10 Things That Prove The Evolution Of The INFJ To A Sigma INFJ

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What Does It Mean To Be INFJ? The INFJ personality type, commonly known as The Advocate or Counselor, is one of sixteen in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). INFJs account for about 1-3 percent of the population. If you get an INFJ personality type, it suggests you're introverted, intuitive, feeling, and judging. Dominant: Introverted Intuition is your primary cognitive function. Extroverted Feeling: Auxiliary Introverted Thinking (tertiary). Extroverted Sensing is inferior. The MBTI test was designed to help people understand their own communication styles and how they connect with others. Knowing your MBTI type can help you better understand your mental processes and behavior, as well as adjust your interpersonal approach to various situations and people. 00:00 INTRO 00:22 10 The ability to choose their battles wisely 01:39 09 The disinterest in fitting in 02:38 08 Increased emotional detachment 04:07 07 The ability to see people for who they are 05:11 06 The ability to put oneself first 06:27 05 Refusal to adjust to others' wavelengths 07:45 04 The increased sense of worth 09:08 03 The decreased desire to "be there for others" 10:20 02 The absence of second chances 11:24 01 Unapologetic attitude towards their honesty ♥♥♥Help Us Serve You Better!♥♥♥ Show us love and support through our Patreon: www.patreon.com/ON_TRACK Do You Have Topics In Mind? Comment Below... Share This Video Right NOW: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rKmwq2pvlJmnY8k ------------------------------------------------------------------------- Thanks for Watching! Are you an INFJ? What more would you like to add? We would definitely love to know! DROP A LIKE, SHARE, Click the SUBSCRIBE Button and HIT that notification bell to get the latest updates! SUBSCRIBE to our CHANNEL NOW 👉👉👉 bit.ly/2LY533N Help Our Channel Reach Awareness Share it With your Friends and Family. Caption Our Video To Your Language Here: 👉👉👉 bit.ly/3gBgWbU -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Videos You May Also Like: 10 Ways That CAN TURN ON AN INFJ kzbin.info/www/bejne/b3TCmZ2mq5qKnsk 10 Reasons Why The INFJ Stands Out From The Rest kzbin.info/www/bejne/moO8i3xvmNehmNU Is The INFJ The TRUE ALPHA Of The MBTI? kzbin.info/www/bejne/eXPKpmuJo92rfqs 10 Shocking Confessions of A TRUE INFJ kzbin.info/www/bejne/n53MeXt3qbKbo5Y How TABOO Is The INFJ Personality? kzbin.info/www/bejne/oHqrd3x4mr2BqJI

[@uckBayNguyen]

One of your better episodes. Perhaps an episode of old souls? How we can transport our awareness to another time, another place, another life

[@danielkomorowski7966]

Agreed, but that all depends.

[@ryanarwood2317]

Excuse me. This video has existentialism

[@Terry-ju5mh]

@@danielkomorowski7966 up to you saying ok

[@trinaq]

That's true, the older I get, the less other people's opinions bother me.

[@danielkomorowski7966]

🤙🏻

[@cynthialeaman3114]

Its the free will blessing we were born with.. love this..

[@DebiSmithPouliot]

Yes, THIS! I no longer feel the need to help EVERYONE! I'm no longer a doormat! I have had enough.

[@swavy653]

When your empath infj you think emotionally and show empathy people then take advantage of that and then you become sigma infj you start to think logically and more thoughtfully to take care of your mental state

[@faithworks217]

Wow. This description of the sigma INFJ describes me exactly. My ex-husband would be dealing with a totally different person, if he ran into me now.

[@roslyncerro1263]

Thank you for this. It has taken me being in my seventh decade and three near death experiences to live this. My Libra nature wants to assist others. Now, however, , I am very selective about who will receive my energy. These are Divine years. Better late than never ❣️

[@danielkomorowski7966]

I ain't forcing nothing nowhere. I'll just split, and go do my own thing. It's worked just fine all these years.🐺

[@faithworks217]

A high degree of sensitivity in one's nature can make them very sensitive to offense when they are young (and even when they are older, if they are immature), especially because they love so fiercely and feel they get much less love in return. It is from this morass of pain that an INFJ has to fight their way out through logical analysis of their relationships in order to save their sanity. That is what causes them to evolve into the sigma.

