Our Latest Downsizing Attempt Forced us to Make Difficult Decisions

[@moviegirlbeth]

The smartest thing I’ve done while downsizing…after retiring from the military (24yrs), I took all my awards, medal citations, etc that are on paper and put them all in a binder, threw away the frames, and put them in a fireproof box. I can pull them out and look at them when I’m feeling down or a lack of purpose but easy to take with me when I move or just don’t have the room.

[@RetirementTransformed]

That’s a smart approach, Beth! Keeping those meaningful items in a safe and compact way while still honoring their significance is a great idea. It’s all about keeping the memories without the clutter. Thanks for sharing!

[@debbiehelm5401]

I am so glad you had each other to go through the trauma. My husband of 40 years past away and now I find myself downsizing a house we were in for 27 years. Navigating through this by myself has been extremely emotional. I keep trying to pressing on!! Your video was great!

[@siameseire]

💛💛💛 Oceans of love to you. I recommend talking to him through the whole process. " Oh, do you remember this? and what on earth is This!? " I talk to my dad all the time and it helps! Bless you. 💛💛🌈

[@RetirementTransformed]

We’re so sorry for your loss. Downsizing after 27 years, especially on your own, must be incredibly emotional and challenging. It’s inspiring to hear that you’re continuing to press on despite everything. Please know that you’re not alone-sending you strength and wishing you moments of peace as you navigate this journey. Thank you so much for your kind words about our video!

[@wendyeskelin8765]

That is so devastating. I'm so sorry for your loss. It's more than just one loss. Your husband, your home that brought you years of comfort, and then the downsizing of many items. I wish you well on the journey, it's definitely a tough one ! I hope you have friends/family around to help.

[@Querencia7779]

Sorry to hear your husband passed away.

[@leolionheart1627]

You guys are ment to be together. Love your content, and honesty.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you so much for your kind words! We really appreciate your support and are glad you enjoy our content.

[@TheFtm22]

I just found your channel . My husband took early retirement in May at my request after my mother passed a year ago tomorrow. We are figuring out retirement as well -I have been out of the traditional workforce for decades (raised and homeschooled children then became caregiver for my mother). We plan to stay in our current home and so we are decluttering/remodeling to make it what serves us best now. I look forward to binging all of your videos and moving forward with you.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Welcome!! We are happy you are here! There is a lot to learn for sure. Let us know if your looking for something that is not here. But try searching in the search bar on our home page.

[@tonybaloney6656]

Great to see you two enjoying life. Live each day like it’s your last but plan for the future . I found something I’m really good at, being retired, absolutely love it ❤

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you so much! 😊 Your approach to living in the moment while planning for the future is inspiring. Finding joy in retirement and embracing it is truly a skill-so glad you’re loving it! ❤

[@lanasretiredlife]

I enjoyed your video about downsizing and getting rid of stuff. Great video!

[@RetirementTransformed]

Glad you liked it. We are learning a lot through this process.

[@EvanCarmichael]

Downsizing is hard because of emotional ties and practical challenges, but focusing on the new chapter and supporting each other can help. Thanks for sharing! - Lipika - Team Evan Carmichael

[@joanneferratoify]

Make sure you keep what photos you most treasure. Digital may not last forever.

[@RetirementTransformed]

You’re absolutely right-downsizing is such an emotional journey, but focusing on the positives and supporting each other makes all the difference. We really appreciate your thoughtful words and encouragement!

[@crazycatlady6396]

We used to move every 10 years. 11 years ago we moved to our downsized house. I took a full year and slowly went through each room of our house and started giving away and donating things. We are now very happy at our downsized home and have no intentions of moving until the house just gets to be too much for us. I can say, that we have not missed a single thing we got rid of as our lives have changed and we’re really happy where we are now! We gave up the outdoor kitchen for just a grill, gave up the swimming pool and hot tub for just a hot tub and we don’t miss a thing. There is so much to do in our small beach city in Floridafor seniors com it just takes a little looking, getting the local newspaper, and talking to friends and neighbors. Retirement is the best!

[@RetirementTransformed]

That’s such an inspiring story! 😊 It sounds like you approached downsizing with so much thought and care, and it’s wonderful to hear how happy and content you are in your home now. Letting go of things and simplifying life can truly bring so much freedom. Your small beach city in Florida sounds like a fantastic place to enjoy retirement, and it’s great to hear you’ve embraced all it has to offer. Thank you for sharing your journey-it’s so encouraging!

