Our Engagement Story (w/ Adam Woolard)

You all asked, and we heard you! Hannah and Adam discuss the details of their engagement story, and one thing is for sure, it is not your typical proposal. Usually, the element of surprise is best for these, and definitely no chick-fil-a in your teeth or sliced fingers. But when it was all said and done, Hannah has a beautiful ring on her finger! This is their story and they wouldn't want it any other way.
Topics Include:
Intro (0:00)
Therapist roadblock (4:37)
HE TOLD ME (15:38)
Adam brings the surprise back (28:13)
The proposal (34:24)
Questions from fans (56:00)
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[@LapsangMao]

Where can I find an Adam? Truly amazing human who is able to embrace all sides of Hannah. And so proud of Hannah for working through all her trauma while able to openly talk about it.

[@clipsofdogs7273]

Adam is so attractive and smart and has such a high emotional intelligence. He is a gem.

[@diamondgirl4152]

Utterly mature. What a rare gem!

[@michaelboykin3701]

Okay I’ve said it before and will say again. You need to incorporate Adam into your podcast permanently. He’s so easy going and brings a calmness to you…along with a bigger and brighter smile!!

[@cactustish5]

Agree!

[@victoriarandazzo2462]

I admire Hannah for being so open about her mental health journey and her struggles. I’m sure it is very helpful to others who are struggling. I feel that Adam is the man that God intended for you. He has the patience that you need from a partner when you are “ all over the place” as he said. He is obviously very mature and very invested in you, and why shouldn’t he be? You are a lovely person. The depth of your conversation about your mental health was very insightful. It’s so wonderful to see someone who is willing to stand beside you when you’re feeling anxious and uncertain. I have issues with anxiety as well as PTSD, and I really long for a relationship with a man who can truly see and hear me, but have never found that. You are truly blessed Hannah. At the end of the episode, your face is just glowing! Loving your podcast🤗❤️🙏🏻

[@janeloster1585]

It is sooooo obvious how much Adam loves her and puts her emotional health as a priority. Beautiful to see. ❤

[@somerset8088]

this is the most REAL engagement amongst the other forced, rose- and candle-lined engagements on YT. So real, so much truth. You both truly are deep souls.❤

[@Sindiya]

This is Love. Adam is amazing, I applaud him for telling you and considering your feelings. What a gem of a man!

[@imscanon]

This is such an amazing proposal story. Perfection is boring. It's always so much a better story when it all just happens on a wing and a prayer. The bloody finger was the best capper. Truly, an epic proposal story. Well done Adam! You WANT the story that has all the pitfalls and hysterical roadbumps because you will never forget it, but most importantly, it will always bring you laughter and joy to retell. Love it. Congratulations to you both. He's a keeper for sure. Best wedding advice I have (as a twice married 60 y/o woman) is SIMPLE, and whatever that means to you. I had the big wedding with everyone in fancy clothes and all I remember of it is it was 105 in the shade and the a/c in the venue went out as soon as we got there and the kids torn down all the decor in half an hour before we even arrived after photos AND they set a table on fire w/ the candles. Then as we left for Chicago to catch a flight for Jamaica, the car window broke in the open position at 3am so it was a whole thing getting there as we couldn't leave the car there w/ an open window. lol All the planning and expense doesn't make it perfect. lol It was 40k I don't remember most of it. 2nd wedding, (it was his 2nd too), we planned a fun engagement party in a gorgeous park w/ a lake, pot luck w/ the main stuff supplied, but people could bring their fav things (it was Nov in CA) and wear whatever they wanted, no gifts needed, just come as you are and enjoy. Halfway through we snuck off during dancing to change then came down the walk arm in arm and everyone was so shocked. It turned out to be the best day. The timed CDs weren't working, so we had to get creative there, but otherwise, all went as it was supposed to and everyone was relaxed and happy and full of mai tais. lol Ended with a lovely campfire. Years later at an event, I overheard someone I didn't know telling some newly engaged guy about this wedding his friend went to that was so awesome and fun and it was MY wedding. lol I remember so much more of that day than the first because I was relaxed, fed, and having fun. So, keep it simple, whatever that is for you and the type of guests you're inviting (some have fancy friends, some don't) and just enjoy whatever the day brings. Remembering it is the best part. Let go of a vision of perfection for Instagram and focus on something that's just meaningful and low stress and fun. 2nd was about 2k and people still talk about how great it was.

