Dusties are mad y’all ….. when do you think they will stop crying and just go get more money? 1 year 2 years Never?
@calyncea8 ай бұрын
Never
@NonProphet5008 ай бұрын
It's 2024 and women are doing financially better than ever and still have broke azz attitudes. Men don't have to settle anymore for broke women and be providers because these women have money. My money is my money and her money is my money....this ain't 2023
@Frances-zw2ug8 ай бұрын
Never
@NonProphet5008 ай бұрын
Men can cook and clean for ourselves now. What do we need a woman for if she doesn't use her education to pay our bills? If I have to be soft to do the things she won't do, I don't need no woman.
@Shaylaraeworld8 ай бұрын
never
@veebee698 ай бұрын
I'm a woman, nothing about me is free. Not even my trust! 👏👏👏
@kenziereyz8 ай бұрын
REAL
@Blackpillassemble8 ай бұрын
Yeah right, You'll let a inmate knock you up for free😂😂
@pmthert5238 ай бұрын
If you're broke just say that
@kenziereyz8 ай бұрын
@@pmthert523 if you want a pickmesha, go find her !!! you're not the target here
@blue753138 ай бұрын
Who hurt you?? Drizzle drizzle
@JP-fi1ny8 ай бұрын
Not only revenge they always want “closure”smh
@lisalisa32238 ай бұрын
Closure is pointless. Leave quietly.
@kenyareid8 ай бұрын
Closure is a trick and set up
@JP-fi1ny8 ай бұрын
@@lisalisa3223exactly men do it all the time.
@WhitneyKM8 ай бұрын
@@lisalisa3223I just tell myself whatever story I need to tell myself I need to and then get going this applies to friendships as well .
@msch38918 ай бұрын
😂🤣 I didn't want to laugh but it's so true about that needing closure to move on. They know what happened. There's someone else. He is done and doing what he wants.
@LatoyaBanks-4448 ай бұрын
Don't get revenge, Dust yourself off and Level Up👑💞💯
@Amethyst4548 ай бұрын
Best revenge is your paper. -Beyonce
@LatoyaBanks-4448 ай бұрын
@@Amethyst454, Periodt,💯💯💯
@Businessnotcasual8 ай бұрын
Amen Sprinkle sprinkle
@KILLEMALLTWICE8 ай бұрын
If she's broke, I don't poke. You females better have a car, a job, and a refrigerator full of Capri Sun during my gaming time. Drizzle Drizzle
@regiment65418 ай бұрын
@@LatoyaBanks-444yeah dust yourselves off Dusty’s 😂 Drizzle Drizzle
@lovniqueblackwell74258 ай бұрын
"Single until you're MARRIED" I say this all the time 💯🎯
@natashadickson48198 ай бұрын
It's sad that people have to be told this.
@natashadickson48198 ай бұрын
@@KermdoubleO7 Drizzle some more, for KZbin algorithm. Thank you. 💰
@natashadickson48198 ай бұрын
@@KermdoubleO7 More! ❤️ 💰 😃
@neneosei71688 ай бұрын
Even when your 'married' can still. What if you got married then the man changed or didn't provide or give you money for yourself?
@natashadickson48198 ай бұрын
@@neneosei7168 If he changes, match his energy. He'll probably leave when you treat him the same way he treats you.
@jocelyne_segundo8 ай бұрын
Best revenge is leveling up beyond their level and doing better with class 🎉
@elperropapo16688 ай бұрын
@sheraseven "Do I look like I watch sports?" My favorite comment to a man. I've been saying this for years. Can't stand when a man tries me to watch sports!
@emileebgonzalez8 ай бұрын
honestly wish my family taught me this why did the women in my family all pretend that the fairytale was real
@Lynda-t6z8 ай бұрын
AMEN!!!
@SummarKnox7 ай бұрын
Because they still believe it’s real. Forever chasing it.
@fillistine8 ай бұрын
Yes! Get out of your own mind! Revenge is allllll about you and nobody else! I agree. Thank you SheRa. Accountability!
@fatimahmingo6232 ай бұрын
Exactly and I am learning that revenge on men is pointless put that energy into yourself
@Helloo_oo8 ай бұрын
Yeap, every time I said, "At least I got away with sth," I tend to move on quickly! But the moment I just gave and gave foolishly, getting nothing in return, just heartbreak, I be so bitter about it!😂😂 Shera, be saying the truutthh!!👌👌
@zaidarivas71528 ай бұрын
Success is the best revenge. Leveling up is the best revenge.
