One Simple Tactic to Get Her Chasing YOU

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If you're going to get to an advanced level in game, you NEED to learn how to flip the script and get girls chasing you. In fact, on a technical level, this is probably the single biggest difference between intermediate and advanced guys in game.
By the way, these clips are from Immersion program classroom sessions: toddimmersion.com

[@JavierCespedes90]

Just ask her something like "What do you think is the best trait of your personality?", and she will start selling herself to you. That is a common questoin I use to qualify them and it works well.

[@ramachandrangautaman]

this is golden

[@JavierCespedes90]

@@crimsonreactor1527 She is not interested in you my friend, or she seems pretty boring. Just move on to the next girl.

[@patrusso7278]

You just leave! She's telling you the truth!

[@ViktorZethelius]

Or maybe they reply: nothing, byee. Or: so what? Or: I'm not telling you. How d'you face that?

[@JavierCespedes90]

@@ViktorZethelius Mmm, if a girl responds with that, she is clearly not interested at all, you let it go.

[@janjansen7983]

''Game is not a situation where you win by making the fewest mistakes. Game is a situation where you win by doing the most things right, you doing them so right your mistakes don't matter.'' This is hella deep and underrated.

[@redpillwisdomseeker698]

@Alek Wolf are you having a spazz attack?

[@SammyCee23]

In other words...Play to win, not to not lose.

[@wavychico2.0]

Indeed, recovery game at its best.

[@riverdean7]

no game is bullshit

[@joelbandayrel8504]

hell yeah... fierce

[@metnoc10]

This guy is doing humanity a service.

[@Kingarthurjohn]

metnoc10 *mankind

[@AMusician11]

Basically what he said: -Seeking Validation from the girl is a NO NO

[@ebeb6924]

And yet, here you are, so desperate that you'll listen to ToddV, the kid who probably ate dirt as a child.

[@hideyoshiq7813]

Pick Up Artists are Rapists JAIL TIME, BRO! 🧂

[@k.i.d8442]

@@ebeb6924 Absolutely nothing you said made sense in that reply.

[@ashleybanks-wm4cg]

​@@hideyoshiq7813 your life is a joke if you believe that 😂😂😂😂dont be mad they took your gurl

[@hideyoshiq7813]

@@ashleybanks-wm4cg My life was four years ago, I won't lie... I don't associate with women who are so easily 'picked up' by other men. My opinion was that back then, nowadays I can see both sides of the coin and the outer picture. I respect these men for doing what they do, as most men are willing to have the drive and balls to approach in the manner 'PU artists' do. But when you look at them from an ulterior perspective, their degenerate. How does a life chasing and making women wan't you fulfill a deeper meaning to life? Its a constant want and more for a vice that ultimately cant be satiated.

[@adamskyy8103]

Damn what a game changer Todd V is. A year ago I was getting flaked on left and right, had no awareness of frame or blueprint. One year later later girls are inviting me back to their place on the first date. If you actually put in the work and don’t bullshit yourself, this will work. No one else has made game easier. We’re lucky to have this guy.

[@christianmoreno7390]

Did you sign up for one of his courses? Or just watch his free stuff?

[@ashleybanks-wm4cg]

​@@christianmoreno7390someone actually going outside and applying his teachings doesn't have to pay for anything

[@John-qh9se]

I look at very closely to Todd’s reaction while he explains game. And every single time I get a deep feeling that this guy really knows what he is talking about! RESPECT

[@fusioninc.8187]

A friend once told me that if a girl tells me she likes rock music I should pretend it's my favorite music ever etc to build attraction So I thought it's true until now, thanks for clearing that up for me!

[@meetmenowasia]

Your insights into qualifying and creating genuine connections are invaluable. Love how you break it down step by step

[@troytempleton736]

This stuff Todd says is mad, I think about my own experiences of texting girls and believe I'm just 'friends' with them. I realise now that there are so many subtle signs that they reveal their hand with that I completely overlooked

[@IAlexandreI]

Make her qualify. Soft qualifiers, statements like : "You know there's something about sportive women / adventurous people..."

