Purpose of Relationship

The question is that I said that the less expectations you have, the happier you would be, what is then the point of being in a relationship? I am not saying you should have less expectation. All I am saying that if you have less expectation you are going to be happier. The whole challenge is that the other person is in relationship is because he or she seeks happiness or something and you are in it for the same. When you enter into a relationship thinking you need somebody in your life to make you happy, no relationship is going to make you happy. When you think you want to be in a relationship because you want somebody to take care of you, somebody to make you happy, you are not going to be happy.
The point of relationship is not that somebody should fill a void in your life that you have created by way of your mindset. When I say that, I am not saying that you are responsible for creating that mindset, you could have gone through certain circumstances in your life that led to that.
Listen to this insightful discourse to find out more.
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[@sanjanaom]

My Beloved Swamiji, I remember sitting right in front of You the day you answered the question ♥️ Loved the spider story. Thank you so much! Respects and infinite Love to Beloved You!! ♥️💕👐👣🙇‍♀️

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How lucky are you Sanjana ji !

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@@krittikaomsingh6490 All Swamiji's Grace Krittika ji 😍

[@sanjanaom]

@@meeraom2522 We all are blessed to be under His protection every moment Meera ji 💜😚

[@shivaniaggarwal8287]

This was an ocean of wisdom. Truly fulfilling relationships are actually beyond the social setup and conditioning we acquire and ironically, they need only little tiny things to be taken care of ... And all gets done. But sadly, partners don't care for each other's small feelings and keep taking each other granted for years only for daily needs. Swamiji have put it all so truly and beautifully... Blessed we are to have him as our guide....

[@amitaarora8415]

Least expectations in any relation make it more meaningful and fulfilling, this is what Swami Ji has told us today. It definitely is not confined to man woman relationship. Thank you Prabhu for this beautiful discourse 🙏🏻.

[@viharsonawane3972]

Swamiji ur fingers are so beautiful....gulabi gulabi....aur kitane mulayam...pyare pyare 😊

[@ck4638]

Lol.... he is cute

[@userq1022]

Yes he Is 😂🤣😆🤣😂😂

[@omnamahshivaaay]

3:12 Thanku so much Om Swamiji for understanding it. Because many a times we can feel bad about ourselves and blame us for creating our mindsets. I felt that i am heard due to your understanding of emotions🙏

[@devanshusingh3174]

Swami ji, you gotta do this video in Hindi!!!!! Too many Indians need this! I am not trying to redirect their thinking but this video alone has the power to put down the problems which relationship causes!! and also cringe love music!

[@omnamahshivaaay]

I agree

[@malarvizhidhinakaran8322]

Spot on Swamiji ... Heartfelt gratitude from a woman who was sitting right under your nose and nodding her head.

[@shankarprasad1977]

Humble Pranam Swamiji. Thoroughly enjoyed it. Feeling blessed

[@sarithaalaparthi]

Thankyou Swamiji for this beautiful discourse .Please accept our humble salutations at your divine lotus feet 🙇🏻‍♀️

[@triptimongia9766]

This topic has never been as eloquently explained as Swamji has..

[@ashu7994]

Koti koti pranam swami ji

[@irene7285]

Beloved Om Swamiji, every couple, before getting married or decide to live together, should listen to these advices. Would be very helpful. Humbly I bow at Your Divine Lotus Feet. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

[@yourhealingjourney9824]

So true. The fulfillment you are looking for in relationships doesn't come if you enter relationships with the expectation to fill a void

[@vandanatehlan8635]

Really wonderful explaination Swami ji................... koti koti pranam to your lotus feet ......mere Bhagwan

[@nehadesai1057]

Great Analysis and Simple way of explaining

[@janak6769]

Pranam swamiji🙏

[@maheshlahare9705]

Dhanyavad Swami ji aapse bohot kuch sikhna he...

[@prachikolteom]

Swamiji, You explained this so simply. But it is so difficult to not take the other person for granted. Will try to do as You said🙏🙏

[@swatikothari4257]

PRANAM 🌷🙏🏻 SWAMIJI, your lecturs take us to the path where we have to walk with awareness

[@debashisbarik4805]

You sure were in your elements! Pranam swamiji.

[@swatikothari4257]

Pranam Swamiji, I listen to each lecturs of your several times and ever time i feels i still need to go deeply. and funny, but true less expectations makes one happy. Each and every point is so concretely explain and so true. Loyalty ?🤷‍♀️. what is male defination of togetherness? and what is female defination of togetherness?

[@ravibhartiya2867]

Guru jee, You are a great man.

[@vivekmahi8723]

Mera kyaa hota.....agr aap n hote.....thanks for a great knowledge abouts life & god............thanx again.............

[@kvkypk6372]

Wonderful Narration, Great !!

[@patelranna27]

Pranam Swamiji 🙏

[@amol_17_]

Truly an eye-opening discourse. Thank you so much my Master 🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

[@Sakshi_Om]

Thanks Swamiji 🙏🙏

[@kantasuri3695]

Swami ji thank you very much for explaining the meaning of relationship. Really the word practicality shoud be understood by the married couples instead of give and take theory. Infect the day they will understand the real meaning of practicality their relationship will be more strong and they will be more happy together.