@janesejones43727 ай бұрын
All men really do have money! Despite their job. They bet, gamble with each other, video game money, etc. THEY ALL HAVE MONEY!
@kscommentary97108 ай бұрын
Came here to freshen my skills
@Bunnyvibing8 ай бұрын
Lol literally the sameee
@TheHolisticBabe8 ай бұрын
Sameeeee
@TheHolisticBabe8 ай бұрын
Need to remind myself of the savagery. I got soft 😅
@AmiraAmira-tx9hu8 ай бұрын
I really can t believe that such intilligence exist
@SaraM-t5q8 ай бұрын
“get dressed and go eat by yourself” 😂 #SAVAGE
@Helloo_oo8 ай бұрын
10:00, women that defend men, being in their feelings about not all men just be sooo cringe🤢 and exhausting!! Cuz if I know my man is great, what business do I have fighting online proving to strangers?🤷♀️
@susieuniverse93218 ай бұрын
“Always stay gracious, best revenge is yo paper”💅🏾💋
@Nomakubeka8 ай бұрын
Vengeance is for the Lord 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤ the is a verse like that in the Bible
@WhitneyKM8 ай бұрын
There sure is .
@sheabutterlovee47048 ай бұрын
This was a whole word, yall ain't heard though, get out your feelings and in them pockets💯🤷♀️
@Tnyene_Lanice8 ай бұрын
Exactly
@michellemeiburg6398 ай бұрын
I have never understood jealousy or revenge
@SuperSilverJay8 ай бұрын
It is easy to understand when you have been taken advantage of, betrayed and hurt. It all comes from a deep level of hurt.
@Havivamauri8 ай бұрын
You all in the comments don’t realize most of us who listen to Shera fell hard on our butts messing with a dusty and came back to her swearing our loyalty. It’s not misery loves company it’s called learning from mistakes. You’ll learn ✨
@sassysucculent62918 ай бұрын
You are so valuable miss ma'am. So needed. I don't idolize people. I don't care about celebs the littlest bit. But Shera is truly a teacher that we need in this world. Especially as women. We've been brainwashed all our lives. I've never watched a more genuine and logical human. Honestly. That's sad but true. Thank you Shera. You look incredible by the way. 🫡
@SaraM-t5q8 ай бұрын
this woman is the goat, someone give her a Nobel prize
@MadQueen7727 ай бұрын
This is just what I needed to hear because I’ve been very angry for a very long time. My Baptist church taught women to be long suffering and to basically worship men while getting very little in return
@leticiaviera11514 ай бұрын
Seems their scripture was written by very smart males lol
@jenniferjanaetom43498 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣IF YOU SLEEPING WITH THAT MAN, TAKE THAT PURSE!!!
@Itzytoast8 ай бұрын
So graceful and realistic
@HoneyLee138 ай бұрын
I’m keeping this in mind for anybody not just men. Thank you Ashera 😘😘😘
@diior4448 ай бұрын
a guy who ghosted me a month ago snapped me today and i snapped him back just for him to leave me on open. i feel embarrassed for responding. time to level up and quit messing with guys who play games !! even though he was wealthy i’m leaving him in the past and on to better. shera thanks for changing my mindset ❤ EDIT: the only reason i tolerated snap chatting him was because he picked me up in a lamborghini and spend a few thousand on our first date. but he never asked for my number😳
@RachelNdumia18 ай бұрын
You should have waited one day to snap him back. He ghosted you for a whole month. Next time do not take exes so fast.
@loveself63968 ай бұрын
Delete Snapchat. That’s step 1
@flyandshy008 ай бұрын
Snap? Is he 10??? You shouldn;t give them your contacts. They have to ask you out, if they behave, then you might ivet hem your telegram nickname
@diior4448 ай бұрын
@@flyandshy00 i know right. snap was ridiculous but he never asked for my number even after we went on dates. but i made an exception for him.. i’m talking he picked me up in a lambo and paid for our $1.2k dinner
@bookbag64328 ай бұрын
He's probably married. Snapchat is what cheaters use because it deletes the evidence.
@Amethyst4548 ай бұрын
In SheRa we trust 🙏🏽💜 ✨️✨️
@MissPurple_3338 ай бұрын
Forever and Ever Amen!!!