[@oberynmartell8154]

4:04 bro starts rapping

[@SwagMuffin567]

Oberyn Martell lmao

[@staxxx6672]

hahaha

[@omamajohnpaul4215]

Well, it's actually 4:06.

[@justagenosfan]

thats funny

[@glackbeatz4271]

Lil Todd

[@enlightenedtrucker739]

Drive away slowly in your Bugatti Veyron.

[@blockaderunner]

That all celebrities and sports figures seem to be getting. 2.5 Million $

[@huberttwardowski1428]

Chiron*

[@huberttwardowski1428]

Veyron kinda basic broski

[@realtruth97]

A Ferrari does the same effect for less money.

[@centanhotbox84]

works with rentals and replica cars lel 1/10 of the price

[@Twisted_utopia]

You win the game when you stop playing.

[@bahaatamer1245]

This actually makes sense when you think of it: you meet a girl, show interest and the moment you realize that shes trying to classify you as a beta/someone she finds unworthy of dating, skip to the next one! - somehow those girls will sense it when you actually find someone, and so the reverse chase begins!

[@bahaatamer1245]

@Epoch plus5 call it as you wish to please, that's just the reality of how things work!

[@robertdalton1582]

@Epoch plus5 actually that's what you get by playing games with little girls. They're not gonna put out, because they're playing games

[@eduardoclari_]

Explore17 that happened to me not so long ago... everything was good and we even made plans for a date then I got ghosted out of nowhere.. I was like fuck that whatever.. so I just looked elsewhere. After she realized i wasnt going to chase she started chasing me .-.

[@celasss]

Wargames.

[@AskToddV]

Qualifying a girl properly, and not qualifying yourself (the evaluation stage of game based on the "System" model of game systembytodd.com) is probably the biggest difference between intermediate and advanced guys. So if you ever aspire to be anything beyond beginner/intermediate level in game, you should learn it. Clips in this video are from Immersion programs by the way toddimmersion.com

[@omnipotentgaming166]

This is so good, this is one of the most powerful techniques in game.

[@joilsongomes5]

gold!!!!! so many things to learn its seems like will never be enough aaaahhhhhh!!!!! enjoying every step of the journey!!!!

[@danh821]

Question: How do I qualify women in a way that feels less button pushy and more natural? I usually get done with the premise phase and think "now its time to qualify" but it almost always feels forced.

[@Apollyon.King.of.the.Locusts]

Never change yourself for a woman. First mistake, last mistake.

[@loveispatientloveiskind2205]

But yes, be your best self. If you have addiction issues. Don't put them on her, or aggression... walk off and let her feel secure and protected by you... don't compete too much with her. When you phone & text more, she'll be so relieved to see you are better at communicating than the men, that think they're clever by being too boring and silent. Mystery isn't everything, caring consideration is worth more. Compatibility is gold though

[@diarmuidbrady8987]

The way he said “well i liked volleyball” was so funny😂

[@mwirthr17]

I just want to thank you Todd for so much good advice

[@carlosbravo2971]

mwirthr17 this guy got me laid like crazy and got me a girlfriend as well

[@hippofly7313]

Explain game for college . Girls are in different mindset and in moods in college rather in club . Quite hard game because It's not easy to convince them as they Don't reply to us conveniently Because everyone in college and their frds would be looking at her.. so she hesitates to reply!! Any Advice and solution... love you man! 🙈❤❤

[@ClearChoiceMethodology]

This is the type of stuff that you say Todd and its brilliant

[@Night-Sight]

"You qualified yourself"

[@wavedave1035]

Girl: I like rock music Guy: Oh, I like rock music too Todd: Congratulations, you just qualified yourself

[@abhiraj5646]

"oh so I'm not the only one who likes rock music"

[@jackerylel]

@@abhiraj5646 who actually talks like this lmao

[@omnipotentgaming166]

A good way to flip a girls qualifier such as this one would be to Deny it and say something like “ no you aren’t you’re probably into nickelback or some boy band that call themselves rock” and then she’s now has to qualify herself to prove she actually likes “good bands” which again her answer doesn’t really matter, what matters is getting her to qualify. Good luck fellas

[@tutorialheller5800]

if you're not a fan of these you could say: "I like it, but I'm not a fan... do you?"

