Our Relationship Is Too Good To Be True, I Just Know She's Lying! | KARAMO

[@ForeverYoung20092]

I love how that lady in the audience didn’t take his BS.

[@opulence_prime]

She took none of it! Shut him completely down.

[@Anonymous-pg2lr]

Yep but how is she going to tell him he can't ask her a question buy she can ask him one. 🤔

[@ForeverYoung20092]

@@Anonymous-pg2lr Maybe because she knew the bullshit question he was about to ask.

[@Anonymous-pg2lr]

@Stacy McCalmon true.

[@ilyasaAziza]

Me too and it showed all his red flags... that girl better run for the hills and never look back down at the bottom again

[@melissaellis4656]

Why on Earth is she dealing with him? Girl, RUN. 🙄

[@basedadri]

Agreed like… this is a HOT MESS … she needs to leave him asap

[@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr]

​@@basedadri to go where.?.... Another on line dating.

[@basedadri]

@@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr to leave him for a man that is healed and not insecure ? There’s good men out there

[@debravaughn7168]

Ikr she should leave asap

[@melissaellis4656]

@@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr There is more to life than men and dating! She can figure herself out, learn what she likes/needs and if/when she meets a man she’ll be ready! Either way, this guy is NOT it.

[@JordanKeuna]

“ no you cannot “ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 period BIANCAAAAA

[@kimdean1079]

Girl, run from this insecure, controlling man. Nothing will make him trust you and he will give you hell every day unless you are sitting under him 24/7. Karamo is absolutely right - this fella needs to heal before he embarks on a relationship.

[@gpinder11]

You are so correct. I am in the exact relationship you just described. This man won't even work because I work from home and he thinks someone is over here. I'm so sick of it. And even when we are together 247, he still doesn't trust me. I'm trying to find my way out asap. I feel myself becoming miserable

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

Have y’all ever consider these men have been cheated on and don’t trust women lol. Sounds like they haven’t healed, either that or their cheating on y’all 😅

[@Yagirlashley]

Yes he totally reminds me of the father of my kids

[@Yagirlashley]

Yes he totally reminds me of the father of my kids

[@demetricewashington2840]

He'll still give her hell because he is insecure 😢

[@NubianP6]

*ANY* man who refers to women as “hoes” is to be avoided at all costs. Let him figure out his ish on his own girl, because life is too short to waste it on someone’s “potential”, which they may never actually reach.

[@ericalashay0209]

This!! Huge red flag 🚩

[@_andelrxses_]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@kell-yh4ec]

That is just how blk men talk

[@kell-yh4ec]

@@ericalashay0209how is it red flag?

[@ChassyAri]

He isn’t a man

[@shaunta963]

Men like him really don’t like women she’s wasting her time. He’s unhealed and miserable. As women the cape should be taken off you can’t fix everyone.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

He likes the idea of women but the fact that he’s a hoe he seen it all which is why he can’t trust women. There’s a dark side to being a ho3, for both sexes and it’s not cute at all. Yeah we all have our phases when we were young but there comes a point where you gotta mature and get out of that mess. He does need to chill and take a few years off from dating and go see a therapist or something.

[@Juniper122]

facts

[@denenemoss8401]

There's no way I would entertain this man any longer

[@ladyteka2430]

I’m not even going to finish watching this episode! 😂😂

[@denenemoss8401]

​@@ladyteka2430 she started crying and saying hes not a bad person. I cant take it.

[@brownbagz]

​@@ladyteka2430Right! I already went to.the next episode! 😅

[@veronicanakalyango1649]

There’s a certain negative energy that this guy radiates the moment he opens his mouth. Sis, this is a whole lot of drama for just 9 months, you really deserve much better. Bro take off time for therapy to heal from your past.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

The issue is women choose the slumiest of men when there are good men out there lol, why this guy of all men in her state she choose a ho3. The most desirable by women standards are cheaters and ho3s but yet they complain when they get with them 😅

[@lifeofabunnychaimatcha.1778]

He talks about how hard it is to find a “unicorn”, and he found his, and he’s doing everything in his power to lose her

[@torry24]

He immediately worked my nerve. I can’t even watch this.