[@marlaaasanchez]

“I love you but you’re kinda all over the place sometimes” 🥹 God truly blessed you with the perfect match🤍

[@carries2512]

Hannah…just breathe. This is love.

[@MS-uo6gb]

Finally Hannah the incredible bachelorette video of you walking through the woods in a white gown on a sea of rose petals searching for love came true In Tennessee….love to you and Adam

[@chrissyg9576]

This is what love ❤️ and respect looks like. ❤️💯

[@michele_123]

What a beautiful love story. ❤Hannah found the man who chooses her everyday …

[@bethmcbride2385]

Hannah, let go of the control and just enjoy the ride!!

[@itsnina26]

This is why Hannah is my favorite bachelorette. I just feel like we have the same issues 😂 but she is able to articulate it more

[@erikabb7557]

I couldn't think of a better engagement story. This is TRUE love.

[@jessicalarue3205]

Oh Hannah... you are affirming me so much right now! You really are so amazing and you make me feel so much better about myself and not so alone. I can relate to alot of what you've said so far about your engagement and mine was a couple years ago. I'm so happy you have Adam. This episode truly shows how good he is for you and worthy of you. I adore you and him and wish you all the happiness in the world. Try to embrace yourself as much as possible because you truly are one of a kind and so special! ❤❤❤🎉

[@shannondillow9587]

Hannah, you are not alone in your anxiety! God bless you. I have been following you since your time in your bachelorette years. I have always felt a connection to you and people would even tell me that I am similar to you! I am also a believer and I am 22 (turning 23 in less than a week) and I struggle with anxiety. I definitely am my own worst enemy and it can just be overwhelming. I just started therapy and I am very excited, but also brings anxiety because there is a lot of trauma to work through. I can appear super joyful to others, but can be really struggling especially with intimate relationships. I feel like I could say so much because I truly can relate to you, but you genuinely are a role model to me. You show me that there is purpose in keeping going. God uses all things for good, even the hardship. Just know, you sharing your stories allow me to work through and keep going. Your life is being used for good! I HAVE RELATIONSHIP ANXIETY TOO!!! But you show me that God will eventually provide someone for me and I am excited to see who that person will be.

[@rebekahdelange7745]

I've been married for two years and hearing about your love reminds me so much of me and my husband. "he's the first person that's ever known all of me" love love! So happy for you, Hannah and Adam!

[@nataliescott1914]

This guy is a unicorn! How is Adam so gorgeous, sweet and communicative? Hannah is one lucky girl!

[@cactustish5]

I love the realness of this ‘perfect’ engagement story. Adam is a gem 💎. Congratulations to both of you 🎉

[@lifeaccordingtotheo9643]

Hannah: Make sure you want to BE married more than you want to GET married. That is the best advice I have seen. Statstics for relationship success after the huge lush stressful expensive weddings and drawn out engagements are not great. A wedding is one day, and a marriage should be forever. More effort should go into nurturing the relationship than planning the wedding. 🎉 ALSO: Ketamine therapy for anxiety. You deserve to feel stable.

[@kaystamm669]

This is such a magical love story. I have to say, Hannah you found your soul mate in Adam. ❤ He seems like the most genuine, caring, patient human being I have ever met (through SM). He’s your biggest fan and we can see that. So much happiness to you two! Love following your journey. Xoxo 😘

[@Sasha-lk3cm]

This brought me to tears! Adam is so thoughtful and sounds like he’s truly in love with you. I’m so happy for you both ❤

[@melissacalderon1515]

Wow your engagement story is wild Hannah! 😅😅 I felt was there with you in all of it but in all seriousness Adam seems the right person for you, I can tell how much this men really loves you and also love is really simple Hannah, when somebody chooses you everyday even with our mess and mistakes we have, and he continues to choose you, that’s love and I’m so happy you found your perfect match for you because he’s truly terrific for you💗💗🥰🥰

[@Anonymousmiranda12]

