Out With The Old, In With The New: Ann Marie Adam v Rafael Rodriguez pt 1

Ann Marie says there are several red flags waving in her face and she’s unsure about her relationship with her fiancè, Rafael. She says he’s controlling, disrespectful and a cheater.
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[@scottsh1120]

Judge Lynn would have flipped. You dont move in with no guy and you dont take your kids to move in with a stranger

[@ThatGirlGiGiNYC]

Would have handed her butt to her!! That’s so crazy

[@yvettewilliams5967]

DO NOT MOVE IN WITH ANY GUY!!!HAVE YOUR OWN PLACE!!!!!

[@gospel4303]

Exactly! Judge Lynn would have, and provided a copy of her book! Loneliness should never place her Daughters well being in jeopardy, she compromised their safety for ding-a-ling!!!!

[@PhyllisYoung-g5i]

She would of called him a Dude 😅

[@AriusBLK]

Nuff Said

[@rmmmmt2796]

I have no sympathies for a woman who moves in with a man after 3 days with two young daughters. I'm not saying he's a sex offender but the risk is awfully high when you have non bio man living with a single mother and cohabiting with them

[@MelanineQueen98]

Exactly!!!

[@highlander666]

her poor judgment is a danger to her children

[@RacieRain]

She wasn't a successful cosmetologist if she left her business and clients behind for a man in 3 days. She was looking for a way out of something.

[@toniaellen5271]

Exactly, other dude probably got tired of taking care of her

[@WakeupMs.McBride]

​@@toniaellen5271And her children.

[@BrittanyHunter-f6w]

Trying to get away from that ex she mentioned!

[@janettedesilier1018]

As an adult you come to realze that "instantly hitting it off" with someone could be a very dangerous trap. That's how people end up in toxic relationships with narcissists.

[@LIVEINPEACE2023]

Right! And especially a woman with children. If you’re childless and want to roll the dice, go for it. But never if you’re a mother.

[@ThatGirlGiGiNYC]

That love bombing!!!

[@tashanixon1651]

Not a narcissist necessarily, just not a good person.

[@rodokorley9456]

And also how people end up dead

[@kattiethomas4687]

Euphoria is beginning attraction😅

[@Singlehood2Marriage]

I definitely think that when people are OVER protective and overbearing in a relationship, it's a RED FLAG! 🚩 it's one thing to care and another to be narcissistic and controlling!

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

True

[@lovefire6856]

I dont understand why she's mad at him. She moved in with a complete stranger.

[@GETBIG4WARD]

He have to be a mess to let a woman with 2 children move into your home no man in his right mind would allow a baby mother off the street to do that he must just wanted a woman to lay next to you

[@user-iv1yi6cz7o]

THESE WOMEN ARE VERY CARELESS WITH THEIR CHILDREN AND NEW MAN

[@thisishannah_]

Moving her girls into a strange man's house after 3 days!! What!!

[@triciaprospertheophile547]

After 3 days

[@yvettewilliams5967]

After 3 days?!!!!!?????!!!!!??

[@nicolecoleman2592]

She was homeless!!!

[@frankamye4251]

I bet she was about to get evicted and needed a place to stay asap.😂😂😂😂

[@NotYourTypicalNegro]

3:19 - You moved in after 3 days of knowing him with your two daughters??? Girl BYE! I REFUSE to listen to the rest of this!

[@latishadavis6985]

She just gave a whole speech about learning herself etc having 2 daughters then boom 😮

[@bryanbeeman5256]

See how full of garbage people are? They talk about leaving toxicity and healing, but they’re still just as damaged and jacked up.

[@highlander666]

she's clearly not an intelligent person

[@fabresianrhoden8459]

🤔🤔

[@SimplyCassandra1]

She's CRAZY ! 😧🤣 no way now how would I move into a Man home with 2 Daughters or 2 Sons! WTF! 😮😮😮

[@ShanetteLewis]

3 days, 2 daughters and 100 miles away! Absolutely reckless!!!

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

Yes

[@Singlehood2Marriage]

Honestly this relationship sounds abusive and toxic!