[@shimmergangfitness5880]

IMMEDIATELY!!

[@jenniferconley1192]

girl run. he will never trust you and he might just be the one who is untrustworthy

[@andreamathieu5]

Preach girlll👏🏽

[@DreamTv_1]

Thank you! Cause honestly I was waiting for his phone to be unlocked.

[@onyxgothicc]

This is a man who doesn't respect women, point blank. Look at how he treated Bianca, a complete stranger from the audience. I couldn't be with a man who refers to women with misogynistic terms and is rude to strangers. He is most likely doing everything he's accusing her of and his insecurities will make him feel justified in his bs forever.

[@janinemhall6922]

talking and shouting over the audience member is enough of a red flag for me. run girl

[@ladyteka2430]

Absolutely!

[@TasteMyRainb0w]

Exactly. Head for the hills

[@TheartistNevada]

Seriously 😳

[@truthtorpedo4068]

​@@TheartistNevada Didn't the girl in the audience snap at him first?

[@jaydenpierre4381]

@@truthtorpedo4068exactly what I’m saying

[@ablacksquare]

He said she was perfect but didn’t believe he deserved it. Karamo summarized it so well in the end. We all deserve to heal so when we encounter the right person we can fully enter into the relationship.

[@Juniper122]

Karamo is my favorite for a reason. He always hits the nail on the head!

[@soulflowerpeace9236]

This man has no respect for women....hes not ready for a mature real adult relationship....run FAST!!!

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

Facts

[@angelamarshall3807]

🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

[@Juniper122]

yeah he has bigger problems to solve. All this aggression towards women? For what!?

[@girlfriennn3645]

BLACK WOMEN- WE ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR HEALING A BLACK MAN. You will break yourself down in the process and YOU and ONLY YOU will build you back up. "You can lead him to water but it does not mean he will drink it". Thier trauma is NOT YOURS.

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

Goes for black women and black men we are not therapist lol

[@negrospiritualsz7982]

@@nashambenyisrael7689 here you go. Everytime a black woman says something about black men y’all always have to reverse it.

[@girlfriennn3645]

@@negrospiritualsz7982 black women play therapist to these "little boys" all the time. Ain't nobody paying his non accountable ass no attention.

[@bealambwouldya]

@@negrospiritualsz7982 girl majority of BM are dusty so this is expected

[@justbrii8279]

I feel this fr! Women in general. I’m not black but this is truth frfr

[@Depplova81]

He has NO business being in any relationship until he gets his mind straight. Unless he gets proper help he's going to bleed on women that never stabbed him.

[@tiigarden]

His highly problematic behaviour will very likely take a toll on her mental health. He's already trying to isolate her, making her cry, saying he's not gonna change. Avianca probably has her own issues or else she wouldn't end up with someone this controlling and insecure but I do hope she'll get out of it asap because she seems like a kind person who deserves better.

[@Juniper122]

He's taking his hurt and dysfunction out on her and he needs to be single and work on that.

[@yorkshirerose49]

Just watching him for a few minutes already affected my mental health.

[@fromheaventoearth5779]

​@@yorkshirerose49lol damn

[@Anonymous-pg2lr]

If she stays with him, she will always walk on eggshells and be on pins and needles because any little thing that happens, he will revert back to driving her crazy all over again. The relationship will always be toxic. I have been there, and it made me miserable. There is nothing like peace of mind. Your peace of mind should be much more important than a relationship.

[@oddchocolate964]

Insecure men are so UNATTRACTIVE esp the older ones who should know better

[@sandyr9081]

Yes! they are. It removes for me the attractiveness that I thought I even had for a person. It’s alot to be said about “confidence” not to be confused with “cockiness”. But, severe insecurities is a game changer for me. I’m out!

