I felt so uncomfortable, but most of all, it felt degrading. This was 2018. I was ten years old.

[@sw33tteainthesummer]

@@sarahlee5428 it appears that we are the same age. i’m so sorry that happened to you too. you are loved and supported, remember to eat and drink water

[@sarahlee5428]

Thank you so much. I hope you stay well too :)))

[@Trash_Child]

Black hoodie and track pants. Sadly I remember everything when I'm drunk so I remember everything he did to me. I even remember telling him to stop in my drunken state. He didn't.

[@KanaPain]

i was wearing a brown fluffy baggy sweater, black shorts, Vans, and some knee high socks. that was the first time it happened in the girl's restroom during class time. it kept happening the entire school year almost every day. i told no one. i was always held down by multiple other boys. they took turns. i was bleeding a lot but i never told anyone why. i just said it was my period. but people thought it was concerning that it started so 'early'. they figured out way later on a doctor visit.

[@juneeeswiftie]

That’s disgusting, I’m so so sorry that happened to you

[@lennon9650]

it was my grandma's boyfriend. he touched/groped me and gave me suggestive looks every time we went over to their house. for three years. i was 8-9. i felt guilty and ashamed so he never got consequence, exept when she broke up with him.

[@bahngchanz]

Honestly, it doesn’t matter what you where assault is assault and it’s fucking disgusting, and I’m tired of people blaming the victims.

[@mac8750]

This art installation is so important to show that rapist dont rape clothes they rape people

[@Mal2008]

I was 14 (only 15 now) I was always wearing the same oversized hoodie every day to school. And jeans. Loose baggy non ripped jeans cuz I dont own ripped pairs. It's not what you wear. Its who hurt you. End victim blaming

[@be-mt5pm]

I was 13 I had just gotten out of school and I was going to a male friends house. I was in my ugly long grey school uniform.

[@kazy.2936]

The fact one of them was a small pink dress, which looks like something a *toddler* would wear

[@LucyLouuuuu]

old ripped jeans, thrift store shoes, and my moms old shirt. i was under His hold for 3 summers from ages 8-11. found out years later he did the same thing to another girl a few towns over.

[@JellySkyy_real]

I can’t remember what I was wearing, as it happened multiple times, most likely pyjamas because it was only ever at home.

[@neonrat-tlesnakes8830]

I saw one of these in a picture and someone pointed out a baby onesie.....

[@weirdo_weirdo1151]

The depressing part is most of these are 1-12 🤧

[@Shiloah33]

i was wearing: 1st time: shorts and a t-shirt (i was 4 in preschool, it was a classmate’s older sister) 2nd time: a onesie (i was 9/10 and it was my brother) 3rd time: pajamas (13 at my “friend’s” house for a sleepover)

[@Infinitymc1mu]

Stay safe. Wish the best for u

[@obliviient1689]

I was wearing my school uniform and other days my sports uniform. I was 11 turning 12.

[@norayelps.]

I was 13. me and my brother were always very close I always thought of him as my “protecter” but he took advantage of me. since then I never told anyone

[@duz_machines_8429]

If what someone is wearing is considered an invitation, then the people who ask "what were you wearing" believe the following are considered sexual; - a baby wearing nothing but a diaper - a hijab - overalls and a t-shirt - jeans - cassock (altar server attire) - nun attire - children's swimsuits - sweatpants - hoodies - baby onesies And so much more. Next time someone asks what someone was wearing, tell them that by their logic, they find these clothing items sexually arousing.

[@Moogie237]

I was wearing a white and navy blue horizontal striped long sleeve, black leggings, and hand-me-down burgundy hollister sweatpants from the mid 2000s. On another occasion, I wore a red hollister long sleeve top, and navy blue sweatpants hollister sweatpants. (Most of my hand-me-downs were hollister brand). I still have all those items in my closet.

[@harlow8979]

I was 6. I was wearing loose baggy shorts (bcs i lived in a hot country) , and a regular everyday t-shirt, it was my pajamas.

