Things That Are Harder For Women

[@justastaythatwillnotbename2990]

Ok but the way she skips swearwords is so smooth-

[@whoisdeja_]

hi stayyy

[@cinnagrits]

I’m your 100th like!😄❤️

[@lastgrlonearth]

Ikr smooth ash

[@alexisgrace6776]

Fr

[@Hana-ku9dh]

Ikr

[@abigailgoodman]

I wish we lived in a world where we wouldn't have to be afraid of other people.

[@nyaplays8074]

Same

[@suzi_mai]

That's why I always carry a knife.

[@bobthebuilder480]

@@suzi_mai ... isn’t that kinda y ppl r afraid?

[@Hellothere-ky4jr]

@@suzi_mai Uhm- Well maybe I should to-

[@Neyobe]

@@suzi_mai lmao but don’t accidentally misuse it

[@hannahsenior5124]

Shower thought: Razor companies always advertise to men, even though women shave more than men do.

[@katelinhartman1779]

omg that's so true o.o

[@applesauce2056]

Razor companies nearly ALWAYS advertises to women, I have only seen 1 to 50 ads for razors be advertised for men

[@SirenTown0]

what? lol, on average some guys shave their beards everyday. and ive also seen lots more women shaving ads than men shaving ads pff

[@savannahr9545]

Almost all the ads I get for razors is to men, is it cuz women don't want anyone to think they shave u know like being portrayed as perfect, or are the shaving companies just trying to get men to buy it because women already do 😂

[@hannahsenior5124]

@@applesauce2056 not in my experience.

[@saphirarose5866]

girls, even if you think you are being paranoid, better safe than sorry.

[@sage_Jester]

thanks I geuss I always call myself paranoid even tho I'm doing things that are things you would ussually bc like " oh yeah you should do that " ut I just think about those things a bit too much

[@Artlove8900]

Yeah right😢

[@UhhhIdk-]

For some weird reason when Im playing roblox alone I always have that paranoid feeling where a hacker got into my private server and is watching me :/ that also happens when I watch horror or scary videos.

[@yeti6601]

yea def

[@t-posingbobafett6017]

Same with boys. Now, I'm not that strong. I just dont work out that much, so it applies to boys aswell. Not being rude, it just also applies to boys

[@creamcickepika14]

Periods are AWFUL and when my dad and brother try and say, You are just weak! Or, It can’t be that bad! I WANT TO CLOCK THEM IN THEIR SMUG FACES because my brain is like on HYPER SENSITIVE/EMOTIONAL MODE

[@bobthebuilder480]

Frrrrr for me I get really bad cramps and stuff but I can firm it and act ‘normal’ like the only reason my friends know if I’m on my period or not is bc I laugh at everything on my period like EVERYTHING Idk if it’s just me or not who laughs a lot on my period oof ;-;

[@lastgrlonearth]

my “friend” that’s a girl who didn’t get hers yet said it’s not that bad.. BITCH WHAT-

[@sage_Jester]

I'm lucky mine isnt that bad I dont even have mood swings I'm not more a emotional wreck too and my cramps are almost non-existnent. I feel like this is the biggest flex amongest girls

[@liagamer4265]

You should clock them 😤

[@harukagic]

@@sage_Jester Me too, except that every time I got my period, there will always be a 3-4 months gap until I got the next one The gap was actually scary since it was similar to a pregnant symptom, but it's just a period where I don't get them So I may have a bigger flex

[@wolfehneko6136]

Honestly if your gonna waste materials for fake pockets just give us pockets, some of us dont like holding a purse all the time :/

[@sweedra7899]

That's what I was saying the other day. I hate it when I walk near anything and the fake pockets catch onto something stupid, and I can't even use them!

[@reynakondaveeti8346]

I just wear a hoodie or sweatshirt with big pockets. I have this one sweatshirt I used to wear where someone could ask me for the most random thing and I would have it handy

[@Kixtii]

I usually wear a fanny pack, it makes everything easier.

[@kayda-leemclean7802]

@@sweedra7899 exactly that's why I always carry a backpack it holds everything at least for me lol

[@sweedra7899]

@@Kixtii Yeah, I usually use a bag that I always have slung over my shoulder as a replacement for the pockets. I'll use a backpack for school and bigger trips, but the bag I always use is normally good enough for me.

[@snarkysnake372]

The thumbnail made me cry. It’s so sad to know that there are some really bad people in the world.

[@nayshaprasad8318]

@@miacorreia1662 she probably meant upset

[@celerystick8811]

@@miacorreia1662 i mean, the world really is scary. it’s really scary how 97% of women under the age of 18 were already sexually assaulted. i can’t blame them tbh

[@mahmah5897]

Yeah, it makes me upset as well, this world is nuts

[@mahmah5897]

@@miacorreia1662 chill, its hard, women have to fear there way to go home, they cant walk peacfully

[@mahmah5897]

@@miacorreia1662 bruhhhhhhhhhh i get to choose if i should shut the hell up, not you and btw some people are emotional, you couldve put your words out there better, its ok if someone cries because they feel bad that women have to go through this, why did you reply to the person? Your reply was so negative and unecessary, i hope you have a nice day, bye

[@ariyanahandan7186]

0:06 and (some) guys still wonder why girls are scared of them (edit) not just that one in particular, a lot of the stories made me sick

[@vivi-creates]

most guys.

[@planet_person9753]

I’ve heard someone say that it’s like Russian Roulette, only one of the bullet casings has a bullet, but you’re still wary of all of them. Probably not all of the men you meet are gonna hurt you, but you still don’t trust many of them.

[@solseclipse]

@@planet_person9753 Exactly! I've also heard the metaphor if someone gave you a box of chocolates and said one of them was actually a rolled up ball of poop encased in chocolate, you'd still be wary of all of them, right?