[@Zeroskursed]

IT'S OK TO BE INSECURE JUST LIKE..THIS LEVEL OF INSECURITY IS SUCH AN ICON (MY CAPS LOCK IS BROKE SOS)@@sandyr9081

[@sandramoreland5090]

Lady in the audience stood her grounds ❤😂

[@Juniper122]

She said Im not your girl..OOP

[@bgomes6994]

He’s focusing on her cheating so much, he’s neglecting his dentist appointment 🦷

[@ay-shaamasih9270]

😂😂😂

[@NMinaSh]

Omg🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tythegirl8369]

Not the side tooth I’m dead ☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️😂

[@gutchiespencer2714]

What's wrong with his teeth? We can't see yours....🤔

[@rochelletabb4112]

👀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@carolharris5455]

He so disrespectful she doesn’t need him

[@ahriannab299]

He’s struggling internally. If he truly was happy being alone, he wouldn’t be in this position. This is a cry for help. He wants a relationship but doesn’t know how to trust women. Someone said it before. He doesn’t like women.

[@longbranch11207]

He’s not going to change. Girl run

[@lifeofabunnychaimatcha.1778]

No one should pay the consequences of someone else’s actions. People forget when they enter a new relationship. That is not their new partners fault whatever hurt their ex did to them.

[@elociretim]

This man's inability to identify his responsibility in HIS own healing is unsettling.

[@damianu4082]

Can I get a word out to a brother... If you hurt, you hurt. Putting up a front don't solve nothing. Most of all, you don't project that hurt on anyone else. Get the help you need if you truly want a change, then move on.

[@nesiacoffin8775]

She need to take her “unicorn” self and find somebody who can appreciate her.

[@taylorjaye7555]

I give it a day or two and he will be back to accusing her. He has real bad insecurities bc of his past. She needs to allow him to work on himself while they separate

[@sandyr9081]

Absolutely he will! He will be back doing and saying the same accusations. It’s in his DNA! Therefore, If she doesn’t walk away now she will always keep “Defending, Engaging, Explaining & Personalizing” in a vicious cycle of going D.E.E.P into a vortex of emotional pain by trying to prove to him of her integrity. Her mental health can be deeply impacted by this toxicity. I pray for her and that the truth that she already knows be revealed.

[@chaanaedward2320]

This guy is not hurt, he doesn't just respect women. He has to put this woman on national TV to prove she's faithful and he's not willing to change?? His red flag is as big as America

[@marcellacrier7283]

I wonder how many of those women who hurt him are hurting from things he did to them. Look at how he talked about women that didn’t just start.

[@wavynaturalista]

he hates Black women. he let the other woman state her question easily, but came for Bianca immediately.

[@stephanie3978]

He need to be alone since he doesn't mind being alone!!🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@ChantelD8159]

And they say women are toxic and bring baggage.... this man is taking his past out on her

[@stephaniej.stanley2141]

If he trusted HIS OWN JUDGEMENT he would know what qualities make a person trustworthy. This man doesn’t trust himself! And most importantly, we need to watch our words. If you want a loyal person, don’t say “there’s no loyal people out there”… A wise person told me “You never get what you want, you get what you expect”

[@deenikki9690]

Beautifully stated.

[@VeeKayGreenerGrass]

He isn't very discerning.

[@meghanwilliams4295]

He should have been blocked after ghosting, and moving to California...👀

[@balle-roblox]

Suspect 👀

[@CcBeautiful94]

He must’ve pushed those 5 other girls away first while he’s over here playing victim that he’s been hurt. I can’t even stand to look or hear him idk how she deals with him Smh he’s so insecure & annoying

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

As a guy he is kinda cringe lol he is a ho3 he even said it if I gotta go back to the streets I will which shows he ain’t really committed or ready for a relationship and adult relationship that is. He sounds like he’s use to slinging his torpedo around for majority of his life and that’s about it lol…

[@TasteMyRainb0w]

lol I can't stand to look at or hear him either. The fighting with the woman in the audience was enough for me. I'm a man and I don't argue with women at all. A man going back and forth with a woman like that is a huge red flag 🚩

[@nashambenyisrael7689]

@@TasteMyRainb0w yeah but women always get with men like this and complain lmao, I don’t get it. 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@onyxgothicc]

@@nashambenyisrael7689 The hell we do. The second a man shows he's unnecessarily argumentative and misogynistic, or if he was a prior TOXIC hoe, I peace out

[@p0kepix3ls]

@@nashambenyisrael7689but when they leave, women are criticized for not holding it down.