[@SasuGaa1Fan]

Hug

[@ShadeATV]

It's happened so many times it's not even a funny creepy uncle joke anymore It's been going on since I was 4. My uncle would grab my ass while swimming and he kept doing it even when i told him to stop. He insisted that the piranhas were biting me, even though it was his own hands. I was wearing a swimsuit with popsicles on it and a swim shirt with a dolphin on it Then, when I was 10, I'd just gotten out of the pool and I was going to grab a lollipop out of the cupboard when he insisted that I take off my clothes and play a game with him. He didn't undress but he made me do random poses on a Twister mat and took pictures with his phone The most recent one was last year (I was and still am 15) I was in a GIR hoodie, Miku t shirt (the white one), and black leggings. I went to Texas Roadhouse and sat as far away from him as I could, focusing myself on watching my favorite anime. Then I needed to go to the bathroom and for whatever reason, he followed me into the woman's bathroom making up the excuse that he's also a girl (hes a cisgender man, 60 years old) and fucking raped me in the bathroom. I swear he almost put it into my anus. I rarely ever wear that Miku shirt anymore, and I ahven't been able to wear my GIR hoodie anymore since, which is sad because it was my favorite hoodie Not physical but when i was 6 my dad and him were debating "What is Sophia's theme song?" and he put on an overly sexual song, "We're talking about Sophia, not Auntie Gina", and he said "I know, this is Sophia's song"

[@StupidAllowance]

Oh honey, i am so sorry. Have you told anyone? If not that's okay. But this is absolutely awful :(

[@ShadeATV]

@@StupidAllowance I did and my parents yelled at me for 2 hours because they didn’t believe it

[@StupidAllowance]

@@ShadeATV Oh my god, I am so so sorry for you. I wish I could give you the biggest hug right now. I'm here for you, I believe you, and I want you to know you're strong. Super strong for telling a youtube comment section this

[@monikanigam9227]

​@@ShadeATVOne thing tell me you are from which country?

[@ShadeATV]

@@monikanigam9227 USA

[@JeongYunho17]

Proof that it doesn’t matter what you were wearing

[@stevedoesdrugs3610]

Every last item of clothing I owned. It all started with a Yankees jersey that was missing a button.

[@wardawardetna6320]

Violet skirt, violet shirt, they were my favourite , I was 4

[@glendacarlson3226]

the fact that clothes are even in there is fuck1ng disgusting. i hope all of them have recovered :(

[@Ilikebunnies-metoo]

I was 21. I was over at my then-fiance's apartment for Zoom School, and he had just bombed a test. I was wearing a Metallica t-shirt and a long pair of blue jeans with a belt. Being the depressive fuckheads we were, we had sex a lot. He mainly used sex as a coping mechanism, instead of getting therapy. But it always felt good. That day I was getting ready to go home. I had on my shoes and my backpack and was just telling him goodbye. He was depressed about failing his test, and convinced me into taking off my clothes again. I remember asking him "are you sure you want to do this?", hoping that maybe he would see my unwillingness. That was the first time that I ever felt filthy and degraded. On the bus ride home, he happily texted me that everyone in his class failed the test, so the teacher would just mark it as a write-off for the class. So, what now? I felt filthy and disgusting for nothing? I texted back "that's great" and spent the rest of that bus ride home trying not to cry. I went back the next day, because where else was I going to go? My parents thought I was heading into school, when my school was actually closed (I think), so the only place I really had to go was back to his apartment. He wanted to have sex again, so I just took my clothes off and told him to do whatever he wanted. That must have clued him in that something was wrong, because then he asked me if I wanted to do this. It didn't matter to me now. I was numb. I just felt the usual motions, and only cried out when he bit me hard enough that it hurt. I told him I was being quieter like he'd asked before, so we wouldn't disturb his roommates. That reason wasn't true, but usually when it felt good it felt good and I wouldn't hold back my sounds. I have that day marked in my calendar, to remind me to not be that weak to someone's pressuring ever again. It's a painful reminder, but it's one that strengthens my convictions everytime I see it.