@emileebgonzalez8 ай бұрын
im 28 and i have to say youre 10000percent right and honestly if i wouldve heard this at 21 i wouldnt believe you, i wouldve said there are a better men but now at 28 and its facts
@raphaelagarcia99338 ай бұрын
You are the best Shera! Thankful I found you this lifetime at 25yo
@rayyanrayyan70598 ай бұрын
thanks shera, i wish i had known u 15 years ago. But im still lucky to know u in my 40s
@iwantcrystals8 ай бұрын
Define "revenge"...cause Cassie got the best "revenge" ever $$$$$. Lol!!....Yall better learn how to make yalls anger expensive...Sprinkle Sprinkle!!!
@snaazir60998 ай бұрын
What happened to Cassie was a crime.
@kenyareid8 ай бұрын
Yes and financial averaged
@SJ-qq6xu8 ай бұрын
Well Shera did say if it’s illegal , call the cops
@Enfinauniverso25 күн бұрын
@@lc-il6wrnot anymore 😂😂😂
@lc-il6wr25 күн бұрын
@@Enfinauniverso true ..i should delete that.
@charlita258 ай бұрын
I disagree with victim blaming. Some women do not deserve to be hit, stolen from, or talked down to or cheated on.
@GemG.158 ай бұрын
Hey you’re right. But shera is a very spiritual woman. In the world of spirituality everything is the “victims fault”, be it male or female.
@datingandlifeadvicechannel75348 ай бұрын
Exactly 😡
@FreedominLove7118 ай бұрын
Omg. I was scared to click on it 😂 but thank you for being soft in the delivery. I got revenge, but leveling up now.
@503ashkatchem48 ай бұрын
Omg yes! Thank you for sharing this topic I’m 32 when I was 20 this was me
@princessaraneta25988 ай бұрын
Im not married and im happily single, im so blessed that i learn from you in this young age...thank you shera♥️
@fillistine8 ай бұрын
Invest the money, ladies! Put some away for a rainy day. There are so many women promoting wealth management online! I follow a Jamaican wealth manager and her advice is A M A Z I N G!! ❤
@nu_fitness8 ай бұрын
Whooooo
@raphaelagarcia99338 ай бұрын
Who??
@MsSjchic8 ай бұрын
What’s her name?
@fillistine8 ай бұрын
Sorry my lovelies...blaming my UK time difference! Her name is KEISHA BAILEY. Profit jumpstarter. She has a youtube too
@Shugaleecious8 ай бұрын
You need to have your own women’s conference.i would pay ask questions and hear you talk!✨🤲🏾
@oober51508 ай бұрын
Those who give too much end up bitter. Ive never been bitter😂
@TheWannabmodel8 ай бұрын
He knows I’m leaving eventually so he’s gotten comfortable using my time to care for his kid so he can do what he wants on his time. I’m past angry and telling him my feelings. Stacking up my funds this summer from having no bills and never returning 🙂
@bimobop8 ай бұрын
Tell him to find a baby sitter cuz ur "pulling more shifts at work" or something else important
@Kberry_8 ай бұрын
I’m also stacking up my finances 😂 regret marrying him
@natalie74658 ай бұрын
Shera you look gorgeous & been trying to learn from your advice in a way that fits my situation. Sometimes it's hard to receive the advice you give,but I'm trying my hardest. Thankyou so much my favorite instructor for taking time to do this channel,I really appreciate it.
@skaylany3308 ай бұрын
So annoyed I missed this live after paying to be a member 😭😭😭😭
@jessicamason11918 ай бұрын
What does being a member have to do with missing the live? You can still watch it right ?
@j-tenn2268 ай бұрын
@@jessicamason1191I’m screaming
@defiantlypinki11078 ай бұрын
I’d rather just make my own money and focus on myself.
@Dee-cu8yr8 ай бұрын
Same
@WorkhardwithaJob_Career8 ай бұрын
Exactly! When you are independent you do not have to answer to a man. Shout out to the decentering men trend. Now if you are in a long-term committed relationship or married Kudos to you(hopefully yall both are treating eachother right) but if not just focus on yourself and the right one will come along.
@cyndiaortega76038 ай бұрын
Might as well go be a lesbian too 🤷🏽♀️
@pelomk90228 ай бұрын
This is not for you then
@GemG.158 ай бұрын
@@WorkhardwithaJob_Careerdecenterinh men does not mean not dating them. That’s the 4b movement.