[@PeaceLoveAndJoy]

Unlocking his phone isn't gonna solve his immaturity and how he spoke to Bianca in the audience. Ma'am run from him. He's too immature to be in any relationship. You deserve better Queen.

[@JescaNabulya-h2o]

I love this woman in the audience 😂

[@ninadavis5517]

I couldn't do it. He's not ready for a woman in his life, the women would be miserable. Been there, done it. She will always be guilty in his eyes.

[@ashtheestampede]

After seeing his dirty jagged nails, are you really surprised by how he acts, talks, or thinks? Lol the manner of those nails spoke volumes 😂

[@gutchiespencer2714]

And yours are probably fake.....🤗

[@iHeart_Shaye]

0:49 ignoring not one red flag, but IS the red flag 🤣🤣

[@iamshan920]

I think he’s guilty of all he’s accusing her of. If I was her I’d leave him…

[@Rip_Kari]

Karamo said he was clean tho! They both was

[@writerchick94]

​@@Rip_Kari just because he didn't leave evidence on his phone to go on a national TV show, doesn't mean he's not cheating

[@DestinyKingMusic97]

I have a STRONG feeling he isn't taking those resources Karamo lol. He didn't hear anything after those results came out.. This will be a relationship where she will have to emotionally labor for this man-child.

[@TeaLeaf222]

Yesss Maaam, Ms. Biancaaa!! 💃🏾💅🏿

[@itscollysworld1389]

I feel like we are granted about 3 bad/ failed relationships that we are “ dumb” of “head of heels “ and we allow certain shit. It could be from our childhood trauma , mommy issues etc. But it comes to a point at our BIG ages there is no reason we should be dealing or tolerating anything toxic, especially more than likely already been on that path before. I highly encouraged everyone especially the black community to seek therapy, fully heal ourselves, be single, and make FRIENDSHIPS, that might lead to something else. The should be no reason any is in a relationship with the same issues carried from the last. There needs to be accountability, they see its not working peacefully part ways and keep it moving, life is too short to SETTLE. I just don’t understand the logic 🤷🏽‍♀️ ……the moment i see red flags i cut it off because ive already been down that road and if i continue i already know the outcome and im just painting a clown on my face. Anyways thanks for my ted talk 😅

[@opulence_prime]

I keep going to your page to see if you’re doing Karamo commentary. I feel like you give opinions some ppl could relate to but videos would create more room for you to say things that are too long to type.

[@itscollysworld1389]

@@opulence_prime lol im too shy

[@itscollysworld1389]

@@opulence_prime i appreciate that tho… i jusy wouldnt even know how to get started im not tech savvy at all 🥲

[@shedori92]

​@Itscollysworld🌻 if you can reply in these comments, sis, you could start your own channel. There are literally KZbin channels to show you how to get started! I believe in you! 🫶🏾

[@steptfup]

@@itscollysworld1389girlie, i’ve been receiving that message from a lot of people recently. even strangers that have short convo with me say i should get on here and start a channel on whatever i want, just to talk. you have a gift if others can see it and are literally encouraging you! you can be a faceless channel which is all editing, and you can do basic editing with imovie or other free programs. i’m shy myself but you’ll be fine! go spread your story 🙏🏽

[@semekakent1]

7:38 is my face this entire segment 😂😂😂😂

[@amyjo2330]

This is the real deal right here. To recognize the toxicity in this man and blatantly telling her to walk away from this man just gave me heart palpitations and made me hit subscribe. Nothing but the truth here clearly!

[@sugaray7435]

I'm married and me and my husband go to bars together and without each other. This dude is insecure and toxic. I wouldn't put up with it...not at all!!

[@etheljvp1291]

What works in your relationship doesn't work for EVERYONE. 🙄

[@fromheaventoearth5779]

Idk. A bar is pushing it. And I'm not even a crazy dude like him. Going out is healthy in general though. Maybe we have a different idea of a bar.