[@sourdough_bagel]

And I’ve heard the metaphor that only some ticks carry lime disease but you are always wary of any tick, because you don’t know which ones carry the disease.

[@ariyanahandan7186]

@@sourdough_bagel exactly, the same way not all snakes are poisonous but there are stil snakes that are

[@binx414]

I like that Ellen touches on topics like this- she brings attention to big issues so gracefully

[@alex-fs9yt]

Yes!👏

[@amandahicks2692]

If I was the boyfriend yep you're living with me now.

[@bobthebuilder480]

Frrrrrrrr

[@arieloguche416]

@@bobthebuilder480 love your pf lol.😂

[@mamagherbear7082]

@@kkrjtntfjfmf3822 Stop self promoting...it's obnoxious and disrespectful

[@kkrjtntfjfmf3822]

@@mamagherbear7082 sorry I saw many people do this on other channels, didn’t think people would be so rude about it 😳when I wasn’t even sending it to you...

[@bobthebuilder480]

@@arieloguche416 thanks I like urs too 😌

[@jemynix]

I’m kinda glad that people aren’t that judging about girls as gamers now. I mean there are still some people who says so otherwise but I really had fun nowadays meeting people of any gender online in games and we just look at each other’s skills and not judge it based on the genders.

[@solseclipse]

This isn't gaming, but sadly I've been seeing people calling female anime fans "fake fans" who are "doing it for the trend". Especially me liking JoJo's Bizarre Adventure, the fandom is mainly men and refuse to acknowledge that women like it too :/

[@cerisebun6841]

or maybe as a person, you might not know how to play the game well, but just want to have a good time playing, practicing, or just goofing off with friends

[@treesarereal]

But the thing that comes with it is stans, you like a creater? Stan! Like a musician? Stan! ANY THING A TEEN GIRL LIKES! IS CALLED A STAN

[@misarieni3532]

@@solseclipse yeah, as a female anime fan who really would watch anything, and male fans refuse to believe I’ve watched things like naruto, or one piece etc simply because I’m a female

[@rosecabezas8249]

Yeah same, it’s just really annoying when they call you “girl gamers”. I hate that term sooo much cuz you don’t call boys “boy gamers”.

[@veteranredbeard6222]

You have NO RIGHT being so entertaining lol like seriously I can't stop watching...

[@booklover1298]

I'm female and I think the pockets on women's clothes can be small on some items of clothing. 1 of the pockets on jeans has a tiny pocket inside of it. It's so small that all it can probably hold is a couple of coins.

[@lastgrlonearth]

yess the only clothing item that i have w real pockets that can fit things is my hoodies

[@gracesong4419]

Actually, the original purpose of that pocket is to hold a pocket watch, and I only know this cause I got a pocket watch from my school drama director as a senior gift, and the first time I wore it, I put it in the big pocket before my friend told me it was supposed to go in the little one.

[@leah8894]

Grace Song if you see men’s jean pockets and compare them to women’s, men’s are literally 2-4 times larger

[@justastaythatwillnotbename2990]

@@gracesong4419 was gonna say that....

[@Clementine3107]

I can't live without pockets. So most of my pants have pockets and I own a lot of hoodies but it's so hard to find pants with real big pockets.

[@brianpickford3031]

I’m girl on my dads account and I have two catcalling stories One was my dad used to do a lot of physical work and girls used to catcall him. I said that was very different because if I’m being catcalled, 90% of the time the guy could easily overpower me. My dads pretty strong, and most girls are much smaller, so it would be harder for them to overpower him. So whereas he wouldn’t have to be scared, I do. Second: I play a sport that has a girls and boys team. One day we teamed up, and about midway through the practice the coach of the boys team, who was a girl, called them all over. A lot of the girls were worried we were in trouble. She started talking to the boys about how they were apparently making inappropriate comments..... a lot of us girls were silently cheering her on because while we were running, the football team would constantly be yelling stuff to us that wasn’t nice or supportive but was inappropriate. So thank you Mrs. R and all teachers who fight catcalling.

[@user-bc4yi5nw6e]

Wow, I really appreciate teachers like that, but God are they underpaid, ps, I hope feel better now! Bye!

[@brianpickford3031]

@@user-bc4yi5nw6e totally! They also work so hard to teach and to make sure kids don’t rip apart the school or start fights.

[@user-bc4yi5nw6e]

@@brianpickford3031 yep! It's glad to see people understand and agree with me! Oof I have to go- bye

[@itzkyokokirigiri8840]

@@brianpickford3031 I know, teachers are so so so underpaid!!

[@ethanalgicosathlonchannel1110]

I’m a guy, but I’m not really good at dealing with catcalling

[@flamelily2086]

I once had a man follow me in my car. I didn't want to go home because my husband was at work. I started taking different turns and this man followed me. I decided to go to my parents house because I knew my dad would be home from work. At some point the man either gave up or I managed to lose him because by the time I got to my parents house ge was no longer following me. That was a creepy experience.

[@sage_Jester]

this is why I always have some sort of ( legal ) weapon on me

[@yayd3973]

@@sage_Jester It's still sad how women(or any person with female genitalia) has to carry weapons tho

[@sage_Jester]

@@yayd3973 yeah that is true

[@flamelily2086]

@Aura Darkskipper It was but more because I had my two young children in the car with me. The best advice for any woman being followed is not to go home. Cross the street, and go in the opposite direction. Go into an open store or coffee shop and ask for help. My parents house was on the opposite side of town from where I lived so I just lead him further and further away from my house.

