Our ICKS, Different Stages Of Life & First Impressions (chaotic advice with Zoe & Mark

[@YouTube]

mark & zoe sit down = wholesome yet chaotic vibes always 😭

[@aleksandrad6801]

Why is youtube everywhere commenting 🤣

[@lallygamer4062]

@@aleksandrad6801 I’m starting to think it’s hacked lol.

[@michaelmichael3183]

Ariana what are you doing here

[@mina01202]

We need a Zoe and Mark podcast!! 🫠 I loved this video guys 💗

[@Xthewp]

I agree! It would be my absolute favorite podcast and I would listen everyday honestly I would die if you guys did this!

[@katiesmith3242]

Omg yassss!

[@MaggieHasper]

Omg yeeeesssss

[@jessiebayles2649]

plz do a podacst like plzplzplz

[@amimarie7503]

Nala blends so well into marks trousers (28:34) that I thought for a second Zoe was giving mark a cheeky over trouser rub 😂😂😂

[@Amy-uk2kc]

Can just imagine Mark texting Zoe to watch this and ABSOLUTELY dying ahahahha

[@Sarah_1996]

🤣🤣🤣

[@claty2897]

Yesss!

[@Bec_h]

I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE 🤣

[@rachelroads2525]

Hahaha so did I! 🤣🤣

[@Sarah_1996]

35 minutes of Mark and Zoe is what I need 🥰🤍

[@Jess-3]

Could 👏not👏agree👏more

[@bethmunn6827]

Perfect 35 minutes! Guys you NEED to do a podcast/vodcast!! Agony aunt / general chit chat reviews it would be golden … mark & zooo lol

[@lisanne2242]

Nala in front of the camera had me laughing so hard 😂

[@vanessahinds8320]

She was being a “bit cheeky”…..😅

[@kaylynferguson9585]

i’ve said it once i’ll say it again, PODCAST! this is basically a podcast anyway, I think you guys would love having one together!!! literally you could talk about anything and it’s gold. wonderful considered advice ❤️❤️❤️ !!

[@livwallace2275]

This needs to be a podcast!!! I would listen to you both ramble about literally ANYTHING every week 🥹😍

[@theresag.4188]

Yes yes yes!!!!!! BRILLIANT IDEA!!!!! 🙌

[@Elizabeth.Crawford]

Mark I feel so connected with your videos lately, nice to see a single adult living their life and experiencing new things.

[@lilacblooms]

4:47 really hit close to home. Wished my parents thought about this... because theyre still so so so unhappily married. They've always talked about divorce but never did it. It was absolutely traumatising for my sister and I growing up..

[@xatesmith30]

Wow this is complicated the same as me, they don’t really like each other but still together and I think it would of been easier for me and my sisters if they had split up, sad but true x

[@nataliejk27]

Agree 💔

[@Travis_22]

Bless, I have had similar experience. Looking back would you want small kids to experience the parents together, but then as the kids have grown up it is better if the parents were apart?

[@lilacblooms]

@@Travis_22 Apart. If I were in that position, I wouldn’t want my children to see all the fighting, constant disagreements, unhappiness and overall negative energy. Children should grow up in an environment where it’s wholesome and full of love. Happy home = Happy children. As a child, it was hard because I felt like I had to pick a side. It was pressuring and it made me feel so anxious every day. As I grew older and as things got worse, I developed severe panic disorder and depression.. I’ve been seeing a therapist for a long time now. So yes, I would never want kids to grow up in an environment like that. It does affect their adulthood too.

[@Travis_22]

@@lilacblooms Thanks for your reply. I was thinking along the same lines.

[@olivethompson9008]

About the first question: Workplace consent is SO important. If there’s any younger people who are new to relationships, please be sure that you are being SAFE and following HR guidelines if you are dating a supervisor. Loved this video!❤

[@lizarowenajane]

I think the message here in all of this is 'Just be yourself and follow your heart' .... ❤

[@KorKorShops]

I have to say, for the first question about dating your supervisor I think it really depends on the job. In my field you can’t even gift anything to someone who is your superior, yet alone date them. I’d say if you are beginning a career not necessarily an odd job I would not do it. I am an environmental engineer and I love my job, but having that separation of my work and personal life is a must for me.

