My one bit of advice for your wedding day is that during the reception (after cake cutting/first dance/said hello to evening guests) take 15-20 minutes totally away from everyone and everything else to just sit together and take it all in together. We were recommended to do this by someone else and I can honestly say it was my favourite part of the day! You barely get 5 minutes to chat to each other all day and that 15-20 mins away from it all just the 2 of you will give you a chance to just breathe and take it all in together. I now tell everyone we know getting married to do this and they have loved doing it. So if you do one thing do this!!
@heatherjobson8185 Жыл бұрын
I did this too and would also recommend ❤
@fabandell Жыл бұрын
Amazing advice, we defo plan on doing this x
@rebeccasams2731 Жыл бұрын
I ditto this. The whole day goes by so quickly and by the end of the day when you’re going to bed you realise you’ve only just spent some time together. X
@sabrinadandrimont6752 Жыл бұрын
I love this channel! I wasn't able to have children so I enjoy watching your family. I live in US and absolutely love the English/Brit accent. Super cute twin boys. Such a lovely family! Makes me happy to see 😊
@gillian5587 Жыл бұрын
We’re married 28 years past in June and one thing I would say is to enjoy and soak up every single moment. The day goes by in a flash. Sounds like you have pretty much every bit covered and I can’t wait to see how it all comes together on the day 😍
@tamaracraske5039 Жыл бұрын
I’m normally a silent watcher but just wanted to say hello. You both are amazing parents to them beautiful boys! Love watching you guys! 💕
@fabandell Жыл бұрын
Thank you for coming to say hi! :) so glad you enjoy the content
@adeledupre Жыл бұрын
You two are WONDERFUL ENERGETIC PARENTS !!!Ari and Noah will grow up to be HAPPY AND WONDERFUL!!
@Emma-qh2vv Жыл бұрын
Wedding Regret : not hiring a day-of coordinator! It was stressful trying to keep track of wedding party, guests, timelines and vendors when I was trying to take pics and get ready lol. Something I’m glad I had was our DIY polaroid Photo Booth in place of a guestbook. Love you guys !
@NBS_Haywardx Жыл бұрын
This videos makes me so excited for when baby H arrives 🥰❤️ you’re both doing an amazing job and watching the little clips when Ellen said her life is everything she has dreamt off, made me cry with happiness for you both x
@joshtunnicliffe6430 Жыл бұрын
Don’t worry Fab, I’m on your side. Grinding your own coffee beans is the way forward and the best way to enjoy coffee. It’s just not the same otherwise! Worth the time it takes 👀
@ginny3282 Жыл бұрын
Gosh I just smile through your whole video 😊
@meganfinney9379 Жыл бұрын
9:36 absolute goosebumps and tears🥹🥹🥹
@peggyjohns7893 Жыл бұрын
You take such good care of your babies!
@lamsorna3557 Жыл бұрын
The previous flash backs of you two was the sweetest!!💜The videos of trying for your babies made me cry! So happy for you both and congratulations on your up and coming wedding 🎊
@PAM-ud9lv Жыл бұрын
Can’t believe your wedding is so close. Just love you guys together and how fantastic you are with those boys. The love you show is absolutely beautiful. Just enjoy your videos. Take care.
@nolonlindataylor168916 күн бұрын
I just love watching your vlogs so much. You guys are amazing and so normal. 🥰
@AshleighHancock Жыл бұрын
My pregnancy hormones could not cope with the black and white montage, crying 😭 I just love all these memories you’re documenting with your boys, so precious 🥹🤍
@starperry1784 Жыл бұрын
You guys have got such a great routine wiv the boys xxxx
@alisonjackson9630 Жыл бұрын
I think you're both amazing. You're love for each other & your family, is inspiring. ❤x
@kellstinkerbell71 Жыл бұрын
The boys are just amazing. What happy little boys, due to great parents. Fab get a phone lanyard and when your out it will be round your neck, game changer for me. Guys take all the time off you need for the wedding. You moved, had the boys, now the wedding. All you ever need in life. You need to enjoy this time, lap up all the wedding prep before and after as the day goes by so fast. Just promise us lots of content and updates after. It’s going to be a wonderful day and everything will be perfect and we will have all the nice weather beaming down on your day xx
@zoebrindle7269 Жыл бұрын
Gosh how your lovely boys are changing and growing ......simply adorable ☺️
@rebeccagriffin2515 Жыл бұрын
Make sure you just take time just the two of you to take it all in, you're so busy on the day, it just flies by. ❤
@missyork100 Жыл бұрын
They are so so cute!