[@mishal3768]

omg u shoukdve taken a pic of his car licence bc he couldbe gone 2 jail

[@kawaiiamarii2240]

3:33 Me too, I was like "Birth looks too painful, I'll let my future husband deal with it" The pain when I found out they can't give birth was immeasurable and my life is ruined/j

[@thisisasimulation5511]

Some can

[@kawaiiamarii2240]

@@thisisasimulation5511 Wouldn't that mean they have a female reproductive system? Plus, women don't produce semen so it's really a lose-lose :')

[@kawaiiamarii2240]

@@J.--- Oh, so trans males can but people born as male can't. Got it

[@thisisasimulation5511]

That's sexuality. Gender is what you identify as. Don't get it confused

[@kawaiiamarii2240]

@@thisisasimulation5511 *_that is completely irrelevant to what I said_*

[@abbytache5426]

She’s the only KZbin who when says let’s get right into the video actually does it copy this so she sees it appreciated

[@saltymeow2566]

@YLDM bruh

[@rockandtoon2112]

@YLDM Follow your dreams

[@saphirarose5866]

Girl: I like your dress! Me: thanks! It has pockets! :D

[@thatonelesbiandork7050]

"wHerE thE HeLl dId yOu bUy tHAt?"

[@ako3624]

WhAt? PoCkEtS?! YoU HaVe PoCkEtS?!

[@user-cq7nx1bn6o]

OMG where did you buy IT

[@green7982]

Where did you get it. This isn't a question, it's a warning.

[@kitiria]

Yess I found a lot of dresses with pockets at H&M my mom wanted me to buy the ones without pockets but I wanted pockets so I found this dress that had a collar and it was dark with pretty big pockets and a really good belt, I wear it by folding up one sleeve and letting the other down it’s my fav!

[@amydean4008]

It’s sad how true some of these are. Like we shouldn’t have to feel scared and worried when walking outside after dark, but we do.

[@staples4590]

YESSS. Someone finally acknowledged my pain. Long hair IS hard to maintain. Why can't my parents understand that? They've made me grow out my hair since I was 3, not letting me cut it or even trim the split ends. My hair is discolored, rough and has split ends all over and it takes me two effing hours to wash it. But hey. Mom gets to brag about her daughter's knee length hair to her friends. 'It's fine if the trophy ain't shiny, it's still a trophy' All I ever wanted for 7 consecutive birthdays is to get a haircut, ideally to my chin but noooo. She grounded me for a two weeks because once I got my hair stuck in a cylindrical hair brush and was forced to cut it while I was at my aunt's. She grounded me for a month and a week after I cut side bangs when people started making fun of my forehead. And she yelled at me so much when I told my aunt the first thing I would do on my 18th birthday is chop off all my hair.

[@ihopeicanchangethisnamelat7108]

My mum always says “everyone at school has long hair and I don’t want you to be the only one not wearing your hair down”. No they don’t. Half the girls at my school have their hair above elbow-length, a large proportion have it cut short, and some have shaved sides. It’s not that drastic for me to want my hair a couple inches shorter. Also, I used to have a problem with compulsively pulling out my hair. I was fairly young at the time and I managed to stop, mostly thanks to my mum yelling that I was going to end up bald every time I touched my hair, but now, years later, I have a clump of hair which is shoulder-length in my otherwise waist-length hair. I can only wear my hair in a high ponytail or French plait because if I don’t tie that chunk of hair back it sticks up and makes me look ridiculous, so it’s not like I would be able to have my hair down anyway. And if I did get my hair cut, my mum would still be able to tell everyone about her daughter’s hair because my sister’s hair reaches her legs, is blonde and wavy AND she can wear it down without looking ridiculous.

[@raiyahambermediodia8754]

Your mom is possessive, you can do whatever you want with your hair, you have your rights too. I agree that having long hair is hard to maintain, which is why I want short hair.

[@itzkyokokirigiri8840]

That’s abuse, right? Correct me if I’m wrong

[@Prickly_Cactus_1993]

I wish you ladies could live in a world where you didn't have it harder, it's sad that society is still like this.

[@solseclipse]

I've seen you on The Queer Kiwi's videos and you seem really kind. I hope you're having an amazing day

[@sansballs]

Yeah it is really sad... at least there are some very nice people i guess... but that is of course not enough I love your pfp by the way

[@Leah120Edits]

Thank you❤️

[@yumi-fn8ve]

Hey nb friend hope u have a good day!

[@bigblackstick]

We get it equally ngl

[@felixssausage6662]

when will people realize that not every female who plays video games is a pick me girl like excuse me- i never knew games had genders 🧍‍♀️

[@grassblade1016]

It's because some boys think that everything girls do is for them. 🙄🤦🏾‍♀️

[@donotreadmyprofile9373]

What? I never think of something like that as a guy but society is society. Nothing is equal especially genders

[@alex-fs9yt]

As a girl I've been getting creepy/inappropriate comments and unwanted advances since I was 11. And that is sad.

[@donotreadmyprofile9373]

Wow i never got those but mens should be more respectful to you girls wtf

[@glowify3664]

Me too since I looked older than I actually was

[@chaeyoungsstrawberryfarm3327]

Pretty much life is harder for woman. It’s like “happy woman’s day” but it’s not enough with a day, doesn’t really help. I’m thankful for the progression of society and the fact that we have a day but being a woman is a lifestyle

[@varnika_.s]

I’ve always wanted to go on a night walk, or even by myself, but I’m too scared and not allowed. :(

[@yarelzurita7182]

1 y would you want to, 2 bro it’s scary for everyone 😂

[@darkx6869]

@@yarelzurita7182 more scary for females, stop speaking for everyone like you own them

[@varnika_.s]

@@yarelzurita7182 night walks seem so much more relaxing and quiet, and I don’t always want to go with people, and women definitely have it worse

[@varnika_.s]

@ᴍᴄ ꜰʀᴜɪᴛɪᴇ I have social anxiety as well and it scares me too, but it seems like it would be so serene and peaceful!!