[@asiablackgrl6482]

You are deeply hurt. PREACH!! 🙌🏿

[@TIFFTHEGIFT1]

Any man who feels like that about all women should be single and not attached to any woman in any way. Leave them dusties alone ladies!

[@keonielise]

girl please RUN DON’T WALK!!!!!!!

[@augustmoon9973]

Bless his heart, lol! He comes off like he's hard and will be a player for life, but in reality, he really just has serious insecurities. Hopefully, he can heal and learn to trust certain people again and maybe heal and become a good partner one day.

[@Juniper122]

He going to be in the club with the rest of the over the hill dusties.

[@dorothymonroe]

He smiling so hard because he knows that girl is not going no where.

[@jvmcghee854]

This breaks my heart as I am speaking from experience. Please walk away because he is broken, and this one show is not enough to fix those issues. Staying in this toxic relationship is only going to make you miserable Avianca. You are a beautiful young woman that needs to find true love with someone who trusts and respects you. He will end up cheating because in his mind he will hurt you before you can hurt him. He needs to work on himself before he commits to any relationship. You can love him but love yourself more. #loveisthemedicine

[@TinkOutLoud]

I came here from the shorts. I see he immediately didn’t want to hear what Bianca had to say before she even got to the mic. “Oh, what SHE got to say?” Smh

[@bellladonna2071]

I don't think he really likes women 🤔

[@roxannemohalland1055]

Couldn't agree with you more

[@ForeverYoung20092]

What would make u think that ? Do u think he is gay ?

[@mactrek2]

​@Stacy McCalmon Not gay, just misogynistic and have no respect for women.

[@CcBeautiful94]

Yup lol

[@desd6542]

i wouldnt say hes exactly gay but men like him who have claimed to be "hurt" so badly by women grow to nearly hate women. So when they get with a woman they disrespect them, talk over and down to them, they argue with women like women argue with women, hardly listen-especially to a woman and most of it stems from being insecure and having mommy issues. They never learn how to treat women. Look how when shes crying, he barely tries to comfort her, it just goes back to him. He has issues with himself and his mama and until those issues are dealt with, he will continue hurting women and thinking in his mind that women are hurting him. Watch how these men act with men compared to women, they would hardly never ever come at another man like how they come at women, so aggressively. These are mentally small men.

[@danielleb3966]

Don't walk, skip, or hop. RUN from this situation, honey. You are beautiful! Being with an insecure man can really take you down through there, I know first hand.

[@Marc1a-d6j]

Sorry, he's no where ready for a relationship.Girl stop wasting your time with this man, as the scars he will give you will interrupt your next relationship. He's sick, he has trust issues and need to get healing before he's in to a relationship.

[@marianamwanje8968]

I feel like no woman hurt him but he just have that thing in him to disrespect women, the way he interacted with the Bianca in the audience shows how he treats women, she should run

[@aworlds1]

To heal, you have to WANT to heal. To grow, you have to WANT to grow. Ego blocks the ears and the heart.

[@yadajones1023]

🗣🗣🗣🗣YASSSSS KARAMO ALWAYSSSSSS ON POINT WITH THE ❤❤❤❤❤

[@georgia1191]

Whew Chile this was a lot lol and that argument from the audience ,,,chiiillleee Karamo was nervous lol honestly he’s my fav talk show host !

[@shaym754]

This man is something else

[@marvahgprah6847]

You are amazing koramo, keep up the good work and honest truth you always tell your guest and I truly appreciate you okay.

[@auzy2u845]

Karmo

[@TF-gf3fs]

"Don't come for the city girls"? Yeah like they're known for having a clean, positive and respectful image.🥴

[@kittycatobsession]

How can he love a woman when he can’t even like one?

[@karynthompson4320]

He seems toxic. A game player.

[@theartistfkatop5doa253]

Nothing she do will be good enough

[@wordplay6665]

It’s almost like he was mad he didn’t find anything in her phone 🙄 while he keeping the door open

[@bossb8989]

For their relationship to work, Karamo must go with them back home 😂and his unlock-the-phone team too😂!

[@ParisHarris]

Why I feel like he got a second phone 😂

[@Lala-t2s]

AND DO!

