Overcoming Family Enmeshment: Find Freedom from Guilt and Obligation |

[@mindshiftmami]

Did you experience enmeshment growing up? Are you still working to break from it in your adult life? Sound off in the comments below mindshifters! Xox

[@HenriEtta-br2ws]

It’s difficult when family drops you like a bad habit because you stop living life to please them. Why does family take others choices like a personal attack on them??? Like not going to college, marrying someone they don’t approve, moving to a different country, switching careers etc. Like they think people make life changing decisions to spite them it’s so nuts to me! Thankfully there is some family that is mature where they support or may not agree but still show love but wow the mentality of some adults shock me! Very childish imo! And not unconditional love! It’s like I only love you if you do this. If you don’t then you’re dead in my book. Sad. But thank you for the tips they were helpful to me.

[@mindshiftmami]

Yes conditional vs unconditional love is a topic that families need more awareness and education on. Putting our own expectations on our loved ones is where we start to fail. Thank you for sharing!

[@yeetyoot3810]

Just found your channel, I'm really grateful i did for it really helps me be more aware of myself, my family and mental awareness in general, thank you ❤

[@mindshiftmami]

Thank you for sharing this wonderful comment with me! I’m so happy to have you here and that you find value in my channel ❤

[@Satanhadapoint]

I just got off a very upsetting phone call with my mom. She accused me of trying to steal money from her when I’ve never done that. She spends a lot of her time saying “I’m just trying to take care of you and make sure you’re set up” and I fell for it. But as soon as a large amount of money was involved she became very different. Meanwhile my biggest worry was about her car that got hit. And how it was unsafe for her to drive it.