"I work hard to prove myself right - I made the right decision!" What an absolutely powerful idea this one. I've just taken a huge leap of faith towards my dreams and find myself second-guessing way too often when not having a great day. Just need to work hard to prove myself right about the decision. Just decided that's my mantra for 2016. Great motivation! Thanks Brian!!
@ssunkite19 жыл бұрын
Thanks Brian for bringing to light so many great books. Superb notes, as always.
@HeroicBrian9 жыл бұрын
+ssunkite1 Thank you! :)
@diana92989 жыл бұрын
I love the "possible better you" concept and the more effective way of praising. Thanks for this video and so many other helpful videos, Brian!
@HeroicBrian9 жыл бұрын
+Diana Haroldsen Right on and my absolute pleasure, Diana!! Thanks for your note and excited about all the optimizing in store for 2016! :)
@mmotorheadzzz9 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brian, subscribed to the membership group now, thank you so much for everything you do :)
@HeroicBrian9 жыл бұрын
+mmotorheadzzz My pleasure and thank YOU for your support!! :)
@mirosgerg8 жыл бұрын
Always awesome and well made, great job. I know that word, I know some people, but never I went so deeper!
@HeroicBrian8 жыл бұрын
+miros gerg Thanks!!
@lindahebb4832 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting
@HeroicBrian Жыл бұрын
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@gagzy19899 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! Love this Brian!!!
@HeroicBrian9 жыл бұрын
+gagzy1989 *highfives*! :)
@jaythompson22118 жыл бұрын
Great video as usual! And that "praise" study has me thinking about how I can apply that information not only to others, but to myself as well. Instead of telling myself that I'm so smart when I do something well, I should instead tell myself that I worked really hard and did a great job. Thus, perhaps, somewhat inoculating myself against obstacles in the future.
@HeroicBrian8 жыл бұрын
+Jay Thompson YES!!!!!
@dunawam9 жыл бұрын
you're a hero man! what a gift you've made!
@HeroicBrian9 жыл бұрын
+Marc Chilifritters Thank you, Marc!!!
@dunawam9 жыл бұрын
+Brian Johnson I want to say that that preview of the materials you've created was remarkable. I've never seen such a thing offered, practically given away, and then I think of some of the things you've taught me, and I realize it's supposed to be this way! thank you for the gift of sharing yourself, you are a great inspiration to me...💃
@HeroicBrian9 жыл бұрын
Marc Chilifritters Thank you, Marc!!!
@chrisloper40919 жыл бұрын
The believable possible neatly parallels Steven Johnson's idea of the "adjacent possible" for creativity, as described in his wonderful book Where Good Ideas Come From :)
@HeroicBrian9 жыл бұрын
+Chris Loper Awesome!
@sebastianm80284 жыл бұрын
Super inspiring, thanks!
@HeroicBrian4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Sebastian!! Zak | Team Optimize
@vizuz9 жыл бұрын
About the Smart/Work hard thingy, here's how it works in my experience. When you praise a kid by telling him he is smart/talented he will define his identity that he is talented/smart. He will think that he is somehow special and thus better than other people in that specific area. The problem arises when one faces an obstacle, because then he will start to doubt his talent and anxiety will occur. He will face his attention toward his negative thoughts in stead of the activity at hand. What if I'm not as good as I thought I was? Am I worthless? Will people stop loving me if I'm not as good as I think I am? People will go in to defense mode as soon as it's self-perceived identity is in danger. An other problem that might arise is that the "talented" kid might start to think that he can coast. He doesn't have to work as hard any more because he is "special". This can result in a kid half assing it and obviously the end result will suffer. When you praise kids for the hard work, you encourage kids for the process in stead of the result they produced. Kids are encouraged to focus their attention to the activity without worrying about the outcome, the ego stays out of it because the final result won't endanger their sense of identity. Praising kids for their talent/born gifts is not only a problem on a individual level but it's a big problem in Western society. We have created this huge focus on results/efficiency that we lost our focus on the activities of life itself. This creates a lot of anxiety in most people and - ironically - the end results suffer tremendously because of it. If we want the best end result we have to let go of the end result and start focussing on the process. It will be a huge step forward if we stop labeling ourselves by the tangible achievements we have achieved and start more defining ourselves in where our interests lie. Also in education we should ditch the current grading system (1 -10 here in Europa). Grading should be assessed by the amount of effort a student has put in. You can still set minimum standards for a pass, but stop these exact grades calculated by some mathematical formula.
@Ramesh-wi4kb8 жыл бұрын
how many authors created hat trick in your list.i can remember john maxell