[@gauriyardi6340]

I completely agree with this. If this is the first step in you career, cut it off. If it's a casual job that you don't really care about - then go for it.

[@MJ-sx5pw]

Definitely don’t want a power imbalance either.

[@SwedishTourist]

I love your friendship, it’s so non judgemental and goofy, and you speak about such interesting topics. Makes me happier when I’m feeling off ❤

[@stefaniegalea6810]

I am a forty year old woman learning so much from you Mark. If only more people in this world was like you ❤

[@ellasdream]

24:14 I respect Zoe for saying that so much because it's something that a lot of us think of sometimes, either it is in the present or about the future. It's just so normal to think of these things and it definitely is not selfish, it just shows how much we care about our relationships. Overall, this video was so comforting, I felt like I was chatting with friends

[@abbytait3663]

Just to say... i loved the friendship question! It's SO normal for friendships to ebb and flow as people go through life changes. My friendships changed when they had babies and we saw each other less; but the same can be said when others got new jobs or got married, moved cities or started travelling more. Friends recognize that life changes and things get busy but it's important to always make an effort and prioritize your friendships when you can and have the capacity to do so! Also, friends with kids... keep checking in on your friends without kids!!

[@thegb1381]

When you've had a shit day and you have just sat down with a cup of tea and see THIS - perrrfect!

[@phoebesuch4817]

I honestly BEG that you guys bring out a podcast!! I would listen every week without fail (& I’ve not found a podcast that I’ve committed to yet) Honestly, I could listen to you guys for hours!! 🥰

[@moojuice10]

On the making new friends, one my sister told me about this idea where each person in your friend group brings somebody to a dinner party that nobody else really knows. So that everybody is still comfortable with one person but then you get to know new people too. I think that would be a really fun idea and might try it out in the near future. 😊

[@brittanyfaith6322]

I am just having a terrible mental health day and I’m not kidding I said “I need to go watch a Zoe mark vlog” cause that’s the only thing that saves me on days like this. Then saw you posted this 🥲

[@torilouise9194]

This really has made my day, I watch you two when I’m anxious or have racing thoughts and it takes me into your world of friendship and I feel safe. So happy to see this notification

[@teagandawn8413]

I felt like you were talking to me about the 2-year relationship question. I just got out of a 5-year relationship and I waited far too long to end things because I was afraid. Afraid of the unknown, of not having that person in my life anymore. And despite it being scary, I had to do it.

[@NaomiElizabeth96]

God I just adore these two so much ,they bloody make me soo happy xx

[@michellekatharine]

Mark and Zoe sit down videos are such comfort videos for me💓 I always feel like I’m part of the friendship group watching these videos🥰

[@KeeleyMathers]

im an introvert but after covid i was forced to take my daughter to her toddler groups on my own as they didnt allow 2 parents in, and i met my now best friend who i love and see all the time, forcing yourself out of your comfort zone is definitely liberating and worth it

[@AmandaRodriguez89]

I could listen to you guys talk for hours. It’s just such fun and honest conversation I love it.

[@JodieJPorteous]

Absolutely loved this !!! & omg the carboot sitcom, these needs to be a thing!

[@brittanycastillo8884]

Happy Dance!!! There’s something about your videos together that are always so sweet and light hearted. They never fail to make me laugh and just feel good! Y’all are awesome!

