Our Curly Hair Routines *Mommy and Toddler*

[@raisaburdak]

I’m so glad when you came out with this video you can tell that it’s real because there’s no sponsor. Unlike some other channels that usually when they post something unusual or whatever, first thing I say is “I bet there’s a sponsor and that’s why the video came out” and then when I click on the video, I’m right. It’s refreshing to see that when y’all post videos you can tell it’s pure and honest

[@denielleblake]

the hair growth is real! Mrs. girl it's grown so much. it looks sooo good love the hair tutorial

[@cashparker212]

Love that you've embraced your curls so that you can teach your children to love their curls too! Absolutely beautiful.

[@nataliemarie3675]

we need a makeup routineee it looks flawlesss. also what prodcts you use omggg

[@SuperWilliams27]

The growth of y’all since I started following y’all’s journey is nothing short of amazing ❤ from London 🇬🇧

[@tatianajimenez24]

As a curly hair girl myself I used to always hate my curls even though everyone around me has always told me how beautiful it is. As I got older and learned how to do my hair on my own and learned how to embrace it!! It’s now my favorite part of me ❤️

[@321MTorres]

Agree Desi, always had my hair straight during 20’s & most of 30’s for work or special events, because straight was “better”. I embrace my curls now. Not sure of % but us girlies are rare!! 🙌🏻 ALSO times are so different because there are more products for us and available resources like YT to learn how to embrace them ❤️❤️❤️

[@morrggss_]

when you were talking about your curly hair and things you dealt with as a kid bc of it, literally is me. it's like that for mixed girls too, my hair is very long, to my waist and curly like yours..your curls have made me want to start wearing mine. it's crazy how much i related to everything you were talking about. shout out to all my curly headed babes! 🥰 great video, my son will be 2 this month & he has curls too, so cute.

[@adrianamaya04]

This video was so inspiring for my daughters. My oldest finally after years of hating her curls has finally learned to manage her curls and embrace them. It’s been a struggle for her. Thanks for sharing your story ❤

[@tawnytirado143]

I have straighten my hair for the past 20 years. I have a little daughter who is beautiful with curly hair and I love it and I always tell her how beautiful it was but I felt so hypocritical telling her that but straightening mine you have motivated me to embrace my curls, and I have never felt more beautiful more powerful. I literally feel like the most beautiful girl with my hair. Thank you so much for giving me the courage to rocket and own it for me and my daughter.

[@yesmine]

Dark hair on you is so stunning Destiny ❤ I’m sure your hair is so happy w all the love it’s getting now and your younger self would be so proud of you 🥺

[@CookieFridays]

The result is absolutely beautiful! Also thanks for the talk because it encourages me to keep trying to wear my hair out, figuring out what works for me and what I like. I always wear my hair in two braids because it’s just easier but I can’t do that forever lol

[@JessicaDanielleT]

Omg Des just gorgeous! 😍 and Koa is so good! His curls soooo freaking cute. I can’t believe he let you pour water on his face without screaming! 😂 lol he really is a big boy now 🥺

[@courtneysimmons2446]

Love this video! Thank you for showing us!!! Koa sits so good while you do his hair! He's so adorable!!!

[@Marie-zz1el]

I’ve always thought you have the most gorgeous hair! It’s crazy how people’s mean comments can override what we think of ourselves and our beauty.

[@nicolefreyta]

I have naturally curly hair myself / I'm Hispanic as well... My hair looked like your hair back in the day... My hair was bone straight when I was younger but once I got my aunt Flo my hair changed to curly curly, ppl thought I had a spiral perm (Yes perm) back then... I hated it, did everything to always straighten it... I eventually just cut it short in 93 & it's be short for the last 29yrs... You're Beautiful... Much luv from Colorado ❤️

[@Chavo1271]

I love the results! I just recently started to embrace my curls & learn little by little how to make them so defined. I have short hair but I need to add some of your routine into mine! I love your hair!

[@jhaunamayy2874]

She ain’t said nothing but straight facts! Beautiful I love your curly hair Des !!! ❤😘😘

[@arelimoreno18]

Love what you mentioned about teaching our kids to love their hair! My children are mix (Mex & Black) and I have super straight hair and they both have different texture hair. My daughter super soft curly and my son wavy curls. I am making sure to learn as much as I can to not just style but to teach them how to style their hair. I have also gotten my daughter books on other little girls although curly hair (her fav "don't touch my hair") and I love how she now sees herself in other curly hair girls and knows they are beautiful too.