[@vividberries]

I’m so sorry for you. I know words will change nothing for the situation you’ve been in but you’re so strong. People were and will always be fucked up. But I’m so glad and so proud that you were able to keep on fighting. Seriously, you’re so fucking strong and keep on rocking girl. I love you ❤️

[@Ilikebunnies-metoo]

@@vividberries thanks for the words of encouragement. Love to you as well! 🥰🥰🥰

[@TravellerLover-m5b]

Hey I am a teenager and reading your story also give me a lesson that take your stand and you are so strong just leave him and live your life

[@Ilikebunnies-metoo]

@user-ce2ic6vl7g Thanks for the encouragement. That relationship has long been over, though, so no worries!

[@boipoi_78]

I was wearing fluffy warm pajamas when she took advantage of me. Those pajamas dont fit me anymore.

[@justuravergekpopluvinfeminist]

It doesn't matter what a person was wearing. The fact that it happened is the only thing that is important. The person who committed such act, it's theirs. Not the victim's

[@amyschedler6428]

where is this at..? because i live in ohio-

[@kdeck1258]

It's in Ohio university so i believe it's in Athens not sure though.

[@chiHiroHaku9]

I was 9 years old, home alone with my older brother who used to babysit me when mom worked late nights. I was wearing my favourite pink pyjamas with Dora The Explorer on the t-shirt. After a late dinner, He told me we should play a tic tac toe (a game I loved to play at that time) we played a few times and suddenly he said the loser must do a dare. The dares was simple at first, but I could never imagine or even think that night was the beginning of 12 years in a hell… I remember the during the first SA he did, I looked out of the window and saw a bird fly by, and was thinking “ bird please find my mom tell my mom I love her.” Cus I was so scared and thought my own brother was about to kill me. 💔 He took my innocents and held me in silence for 12 years before I find courage to tell my best friend about it.

[@messy_watercolors]

It’s okay. I’m here for you ❤ it’s not your fault

[@therabbithat]

Police ask this question, what's it's official purpose? it must have some pretend purpose? is it like a statistical thing to disprove that there's a correlation? Or is officially there to humiliate and victim blame?

[@ChakkyCharizard]

I think it's to gather as much information about the case as possible. More info to use in questioning the perp, in court, etc

[@Kevin_Theadore1]

A t shirt and shorts I was 5 she was 87-

[@official.semone3002]

I was 10-11 I was wearing a plain polo grey shirt and some shorts that go all the way to my knees 🫤

[@calis-braclets]

I was wearimg a shimmer and shine night shirt, A purple cat eye mask, purple-pink shorts and yellow socks. It was hard to tell people I was 6. It was my grandpa. I didn't know what to do.

[@fatherfigure7240]

I was probably wearing a pink shirt from the target girls section or some Disney chacter dunno tho I was fucking 7 :/

[@yoongislilmeowfanfictions662]

The world is too cruel

[@taegiships7009]

I wish I could give them mine but they were my school uniform and I threw it away also u kept my blazer but redid it for my Yr 11 leavers assembly it happened to me when I was 15 at night on the way back home from my friends house

[@Love_DivineAnn]

Will there be museum like this in Thailand and India

[@Ayesha______]

I was 11-12, I was wearing a pink gap shirt that covered my butt and some sweatpants. I was with my parents. I’ve never felt so ashamed.

[@messy_watercolors]

I can’t even remember what I was wearing bc it happend so many times.

[@anggelicx]

i was wearing a red shirt and jeans, a guy came up to me and kept touching me in places, calling me babe. hate him

[@Ayesha______]

I’m so sorry dear. That must have been horrifying.

[@theofficialsortinghat9506]

I was 6-8 I was wearing a night gown😭😭😭😭😭

[@Ayesha______]

I’m so sorry

[@moist_hero699]

One of my friends knew this guy who touched his 8 year old sister so him his brother and another friend jumped him and beat his ass. They kept wailing on him and he got bruises and a black eye

[@catso7236]

My whole wardrobe. It’s been 2 years….