[@cianmcgovern720]

Hi Todd. Top content, you have the best advice I've come across. Quick question - how should game change when a man is seen as very physically attractive (in the 9-10 range by most people's standards)? As a basic example, if a guy who is quite physically attractive uses cocky/funny quite a lot will they be perceived as arrogant and turn most girls off? Would it be better to play it more laid back/humble in this situation? Would love to hear your thoughts.

[@FlowsMedia]

I was hanging with my friend and her friend. Her friend was trynnna talk to me a few times through out the night and I had went out for a smoke and ended chopping it up w this dude for a bit. when I came back she said she was worried about me, I didn’t think much of at first but later I was like hm let me follow her and she completely ignored it lol

[@allenmciver1888]

Thanks! Good information!!

[@erikbritz8095]

Hey Todd love this cause investment is my bigggest issue but what about in relationships how to keep the girl invested in a relationship? and how to keep/raise your value inside the relationship cause i have noticed even if i am busy killing it etc. the girl i am with still get's disinterested or starts getting very low investment wise?

[@TL-er5zr]

I hope my question will soon be answered on your channel Todd. If women are intimidated by your value, does game then change? More to the point, it seems like it would open more opportunity for error and looking too try-hard if attempting to execute all the steps. How is this calibration adjusted to know how to adjust?

[@maximiliankinzett2636]

It's simple, relax your game around her to begin with, let her feel relaxed that you're not trying to pick her up. Show her in your relaxed body language and speech that you are just another human being having a conversation with her. As she starts to relax then you can start flirting with her slowly bringing it to the boil.

[@kompanjonac]

Basicaly its all nuclear physics

[@mylegguy8115]

david basically

[@ghostridersinthesky21]

Nah I think nuclear physics would be easier to understand than women.

[@yokiweyy4770]

@@ghostridersinthesky21 exactly. at least you know that nuclear physics work in a certain way, not in a totally random and unpredictable way that drives you nuts

[@Thelittlematty]

Hey Todd, what do you think of psychological tools like 'the cube routine'?

[@jehriko7525]

you know something i love is when 2 different dating yt coaches tell me different things and at the same time manage to tell me logically why they work, so now im left convinced on both sides lol

[@Mario-zt4lq]

It’s a paradox where they are both true but it’s our job to find out which applies to our specific situation more at a given time and when to implement each strategy.. it takes skill, just like football and basketball etc, there are a lot of competitors but only a few are seen as the most skilled and dominant in their specific field..

[@Mario-zt4lq]

those are the ones who master the understanding and execution of those paradoxes consistently at a more successful and higher rate than the rest of the pack

[@dmitrixallo7072]

Todd what should I do when I used to talk to a girl 2 years ago (she has shown some signs of interest I think, one of which was bringing up things like “ohh you’ll be getting girls left and right” when I said i might sign up for sports, brought up similar topic I believe few times), but I can never get the flirting aspect into texting, and where I live it’s pretty ‘dead’. Another problem is that this girl I’m talking to is speaking my native language, in which I haven’t flirted/practiced beforehand

[@thegoodkindofsimp7417]

What do you say to follow up soft qualifiers? Like if she qualifies herself to you? Do you qualify her? Or do you push pull like “Oh that’s cool blah blah but idk there’s something about you that told me you’re not the sports type”

[@jzk2020]

The best way to have women chasing you is by developing yourself as a man and being a status symbol. Looks, social status, money and intelligence. Be the best possible version of yourself, have lots of friends (female and male) - a leader of people... and have your shit together.