@cassandraofficial74148 ай бұрын
Needed this. Right on time 💯
@scorpioselfloveforhumanslo38386 ай бұрын
I'm a woman nothing about me is free not even My trust
@charlita258 ай бұрын
Only a hurt 😞 person thats still bothered wants revenge
@blissfulbeauty31488 ай бұрын
Shera, the great ❤🎉
@TheaLightweaver8 ай бұрын
You’re doing a straight up public service. 😂 I needed to see this.
@elperropapo16688 ай бұрын
1:25:28 "Blame it me on inflation" 🤣
@lesliejames43904 ай бұрын
'Which one's first 😁" has me screaaammmingggggggg!! Shera you are so hilarious
@lizzyacosta65688 ай бұрын
Your looks changes are givingg 👏🏼😍
@selina7thats7me7 ай бұрын
Such a powerful live. You’re full of wisdom 💗
@urziceanu19838 ай бұрын
Shera wisdom has been spoken! Listen up ladies and lil' misses❤❤
@donttrymetryjesus45668 ай бұрын
My daddy never cheated 😮boy have I heard that one and I responded with the same question “where you with yo daddy everyday all day?” No!😂
@redleeks62538 ай бұрын
I dont think my father did but he got married when he was 40 and was a shitpoor bum. My parents worked together from monday to Saturday and he would just go home and watch tv. At the age of 50 he got prostate cancer and i don't think things were great for him. He just didn't have the opportunity and resources to cheat. Hes so bum he doesn't spend money in anyone else but himself so he prefers to spend on his things. Its not because he didn't want. Again, all men cheat if they can.
@sadelorraine84377 ай бұрын
@@redleeks6253 wow married at 40? What stupid woman married a dirt poor 40 year old man?😢 sounds like a nightmare from the pits of hell!
@faridahnamyalo58086 ай бұрын
@@redleeks6253😂😂😂 men cheat even if they don’t go out. Still another woman dreaming!
@lelz03944 ай бұрын
He might watch porn with teens that get taken advantage of in it in your teens.
@Sarah-t3v7x8 ай бұрын
we have to band together against the DUST. women uplifting women....shera doing the lords work
@Sarah-t3v7x8 ай бұрын
and we need a vid on how wealthy men are dusty too
@marallymonroe19 күн бұрын
This is one of your best videos. 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@aminah7612 күн бұрын
Yess
@ultravioletpisces36668 ай бұрын
Mmmhmmm I’m always saying, too bad he’s not defending you like this
@jt3058 ай бұрын
my favourite KZbinr ❤❤❤ best therapy you'll ever recieve ladies! Dust free 🎉🎉🎉😅
@Chunkypooch8 ай бұрын
Cook him some spaghetti 🤭🤣
@sparkleinureye6 ай бұрын
Thank you Beautiful Lady....keep doing what you do. I'm sending this to my young girls.
@zerotolerance20268 ай бұрын
If your going to deal with men you might as well get something out of it 💰💰 Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨✨. New subbie
@ninanynedime83648 ай бұрын
That right take that purse. I feel that
@dianemary7 ай бұрын
Best revenge is your paper 💰
@jumanabasha18288 ай бұрын
This attacked me six ways from sunday
@Phoenixishot4 ай бұрын
13:59 BARS 💡💡💡
@BelleEvanni8 ай бұрын
no settling for bean juice at the coffee shop ladies !!
@venus55534 ай бұрын
Ugh I'm guilty falling for this
@Destroyer289118 ай бұрын
Dusties whining in the comment section ironically increasing channel engagement 🤭
@CaramelCrown048 ай бұрын
Thank you for keeping it real Shera!!!!! ❤❤❤❤
@entertainmentt.24358 ай бұрын
This reminds me of " woman's ego is the worst"
@valeriealv75038 ай бұрын
Shera I went grey natural lol alot of us did
@ashleyspringer6828 ай бұрын
What do we do if we catch them cheatin on the phone
@GoddessExotica8 ай бұрын
We don't care Just get $$$
@lisalisa32238 ай бұрын
Try and get his password open his phone, open his banking app and clean his account then leave.
