OPINIONATED | Can I afford to lose the money?? Lerato

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[@nozukojoseph2214]

Just been listening for 5min, I need to see Lerato face to face, eye to eye. I need her to teach me her way of thinking. She sounds young but is very very wise (according to me), I can take a lesson or 2 from her.

[@Reeen4623]

Lerato is the Girl. She knows her worth. She put herself 1st. I'm Lerato ❤

[@nozukojoseph2214]

I don't think Lerato is "being judgemental" but I think she is being realistic. I don't have to learn from my own experience BUT from those around me. She is educating us, teaching tough love, tough trust & putting yourself first. Can we be open to being taught by this young lady?? Can we abstain from putting words into her mouth. She never said "it is stupidity". I love her, she is cool, calm & believes in herself & her ideas. Big ups to you girl 💪💪💪

[@kitsokgatitsoe2161]

Anyone disagreeing with her is a potential future victim

[@charmainedoesit]

I second her too 😂when the guy comes with all stories about rent etc and this business proposal run

[@charmainedoesit]

Lerato is a clever and lucky girl😂🤛🏽l like that she remained cool

[@charmainedoesit]

I agree with Lerato kusasa nje someone will be scammed by their boyfriend. I think if someone asks for money don’t give and see their attitude. If they disappear then you will know they were playing you

[@kitsokgatitsoe2161]

Lerato don’t fold you’re spot on!!!!!!! Women need to discern better to avoid being scammed

[@mphohildahkhwerana2870]

Me and Lerato same whtsapp group 😂😂😂. I love her answers 😅

[@vuyombina4472]

You are me, I am you. With all the teachings and what we have seen people going through. We should be all like Lerato by now. Is there any woman who still gets married in community of property in this day and age? Not unless they are not working or do not have money at all

[@paballo5806]

Ghost Lady: "wena you are always calculating...." Lerato: "I am calculating can I afford to loose the money" Ghost Lady "but this is your husband" Lerato: "CAN I AFFORD TO LOOSE THE MONEY?! and after loosing it how will it impact me mentally" Protect Lerato!!!! ❤😂

[@khathutshelo051]

As a first born lady in South Africa. I wish to have an older sister like Lerato, Because most of us we learnt the hard way. A man is not your friend and he can use you and men are the biggest gold diggers in the world. I am lucky i didnt lose a lot of money but it still hurt to be used like that by someone I loved and saw a future with. Lastly thank you for these types of podcast, we learn a lot and grow.

[@Proudly-South-African]

I don't expect our sisters to be scammed these days. They're so many podcasts or channels that are exposing the modus operandi of scammers. A lot of them out there . I agree with Lerato. Let's do better ladies .

[@wafuladickson8177]

Lareto is really smart, I admire her sence of intelligence 😂

[@ThuliNgobese-q5u]

Lerato was raised by my mom. My mother taught me well. Thank you mom. I listened

[@veronicamakhafula6389]

Lerato is taking the " impact" very seriously. I love that❤

[@ntsoauoatsiame9428]

Totally agree with Lerato. I always say, “ if you would be okay not getting the money back, by all means ba kalime chelete eno .”

[@BrendaMasigo]

Thank you Lerato. One does not have to personally experience a scam in order to be street wise. We read we observe. The other thing is the education system. Money must be taught at an early age. We need to wake up. Love yona self is a scam. Why are we using my money?

[@nthabisengmakume-e6b]

With the knowledge and stories you have been sharing , we will never or should never be scammed by men ever again .

[@Toby616]

I'm actually surprised that Madam speaker and the other lady are shocked by Leratos opinion...I thought all of us ladies operate like this. I can never be love scammed...never!!

[@madams___speaker]

Someone had to be the devil’s advocate 😭😭

[@Keomolf_]

I really enjoyed the discussion. Waaaaaoooo ur opinions were worth noting

[@phutegorebone7948]

From street negligence i now believe Lerato is telling the truth, i have knowledge and i have been scammed before but it is still happening even now. Worse part by friends. Even my husband has thrown towel in me borrowing friends money.

[@sesimakoya]

It’s true love will blind you 😂😂😂 Lerato hasn’t met the guy of her dreams who turns out to be a scammer yet 😂😂😂😭 even me when I was younger I used to think like her

[@molebohengMatseka]

True...