[@solseclipse]

I can't wait until I can drive at night tbh, where I live it's super quiet at night so I just want to drive around and enjoy it.

[@bazz_is_the_best1]

When you're being followed either, had to the nearest police station, a public place, or a store.

[@aya.mandaa]

Yea, or u can also go to a crowded place and talk to someone (by pretending) or get in a crowd so that the person doesn’t find u

[@bazz_is_the_best1]

@@aya.mandaa yeah

[@itzkyokokirigiri8840]

@@aya.mandaa but give hints to the person. Like when your talking, make a hand gesture towards the person who was following you, but not in a obvious way. Turn your back on your stalker and turn your eyes in the stalkers direction so they understand

[@chanisfoive1156]

Ye

[@bethsey2878]

Never go home, bc then they know where u live

[@kevlarfabric0629]

to all the men who say "well men have problems too": we never said you dont have problems, we are just addressing us, pls stop making it all about yourself. pls and ty! and to all the men who say "not all men are like that": we know. but theres still men like that and saying that dosent help, it only seems like your supporting them and defending them, we have the right to be scared of them, theres still men like that. instead of saying "not all men are like that" protect her and help her feel safe cuz it dosent help.

[@yayd3973]

Ikr why're they getting mad at us?? Why not at the men who're making u look bad????

[@instagramstar5928]

All this is also the result of pseudo feminists or people just generalizing instead of understanding that people can be different those people are affected by them and because of which they sometimes just can't look further than that and forget what the other person might actually have meant

[@donotreadmyprofile9373]

@@instagramstar5928 yes ikr my friends like to call girls s feminist and making jokes about them and I'm uncomfortable with it. But man they are like this, just be respectful to all genders

[@alexisgrace6776]

Oml her parents told her that her dad gave birth to her... Idk if I should laugh or harshly judge their parenting soooo I'ma do both

[@solseclipse]

Have you ever had a slight inconvenience happen during that time of the month, like an ad coming on a KZbin video, and just want to go punch everyone in the face and then throw them against a wall?

[@sweedra7899]

I broke a chair that last time. It was not fun, lemme tell you.

[@solseclipse]

@@kkrjtntfjfmf3822 Can you not

[@solseclipse]

@@sweedra7899 I kinda want to know the context to this- xD

[@sponge191]

Definitely

[@kaidouhottopicgiftcard]

Yep and also that pfp💀

[@ezrahasleftthechat5852]

Another thing that’s difficult for women is just feeling safe. Men can go about their days feeling pretty comfortable and secure while women are afraid of walking home in broad daylight. The world we live in is sad.

[@danzaduke5822]

One of my teachers said that she always loves dresses with pockets because women's clothing didnt have pockets in the olden days because people were like what did women have to hold?

[@danzaduke5822]

@Stella Moritz yeah because we dont have pockets 😔

[@cgamejewels]

Women clothes had pockets in the olden days. It just women started buying purses so manufacturers stopped putting pockets on women's clothing. I think it mattered what country she lived in at the time.

[@namjoonsoldmyjamsfor3dolla404]

Basically existing is hard, people will be creepy towards you if you’re a woman I can’t even breathe without getting catcalled

[@donotreadmyprofile9373]

Yes I feel so bad for girls i think guys should be more respectful to you girls

[@madisonlevine2519]

I was hanging out with my friends in mid-day time at the park and we still had to carry around a knife, obviously for safety reasons, but that’s *sad.* We shouldn’t, no one should, have to worry about other people in *day time.* So disappointing.

[@madisonlevine2519]

nor night time, honestly.

[@green7982]

It really is disappointing. I can't believe some of the gr0ss people who try to do... Unspeakable things to us women. Why? Because we're "vuln3r@ble" or "s0ft3r". Utterly horrible.

[@chenmae9747]

@Stella Moritz Omg, same. I didn’t know anybody else did this, my mom is really protective of me and my sisters

[@s.s_444]

just a reminder for you “nice guys”, it may not be most guys but it is most girls😐

[@yayd3973]

Ikr there's a difference in "Not all men" and "Almost all women"

[@jasmitamaity7364]

Pardon?

[@hedgehog174]

@@jasmitamaity7364 read it again

[@jasmitamaity7364]

@@hedgehog174 I still don't get it...

[@TertiaryQuota]

@@jasmitamaity7364 Im bad at explaining but yk when women are like "men hurt women and ect" and then 'nice guys' go "nOt AlL mEn" Obviously not all men hurt women *but* almost all women get hurt by men (i hope you understand what im tryna say) Please don't take any of what i say to word cuz im not sure im just basing this off my memory. ¼ of women and girls get r*ped or s*xually assaulted 75% or ¾ of girls and women make up for human trafficking And also i watched a video of where a guy basically calls out nice guys and says *"If i gave you 3 glasses of water and told you one of them was full of battery acid, you wouldn't take the chance to drink any, so dont get mad when a woman says shes feels scared when she sees a man walking behind her at night because it could be a good guy just taking his dog out for a walk or a bad guy stalking her and shes not willing to take the chance to find out, she will protect herself"* (something along the lines of that but i hope you get it) and i hope my bad explanation helped you a bit!

[@mamagherbear7082]

1:07 As a male, to answer your question, YES. There has definitely been a moment where I at least FELT like I was being followed. However, I do have to say, it happens significantly more often to women.

[@sweedra7899]

It's the social anxiety that gets me. It doesn't matter if I am being followed or not, it's the same feeling. I'm always in a constant state of panic. So, how's life btw?