This whole story has helped me in ways I can’t even explain. Thank you Hannah for sharing and being so open. I can relate to you in so many ways. I’m so happy for you both, congratulations beautiful ❤❤

[@Amanda.Slaton]

Hannah, I just feel pressed by the Holy Spirit to say this to you. I have recently walked through a season of processing trauma. It started because I had lost closeness with Jesus so depression and anxiety set in quickly. On the journey, I did process several traumatic events, but I had a pretty significant revelation. Jesus is enough. Never take your eyes off of him. The loops start when we take our eyes off Jesus just as Peter did on the water. Matthew 14:29-31 Therapy is amazing and therapists are a gift, but scripture is the truth that will never waiver. I never realized what the enemy was doing in my mind because I had made therapy my idol. You cannot renew your mind. Your therapist cannot renew your mind. Only the Holy Spirit can renew your mind. Romans 12:1-2. God has a mighty purpose for you and Adam as a marriage covenant on mission for the kingdom. It does not surprise me that the enemy went after it hard around the proposal. It brings me joy to see you both resist the enemy and to watch Adam love you just as Christ loves the church and gave himself up for her. Ephesians 5:25 May God bless you both and the generations produced through you! ❤️🙌🏻

[@bethanydaniel4010]

Yes!!!! This is so important!!!

[@sodakgirl6696]

Adam is a unicorn among men and should be teaching courses to others about masculinity!!!

[@bonnieleib1617]

Except he thinks that feminine energy operates in chaos? WTF

[@carrieb5711]

​@@bonnieleib1617Well he has been with Hannah for w yrs...she IS chaos hot feminine energy deals with chaos everyday, between children work most men's egos keeping yourself safe when we're out on the street excetera

[@ericaaaa8]

Congratulations!! Adam makes Hannah feel seen.... and hearing you unpack this adventure of an engagement together somehow make me feel seen and understood. Hannah you are so relatable and lovable!! Remember to make sure Adam feels as loved and seen as he makes you feel

[@martharezaee2088]

Hannah is a beautiful girl and nice personality and God loves her to put Adam in her life who is kind and calm and understand her a lot. So happy for both of them.congrats.❤❤

[@RR-rz3kn]

We want Adam on podcast every week! So happy for you two! Love you Hannah!!

[@Pizmo18]

Whoa, I absolutely love this talk. I also struggle with relationship anxiety and completely understand the fear that comes with the constant "is this enough?" I love what you said about these questions only existing to cause fear and anxiety within ourselves. Sometimes it feels like this constant fear and anxiety will be there. Which is why being single is always emotionally and mentally better for me haha.

[@jackiemyers4548]

What a gem this man is? He is so full of grace, love, patience and a lot of good things. I love how he is being calm and full of love. There are not a lot of men who do that these days.

[@catherinekinder4623]

Oh my gosh - the whole part of someone loving & liking me fully while I can’t love & like myself fully - oooohh I felt that!

[@ashleyglover8219]

Wowwwwww!!!!! After everything you’ve been through you deserve this type of love!!!! Adam is such a man’s man and it’s so encouraging to know there are men out there like him.

[@joycegajasan1649]

bless Adam for being the best human! he is really meant for you, I believe God really sent him to be with you! ❤ You are truly loveable Hannah don't doubt that, you deserve all this happiness! 😊

[@Annieandrews]

So raw, vulnerable and honest. Loved listening to you both :)

[@gathon_]

Gosh Hannah.😭😭 I'm crying so hard because, I just got done watching your interview of Charity. And in that interview of her, I felt so sorry for you because I felt it must have been so tough talking to someone who had the "ideal" bachelorette experience knowing what you went through. And then I came to this video... and ohmygosh!!! I love it so much. I love this love for you so much that it aches my heart. I love the version of you he brings out, I love that this is the version of love you get to experience for the rest of your life and more importantly... I love that this is where everything brought you to. I love that this is your life and I love him so much for you ❤❤

[@LindseyDrennan]

Where can I find an Adam!? I relate to you so much, and to be fully seen and still chosen. It seems so foreign to me and like there's no one out there that will be able to do that, but you and Tanya have both found these gems of men that are so fully accepting and emotionally mature. It's hopeful.