[@jm7804]

I'm not yet retired, but I moved into a slightly smaller one story instead of the two story I was in. It has significantly less storage so I had to get rid of tons of stuff and it felt great. Regarding the pictures...my mom gave me her pictures and my grandmother's before she died so I was able to go through them with her over the course of the last couple of years of her life to identify unfamiliar people. I'm scanning them all to share them with other family members so they will live on and other people can enjoy them for generations to come. We're talking thousands of photos. There are services which will do that for you if you don't want to do it yourself. Having all of those photos felt like a huge burden for a long time, but now I'm feeling better about it.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Good for you. That is a huge undertaking for sure.

[@stephenlennartz3466]

Try an rv & test drive it. We have a family member who purchased one (very nice rv) and it's been a nightmare. Terrible mileage. Numerous breakdowns-- sometimes on the weekends and evenings. This was a brand new vehicle! Based on what I've witnessed... don't do the purchase thing!! Good luck! 😎🎸👍

[@RetirementTransformed]

We will definitely keep that in mind. Thank you for the input.

[@joanlarochelle792]

When I bought my reitrement home in SC it was totally furnished and equipped - down to q-tips and band aids. Easiest move ever! When I sold it I also sold it furnished and it was so much easier than schlepping all the stuff back north.

[@RetirementTransformed]

That sounds like the ultimate hassle-free move! 😊 Thanks for sharing this great tip for stress-free transitions!

[@robertahoffmann8820]

Oh wow NJ!! Your summers are now in New Jersey!?! Hope it’s gorgeous Cape May County! But taxes are not known to be low…. Best wishes wherever! ❤️

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you. Not sure which county we will be in but looking forward to it.

[@christopherprice3226]

Love your banter. You two are so sweet together. Hope Amy and I have this relationship in 10 to 15 years. Let him keep his pictures in digital form. No need for actual Photos.

[@RetirementTransformed]

@christopherprice3226 Thank you so much for your kind words! It’s so heartwarming to hear that our banter brings a smile to your face. Wishing you and Amy many years of love and laughter together! 😊 What’s your favorite way to capture memories?

[@christopherprice3226]

@@RetirementTransformed My favorite way is in the moment no cameras. Going to see Andrea Bocelli in 2 weeks for the second time, just soaking it in.

[@JBoy340a]

I like the idea of selling the house furnished. But don't the new owners usually already have stuff?

[@RetirementTransformed]

They had a house they were going to sell and decided to sell their furnished as well. So it worked out.

[@jimcarleton]

You guys really touched on a lot of things my wife and I are discussing during this time in our lives. I'm closing in on retirement, she's retired, we still have the large family house. Her take has been that a young family like we were when we bought it from the original owners should be in it. My take is it's paid for, not hard to take care of inside and out, we own it, and our major remodeling projects have really made it what we want instead of what we had to live with while we were younger, both working, raising kids, etc. I love that you mentioned Evernote! I use that in my job as my personal CRM. I journal customer visits weekly and have 12 years of history now on those customers and visits. I have around 1000 'Evernotes'. A new way of using it like you said is to document what you're getting rid of. Not a bad thought, but I'm not sure I'll go that far. We too will start with the walkout attic (as bad as having a basement by the way) and work our way to the garages. My strategy was one room at a time until it's complete. Stage everything in 'my garage' - yes we have his and hers basically - and make the exact same determinations you did. I've thought about engaging our daughters help in an online/FB Marketplace format and thought about giving her the revenue. Great ideas in today's video, thank you.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Sounds like a great plan. Keep talking to your wife about the house and if you should stay or move. It's a process for sure

[@JimHogan-u9l]

WE were thinking about buying an RV. We rented one for a week and found out that we liked, but buying one would be a mistake. We will rent one again when we feel the urge. Definitely rent one and try it out before making that large of a purchase.

[@RetirementTransformed]

That’s such great advice, Jim! Renting an RV first sounds like the perfect way to test the waters without the big commitment. It’s awesome that you discovered what works best for you. Renting again when the travel bug bites is a smart and flexible approach-thanks for sharing your experience!

[@beckyshep3946]

My husband and I did the same thing. After renting a couple of times we bought one a couple years older. The best thing ever. Look for one that's not too long and windows for nice view. A KZbin we watched that helped us a lot was Keep your Day Dream. Good Luck!!