@tammymuren6378 Жыл бұрын
Omgoodnes, seeing you fake sneeze at the boys reminded me of my grandson and granddaughter ( they’re 9 moths apart) and when we wanted them to smile for pictures I would fake sneeze and they would laugh and laugh 😆.. it never failed to put a smile on their faces and happiness in my heart 🥰🥰
@annbannister1118 Жыл бұрын
Wow guys you are total pros ,,,how adorable and big are they getting ,my gosh they are a credit to you both ❤️ what a beautiful amazing happy family you are ❤
@fabandell Жыл бұрын
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@margaretsharratt2445 Жыл бұрын
I am so glad you mentioned lowering their mattresses this morning as I was worried about the gap. I actually started a comment last week and then thought better of it.
@fabandell Жыл бұрын
Hey we probably wouldn’t have known to do it this soon unless people have commented, so we always appreciate comments that will keep our babies safe!
@tinabloomfield7228 Жыл бұрын
It's crazy how fast the boys have grown ❤❤
@ashleyparsman3093 Жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful family- thank you for sharing your lives with us
@kerryshepherd5676 Жыл бұрын
Your boys are just gorgeous 😍 💙💙x they're growing fast.
@Catillac26 Жыл бұрын
Wedding: Best two things we had everyone loved and commented on were the Caricature and an owl ring bearer. We kept the owl a secret from guests. Only the best man anf ourselves knew. It was amazing.
@BethanandJoe Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the mention!! 10/10 video as ever!! the editing is top tier in this
@elizabethhamilton8388 Жыл бұрын
My goodness, y’all are getting really close to your wedding day now. I’m so excited for y’all. The boys get more adorable every time a new video is put up on your channel. Both of you are amazing parents. Don’t worry about when their teeth come in. My boys got their first two at 5 months and my daughter got her first two at 8 months. It’s fine. They are so precious. Have a wonderful weekend. Hugs from the southeast coast of Florida.😎🦩🌞🦩😎
@Rachelbannan-q3p Жыл бұрын
We have been watching you since I I was pregnant with twins, they are now 4 months old, we love that you are a few months ahead of us so we can get an insight into whats to come! We love your videos and thought to comment as the silent watcher comments make us laugh 😂 your boys are adorable ❤
@sabrinadandrimont6752 Жыл бұрын
You're my favorite family to watch on KZbin. Noah & Ari are the cutest babies in the world, so happy. It shows how good of parents you both are. I absolutely adore them! Alao, both of you are really good at vlog-ing/editing.
@fabandell Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!❤️
@pinkfairydust83 Жыл бұрын
We had a sweetheart table for our sit down meal, so it was just me and my husband and we got to talk and have some time to ourselves to take it all in
@ArrowHeart15 Жыл бұрын
But on a note actually related to the video lol So proud of the boys for saying their first words! They're so adorable!
