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[@realisticallyrose2310]

Just because the presentation of your content may intimidate some, it inspires others. If it is unhealthy for me it is my responsibility to not watch it. But Sarah you inspire me as a Christian and wife!

[@ohdearkaroline]

100 % agree

[@Lindsey.E]

Yes! Took the words right out of my mouth!

[@HopePhotoG]

For sure. I can't do as much as her cause of my health but I realize that and am inspired in what I can do..like homeschooling doing stuff at home etc..being more minimalist and intentional with what I buy!

[@b.maegeo4322]

Exactly right! I’m on my own journey of life and adulting and momming and I’ve had to stop watching KZbin when I find myself comparing and feeling envious. Once I can accept that my life is different and that’s okay, I can accept watching someone else’s reality and appreciate it and let it inspire me in other ways that I might be able to relate to. I’m not less than for being in a different place and it’s my responsibility to feel that. I see Sarah’s content as entertainment with inspiration and it does challenge me when I’m ready.

[@Nat-ol4oq]

Exactly this! ❤

[@campoida]

Sorry, but everyone is responsible for their own happiness. Those people are just envious, and that's not your problem. It's theirs.

[@quorrakai]

Absolutely!!! You want Sarah's life, get off your arse and do something about it! If not, stop whining.

[@veronica.aztxco]

AGREED💯

[@tessadanielle6787]

I agree 100%

[@irinie.6187]

couldn't agree more, was about to write the same! unfortunately, there will always be the kind of people who make you feel like you have to explain yourself.

[@belenhernandez4619]

So right!!!

[@karinpienaar7315]

As a mom of 1 kid, I personally don't enjoy watching how other moms struggle. I find it more helpful to watch videos where moms with more on their plate do ALL THE THINGS cause it makes me feel like I can do it as well. Eases my stress and helps me to not overthink things.

[@AC-iw5mv]

Omg same!!!!

[@jeshshe9520]

I was thinking the same way! It’s inspirational! She talks about having a mother who also kept the house to a high standard, so as someone who was raised in a much different house hold its extremely inspiring and educational to see Sarah share her life. I am constantly learning from creators like this! I grew up in a rough environment so I had a lot to learn to change that going forward!

[@julialee143]

Same!

[@catherineok]

You Can’t Please Everyone: exhibit A.

[@b10aa]

Yes same! If you only see other moms struggling, then you start thinking that's normal, but it doesn't have to be that way (some days but not all!). I'm not making sourdough bread (I have an 8 week old baby) but it's still really nice to see that things can become calmer.

[@erinlynne11]

You know the saying “Humility isn’t thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less”? Anyone can see that you do a great job of keeping up your home. This video could have been about 10 minutes long saying that you are trying to steward the gifts the Lord has given you and that any good you do is purely out of His grace. Instead, you spent 30 minutes talking about how amazing you are. As someone who has enjoyed your videos for years, this video really missed the mark as far as humility goes. Not trying to be hateful, just trying to give some perspective.

[@jenniferh7129]

I felt similarly after only 6 minutes in. Granted, I didn't watch the whole thing so I can't comment intelligently or fairly on everything she's said, but I've watched similar videos of hers - after following her pretty closely and gratefully for years - and had to stop after a few minutes because it's too painful for me - partly because of where I'm at in life and how different it is from her life, which so many of us are saying here... And partly because of what I see her communicating here - basically just talking about herself and defending her lifestyle. Maybe I'm wrong and this video is different. Either way, her content is less encouraging and inspiring than it used to be for me, and sparks more discontent than thankfulness and motivation to be a good mom/wife/homemaker in the place the Lord has put me now. But that's on me! I don't have to watch 😉

[@sammijo3]

This is exactly what I was thinking. This video kind of left me like 😬

[@erinlynne11]

@@jenniferh7129 Yep, I’d been feeling the same way! I really do like Sarah and most of her content, but this video made me realize it’s just not beneficial for me to follow her anymore. I unsubscribed/unfollowed after watching this.

[@rnbear]

Honestly, I disagree. I think the segment in the middle explaining her struggle finding time to rest in the Lord really tied in together why this video needed to be made. She’s not perfect, she’s recognizing that and also recognizing that the people hating on her content may think she’s trying to portray perfection when she’s just displaying her life and struggling in areas that may be different for the people not liking her content. The thought process flowed and turned into lots of good thoughts and conversation so I appreciated the entirety of it. *Also gotta keep in mind it’s mostly unedited.

[@linnichelle6928]

@@rnbear Exactly! I've seen the hateful comments of people saying she's fake, her life isn't real and it's staged for the videos. So of course she'd spend a lot of time in this video explaining her reality and what exactly she does as a wife, mother, homemaker, and business woman. This isn't a lack of humility. :'( She's stating the facts of what she does. :') She needed to make it clear that she doesn't only do all that in and for her videos. This is her life! 💗💖💕🥰

[@dauriagroux-holt4028]

If anyone has ever felt like they had to make themselves smaller because they were too much for someone else, please read: take a deep breath and take a good hard look at yourself. If you're honest, you'll soon know if they are A) shining a light on a problem, or B) this was a projection of their own insecurities onto you and go ahead and keep shining brightly as you! Remember that honesty is key here and there's no shame in seeking personal therapy to get to know one's self even more intimately 😌

[@de6klompjes108]

This is such a great comment. I also found a great children's book a few days ago who says the same thing. It's called the beam of the little lighthouse from Esme van der harst she also has one for adults 10/10 recommend

[@giorgia856]

I think maybe people see it as unrealistic because you don’t have a “traditional” job (not going somewhere 9-5 you know?) and maybe people think it’s unrealistic for an offline person to achieve it?

[@dmay7648]

It’s because people want justification for their short comings and failures. That’s why culture is always bashing what they deem “supermoms” as not being real and authentic.

[@SheEquipsHerself]

Jesus had haters too…and he was perfect. You’re an inspiration to me and I know so many other (step)moms out there! Stay authentic to yourself. Thanks for the vulnerability…you don’t have to explain why you are the way that you are. ❤️

[@petramayes2564]

Wow so cool to see you here. This makes me love and respect you and your content so much more!

[@SheEquipsHerself]

@@petramayes2564 hey Petra!! I love this channel :) glad you do too!! 💕

[@cate27]

🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙌🏻

[@bouldergirl81]

Completely agree , love her

[@blahxblahxblah100]

Did you just compare this woman to Jesus?

[@ts.6305]

Viewers see your life as "unobtainable" and "unrealistic" because you aren't upfront about the fact that there are 2 of you. Kieran is a homemaker alongside you: this is a huge privilege that most families don't have. Your content would be more honest if you showed us just how much work Kieran does (childcare, homemaking, editing etc) instead of pretending that you do it all yourself.

[@maroyce]

I so agree! It’s a privilege for both of them to be at home, which some families can’t do.