[@rainlee5925]

when i was younger like maybe 12 years old, i went to walmart with my mom, and my 19 yr old sister. when we made it to the fruit aisle there was this man in baggy clothes maybe around his mid 50s who was just standing there in the middle of the aisle staring at us creepily. my mom realized and i hid behind my sister cause i was scared because he had his hand in one of his pockets as there was something in his pocket. he looked like he didnt blink once at us but just stood there watching me. i got chills and i turn around and then turned around back at him to see if he was gone and he slowly walked away. i might be overreacting to this but i was so scared back then.

[@katherineren250]

every man/boy should watch this and see how hard it really is even without them teasing us and making inappropriate comments

[@donotreadmyprofile9373]

I totally agree with you as a guy. I realized how hard it is to be you girls , i will never do that stuff to all genders no matter what

[@zory1733]

I got catcalled at 13 while I was playing tag with my male cousin. They passed in a car, and when I tell you *I ran* There was multiple men inside and I felt not ok Before that I had scary experiences with males of all ages so I was preety wary. Tbh it's not like females are any better, I had thought me and a female were close but she took it too far and did something I can't forget, it was worse because I didn't even know what was going on since I was merely 9. Moral of my life: Trust no one

[@alex-fs9yt]

I'm a girl and I don't even feel safe or comfortable walking home in _broad daylight,_ even if I'm _not_ walking alone.

[@Artlove8900]

I have been catcalled since i was 12 or 13 i m so scared to go out alone. I have fear of creeps who always look at girl. Plz why cant they let us live what we did wrong😢

[@yayd3973]

We existed and apparently that's wrong:( also the fact that women are costed more. Smth called the pink tax where you're basically cost more than men on products just cuz you're a woman. We also get paid less compared to a male co-worker. And over that the expenses for period stuff. So they don't pay us more, but they take more money from us. Amazing.

[@benita8768]

yup me too

[@Mxppxt]

Why are all these so true-

[@8m1t28]

Havent even watched it but yesh

[@Mxppxt]

@@8m1t28 shhh

[@victoriagomez3646]

@@8m1t28 love your username 😂👍🏻❤️

[@8m1t28]

@@victoriagomez3646 thank you thank youu

[@victoriagomez3646]

@@8m1t28 i like to call him bacon sometimes 🤣

[@melaniezirixa1239]

I can totally understand the walking home at night stuff as well as transit. I've started to loose count how many times I have been asked out on public transit alone!!! It's creepy and very uncomfortable. For example, when your umbrella accidentally slips and falls on the tile floor in the subway station right infront of a guy and you apologize for it falling in the way, and then he sits down next to you, tells you he just recently got out of jail, tells you how good you look and that he likes (your size/type of women), and tries to get you to go out with him. Then he follows you onto the train you are taking whether or not he actually needs to catch that train. Thankfully he didn't try to talk to me again and I think he got off before I did, but still. Had another sort of incident happen recently where I was sitting in the train looking out the window, paying attention to everything, going to my stop when out of the corner of my left eye I see this guy walk up and "sit down" across the aisle. I had a bad feeling about him (like if I acknowledge him he will all me out type feeling and to not talk to him). So I turned my head to look out the window to my right. Then he gets up and moves to infront of me (where I had been looking) so I casually look to where he had been. He said something to me or asked me something, but I couldn't hear it over the train noises and my headphones, so I played it if as if I couldn't hear. He gave a kind of like "MAN that didn't work sound/noise" and then went to the front and said/asked something from some of the other passengers who where all male (I think it was for money/change, but my gut told me not to risk it). Since if my thoughts afterwards went something like this: why did he come to me first instead of another male passenger? Did he only go to them because I did not acknowledge him? would something bad have happened if I had acknowledged him? Lord, Please don't let him follow me to my bus! (Thank you Lord that he stayed on the train). I'm pretty sure majority of guys do not have that problem. (FYI I've been asked out on transit by guys that where 40-50+ years older than me. Basically old enough to possibly even be my grandfather!!! He even asked for my phone number, which I did not give him).

[@cyberskvlls]

I was walking with my partner to the park. I'm a female btw. I didn't feel safe as the area they lived had bad crime rates... I felt like we were being watched. I begged them to go home. They kept insisting it was fine but eventually gave it seeing how distressed I was. It was creepy. Broad daylight and I still felt like there was someone watching me.

[@Wtf_is_this80]

Ooo that’s creepy. I hope you’re feeling better now and I hope you start to feel safer. Also, if you don’t feel safe in that community where you live now, maybe one day ,why don’t you move to a better community where you feel safer and don’t have to be stressed so much ? I mean, it’s your choice really, not mine, but it would probably be better for you but up to you.

[@itzkyokokirigiri8840]

@@Wtf_is_this80 yes! and also... HELLO THERE FELLOW CRYBABY!

[@lolxdcof3160]

I really hope you see this, but if you do I've been watching your channel for over 4 years now! I love your content keep going!🌸

[@lilileetried]

I have watched this channel for 4 years too:)

[@Ichiraku_Ramen0]

Sameee

[@lilileetried]

@YLDM awwwww dont be like that we love you :) lmaoo

[@nushratahmed]

If you're reading this I just want to say that I love you and thank you for existing 🥺🥺💗💗

[@raven-kn6lv]

Women clothes. They think we ALL want the same type of clothing. They forget that we like to mix and match. They forget that we also have our styles that we love. Ridiculous I must say!!! Them calling us bitches. I know some girls are okay being called that, but they forget that some of us DO NOT LIKE being called that. And no, we are not sensitive. We ain't snowflakes. It's a boundary we have that should be respected. And if you cannot even do that bare minimum that's already a red flag on your character and how you treat people.

