Only Be Concerned with One Man From a Woman's Past

[@timm.5403]

I was getting a haircut one time and I asked the woman who was cutting my hair how she got into learning that profession and she told me that she once dated a barber. I immediately knew that was her imprint, the way she answered that question told me everything I needed to know.

[@meezy3188]

Damn

[@Happy-Me.]

So true! I know this scenario!

[@Daniel-Deshaun]

I find that women rack up a body count just to fill the void left by that ghost

[@Jahfariinternational]

Sometimes that ''one man'' could be a bigger threat to your new relationship than the men your woman had ''fun sex'' with.

[@TM-ew4kn]

If you get her mind, then you got her emotions.

[@luke304]

Bingo

[@legacyrus_fit7505]

Thanks Rom, this “body count” thing has played on my mind a few times. But after listening to this video, it has really helped me out a lot so thank you 👏🏾💯

[@frankiegunnz8066]

Hey brother, donate If Rom has helped you. We all need these gems he be dropping. ✌

[@johnd3721]

Always tried to leave a shorty better than when I first met her. There was still that immature side of me that was into snatching their souls and having them wrapped around my finger like breaking up with them and leaving them with sentimental gifts that whenever they look at or use it reminds them of me. Others after messing around would try to get me to date them and after shutting it down they’d end up with a dude that looks and dress like me. Even if I knew there was no future in the relationship I at least tried to be that prototype.

[@daseanmordgin5123]

Deep,brothA...deep

[@user-ws2fj6ie9u]

May I ask why you had issues with commitment?

[@johnd3721]

@@user-ws2fj6ie9u Disinterest, lack of patience, emotional unavailability, boredom. Also always found it easier to pack up and leave. At some point you realize what's the point of carrying a burden (a relationship) if its not going anywhere when you can just put it down and move on.

[@banderas2000]

emotional and spiritual connection is key. sex is just the icing on the cake to get her to feel that "love" for you. to further enslave her to you. they talk about this as well in the "art of seduction". how women just need some at times. and "love" is just a feeling that a man who knows how to enter her spirit will give her. but it is powerful

[@busyrand]

Inexperience is a major variable in a woman's life. I've always felt that the low-count, virgin thing was overrated and those women have a Disney/Barbie fantasy outlook on life. They tend to run predictable intimacy patterns and expect to be praised for it. Similarly, many high-count women tend to be good at repeating bad patterns well. I've never thought body count was predictable in terms of expected outcomes. I've been disappointed the most by women I knew who were very experienced. The task is the same in my mind regardless. High-quality intimacy is so rare that her previous experience is not something I'm concerned with. If she's had good experiences before, she'll value you like a connoisseur sommelier does a fine wine/spirit. If she's inexperienced, she may be difficult to train, but she'll value you possibly too much in a needy/smothering way. For the record... I'm that guy for at least two women right now which is why I never looked back once things didn't work out so their current partner has a real chance.

[@frantzgabriel2755]

@busyrand interesting remark! Inexperienced myself (grew up pretty Christian) but this is a more grounded view of things

[@busyrand]

@@frantzgabriel2755 Thank you Sir... You'll see what I'm talking about as you experience life. It's not as predictable as people think. There's a level of high count where women need to be made to bond with their children. "True to the Game " Pim:ps proactively make their women take time to bond with their children. However, those women do bond strongly to their P-imp, which is completely counter to what RP Guys say all the time. Women in the adult industry often end up married. You see?... It's not predictable in the exclusive way people think of it.

[@foreverrunwayfashionline448]

If ray j wanted to get back with Kim she would drop everything to go back to him that’s the difference between him n Kanye

[@TorLA575]

I had a ex tell me one time when she called me after a breakup that whenever she played a certain songs that me and her used to love listening to she would always think of me she said she also played it around this new guy to. I was 19 at the time even though she was dealing with a new guy as well. I don’t know if you count that uncle rom but those kind of small imprints are always flags to me. I also think this goes into the arena of spirituality with relationships in the exchange of energy and thats stuff that you also cover rom that a lot of guys don’t pay attention to.

