On Death & Dying - "You Are Going to Die - What to Expect" (Part 1)

[@garypuckettmuse]

Appreciate this topic so much. Would like to see Lama Lena revisit it more often in the future. And to all those who are transitioning sooner than later -- make the most of it!

[@SandeepNathtalks]

🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:45 Everyone *will die, so it's essential to understand and familiarize oneself with the death process to make it less intimidating.* 04:01 The *death process can start weeks before the last breath, involving physical fatigue and Earth element absorption.* 05:56 Medical *interventions like NG tubes or IV rehydration can extend life, but it's crucial to have clear directives in advance.* 09:29 During *terminal illnesses, focus on hospice comfort care, and pain management with opiates is acceptable.* 11:31 As *Earth element absorbs into water element, a meditative posture or the Buddha's death position can assist in the process.* 15:50 Water *element absorption involves sounds resembling rushing water; offering ice chips can ease thirst.* 17:21 Vision *during fire element absorption is described as sparks diminishing into darkness.* 20:34 Air *element absorption may cause dizziness; allow the process, don't fight it, and experience the sensation.* 21:14 Space *element absorption marks the cessation of breath; wait for morbid lividity before calling the coroner.* 23:45 In *the first BAU of clear luminosity, rest without attempting to maintain a center; caregivers should be trained not to disturb.* 29:28 Medically *assisted dying, if done moderately slowly and at home, may not disturb the reincarnation process.* 34:53 Last *thoughts are important; dying with fear may lead to a post-death experience dominated by fear.* 36:25 Tum *to the wind experiences are significant; familiarity with the death process is crucial, and seeking such experiences can be beneficial for preparation.* 36:39: To *prepare for death, create good karma through random acts of kindness.* 38:11: Absorbing *elements during death means the diminishing of one element's effect as the next intensifies.* 39:20: In *sudden death situations, it's crucial to be familiar with the Bardo after death (BAU) process.* 40:27: Regardless *of the circumstances of death, the BAU of dhata follows, characterized by ultimate clarity.* 42:57: The *second BAU involves a pure, illusory body, the union of dharmakaya, samboa Kaya, and nuraya.* 46:34: The *practice of Phowa (POA) is recommended during the period of the last breath to guide consciousness.* 49:51: Three *days after the end of tudom is a crucial time for guiding the deceased based on their practice level.* 55:00: Phowa, *a specific training, is advised during the period when breathing has stopped but the heart still has activity.* 57:39: There's *no one to send you back after a near-death experience; practice and recognition are key.* 01:05:14: During *the BAU phases, conceptual thought, including words, may still occur, depending on one's habitual thinking style.* 01:06:53: Supporting *dying pets involves love, touch, mantras, and reminding them of shared love to guide their consciousness.* 01:08:22: The *sensation of feeling a presence after someone's death is associated with the second Bardo of the afterlife.* 01:08:49: Room *temperature may affect the timing of death processes, and it's recommended to keep the room cool during tudom.* 01:09:43: Exchanging *organs or biological material does not transfer individual karma; we are in constant interchange with others.* 01:12:26 The *speaker discusses planets having ecologies and thinking they are people, mentioning the Sun as an ecology of fire beings.* 01:14:13 Psychedelics, *like DMT, may not be useful for Buddhist practice, but they can help individuals realize there are alternative ways of thinking and feeling.* 01:16:18 In *emergencies, if a qualified teacher is unavailable, use common sense and find the most experienced meditator to guide someone through the dying process.* 01:17:30 The *speaker emphasizes relaxation as a key element in progressing toward Enlightenment during the second Bardo.* 01:20:20 Tips *for improving dream recognition during falling asleep: use melatonin if falling asleep is slow, try a nightlight if falling asleep is too fast, and pay attention to elements leading up to dream occurrences.* 01:21:47 Approach *helping non-practitioners facing death with a positive attitude, treating it as a joyful transition, and consider sharing this perspective with the dying person.* 01:24:05 Cold *feet during death are considered auspicious, symbolizing the departure of chi from the body through the feet, potentially leading to a positive rebirth.* 01:25:31 The *speaker introduces the topic of the third Bardo, emphasizing the emergence of patterns of the diani Buddhas and the importance of the death process's early stages for easier liberation.* 01:28:07 The *concept of "law" or ghosts is explained, noting that it is a three-dimensional recording at the place of death or burial, serving as an imprint rather than the person's mindstream.* 01:30:36 Dreaming *occurs during certain Bardo states, but individuals may not be aware they are dreaming. Familiarity with the death process is encouraged to mitigate fear when the process begins.* 01:31:50 In *the BAU of dhata, ultimate lucidity allows individuals to carry out intentions, such as entering a pure land or receiving the four wongs, without the burden of karmic obstacles.* Made with HARPA AI

[@lunaamerkel1756]

I always find so many answers, thank You Lama La 🙏

[@palrevesz8629]

I do Phowa (Sablam Phowa) since 2004 and I have learned it from Lama Ole Nydahl who is the 17th Karmapa Trinley Thaye Dorje student (and previously the 16th Karmapa's). It usually takes about 9 days to complete course but with Lama Ole everybody got their signs after 2-3 days. I don't think you can learn it online, that would be bad idea I think.

[@lenadieckmann648]

Thank you

[@reddsun6427]

Thankyou, look forward to tommoro💕🌹🎶😊

[@thoughtfog]

🙏🏼bowing!🌌 Thank you!

[@marijanagutierrez6970]

Very liberating explaining Thank you Lama Lena La ❤✨🙌

[@sage9453]

✨🙏🏻

[@Spectre2434]

💎💎💎🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️💐💐💐

[@saraswati999]

What about people who have all these NDE experiences they see guides angels and it seems like such peaceful loving space they all feel such love and loved in that experience ?

[@saraswati999]

Lama Lena sad she gave bracelets I did not receive one ?

[@GeoSkywalker]

Can someone write the name of which edition “death book” lama reads from?

[@adamkelly2256]

That edition is Shambhala (June 12, 1975) ISBN 978-0394730646 with commentary by Francesca Fremantle and Chogyam Trungpa.