[@sidlopez4599]

“Izzat so?” 🤔😑🌲

[@joyreinhardt7621]

a few years ago, I overheard my sister say to her adult son that 'I was difficult as a child' ! Now, I do understand why ! There was so much going on in our dysfunctional family, and I had to manage on my own, which wasn't easy, or fun ! And, of course, I knew/understood nothing about what was going on ! Am 70 now, and that was back when I was very young, and till I got out of the house ( but of course, my troubles only continued, as I had no idea/understanding about so many things).

[@faithworks217]

@@joyreinhardt7621 My mother once told me that I was the easiest of her children to raise. ???? Another time, when she was mad at me, she said I was the most difficult to raise. No, my poor brother Jim was the most difficult for her. He had Aspergers and stimmed destructively sometimes when he was upset, and there was plenty to upset him. I was her confidente, though I did not volunteer for the position. She told me a lot of personal stuff that was not appropriate to tell a child, and it ramped up when I was 12 or 13. Boy. I don't think she shared any of that stuff with my siblings. It annoyed me for a lot of years that she dumped all that stuff on me, but it helped me understand some things, so I got some benefit from it. These sisters, eh? They think they know us so well. I have a little sister who thinks I am a lot like my mother. Well, we are both strong-willed, at least I am now, though I was mostly a wimp until my early thirties. I am nearly 68 years old. Such a venerable age. Ha ha! My mother and I, however, really have only the J part in common. We are good at keeping our house or office organized. I was a secretary. My family is dysfunctional. They all misunderstood and resisted my efforts to get us healed when I told them what they needed to hear, not what they wanted to hear.

[@Mcky-lw1zb]

Yep, we do love fiercely but we also feels deeply about injustices and such too. Wish I had someont to love fiercely.

[@AnnaOwczarz]

YEA! I am Sigma INFJ and it's fantastic. Go there, don't give up. There is freedom for souls infj.

[@demonsynth]

Of course we sometimes feel bad when someone feels hurt because of us. We'll not often show that we feel bad though. It's better to hurt someone's feelings by doing the right thing than to do nothing and spare someone some trauma to their ego.

[@faithworks217]

I feel bad if I was at fault when I hurt someone else's feelings. I have agonized for years even about an innocent mistake I made when I was six years old, and prayed for the person I offended when she was a little girl. But when I tell someone something they needed to hear, if their feelings are hurt because they are selfish and self-centred, I don't care. Their feelings are their problem. It was really liberating when I realized that my mother conditioned me to feel responsible for her happiness, that it was narcissistic of her to do this, and I didn't have to be locked into her feelings anymore. I still felt false guilt for a while, but I just ignored it and went ahead anyway with what I felt I should do. As time went on, the crummy feelings I used to get when I behaved contrary to her conditioning went away. I feel no guilt at all now when I don't deserve to feel it.

[@joyreinhardt7621]

@@faithworks217 'Agonize' ! ! ! Why are you talking about me like that ? LOL ! So very true , in considering myself ! Journaling helps me understand/remember that awfulness ! !

[@faithworks217]

@@joyreinhardt7621 I used to journal a lot when I was very upset about stuff. You could practically see smoke coming out of my computer, I was so mad! But Jesus gave me dreams that helped me put things in perspective, when I understood their symbolism, and He helped me forgive, and also to not get so bent out of shape when people act like jerks. Journalling has helped me see through the gas lighting and come to logical conclusions.

[@Terry-ju5mh]

You are very smart

[@nickolaszissimos1189]

I am an INFJ, I am in the middle of growing my Sigma nature and it is like it was supposed to happen. I am at the moment in between regular INFJ and Sigma INFJ and I can't wait to finish my transformation, but I am enjoying the journey. I have a good bit to go but I love the brutal honesty, it is only meant to make people aware of their flaws.