[@cygnusprime6728]

This reminds me of one of your videos, I think it was alpha widows? The women who despite being pretty and having good personalities will be single for years. That's because the "one guy" in their life left such a strong impression they won't entertain just any old guy, not even for casual sex. Until another guy of a similar caliber shows up who she can click with she simply isn't interested.

[@eliXerxes]

💯

[@FreedomLocs]

It's been so hard to wrap my head around this body count thing. Then I decided it don't matter cos I won't ever get the right answer anyway. Now it's a wrap. Thanks Uncle Rom

[@WarriorWillTv]

Uncle ROM, what about the one that got away? The man that the woman really lusted for and wanted but she could never get with for whatever reason?

[@RomWills]

He has her heart.

[@Yabani-Ra]

Great video Rom. As men, when we put ourselves first and not the women, we always win. Men listen too much on what women want and not on what they want. That's why they lose. Then your woman chooses a guy like me. FACTS

[@denzel9455]

They all have ONE guy they will never get over and in a lot of situations it's not even the guy they procreate with. - When you deal with women you should know that unless you don't have the experience.

[@luke304]

Factssss

[@blackhawk6695]

Teach!!!!

[@redgemini9851]

Every experience adds depth to ones imprint. A short fling may have left the deepest impact of all and investing prime time is something we never get back.

[@Kevin-qr6rx]

I had to register what was being said since I was confused. The example you gave with the woman who had sex with 20 guys (no emotional attachment) and the woman who have sex with 5 guys, but has 1 or two ghosts was good. Before, I most likely would've looked favorably on the second one. Hearing what you said and my current value system, the deeper issue with these two women are discipline. Discipline with their emotions (lower count women) Discipline with their bodies (higher count, carnal based women) Without these two, then a "my bad" situation would likely occur. This goes into what you mentioned in your other video. It is important to go below the surface when it comes to interacting or dealing with a woman.

[@kingk.2547]

A woman I known for years still have pics of me. Back of me at 22 I’m 31 now i ask why. She’s never honest about it. Even have thirst traps she always trying to come back in my life.

[@cammelhurse5118]

That makes sense OG and My bro mentioned something like this a lot he said “Women can be attached to their past or they can cling to their past”. Gotta share this with the team.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Let a woman be a woman. Emotional beats logic but being in your feelings will let you loose the guy. Women are the most interesting creatures on earth. Connections between women and men are legendary. It's the only one that makes sense. Being inside of here is a start but going deep in her soul is the connection you probably need. Women fall in love when they are in your presence. And when she really loves you it's goes deeper than that. Beyond just sleeping with each other. Always be aware and like I said before pay attention guys. 👊🤙

[@juliustrinidad342]

Let a woman be a woman* no disrespect but when preaching think about how to type something right.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

@@juliustrinidad342 ok. 😉

[@gabryelle.a]

Ilusion! Love no exist in real life! Humans no love! Men open your eyes! This world no exist love! Is ilusion! 🙃😃

[@thatboyly]

It’s like every time I have an encounter in my life you always bring it up. I’ve experienced both sides to what you’re saying unc. On one side it definitely is looking at her actions, she’s almost tailored to her last man. She’s not yours she just yours for the time being. While when you imprint a woman, all she can see is you. Uncle Rom never lies. 💯

[@Ajay.427]

Yep facts, I know a female who who still crazy about her ex. I asked her "does your husband know about him" . she said "no he didn't ask". I thinking why did he not even ask her

[@CoachBrodieDharma]

Overstimulation leads to sexual duplicity. 1 man can overstimulate a woman and a woman could have had mediocre sex with 30 men. A woman could have been masculine-submissive or feminine-dominant, but if she’s been feminine-submissive with a man who took her further sexually, mentally, and emotionally than you can, it doesn’t matter if it was 1 or 50 men in her past. that’s why a man has to develop his sexual energy and his mind There’s no substitute for Good D & Guidance

[@Undone545]

straight facts!