[@justastaythatwillnotbename2990]

When the guys know more about your pain than you-

[@chanisfoive1156]

@YLDM Shut up

[@urlocaltrashcan2034]

@YLDM ..I can't believe that people starts to do bs like this for clout

[@donotreadmyprofile9373]

I don't think so

[@its_rose531]

@@tvesha2223 hits harder then rasengan

[@justastaythatwillnotbename2990]

@@tvesha2223 yes, yes it does

[@moon-vf4zq]

I have 2 experiences 1. Walking home from school with my friend. It was 2:56 and there still lots of cars and school kids walking home and it was a rainy day. A car pulls up and there were 4 males inside. They said "do you wanna get in the boot" They did this multiple times in broad daylight and just laugh it off 2. At CBD in Victoria a middle aged man said to me and my friend during daylight hours "hey girls, you wanna have some fun" This was during an excursion where we had to go to the city for a week in our school uniform. We ran so fast, I swear I would have had an asthma attack had I not been in this situation

[@anonymous23yearsago51]

Elen, had she went into a store the stalker would've simply waited for her to go out and kidnap her since store closes.

[@aubrey0324]

You could tell someone

[@magicalwatermelon5147]

I guess she would have had to have told someone. Maybe they would walk with her or an employee might even let her go out the back.

[@anonymous23yearsago51]

@@aubrey0324 it was late at night

[@lilylemoncake2091]

It's better than going to your LITERAL home. A police station would be better

[@anonymous23yearsago51]

@@lilylemoncake2091 like everyone lives nearby a police station

[@lazyegg2608]

Yes, I agree with the creepy people following. Once, I decided to walk home alone from school. My house wasn't far away, it was just a few blocks to my right. I still didn't have my drivers license, so I didn't have a car, either. Nobody went to pick me up. It was still sunny, and hot, so I decided to go get some ice cream first just to cool down a bit. On the way, this man came up to me in his car, offering me a ride to wherever I wanted to go. I knew I shouldn't talk to strangers, or accept any offers, so I just ran away. However, he kept following me. I started to panic, and once I ran inside a store, I told them to call the cops. It turned out that guy was an uber, and somebody stole his uber car. He had to use this suspicious, black car instead. He took me home, and I rushed to mom, telling her what happened and that I never wanted to walk home from any place alone. In fact, I know have trust issues and am terrified to be near people I don't know just in case they are bad. *But...I guess some people who look bad aren't bad...so I better look out. We all should...*

[@bigblackstick]

I mean yeah that proves the dont judge a book my its cover theory

[@adrieneditz9754]

I was followed on a marching band trip by a creepy chaperone (That just happened to be my chorus teacher at the time)

[@l_sunshine]

How are there already so many likes this was literally 19 seconds ago-

[@GambinoTheGoat]

Dedication

[@rosepetunia1829]

17 hours ago now.

[@p_jk997]

1 day now

[@chaeyoungsstrawberryfarm3327]

You should never underestimate your paranoia. Being paranoid is just being safe, stay safe

[@sage_Jester]

I wish there was a week picked out of the year where men get treated exatcly ( cant spell sorry ) like women so they can understand more and be a bit more respectful

[@EggsToYourBacon]

As a young girl I say that walking down the street in the dark is *SCARRY*

[@nada401]

RIGHT!!

[@cyberskvlls]

Yep

[@itzkyokokirigiri8840]

I know -.-

[@cadences.4602]

Storytime about shaving: so at this point I was still identifying as a (cis) girl (I'm pangender transmasc) and I got tired of shaving so I just didn't. My dad noticed my hairy legs and would tell me to shave and the first few times I did, but I got tired of it. He would tell me to shave and I would say "no" he would tell me "you arnt a boy and we are not in europe. Go shave." To which I would say everytime "I am not going to conform to a societal standard. I am comfortable in my body like this so why does it matter?" Him: "it's unhygienic" me: "so it's unhygienic on women but not men? I'm not shaving." Me: Walks away

[@suzi_mai]

Good on you

[@Jj-gn4sc]

tf is a pangender transmasc

[@cadences.4602]

@@Jj-gn4sc I use all pronouns but prefer to be perceived in a more masculine manner.

[@cadences.4602]

I do shave occasionally. Bit I shave when I want, not when I'm told

[@Jj-gn4sc]

@@cadences.4602 that's supposed to answer what it is? All I got is you don't care about what you're called and would like to be seen as a more masculinity person.

[@cheesecakereligion22]

I can get sooo worked up over fake pockets 🤣

[@saniya7038]

Ellen: So glad I'm single Me: So glad I'm not a hetero. ✨👁️👅👁️✨

[@Jj-gn4sc]

why?

[@sweedra7899]

I feel like this is the kinda guy who's got their priorities 'straight'!

[@saniya7038]

@@sweedra7899 BOI bi-

[@ochvpo3716]

@@saniya7038 LMAOOOO

[@justastaythatwillnotbename2990]

You should put the toilet paper on the seat so that your butt doesn't touch where everybody else butt goes But if everyone does this what are you technically preventing your butt from touching

[@bobthebuilder480]

You r preventing ur butt from touching the butts of all the ppl who think this and don’t put toilet paper there but also the toilet paper that ppl’s butt touch

[@justastaythatwillnotbename2990]

@@bobthebuilder480 ah yes destroying my non existent brain

[@sunoozebutton444]

@@bobthebuilder480 ...what? Im so confused😭

[@Mari-eo3yi]

@@bobthebuilder480 I’m sorry,I don’t speak ✨ stroke ✨

[@carl9865]

Yep! I do this

[@jimjam3719]

grew up watching you, cool to see you're still around :)

[@nada401]

Do you guys think it’s normal to be creeped out/ afraid of every man u see or is that just me? 😅

[@abdulsamadtv5016]

Sometimes...