[@Isha1982Verma]

Swamiji apko kotti kotti dantwat Naman.very fine line between relationship and happiness...the matter of taking care.... every word of yours is very useful in every circumstances....how we see life...and that's individual matter... absolutely right....no opportunity ...more loyalty story of spiders makes atmosphere lighter.... please God bless me with the presence of Omswamijji..give me a chance to meet Omswamijji

[@Isha1982Verma]

@@meeraom2522 ji..many many thanks for your kind words and for informing about Delhi programme

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Gurudev charan sparsh 💐💐💐

[@lloydxallen996]

You are such a powerful speaker! I am saving up money right now so that I may travel out east to practice Buddhism. Thank you for the wisdom

[@shashikantvanjeri48]

It's not Buddhism or it's about any other religions... Hindu-Sthaan (India) is a land of seekers, and here we 'The Brahmacharis' like Om Swaami live to learn the truth about life.

[@supermancreations7588]

Kya praapti ke baad bhi meditation krna padta hai? Aur kya self realisation ke Baad human dobaara un realised ho skta hai ? Please btaaye iske baare mein

[@rachitagarwal7761]

self realisation ke baad sab kuch apne aap hone lagta hai kuch karna nahi padta sab kuch ho jata hai.

[@Anitosh135Goswami]

Pranaam 🙏🙏🙏

[@pmitra3123]

Not clear. Can you please explain that sath janam ki bat about the relationship?

[@dazysharma9808]

Koti vandana in your lotus feet swamiji..🌹

[@spiritualnarendra3480]

Thanks Swami ji😆

[@alicebjorgtryggvason6833]

Thank you 💝🌠 Thank you soo much for sharing this underfoul speech 🙏💕🙏💕🙏

[@riyaom5985]

Thank you Swami ji

[@drniveditapriya9722]

Truly devine.....very respectful to women...hv not heard from any other mysitical discourse

[@yogitajoshi]

So beautiful... Thank you ji...

[@tanimalviya11]

Thank you swamiji

[@sonalivashishtha4062]

Pranam Gurudev 🙇‍♀️ 🙇‍♀️ 🙇‍♀️

[@vedantsharma2865]

A friend of mine is in an open relationship. Is he more practical than me? I could never do that .

[@nrpsh]

Ram ram Swamiji

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Jai Shri Hari.... 🙏🙏🙏

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Guru 🙏💞🙏

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🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@chandergupta2431]

Swami......

[@sashasg11]

Thank you haribol bless u.

[@ContessaStreeter85]

How do I get past feeling being taking for granted in a relationship?

[@komalomR]

Hi:) Feel free to read this article or any other on the same website. Hope this helps. os.me/the-drama-triangle/

[@dineshtiwari198]

Pranam Swami ji

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dinesh tiwari

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Ji

[@Jai-Bhole-Shankar]

How to improve my relationship with my husband. Swamiji plz give me some power& energy .

[@Jai-Bhole-Shankar]

@@meeraom2522 thank u very much I am in very sorrow to think about future.

[@Jai-Bhole-Shankar]

@@meeraom2522 thank u ma'am

[@pallaviverma5541]

🙏🏻😇🌺Pranam Swami ji

[@shardagupta3854]

Pranam

[@zarimohammadinia2120]

you can say that again, thanks very much indeed, dear Swami

[@payalsingh2216]

Plz bless me i need it as u cn understands soul need ur blessings each day is wasting

[@rashmivalecha9025]

You knw I love you

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Thank You 🙏🏾 🙂

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🌹ॐ स्वामी नमो नम:🌹

[@purvikarao]

Thanks A Lotttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt...swamiji,ur just awesome,pure soul...

[@proudtobeindian5435]

Please hindi me niche anuvad aye ase video banaiye

[@AsifAliRizwaan]

practicality.

[@shubhanshusharma1303]

Maharaaj sirf hindi mai video bnaya karo

[@Chandani244]

💞💞💞💞❤❤

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🙏🙏

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Prnam guru ji 🙏 Plzz translate in Hindi language also plzzzzzzz🙏

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7:30; 14:46;

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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@Anitosh135Goswami]

1:12,

[@priyankasharma1740]

Plz explain this topic in hindi .....plz

[@payalsingh2216]

Ye janam hi bagwan naam kay liye milla hai.... We r nt diffrent from that supreme.... Just coz of ignorance we r suffring and enyoing this maya other wise there is no other than him.... Each and every sec chant holy name And follow sanyasi how help us to attain that supreme too swami look birth for us god sends these soul for our kalyan..... In this fake world its tough to find such jai shree ram.....

[@AZchanal1]

আমার গুরুদেব এত কথা বুঝে গুরু বাংলা কথা বুঝেনা

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iam

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Pranam

[@gayathribadrinath8357]

Some one tell me i am a single mother my son get married .After marriage he totally changed. And he leave me alone .He went his In-laws house. But I am totally depression .What can I do please anyone tell me.

[@sandhyadubey7585]

Swamiji charan sparsh. Your every discourse is transforming .

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Prnam guru ji 🙏 Plzz translate in Hindi language also plzzzzzzz🙏