@janestaples4231 Жыл бұрын
Bless them the boys have a look of your mum fab ❤❤
@haileyyork3138 Жыл бұрын
So excited for the wedding! Also so so happy to see y’all finally having sleep and a great routine! Those babies are definitely loved🤍
@Lyn4817 Жыл бұрын
The boys are so happy, its beautiful watching both of you with them.. Your love for each other and the boys is wonderful to see. Is it possible to leave the boys with either of your parents so you can have a couple of days too yourselves on your wedding weekend. I know its a silly question after you said your taking the boys with you. Just think, you will only get married once and the time flies by so fast on your wedding, truly. Your boys will be with you the rest of your lives. I just remember how hard it was taking them on your holiday to the seaside. You were both stressed but Ell took the cake, she was super stressed out. You were both so glad to get back home and into the boy's routine. Have another think about it. You've been looking so forward to your wedding day, especially Ell, she been putting so much thought into make the perfect. ❤❤❤
@mollieharris347 Жыл бұрын
OMG 4 weeks I remember when got engaged how exiting can’t wait to see the content! Xx
@donnaloveall1470 Жыл бұрын
We live in the USA, Indiana, and we had 27” of rain since March and a tornado warning almost every day. Knock on wood. It doesn't come down our hill. But it is hot, and the humidity is off the charts. Your babies are just the cutest little guys!!!!
@leannehopper2563 Жыл бұрын
Look forward to Thursday seeing you all ell you have lost a lot of weight looking fab, the boys have grown loads getting there little personalities coming threw they will be pulling themselves up to standing soon have a great week ❤
@ClareCox-to2jb Жыл бұрын
We hired mock Vegas to come In with a roulette table and black jack table. Really helped all the guests to have extra fun, including the kids. Wished I had seen my husband more!!! We had a 16 month old and was 21 weeks pregnant and it was HOT!! take time for yourselves!!!
@sheilarobinson7266 Жыл бұрын
Noah and Ari are getting so big now they are right little busters, cute! X
@sharit_22 Жыл бұрын
‘Aldi’s middle isle has my soul’ 🤣so true
@juliedavis2045 Жыл бұрын
Loved this video ❤. When I got married 21 years ago (2nd time around) we had a small civil ceremony and I decided to do a speech even though it’s not traditional for the bride to do that but I’m so glad I did, I loved it and I just put into words what my husband meant to me. Can’t wait for your wedding ❤
@michellerobinson4653 Жыл бұрын
Great as always xxxx rain on your wedding day is supposed to be good luck for a long and happy marriage ❤
@heatheraho224 Жыл бұрын
Just love Thursdays and looking forward to your vlog! I married 35 years ago so no wedding planning advice but SO looking forward to seeing your wedding vlog. You are both amazing parents to two wonderful boys!
@Christine-vl9pf Жыл бұрын
U are an amazing family !! wish u all the happiness and joy
@hayleysch143 Жыл бұрын
One thing we loved doing at our wedding was our first look. It put us at ease and allowed us to again have our moment on our wedding day. Absolutely loved it❤! Plus looks great in the video and what we said to each other was hilarious😂
@yazminbrook Жыл бұрын
rain on wedding day is good fortune
@elainedent11 Жыл бұрын
Wedding day tips , make sure you photos with your parents , I know a couple who missed out even though they had a professional photographer this was missed and caused a lot of regret on both sides xxx love your morning routine and your natural day to day vloging with your boys xx you are both great patents ❤
@ethelruane3713 Жыл бұрын
Another lovely vlog.. glad you found your phone..the boys are so cute!!
@Mtb777 Жыл бұрын
Poor Ell Is always yawning. And that’s absolutely so understood. She has to be the most tired mother with 2 babies😱😱 They are adorable and soo big already. Aww I love these old videos of you two. And the babies. Oh my wedding coming soon. 👏👏😱 You guys will be great. Great morning routine. Take car and stay health boys too Lovu guys 💙💙💙💝
@dreamerdem28 Жыл бұрын
Loved this video! Routines are essential with babies ❤
@silverlady1118 Жыл бұрын
I feel your need to grind your own coffee, it is a must!
@tinabloomfield7228 Жыл бұрын
2nd comment: Tomorrow my husband and I have been married 32 years ( together 35) Our twins were 2 yrs old when we got married. I just remember that it flew by. Take time for each other and enjoy your day ❤❤❤❤
@dianagray702 Жыл бұрын
Great video. The boys are getting so big.
@lilywitkowski Жыл бұрын
Oh my god First your videos are literally they best just started watching you guys 🥰
@fabandell Жыл бұрын
Yayyy glad you enjoy!