[@itsamyyy91]

To the 6:05 question. I would also like to add that maybe the person could communicate with their partner. I don't know the ins & out of the relationship circumstances and what led them to feel the way they do but maybe talking about it might be a good way to resolve it, even if it ends up in a break up. Communication is one of the number 1 things that is very important and talking about it will help you both understand the relationship more. I don't want to assume anything about your relationship but I really hope this has helped and wish you get the best outcome for both of you. ♥️

[@lexibilton]

this literally felt like a chitchat, catch up as one of your friends! truly love you both xx

[@amelie.7817]

honestly i cannot wait for more mark and zoe content, I've literally been rewatching all the old vlogs they're such a comfort for me🥰

[@DejaGrow]

My parents hated each other for as long as I can remember. Don’t even remember them sleeping in same bed. They didn’t get divorced until I was 18 though as they were “staying together for the kids”. I can tell you watching my parents hate each other and hear the constant name calling and arguing did way more damage to my mental health than if they just divorced as soon as they knew it wasn’t working. They both grew up without fathers so I know they meant well but in hindsight I’d have rather them be divorced. So Zoe hit the nail right on the head with that one.

[@freyaroussy]

Just what I needed at the moment. Loved that the ending just felt like we were sat in Zoe's living room with you. Love you both XXX

[@sully2374]

My gosh you guys don’t know how much I needed this in my life, life has been so horrid, thank you ❤️

[@KaitlynBury]

I love how real you guys are with each other and with the world its so calming 🥰

[@XxSabellaxX]

Zarah and mike need a podcast where they get people on the phone to talk about their confessions. I know it’s similar to Alfie’s podcast but having them on the phone would get the good tea and answers.

[@Jade.Mcritchie]

Who’s zarah and Mike

[@XxSabellaxX]

@@Jade.Mcritchie it’s what Zoe and mark call each other sometimes. They’ve been saying it for years.

[@CelinaHx]

We love a Zara and Mike vlog♥️

[@kailynwhipple5094]

This video was my favorite video because I feel like we really are your best friends too, and we get to be as equally as excited to sit and listen to chat as you are to hear from us.

[@1saraharvey]

I could honestly watch these for hours! It truly feels like we are just catching up as friends. You two have always been so humble, down to earth and relatable! I just love you both ❤

[@naomiw937]

I really feel like Mark should become a creative director or something in the timing industry, his ideas are PHENOMINALLLL!!!!!!

[@ErinBarry]

I love seeing your friendship I feel like it’s rare to have a bond like that and it makes me happy to see you supporting each other. You both give great advice. I agree with others a podcast from the two of you would be great! Whether it’s more advice or just the two of you chatting. I know you have a lot going on but it would be fun if it works out. Have a wonderful day!!

[@abbiestevens8111]

this is honestly just what I needed. My whole life has changed and I’m feeling so low and this has brought the BIGGEST smile to my face! Watching you both is so comforting to me and is making this hard time brighter. I wanted to let you know how much happiness you bring to the viewers. Sending all the love your way from Leicestershire🤍

[@milkbeau8163]

this was the perfect background video whilst i was wrapping presents today! few things i caught onto and actually you guys are so honest it really helps you see a different side! love you both x

[@terimartin2361]

Your friendship is just so beautiful, I really feel like I'm with the kindest friends when watching you two together! So hard to find a friendship like yours❤

[@theresag.4188]

This is so cozy and all the feelz. Love this. More of this pls! 🙌 Very good insight! I don't want it to end!!! Someone suggested a podcast! I whole heartedly am behind it! 😍😍😍

[@wonkypamela9585]

The best way to end a workday 💞 with great advice from the two of you! ❤ Nala’s bum shots toward the end 😂😂😂

[@chloeadkins1269]

I’ve wanted a video like this from you guys for sooooooo long and I’ve been needing it more than ever now!! you always post when I most need it😩🌥😁

[@michelle_mitch_p]

This is totally what I needed today. You two are a breath of fresh air always xxx my best friend is a guy and we sit and talk just like you do. 30 yrs friendship x

[@anneliesbok]

Loved this sit down chat and the advice you gave, Im very much an introvert and been single for almost 11 years turning 37 this year and really trying to motivate myself to get out there to find friends and a partner. Loved it when Nala walked infront of the camera and then promptly turned around to show us her bum 🤣 like she was saying ok I've had enough of your rambling. Love you Mark and Zoe 💕 from Cape Town South Africa

[@oscarp1726]

Just what I needed! Can’t wait for Zoe’s perspective !