[@Budgetwithmee]

His hair is so cute!! Those CURLS!! & your hair looks amazing omg beautiful 😻

[@edithsgrandbaby9371]

Des I love your hair. I get so mad when people make fun of curly hair because honestly it's the best kind of hair. I prayed for curls from a young age and sadly never happened lol. My sons both have curly hair thanks to my husband and my oldest likes his cut low but my 5 yr old has more defined curls and I refuse to cut his hair lol. I always tell my boys they have such thick beautiful hair that so many women pay to have. I never want them to be ashamed of who they are. I love you Des thanks for another great video. I have really been loving vlogmas

[@crystalll2628]

I myself have curly hair , when i was a kid it was much better but like you i’ve dyed it , have it in constant buns & my mom put a relaxer when i was in middle school lol so it damaged my curls as well . I hated my hair growing up & always just wanted straight hair , but i’ve learned to love my hair finally & now with having a 4month old son my hair is also not the same & is up in buns almost everyday , but you really inspired me & encouraged me to go out get the products & take better care/embrace my curls . Thank You 😊 ! #🇵🇷🇵🇷

[@StrawberryE8305]

I'm loving vlogmas so far!! ❄🤍 And i love des and koas curly hairrrrr 😍

[@thaniaxo]

My daughter is almost five and she has told me she does not like her hair and she wishes she had hair like mine -which is straight. Idk if someone has said something to her about her hair but I have always assured her that her hair is beautiful and more importantly that who you Are makes you beautiful not how you look. Anyway I loved listening to Des hair journey and will use some of these products on my daughter. I need to get a diffuser

[@321MTorres]

Koa’s curls 😍😍😍

[@ladeljeepblanco]

Omg! I have been waiting for this video. I hated my curly hair as a young girl and absolutely love my hair now. Still doing trials with products but love playing with them. Hardest part is the high maintenance requirement to keep those curls bouncy. 😊❤ Also if you could explain the actual moving process from LA to TX that would be nice. Considering moving out of state. La is too overpriced and overwhelming sometimes 😢

[@Louisa7223]

Im so so so so excited for des to have a girl one day... i wanna see how she teaches her to do her hair❤❤

[@edithsgrandbaby9371]

Girllllllll byeeeeeeee... you never look fugly only STUNNING 😍😍😍

[@showonaadams569]

Destiny is forever beautiful ❤️

[@soniablaggan]

Being indian with curly hair also was a challenge for me, and only in my early 20's have I conquered my curly hair routine thanks to videos like these

[@juicylucysanchez6339]

Beautiful hair Des 🌺 Also a huge must now that you live in Texas. You and Julius need to buy a water softener for your home. Go to Costco for a good deal for a water softener because that way your appliances have longer lifespan , your skin and hair will love it too! At first you will feel weird with the water but you’ll get used to it. Also your shampoos and soap last longer because a little Goes a long way ! Water softener and reverse osmosis for drinking water. You save water bottles and the water is very clean and alkaline. Same quality as Fuji or essentia.

[@maribelmunoz5522]

Do you still do this curly hair routine for Koa or has it changed? if it has, I'd love to see an updated video version of his hair care routine. My son has the same exact hair type and would love to see what hair products you recommend ❤

[@yongezampokela6983]

OK WHO ELSE THINKS DES HAS TO HAVE HER OWN HAIRLINE? CURLY HAIRLINE BY DES... IM DEFINITELY IN.. LOVE YOU GUYS

[@shanalei11]

I DON'T HAVE CURLY HAIR BUT I ENJOYED THIS SO MUCH!! LOVE YOUR HAIR AND KOA IS SO ADORABLE!!

[@CNFamily]

Destiny you are such an amazing person! Thanks for sharing your journey. That will definitely help someone! ❤

[@lesliebenavidez571]

I loveee your hair! And baby Koko looks too cute with those baby curls 🥰

[@victoriamonroe3591]

So pretty !!! My 10 year old daughter has the longest straightest hair ever and want’s curly hair so she has me braid her hair once she gets out the shower so it can have that curly look for school in the morning. Crazy how girls/ woman want what we don’t have .

[@LexCiara8]

FINALLY!!!! I’ve been dying for a hair tutorial!! 😭🙏🏼❤️ btw, you’re so GAWGEOUS!!