[@brians7419]

Regarding an RV, my wife & I have had 4 different travel trailers in the last 7 years. We don’t actually “camp” but pull our hotel room behind us. I know this sounds crazy but we’ve enjoyed many experiences because of this we wouldn’t have otherwise. It’s a lot of work and expensive but it works for us. We also have traveled by car and utilized Air B n B’s. The later is much easier. Obviously there’s no right answer. BTW, in the last 10 years we’ve downsized and upsized and downsized again. The common thread through all of this our kids simply don’t want our “stuff” so we donate or sell. Great video! You two do an awesome job! Cheers! 😀

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you for sharing your journey! It’s amazing how flexible and adventurous you’ve been with travel and downsizing-using a travel trailer as your 'hotel room' sounds like such a unique way to explore. 😊 You’re right, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer, but it’s inspiring to see how you’ve found what works best for you and embraced new experiences. And yes, the 'kids not wanting our stuff' dilemma is so relatable-donating and selling really do seem like the best solutions. Thanks for sharing your story!

[@lisaaamoun3520]

Jody is hilarious. What makes her so appealing is that she is right there on the edge of saying what we all want to hear but she shouldn’t say for the channels sake. She is someone that would be so fun to hang out with. Brains and beauty. She is not cold hearted at all. She is strong emotionally and can move through and prioritize what the goals moving forward. Progressive. I use to tell my patients that when you make decisions about your life early rather than later, you have more control / options, rather than when you’re in a crisis situation. Your options become much more limited. I was always shocked that ppl would wait/ denied looking at there situation till they would be forced into a nursing home because of limited options. I bet she was a power house at work. My work tribe was just like her. I think that’s why I relate to this channel. I like Mark too. He speaks his mind and is transparent. A great team to help me learn how to age. I hate this last statement and remind myself I’m being progressive.

[@carolyncook6970]

Absolutely loved this video and you two!! You are brave is all I can say. I’m a young widow in a 5000 sq feet house with huge yard and pool and cannot imagine moving!! I do have the most wonderful neighbors and very desirable neighborhood that’s convenient to every thing I do. That doesn’t help me to be willing to move.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Well one way to think about your home is to imagine the next family in there that will use more of it as well as the local schools. But if your happy there and can afford it then keep it as long as it feels right.

[@joanneferratoify]

Why not rent some of your space to college students? A great way to help a student and you will have company too, call the local college.

[@4951wolcott]

@carolyncook6970 STAY in your wonderful home and circumstances. No need to join the downsizing mantra. I love my big lovely house and everything in it. Live big, joyfully. Have friends over, enjoy the peace of your home and the solitude it offers from this crazy world. ❤

[@DW...]

Congrats on your new home!

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you so much 😀

[@anniesshenanigans3815]

Downsizing can be tough. But once you do it, it can be easier. I have downsized a few times. There are fewer things I am willing to drag around with me. If I cannot see it, use it, or enjoy it EVERY day.. then I don't need it. I have 3 (yes three) pr of shoes in total, and two purses. Most of my clothes are scrubs because I am still working. So when I am done with that, over half my clothes will be either sold or donated. I have about 8 pictures still in 'photo' form, the rest are digital. I plan on downsizing one more time, which will probably be the toughest one since I have some large framed art and a couple small things that I have hung onto for decades. Jewelry I don't wear but has some value. These things are almost impossible to sell unless you 'know' someone or have connections. What I spent on this stuff represents a lot of hard work in my past. Difficult to just give away at bargain prices..

[@RetirementTransformed]

It's great you are verbalizing all of this and sharing it here. I'm sure others will be inspired.

[@UnityStandard]

Rising prices have affected my intention of retiring at 62, working part-time, and building my savings. I'm worried about whether individuals who weathered the 2008 financial crisis found it less challenging than my current situation. The stock market's volatility, coupled with a reduced income, is making me anxious about having enough for retirement.

[@RetirementTransformed]

I totally understand where you are coming from, we hear it a lot. We don’t give financial advice as there are more qualified advisors out there who can help. Maybe ask some of your friends who they talk to about financial advice.

[@suewarren4486]

I have downsized to 330 square feet. One person. Glad you guys are working through this but really...

[@RetirementTransformed]

Kudos to you for making it work-do you have any tips or lessons learned from your experience?

[@suewarren4486]

@@RetirementTransformed Read the poem, Storage, by Mary Oliver. Spend some time sitting with thoughts about what you really need. Not what you think other people want, expect, or even consider normal. Peeling off layers over the years is probably least painful but some of us are running out of time. Bev and John of The Retirement Travelers made a big change for the right reasons for them. Went from a very upper class lifestyle to backpacks. They say their utube videos about this are the most watched. Also helps to remember that USA normal is not normal in most of the rest of the world. Thanks for your work and openness.

[@lorraineknepple335]

Jersey! We will be neighbors now in the north and the south! Welcome to the Garden State!