[@bubblerose292]

So there were these people in higher grades who kept catcalling (and I even dress modestly) so outside church they walked by once and upon request my friend who's a guy said if they don't stop disrespecting his "girlfriend" he'll beat them up and they never bothered me again. My friend is like 6'5 at 14 and is the quarterback on his football team for perspective

[@itzkyokokirigiri8840]

Treasure your friend. That was so kind of him. I hope you stay safe!

[@winter_wolfgamer9683]

I ligit clicked faster then she can say "Hey guys and today-"

[@nayshaprasad8318]

*legit

[@S.Recker]

Being a car mechanic - men will automatically assume I don't know what I'm talking about. Many places won't accept me for an internship simply because I'm a woman. Honestly, that's what motivates me to study hard, so I can make those men feel like idiots.

[@jamsfactoryfreejamsforjimin]

Once something like this happened to me , I was just 14 and I was out to buy something in the board daylight and a creepy dude in his 30's started to follow me , I went to a store and he came near me asked me if I want something he can buy that for me but for that I have to go with him but I told him nicely that no thank you, I'm here with my parents and called an old couple as my parents and they understood everything and tried to show that I'm there daughter, then that guy left and that old good couple walked me near my home as it was not far away from the store, I still get so scared to go out and one of the reason I don't trust men and I'm introvert , I know all men are not like them but I'm trying to Atleast come to the talking stage and I wanna travel the world but guess people like these are everywhere.

[@vviviann]

true. so true. like such facts. what is this world that we live in 😔😔

[@wow-cf1px]

I remember there was one time in public, I had a TINY BIT of hair on my legs because I forgot to shave the night before. I got a large amount of weird looks and I felt so insecure about my legs. It really sucks sometimes being a girl

[@magicalwatermelon5147]

I have a friend who never shaves her legs no matter what beauty standards say and I aspire to that level of confidence.

[@yayd3973]

@@magicalwatermelon5147 Tell your friend she's beautiful for me :)

[@magicalwatermelon5147]

@@yayd3973 Will do! I haven’t seen her in a while because of COVID and it is due time I call her!

[@raan3908]

2:17 I literally cried this should be fixed cuz we are all human 🥺💔.,

[@michelliegirlie392]

It's depressing that even 11 yro girls get cat called 😕

[@raan3908]

@@michelliegirlie392 yup and they say it's their fault 🙁

[@michelliegirlie392]

@@raan3908 mhm it's truly heartbreaking

[@raan3908]

@@michelliegirlie392 yup :(

[@jaszforu]

everything is hard for me.

[@imagine6541]

Same here

[@yarelzurita7182]

Everything is hard for everyone, life is hard death seems nice

[@ZainabAli-ik8rf]

Tip: if some guy is following you DO NOT lead him to your home or close to where you love if you see anyone just go up to them and stay with them as if they're your friend and somehow signal you need help DO NOT be alone. Better safe than sorry Also if nobody is around just go to a random house which looks like people could answer quickly and ask if you could come in for a bit. If you start running the stalker or creep would run too so try to stay calm and composed 🤗

[@xxelliegachaxx]

I'm so petrified of walking home at night I used to when I was 11 and 12 years old (I'm 13 now) at 10pm and im always scared I might be kidnapped

[@nuttynurdle9314]

With the bathroom one, I just realized that the reason that there are more people in the line to the women's bathroom is probably not necessarily because women spend more time in the mirror, but because men actually have both the urinals AND the stalls to use so they have more options. Correct me if I'm wrong.

[@absolutelychampagne]

One of the things I like about Kyutie is that she isn't sexist. She doesn't just say "I hate men" or "life is so much harder for women" she treats women and men equally.

[@ochvpo3716]

Not the Music pfp-🤮

[@absolutelychampagne]

@@ochvpo3716 Not the gatcha pfp 😂

[@georgescalendulas9676]

I wish we lived in a world where we would all be treated equally no matter what gender, race, colour, religion or sexuality you are

[@suzi_mai]

Truth!

[@Jj-gn4sc]

lol that's never going to happen

[@itzkyokokirigiri8840]

Don’t we all?

[@itzkyokokirigiri8840]

You forgot religion and colour

[@Jj-gn4sc]

@@itzkyokokirigiri8840 race is color* smart one

[@user-ji3sd7mq9c]

I got catcalled by a huge group of teens (at least 16-17, probably 18) when I WAS 12. I'm 16 now, and still haven't forgotten about it.

[@lilyluna5586]

Something else that should've been there: How much we eat Our tone Who we like How we talk Table manners What we say and how we word it

[@itzkyokokirigiri8840]

Exactly

[@TheRealMrsJeon]

When you're out you can just not feel safe. You always have to be on alert. No one knows who might be a predator.

[@poppyhunt7684]

After she read that thing abt girl gamers, my thoughts were: Valkyrae Pokimane Jodi Hafu Wolfabelle Xchocobars Loser fruit They are all girl gamers and they are definitely not “pick me” girls

[@pianooooo11]

Imma girl and it is upsetting and amazing how strong girls need to be all the time

[@AstraN0va]

The toilet paper hack works well that is tho until you have to go to the bathroom and someone left there toilet paper there for you to remove 🥲

[@LilacPawPawTeam]

YES THE TOILET PAPER HACK! I actually noticed this in airports and hotel, they sometimes have liners for the restrooms, and for hotels they have those liners in the bathrooms near the gym and pool.