[@joyreinhardt7621]

This is me, too !

[@nickolaszissimos1189]

@@joyreinhardt7621 Ah, reaching ones Sigma nature is quite uplifting, isn't it. You see the world through a different lense and from a much deeper perspective. I know my next move, but I have to build myself up to be able to do it. How about yourself?

[@joyreinhardt7621]

@@nickolaszissimos1189 Things are tough at times, but I do realize that I have begun to go from just the plain INFJ, to the next step of the Sigma. Am more concrete in my thinking, reasoning. Am not quite so concerned with others as I used to be ( was not good) !

[@joyreinhardt7621]

Has only been a bit over two years that I even began to know anything re the INFJ, so I guess that I have come a long way !

[@nickolaszissimos1189]

@@joyreinhardt7621 I know I am in between, I still have to break away from everyone else to live my own life, but I know I will be back when I have finished my transformation. I need to be completely alone to do it. I am slowly building myself up so that I can do that and so that I can have the needed conversations that will be had. Some people in my life will lable me selfish, I need to finally think of myself and not be hindered by others. Most people won't understand that. Besides, I also need to recharge almost all my batteries. Trying to calculate the best way to go into hermit mode for a while till I gain my full transformation.

[@janetgonzales4590]

Infj are born but to be sigma Infj are made. Because of my emphatic ability saw many will underestimate you. Constantly on my rock bottom but it's a blessing. To understand clearly shadow work is important. Im more responsible to my action and my life. Happy mind And happy life. I know my worth.

[@wesmckenna8287]

I have evolved to Sigma, I cut all the energy vampires and totally focused on my goals. Never been more at peace.

[@uckBayNguyen]

On pursuit of harmony, the sigma discard irrelevant adversity. Transcendency requires detachment from the non-transparent

[@sidlopez4599]

“Watch it now.” 😅 Well stated.

[@girkgirkus7236]

This is one of the best descriptions differentiating the two. Awesome video!

[@sidlopez4599]

It’s not bad at all. At least the first half, it starts to deviate after the first salient and complete synopsis of what and why Sigma IS and evolved into and from. ( in my opinion)

[@Chokoboh]

Damn this Video nails it. I'm on my way to Sigma greatness but not fully there yet. A few things on this list are still weaknesses of mine and i wasn't even aware of that. Thanks for telling me. As INFJ, it takes a LOT of effort to evolve to Sigma. One step at a time. Luckily, my zodiac sign Aries influences me heavily and helped me a lot in finding my way so far. ♈🔥🐺🥰 At this point, i'm merely finetuning and bugfixing.

[@jeremy1350]

I'm an INFJ as well. And I have made this shift. I've crossed all the evolutions you mention in this video. This makes perfect sense to me since this shift began and I now know why, being an INFJ. I am coming into my true INFJ Sigma self. It has been a watershed time in my life.

[@goontubeassos7076]

I must’ve been a sigma INFJ male my whole life. Everybody wants to be around me all the time but are too afraid to ask for my time, I can tell they feel inferior around me awkward and uncomfortable, They believe I’m some sort of a mutant or superhero are way better than the average human, and the truth is I’m just average in my eyes.

[@blackbird424]

I confuse those signs with that of being in depression, maybe? On the other hand it really hurts to see your loved ones hurt even though we aint left with much choice...its a path to glory but more like walking on others' blood. One has to become an iron mind to live this life.

[@TheLordsbattleaxe]

Even if there are many reasons to give up we will still try to find a way.

[@lukewilson9585]

Biggest takeaway: "Do not allow anyone to sway your emotions without your permission."

[@Terry-ju5mh]

That's is true answer me back now

[@lotusflower7597]

Amazing video!!

[@monicasojka2738]

I am a Sigma INFJ and I really love my personality.

[@ramkumarshanmugasundaram2753]

True

[@annmowatt7547]

We do forgive but we do not condone bad behaviour and I switch off and have nothing to do with such people.

[@fkoff7649]

A real INFJ is sigma, He/ she doesn't need to evolve a sigma, because a real INFJ is already a sigma.