[@kyrageals5458]

Zoe saying “T’ara love!” Can’t tell u how many times I played that 😭😂

[@amydeary4085]

I can definitely relate with what Zoe said about feeling sexy while pregnant. I have always been aware of my weight and my body image, but when I was pregnant I was the most confident I had ever been all day every day from as soon as I found out I was pregnant to the moment I gave birth. Now I’m 8 months post party I can definitely say I feel the LEAST sexy and attractive I’ve ever been!😂

[@fabric.soundz]

Yup I see a successful podcast with these two, I love them both collectively. Make it happen please w a cherry on top ❤

[@charlottesutherland3681]

I'm in hospital in Australia and awake way too early so this was the best feeling so see this notification pop up xx

[@anacarmes]

For questions 1 & 2 I lived both first hand, my supervisor, who was still married told me he was interested in me, I was interested too. So I told him I couldn’t deal with a power relationship and external partners, so quit the job (and left the country because I moved for work) and told him we wouldn’t see each other until he fixed things. Seems like a crazy thing to do, but keeping your integrity is more important than liking someone. Months later we called and he fixed everything and it feels so good to do the right thing, life is really generous when you act with dignity.

[@ellouisastarr583]

Going through a breakup right now and this video has given me so much joy! Thank you 😊

[@blbrz8]

I completely agree with you guys regarding red flags. I spent 3 mos of time with someone who was inconsistent & I would catch them in lies sometimes… not worth it. They never change.

[@lauragraf801]

Zoe and Mark ❤ i’m from Brazil and i practice my english listening you guys! I reeeealy love. Thank you

[@nicolelui04]

Adding to the university talk, I took my sisters advice when I went to uni and it was to keep your door open. Meaning just that, keep your door open, if you’re in just open up your door and you’ll get talking to people, as it shows you’re social even if you don’t feel it at times. Freshers week is the one! Get yourself out, it’s daunting but I promise you, after that first day, you’ll just find your people, or they will find you. Join clubs, and if you’re living in a house with people, go out for food and drinks the day you all meet. It starts the bond. Good Luck to anyone going to uni, truly the best years of my life!

[@kuurak5733]

zoe seems so much more relaxed here than on her own channel!!

[@nicholesparza7141]

Nala’s arse at the end had me rollinggggg 😂😂😂 Great vlog y’all!

[@KirstieRose]

You two are my favorite 😍 every video you film together is my favorite! 😍 thanks for making my day!

[@Vsyuvyavoa]

trying not to laugh out loud on the train 😹😹😹 loved this!!

[@lea7688]

Couldn’t have come at a better time. Appreciate these videos so much x

[@Lucy-yf6of]

So thankful this video was here today. You guys cheer me up tonnes! ❤

[@GracieM300]

You have no idea how much I needed this today ❤️

[@maiasmith8749]

I met my partner at work(he was a manager) we then both left the job after so many arguments and the job itself not being great but we have now got separate workplaces, have bought our dream home and our first baby is on the way! It does work in some cases , just stick to it and if its meant to be it will be. Loved this video 💗

[@LucyAPDonaldson]

I met one of my closest friends on an app called Frida, an app for those who identify as women to make friends. People’s reactions when we tell them that’s how we met is funny. Making friends as an adult is hard! Love the old school sit down video style throwback 💗

[@asktoseducemiss434]

to the conclusion that I want to see them, but idk if they’ll want to see me because their impression of me wasn’t great. I can be quite shy and I’m like Zoe in the way that it takes

[@rosekay1083]

Can you guys please do this more often? ❤❤❤ Definitely agree with those saying WE NEED A ZOE AND MARK PODCAST!