[@shutup4211]

What is wrong with us? Such heinous acts

[@faunasakura5311]

It doesn't matter what I was wearing, because I was in my bedroom and it was my older brother.

[@Iloveeggs140]

No matter what they were wearing they could be blackout drunk in a bikini or just a bit tipsy fully clothes the problem is that it happened in the first place

[@varin2047]

i was 11,i was wearing a plain black oversized shirt+plain black pants.

[@novacain2313]

As a Survivor I believe what we wear the majority of the time and who we surround ourselves with is important about 90%. But does not mean that sometimes it does just happens and nothing could prevent it from happening. (Be aware of who you are around and have a trusting group of people with you.)

[@janellekm]

Rape is about a person asserting their power and control over someone, are you saying that children who get rape or grandmothers who get rape are because of how they dress?

[@lilqvcc]

Stfu. You don’t know. Anything. Someone could’ve worn a bin bag for all it matters and still get raped it’s about the power the rapist has over someone. Sick minded people. Clothing (a literal piece of material) has NOTHING to do with it. Please educate yourself.

[@janellekm]

Here is a link to some interesting facts, when you mentioned a trusting group, check out the difference between a family member and non-family member. These stats are a few years old. www.aihw.gov.au/reports/australias-welfare/family-domestic-and-sexual-violence

[@everythingsgonnabealright7924]

I agree with you.

[@lyadmaniac9503]

My brother did it, so whom should I trust? In my country marital rape is still legal,whom should people trust?

[@Lilita971]

I'm sorry to all these people the clothes were from, and these commenters

[@giannax5645]

I was sexually assaulted in my sleep a few months ago. I was wearing one of my favorite shirts that I ended up leaving there. Probably a good thing I left it there.

[@yeebby1]

i have what i was wearing that day in a large ziplock bag.

[@charliecall8888]

I was wearing a cold shoulder top and jeans I was 13 and I was no way coming on to him and even if I flirting it gave him no right what he did what he did to me

[@crescent_p1e]

I saw a tinker bell kids costume

[@theemeraldcookie]

⁠yes, but they purposely omitted the clothes that were worn that were revealing and women were violated. No means no, no matter what you have on. Omitting something important is not telling the whole truth.

[@Imtoobusyslayingrn111]

I was wearing my school uniform..

[@absh4398]

I was only 9 and i was wearing my school uniform

[@nanipanini]

wow...

[@Yin.ndYang]

I was 4 i didnt need it there was blood i told my aunt ih was just Juice i spilled i was wearing an elsa pyjama im still scared he will do it again im afraid...

[@aarongunthrie8462]

Get help:( you shouldn't have to worry about it to much tho

[@aarongunthrie8462]

Report it

[@Eclipse_Moon4213]

i hate that its most of my closet now I was groomed from the age of 5 or 6 by my own blood i am now 15 know onw knows but my old friend that used me too i thought it was normal

[@malinnohall3707]

"the... Perfect victim" narrative

[@turquoiseturquoiseturquois1174]

Principal adams....... *WHAT IS GOING ON OUT THERE?!?!*

[@rwerry_cre2816]

😭😭😭🤧

[@chickenfarm09]

Hanging up clothes on a hanger and calling it art just because it is in a gallery. This idea or concept could have been explored in a number of ways and taken on many forms. Maybe there were time constraints or something. I feel bad for anyone attacked. I also wish drinking wasn't such a prominent part of college life especially at Ohio University. The party school reputation needs to go away.

[@ff_5678]

:(

[@Handlecontaincharacters]

So i can wear the skimpiest bikini in a dark part of a city and no one is supposed to touch me got it👍🏽👍🏽

[@Chickenface123]

Yes, in the ideal world

[@Handlecontaincharacters]

@@Chickenface123 naked even? like in bible?

[@Chickenface123]

@@Handlecontaincharacters if men have willpower like they’re supposed too, they will stay off her body.