[@faithworks217]

I don't agree. A high degree of sensitivity in one's nature can make them very sensitive to offense when they are young (and even when they are older, if they are immature), especially because they love so fiercely and feel they get much less love in return. It is from this morass of pain that an INFJ has to fight their way out through logical analysis of their relationships in order to save their sanity. That is what causes them to evolve into the sigma. I doubt that anyone will ever find a child who is a sigma INFJ.

[@faithworks217]

@@Missedya You could be right. I have thought of myself for a long time as a late bloomer. It astonishes me how immature I was in my twenties. It took a good swift kick in the rear to get me to grow up.

[@faithworks217]

@@Missedya I was talking about maturity, not "growing up fast." Being robbed of one's innocence doesn't mature us. It sets us back. Paul Hegstrom (videos on KZbin) says that if a person experiences trauma before puberty, the flood of adrenalin released by it blocks the serotonin and dopamine that is released during puberty. We get addicted to adrenalin, which is why we make bad choices in friends and partners and get ourselves into messes. When we are upset, adrenalin is released. I was not molested before puberty, but I did experience trauma. The younger the person is when it happens, the deeper the impact. It's a myth that a person's bad experiences won't have much effect, if they were too young to remember. My father was a violent alcoholic. I don't remember the first 2 1/2 years of my life at all, which is how old I was when my mother left my father and I went to live with my grandmother. But when I did some therapy, during one of the exercises, the feelings came back of how frightened I was when my parents had a fight. My Mom remarried and I went to live with my parents when I was almost five. My stepfather resented having to look after us three older kids and that created problems. Not as bad as my father's problems, but it took me a long time to get over the resentment. Hegstrom said that soldiers experience PTSD if they experienced childhood trauma. Soldiers who did not experience it until after puberty tend to be more stable. A sigma INFJ is someone who is emotionally mature. Not too many kids are as emotionally mature as an emotionally mature adult. I don't think that most adults are emotionally mature, though some can put on a good act until you get to know them better.

[@wesmckenna8287]

Disagree, I was in and out of cluster B relationships because of my hero complex. I am free now and have studied Psychology so it never happens to me again. Also my family revealed their lack of commitment to me during covid so I have backed away from them significantly as well.

[@fkoff7649]

@@wesmckenna8287 Nothing to do you with being an INFJ or a Sigma. It has something to do with your emotional imbalance.

[@piotraugustyniak6591]

Great video

[@Oiled_stick]

Brilliant work as always! God bless you!!

[@sidlopez4599]

Give credit where credit is due , CERTAINLY. 😉👍

[@mlbullbooks]

I'll never entirely be a sigma INFJ--not if it means unforgiveness. I may not trust again, but I refuse to let others control my sanity and life.

[@faithworks217]

The video did say that a sigma will forgive, but they will not give second chances because the person has shown them that they are untrustworthy. As you said, we can forgive someone, but never trust them again. Forgiveness and trust are not the same thing. I have often prayed for my ex-husband and asked God to deliver him from addictions and have mercy on him, but if he wanted to get back together with me, forget it. If I did that, he'd think, "I can do anything to this idiot and she will keep taking me back." He would have no respect for me and that would lead to mistreating me again. Also, not taking him back, if he thought he was deeply sorry for the past and wished he hadn't behaved that way, has the potential to teach him to be a better man. He would know that, if he gets involved with another woman, to never treat her the way he treated me, so that he doesn't lose her. In some cases, there is total reconciliation, but steps have to be followed. Repentance on their part, then RESTITUTION before reconciliation. In my case, my ex did some things that he can't rectify, such as taking off with my children when they were young and blocking me from having any contact with them for five years. He told horrible lies to make them hate me and not trust me. They were a mess when I got them back in their early teens. Now they are in their forties and my relationship with them has been fraught with difficulties and heartache. Their father cannot give me back those precious years I missed with them, or make up for all the difficulties I have had with them because of what he did to them and said about me. The best he can do is try to make restitution to them as a father, to try to heal them, but there is nothing he can do to make me trust him as a husband.

