Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater!: Shereka Barber v Nate Barber - Season 26 Episode 23

[@proagate7392]

He's ready to settle down because he's getting older and need someone to take care of him 😢

[@leelee185]

Thats usually the case with these men, they run around trying to be Mack daddies in their younger years then they hit the Bengay years, and suddenly want to settle down.

[@Zasha65]

😂Funny so true ladies. He looking for nurse purse. The nerve of him not only you cheat on me two side babies. Haha not in my world laced up my track shoes never ever looked back after the first child. He wouldn’t have gotten a second chance to play again.

[@mrznadiaable]

Right.They call them hospice wife 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@bryanbeeman5256]

The sad part is… women waste their time on these Pookies… she wasted 20+ years on a men she KNEW was no good. Even her intuition didn’t help her. And she’s staying NOW… She had PLENTY of chances to walk, been to Divorce Court twice, two kids OUTSIDE of the marriage… SMH…

[@Lincolnberries]

After he took care of her for 30 years. Sounds equitable to me.

[@meeksluvspink9047]

😂😂😂 She aint going NOWHERE! She gave all her BEST years to this joke of a man! Two side babies and you stayed?! I bet my life savings that if the role were reversed, he would have been left! Women need to STOP forgiving these dudes and move on the FIRST TIME!

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

Maybe she couldn't afford to raise the kids on her own, but now that they are grown, she can afford to take care of just her. People think, "Oh just file for child support". Child support (if they even pay) only covers about 1/3 of the monthly grocery bill & nothing else.

[@meeksluvspink9047]

​@OSMRDucksLIB you sound dumb😂😂😂

[@JoyA.-yg4gc]

Never say never My aunty ( aged 70) left her husband of forty five years . He had been cheating on her for years , had outside children and was also abusive One day she woke up and decided she wasn’t going to put up with his nonsense and kicked him out of their home. He begged her to reconcile but she refused. She is now living her best life and looks years younger .She even got herself a male companion who dotes on her Her ex husband is depressed and is full of regret

[@bryanbeeman5256]

@@JoyA.-yg4gc- 45 years is 45 years tooooooooooo long. I just don’t get it…

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Women DEFINITELY have to STOP!!! Forgive??? Yes… MOVE ON??? YES!!!! That man should only have NO MORE than 1 cheat (wife included)… AFTER THAT… ALL BETS ARE OFF… You GOTTA GO!!! Or rather I’m gone!!! Please forgive so you can keep your sanity and sleep at night, BUT MOVE ON…

[@Kalil21053]

She needs to focus on herself and be free from him

[@nickiwallace72]

The melaninated sister in the green shirt is so pretty, you can't miss her 💚

[@LadyBug-wr1gu]

Beautiful beyond words.

[@shannondonnelly7985]

Stunning!Looks like a model .

[@creamekay]

why i read your comment an saw her asap you can't miss

[@danicaslater5969]

I was like "damn" very gorgeous❤

[@YolandaTravis]

she is pretty

[@CaptainCreature]

2 outside children is wilddd

[@creamekay]

yes never heard them stay after 2 kids

[@CaptainCreature]

@@creamekay but she did.. gotta make it work now

[@Acinom1980]

He isn't comprehending the pain he caused and expects her to get over it. I bet he wouldn't be so forgiving if it was her popping up pregnant. Men always spit divorce statistics, but never what caused it. Of course, the ones cheating want to keep their marriage. He aggravated the hell out of me, brushing off her feelings like she's supposed to just get over what he did. He only loves himself.

[@bryanbeeman5256]

That’s this man. This was a cause for divorce. Most women file irreconcilable differences. This ain’t that. Don’t you agree she should have left after the first or second cheat? Why didn’t she? She didn’t have to get married again if she didn’t want to. My opinion is she was stuck on him being the ONLY boy to show up at her party and she gave him infinite grace because of that. Young or not, inexperienced or not, don’t be someone’s jump off and door mat.

[@Kalil21053]

He got her looking old 😢

[@Heal885]

She has power. She acts like she has no choices.

[@God-Love-Freedom]

@@Heal885 You probably don't understand the bonding power of marriage.