[@ThatGirlGiGiNYC]

Yep!! Too toxic!! But that’s what happens when you move into someone’s place in 3 days

[@Grovel007]

If my Kids mom moved my daughter in with a guy she knew 3 days, I would have a problem.

[@julianiwhite]

A dangerous red flag 🚩

[@lawranew5125]

Would you complain, or take custody?

[@beedabee1221]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@BrittanyHunter-f6w]

Rightfully so!

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

Yes sir

[@susanrodriquez1024]

Watching her doing prom girls hair?? NO way!!!

[@serenalampkin8241]

That’s too much control!!! 🫣😫🏃🏾

[@iforgotmyusername0]

sick

[@HadiyaNuriddin]

We don't need a next time on this case. We good.

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

😂😂😂😂 I'm dead.

[@ThatGirlGiGiNYC]

Ain’t no way I’m moving in with nobody in 3 days. Ion care how much we hit it off!! You got girls!! Smh

[@anonymousreview1049]

Both of them….. need to go their separate ways…. Period, point blank!!!

[@tinagogo2097]

Girl, RUN, and I mean RUN fast because he is showing signs of DANGER and ABUSE

[@StoniAf]

...3 days???? I don't even wanna hear what she has to say

[@ddnquestion1]

Tell her Judge Star she is showing her daughter's that this is how you are supposed to allow a man to treat you, STOP THE CYCLE BEFORE MARRYING THAT MESS OF A MAN , SMH 😡 💯

[@GETBIG4WARD]

I’m just going to be honest here she is toxic as well she has 2 kids no Father or husband around any man marry her he marrying aa mess as well

[@lcct635]

This judge is too soft. I bet judge Toller would put they both in theirs slides.

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

Don't marry him

[@sanfrocisco]

If she stays, she's going to end up dead. Leave NOW!

[@SRT_DRE]

WHAT?! 😭

[@queenteireigns6212]

He does sounds nuts

[@amybynum8962]

He 👎🏽👇🏼🤡🤢

[@BrokeTruckerGyal]

Another bad mother. These women should not be responsible for children when they make such irrational life choices themselves.

[@mlm1916]

Just selfish ‼️ Putt and her needs B4 the safety of her little girls. She's already calling them his 'step-daughters ... for crying out loud‼️

[@GETBIG4WARD]

She is a dumpster fire

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

​@mlm1916 You say "needs", I say selfish desire to have someone put a bandaid on her low self-esteem rather than fix herself. That's a chicken who feels like she can't be alone.

[@stylesbycryssie]

I really think its child endangerment to be move your kids in with a stranger.

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

Agreed

[@quichequiche4274]

He's escalating, RUN. There's no way Im sitting on facètime and risking my business for anybody. So if we have to break up, BYE.

[@floridagirlblair9193]

You better leave that fool Alone!!!! Red flags are blowing a Warning to you!!! So embarrassing!!

[@delilahspivey1093]

If she had the ability to shut up and listen, she might be able to hear her own words and how diametrically opposed she is to a successful life. She is her own worst enemy!! EXHAUSTING!

[@st3psp8]

100% agree! First sentence talking about her divorce, how she’s gonna get herself together, with her girls and first thing she does is move in with a strange man after 3 days🙄

[@Nurse_Nash]

Nah. The judge didn’t cuss him out enough for smacking that drink out her hand and pulling her out the club for me.

[@urluvizmyluv1999]

I thank my mom for her example

[@carolynewing8574]

He might be her worst nightmare in life. She better RUN

[@PamelaWard-qn6cf]

I enjoy Judge Star, but I do not believe that you have to tell a man every step that you make.....The Judge gave him leverage to believe that he was right. He is insecure and sounds dangerous... You cannot love a person more than you love yourself. I don't like the fact that she is talking about her daughters when SHE is the one who subjected her daughters to a perfect stranger. Red flags to the maximum degree.

[@melstarr1864]

But when you have a family together, it is a little more important to know each other’s whereabouts.