[@ladytazdjvv]

Love your routine I"m one of those who relaxed my hair for a while ready to restart my journey

[@briannaabreu9918]

I love love, love both of ya hair thanks for this Des really appreciate it 💓 💕 JD FAMILY is my favorite youtubers for life ❤️

[@vee3476]

Lately my curls have been falling they haven’t been holding their curl. I have used olapex before but truth I didn’t want to spend the money for the small bottle. I watch ur videos on a regular but I didn’t even know curlsmith had a bond curl until this video. Well I was excited because I felt great there’s an alternative to olaplex. I purchased the curl bond asap and used it today and WOW did it make my curls pop and bring them alive again after just one use leaving it on 20 mins. Thank you for this video. You’re curls and ofc Koa’s curls are gorgeous 🥰

[@k.barbiee]

absolutely beautiful !! as a Puerto Rican 27 year old I totally get what you mean by we don't embrace our curls. I started getting into doing my curly hair only a few years ago and still need to find what works for me. love the video :)

[@mikaylamillinder3071]

I love this!! I have curly hair and I agree completely with everything you’re saying. It definitely is not easy but curls are beautiful and sometimes we don’t realize it❤️

[@95klopez]

Yes finally!!! Been searching for a hair routine from you, glad you uploaded this!

[@shellsterrr]

So beautiful Destiny!!!! How does your hair not frizz tho?!

[@takilahsunrise4529]

This whole video was so precious ❤🥹

[@jackievillegas9263]

I can relate so much! People always made fun of my hair growing up now I embrace my curls as much as I could ❤

[@Lilahlourdes]

Destiny your hair is gorgeous!!!❤ I don’t have curly hair but my baby hairs in front of my face & around my neck curl so I love styling them when my hair is in a bun ❤️

[@reneeanderson3752]

I love, love ,love the hair it's gorgeous ❤ thanks for showing us how you make those curls really pop. Koa looks cute with his curly hair too. 🥰🥰

[@95klopez]

Your hair looks gorgeous, and Koa is adorableeee

[@kellyhartsock9746]

So excited when I get a notification for yall.

[@abigailhayes5391]

you should try putting on products with latex/rubber gloves on! i noticed it makes my curls so much more defined. also not touching your hair while diffusing it, just hovering the blow drier around your head until the cast is dry. regardless your hair is beautiful!!

[@almagarcia9981]

I love your curls, des!!! 😍😍😍❤️❤️🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽 definitely need your advice on curls! My daughters have curly hair and I have NO idea how to manage them and take care of them.. 😢 I have straight hair so that’s why.

[@Itsnaukss]

Wow Des. You have beautiful hair. Those kids were bullying you because they were jealous. Love how you are sharing your knowledge with your curls to help others ❤ a true influencer!

[@mindfulmotherhooddoula]

Absolutely gorgeous Des!! And thank you for sharing Koas too! My daughter has curly hair, not as curly as yours but I’m going to try the routine on her to see where I can get her hair ❤

[@julissamedina3640]

I love the results , now i wish I had curly hair 😍😍

[@bushraafridi3678]

Your baby is the cutest i swear he looks like a little man w so much personality 😭😭❤️❤️❤️ Evil eyes off ❤️❤️❤️

[@laura9299]

This was so helpful. Thank you so much for doing this video step by step and really talking about your hair journey because I have a 10 year old girl who has beautiful curly hair and she always wants me to straighten it but I will not do it because I want her to embrace her hair and feel beautiful with her curls and she is finally starting to feel beautiful and take care of her hair and I really want to show her your video and that you went through the same thing ❤

[@andreaavictoria]

Omgosh your hair is beyond beautiful!! 😍 & Baby Koa is your little twin.

[@ernestinebalos5626]

Love this curly hair . I’m totally sending this to my sister. When u say it does boost confidence I believe cos my lil sis hve curly hair n she’s always complaining bout it. N I kinda help her get lil things n she says it works. But it could be better so . This video I know it’ll help her sm . Thnk u Des n Koa for ur hair routine ❤much needed

[@mariahwong1415]

Both of your hair is sooo beautiful

[@ginaaguilar6453]

Your hair is BEAUTIFUL!! I never knew how much work curly hair was until now ! I’ve always wanted curly hair but I have straight but thanks for the informative video!

[@donnaperson4299]

Your curly hair is beautiful. I kind of experienced what you did trying to keep my curly, coily hair straight with relaxers/perms back in the days. I watched KZbin videos, and learned to embrace my beautiful curly, coiled hair. 🙂

[@nicholaswong5086]

I saw Milo & Hazel and Tricia & Kam a few hours ago and Alex & Kellz 2 hours ago and now I see you 🙋🏻‍♂️🥰🎄🌈🌟⭐️💚❤💚❤❤💚💚❤💚❤💚❤💚❤💚❤❤💚❤💚💚❤❤💚❤❤💚💚❤💚

[@pikaboopikaboonal2099]

Loved this video sooo much and also found it helpful... We wud also love to see your makeup routine please we luk forward to it♥️❤️🙌

[@alexisyvetter]

Definitely Inspiring to do my wavy hair. Thank you Des!!! 🫶🫶🫶

[@kimt.4636]

Love the curly hair ,I'm natural myself.