[@Heal885]

@ I’m in a loving marriage and I adore my husband. We’ll be married 9 years in January. He has brought her down and has not treated her as a husband should. You can tell in her body language.

[@God-Love-Freedom]

@@Heal885 If you are married with children by your husband, then you should understand it’s not as easy as “words” for women to up and leave a man, even when he’s bad to her.

[@Heal885]

@ I didn’t say it was easy but her marriage is sucking the life out of her. Nothing noble about staying because it’s hard.

[@yvettewilliams5967]

Look at how he is laughing at a serious matter! Since he is a cheat , his guilt and jealousy will always be there!

[@takeahskanes8872]

Exactly, these women need to stop taking this poor behavior

[@patiencebright]

I noticed the same thing

[@queenb4561]

You have 2 outside kids...so she's right you have been cheating..he's lame

[@wandabrooks2752]

I don't understand why women come on the show and complain about the guys, then turn around and stay with them. It's just letting the guys know they can keep treating them like trash

[@charmainewalker8627]

Exactly and they see the red flags and stay so many years until they hagged and old. Run from the first red flags. I would have gone from he cheated and had the outside kids .i don’t care what the polygraph test said this man is trifling

[@jessicatobias9371]

It's so tiring. He is doing what they allow 😂

[@xandrafrancois]

Cheating is a form of mental abuse. But a marriage is something you must fight for. But if someone is cheating before the marriage and is a pathological liar and put her life in danger by having unprotected sex, there is so much you can take.

[@MsBizzyRae]

Exactly!!

[@DarcelWhitted-w3j]

She has very low self-esteem.

[@Berlin_Devereux]

Just LET HIM GO

[@MrDer7]

Imagine wasting your time and life, with someone that has been cheating since the beginning of the relationship.

[@tajendasmith7927]

Right this is crazy and she's only 46 😮

[@andrenenyarko4203]

Nope

[@michaelbriggs7879]

From a MAN! Leave him. You deserve a HUSBAND. He had his chance. I could go on BUT it's on you. I say again. Better LEAVE. HE IS NOT a husband.

[@kimr5479]

I think i would have left when he had kids outside the Marriage!

[@bryanbeeman5256]

They married young and she seemed extremely naive at the time. Her fondest memory was he showed up at her party. She may have been ready for marriage, but he wasn’t. He grew old, but he didn’t grow up.

[@annkneeter7059]

Lol, 29 years cheating..it. bothers her now.

[@FullofSouthernCharm]

Exactly like why leave now... You might as well continue to stay and put up with it some more

[@mimboyce6643]

Its such a shame some women have to play detective with her husband. All that waste of her time

[@nzyukostella7298]

Reading the comments is so much refreshing than listening to these two. This lady can choose to stay, nag and complain, or can take her power back and find her peace

[@TruckerGrl69]

They always ready to settle down when the ED starts

[@GentlemensDialogue]

He showed her exactly who he was for 29 years and she stayed, she isn't going anywhere

[@creamekay]

ladies pls learn to be by yourself she seem so stress

[@jakieresykes3644]

That Man Said That They Should Be Celebrating Celebrating What The Fact You Two Children Outside Of Your Marriage

[@FullofSouthernCharm]

Dear Women, You don't have to accept cheating,lying ,abuse ( of any kind) ,outside child(ren) just to say you have a man to keep from being lonely!!!!! No man nor relationship is worth it!!!!

[@mimboyce6643]

I could never trust him

[@slosauss]

You can tell Judge Star doesn’t believe him either. 😂

[@Sarahlee358]

He literally was laughing the whole time. He has zero motivation to change.

[@yvettewilliams5967]

Lady…….. he is SLICK not TRUSTWORTHY.

[@dabbh97]

Why not just leave since your kids are grown?

[@yennegob.0401]

If she don’t let this man cheat in peace got dam! I waisted my WHOLE 20 mins 6secs.Then she turn around and tell him she needs " love, compassion, understanding a husband " instead of saying honesty, loyalty, respect, and a faithful husband😒

[@proteusxl9814]

No sympathy for anyone that stays with a cheater.