[@iforgotmyusername0]

Man or woman... its called space

[@firstfixus4418]

Judge Lynn would have gave her the business for moving in with a stranger with her young daughters in tow

[@michelleroyall351]

The best judge!

[@LeRoszay]

Am I reaching thinking it’s child abuse to move your kids in with a man you only knew for 3 days ?

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

Not reaching at all. It is a big sign of neglect.

[@retrojay86]

Yup

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

It is wrong

[@melissabrown-rose9183]

Nope.

[@San-ui9cr]

Judge Star was missing the mark here. If he doesn't like how she dances, leave the relationship. If he can't trust her to go to work, he should leave her. They clearly didn't set expectations on how they would operate within their relationship so going full hulk on a grown woman b/c she doesn't act how you think she should is not okay, at all. Her moving in after 3 days and staying on the phone with him while at work is crazy... They seem to enjoy their toxic relationship.

[@lifeofjazz6944]

Honestly, I didn't see anything wrong with her dancing with a girl. Girls dance together all the time, and it's purely innocent. I agree that she has some growing up to do and she does need to leave him, but the way she went in about her dancing with another girl threw me off a little bit. Lol

[@gospel4303]

My granny always said this, “you don’t poop where you eat!!!!

[@shawndyer7860]

It irritates me that judge Star keeps diminishing his actions. His actions are not acceptable. When you're grown you're responsible for your own actions.

[@jo-zahnewilliams4607]

The judge missed the mark on this one. Darling...you should leave. Run. Literally breakup, delete and block this man. He is completely controlling and the judge was not hard enough on that point. People like him usually end up killing their spouses... Im genuinely fearful for her

[@kerrywhite5253]

She's a fool to remain with him on any level. I feel he could be dangerous to her physically.

[@loudandnerdygames5986]

Bet he cheating or has been cheated on micro managing her like that. Also she dumb running off within a man to live with him in a week, especially when she has two vulnerable girls.

[@jasonleman1396]

Oh the judge was way out of line! He is beyond controlling! You maybe in a relationship but you dont own her!

[@scottsh1120]

I know we shouldnt compare judges but cases like this one. I can just hear Judge Toler fussing ar her foe moving in with him and telling her to run and giving her a copy of her book. Judge Star fussed at her more than she did him like she caused his behavior, smh

[@jo-annbastings]

She doesn’t realize that, when you point a finger at somebody, there are three pointing at you. She kept accusing him for this and for that, but she instigated her own shit towards him. Also, having three children and moving in with a guy after only three days of dating, is everything but carefully planning. How could she know she was moving with a pedophile, or a violent man, or a thief, or whatever, if she moved her kids and herself with a man she didn’t even know his existence three days before they met?!?

[@AriusBLK]

Facts !! She instigated all this drama 🎭

[@jo-annbastings]

@@AriusBLK OH YEAH!! BIG TIME!! If you watch the part ll, it is VERY clear especially towards the end when the judge gives her conclusion with her bailiff.

[@cherrellsumbler85]

The earring is KILLING ME!!! In the words of KRS 1...sort of, strike, 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5!!! Bye. They are not compatible. Plus she moved in in 3 days? What kind of Root he put on her? Smh.

[@evonjohnson4078]

Killing me too. RED FLAG.

[@d820m]

Probably some D-I-C-K-root😂😂😂

[@ED-hi1vo]

Yeah Kieffer Sutherland called.... they are remaking The Lost Boys.... they are gonna need that earring back.

[@HeauxlisticLux]

Judge Star was off on this one & definitely had an attitude... this couple needs to separate

[@ark5428]

Judge was wrong on this one. He was completely out of line and she should not have to update him on her whereabouts every minute of the day. Also what kind of mother just moves her and her kids in with some stranger after 3 days…?

[@floridagirlblair9193]

Man!!! Judge Lynn you should have called in on this BS.!! Judge Star Nope!, you are basically agreeing with this Foolishness!! Girl get your daughters and get Gone!!

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

😂😂😂 I'm giggling at the idea of Judge Lynn watching these new episodes & her husband telling her she can't call the show to complain.