[@JaneFerguson-zl9yd]

what a man Adam. You both have amazing communication and understanding of each other. Wishing you every happiness in the world

[@joannehomar6409]

Adam is a beautiful man! You both are so lucky to have each other! I always knew you would find your person. Love you both!❤️❤️❤️🎉🥰 he always says the right thing. God bless you both.❣️

[@ItwBokay33062]

I love this beautiful love story. The respect, understanding, and love that you both have for each other is a perfect, and blessed gift that you have been given! ❤ Congratulations! 🎉💍

[@jeansalsbury5098]

He is a real catch!!!!

[@patriciahendriks]

What an amazing man Adam is, doing his utmost

[@janelange9156]

You got a good one with Adam. I have anxiety too, so I can relate. When my husband proposed, we had it all planned out (down to the weekend and the ring). I was still freaked out! It's a huge deal, and scary too, even if it's an great step!

[@lauracooke3906]

I feel all those! Thank you for being so relatable

[@luvlivefoods]

All I can say is that Hannah is one very lucky woman when she found Adam. I hope she finds can find some meaningful and fulfilling work to do and take the focus off of herself and be a positive force.

[@mssweeney44]

You literally deserve all the happiness Hannah! Love you! ROLL TIDE 🫶🫶🫶🐘🏈

[@nicolettewangler910]

I love that Adam told you. I think it was a good move and totally makes sense so that Hannah could process it before and not be overwhelmed in the moment. Great way to also figure out how you really felt before it happened.

[@camillemarie_23]

Just getting to catch up on episodes. What a wonderful story. Congratulations! I’m so happy for both of you. 😊🎉

[@jenniferkoppen8932]

Adam is an AMAZING man and the best partner in life for you Hannah!!! He calms you and loves you unconditionally, so happy for you ❤️❤️

[@ericab.1089]

Imperfectly perfect! Congratulations, wishing you all the best ❤

[@sarahjacobs3039]

I love how honest you both are! Its so comforting to see. I love your relationship!

[@katherinejsedlacek]

Love this so much🥰🥰🥰 So very happy for you Hannah💗 I have been following you since The Bachelor and you so deserve a wonderful guy! I love how Adam treats you! Congratulations are your engagement💖🎉✨ You are so beautiful inside and out💞 Thank you for sharing your journey, it is very inspirational!

[@cindytrout6641]

This precious man!! ❤️ And Hannah is so relatable and makes my anxiety feel more normal😂!! Congratulations!!

[@jillcarter9897]

I loved this episode so much! I love how real you are, and how you share your chaos!! Girl, you are so blessed with this man! He is definitely so in love with you!! What a blessing for both of you!!

[@elcarpe9186]

this is the best story!!! : ) Thanks for sharing. So good to hear from you both.

[@charlenecharchar]

The 2 of you are absolutely perfect for each other ❣️❣️

[@kaylawilliams2737]

So happy for you Hannah! Been watching you since Bachelorette and glad you found what you deserve❤❤❤

[@truecollar9059]

This was so beautiful, thank you for sharing all of this! Congratulations 💍

[@catherinemcdonough8301]

Hannah is of course beautiful and amazing but it’s sooo rare to find a man like Adam she’s so lucky I’ve never even met a guy like him

[@alicewood1665]

Adam is amazing, I think he is the perfect fit. He allows you to be you.

[@debrajosephs]

Awe Hannah, this man loves you so much. Take it in.

[@cactustish5]

❤ Love this comment

[@Paigeloren]

I am the same as Hannah lol so glad to know I’m not alone and there are men that understand and will be our rock while we operate in craziness

[@aisel4559]

Yeyyy! Happy for you both❤🎉 Love is all we need💖

[@Krystellx3]

CAN WE SEE THE PINK OUTFIT 😂

[@leerandall7740]

Such an amazing story! There’s nothing wrong with unconventional love stories. Those are the most fun! So happy for you Hannah. I’m from Birmingham- so I’ve been a fan since Colton’s season! ❤ (but I’m old enough to be your mom 😂) I have always loved your authenticity & your willingness to keep it real. That’s why so many people can relate to you! So happy that God brought you & Adam together. ❤

[@potentnaturals188]

So happy for you two… you both deserve to be truly happy.. looking forward to seeing your wedding.