[@veronicastigger7947]

Facts

[@jahawalgern8273]

lol no wants sympathy she’s past tryna have anyone fell sorry for her she don’t need sympathy trust me sweetie… like 🙄✌🏾

[@shaee0707]

@@jahawalgern8273Gul okay cause wtf they tripping

[@rozzjack]

The lies flying off of him are palpable

[@jajagaga85]

She wasn’t leaving regardless of the outcome 😒

[@ltrainn69]

Why does this man keep laughing so much ? ... nothing about going to court is funny.

[@CaiCourt]

No, he’s lying. You not telling me, you go out all night and don’t come home and you KEEP doing it. That man is lying, he found out how to cheat the system somehow. She should’ve left without his sorry ass

[@jasonleman1396]

I am so lost here, he has been cheating so long but because he "stopped" a year or so ago she should stay? He made decisions to cheat on you over and over agian and she needs to run period!

[@sabrina21clark]

They asked the wrong questions on that polygraph!

[@antoinette-mays]

I said the same thing. Those questions would give a false positive. The question was did he go to the Chess convention with the “intent.” He could answer No because maybe he didn’t intend to meet up with someone, but that doesn’t answer the unasked question of was he with someone.

[@rasun316]

...why does she need a lie detector to believe this idiot?

[@slosauss]

And still don’t believe him.

[@sinavaitululeupolu1455]

If he is cheating,why stay with him. Just co parent for kids sake

[@shirleyrussell7089]

The children are grown why is he LAUGHING AND SWEATING HE IS LYING 😡 GIRL RUN RUN RUN dude you DON'T LIVE YOUR WIFE he thinks she should keep putting up with his lies, let him go to his other family.

[@shaniharris4343]

Hmmmm. I think she should have stayed to her original decision. He doesnt seem sincere

[@simply_Tani]

My thoughts exactly. He’s not taking it serious with the laughing.

[@rhcsw1682]

I just don't know... staying 29 years with someone who has cheated and had two other children out of the marriage.

[@gizaresa]

I don’t get it neither. Maybe trauma bond?

[@takeahskanes8872]

Girl let his butt go

[@melenahalley9486]

This woman chose to stay with him, she gets no sympathy or empathy from me, you chose this life sweetie

[@desmondmeansjr.1339]

She needs to focus on herself and be free from him and she deserves better

[@ciciburton3200]

He is a no-count man😒

[@jasminwilliams7097]

The balif shaking his head yes like the man making sense. Robert would NEVER!

[@shannondonnelly7985]

😅 That was foolish!

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

Where is Robert!? What happened to him?

[@jasminwilliams7097]

@OSMRDucksLIB Nobody knows. Hopefully, it comes out soon what happened. Everybody wants him back.

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

I think she is right about him beating the polygraph. You see how he is waiting on edge & celebrating each result like even he isnt sure if he fooled that test or not. He's a liar.

[@veronicastigger7947]

He lied to her so much that she don’t believe him or the test

[@byBrieMoore]

When he said, "i'm gonna start today," I knew what he was on! I'm sure she's lost count of how many days he was gonna start to do right. Good luck to her!

[@leelee185]

Two outside babies= TIME TO GET A DIVORCE ATTORNEY.

[@Thetruevirgo27]

Uh the chess convention is telling me he gay cause why did another man answer 😂

[@veronicastigger7947]

I was thinking that too

[@johnadams4938]

👀🤔🤔😂🤣

[@tracimcduffie8566]

He know he is lying because he keep laughing

[@yioutta-x2c]

I want to compliment Judge Star's absolutely beautiful coiffed hairstyles! ❤️😍😍😍😍

[@wellnesswithfrugalmama]

All that sweating, I just knew he was lying wowwww May their marriage flourish ✨️

[@sybilwhite1259]

Sure hope she gets her wish because after finding he had a 2nd child while we were married that would've been it for me!!!

[@minkki5656]

She's the biggest fool in the world!!!! He's been cheating since day one, extra kids on the side, and she's been on divorce court once before. I mean, how much will she allow this man to make her look like a fool??