[@ritaaleksandrovna4518]

Word. I love high status men with their finances in order but I still won’t be cashing them. Men love to chase so I allow them to do that instead. It comes natural to men who are in their masculine energy.

[@shueibdahir]

@@ritaaleksandrovna4518 Which do you think matters more? Competence or Confidence?

[@loveispatientloveiskind2205]

Not all women want you to be like that! Some are glad to have you all to themselves....knowing that she is more important to you than all the rest of it... but planning adventures together or just snuggling up and cuddling is her dream

[@Memesifoundonfacebook]

This is useless if you dont have game, this Alone can attract women but this alone wont work in keeping her attracted to you and maintaining her interest in you, u need to have a least decent game

[@woudanborson2778]

how to have more friends

[@obtsfan]

Awesome video, thanks a lot for the amazing content. I have a question: I’ll be traveling with a group of guy friends to another city soon. We’ll be clubbing each night. How do I use Tinder to meet girls that would want to bring their girlfriends out to join us? So far I’ve gotten girls interested in meeting with me for a weekend, but as soon as I mention that I’ll be clubbing with my friends and that the girl can bring her girlfriends, they disappear. Is there a way to word this correctly?

[@shueibdahir]

Basically you gave the impression that you think they're sluts and that they're easy. They knew exactly what you were actually up to and they were not interested. If i was a girl i'd feel used.

[@obtsfan]

@@shueibdahir I am aware of all of that. You didn't really answer my question though, which was whether or not there was a good way to word that to these girls. If you're saying that there is absolutely no good way to word that, then I guess that's a valid answer too. Either way, it doesn't pertain to me anymore because I've been in a serious relationship for about a year. But thanks for the input.

[@anitelufalemei4200]

Lmao this guys talking about women like it’s a subject to study. I love it.

[@Rsonny]

'Subjectifying' women lmao

[@Hshjshshjsj72727]

There's a thing called psychology and gender studies 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@englishexperts1974]

@@Hshjshshjsj72727 no need to.. women should study us

[@msredcurtains]

@@englishexperts1974yes us women are watching these videos too and studying how men think these days. To help us steer away from men who subscribe to games to get a woman. Don’t you worry, we’re watching, studying you men and sharing this knowledge with other women as well.

[@Muathalshareef2]

Please can anyone explain to me what he mean about “qualify” ? I can’t understand how to qualify girls and why qualify is very important?

[@akaaformentioned2yearoldfi910]

"Qualify her" meaning to set a specific condition ("I like girls who"). If she relates, agree or react positively ("Yes, I agree" , "Yes, I'm that kind of person" "Yes, I totally have that mind set) to what conditions you've laid out she has agreed to that mindset, she has qualified to your conditions. That's a small investment she's made to you--she's a bit closer, a bit open to you. Women like man who knows who he is and what he wants. If you're bold enough to say what you want its a plus. If she "qualifies" herself and fits that mold, its a major plus.

[@PeNGuiNZoMbiEUYA]

To qualify her means you’re looking for something about her deep within before you have sex with her. Ya know cause you’re a high value man with standards and no time to waste.

[@CommandoMaster]

Whoever qualifies themselves to the other person is the one of lower social value.

[@chicagoboy279]

What does he mean with qualify

[@k.i.d8442]

@@chicagoboy279 trying to make the person like you

[@ruburtoe1]

@@chicagoboy279 to demonstrate/testify-to/show their personal value/worthiness

[@msredcurtains]

Yeah instead of qualifying ourselves to others, we should disqualify ourselves to others 😂

[@Dave-In-Greece]

Todd! Man...I watched a few of your vida and you're a SOLID guy and coach...Bravo I'm starting a Personal Development and Dating business here in Greece soon...maybe one day we'll collab on some AWESOME projects... Be well...