[@mariannemcgee6262]

Star is full of it in this one, accusing her of grinding on woman! He’s controlling !!! She’s letting him off the hook!!

[@penelopeb1370]

I thought I could finish this, but the wife talks a good game but she's still out here making chickenhead moves. He is a straight control freak.

[@faithweightsministries1508]

Judge Star is just wrong today!

[@mimboyce6643]

SHE DONT CARE ABOUT HER DAUGHTERS

[@queenb2713]

Yeah she needs to leave him ASAP

[@carlakhadijahtumere3914]

Her advice is horrible! This man is controlling, and the lady should be careful. I hope this lady listens to her heart

[@estherjeudy23]

Can't stand when someone said he's controlling bc he wants to know where you at if you gonna be in a relationship with someone you gotta communicate basic communication folk

[@lcct635]

But The other way, once she tells him he simply show up like in The client house. I understand her, my firts boyfriend was like this. In The end he persue me and I have to move away and delete all social media. He show up on my salon and all The staff say he was acting strange, because he dont see me washing my hair on the back door.

[@susanrodriquez1024]

Cateribg to him and paying attention to him??? Oh dear, such a huge jump into a relationship.

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

Right!? He picked her bc he recognized an easy mark for control.

[@abundancesunflower1971]

Nope! He’s outta control! You’ll have to sleep with one eye open!

[@SimplyCassandra1]

I don't even want to watch part 2 I am finished with this BS!😂😂

[@shirleyrussell7089]

HE SOUNDS PARANOID. HE FOLLOWED HER THERE.

[@timeckajames5167]

Trendy words. I love that part

[@user-iv1yi6cz7o]

WHO ELSE WAS HE WATCHING CREEPY

[@Singlehood2Marriage]

He has NO right to put his hands on her.... she also needs to be more respectful of the relationship with her actions!

[@LIVEINPEACE2023]

I don’t trust her storytelling enough to say he physically put his hands on her! On her drink? Absolutely.

[@AdoreKii]

I miss Judge Lynn Toler. She was the best for the job.

[@michelleroyall351]

I totally agree. IDK what Star was doing here.

[@faithweightsministries1508]

I'm so disappointed she moved in with a man she only knew for three days WITH HER DAUGHTERS!!! Don't know if he's a child molester, don't know if he'd rape her daughters, don't know nothin about this man! ... SMH!!!

[@abundancesunflower1971]

She had every right to dance and have fun! He’s not her dad!

[@nicolecoleman2592]

I am curious to know if Judge Lynn is watching Judge Star episodes?

[@jamesandfaith-livingourlif5704]

And shaking her head.

[@michelleroyall351]

I don't think she'd be able to stomach it ..

[@d820m]

Exactly...my wife's job don't allow spouses to attend their annual Christmas parties, she's worked for the same company for nearly 20 years and I've never been to one

[@HerbalQueen]

🤔

[@gailsmith836]

They are not good together. Diminishing red flag behaviors, her acting inappropriately, him being too controlling. Neither see the error of their ways either. Split up.

[@camfarqi-jamaicangirl4541]

Sometimes when we meet someone and see red flags, we need to watch out. We need to nip it in the bud.

[@jamesandfaith-livingourlif5704]

The judge is way off on this one.

[@lcct635]

She's way off frequently, I really dont like her.

[@danelecarter8660]

Star’s advice is dangerous to women. I miss Judge Lynn, ugh…

[@ericamonroe7659]

Saaaaaame... judge Lynn would've told her to RUN asap..

[@ericamonroe7659]

Star is a clown but it's entertaining so 🤡🤡🤡🤡

[@anonymousreview1049]

How so? Just curious about your thoughts.

[@korondathomassmith5283]

I feel like Judge Starr made too many excuses for him! She didn't tell him she went out after work because she wanted to have a moment where he didn't bug the crap out of her!