[@TheMwendaa]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kittensmitten3287]

That lady is better than me. He would never see again

[@ande1805]

GIRL DON'T RUN... PLS FLY leave this man!!!!

[@urbankutie2475]

When he kissed her I grimaced

[@jenniferwilliams8337]

He is always going to find "something." He is insecure and it never changes until they seek help.

[@Mroseeee311]

That “I love you” at the end of the videos be getting to me all the time

[@Hendog410]

I’m tired of black women always being a man savior. Girl you not his lord and savior. Please please please move on and continue to live your life with your homegirls. It’s only been 9 months and she’s in love? Seeing red flags and staying? Thinking she can change him is crazy. We all learned this in our 20s. He’s going to keep hurting you with him being unhealed as long as you let him. It’s barley people out here making a conscious decision to move away from people they know they will hurt. Also knowing they will stay and endure that hurt. Choose you, every time.

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

This comment!❤

[@bernicemillhouse9693]

Yes he most definitely need help and plus Queen separate from him very quickly 💯. If he get help I still wouldn't go back to him. He showed his true colors 😉 Ty for your videos 💕📷💕

[@EssieBthe-one]

If she don't run! An unhealthy, unhealed man will drag you down to the abyss.

[@ariannesmith5303]

Girl in the brown gave him what he was looking for 😂

[@chestergriffin9370]

😂😂😂 he's hilarious 😂😂😂😂i would've NEVER took him serious 😂😂😂

[@NellyMacharia]

He is an abuser if she stays with him he is going to start putting hands on her

[@agadonk]

His issues made him miss out on the unicorn he found. Such a shame.

[@divinelyfavored]

Run girl run!!🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

[@angiianthony9064]

She said "I've been hurt too" and he said "yea Ight" girl leave!

[@ramonahamm6292]

He is not healthy enough to be in a relationship.. and will ruin this woman emotional bc he’s not healed

[@Juniper122]

A walking red flag right here! This man isn't worth the headache and he doesn't deserve a good woman. Hurt people, hurt people until they work on healing. He humiliated her and called her virtue into question for NO REASON! Girl RUNNNNN!

[@bibbilagermand8397]

I wood never be with a controlling and abusive man.they end up jalous and it can be dangerous ,i wood get out before i land in a bodybag,you have heard that men is putting hands on you and are very very jalous.i wood rather leave ,then have such a relationship like this

[@brownbagz]

BABBYYYY! I have been there! Didn't want to be by myself and was with a toxic man until he died! I've been by myself ever since! 7years. I've met many men but when I see them red flags, I dip realllll QUICK 😅

[@km-yaheard]

The eyebrow ring at 40 something is wild. That's the first red flag lol

[@JordanKeuna]

He really just afraid to be hurt again so he come up with crazy scenarios because that’s all he use to.

[@TeeCup22]

He a walking red flag Chile. He wants control 🙄 RUN GIRL.

[@tobeywankenobi]

"there's no reason to go to the bar if you ina relationship" Um people go to just relax and unwind and have a good time with friends.

[@ItsPinky1]

why is she smiling the entire time like she just cool with his disrespect? A person can only take so much… this is crazy !

[@keshafarrar3187]

It’s really crazy to me that people have the audacity to think they are the only ones who should never get hurt. Everyone gets played at times you don’t get to project that hurt onto others

[@myataturner]

Girl. RUN!

[@LuckyyLEVEN]

I screamed as soon as Antonio’s video started playing 😂 Just finished the show , this man is …… yea no thank you . I wonder he got cheated on so many times .

[@leezanewill-codrington7731]

Trust is one of the foundations of relationships! This is not going to work!!

[@SweetestNya]

His insecurity is so loud.. it’s truly sad that a non deserving woman would sit in such a mess. That speaks to her insecurity as well. This is a toxic bond of 2 people with poor self esteem. She needs just as much help as he does.

[@sandyr9081]

Yes, well said and great insight. This is why she really needs to run, and she must do it now! Before more of the toxic/trauma bonding increases. She needs to seriously and radically reevaluate herself and accept her part in what she’s allowing into her precious life. He’s definitely NOT the one.