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you, neighbor! We're so excited to be part of the Garden State family-north and south! Any must-visit spots or local tips you’d recommend?

[@allisonspeer649]

Great video. I"m in the process of "downsizing" my stuff, but will not be selling our home/mini-farm at least while my husband is alive. If my husband passes before me I'm planning on holding an Estate Sale, while I'm still living. I'm like Jody, I have no problems in letting go of my items. We do have to keep alot of things that relate to the farm (tools, equipment, etc) while we are still here. I've already done the first phase of decluttering and now starting to work on the second phase. My goal is to relieve my son of the burden after we have both passed. Unfortunately we came from a generation of people who hold onto things that we "might need" or have sentimental value. I"ve asked our kids and they really don't want anything we have "collected" over the years.

[@RetirementTransformed]

It sounds like you have such a practical and thoughtful approach to downsizing! Doing it in phases and keeping your son's future in mind is incredibly considerate. It’s so true-our generation often holds onto things with the thought of ‘just in case.’ Letting go of sentimental or ‘maybe useful’ items can be tough, but you’re making amazing progress. Wishing you continued success with your decluttering journey!

[@virginiaashmore8643]

If a natural disaster hit unexpectedly, and you can only take one suitcase, what is it you're evacuating with? That should determine the priority of the rest which is just stuff. Consider in retirement we have to do the mental work of letting go of who we think we are. You are not your title, your bank account, husband, wife, daughter, son. Get clear on who you are inside. Separate your who from your do because when you can no longer do, you are still valuable for who you are. The pictures aren't about the pictures. The quiet time of inner work and healing will tell you what is really in those boxes even if you never open them.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you for this wonderful comment. It is thoughtful, inspirational, and authentic.

[@melissasprayberry5047]

30 years in ours is next to impossible “emotionally”…. I would do better if it had only been 10 or less years. It literally makes me cry, even though I kind of want to make a change. It’s so hard when the memories hit and it feels so much like “home”…

[@RetirementTransformed]

We completely understand-it’s so hard to let go of a place that holds so many memories and feels like 'home.' 30 years is such a big part of your life, and it’s natural to feel emotional about the idea of change. It’s okay to take it one step at a time, and maybe focus on keeping the most meaningful items and memories with you. Wishing you strength and peace as you navigate this journey!

[@wendyeskelin8765]

I swear every man I know talks about wanting to RV across the country. For me personally and most of the wives of those men mentioned think it's a nightmare idea!

[@RetirementTransformed]

Haha, it’s so funny how RVing seems to be a dream for so many men, but not quite the same for their wives! 😊 It’s definitely a lifestyle that’s not for everyone. What about it feels like a nightmare to you-too much time on the road, or something else? We’d love to hear your take!

[@wendyeskelin8765]

@@RetirementTransformed Ha ha yes, let me count the ways :) #1 I don't like driving/riding in traffic. #2 Rest stops freak me out after a couple of past experiences #3 Hard to cook in a small kitchen #4 Small bathroom/limited water #4 Doesn't feel safe sleeping in different places all the time. #5 Most places to park are right on top of other RV'ers ( no privacy - noise ) #6 general storage. I could keep going but these are the main ones :)

[@aflyr]

Great video. One thing we did with the boxes of pics is scan them all into the cloud. Now we can look at them anytime and share them with people, etc. Just a thought for you on your videos. I think the close up portions on your faces are a little too close. Silly comment I know but it just feels disrupting.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you for the thoughtful feedback! Scanning pictures into the cloud is a fantastic idea-such a great way to preserve and share memories. And we appreciate your note on the close-ups; we'll keep that in mind for future videos. Thanks for watching! 😊

[@4951wolcott]

I refuse to pack up my life, my beautiful big home and comfortable life circumstances. Say NO to downsizing if you’re happy and comfortable. Don’t worry about your worldly goods as a burden to your children. There are businesses which remove part or everything from your home or business in a single day. Keep enjoying the stability and continuity of your home. It is often change that unseats our mental and physical well being.

[@RetirementTransformed]

If you’re happy and comfortable where you are, there’s no need to downsize unless it feels right for you. Stability and continuity can play such a big role in mental and physical well-being. Thank you for sharing your perspective-it’s a great reminder that everyone’s journey is different, and it’s important to do what feels best for your own life.

[@BoronBobcat]

Digitize those photos. You'll be surprised how many won't make the cut. 15 boxes are A LOT, sure. But do it is chunks. There's probably much of your family history in there (somewhere).