[@kayheizman2182]

This was fantastic. Congratulations you two. Such an inspiring love story. Hannah you really found your guy. Worth the wait. Adam is such an evolved, beautiful man and loves you unconditionally. Nothing better.❤

[@skyroldan6188]

YaY Congrats 🥳💝🙌🏻 such a beautiful and awesome couple ❤love the whole story and how Adam managed to still surprise Hanna 💖💖💖

[@user-wf9qf3vl2w]

Love it!! A beautiful couple!! I wish you both a lifetime of happiness!!

[@annettekurlemann353]

Hanna Brown !!!! Your man is incredible ❤️gorgeous and sweet and loves everything about you Super congratulations I have anxiety too Keep trusting God for what you need So happy for you

[@rachelrumker3240]

So happy for you Hannah and Adam! Such a beautiful story!!

[@stephanieproctor9856]

This is absolutely beautiful!

[@cindyheringer1571]

I love you two. Congratulations!! I love how real you are.

[@elainetaylor2564]

I love this story! You guys are so cute. I'm so glad God brought you two together💞

[@isabellaandcoconut]

to feeling chosen every single day! so happy for you hannah b

[@yusraaH23]

Love this ❤ happy for you guys

[@franciefulgham1779]

I am so incredibly happy for you both! Y’all just look so happy and in love. You are definitely made for each other. Blessings

[@CamillaLundberg12]

Adam is truly the greatest I just know it! I need a Adam in my life

[@jeaniep4241]

Congratulations to you both!! You are such a beautiful couple.❤

[@ellaohen6223]

Congratulations!!! Wishing you guys so much happiness and a beautiful life together. I very much relate to this dynamic in your relationship. My husband is so calm and I am often anxious and don’t understand why he loves me, and yet he loves me so much. Seems you’ve found a keeper.

[@silvamuradyan2311]

Beautiful story. God bless your union.

[@beecool3894]

Hannah just remember please it's not only me me I. Now use WE, what a difference it will make in your relationship. Plan everything together u will be amazed in the long run how incredible foundation it will build. My husband and I have been happily married for 12 years and are still strong. You two are beautiful couple 🎉.

[@redbarnhomestead7384]

BEAUTIFUL SOULS on a beautiful journey!

[@soniaweaver8712]

Hannah you have found the perfect man for you. I wish you both so much happiness. ❤

[@irmarfrank1005]

Congratulations you both.

[@julieshilov]

I’m doing emdr too! And it has been life changing!

[@groomergrl75]

I would love for you to go down the story of your life and why you suffer from such an anxiety in your childhood I think it could really help a lot of people. I absolutely love your love story! Adam is a GEM! 💎

[@rebeccarafuse17]

She has an autobiography out that explains a lot about her childhood.

[@maliauhatafe4119]

Congratulations

[@maggiesophie2060]

Ok.. we all need an Adam in our life. Ok.. I do.. So happy for them!!

[@brendachaves6375]

Congrats Hannah and Adam ❤

[@nataliejuvera3333]

My husband told me too after a failed first attempt 😅😂 poor guy was trying everything and it just did not work out. We look back and laugh about it now. It makes it special hope Adam doesn’t feel too bad about telling you.

[@audreybaker7430]

Congrats to the two of you! 🥰🥰🥰

[@esmeraldapesina4823]

Hannah I’m so happy for you and Adam is definitely the one that we have been waiting to make you happy ❤

[@loriandrews1447]

Congrats you two

[@joannehemingway5576]

I wish you both all the greatest love and adventures. ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@marci9014]

Hannah...I love your honesty and transparency! Just love you gal! God has truly blessed you with an incredible gift from Him!!! Praying for your union and blessings upon blessings for you two!

[@ntombamayirhamemke5833]

Happy for both of you guys

[@Papacarnivore15]

Congrats you guys!! I know that you will both be sooo happy together bc you seem like best friends which is a key factor in a successful marriage. Hey Hannah, you might want to consider a Whole Foods Keto (or carnivore) diet to help reduce your anxiety… or even put it into full remission as it did for my acute anxiety and depression which is gone. Just tryin’ to help ya!! 😊