[@nwbest4336]

@@faithworks217 - It is sad that you are the one who taught him the lesson which he uses to treat another woman better than you. The other woman don't deserve it, and you do.

[@faithworks217]

@@nwbest4336 Thank you for your sweet words. He got married again, but to a terrible woman. From what my kids tell me, it has been a miserable marriage, but they are still together over thirty years later. He wasn't a good husband to her, but maybe not as bad as he was to me. I don't know, but I do know that he has regrets over how he treated me and then left me when I told him he had to go to AA. His wife split on him for a year because she didn't want to look after my children, which they absconded with to another province right after they got married. When she wasn't there, he said to my son and daughter one day, "Your mother was beautiful." They were shocked because it was the first time he ever said anything nice about me to them. Also, when my grandson was five, after my ex moved back to BC, Connor's stepfather took him to visit his Grandpa. Connor said, "I told Grandpa about how much fun you are and he didn't want to hear it. He went over to the window and looked out, and I saw water on his face."

[@RichardAC101]

Accurate video!

[@Ikigai747]

well, sigma concept completely changes infj we can no longer even relate to them and these are not just the charac of sigma infjs i believe these are just the things everyone would want to fix more or less

[@GroovyDean]

Being a sigma? I guess so. Since all points on point to how I see the world. People are more cautious around me, not because of fear but because they can't know what I would do next. I can read them easily enough, but they can't do the same to me. I gave them hints to what I'm capable of, though. So, for most part I'm being left alone to do my job, or if they have to deal with me, they did so with respect and equitability. That's all I need anyway. The peace of mind that I had since adopt this point of view is priceless. Its not all sunny and sunshine though, bcoz that would be unrealistic in today's world.

[@navidtehseen]

Damn this video just described me 😳

[@everiest0958]

I had improved to this point of being INFJ since 2020 ago. And yes... It is like whats you're saying. Really impressive 🔥 Although I can't connect even with other INFJ cuz I was like INTJ when around them, so, .. Yea. I had a debates with other INFJ (I guess -if they were) , cuz of the honesty and headstrong . Even other INFJ cannot stand me. 🥴🥴🤧😐😅

[@rubylwarrior2638]

I am WAKENED. NOT 'WOKE', TY. But yh, pretty spot on.

[@Mcky-lw1zb]

When I stopped putting other emotions before mine, that's when I gain Sigma status.

[@codedlAnguage]

Good morning 💓💓💓💖💖💖💝💝💝💝👉🔯☯️🔯👉🐇💓🎸💓🐇👉💝💝💝👉😃😃👉🐣

[@tedlogan3194]

yes

[@sidlopez4599]

You see that you went from being Wolverine back to being Logan look at that maturity and character development. 😉

[@corporaterobotslave400]

@12:18 I wouldn't be using the term "woke" within these videos. It has an altogether political stink to it now.

[@donnawinda5665]

I was INFJ. I am sigma INFJ 😎

[@mattmcroberts]

It's okay to show up in a funny hat or tell a joke to break the ice or fit in. Once interaction is established through mirroring or empathy and defenses are lowered then offer more intellectual or meaningful topics. If rational boundaries are crossed then sigma allows one to simply detach. Kinda sounds like just being a well rounded person. Hmmm..,.🤔

[@ssemombweandrew]

Present

[@moshed4324]

Evolved to their woke self WOKE SELF homie

[@aldolagana7126]

read "the book of disquiet" if you want to understand us. my mind is a nonstop stream of consciousness that flitters about like a hummingbird on a flowering tree.

[@jessmason2112]

🎯

[@Rand0m113s]

If you want a short cut to turning sigma…get married…have a kid….ad your sigma self will come out….cuz now….you are responsible…for your family’s life…safety…and care…you start to be selfish…with your love…cuz you want to save all your love…for their children and wife…and other family

[@johnhayward7730]

TRY NOT TO DRIVE IN A NEW CAR WITH THEM, SCARY .

[@codedlAnguage]

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[@LordDougall]

scorpio rising ruled by mars neptune in capricorn