[@sz13bigmo]

Love my Doxie GO SE photo scanner recommended by the Minimalist back when I was downsizing in 2019. It’s a work in progress which I spend time on two weekends a year.

[@RetirementTransformed]

That's a great idea.

[@RetirementTransformed]

My plan is to do one box a week nest summer

[@marlawegrzyn6991]

You know I’ve have made decisions based on whether or not my children would want this when I’m gone. However that’s not the whole criteria. The kids had a very difficult time going through their dad’s stuff. So much they didn’t care about. They told me to please declutter!! So that’s part of why I’m going through this process

[@RetirementTransformed]

Decluttering can definitely make things easier for loved ones in the future, even if it’s a tough process now. It’s great that you’re taking this step-it’s not easy, but it’s such a thoughtful gift to your family. How has the process been going for you so far?

[@marlawegrzyn6991]

@ pretty well…it’s been easier than I thought. I know a lot of my stuff is really just clutter and not worth anything to me or them. Very eye opening!!

[@APW-ry2ok]

Watching from U.K. loved that on the 15 buckets of photos unseen for 17 years ,so true and so common ,my mum said to me when downsizing what would I like ,the first words where photos .Mind you they would not fill 15 buckets !!!

[@RetirementTransformed]

Greetings to the U.K.! 😊 It’s amazing how photos hold so much sentimental value-they’re often the first thing we think of when downsizing. Thank you for sharing your story!

[@midnightrider3318]

I’ve been married 43 years, retired in May 2024 at age 69. Just started to downsize. Work allowed us to move to a rural Midwest town 100 miles west if Chicago 12 years ago. We thought it would be our retirement home. Just started to downsize. Moving 12 years ago was a good start. I’m an RV traveler but my wife is not. I need to be in a warm climate in the winter months. As we age I can see we need to down size so we are in the process of downsizing. Facebook marketplace is a good place to loose stuff even if you offer it for free. How many chain saws do I need? Anyway, make it a project. Finely, something the wife and I can agree on!

[@RetirementTransformed]

Congratulations on your retirement and 43 years of marriage-what an incredible milestone! 😊 It’s great to hear that you’re tackling downsizing together and making it a project you both agree on. Facebook Marketplace is such a smart way to declutter, and you’re right-sometimes we all end up with more than we need (like those chain saws 😄). Wishing you both success and enjoyment as you simplify and embrace this new chapter!

[@susanroper6287]

Classic, you’re both fabulous, thank you 🌟✨

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you

[@Sunnysideup210]

The problem is that a lot of people can't part with things AND let's face it - they don't want to go through everything. Procrastination is the root of the problem.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Yup. It's a slow process.

[@patriciaschmitt6448]

Love downsizing! Physical items to me used to mean something but not anymore. NO ONE wants my crap when I croak! I had beautiful things all my life but once I hit 65 yrs, reality kicks in that when I'm gone, I don't want to burden any family members to clean out my household other than necessities. No one wants your sh*&t!!

[@RetirementTransformed]

Your perspective is so refreshing and spot on! 😊 It’s true-once we realize no one wants our 'stuff,' downsizing becomes so freeing. Kudos to you for embracing the essentials and making things easier for your loved ones. Here’s to enjoying the simpler life!

[@siameseire]

Hire a company that will scan the photos into digital format and then place the physical photos in more orderly storage system for gradual curating. Knowing that there is a digital copy of each photo will make it Much easier to discard the blurriest, etc. photos as you slowly go through a few at a time, at your leisure. Always have a recording device ready (audio or video) so that when memories come to you you can preserve them. Your KZbin channel can be part of documenting curation of your family history. This is an important issue for every family!! and would be priceless to your viewers and your kids/grandkids. I think it would ideally be a slow paced sharing of the process and some of the stories. My family cherishes the audio tapes we have of grandparents' voices telling family stories. ... Listening results in Tears, Laughter, much love and Wonder at hearing their voices; Priceless!!! And the blessing of digital format is that each kid can have a Very small object that holds "family history." They are free to keep a few old photos if they wish but aren't burdened with them since everyone has a copy of the "record." It is Freedom without losing out on family history.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you so much for sharing this amazing idea! 😊 Your suggestion to digitize photos and record memories is truly insightful-it strikes the perfect balance between preserving family history and decluttering. We love the idea of involving the KZbin channel to share the process and stories-it could be such a meaningful project for us and our viewers! Your family’s experience with audio tapes of your grandparents’ voices is so touching and inspiring-it’s a wonderful reminder of the power of preserving memories. Thank you again for this invaluable advice!