[@thecount_1957]

Would you ever cover a topic for Men who want to be married and have a family?

[@RomWills]

A man applying what I talk about gives him the options to do what he wants with women whether it's being a player or getting married.

[@thecount_1957]

@@RomWills I hear you.

[@Giopowered]

If she don’t lust over you, don’t marry her video. Also most marriages are sexless= divorce

[@hl5032]

Thank you Rom for teaching us the real art of dealing with women past the ghost 👻 one was really deep but totally understand what you’re saying deep stuff.

[@JT-ef2qy]

Does she keep stuffed animals? Ask her the story behind how and where she got them 😉

[@perryfeig9352]

buh there is this aspect i am always curious about, can she be emotionally attached to a guy she never get intimate with? been 5 years now and two of the girls from high school, i never slept with are always checking on me sneakily buh i don't want to be confused

[@RomWills]

Yes it's possible.

[@perryfeig9352]

@@RomWillsWOW that's deep

[@TrillBill]

Yeah, the body count thing never really bothered me, personally. I was more focused on being her 'best' or at least Top 4. Plus, I don't plan on getting married any time soon.

[@brotherumarj3370]

I remember someone mentioning the guy who introduced her to BDSM is someone she will always remember fondly, especially if the man was very experienced in BDSM.

[@busyrand]

Hmmm... I may know a thing or two about this topic...

[@brotherumarj3370]

@@busyrand share your experiences with the men. I think light BDSM is absolutely necessary in every man's seduction tool box.

[@banderas2000]

@@brotherumarj3370 i agree. it is.

[@cygnusprime6728]

My ex got into bdsm years before we got together and demanded that I give it a try. It's obvious looking back on it the guy had a major effect on her psyche.

[@brotherumarj3370]

@@cygnusprime6728 , unfortunately, it does. She can never go back to regular vanilla sex.

[@yourinthematrix4062]

Yup nailed again. It all depend on who she emotionally attached to

[@waakiylhardy3888]

Late for class as usual.I encourage you to research " Here We Go Again" Isley Brothers.That perfectly describes my relationship.Such a patient woman.Once again I said hurtful things.Lets put this in context. frustrated in general.Havent seen her in person in quite a while.All we need is intamacy.Haters please sit down.I speak on anything I wish.Just ignore me. I'm talking to Rom.I will confidently show my face to anyone who has a problem with anything I say.Just worry about yourself.Shameless plug.Im from Brooklyn.And I can say with confidence ..I had more success with women than most.Got pictures and homade movies.Just talking my shit.Feel free to delete I'm clearly wilding.

[@jajajaja2624]

Let me just just say from my personal experience . It can happen can be both women married , single , 4 mos pregnant HBC if he's that kind guy . I know a 304 thotee now living with man but there's one man who has her soul in his hands and the dude she living with knows it . I know what to look for without asking . Just the last week I went to the store were this girl works I walked in and said hi and walked to the back of the store two minutes later here she followed me . My old girlfriend let me stay at one of houses I know her husband felt some kind of way mother said that's crazy

[@therealmicmountain]

The last woman I was in love with won't let her Jamaican ex-husband go...she mentioned him when we first talked.....I said Nope Im gone lol

[@harveygosal]

If she's emotional attached to a man does that mean that he has her heart? I've heard (I'm not certain) that the heart is something that most women don't know how to give, is that true?

[@RomWills]

Yes.

[@rjam7760]

@@RomWills The Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck Situation is another example of this Game you dropped Uncle...

[@shannongreen1520]

I remember watching "Sexlife" when you had mentioned it last year. Man, the information spoken on this video and the series is informative and should be placed in your toolbox for your benefit. Great series. Hopefully they have a second season. Appreciate you for this awesome message. Peace Rom.

[@TrillBill]

I heard it got renewed for a 2nd season.

[@ramelhagins6698]

Yes good Netfix series.

[@Ajay.427]

Last question can a female be emotional attact to you without having sex with her?

[@RomWills]

Yes.

[@Ajay.427]

@@RomWills thank you uncle rom

[@wardellm.291]

That intro is 🔥. Keep up the great work big bro!!!