@emmaramsay1747 Жыл бұрын
Another great video. As much as I'll really miss your Thursday videos I totally agree you need to enjoy & soak up all the pre & post wedding experience. Ellen I can totally relate to hair issue. Mine is wavy & a nightmare if I don't straighten it. Even to then point when we go camping for a few night at the end of August my husband has found somewhere that has plug sockets in shower block for hair dryers & straighteners 😂 xx
@vickygarciarodriguez5328 Жыл бұрын
My advice - have a think ahead of time about what photos you want on the day and give the photographer a list. Take time just for yourselves, we walked away for like 20mins, but god, it felt like hours. The photographer followed us without us knowing and captured what I think is my fav picture of the day. Not posed, natural, and we were just in each other's arms. Another thing is Ell one for you and laugh away… walk onto the loo and sit facing the wall. Thank you later, hahaha
@katiekaras8824 Жыл бұрын
I love your videos. You are a beautiful and blessed family. Thanks for sharing - you guys are awesome Have a blessed day!
@LifeRocksxx Жыл бұрын
Love your videos! Yes EVERYTHING is a nursery rhyme 😂 The boys are one month older than my little one.
@lindatait1410 Жыл бұрын
❤ all your vlogs. Linda
@stevebooth Жыл бұрын
The wedding day goes by so quickly; we were advised to stop every note and then and just take a few minutes to watch everyone and take it all in. Those times are our best memories 15 years later. Our anniversary is middle of August.
@carolcreamer8285 Жыл бұрын
Enjoyed the vlog Ell , Fab 😊😊😊
@London-cc4mh Жыл бұрын
Wedding regret: We did a lot of it ourselves but it was all a bit disorganised last minute. My son was the same age as the twins and I’d forgot things like his dinner for the table etc in the rush of everything else. Also regret looking down when walking up the aisle, I think it was the sun/nerves too but really wish I’d looked up the whole way! My only other regret was that we didn’t get to do the big fancy honeymoon as I couldn’t have left my little boy for that long so we just did a weekend away instead and a family holiday later. Part of me wishes I got married before he was born to have the big honeymoon but also really love having him in all the pictures! My best thing was just the fact we did it the way we wanted it and didn’t go along with pressure to do it the way you’re ‘supposed’ to when it wouldn’t be us! Have the best day 😊 Take pictures on phones too, I only have one other than the photographer pictures and wish I’d taken more
@aprilhardy4764 Жыл бұрын
Yes I was here for the diy with the saucepan 😂❤ love you both!
@fabandell Жыл бұрын
OG!!
@aprilhardy4764 Жыл бұрын
@@fabandell yeah!! About 3 years ago I think was the first one. Just before you brought your new house, ell cut fabs hair in your old kitchen too and food challenges etc. love your videos and how you have grown together. A pleasure to watch 😘
@DU2273 Жыл бұрын
Love Love Love your vlogs. I look forward to every Thursday when I can watch a new video. You guys are great for each other, and the twins are absolutely adorable 💙💙🐒🐒. Thanks for sharing your life. // Your fan from New Jersey/ USA
@fabandell Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for supporting us!
@WimbledonGirl22 Жыл бұрын
Your boys are the absolute cutest! Please can you tell us how you got them sleeping through the night? Did you follow any specific routine or do any sleep training? Thank you!
@lynnemac1402 Жыл бұрын
Incredible morning routine you have down to a fine art. The boys cute dumbo dungarees look like they wont fit them for long :( babies grow too big too fast. I remember the moment of a month to go before the big day and worrying that there was something we had forgotten. I think the biggest takeaway from my wedding was to make sure you enjoy it as it is another one of those days that you put so much planning and effort in and it is over really fast xx
@irisbaddeley1405 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant family those boys so contented. Just enjoy your wedding day weve done 52 years in October gone so fast
@MichaelaHolubova-k7r Жыл бұрын
I love watching you lot 🥰 just had a miscarriage and watching you makes me happy as I know what you lot had to go tho with TTC … Ell you are amazing girl 😊 thank for all the help with the vitamins videos the boys are so cute 🥰
@RachelARBlack Жыл бұрын
Hi Fab, Hi Ellen Teething. I’m sure you’ve done this but just in case you haven’t, try frozen banana when they’re hurting. It not only gives them something to chomp on, they get some nutrition too. Messy but comforting.