[@gab19guerin72]

Got dang his lies are ridiculous! I know they infuriate her. Get rid of that loser. He just wants a nurse in his old age. She stayed wayyyyy too long

[@littlemissy8356]

RUNRUNRUNRUNRUNRUNRUN

[@qasimjabbar5680]

she states he's been cheating for 29 years yet she's still standing with him so she must enjoy it.

[@blackpowerpuff6155]

Did he find a way to beat the lie detector test? He was sweating pretty hard and I know of some cases where the person beat a lie detector test before.

[@seetabocage6939]

This poor lady. As soon as I smell smoke, i run. I don't wait around to see anything red.

[@markquarto8159]

Homie sweating up a storm when he’s lying 😂😊

[@gb5262]

They just wanted air time

[@tamarabradford9687]

It took her 30 yrs to realize she had enough? Girl bye.

[@kinggreatjace1515]

She not tired yet

[@jessicatobias9371]

From the start ! Why you still there sis😂

[@pamelawyatt7792]

You always have a choice. It’s just what choice we will make

[@yvettewilliams5967]

She knows her cheating husband!!! HE IS SLICK!!!

[@DidNotMean2OffendYou]

But I think that bottom line is, he treats her how she allows him too. So he continues to disrespect her, because she has no respect for herself. You sat up and stuck around with this man. And knew what he was doing. Yet not one time did you say to yourself, enough is enough. Chyle men don't stop cheating, they just get better at hiding it. Some may change and see the error of their ways. But a lot of them don't. And at her big age, can she possibly be that surprised. She chose to stick by that man. Obviously she enjoys whatever he's doing or providing. So why complain now. Just like you learned to look past his cheating and infidelity, learn to continue looking. Because after all this time pass, she isn't leaving that man.And I don't think she should, not at this stage in the game.

[@devvidrossi9202]

Sis, let that fool go. He'll give you what you want until he feels he's comfortable again.

[@leezanewill-codrington7731]

How can he want things to work out when he's not being honest up to the end?!

[@johnadams4938]

The reason he had 2 kids, cos she stayed after the 1st one👀🤔🤔

[@BonnieSetliff]

(delightful video) My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him!

[@MargaritaMedian21]

Its difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but I couldn't just let him go. I did all I could to get him back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back*

[@BonnieSetliff]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach one.?

[@MargaritaMedian21]

Her name is Maurice Gleti, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex...

[@BonnieSetliff]

Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked him up online. impressive.

[@JayMonaeee]

He’s LITERALLY laughing in her face. Lady stand up!!!

[@sabrina21clark]

Bailiff took the tissue box away too fast. She at least needed 2 tissues. One for each outside baby!

[@YACKYSNACKY]

And it was QUITE apparent. I noticed that. Must be a tissue shortage in court. But she made do with what she had. Gotta bring your own tissue to these type of affairs...

[@YACKYSNACKY]

One tissue per case!😮😢

[@latoyahynson5400]

He sounds very stupid... he is saying that he doesn't want to feel left out.... but you was doing your thing without your wife boy stop... she deserves to be treated like a queen by another man...I don't believe that he is a change man.... he just doesn't want to be alone... she should have been left him... she must like getting treated bad by him girl bye.

[@xandrafrancois]

Love is for a big part actions and choices. Love is not merely a feeling. He is a bad father for his daughters by threating his wife that way.

[@FullofSouthernCharm]

This woman is built different because the New York second I would have found out he got another woman pregnant all he would have seen was the back of me as I walked out the door!!!!

[@grimcreeper2361]

Damn, lady wasted her young years on somebody who cheats on her constantly. You only get one life.

[@hiramabiff5236]

Total craziness. There is absolutely no way a reasonable person should allow this sort of behavior to go on at all let alone this long. This man has multiple kids outside of their marriage . Her being a 49 years old woman, she still has options. Cheaters should NEVER ever be completely trusted! Never! I feel bad for this woman. Thirty years of her life have been wasted! There is no hope for her with this selfish dude!

[@janetvansky3621]

He's LAUGHING throughout this entire session. He doesn't care about her, he just wants someone to take care of him.

[@toyaward9818]

He think this is a game.grow up man

[@Sealambert]

1:17 Again. It would be nice to have footage of their previous appearances on this program regardless of who was presiding. Or at least supply a link of the episode that shows their prior appearance into the description since they have uploaded past episodes onto their KZbin channel. Just a thought.