[@LovingLifeasEmma]

She's not pretending anything though I agree it would be awesome to know more about Kieran's role too. Having said that, it's also his right to not share as much if he doesn't want to. Also, yes, most families don't have that privilege but that's the point she's also making is that she's not saying this is everyone's life at all and it's not meant to be relatable or something we aspire to be necessarily. It's just her, sharing, and us, taking from it what we do. Maybe getting entertainment from it, maybe being inspired by something, or something else.

[@mariagoranova7642]

F*ck you for that, dude. She never claimed that she does it all by herself, she have said multiple times that every help Kieran does for her she appreciates and values so much. In almost every video she mentions him being with the kids while she films. Its easy to hate, but at least be realistic about it.

[@alma8508]

Kieren evidently looks like the guy who's more on the shy and awkward side and who isn't very comfortable being in front of a camera. He has the right to choose to be shown or not. They have divided the tasks between them by having Sarah do most of the presentation while he takes care of the behind the scenes stuff like editing and whatnot. And as the above comment mentioned, even when he's not being shown, Sarah frequently mentions him and updates us with what he's doing atm. I really do not understand the logic behind the hate, if there's any logic to begin with

[@lennastevens4427]

I also keep my home “extremely” organized. My house is always picked up and clean. It’s something I value for my mental health. I make sure I leave the house every day with every put in its place. Many people assume I pick it up knowing I’ll have company, but it’s for me to be able to do a 360 and see clean

[@maroyce]

This is what I’m working. It’s amazing waking up or walking into my home after a day out and the house is clean. It’s alot but it’s soo worth it.

[@kaciinterlicchia6579]

I really like this channel and I won't unsubscribe based one one video, but this one was hard to watch. I read through so many comments both positive and negative. This video is probably beneficial to your channel because it's getting so many comments which I'm sure helps you, your brand, and your income. I don't feel like you came off well in this video. You are probably extremely sweet and clearly driven and organized...but you really did come across as defensive and self righteous. Your content has never made me feel bad about myself, and I am prone to that, but this video was bordering on guilting and shaming people way more than just living your daily life ever would. Again, I think your channel is great, but this did not have the impact that, I think, you were going for. Maybe bring someone who isn't in a situation just like yours onto your channel and have some dialog with them. Or just do that in real life 🤷‍♀️

[@aprilparlor2918]

I kind of feel this. 😬 Love her and her content (and will continue to watch) and maybe I need to check any offense in my heart, but this felt very self righteous and at the same time I understand it. It's a weird tension. I don't want this comment to come off as negative to her. I truly enjoy watching her! Good opportunity to check my heart in this. What does God want ME to do?! 💛

[@hellymia88]

This!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@Natureallyear]

I totally disagree!! This is her life, people should stop being so negative just because other people have joy and enjoy doing life this way.

[@amyj4283]

How righteous of you to blame her for any guilt and shame you might feel! And to further try to imply that she is closed minded and unaware of people with differing lives than her because she’s content?

[@jennathebookworm]

I think your videos (and your life) may be unrealistic simply because most Moms can't be homemakers for a living while their significant other also stays home and helps clean/take care of kids. Most Moms can't afford to hire nannies to watch their kids while they homemake. Heck, most moms can't afford many of the things that make your home, diet, and wardrobe so desirable and aesthetically pleasing. I think people who click on your videos and don't realize that you have an immense amount of privilege, money, and help may definitely feel less-than. I'm not saying that you're not working hard or that you are faking it, I'm saying that your life isn't really realistic or attainable for most mothers or most families. The fact that you don't really address those privileges and caveats that are inherently a part of this topic and at the root of comments you're discussing is disappointing. This video feels a lot like you just tooting your own horn and not a whole lot of genuine honesty or reflection.

[@Haley_Wozniak]

Agreed. I used to be the mom who needed a perfect house until my son who was only 3 at the time said "you're always cleaning" and It broke my heart. Got to admit it was hard for me to be present with my kids when I was constantly cooking or cleaning. Now I've found some balance and it's wonderful.

[@mirag8806]

Her life is very much realistic because of her amazing time management skills and kindness. I’m sorry that she’s simply different and doesn’t follow the regular American culture of sitting her butt down all day and watching tv or having a cluttered house. She functions and works this way. Stop hating on someone for having better habits than you. People are seriously getting offended because someone has their life together and is happy? What is going on. Open your eyes! If it makes you mad because you’re so jealous or it offends you then LEAVE. No one is holding you back. YOU control what you watch. Let her live her life and post HER reality. We love seeing her do this and it makes young girls like me want to be like that one day when I grow up and I’m a mother. Sarah you are so inspiring please continue sharing everything you do❤️ Thank you for being real. Also btw Sarah thrift shops, makes homemade food, doesn’t hire a nanny...this is very doable if you’re a hard worker. This is Sarah’s reality. She doesn’t have to lower her quality of life because someone becomes insecure about themselves when watching her. Maybe it’s a sign to gain some confidence, stop comparing yourself to others, and work on yourself rather than hate on someone else!!

[@user-es1qt2ib2p]

@@mirag8806 YES! 👏🏼🙏🏽

[@hellymia88]

THANK YOU!👏🏻👏🏻

[@heidithompson146]

They used to sleep in their kitchen because their house was so small. They worked hard for this life.

[@rayann9322]

The fact that I feel challenged when I watch your videos is exactly why I keep coming back to your channel!! Like you said- what we watch influences us. I'm definitely hoping you rub off on me lol. I feel like your channel has been a Godsend in my life to help me gain a healthier lifestyle, especially since I grew up not knowing what a healthy home life actually was. So thank you!!!

[@DebtFreeMillennials]

I don’t ever want to be too busy with my work or making a home that I can’t enjoy the present. I’m a future thinker and love to plan for things. And also, if I spend the present constantly planning, I’m not really living life.

[@haleybenton7349]

The lord has used your channel to inspire me for years. Please keep challenging us, I know I can’t speak for everyone but I love it. I’ll keep you in my prayers Sarah!🤍🤍

[@lisamariejerusalem]

Dear Sarah, I really appreciate you taking about spending time with the Lord. That is an area that, no matter where we are in life, that needs to be a priority, especially in the times we are in. The Lord needs to be our #1. God bless you, your family, home and channel. Shalom dear sister! ✌🏽♥️

[@olgasemenyuk8157]

I never thought that this was “unattainable “ because HUSBAND Is at home doing tedious behind the scenes work. I would love to re organize and bake while my husband is taking care of our kids or editing, and then get paid for reorganizing my house hahahaha well played Sarah, well played. Everything is divided 50/50 . If keeran had a normal job outside of the home then you would see what 80% percent of moms deal with

[@Nat859]

THANK YOU 💯

[@SweetnoteSweetnote]

Amen!