[@reddqueen9722]

yes and what irritates me about her is she always brings up her husband and her relationship like we care like lady you give that man too much credit he maybe cheating on you lol🤣

[@annwilson90]

Left a 10 year "toxic" relationship, only to jump into another one after three days! With two DAUGHTERS!!! As parents, we don't have the right to be reckless and irresponsible with our children's safety and wellbeing. Ever! ...I can't with this case...🙄

[@keylacmckemp1309]

She could not be bothered to pick up the phone and text that she is going to a bar after work, but can have him watching her baud teenage girls' hair? I am not excusing his behavior at all but she is silly. From moving in with him immediately with her kids and putting up with the stalking and controlling behavior.

[@Kendallslovejoy]

If stuck on stupid was a person. If zippy head Fred was front and center. Ain’t no fixing him. He is who is.

[@MercyHuff-ub4vy]

Judge Star really missed the target this time!

[@yennegob.0401]

The key words he said here are “ I’m stuck in my ways”. So she either has to accept his “controlling "behavior or move on🤷🏾‍♀️, cause he ain’t changing, because he sees NOTHING wrong with his actions.

[@Devi_521]

3 Days 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@desmondlester1790]

They never leave guys like this, but if you're too nice they will leave you in a heartbeat I don't get it.

[@bettywhite7795]

He's a narcissist

[@ANGELAKCLAY]

Miss, YOU need to RUN!❤🙏🏼☝🏿🙌🏼

[@Play4keeks]

She sounds desperate. It's gross. She put herself and her children in a very dangerous situation.

[@uchennaegbuna7208]

😂😂😂😂 She is not ready for a relationship

[@VJJohnson-r4p]

Judge Star is missing the control issue. Girls do go out and have fun dancing together. His reaction is over the Top!

[@SandraGrant-v8x]

Girl run the other way!!!!

[@Katsuki305]

This was actually scary to watch. I’m willing to bet $ that there is physical abuse in this terrible relationship. “Controlling” code word = ABUSIVE. Smh.

[@melaninandaura9713]

Desperate women end up with controlling, over bearing men. He’s too much I would feel suffocated and LEAVE. But then again she got with him after 1-2-3!!! 3! 3! DAAAYYSS!!

[@goat9020]

Upload more judge Mablean episodes please

[@HTAnderson76]

I feel bad for her 2 daughters, and she should have NEVER put her girls in this living situation because I just know that they have seen this male abuse their Mom.

[@WestSide-s6b]

Leave Him. Ain’t No Way

[@reginajackson459]

Her first mistake was, moving in with him in 3 days. Now anything can happen. Being in a committed relationship is not only about you. Her girls are taking their lead from her.

[@faithweightsministries1508]

One of the worst couples I've seen in Divorce Court!!

[@karengutloff2004]

That's what you get for moving in with an internet stranger after just 3 days. smh

[@alexwatches]

talking about all types of emotional intelligence and maturity but moving in with someone 3 days after meeting them is INSANE lmao

[@authorlydiagreen1862]

Oooohhh a 2 part it's going to be gooood

[@wordplay6665]

I feel the same way about my stylist! I hate seeing hair stylist with busted ass hair! Rubs me the wrong way 😂

[@shirleyrussell7089]

DON'T MARRY HIM

[@heatherbriggs4608]

I'm a mobile notary. I am in more homes than the average person. I am meeting up with new people with each appointment. My husband knows I would never compromise our relationship and honestly I hate humans. If my husband checked in on me like this.....he would have to deal with my wrath for bothering me while I'm conducting business.

[@abundancesunflower1971]

Sis, you don’t move on with a man you knew online for 3 days!

[@andreadrake4890]

She's not ready for a relationship, moving in with him was so wrong on so many Levels, both of them are silly, they dont belong together.

[@wordplay6665]

That’s absolutely disgusting she moved her two daughters in with this man 100 miles away from their home after seeing him the first time 3 days prior…How selfish

[@jingregory4085]

Judge Star was fed up with them!

[@julianiwhite]

3:29 immediate NO 6:10 & another one. That break-up would’ve been fine by me because why would anyone want to continue their life that way

[@aprilstravel7733]

He's a cheater, cheaters believe you're cheating also.