[@Mar.C88]

This was spot on. I've been talking to this woman for awhile now and we have built a solid connection. The problem is I'm not sure if she is fully over her ex and father of her 2 kids. It's funny because when I saw him he definitely looked like my cousin lol. She just recently stopped posting pics of them on social media, not sure if that has anything to do with me but I'm just going to stay cool and let this play out.

[@MsJoyce31202]

👍

[@kennethyoung4892]

I have a friend and she admitted that most men she slept with she wasn't emotionally attached to

[@diegobriones9219]

Rom, I know C Boogie talks about “Being HIM” a lot but how does this relate? In other words, I know the imprint is a non-negotiable but how do you know if you turned or are turning out a woman emotionally + sexually?

[@bharris0619]

Thank you for explaining this...this really makes it clear.

[@redpillnow9127]

I remember once when I met my ex's new boyfriend I was shocked, we were typically twins... the build, but especially the clothing !!! so weird

[@oy3ah2025]

Shit getting real deep ante it!!! Lolol damn Rom lolol This title crazyyy gonna have these guys panicking ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 10/10 -OY3AH!

[@oy3ah2025]

He said only (1) lolol damn this video shall be interesting let’s learn.

[@c_rob1]

I was certain the one man would be her Dad lol. In my experiences, everything starts there. I like your perspective as well though.

[@GokuBlack-sn5dr]

golden information.

[@AyeYoZay]

Well ill be damned *watches more of the video* Well I’ll be even more damned

[@asowerofseed4896]

Hmmm! "The Ghost"... This is a new one for me! Something more to find out from a current woman I may snatch up. Thank you, Uncle Rom! Respect!

[@GainsRLife]

You can be a woman’s imprint without touching her if her family speaks highly of you and you were there for her in times of real need you will always be a threat

[@RomWills]

No you can't. I was the one who introduced the imprint concept to this space. kzbin.info/www/bejne/mZ_TqYaXrJp9rdE The imprint is a combination of the first three men who penetrates a woman sexually.

[@Rhianos]

Nah fam a imprint is just a subject of the person who fuck her does not mean that a girl feels good bout it but the point of this video's shows if you have her heart then any sex that she has no effect

[@jaygray0]

You dropping gems!

[@WeeHooLIVE]

Wow! This all makes A LOT of sense...great breakdown, bro! SALUTE!

[@ronaldnene2110]

Mr Rom what about the energies she comes with due to the intimate partners she had?... I need your wisdom on this uncle Rom

[@RomWills]

It's only a factor if she has an emotional connection. Many women have sex without an emotional connection.

[@ronaldnene2110]

@@RomWills thanks Uncle Rom I appreciate you taking your time to reply.

[@mthunzimadikizela611]

Straight facts ❤

[@vrrtvrrt5700]

Crazy game uncle appreciate you

[@FoxxAddamz1]

💎💎

[@LG-ns5rk]

Jill Scott - Cross My Mind...

[@oneweapon]

So it's all a competition..

[@thecount_1957]

Deep knowledge in this one!

[@5ball638]

I don't care about her history, as long as she doesn't have more than me. And I'll even let that slide if she's older. Men are naturally hypogamists and, to us, high body count and "special acts" (such as 3-ways, public seggs, etc) - reflect status.

[@easyyeye]

5:30 yea I’m thinkin how Ik one girl no matter how much time has past I’m always allowed back with open arms. Some women want a man more den he wants her.

[@frankiegunnz8066]

Question: How do we men get a particular woman emotionally hook on us?

[@badboyonly1DW]

Very good question

[@Rhianos]

Romantic intoxication or others wise pleasure

[@MegaBladerunner007]

An intersting analysis that makes sense.

[@vanhuvanhuvese2738]

Rom Never lies

[@Mogul_philosopher]

Just realized I’m the Ghost

[@YTOW85]

Top notch game like always!!!!💯💯💯

[@Jamesm334]

This is real good info here I always wondered how long it takes for a woman who was emotionally tied to a man to get over him and those emotional ties are gone it's difficult to figure out? I think tht once she starts having kids with the new man it could accelerate the untying of those emotions she had when she was with him even though they were together for 9+ years.