[@juuustnothing5663]

Yeeeees im gonna enjoy my evening now with a cup of tea and this video love you both 💖💖

[@tanisgentle3576]

You guys are so funny especially at the end when Mark was saying about leaning on the wall and it wasn't there, and the elf shoes omg... And then Nala perfectly signaled in her way that that was the end of the video 😆

[@notmeeenno6947]

Just that split second of nalas butole and zoe was absolutely hilarious 😂

[@rachaeldelaney4988]

Literally every time you both sing I remember that comment that asked Mark not to sing so they could hear zoe 🤣🤣 love ya both xx

[@bridget_miley]

i love these ☺️ i talk to my phone as if i’m sitting with you guys giving advice too 😂

[@maati109]

LOVELY❤ . It’s so hard for me to make close friends personally, this was so helful and relatable, I love you guys!!!

[@aestheticedit5485]

I loved this it was like being on a face call with you guys, love youuu💖

[@valentinaenrique1894]

this made me so happy, thank you guys, you're amazing people. this made me feel hopeful to someday find a really good friend who i can be like this too! much love from uruguay :)

[@kickinitwithjess]

I literally almost spewed out hot tea when Nala came into frame LMAO

[@acbrand03]

You both should really do a KZbin podcast together. These put me in such a great mood; I just like to hear you both chat really. Not even about anything specific, just chatting about life and what you've been up to.

[@shellyclayton202]

awwwww love the friendship vibes between the two of you xx

[@Catburys]

6:07 - i was with my ex for 6 years, they strung me along for about 4 of those years. then dumped me when they found someone new… the damage that has done to my mental health is insane 😭😭 please never do that to someone. let go of people you don’t want to be with and allow them to grow & do new things. i will never get that time back!!!

[@MacTay15]

This brought me right back to the videos you guys used to make like guessing what you were saying with headphones on 🥹💕

[@judimcdonnell1971]

Gosh what a great conversation you guys had, have and your advice is on point .. love you both so much❤❤❤

[@kathy6937]

Honestly this is got to be one of my favourite vids of you guys!xx

[@annaschmitz]

I too am an avid over-thinker so I HATE first impressions. Especially when it’s someone you just meet and you don’t know if you’ll ever see them again… because maybe I come to the conclusion that I want to see them, but idk if they’ll want to see me because their impression of me wasn’t great. I can be quite shy and I’m like Zoe in the way that it takes time for people to get to know me, so meeting someone new in person is a challenge! Idk how to represent myself in the best way that will leave people interested and wanting more if that makes sense??

[@MissTwilightHater]

Marks face when he said "i don't even want to look at them" lmao

[@tiffanyhatch5668]

I love y’all’s friendship, it’s so great and such an incredible example of goodness.

[@lindseymassie9067]

I’d love a podcast where y’all give advice, like people can email in or something and y’all just give your 2 cents.

[@disneygirljamie9974]

The F word is so pleasant when its spoken with a Euro accent...its more gentle or something. Y'all have the cutest euphemisms.

[@crystalbrown1622]

Great advice you two...Bravo!!! 👏🥰

[@gwynethglas-brown9171]

Great video just lovely see you both together 🤣🤣🤣🤣Nala bum shot at the end omg Brilliant

[@annaschmitz]

Thank you for this!! Just the kind of pep talk I needed ❤️

[@Lauren-ro2ye]

Love this- please make this a regular thing!!! 💗💗💗

[@poppyparks926]

🥰 perfect amount of laughter and love I needed 🥰 love you two xx

[@caitlinohara9338]

My fav duo forever and always 🥺😭

[@gabrielle4903]

We need a part 2! 🤍🖤

[@kayc1357]

My fav type of videos!!! Zoe and mark , love you guys ❤️❤️❤️

[@chickyaria6406]

crying needing this video rn, perfect timing

[@louanne17]

Hope you're OK ❤️🙏

[@SweetlySara]

Markkkkkk drop the skincare routine 🤩 you’re glowing