[@jaylynnmatthies6500]

But that is still fairly new!

[@Nat859]

@@jaylynnmatthies6500 so are the “hate” comments that she’s referring to in th video lol

[@jaylynnmatthies6500]

@@Nat859 I don’t think so. I’ve been following her for years and it’s definitely been something she deals with from people lots

[@ruth9391]

You are so inspiring, don’t let anyone bring you down. You’re homemaking is an absolute ministry 💕 My goal in life is to be a Proverbs 31 woman, and in many ways you help me get there through a more modern lens.

[@hellymia88]

You didnt need to explain yourself at all but damn Sarah...you need a big slice of humble pie😂

[@cerenity3578]

um.. this a hate comment or something?

[@citlalliyepez5379]

Wym

[@hellymia88]

What i mean is that shes over here literally saying how her home IS perfect all the time and how her life IS perfect and that she literally does NOT want 'us' to be able to relate to her, like...what?!😂🙈 thats why i have a love/hate relationship with her. I just think she could have been a little bit more humble about it, thats all.

[@stephanieolivas3978]

@@hellymia88 100% the rachel hollis pride vibes. So self glorifying. Girl wash your face. "I'm challenging you -- nay, INSPIRING -- you to be better than you are... Like me!"

[@hellymia88]

Whoa...her humble pie just got served🙈

[@stefvanderveldt6158]

“We don’t work or function or think like a normal wife and mom does”…. Yeah you lost me there. The entitlement is real.

[@castella352]

Would you consider how she does things like a normal mom? Putting aside the very tidy house, she records then edits a good portion of her life for public judgement so she can get a paycheck. Like yeah my mom's house was super clean and organized, but most mom's doing get paid to be homemakers.

[@paullehmann626]

I found it quite strange how Sarah Therese asumes that her life is better than others and how she says she wants to challenge and inspire people. In some videos I feel sympathy and respect for her, but this video makes me feel like I am watching a religious woman feeling superior. I do not want to live like that. Maybe her rigid lifestyle and her high need for control are more functional emotion regulation strategies, I mean more functional than substance abuse, but to me it feels very much effort to regulate yourself like that all the time. My goal is to accept and "surf" my emotions and try to stay calm when my house is a mess sometimes or I am not ably to get rid of the last babyfat. I try to persue my goals, but try not to obsess as much. Her lifestyle is interesting to me, but definitely not an inspiration or role model.

[@kimalonzo7387]

This video was made solely in response to what viewers comment about to her.

[@ajbcreationsmt]

I really like her channel as well, but the VERY condescending tone of this was a big turn off. Self righteous, right fighting, isn't attractive on anyone. Ever. This all smells of hubris to me.

[@itylina]

💯

[@dominiquejones1091]

Then.... why are you here? 😂

[@herrengelsful]

You are arguing the point no one was making. People aren't angry at you because your life is unrealistic - what they mean is the images of your family and home that you project can make some people feel down about themselves because it contributes to often unrealistic expectations for women and moms everywhere. I'm not saying you should stop your content - honestly, I love it, and it inspires me and I hope when I have children, this is the lifestyle I will have - but you cannot deny that it is not always possible for everyone and there already exists this overwhelming image of the perfect mom with the spotless house and homemade meals. Obviously, how we react to this content is on us, and you shouldn't be responsible for everybody's feelings especially since you are privileged enough to be an intense homemaker, but I feel like you just don't really understand where people are coming from. I feel like all you had to say is that what we see is at most 20 minutes from your whole week - there's a lot of stuff that goes behind the scenes, and sometimes your house is a bit messy and you have to eat cereal for dinner, and that's okay, sometimes it happens, that's life. You didn't need to get all defensive about how you want to live your life beautifully - we get it and it's admirable and keep it up.

[@aubri3799]

Finally somebody commenting something that makes sense

[@jennifert5120]

I believe that she knows that it’s not possible for all mothers/wives to live life like she does. She knows she’s very blessed in that regard and privileged; she’s stated that several times in this video and others. God bless.

[@amandalou4350]

That’s like saying it’s unrealistic to be extremely fit to someone who works out every single day. Or it’s like saying it’s unrealistic to have so much knowledge to a surgeon. It’s not unrealistic, but it’s also not for everyone. If she is sharing her real life and others cannot achieve that, it’s because we all have different life styles, priorities and circumstances, but it certainly is not portraying anything unrealistic. There is a difference between someone staging something and pretending that is what they do and someone showing what they actually do. This is how she has set up her true life, you can be inspired (like you said) or know it’s not for you and watch something else

[@kellymhanson]

Completely agree with you that it is contributing to unrealistic expectations for women everywhere. It's not unrealistic for her because guess what -- this is literally her job. She makes money from filming cleaning, decluttering, cooking, exercising, shopping, and even just talking like this video. It's an extremely uncommon setup she has. As viewers, we should constantly remind ourselves that for working women (and men), this IS unrealistic. There are only 24 hours in a day and when we have 8 to work and 8 to sleep, there's only 8 leftover for ... Literally everything else in life. The math doesn't work out. The main thing that bugs me about Sarah's videos is her narration about why she's doing what she's doing (e.g. spending time to make fresh bread, scavenging 5 different thrift stores for a single item) and how it's so much better, without acknowledging that it's something most people can't make time for. Sometimes she'll say something like "no judgement if you don't do this, but I just think this is better for my family, my well-being, and the planet" as if it's a totally achievable thing for anyone watching and the only reason anyone would not make the same decision is by (uninformed) choice. She comes across as very uppity. She doesn't realize the fish bowl she's living in.

[@leah6425]

@@kellymhanson Your fish bowl comment is spot on, in my opinion. This is her life, absolutely. I don’t doubt she’s being genuine about what she shares and what their life is like. But it is a fish bowl. Most families’ lives are not like this and it is unreasonable to compare even. Being an influencer and making your income this way, you have to be in it 100% and that creates sort of a bubble for you and your family. Influencers & family vloggers live in this bubble and therefore often don’t really understand where their viewers are coming from. I believe Sarah is genuine, but her life in her bubble is unrelatable for many viewers, and our perspectives are often unrelatable for her, which is what we’re seeing in the case of this video.

[@stschubs]

The ego feels pretty overwhelming in this video and like you did it to glorify yourself? Who cares what people think and what are you trying to prove? I don't look at your videos and see exceptional homemaking or hardcore or whatever you want to label yourself as, just as another person doing another thing. It neither motivates me or overwhelms me or shames me, you are no better than me or anyone else, and vice versa.

[@annamiekewraight5408]

You do not need to put her down. She is trying to do her best, and she owes herself self love. Go work on yourself.