@Ladymagentabennett8 ай бұрын
Get revenge! 😂
@kenyareid8 ай бұрын
Shera has a video on this , just get the money and or figure out a way to get gifts
@ladybug33808 ай бұрын
@@lisalisa3223😂😂😂😂 damn that’s savage
@cuiet168 ай бұрын
Thank you Shera 🎉
@LindaLou-x8f8 ай бұрын
ill actually go to the funeral with the ticket if i say it's in miami LOL
@NataliaAbesadze8 ай бұрын
Beginning was perfect - we got caught up with it
@lalasantolla40848 ай бұрын
Damn I hella needed this
@nikitaantoniougustafsson5 ай бұрын
I’m only 15 min in I have two pages on notes
@Leylaa39278 ай бұрын
What if you had princess treatment no cheating etc and all of a sudden he didn’t want a relationship anymore?
@user-dx2dm8oq8g8 ай бұрын
If he don't want you anymore, move on. You don't wanna be the person tryna convince someone that you're worth it, you put yourself in a vulnerable position where he'll know he can do whatever he wants and you'll still be there.
@Liberty-hp9zx8 ай бұрын
He found your replacement
@kenyareid8 ай бұрын
He found some one else and should as well
@ssafiyah49608 ай бұрын
A lot of men are better than him don't waste your time
@rensii-e8b8 ай бұрын
Take your losses and move on. You got things out of it and I’d u for this one u can get another ❤
@idalia74588 ай бұрын
Shera, I need your help. I met a married man at my job, he was flirting with me. After he left my job he called the receptionist and left his number for me to call him. He has money😃 should I call him ? He’s 59 years old with money.
@janedoe55107 ай бұрын
I hope you called
@lc-il6wr6 ай бұрын
I hope u didn't call..the old gizzard is married..
@shaquoyag1484Ай бұрын
Thanks Shera!
@thetwudu37068 ай бұрын
Your hair is CUTE
@LilithsCosmicLounge8 ай бұрын
The color of her hair compliments her skin complexion sooooo well ❤
@GoddessAries8 ай бұрын
Thanks for another great video Shera! Loved the hair
@melaspink25358 ай бұрын
right? we’re so blessed
@miriamspirit4 ай бұрын
Wish I saw shera before I married
@waterbearertarot30048 ай бұрын
1:16:26 😂😭 Shera is a Comedian 😂😂😂😂
@charlita257 ай бұрын
Thanks 😊 to your sister for giving us the game 🎮 🙏🏽 🙌🏽 💯
@aminah7612 күн бұрын
Clocking in at a Job definitely will age u as a woman 😓. I worked in hospital for 16 years and my body is torn down 😢
@cristinam38698 ай бұрын
EARTHQUAKE SAID IT BEST.....WHY U GONNA LEAVE SOMEBODY WHO CHEATED ON U , TO GET CHEATED ON BY SOMEBODY U *DONT* KNO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@tarahbruno37934 ай бұрын
not the walker with tennis balls!😂😂,Shera low key is a comedian
@baebee17618 ай бұрын
This topic lets me know this video is about to be fire 🔥 ❤❤😂
@Consciousa_6 ай бұрын
You see in him the future, that mean he’s going to live 😂😂😂😂 I’m laughing so hard
@Kellyub18 ай бұрын
Thoughts on a provider trying to get revenge when you move on with a new man when we broke up
@natashadickson48198 ай бұрын
Focus on yourself, your appearance, your bag. 💰 Be ready to move on at any time.
@SheRaSeven18 ай бұрын
tell him u pregnant with new man’s baby he will leave u alone
@Kellyub18 ай бұрын
@@SheRaSeven1 he still emotional for me even if it’s negative i’m still trying to collect both bags 😭
@ella66205 ай бұрын
Girl be careful he might snitch on you to ur other bf that u moved on with
@kelsey_marie8 ай бұрын
So pretty 🤩💝🧁✨
@DivaBlueАй бұрын
2 sprays of my perfume cost more than a coffee 😆
@BleuGoddess788 ай бұрын
So what are are you…a cheater too 😂😂😂😂
@donttrymetryjesus45668 ай бұрын
🤫 🤫 🤐
@MsTwilightSpeaks6 ай бұрын
I thought them cheating is how we extort them
@samchain34518 ай бұрын
I been telling everyone that Amy dunne from gone girl is the biggest pick me ever and they be bashing cause she's their hero
@datingandlifeadvicechannel75348 ай бұрын
Dirty world we live in 🤮
@oluwashinaomisanya74877 ай бұрын
Rich lesbians hang out at art galleries and museums.