[@truevine336]

Me and my best friend are basically neighbors. Except, she's in a different neighborhood which I can walk right into through my front and. Every time she comes over and leaves, (leaves at 8:30 which is dark) I have to walk her home. It's pretty scary knowing anything could be in the bushes around me when I'm all alone. I know how scary that feeling is.

[@chuuchuutrain1715]

Ok I am making this up but I think the reason why your parents lied to you is because they didn’t want you to know why your dad has the scar at that young age

[@maddies.526]

2:03 lol funny enough my grandma made me do this whenever she was with me at a public place. I thought it was kinda dumb but she basically forced me to do it whenever I had to use a public bathroom. She told me that I should put some toilet paper on the toilet seat because people's germs have been there. I mean she has a point but I don't think it's necessary lol.

[@HottyMcShawty]

Who’s relative hasn’t taught them that 😂

[@cherry6813]

Back then,I walk home alone, even if it's dark. But that was in my home town, it's pretty quiet and peaceful there I barely get scared. Now though in the city it's scary. My bf always remind me to either be with friends or call for him.

[@bpbts7440]

Cheers to every women on earth we deserve more respect

[@cielo6609]

R.I.P to Sarah Everard and every other victim ❤️❤️❤️

[@minati3341]

When I was 10 with my 9 Yr old friends we were distributing biscuits to our neighbourhood and a strange man we'd never seen was in a house and told that the owner was out and said we could go in and play...I will never k his intentions but am glad I didn't go in there. My friends were talking to someone else and I was the only one btw

[@ETPangilinan1]

Guys also get scared too. Like if they might get mugged Or it could be as simple as not wanting to scare some woman walking by herself. I try to keep a distance, let my presence be known. Or walk ahead of her. But yeah, women have it hard. Also please don’t generalise guys by saying ‘I’m glad I’m single’ because there are definitely good guys out there that just want romantic love in a relationship, instead of a sexual/physical relationship.

[@CosmicbelieverinChrist]

I'm a 5 ft teenager girl and I really like to walk in the dark ngl. I don't shave body hair cause I'm really lazy Child birth...never planning on it, planning to adopt instead I don't get sexual comments, which I'm glad for Long hair I can relate I don't use public restrooms unless emergency Periods are so annoying Birth control-never because I will and always will (hopefully) keep my virginity The thing is, I don't get moody when I'm periods, I just stay happy. If anything, I think I get more happy when I have periods. I like to play games and I have no problems with it So yeah, maybe I'm lucky or an alien and that's cool. Yes, these are personal and none of your businesses, then just ignore me if that's what you think.

[@sweedra7899]

The problem is when other people know you're a girl and you try to play an online game, they immediately think you're just another gamer girl who has no sense whatsoever. I've had that happen to me a lot. Thankfully I can relate to everything else you said. Except for the periods thing. I feel more like sleeping instead of being awake when I'm on them. I generally am happier when I'm on them though. Have a thumbs up.

[@ghostofthefallenvalkyrie3320]

Periods are bloody hell. My periods are really irregular, for example sometimes every month, sometimes every two months, one time it was missing for half a year (I'm glad tho it doesn't come as often), I also sometimes get period depression, which is horrible cuz I spend like an hour crying before I can go to bed. I hope I get a girlfriend and I'll never have to use birth control. I don't really get comments, just sometimes people complementing my dresses (which are Lolita). I don't really think that anyone would bother me, I'm 5'11 and I did Taekwondo (I think it was called that) for a few years

[@CosmicbelieverinChrist]

@@ghostofthefallenvalkyrie3320 I learned Taekwondo too, and a little of kick boxing little

[@CosmicbelieverinChrist]

@@sweedra7899 I see

[@valdapierre6650]

Girl same

[@soitmineel_11]

Imma just say that child birth is like having period cramps but A LOT WORSE for 20 mins straight. 😃🔫

[@ItsFate]

"Periods." Me: *laughs in I'm not normal enough to get regular periods* seriously, idk what's wrong with me, I just don't get them

[@beansforlief5703]

That sounds lucky until you actually want a kid then it’s gonna be really hard.

[@dadorkybunny]

@@beansforlief5703 simple: don’t have a kid lol I’m planning to adopt a kid if I ever want one since I can barely get through a migraine and I have lots of migraines

[@ItsFate]

@@beansforlief5703 Unfortunately, I do want 1 child but idk if I can ;-; The last one I had was when I was 16, never had one since.

[@yayd3973]

That may be a medical condition. I recommend going to the doctor cuz that's not normal and period gaps should last 3-4 weeks.

[@ItsFate]

@@yayd3973 Already planned on it, I've done EVERYTHING but see a "hormone" doctor. And that's scheduled for 4.20 -- They can't find anything!

[@sum1664]

I wish we could just live in peace instead of being afraid every second of our lives. The world is very dangerous, especially for us girls. Stay safe out there.

[@achannel2916]

lol I stopped watching kyutie for a while but now it's like an everyday thing uwu

[@moon-ol2dk]

I like gaming. And I'm a girl. Indeed, people have told me that I'm just a pick me girl. Pick me girls seek for attention. Seeking for attention means social interaction and I don't support it.

[@amelzemmoura3264]

you look amazing !

[@ame1603]

I hate that I am told that I belong in the kitchen. And I worked in a kitchen where the men hated me there and mad a lot of sexist comments how i didn't belong. Literally annoying AF

[@brandonj7586]

"Get in the kitchen!" "Get out of the kitchen!"

[@somerandomgirlwholikeswrit9236]

Hey, Ellen! Hope you're having a good day! 💜

[@ezrahasleftthechat5852]

Everyone, don’t be afraid of being paranoid. Being paranoid can save your life. Better to be paranoid than to get robbed or worse.

[@riann_aa]

literally just because of gender/sexuality/appearance, we in danger