[@emmilittlemuffin]

@@annamiekewraight5408 you just put someone else down. Additionally, self love is egotistical and unnecessary, you should do all things without grumbling but Paul himself said no man deserves thanks or lauding of praise for doing only what he is supposed to do. She is a mother, a wife, and a human who keeps her house clean and her kids fed. No one deserves an hour of bragging and lavishing praises upon your own head for doing what a majority of women do without notice or thanks already.

[@SweetnoteSweetnote]

Amen!

[@LadyAndieJane]

Well if you don’t see her videos or life as being too perfect and unattainable/unrealistic then she is obviously not addressing you. She is addressing a certain criticism and she has every right to. The ego in your comment that you think she is specifically addressing you is ironic.

[@marijaradivojevic759]

this is beyond ridiculous you are so unaware of how privileged you are for not having to go to an office/factory/whichever workplace for 40 hours a week and return tired and have to do chores and feed your kids and spend time with your kids and stay healthy mentally and physically. you creating content online, both you and your husband staying home and having people help you with your work online is so out the average that you shouldn't be the one to talk about this being your personality and the way you like your house to be. A lot of people love being organized and having great-quality food and clothes but just don't have enough time and money to do so. You taking pride in being an intense homemaker and raising 4 kids is just so ridiculous and as far from the christian values as it can be.

[@rifafiaz1868]

She worked hard for it... She wasn't always perfect... he husband used to work too... She started KZbin and worked to get what she has now and earned enough so her husband could leave his job... She's inspirational... If she can do it we can do it too...✨

[@marijaradivojevic759]

@@rifafiaz1868 you didn't understand what I said at all. It's great that she is inspirational for you. She most definately isn't perfect because no one is, but if she brings you joy, awesome. My point above still stands.

[@als239]

I am the same way with my house, I don't feel in the flow if things aren't neat, clean, and orderly, there is definitely an energetic component to this. Love your "fishbowl" thoughts, good reminder for us all!

[@alyssahansen8886]

LOVE THIS. the people you watch online should challenge you. I am only 18, but you have done that for me! You inspire me to build healthy habits NOW for not only me in this moment, but for my future self and my future family. You are motivating me to change my life so that I live in a way that makes sense for me, and my best functioning. Thank you for being an “influencer,” for the good.

[@beverleyhirst9380]

people need to stop binge watching whatever it is including KZbin - you can get a lot done in 30 minutes. People need to put down other people's perfection and create their own.

[@LovingLifeasEmma]

love this!! Needed to hear it!

[@natalia1045]

🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@AleiaAnimalLover368]

Agreed 100%! I watch KZbin for a short time only after I have my responsibilities done. If I my to-do list isn't done, I skip the internet for that day. As a result my house stays clean, my family stays happy, pets stay well cared for, I stay happy & busy. This makes me feel productive and happy, has even helped my mental health. I understand everyone has different circumstances, but the people I know that complain about other people being "unrealistic" or that their life is disorganized, are the ones binge watching Netflix or scrolling KZbin for hours.

[@kristynascholzova1854]

I don’t think people actually think you’re fake. We do believe you do all of this, regardless of filming.The thing is, in order to truly inspire and challenge people, they need to feel like you are one of them. That you are not a superhero or an alien from other planet. They need to see that you too are not perfect, you wake up with messy hair, your kids don’t always behave, sometimes you stress about things, sometimes you make a bad decision you regret, sometimes your cooking exeriment goes wrong... We don’t see those parts of your life very often and that makes it look unreal. What I’m trying to say is, if you want to make a change and be inspiring, you need to also be relatable. We do love your content and I personally find it very inspiring, but oftentimes I wish you could make your videos less filtered, which would make me go "ahah, she is a person like me, maybe I could do it too".

[@SMsmSM12343]

Yesss

[@ss-lb6kb]

Except she doesn't wanna be relatable. I've recently discovered loepkkyslife and found that they're both so similar except Delilah admits to being exhausted and i feel that and love that it feels normal and that i'm not a shitty mom. But at the same time i also feel like watching Sarah makes me wanna elevate and be a better version of myself in a way that if she's not tired, i can be not tired too. Lol contradicting but i hope that makes sense

[@morgancoons7966]

Being a public figure/influencer especially a Christian one is incredibly difficult in the times we’re in. Continue to be a light!! Do what you need to do and stick to what you believe and continue living in what you know to be the Lord’s will for your life and your families. Sending love your way❤️

[@ashlynshippy5755]

I think it’s inspiring how hard you work at taking care of your husband, home, and children. ❤️

[@MommaDrake02]

You're so inspirational for me, as a mom, a wife and a Christian. Yes, you have changed as I've watched your channel for over two years now, but those changes are all positive growth. It's been wonderful to take this journey of life with you sharing little snippets.

[@UCANUKE]

Major kudos to you for going above and beyond to share your life in your videos. It definitely requires a lot of energy to film and edit…You definitely run a very intentional life that you and your family have built up over the years, and are still creating. hope that the 82 ppl who disliked this video takes a moment to re-evaluate their current lifestyle/priorities and figure out how to better steward their time/energy. Loved this chat!

[@elisabethdubbeld]

We all should live more intentional life

[@chiloveisintheair]

I think though that we often forget that there is an immense amount of privilege that comes with being able to be a homemaker. A privilege that's not often afforded to a lot of BIPOC homemakers. Staying home and being a full-time homemaker is a privilege. I start my day at 5:30am, and I work all day outside of the home to provide for my children and family, and no matter how much prioritizing I do, I will truly never have enough time for a daily sourdough starter. That's because of the fact that I do not have the economics for staying home with my family. So I watch this channel because it's the lifestyle I pray that one day my family will have the financial stability and opportunity for. With that being said, I take time away and time in prayer and thought to never become overwhelmed with what I don't have. Hence, I don't feel any type of way and it makes me sad Sarah receives hate because that's not her burden to carry. But I think it's important that we remember the immense amount of privilege we each hold in different ways.

[@kellymhanson]

Privilege is the perfect word for it.

[@catr9698]

Everything has a bite. Its one thing for another ... more likely... one thing or another. I think it's more the decisions that we have made in life that lead us into some hardships that we face at the present. I wouldn't change them though. They have lead me to what I have now. Tell you the truth though, bipoc i am but i don't think that had much to do the hardships (pridefully stupid decisions most likely). Probably controversial but ... my immigrant mom (full time homemaker/ full time maid) showed me hard work and will power ... regardless of the racist/sexist/toxic stuff she put up with .. triumphs, always. God is good, continue to kick butt in your life. I pray that the good will always outweigh the bad in your life, in Jesus' name. I pray that same prayer for myself. Don't be offended. Im really just talking to myself. Time to hang some wet clothes.

[@adrianakellogg4493]

@@catr9698 I totally agree with you. I’m Mexican, so I guess considered “bipoc”? However I’ve never thought of myself as more or less privileged than others and believe what the Bible says that there is “neither Jew nor gentile”. I do think that maybe Sarah is overthinking things a bit here though. It’s not a bad thing for her to have developed these specific skills and success.