[@anshul8123]

QUESTION: SOME DAYS I GET A LOT OF NUMBERS FROM DAY GAME AND SOME DAYS I GET TOTALLY BLOWN AWAY BY GIRLS. I'M GETTING SPORADIC RESULTS WHICH IS CONFUSING. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

[@filipbelciug]

used Todd's disqualification technique at work and in under a week I got a girl with boyfriend (abroad) to come to my place. Literally minutes till she arrives home.. wish me luck guys. Haven't got some in 5 years

[@ToAsTOnDeck]

Todd the beat at the end of this video. Where can I find it?

[@joshmoulton4783]

Hey Todd, love your content and your videos have helped me a lot but I was just wanting your advice for virgins. Do I lie about having sex and behave in a way where I’m sexually abundant? Just want your thoughts Ps. I’m 21 years old from Australia

[@_jamesbradley__]

Thank you so much for the excellent clip! 😎👍 ALL facts!

[@MikeHydesOfficial]

Once in a relationship what are the things to stop doing from when you first started “pick up” with her. For example, do you still do push pull?

[@voltage3692]

+1

[@1lemniscaat]

Buy Girlfriend Game from Rsd Max

[@EatYourVegs]

Can't you just be yourself once she's your girlfriend? Like why would you want to be in a relationship in which you can't just be yourself. Girls love your vunerabilites as well. It's just that first interactions confuse us about that. Game is relevant when you create a relationship with strangers mostly. Then it's not.

[@ao9297]

Yes. Once in a relationship, you need game is more critical; it cannot be 'put down'. Men have a different standard than women.

[@ao9297]

@@EatYourVegs No. This is the type of blue-pill advice that gets turns you into a basement dwelling serial murderer.

[@kacperkepinski4990]

do you have any video about how to make her investing more in interaction?

[@bestprimal9790]

So pretty much you throw in a semi-statement that blends smoothly to not risk too much on into a girl qualifying herself subtlety. Hmm, sounds understandable Todd haha

[@vicente3354]

Wish I learned this stuff sooner. Would have saved me so much time and introspection LOL

[@AngeloortizOG]

Studying game almost 2 decades now?! Dude you look 28. props!

[@jonathanharoun5247]

He started when he was 8.

[@regerbryan]

You do know he’s the youngest ever dating coach right? He was huge when he was 8 as a prodigy

[@jasonvoorhies6431]

Everyone in his class was drinking milk from cartons, he was drinking it straight from the teacher’s breast 😂

[@trolley2327]

Hi Todd! i know i will sound very AFC but still i have this question. from time to time, i see some girls that they have such wonderful personalities that i almost feel awkward to "game" them, after a certain point. specially physical escalation. is there a fix for this? ( or maybe you can ask my question in a better way).

[@aygwm]

You’re putting them on a pedestal. Spark attraction, but keep them at arm’s length is key. Drop the nice guy mentality “wow her personality is so nice I should really take her seriously” and create some distance.

[@grs5597]

Man! You are good! No, wrong. You are the best!

[@josephgallo4625]

What's the video explaining open, premise, evaluate, narrative, close?

[@DanXD21]

it's called "The system": systembytodd.com

[@ArikNewman]

Hey Todd , My text game is great and huge amount of girls go out with me because i'm flirting , funny and playfull but in the real date i'm less that person how do i close that gap ?

[@teamReW1ndscooters]

How to re-open a set in text game or day/nightgame after being clingy first, given power away and consequently the girl has lost her interest?

[@bahaatamer1245]

Pull back and find another girl! - if you're lucky, she will sense it and come by chasing you and when it happens, the choice is yours!

[@robertdalton1582]

What was the one simple tactic?

[@Yes24275]

Hes lookin calm. Thats dope

[@amantv3876]

some times when i approches the set goes well the at moment.she is lauging,showing sign she likes me at moment.but later she did not reply or come on date.what I'm doing wrong?

[@667DOOM]

maybe you are too nice.