[@anniealexander9616]

I still own my childhood home and my first home as an adult. I have a tenant in my childhood home and gave my first home to my daughter. My current home is 3000sqft and I'm single. My kids don't want me to sell the home. Im thinking of building or buying a small home in 10 years and giving them the big home.

[@RetirementTransformed]

That’s such a thoughtful plan, Annie! Keeping your family connected to those meaningful spaces is truly special. Building or buying a smaller home sounds like a wonderful way to simplify while passing on cherished memories to your kids. Wishing you the best in this exciting journey!

[@joannegibson-lucas3791]

Don't think I will ever downsize. I still have my original Barbie, Skipper and Midge dolls in their boxes!!! If I enjoy them, I am keeping them.

[@KristaBerryhill-ef9lz]

Yes! Let someone else do the work after you’re gone 😂

[@anniesshenanigans3815]

it's great to enjoy the things you love. digital pictures of them will go a long ways if you ever have to downsize. I felt like that too until I didn't.

[@joannegibson-lucas3791]

@KristaBerryhill-ef9lz That's the plan.

[@RetirementTransformed]

That’s amazing! Those dolls are such treasures, and if they bring you joy, they’re definitely worth keeping. 😊 Downsizing isn’t for everyone, and it’s all about what makes you happy. Do you ever take them out to reminisce, or are they on display somewhere special?

[@siameseire]

Yes! Celebrate what makes you grin and feel happy. 😊

[@maryellendoran8806]

We don't plan to move from our home in New Jersey. Yet we feel the need to downsize our stuff. We still store some of our adult childrens things which we are now requiring them to go through. They live in smaller places. We are neat but it seems like we have more stuff than we need. Our house is not huge so no need to move. We considered moving but after selling our home which would get a good price, where do you go? Everything out there is expensive. Even smaller properties. There weren't going to be large savings.

[@RetirementTransformed]

It sounds like you’ve given this a lot of thought, and staying in your home while downsizing your belongings seems like a smart and practical decision. Encouraging your adult children to go through their things is a great step, and it’s amazing how much peace can come from decluttering. You’re right-moving isn’t always the best option, especially with high costs everywhere. Wishing you the best as you create a more streamlined and comfortable space!

[@patzumach3425]

We rent a cabin for a month. We get a discount for renting that way. Use that as our home base.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Renting a cabin for a month sounds like the perfect way to have a home base while still enjoying the flexibility to explore. Do you have a favorite spot where you love to stay, or do you try new places each time?

[@patzumach3425]

@ so far, we have only rented in South Carolina! Looking to expand to other regions.

[@sct4040]

Digitizing is great, cause I can view these photos easily from my iPhone. In the past, having to drag out the photo albums to look through seldom happens.

[@RetirementTransformed]

That’s such a great point! Digitizing really makes it so much easier to enjoy those memories anytime, anywhere-especially on your iPhone. 😊 Have you gone fully digital with your photos, or do you still keep a few albums for the nostalgia?

[@KathyTravels]

Absolutely not on the RV. My husband and I chose that route out of financial necessity and it is very difficult. As you are both well off you could buy an RV as big and comfortable as you need but the logistics of where to go and where to stay can be a nightmare. Even the newest RVs break down and the timing of that is always stressful. We have our RV in Florida because of the new climate realities and when a hurricane hits we just bug out. We also stay in Virginia for the summer because our boys are there. Obviously we can’t afford two houses and because of weather and insurance home ownership in Florida has become impossible.

[@RetirementTransformed]

It sounds like you have this housing part of your life figured out. The RV life is great if its your thing. We know many people who love it. The flexibility to travel at their own pace and see and visit new places is what excites them.

[@KristaBerryhill-ef9lz]

Ask your kids, nieces, nephews if they want the photos. Otherwise you are holding on to them for nothing because your kids WILL dispose of them.

[@RetirementTransformed]

That’s a really practical point! Asking family members if they’d like the photos can definitely help ensure they’re appreciated. It’s true-holding onto them without interest from the next generation can feel unnecessary. Have you gone through this process yourself? Any tips for making it easier?