[@juliak.6722]

And please everyone don’t forget, that she seems to have her husband at home and he is obviously at least helping with the children and work. Not everyone has that. I love her clean house and everything. But please don’t compare to her. She is just in a very different situation than most people are.

[@something.about.plants2495]

So true! But I also remember her videos before Kieran was able to stay home, her priorities and habits were much the same. I really think her clean home and organized life is from her personality and years of prioritizing and making certain habits.

[@AC-iw5mv]

Yes exactly this!!!

[@adrianahernandez6533]

I totally relate to you about not being able to relax until things are “perfect”

[@shainasmith9923]

Something about this almost felt like watching Mr. Rodgers and when he would talk about hard topics. Loved it and I love being motivated and challenged by how wonderfully productive and diligent your lifestyle is. It's impacted my personal life and helped me to create healthier habits that make me happier! Especially in a hard, rut season of my life. Thank you for all of your hard work!

[@Julia-lt4jp]

It sounds like a lot of people are just jealous honestly, creating roadblocks for themselves. Of course what you do is attainable! You work hard and see results 👍🏻

[@elofamily7241]

Maybe this year's lesson could be humility... ;)

[@susanwilson9417]

AMEN!

[@noelleleithem1731]

I don’t agree, it sounded like being unapologetic for the way she wants to live her life and inspire people.

[@kellymhanson]

@@noelleleithem1731 it's not just that she "wants" this life, she also has an immense amount of privilege, as another commenter said. Not every homemaker can make money on KZbin from what they do the way she does. Sarah worked hard to get this channel up and running, but there are only so many people who can achieve this, the way that there can only ever be a few people who win a gold medal at the Olympics.

[@patisauniausia]

One has to love all these super humble people here who have found time to listen for half an hour even though they didn't like what they're hearing, and then tell Sara (and the internet) what humility score she gets. The world is a miraculous place. Do you people treat your friends like this as well? No wonder complaining is much more popular in female conversations, it seems that people are just having a very hard time listening to someone tell them how happy they are in their life.

[@kellymhanson]

@@patisauniausia you're totally right that people who don't like her should just not watch the videos -- clearly from the overwhelming positive comments on the video, we do have this self-selection effect. For me, I had subscribed because I got into minimalism and vaguely liked her decluttering videos and just kinda kept watching her stuff without really connecting with it too much but I couldn't put my finger on why. But with how arrogantly she talked in this video and the discussion in the comments, I finally understand why I never really vibed with her. So, I have unsubscribed actually because I can't stand her now that she's revealed her ugly perspective like this. I bet she lost a few followers with this humblebrag video (though maybe made up for it with the amount of engagement/comments it generated...).

[@aurorap.7578]

I personally feel supper encouraged and inspired when I watch your channel. I struggle with laziness and shying from responsability and watching you does make me what to be better and do more. 'If your hands find something to do, do it with all your might' is what I think of when I watch you.

[@OrthodoxMidwife]

I love Sarah’s videos. They’re like a peaceful escape from my life when things are a bit crazy. They inspire me to take specific steps to get my metaphorical and physical house in order.

[@PothePerson]

When I became a mother I learnt that the more I do, the more I CAN do. The more I clean, the less I have to clean, and the more I cook, the easier it gets to cook. That's why I think it's great to push myself to do more, and watch inspirational videos like this to get ideas.

[@GIGILSTEMActivitiesforKids]

Mothers are super heroes.

[@caitlyndaniel7163]

I would personally love more videos on HOW you do it all! From feeding yourself spiritually to tips and tricks! I could also listen to a podcast of you all day long. 🤪

[@kellymhanson]

KZbin is her job is how she does it

[@lovejaklyn]

I’m not married nor have kids yet but I’ve been watching your videos since 2019 and you we’re the best subscription I’ve ever made. Your videos made me more organized and minimalist and for me, that’s like preparing myself for finally being a wife & mom in the future. That is the big impact you have made to my life and I’m so thankful for you for that. Your life & way of doing things is not unrealistic. Anyone can do things the way you do. It just depends on how much do you want your life to be organized & put together that you actually do something about it. Anyway, I love you Sarah! I love you & your family. Sending love from the Philippines.

[@Majf0821]

It’s not unrealistic for moms who are stay at home moms or work from home and have their spouse home at all times….but for all other moms that go to school, are single moms, etc. it definitely kinda is unrealistic. All moms are amazing and all situations are different !! Do not feel discouraged if you are not able to do the things other moms like Sarah are able to do.

[@belenhernandez4619]

Sarah, you inspire me every day to be better, to try to live a more mindful life and to love and care myself to be able to it with others. 💖 You don't have to explain yourself!! You are doing great and you should keep being real! I love it and I know bunch of people do it too 😘 Gigante hug

[@evatoon984]

Coming from a mom who didn’t homemake the way you do, it is realistic, we are all different, don’t shame yourself for not doing all the things, but don’t shame others for doing all the things, if Sarah makes homemade bread and you don’t, be happy for her!! Don’t compare, accept who you are and thrive in that 💪🏼

[@roxyn14]

what i’m showing isn’t a lie, my house really is this perfect, none of this is unrealistic… and also i’m hiring an assistant to help me!

[@damarisdiaries5414]

Who is it?

[@cynthiajohnson8463]

🤣

[@Nat859]

I absolutely love you’re videos and you really are inspiring when I stumbled upon you’re videos it was refreshing to see someone love serving their family as much as you do. However saying “my life is perfect however I have this job and it’s unrealistic” just sounds so wrong and I think esp to those who work that 9-5 or even some of my friends who leave their babies at night and their husbands to go work night shift as a nurse because they have to. Your job isn’t harder than anyone else’s siting in the comfort of your home editing videos, and it just comes off that way in this video like humble bragging. Again I love you and I’m so glad you share your life with us I look forward to your vlog style videos and have took so much good from them!

[@Marina.S.Suarez]

I am so glad you did this video, I did notice some of those comments that this is not normal for a mom to have it together like you. But it is for me, I thank God he gives me strength and health to keep up my home. I love to keep my home clean it reduces my anxiety. Some people laugh and say why do you clean your house each week when it's not even dirty. Well that's why it's not dirty it's because I keep up with it. Alot of women don't want to be home makers any more. But I think its wonderful to have a clean and beautiful home for your kids and husband to come home to. I remember my mom did it and it was the best feeling in the world that I got to come home from school to dinner starting to smell nice and a clean home.