[@stephaniecarolyn]

DROP DEAD GORGEOUSSSS 😍😘👏🏽💖🫶🏼❣️💐💐💐 educational & inspiring

[@Adventureswithsageybaby]

Omw destiny you have the best curly hair I've ever seen in my whole life 😍....I love your hair ...please know you make me want to wear my hair curly and feel confident

[@liannaperez5355]

Definitely going to try this hair routine on my curls, thank you for sharing this! ❤

[@mollyhearley2379]

My hair is just like yours but I have to do my routine in the shower to keep it wet otherwise me touching my hair thst much it gets way frizzy!

[@heatherexline7517]

Yesss I'm so excited 😊 to see the hair routine my daughter is biracial and she has the tightest curliest hair I've ever seen and I struggled for a long time figuring out a routine for her hair because she is very OCD and likes to take a shower everyday and try to wash it all the time and I finally came to realize that that was doing more damage to her hair her curls in general so now we do have a decent routine but I love seeing people with beautiful girls how they do things to help my girl be able to do her hair even better so thank you for this

[@laurasaura4944]

I love how koa always walks around with such a serious face haha like he's so determined bless him he's the cutest Xxz

[@sitatheyoutuber]

My hair is similar to yours it’s naturally thick but long! All the way down to my waist I’ve been struggling to find good products especially that helps with frizz. I’ll try them out 🫶🏼

[@alysiadimas8881]

Literally thank you lol me and my younger daughter we’ll actually me and my two daughters really struggle with what to use on our curly hair thanks this helps alot !!!!!

[@esther_taboada_bonagua]

You look so beautiful with your curly hair!

[@autumnshell]

Such a huge fan!!! Love y’all !❤

[@niearabeauty]

koa is so handsome. destiny is so adorable love how she’s so airy and fun❤❤❤

[@lauradelacruz3458]

This was absolutely adorable 😫❤

[@RooseyGirl]

I love your curls! I wish i had really curly hair

[@roxybee1028]

Love love love your hair des! And koa is so adorable love his curls ❤️ thank you for sharing with us

[@adrianagil9224]

I loved your video bc it was so informational. Might snag some of the products you mentioned but can you tell us what shampoo you use?

[@champagnebaddie7204]

Curlsmith is the best, the bond salve and the rest of their line grew out my hair:)

[@S.Shugars]

The way you fluffed your hair is what made me like this vidoe 😂❤

[@annn7508]

Thank you for this video I can’t wait to try it for me and my son ! ❤

[@baddystar8813]

MY FAVORITE BEAUTIFUL FAMILIA 💕 GLAD YALL MOVED TO DALLAS☺️I LIVE IN DALLAS ALSO ❤️LOVE YOU GUYS 💙

[@liannaperez5355]

You are SO BEAUTIFUL Des!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I love your hair! And Koa is such a handsome baby boy!

[@mackinzeehill6172]

Your hair is so gorgeous I’m obsessed 😩😍😍

[@Megan13cooper]

Your hair is literally so pretty 😍

[@Jesssssw]

I absolutely LOVE your hair!!! It's beautiful!!

[@alyssaburns8472]

I have really curly hair and I also had to learn to love my hair and thanks to your hair tutorials I have definitely learned how to manage my hair. I use cantu hair products and using a diffuser is life changing

[@karlazamora9450]

Omg it’s so beautiful that you have such perfect curly hair!! Thanks for showing us your routine. Going to use this on my baby sister. Didn’t know what to use before 😂

[@veronicagiron3486]

It’s crazy how many of us grew up hating our curl hair when curls are beautiful!!!

[@nicholaswong5086]

Destiny you should do Julius' hair or KARLA's hair next 🙋🏻‍♂️🙏🏻💖

[@maritzaadame2168]

Omg I could relate tho I hated my hair when I was smaller now I’m in love with my hair since I learned how to take care of it better ❤

[@BelaireVV]

You’re hair is THE BOMB 😍 can’t wait to figure out my curly hair products hopefully can get it to look a lil like yours! 💗

[@vestrada831]

Beautiful 😍 and koa is sooo cute his hair is everything, I also started wearing my natural curly hair after years and years of straightening, I also never felt cute with my curly hair I didn’t know how to take care of it, but I’ve been watching curly hair videos and been inspired to rock my curls, can you please do a how to refresh your curls video 🫶🏻

[@tatianazumba3896]

Finally! I love this, this is a beautiful bonding moment as well ❤️

[@LEA-yr7bb]

Yay so happy for a curly hair routine my hair is just like yours. This Texas hard water has ruined my curls bad. It’s really sad Would love to see a video of you going to the salon dying it and shein hauls!!!

[@erikadavila6574]

Bbeeaaauuuuuuuttiiffulll hair Des!!!!! Koa got your hair ❤