[@KristaBerryhill-ef9lz]

@@RetirementTransformed I’ve never met anyone less attached to stuff than I am so I can’t really help you out. When I was 17 I asked my mom why she had so much stuff because I was going to throw it all away when she died! 😆 Teenagers! I honestly don’t understand why people care about their possessions so much. I know I’m the outlier! I did downsize a few years ago and planning to get rid of 90% of what’s left. But it feels freeing to me so it’s really not difficult. The hard part is finding homes for things so it doesn’t go straight to the landfill. ☹️

[@jeffDwyer1]

I plan to retire at the end of 2025 at 62 after 36 years in Telecom as a sales engineer. My wife will retire in May 2026 and she's loving life! But walking away from a good income stream and building the nest egg to living from the nest egg is a scary proposition couple with the alarming recession and CPI report

[@RetirementTransformed]

Transitioning to retirement can feel daunting, but it’s great you’ve planned ahead! Balancing income from your nest egg with current economic conditions is key. Wishing you and your wife an exciting new chapter-you’ve got this!

[@jenniferjohnson319]

Wish you would show the house in Connecticut

[@RetirementTransformed]

The house in CT has been sold and we are no longer there.

[@ddavidson5]

I don't want to downplay the issues with downsizing but my goodness, you downsized 4 times in 15 years? On average you spent about 3-1/2 years in each house, I am not sure how you even got attached to those places. We downsized to a condo last year after almost 40 years in our house. This was the house we raised our daughters in, our eldest was married in our backyard, and that was a wrench, but downsizing after 3 years or so, that seems a lot less traumatic somehow.

[@RetirementTransformed]

When we. first met and got married, we each downsized our individual homes. Then bought a vacation home. Then moved once in our old neighborhood to a smaller house.And a few more decluttering projects in the middle of all of that.

[@Gzluweez]

Re: RV. Rent one for a week. Drive it through cities, try at least one night boondocking. We rented one 20 years ago for 5 days. Hit a blizzard on the way home and drove with my hands glued to the wheel for hours and hours because it was too icy to stop. Never again. I’m grateful we got dosed with reality quickly. Save a lot of money by not ever doing it again.

[@SherlieCollins]

Doesn't have to be that way. Did it for 11 years, his idea. Was great till his first heart attack. Get rid of all that stuff, the kids don't want it.

[@RetirementTransformed]

That sounds like quite the adventure-though maybe not the fun kind! Thanks for sharing your experience-it’s a great reminder to try before you buy!

[@marybutlin5605]

Great decision with the furniture

[@RetirementTransformed]

Yes, it made the transition easier.

[@lisaward3890]

Pictures can be put on a thumb drive or legacy box can do the leg work for putting all your pictures on a thumb drive and saved in the cloud. Might be something that might work for you. Yes psychological support is very necessary to get through the emotional aspect of your downsizing journey. Do you regret something you got rid of and wish you had that thing back?

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you for the great tips! A thumb drive or a service like Legacy Box definitely sounds like a practical solution-we’ll have to look into that. 😊 You're so right about the emotional side of downsizing; it’s a real journey. As for regrets, there might be one or two small things, but honestly, the sense of freedom and clarity has been worth it. Have you ever had to downsize? Any items you’ve let go of that you still think about?

[@lisaward3890]

@@RetirementTransformed yes, we had to downsize 3 different times. It amazes me how much stuff comes through the door and how much actually goes out. I have about 3 items i got rid of that i regret now.😪 i am a crafty person. I sew,crochet,knit, and do counted cross stitch. I try to keep those supplies in rubbermaid totes with clamp on lids.My husband is already retired and does not like to see my projects laying out, they leave a messy untidy look. He comes from a minimal furnishings environment. I however come from a waste not want not environment. I can see endless possibilities in recycled items. I do consult google to make sure i am not wasting my time. Most of the stuff i make i give away as a gift.

[@mssdn8976]

I would choose about 50 photos from your family and then ask the kids if they want the rest. Your kids won’t want your ‘precious momentos’ necessarily, so if you keep everything you are making work for them when you’re gone

[@RetirementTransformed]

That’s a smart approach! Keeping a select few meaningful photos and giving the kids a choice helps avoid burdening them later. Thanks for sharing!

[@JulieSmith-i5u]

Didn’t you do a whole video on dealing with photos ???

[@RetirementTransformed]

Yes we did. kzbin.info/www/bejne/bZjKnYabdpyem9E

[@marilinda223]

I understand about the pictures, eventually our kids and families are not going to know who Aunt Addy was from 1950. Sad, I guess we should keep the pics where you recognize your parents, Aunts, Uncle's, and Cousins. With every new generation, we lose that connection with our forefathers. ❤

[@RetirementTransformed]

You’re so right-it’s bittersweet to think about how family connections and memories fade with each generation. Keeping the photos that hold the most meaning and tell the stories of our loved ones is such a beautiful way to preserve that connection. ❤ Thank you for sharing your perspective-it’s such an important reminder!