[@jodilundt]

You're a Rockstar Sarah!🌠 I keep watching your videos because you are authentic and real. People can learn so much from you 💜

[@as0205_]

I think what people are trying to say is that 25-26 year old don't typically have 4 children, a husband, a house, a lot of money and a job where they can afford to stay at home with their kids. I think that if you have over one million followers on social media, and a lot of them have told you that your videos make them feel bad, it is irresponsible to believe you don't have an influence on your followers. I do agree that you don't need to change who you are or what you do to make others happy, however it's totally possible to make lifestyle and homemaking videos without making other people feel bad about their life. Maybe you can makes those videos with a different approach ? I hope you can see this comment as constructive criticism and not an attack.

[@rebeccamichelle9461]

I'm sorry but this is really hard to watch. This was all for your own glory Sarah sorry. You came to address all the people that say 'your life is unrealistic' and all you've done is tell them how much more you actually do and how even more 'unrealistic' it is than they think. I've been where you are and thought as you have. The only thing this video has inspired me to do is to become a more humble mother and home-maker myself. Youre not better than 'normal mothers' because your house is immaculate and because you juggle so many things. This was a really disappointing video.

[@_fadouce]

honestly , i'm not even a mom, i'm not even married , i'm a college student in north africa ( tunisia) and i follow you and love your content. i'm an introvert i like staying at my apartement alone, the things you do don't seem unattainable to me , you motivate me a lot, i have changed a lot of habits , i am more organised and minimalist now , i take care of myself better since i started preparing healthy shakes and snacks and prepare my lunch box everyday instead of eating junk food, my body feels better and healthier , and my mind is always relaxed when im studying in my room , you make my life much more simple and happy. thank you sarah for inspiring me to not waste time laying on the couch watching rick and morty. (sorry for bad english) much love to you and karen and the cutiiieesss

[@_fadouce]

i actually do drawings and colourings whenever im over stressed and i'm actually a mom of a 1 yo cat , if that counts xD

[@ashleyvictoria3763]

I love these beautifully real seek into you. I love seeing your real emotion, how honest and just love for the lord you speak. I love your videos and have watched you for years but these sitting with you and painting with you videos are just my favorite of yours. I hope you do more.

[@johannaschwarz2457]

So your personality. It’s all possible when you don’t watch tv and practice minimalism. I’m so much more organized and put together now that I follow these 2 principles. Thanks for sharing this.

[@kate_rae_porteous]

I think maybe people think it’s unrealistic because if you and your husband weren’t able to both film as a job than it would be unrealistic to be mostly home making 24/7 which then again does make the filming the unrealistic part.

[@viikase]

I honestly don’t see this change everyone’s screaming about , all I see is your growing, looking better and getting fitter 😍literally lool I actually don’t see the problem but inspiring others like myself to better out day to day life’s🤷🏽‍♀️ I was just watching your other video about ‘you changing’, from that video to this one I still don’t get what the problem is. Honestly girl, you keep thriving & doing you & your husband 💕

[@mrsstacyhomemaker3827]

I read some of the comments and I think this video can be received so differently based on how the individual watching it is currently feeling and how their confidence is doing. I’m having a confident and motivated type of day, so I received the video well and am feeling pushed to get to the next level of maturity and skill in my life. If I was in a low and feeling crappy, this would probably have made me feel worse. So that says so much about us individuals watching and not much about you. You said what is true about you and that stands, it doesn’t change based on how us viewers are currently feeling. You aren’t wrong for boldly opening up about the things you have practiced and accomplished in your life!

[@riawhetstone3725]

Anytime I hate on myself for not accomplishing enough, I remind myself to give myself some grace. Everyone prioritizes different goals at different times & people need to remember they are only human & rarely does anyone have control over their external conditions or energy levels. You remind me to give myself some grace 💕 Thank you for sharing!

[@synnacastroman3813]

Ugh I’m the same, I can’t relax if things are done! My husband would be like sit down! I seriously can’t rest in a messy house. My apartment is not sparkling clean, but it does need to be neat in my mind.

[@JuliannaRedeemed]

As someone who came from a broken family. As well as learning from a mom who had a lot of childhood trauma and dealt with depression/anxiety. Sadly I picked up a lot of bad habits and watching your channel since you first started has definitely inspired me to be better but not because I’m not enough or what I’m doing isn’t enough but because I know God is proud when I push myself. I used to hate cleaning but now I definitely feel like I can’t do anything unless my house is clean. I don’t have a lot of money or even my own income currently. I just know it’s coming. So when I see your life and the things you can buy or have Im just so happy that you have all those blessings especially since you lived in a tiny home and now you have so much space. Also you reap what you sow and I know that I made a lot of bad choices in life so life might be harder for me then for you because you were strong and faithful to the lord and waited for marriage and I can just see your light. So I believe all those blessing you deserve and earned!

[@zoewilliams1646]

This doesn’t make any sense. One breathe you say this is your job and your income and then you say it’s your hobby. It can’t be both I’m afraid Also you need to mention that your husband is a stay at home dad or what ever. This is how you get things done. This is your job , your husband is at home looking after your kids and allowing you time to make bread and home school and clean and organise etc etc Your life is 100% unrealistic and unattainable. You are blessed with a great following of great people who support your life and family Just own up to it. Not hard really

[@rifafiaz1868]

I think I mentioned this in reply to another comment but again... Her life is attainable.. She worked hard for it... She wasn't always perfect... he husband used to work too... She started KZbin and worked to get what she has now and earned enough so her husband could leave his job... She's inspirational... If she can do it we can do it too if we try...

[@LinaSaroza]

Your videos never make ME feel inadequate. Quite the opposite, they motivate and inspire me. There’s people out there always scraping for reasons to get “super sensitive about”.

[@estherdantuma8372]

I found your channel at a very vulnerable time in my life. I was a first time mom, and also new to being a sahm. Being a sahm in today's world is very isolating, and I am also a minimalist and a Christian. To find another woman like me, with my values, and choosing to live very differently than the rest of the world has tremendously helped me in my journey. 💗 My mother was also a sahm and is still an intense nurturer.