[@desireebooysen4598]

Lerato educated herself well cause we it’s public knowledge out there and really getting scammed in these days are stout

[@diyteknix]

Love scamming is mainly bred from social media because of all the info people put out there...what do i mean?Love scamming requires exploiting someones vulnerability by playing on that fear such that they dont think rationally. If you have ever experienced a panic attack, you will know that during a panic attack you cant think. Even something logical seems incomprehensible. So love scammers take you to that point without you realizing...for example the widow lady. As women we come with many wounds that we looking for someone to heal. Absent fathers, baby daddy issues, abuse, lose of love etc. If you dont heal any of these wounds in private but turn to preach about them in public, then will be used to scam you in private.

[@VictoriousVee.]

Guy this applies to more than lovers, I don’t lend things that I can’t loose. If I don’t trust you I just give you the money so you won’t ask me again

[@WomanofGod2858]

Tell Lerato i love her . 😂

[@PurpleM13]

Lerato for President 😂😂

[@Uma_Lamban]

love is selfish, when you say you in love it means you love how they make you feel, you love how they treat you, you love what they give you, in a nutshell you prefer to simply focus on benefits over your conscience guard.

[@RoseKotana]

Lerato is telling the truth this ppl are very desperate to be loved

[@shirleymlombo2913]

It is ignorance. There are so many documentaries on this. Even if you did not experience this at home, there is enough information out there. In most of the stories, the asking for money starts very early on in a relationship. As far as I am concerned, no one should be asking for money less than a year in a relationship. Also as a rule, never give someone money you cannot afford to do without.

[@thelmamarovu291]

I wish to be Lerato in my next life Tough live,tough trust ,tough to Crack

[@PinkietheBosslady]

Lorato is 120990years old trust me 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@madams___speaker]

Ncwi struuu ❤

[@mbalie869]

Lerato I am you and you are me😂😂

[@SammyNene-i6d]

This is not fair to Lerato...she is giving her reasons and not judging....aeeee😂😂😂

[@nokubongamagqwashe7418]

Gosh I’m Lerato guys I hear other ladies too but me I don’t give money I can’t afford to lose even with friends I don’t have strength to fight for money

[@emeritatee1597]

I agree with Lerato 1000000000%

[@rudzanikharivhe6294]

Madam speaker, Owami have so many episodes about love scamming ladies are ignorant this things are sgared daily.....yes i agree with Lerato ladies are negligence

[@PinkietheBosslady]

🎉❤❤❤❤that's Mma Pastor B for me 😂

[@thandekantombela5735]

🌸I love you yezwa Madam ❤

[@gugulethunyoni4398]

Lerato 🎉🎉🎉🎉.

[@nomfundombhele9454]

I love Lerato ❤❤❤ street smart that one

[@-Natefo-]

I first thought that “Lerato” was Zintle until she spoke behind the scenes. Either way, I think Lerato is looking at this at face value and not the depth of the matter. Even businesses have been scammed by con artists.

[@lonagwegwe]

Tsholofelo didn’t even get airtime, not everyone get groomed

[@maggymathabathe8679]

I agree with Lerato 100%

[@ThuthukileDuma]

Guys u need to be selfish with ourselves lerato is right these ladies are so ignorant shame this is like having a baby whilest not working or married u signing ur self for being a single parent

[@malebogosello3563]

Nna I'm like Lerato. There's nothing wrong with her.

[@lonagwegwe]

Do not ever give a man large amount of money especially is he had never spent on you and when you do give even the person who have spent on you it should be less than what they have spend on you at least by 50%.

[@yoliswagracia7808]

Can we see Lerato please

[@RebeccaMokoena-j3l]

Including the story of Temoho (Mazibuko) Tshehlana who was exposed by his girlfriends. Lerato you now honeymoon of relationship mara?

[@AM-yk1vt]

The lady who gave money to the pastor was suffering from stupidity. Firstly you were not scammed. Secondly if someone asks you what Business do you know where you can get those returns in one month or where did you think the money was coming from. Let us not confuse greed with bieng scammed. Women are willing participants in criminal activity and act like they do not know. A scam has to be something where you believe you are doing a legitimate activity but the person is deceiving you. If you give money to a person and you get profit from nothing and you think that there is a legitimate business there then you are silly.

[@sparrow62210]

I concur 💯 there is a certain level of stupidity. I was raised by my aucles I swear all the time I hear ladies stories of being desperately longing then being emotionally and financially ruined by strangers baffles me😂😂

[@nelisiwendlovu3088]

She sounds like thando on TikTok, the 2000

[@madams___speaker]

Really? 🤔

[@mahlodimillicent6779]

Let me the first one to comment

[@PinkietheBosslady]

These Lorato is mentally ill....😢😢😢😢 i feel sorry for how she thinks😅

[@Kat-A-Pilla]

Lerato sounds like mac Gs fact checker

[@madams___speaker]

Neeehhh??? 😮😮😮😮