[@Rawyalty220]

Maybe u overstepped

[@ashleybanks-wm4cg]

Todd you legit got all the game we need more young men need to leave other channels and come to yours

[@lukaszwybieralski7516]

Hey Todd, I gotta quite important question. I can get dozens of numbers by daygaming but like 50% of meetings I set up with girls are never happening. I usually get number and call/text her and after setting up the meeting, let's say in four days, i'm done with conversation. When the day of meeting comes, I call or text again and girls don't response or they text me they can't blabla. I always have plenty of numbers so it's not a big deal but i feel I must be fucking something up at some point but don't know what and where. Any suggesions? Btw. you're the best man ;)

[@lewdkingdomdoujinshi8801]

Lukasz Wybieralski they don't seem really interested in you and it may be that they are only giving you their number to get you to leave them alone

[@lukaszwybieralski7516]

@@lewdkingdomdoujinshi8801 I usually do indirects and talk with them first to see how i goes, usually talk is good. And I also used to do Mysterys trick to get the number "oh i gotta go but i'd finish this talk later" and like 9/10 gives me it. It's not the case though, sometimes they themselves suggest meeting at specific day and time and then they get flaky. I still get many dates though so don't give a fuck (nexting) but i cant understand logic behind it. But yeah, you must be right, apparently

[@TheTeodor97]

Man, you’re setting the date way too far after the interaction. In 4 days she has plenty of time to forget you, meet someone new and even go to a date with someone she’s been talking before meeting you. What’s more than 2 days it simply fucks you’re chances to meet her and increases the chances on her to flake. Another reason why girls would flake is that they aren’t yet feeling comfortable enough to meet you, that’s why you need to solidify your interaction by sending her voice/video messages and even FaceTime her (the best).

[@kaizenborntowin]

Thank you!

[@pashaboss6]

The only piece i haven't nailed yet is qualifying.. then I'd be invincible

[@romarafizade7157]

Hey Todd, I’m your fan from Russia I got only one question to you, after the first date, girls rarely text me, or call Should I always wait until they gonna text me first , or it’s a normal thing that I have to text first and don’t wait?

[@HieuTran-bj4nf]

Yes its normal to call first. i recommend not to text and just call. and only call or text to meet up!!!

[@shammarishammari8214]

What I want to know is how to do the opposite. If you get into a relationship with a girl you THOUGHT you screened but after a couple of months into an actual relationship you see another side of her and want to get out, but she seems scarily stalkerish and you don't want her to mess up your life, how do you get HER to want to leave YOU alone?

[@simosavustaja9420]

i love you, i wanna be with you every second of my life, im afraid you leave me, i cry every day when i dont see you, don't you love me? lets get married. i feel strange even typing that.

[@jerryjr2287]

How long does it take to learn game

[@daniel100592]

How do you recommend weaning off so much pickup theory when you're out, to just TRUSTING YOURSELF to have good interactions and remain in the process?

[@SwagMuffin567]

Daniel Son it’s all about being yourself while having a good system when you approach a girl so you don’t embarrass yourself. you should be yourself while trying to implement different parts of game slowly.

[@tophatsheep3747]

Listen to what he said (Advaith padi, him)

[@mikereilly9701]

Practice practice practice

[@thorthegod3854]

Todd i can get girls attracted towords me. But after some interaction my vibes with a girl seem like fading away. My Question here is how can i kept a girl attracted to me for a long term?

[@HA-no3jh]

Thor The God Dont smile and laugh too much to her because the one who is smiling and laughing in a conversation more is mostly the beta one, the one with the "please like me, you are so funny look how I laugh" attitude dont be too nice, be nice AND cocky. make her a little angy just to soften her instantly afterwards with "im just joking - topic change" dont answer all her questions when you answer all her questions as asked you will put urself in a beta position, she will get the feeling "oh look he is sweet slave, i get all the answers I need from him, he is my dog and I am the master" its all about being a nice, patient, self confident alpha

[@AaronHernandez352]

Anyone know what the Song is at the end of the video⁉️

[@JordanPetersonItalia]

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[@mrpoopoopantz4923]

Todd i need advice, how do i get to be with a girl that knows that i’ve liked her for a long time.(btw we aren’t close, i just notice that she notices me whenever i look at her)