[@vickgeneral7549]

Brother Rom hit home with this vid, thanks Brother Rom! 😎🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🗽

[@Soulprovidersings]

Dont forget the same name bro these people are something serious but u are speaking the truth frfr keep it up

[@gsoney4048]

3:42 Just Like Adult Video Stars..

[@blazink50]

Real good video I think this applies to guys also some dudes had that one chick also

[@mistakook1616]

But what if that woman that only had that 1 sexual partner did not have an emotional connection with that first guy.

[@RomWills]

Still part of her imprint which is a combination of the first three men to physically penetrate her.

[@fitforfreelance]

Good stuff to think about here 🤔

[@Afreefamilyman]

IT'S A COLD GAME. TALK THAT TALK

[@brianince4546]

So does that mean the woman that comes back to u is emotionally connected to u even knowing both times u have always had a girlfriend besides her wen she left u and still do? Or is she just running back to u wen shit doesn't work out for her? 🤔

[@RomWills]

She'll find a way back if there is a opening.

[@brianince4546]

@@RomWills Thanks for the feedback

[@ramizzy111]

FAAAAACCCTTTSSS!!!!!

[@JayGrinding]

💯

[@blackdoggmechanics]

👍

[@Ajay.427]

Uncle rom what do you think the solution would be for this situation?

[@RomWills]

Be the best man for her. Women have been this way since the beginning of the species.

[@Ajay.427]

@@RomWills thank you uncle rom

[@youhavemadeagra]

Thank you for this Heavy game Uncle Rom this is very much appreciated on our journey through masculine mastery ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿 #CLARITY

[@RickysCorner7]

Yes Sir ❤

[@WisdomLORD]

Happy Belated!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@dravenraven1589]

Rom Signs from your woman you are the new imprint ?

[@RomWills]

There is never a new imprint. The imprint is the combination of the first three men that have penetrated a woman. It stays with her for life.

[@MiguelMezaFit]

@@RomWills is there anyway that one imprint is better than the other 2 out of the 3 guys ? I was her 2nd and I looked just like the damn guy. I’m currently trying to be better and not bitter but the situation resonated with me too much.. lmk uncle rom!

[@MiguelMezaFit]

@@RomWills I’m thinking since he’s the first and I was taken into account most likely for looking like the guy, he is the 👻 and I was a rebound ? Yet as the 2nd I probably added to the top 3

[@diegobriones9219]

I think you’re most likely trying to ask for signs to know if “You’re HIM” in the eyes of women. I would look at C Boogie’s content, he goes deep into this.

[@MiguelMezaFit]

@@diegobriones9219 do you know the specific titile of the video ?

[@iamme4494]

My wife cheated on her last husband with a white married man and wanted to stay friends with him while we’re together. What does that mean?

[@Dreadheadezz]

That if you don’t kick her to the curb now you’ll be next if you’re not already 😭😭

[@RealJayNice]

Do not under any circumstances get with a woman who has cheated with a man in her past. A cheater is always a cheater. Also her being friends with him just means he’s sending her home to you well pleased. If I were you go get yourself another woman.

[@781TheVbyz]

Time to go

[@YTOW85]

😭😭😭😭

[@FightStrategistMMA]

Smh you in trouble my man…

[@OMGKRU]

Hey Rom. I understand what you're saying in this video but how does a man ever get past the fact that a woman ( especially one that you would like to lock down ) has had a high bodycount before you? How can you expect her to be loyal if shes had so many sexual encounters with different men before you? Can a woman with a high body count be a quality woman? And how do you not associate high body count to a woman being easy to get with?

[@RomWills]

You either deal with her or you don't. Ultimately a man has to comfortable with the woman in his life. Is the woman an asset or a liability?

[@iNeed2DeleteYouTube]

Tuned into Rom on daily while I’m working on the body game in the gym. 💪🏿