[@rachelb672]

The one thing you forgot to mention... Your spouse stays home with you 24/7.. Alot easier to get alot done when you have help everyday

[@emilybosarge6382]

Your channel is such a peaceful place for me to come to. Your relationship with the Lord shines through everything you say, do, and post online. I have never thought of your way of living as unrealistic. My mom was always an extreme homemaker as well so I saw that growing up and was so so blessed by it. I am not the homemaker you are, it is not something that comes naturally to me, and it is something I often have to push myself to do. But your channel drives me to want to work harder and be better for my husband and my baby that’s on the way. Thank you for sharing your life online, and for exuding God’s presence and peace when you do so 💜

[@dinahhaynes3502]

Thank you for sharing what you share! I am someone that can/ does so relate to you! I am a believer, I was married at just 20 years old, had babies young, just had my 4th baby a few weeks before you did. I homeschool and love it. Enjoy a clean and organized home! I so appreciate knowing that I’m not the only one when the world tells women that we should want to go out and have a job other then being a mom… yet you encourage and push me to try new things. Thank you for all the hard work that you put into your videos. They are beautifully made! 💕

[@J3385]

Sarah you are who I look up to with how I’d love to be a mother. If I’m blessed with a baby, I’ll be even more so if I can be half the parent you are x

[@andreadavis9730]

I think that if you are living a certain life, finding it sustainable, and are enjoying it, then it's realistic. Like you said, realistic to one person is not necessarily to another person for various reasons and there are seasons. When I first got married, I kept my house perfect as well. However, now I have 2 small children, work full time outside the home, and have a long commute. I've realized that I need to let go of some things and that it's ok to need help. I realized I need to make margin for rest. I find your video so inspiring and soothing. I've never once felt "less than" after watching one. You rock Sarah 😊

[@bernadettemoore2352]

I feel like everyone these days wants to gather in misery and wallowing, etc. I talk about this with my “real” friends who are moms. It’s almost like you’re a bad person anymore if you talk about what you love and the joys of parenthood etc etc. just because many may not feel that way. Idk BUT you make me feel like I can get more done, realistically, & in a happy way. Like, I want to do more of the things you do… for me and my family. To each their own but I’d rather see the things you do and love, and how you share it all, rather than use it as a way to make myself feel bad or “less than” or whatever. 🤨

[@shantellerivera5963]

I absolutely love your content! I want you to know, that I never despise you, in fact I look up to you. I love to see how you and your family are growing and it just drives me to improve on myself daily. I don’t feel like you push me to be exactly like you, but you do push me to be the best mommy and person that I can be daily!

[@CharisBombela]

This touched my heart. Especially the Mary and Martha part. Thank you. I’ve been so inspired by your videos.

[@emilycall9192]

Thank you for being so vulnerable! You have given me the courage and inspiration to be able to homeschool and to be able to work on the things that I really care about

[@maryvaughan6259]

I honestly attribute a lot of my own cleaning habits and the way I run my home to you. I started watching your videos right before I got married and it inspired me to have my home similar to yours and I don't think it's unattainable. I love keeping a nice and tidy home that works for me!

[@Amy-ct2rx]

You motivate me to better & yes, sometimes I look at your videos & get sad that I can’t reach you have reached but it never came to my mind to hate you for it. I admire you & I know it’s because you have different circumstances

[@Aureya83]

Hi Sarah! Thanks for this video. Could you please make a video on your energy sources? Where do you get energy from to go through the day with such intense work? Don't you ever feel fatigued / exhausted?

[@lemmings6516]

I don't feel and don't like but understand some of the hate towards your content. You make everything seem so easy, but actually benefit from a whole lot of privileges. You are a stay at home mom in an intact family and an extremely supporting spouse. You are white, heterosexual, integrated in a larger community (religion) which comes with certain connections and stability. You make your living online with content that regard lifestyle choices and motherhood, so there you hit two birds with one stone. You have a beautiful house and 4 wonderful able-bodied children that appear to be mentally healthy. You both seen to be mentally stable and addiction free. You were probably both raised by loving parents into a community that shared your lifestyle, and is supportive of your goals. That all matters dramatically and if you say that these things could be attainable for everyone then you are fooling yourself. Some of us were brought up in the literal shit, thinking of themselves as shit, not being able to perform their best. This is not an excuse, it's an explanation. There are a lot of people with harder lives than yours, you have an extremely privileged point of view. The haters are probably the ones who feel the social punishment of not having it together like you do. It's not personal, their anger is actually directed towards the inability to comply with the social norms and then seeing you on the other side "wanting to challenge them" while eating from a golden spoon. In my area there were no people as well off as you, parents were mostly separated, some had mental health issues, some had addictions, kids went to daycare because parents could not afford to stay home. I know you are thankful, but don't let it be an empty phrase. Acknowledge what you have been gifted exactly and keep in mind that you just have been very very lucky when the cards were dealt. There is nothing wrong with thriving and I totally feel only love for all the things you have, but it's foolish to think you are where you are because of your personal efforts alone.

[@stayathomecichlidmom3579]

My ex husband grew up in the bible belt of NC. Small close knit community, who were all very nice people but they all were oblivious to the world around them. Even different communities close by. Which creates a person with a general lack of insight towards other people and their ways of life. There's definitely truth in "ignorance is bliss" I have many scars from my past, good and bad. Her life to me is unrealistic but not in a "goal" type way. I can't erase my past nor would I ever want to. At 44 it's taught me that my struggles, my happiness, my life, is just that, mine. Just because someone doesn't share this does not mean I have any right or dare to belittle there's. I could easily say that I wish I had it as simple as her but I know if I did, it wouldn't feel so simple. Personally this video shows her age and lack of insight. Which again is not bad but when you put yourself on social media it opens you up to a wide range of people, which it doesn't sound like she understands or has any interest in understanding.

[@UnashamedMama]

I think it’s hard for people to be challenged. It’s easier to tear someone down rather than change themselves. You’ve definitely inspired me to change and grow for ultimately the Lord but, also for my family. It’s hard, no doubt about that but, it’s so good.

[@PlantStrongFitnessTV]

I honestly do watch your videos and always think "how in the world does she..." But I also always feel inspired and love watching you for that. Never do I feel resentful toward you for anything you are doing! I think it's amazing to have such great, peaceful, family-oriented role models for people to see! 💖🙏

[@weexplore123]

Hi Sarah, Please keep inspiring and challenging people. My house, my life is far from being pristine but I’m working on it one day at a time. You inspired me from the very first video I watched of your channel. Your minimalist approach and how you keep your space with the calm colors are all inspiring and soothing. We are renting now so we cannot change the color of our walls (yellow ) but once we have our own home or even move to the next place, calming colors will be a requirement for me. I’m also decluttering little by little. Our apartment is small but I saw one of your videos when you used to live in a small apartment and I got some ideas of how to store things. Ever since watching that video of yours when you used to live in a small space has helped me organize my small apt better. It has also helped me to embrace my small space and to be creative with the space that we have. Also, I see my small space as a blessing and as a way to challenge me to have in it only the things that we need and to bless others with the excess stuff that we have and don’t need. Like I said I’m far from having a pristine home but I’m working to get there. I want to be the best me God created me to be. Thank you for being the best you God created you to be. I want to continue to be inspired by you and people like you. Hopefully, I will be able to inspire others as well. So THANK YOU! God Bless you!