[@johns126]

Back in the old days the magic of photography was a real thing of wonder. Not much else going on but to take photos, have them developed, pass them around the family to look at. Filled in time. That’s why all these photos exist. Mark, my advice - let em go, throw them out.

[@RetirementTransformed]

You’re so right-there’s something so nostalgic about the magic of photography back then. It really was a special way to capture and share moments with loved ones. Thank you for the advice, Mark is definitely working on letting go of some of them! 😊 Do you still hold onto any photos from those days, or have you already taken the plunge and decluttered?

[@johns126]

@ All digitised 😊 and then tossed.

[@nancybrody5896]

Don’t downsize twice because you will be aging and will not have the energy to do it again! Moving all this “stuff” that no one wants cost quite a bit of money.

[@nancybrody5896]

If you don’t know you have it you should not keep it!

[@RetirementTransformed]

Yes you make a good point. But while we are young and active, we want to keep shedding everything we dont need and let others use it.

[@alexwyler4570]

KZbinrs Snow and Curt are traveling the world for the last 6 years and the most they drive is 2-3 hours every 3 days minimum. They like nature and wildlife.

[@RetirementTransformed]

I will check them out

[@chollypaderanga307]

Wow! Downsizing is really emotional I guess 😢

[@RetirementTransformed]

It really is! Downsizing brings up so many memories tied to the things we’ve collected over the years. 😢 But it’s also been a journey of growth and making space for new experiences. Have you ever had to go through something similar? Would love to hear your thoughts!

[@lindadupuis1531]

You two must have been Ken & Barbie in your 20’s. Attractive couple.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thanks for the compliment! :)

[@samlavez001]

Retirement becomes truly fulfilling when you possess two essential elements: ample financial resources and a meaningful purpose in life. Make prudent investment choices to secure good returns and ensure a comfortable retirement.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Well said! Financial stability and a sense of purpose are truly the keys to a fulfilling retirement. Thanks for sharing this great insight!

[@siameseire]

Do we get to eventually see your new home? 😊

[@RetirementTransformed]

😊 We’re still thinking about how to share that in a video, but we’d love to show you around once everything is settled. Stay tuned-it’s definitely on our list!

[@philfrench3418]

If you havent done the RV thing yet, you aren't RV people. Don't bother.

[@RetirementTransformed]

You are probably right!

[@isay207]

If your a senior and never hauled anything before it may not be a good idea driving with a large pull trailer isn't that easy I wouldn't get in the vehicle unless the driver had a long time class 1 license

[@Chris-u4b8r]

😊

[@RetirementTransformed]

:)

[@lorraineknepple335]

Rent the RV!

[@RetirementTransformed]

:)

[@fabulous605]

Is your house on fire, or what is it you have steaming next to Jodie??😂

[@RetirementTransformed]

Not sure what you mean? I guess your being funny.

[@fabulous605]

@ I am so sorry….on the video, to Jodie’s right there is obvious steam, OR smoke….I am thinking perhaps it is a vaporiser, or something of that ilk. I will retire my jesters hat! So sorry, not funny.

[@DavidDarakjy]

Rich people problems. If you’re “emotionally attached” to bricks and mortar you must have shallow human relationships.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Everyone's journey in retirement is different! While some people do form emotional connections to their homes, others focus more on relationships and experiences. It's all about finding what brings you happiness and fulfillment in this stage of life. Thanks for sharing your perspective!

[@kirsty5762]

Photo scanner

[@RetirementTransformed]

Yup. Thx

[@Jane5720]

Why did you have to even do that?

[@RetirementTransformed]

It was time to move on. We were spending less time there and felt it was time.

[@craigo2142]

Sounds like another unnecessary 1st world problem.

[@RetirementTransformed]

We hear you-some challenges can definitely seem less significant in the grand scheme of things. Still, everyone’s journey is unique, and we try to approach each topic with understanding and empathy. Thanks for sharing your perspective!

[@jacquelinewalters6811]

You're a lovely couple but I'm dropping your channel. You are just too far removed from my life: your age but lower middle class worried how my husband & I will do in the new political climate. You worry about downsizing to just 1 home & we worry if we will be able to take a summer vacation.

[@RetirementTransformed]

Thank you for your kind words about us as a couple; we really appreciate it. We completely understand that everyone’s journey and challenges are different. Your concerns are absolutely valid, and we sincerely hope things improve for you and your husband in these uncertain times. We hope you'll consider sticking with our channel-we’d love to continue connecting and sharing. Wishing you all the best and sending positive thoughts your way.

[@11Bravo84]

⁠TRUMP 2024 deal with it just like we had to@@RetirementTransformed