[@anavarzau4984]

😂 imagine going to a lecture like this! Wow

[@michaelmota4602]

Lol like a class in college. Game 111: Qualification - Instructor: Todd

[@michaeldodaro]

Todd must have the contact of every single girl in every city in the states

[@BrentVIDSZ]

I'm talking to this girl I've had 3 dates with, all dates went really well, now something happened at her job which she got very pissed about. All of a sudden she isn't texting me anymore, if I text her she replies a lot later than normal with dumb ass answers or just leaves me on read. So I told her like, Yo I thought u were direct, if somethings wrong, tell me. (She then told me she's pissed lately cause of the thing that happened at work). How the hell do I deal with this? Should I just ignore here since trying to talk to her just makes me look needy cause of her answers, or should I just keep showing interest even tho her answers are shit... This happened all of a sudden so I don't think it's a mistake I have made

[@quesobabas6940]

Wait, she’ll text or call you back.

[@BrentVIDSZ]

@@quesobabas6940 well.. She hasnt 😂 but I don't give a fuck about it anymore so.. 😂

[@collincapps63]

Qualify!

[@brayanaldape5621]

What do you say when girls say ohh I’m ugly or I wish I was cute but there like a solid 8 do you say your gorgeous or ignore it???

[@667DOOM]

hot girls know theyre hot. never give them what they actual want. she was fishing for compliments, dont give her compliments. this is the only way to keep her chasing you instead of you chasing her. never comply with their demands!

[@jjlatinopedia]

Tell her, "not everyone is pretty. You just have to have a great personality to make up for it."

[@aygwm]

Whenever a girl talks about her own looks to you she is fishing for a compliment. Don’t validate.

[@masteroflions1183]

Compliment the girl with her personality

[@shoooby26]

Hey Todd I have a questions, me and my friend really enjoy spending time together, so I was catching feeling, so I send her a message to let her know and I said that I don’t want this and let’s not meet up. Did I do the right thing? Or should I have not told her and start distancing?

[@keiranmorrisart]

Honesty is a good thing

[@shoooby26]

Keiran Morris Art thank you

[@shadowblack10]

How’s this going?

[@papaainsl3705]

i have one question tho , what if literally we talk and there are many things in common , even on a level , of what kind of tea we like

[@addk4279]

How do you deal with girls that are going through heartbreak; they don't want to be flirted with or be in relationships?

[@aidanbotha3320]

Add K when you find out let me know please🙄

[@masteroflions1183]

Honestly its one of the best time to pick up a girl bec they are looking for validation

[@AngelTorres-vu7wj]

Hey Todd, so I'm going on a date soon but I'm aware that she's interested in another guy and I had moments in the past where my dates start to talk about other men. The conversation topic is really boring and I can care less about the other guy. What should I do when the conversation topic pops up or am I okay to tell them that I have no interest in the topic?

[@jjlatinopedia]

Grow some balls, then tell her politely that you would prefer not to talk about another man. Simple.

[@pIayingwithmahwii]

***QUESTION: I’m good enough at cold approach, and I can get a lot of girls on dates, but whenever I try to get sexual or intimate they pull away, and usually after the first date they ghost me. On the dates I’m just being myself. WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?***

[@pIayingwithmahwii]

How do I get them to like me and be sexual with me on the first date or after?

[@nicolobennati8994]

You need to describe more what you’re doing on the date for us to know what you’re doing wrong, you probably arnt making them feel comfortable with you and arnt spiking their emotions the majority of women will sleep with you pretty fast (first time) if they are attracted to you and feel comfortable around you some do force themselves to wait but even with them it shouldn’t take more then 3-4 dates to get extremely sexual have sex. Also just depends on where you meet them and logistics it’s obviously way harder to sleep with a girl on the spot if you meet her and the grocery store rather than the nightclub

[@aygwm]

You might just be coming off a bit too thirsty, and perhaps a bit too open. Mystery is sexy, and you need to go in with the mentality that you have nothing to prove, but have an agenda of creating attraction, nothing else.