[@emilytaflinger3695]

Your content has gotten me through some rough stuff. I had major PPD after I had my son, and it quite literally nearly killed me. But I would put your videos on and listen to them to take my mind off of things and watching your family function normally and you absolutely radiate joy helped me pull through and cope. It kept reminding me that I could feel that way again. Keep doing you, because it inspires me to walk closer with the lord, love my husband better, and be a better mom and homemaker. Love your fam always and forever ❤️❤️

[@SillyKash09]

Also, do you find it hard to play with you kids? Because I find that I’m so ‘task driven’ I find it really hard to just ‘play’. I’m instantly bored and thinking of other house tasks I can do. Defs gives me mum guilt and I know my 4yo does notice my lack of play 😔

[@Haley_Wozniak]

Have to find some realistic expectations when you're keeping house with young children. If I wanted to keep my home guest ready at all times I would be doing it all day and wouldn't have quality time with my kids. I don't want my kids memory of me to be only cleaning.

[@SillyKash09]

Yeah exactly. Its definitely a juggling act. Kids need clean clothes and dishes, but kids also need mum’s attention. And you’re right, it always comes down to that end point, ‘what are my kids gonna remember about me in their childhood memories?’. Fortunately my husband is the exact opposite, he’s absolutely amazing with play, but is more challenged by doing housework so we make a great team when we’re both around. Don’t know how single mums do it ❤️

[@3ate4]

I'll be honest, I've watched several of your videos and began to feel jealous... But then oddly enough, God used it to push me forward and be inspired to do things in my home (and have a better attitude about it). (I'm a stay at home wife and mom too) so, ya I'm jealous of some women, but then I look at what God gave me in my husband and kids and house and think, I'm so blessed! I may not agree with Sarah 100%, but she is challenging me to do things better in my home and have a better attitude about it. That's the beauty of having differences. God can use it for good and let it shape us. Thanks for your honesty Sarah!

[@eugeniavang4706]

I just want to say keep being yourself and keep cleaning because you are the only reason why I can push myself to clean and be a better person! Thank you!! Thank you!! I inspire to be just as dedicated, disciplined, and devoted like you. ❤️

[@anon1043]

I feel this video was her telling us how amazing she is, or thinks she is. The video didn't need to be that long to say what she needed to say. I also watch her videos regularly, and don't seem to see a lot of hate comments. I feel this was more of a video asking for praise for how amazing she is and out of the normal in her eyes, by saying about comments to seek sympathy and hope people are thinking how amazing she is when watching her. Just came across like she was praising/boasting herself alot, which was cringy. You don't do the things she does to seek the praise of man, but soley to glorify God. "Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ."

[@bethanyborgogno2400]

Sarah, I love your channel, it gives me so much inspiration and motivation to know that I always have things to improve on. I love how you are set in your faith and are so appreciative of where you are in life despite everything. You have blessed me so much in your content and your little chats! Keep doing what you're doing! x

[@heritagejoy]

I do feel like I can do more or better when I watch many KZbin videos but for me it’s more of an inspiration and a push. I have less experience and I know I can grow and I’m thankful for people like you who share your intense homemaking because what I may think was un attainable is just inspirational and encouraging. And having a different upbringing makes me not intense naturally at home making I’m just different in that way and I praise God for your encouragement in this sis💕

[@rsnj4501]

What is your point? Watch it back and you will be as confused as all of us.

[@lisamarielabercensie532]

If seeing successful women live their empowered lives triggers you then you probably have some self-work to do. It's so important to find nourishment in seeing other people live happy, full lives. Every single person deserves that.

[@sianevans3159]

Please don’t think I’m being a troll but successful, confident women don’t need to boast about themselves on social media making other people feel inferior. Who is this audience aimed at? I think it’s really strange to say “I don’t want people to relate to me, I want people to be inspired and challenged”. That insinuate that she doesn’t want people to match up to her, she wants to be the best.

[@brittanyking1693]

I just want to say that you are an inspiration. You are so good and kind and wise. Thank you for your amazing videos. I always leave them uplifted and wanting to be a better mom, wife, and person. So much love to you! ❤️❤️

[@christinamoyer4504]

I am constantly in awe of you, Sarah. You are one who is a such a good source of encouragement and inspiration. Sending all of my love your way. Blessings to you, sweet friend 💛

[@jessicapaul7538]

Thank you for sharing💓I love watching your videos and yes your not fake! Your a role model for me as a single mom who completely understands the home life. Your a rare type of person who gives your all😊 I can relate to alot of what you do and I think its great you do that for your family *especially after having a baby* much love and understanding. Thanks again!

[@importantbusiness2900]

For me personally, your channel is really inspiring, and so are you, as a person. I think sometimes I’d just like to see a bad day every now and again. Not out of spite, just cause, they happen? You know? And I bet it would be equally as inspiring to see how you deal with them, and what advice you have. I think you could, in turn, be both relatable and influential.

[@mamamiyu5923]

I unfollowed you for a year. Because I needed, I didn't feel like a good mother, wife or person. I looked at you and felt less. But I think it is ok, I was at bad place, after miscarriage and when I felt better I came back. I think that vulnerable people feel less. You are not the reason, but It was really hard to see such a strong person. And to have a "pause" is ok.

[@JaZmine147]

"It was really hard to see such a strong person." This is such a beautiful way to express what you felt, Mama Miyu.

[@inluvwivdamon]

I relate to this so much. Although our lives are different, as I'm not a mum (apart from a dog mum!) I've also had comments that my life is 'too perfect.' I'm also an intense home maker and minimalist and I love it! I love waking up at 5am and working 2 jobs. I love eating a healthy vegan diet that I make from scratch. This is why I love your content. I find it relatable AND challenging. Keep doing what you are doing as its so important 💚

[@orlanepautard962]

You are doing way more than me as a mom, your life is litteraly my life goals, but i'm not feeling bad because your have the "perfect life". I am just happy for you, and i am inspire by you ! So thank you ❤

[@mercycall6087]

I really like you, but this video is not a good look. It's actually the first video I've seen of yours that comes across any way but humble and happy. I kept waiting for you to say "I don't have everything together and I'm not perfect", instead you actually said the opposite of that over and over again. How other women feel when they watch your videos is not your responsibility, that's up to them, but this video is the epitome of humble bragging.

[@krystalsmith4022]

What people need to remember is that the guilt they carry is their own to deal with. Don't expect the world to change to make you feel better about your life. Sarah has created a beautiful life for her and her family and her videos will only trigger you if you're feeling guilty about not being able to do that for yourself. Sarah has inspired me to organize my pantry and manage laundry for a household of four by doing one load a day, but my house does not look like hers on a daily basis and I am absolutely happy with it because I know what works for me and I don't hold anyone's life as an example of what mine should look like.

[@theraayato5346]

Understanding the stages each of us are in life is so crucial in my opinion, right now I'm in a stage of healing and adapting, since I went from a constantly busy mom/AD/university ect. and now have to deal with some chronic illness and adjust they way I did things. I will feel guilty when I don't achieve everything I meant to but I have to forgive myself and ask God for strength and clarity to deal with the next coming day. But definitelly miss being efficient and proactive and will at some point get there again.