[@delorescrawford1959]

If enough is enough...Why keep coming back on Divorce Court.. Get a Divorce

[@latoyahynson5400]

Let's be honest here because he was never no husband... he wants to act single and spend all night with his friends yeah right.. he is some woman panties all night... he doesn't deserve no another chance for what... he will always be a cheater.... time for a divorce Lady.

[@myrahonore2656]

If you cheat I’m gone period your gonna finish how you start my mom always says that.

[@latoyahynson5400]

I don't understand why her grown daughters have to go with her...to go look for him...why they are not trying to get their own place.

[@blackpowerpuff6155]

They're only 18 and 19 not 24 and 25, Geesh.

[@blackpowerpuff6155]

Also, none of them should have to go look for him. The plaintiff should have just left him.

[@6Summerville]

They asked him the wrong questions. Not every engagement with the opposite sex is sexual, therefore the questions should have used the term inappropriate instead

[@happybakergirl1292]

OK, I’m looking at my YT subscription thingy for DC, and unless there are 5 other couples named Barber, we get these same people for the next five days. He said at the end that she should be celebrating his honesty. Apparently there’s a whoooole lot more to this if we get six days worth of this couple. Buckling up for next week.

[@shirleyrussell7089]

He is JEALOUS because of WHAT HE HAS DONE. He is afraid she's gonna find someone else. Buddy you left her out for the last 16 ,17 years while you were making those other two babies SHE is TIRED and DONE SHE HAS had to swallow her pride many many times with that scrub. He stays out all night he doesn't want to lose his chef cook and bottle washer it took divorce court to make him try to change he DOESN'T RESPECT HER by STAYING OUT ALL NIGHT.

[@highlander666]

Maybe she just doesn't want to be happy🤷‍♀️

[@bessiebreedlove4888]

She like the Drama’s😂

[@pamelawyatt7792]

I need these men to stop all this lying

[@shaee0707]

He jealous cause he don’t want you to do what he doing . Trying to catch you so he would not feel guilty about what he do . He is manipulative and a liar . If you stay you might as well cheat to mamas !

[@bibbilagermand8397]

I am sorry,I thot you where lying under the test

[@cnote304]

If she wanna go let her. The streets are cold

[@queenb4561]

????

[@d820m]

and it's a cold, cold world...let her go🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@cnote304]

@@d820m 🥶🥶🥶🥶😂😂😂

[@GoodLuck-cv6xk]

So 400lish

[@HerbalQueen]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@caffeinatedkat3]

That dude in the back is so annoying and distracting lol

[@sapphiresanchez5395]

I’m an outside child & me and my step mother built a relationship and we realized we wasn’t the problem..She never mistreated me & as a child I didn’t know what she was dealing with but as an adult idk if I could’ve been that strong to even accept an outside child 😢❤

[@DiLauris]

Those polygraphs test questions should have been worded differently, had they been, he would have failed miserably!

[@eLLeBelle2484]

They need to do stuff together. Take a road trip, plan date nights, do something spontaneous. It sounds like he was cheating before but now he just consumes himself with his friends. You can’t maintain a good marriage like that. You’ve gotta find time to do fun things and make memories with your partner. Hopefully they can make it. I mean, his outside kids almost grown now 🤷🏽‍♀️🫤

[@SheilaTrueLove]

WOMEN WILL PUT UP WITH TOXIC AND ABUSIVE MEN, BUT THEY WILL THROW AWAY THEIR SO CALLED TOXIC PARENTS, OR FAMILY MEMBERS. MAKE THAT MAKE SENSE.😮

[@mimboyce6643]

I cant understand why these stinking men like this guy thinks they can get away with their dirty deeds. They are disgrace to society. The women should leave them much earlier and stop hoping for them to change. However I understand if there are children involved and if you've invested your earnings in a home etc with them. Leave them!!!

[@Black_and_Green]

The women let them

[@blackpowerpuff6155]

But they do get away with it though because women put up with it and don't leave.

[@Black_and_Green]

Naaaah. Somethings up.