@SJGore-jp3lq Жыл бұрын
Oh my word, the boys are saying Dada? Whoa, they have grown a lot in the last couple of months. They're now having conversations with Mom and Dad. Will we see another vlog before the big day? 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻
@katpifher3639 Жыл бұрын
It’s supposed to be good luck to rain on your wedding day! It rained on my wedding day and Aug 1st it will be 14 years for us! Congratulations!
@stillolivia2230 Жыл бұрын
Ohhhh I bloody loved this
@fabandell Жыл бұрын
LOVE TO SEE IT
@Annabellejessica Жыл бұрын
I got married last year and my little boy was 7 months old, I kept him with me the night before the wedding, and maybe it was because we were somewhere other than home, but he kept me up all night and woke at 5am, I was EXHAUSTED! So if you feel comfortable with it, maybe have someone else on duty the night before the wedding! I would also say to have someone looking after the babies while you're getting ready on the morning of the wedding, I had my 7 month old and two three year olds with me and my bridesmaids until 11am on the morning of the wedding and it was chaos! Finally, it absolutely poured down on my wedding day and we still had the best time, you just don't care on the day, I promise!
@johannagallagher5855 Жыл бұрын
Lovely video x
@lucygeorge5738 Жыл бұрын
Noah and Ari are the most adorable cheeky chappies I’ve ever seen and the routine you have is just amazing💙! I’ve not long known I will be a grandma (due 1st Jan!!) and I’m still not 50 yet!! Hurrah!!! I did make that a condition of my son getting married🤣!! (He is 28!!) I’m so excited and I already want to spoilt my little bean but I’m stopping myself until I know if it’s a boy or girl!! I have told them I follow u each week and cudnt remember the wipes that you wash and reuse? You are just an amazing couple, well done. Xxxx🌸
@meganmacaulay4641 Жыл бұрын
Days leading up to my wedding day up until 8am on the day it said rain but from 8am it changed and no rain. Had 25 degree weather, lovely. I got married August last year
@sarahjohnson9193 Жыл бұрын
For my wedding I left disposable cameras on each table to go old school they turned out great! I regret not getting a photographer everyone in our families said they would do it to save money I ended up with no photos of us alone . But advice make your wedding your own. It will fly by on the day .
@Gina19876 Жыл бұрын
Oh what a fantastic awesome video vlog. So touching, so beautiful. Really enjoyed this. So touching. 💜
@fabandell Жыл бұрын
🤍
@Andreaod73 Жыл бұрын
I was convinced Ellen said “I got some new spotty ‘pants’ 😂😂 I thought eh, that’s a weird thing to mention 🤣
@claudiamansfield9027 Жыл бұрын
I didnt do a photo with each table that I regret doing and what I would do again is do a choereographed first dance and also had lots of time for dancing, good drinks and speeches during dinner so it wasnt like the guests were bored
@ClaireKernan Жыл бұрын
Have a list of who you want photos with, have your bridal party wrangle the people when the photographer is ready for them. I’ve had friends miss out on photos with family/friends because they’ve forgotten as it’s a hectic time x
@ArrowHeart15 Жыл бұрын
Fab, you kinda give me Liam Payne vibes with your deep voice - love to hear it!