[@bLaZe0kid]

Song at the end?

[@JordanPetersonItalia]

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[@jeffreyfay1849]

Hey Todd, I first learned about “learning game” on your channel a few years ago. Started going out a few months ago, and turns out I’m a “dance god.” Entire clubs/festivals are in awe of my moves and I cant help but feel girls expect my game to be on the same level. How do I have normal interactions from a pedestal?

[@michah321]

But it's fair and respectful to look for an indication that she actually likes you before preceding in getting to know a woman.

[@robertl.7657]

Could you explain relationship between compliance and Comfort, Rapport, ? Have seen few or none videos or posts about this,

[@alexcruzship3683]

What’s the steps you need to go from Evaluation to Narrative and what do you need the girl to do to know I test to transition to Narrative.

[@dax2480]

Narrative is present from the moment you open her. Think of narrative as the overall story of you and her in her mind.

[@Georgious]

Kahlius Maximus is right Narritive happens from the first moment, perhaps we can think of narritive as a fase when you can safely bring it up. You know when todd infield says things to girls like; "like yeah, you just met this great guy at starbucks, and then he took you on a date and you told all your friends, and we lived happily ever after." Now he brought up what happend during the date and creates this picture of what will happen in the future.

[@exposehim4601]

You’re thinking about this way too much

[@ColtSSR]

@@exposehim4601 not getting any huh?

[@gpczeppelin9625]

Hi Todd, so this is a somewhat rare situation but maybe a lot of people can relate: what if the girl says that another guy will be joining the date, when she was the one inviting me and planning it? If I agree, I look Beta and get friendzoned, cause it isnt a date anymore. If I say that it is a problem, I look jealous, even though it's entitled

[@dbsllama6042]

If it's a date, another guy shouldn't be there. Let her know she's free to go on a date with the other guy and she can hit you up 1 on 1 for a date between just yall. This establishes your willingness to walk away and your higher value

[@jjlatinopedia]

Grow some balls! That's the first thing. If another man is joining bc she invited him, flake and move on. Simple.

[@qazmko22]

One of the powerful things that "nice guys" (sweet, emotional, vulnerable) can do as a super power is be very sensitive and tailor their qualifications based on very specific qualities that she has. They can also speak from their core, with both of those you can very powerfully qualify someone and very powerfully seduce someone.

[@AlexKosSaheli]

How do I hint for a date?

[@reinhardn7295]

what song is playing at the end???

[@JordanPetersonItalia]

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[@PhantasticTruth]

Open, premise, evaluate, close. *takes drill, drills into head*

[@ColtSSR]

Wat

[@alute5532]

Make most things right so that your mistakes don't matter Usually we qualify ourselves so how to get get to qualify her self Open premise qualify

[@ManicTulip76]

Ohh mentioning the man Mystery himself.

[@Mark-fe8qw]

My man be looking like David Guetta

[@niinjaslayer6394]

Very good video, opposite of what you did to the large guy in the bar with her. You tried qualifying yourself. But yes, make her qualify herself to you by paying near zero attention.

[@HawaiianCrow]

Suuuch a powerful video!

[@TickleFN]

wtf does it mean to qualify??

[@BeOutstanding]

Yoz Thank You Man Dun chan ur beh Get the girl to qualify herself Do so many yhings to correct wrong Soft qualifier I used to do spoets and loce sports

[@remissiveslave]

If I take my hat off she'll runaway.

[@MaxMustermann-if9rf]

What is the name of the outro-song? Btw love your vids!

[@JordanPetersonItalia]

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[@berndlurk5548]

4:06 "oh you are a pretty girl but beauty is ??? b ?? is ?? looks ??? besides makes me ??? more to get you know me better" what are you mumbling?

[@ramiszinal5818]

This is advanced level dudeee

[@NightOfCrystals]

Beauty is common so what else do you have to offer me

[@costanzauk]

Didn’t seem all that simple lol :)