@fabandell Жыл бұрын
I'll take that hahaha although he is a bit of an idiot
@bridiewright1519 Жыл бұрын
After spending a lot of money your wedding day goes so fast so take in every moment, talk to every guest and don't get drunk or you won't remember any of it, it's the best day of your life so enjoy it ❤
@LilyVlogsss Жыл бұрын
Love how Ell was saying about putting the camera down and pretending to walk past it, then you both do it and she pretends to put her fingers down her throat 🤣🤣🤣
@fabandell Жыл бұрын
Hahahhaa I didn’t even notice that when editing 😂
@snodge100 Жыл бұрын
I had two little girls when I got married and then we went on to have another little girl , we didn’t have much money then ,my husband used to play rugby on a Saturday and he would always do the lottery , and we won ,we had five numbers £996 pound ,we booked the registry office and got married on a Friday morning with the girls 27 years later and it’s just as good , you are made for each other xxxxx
@pamelapattison7921 Жыл бұрын
WOO you was Lucky to find your phone Fab
@fabandell Жыл бұрын
Haha I know!!
@carolcreamer8285 Жыл бұрын
Hi Ell , Hi Fab , Hi Gorgeous boys 😊😊 nice to see you all 😊😊
@joanneshaw3071 Жыл бұрын
Can’t believe you found your phone!
@fabandell Жыл бұрын
I know, I was lucky!
@nancypatterson374 Жыл бұрын
The boys are growing up so quickly. Here in South Carolina we always say, “If you don’t like the weather,wait a minute and it’ll change. Or we can have all 4 seasons in a day😂. HOT AND HUMIDITY is terrible! As for an outdoor Wedding, have a backup plan ❤
@frankshowes3449 Жыл бұрын
There’s an old random Norfolk tradition where you bury a cooked sausage the night before your wedding and it brings you good weather. Currently, from those that I know personally, it’s never failed! 😂
@pjcat3522 Жыл бұрын
Best things were doing the little table flowers, so we could still see people across the table and. I wish I'd asked someone to make sure the wine we bought was put out on the tables when they needed replacing, someone who checked everything was ok.
@pjcat3522 Жыл бұрын
Ooh and having a kids table with little activities for them at each place setting.
@marthaarrington3146 Жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed your morning routine with the boys, they are both so precious! Loved you going back in time, Ell where did get that "construction hat" ? Love It . Just FYI, we went on our honeymoon the day after we were married. Stayed one week in Hawaii, it took me 7 days to calm down after the wedding and all the planning. I was exhausted, I wished I would of had two weeks to calm down and really relax. Any chance you two could do the same; or perhaps make it 10 days. Wishing you well, will pray for you both during this stressful time.
@DuvAngel1 Жыл бұрын
Wedding regrets: picking out a cheap wedding cake ~it was dry and horrible and people had to wait a long time, I don’t know why. It’s not always sure but counting on a friend to bring an elderly person to the wedding. The elderly person didn’t get picked up and she called and called and called and called and called the office and they were really kind of peeved about it. If you’re going to have someone sing a personal song for you tell them make sure they rehearse it and they know the lines in person for you . Regret not having a specific person assigned to clean up the nursery or any other messes that guests or other people that are supposed to be helping you with the wedding make. I also regret putting my make up bag in the back of my grooms parents car that who picked us up from the wedding to take us to the reception. I didn’t get make up for the next day when we were supposed to go out on the boat and I didn’t really have a great marriage from the start even on that first night and I think it might’ve showed on the boat and I could have at least tempered it with a little bit of make up~ sorry but I didn’t marry the right guy and I knew right off the very next morning.
@jackiehutton1023 Жыл бұрын
I love your video
@mzhonpij86 ай бұрын
Don't forget either, you guys did fertility so that's emtionally taxing too. It does not hurt to ask someone you trust to come over so you can get your mee tome, couple time, headspace back. Anxiety won't let you, but trust me, it works.
@lucygale336 Жыл бұрын
Omg yeah my husband does the same we were shoppin gets joke and then eats my crisp when he old have just got himself some like wtf 😒 😂boys are adorable the more they grow watchin em play is sweetest thing have a great fri last day of school then hols yeepee 🎉❤
@meganmacaulay4641 Жыл бұрын
Ask wedding coordinator or someone in wedding party to keep a bit of your wedding cake aside for both of you. On the day I had one cupcake (we had a cupcake tower and single tier cake on top) but the next day when we went to collect things from venue there wasn't any cake left