Kim & David: Stepfather, Interrupted | Family or Fiance S2 E2 | Full Episode | OWN

[@raffisworld9826]

He should have also apologized to his own son. His son is also hurt from the lack of connection as a child. My heart goes out to his son .

[@virgo7956]

Exactly!! That's crazy to me!!!

[@GalaletsangSeema]

I was waiting for that and it never came😩😢💔

[@titiwinterstone715]

Genau das selbe hab ich mir auch gedacht😢

[@shakithayoung3190]

I was waiting on that part I felt a little sad

[@user-fe6rx5td9o]

He needs to apologize to everybody..............

[@MindsetOfMarge]

The aunt has her nephews back more than their mother does and that’s sad

[@tfromthetdot]

So glad they have their auntie.

[@MistyEE21]

​@@tfromthetdotI don't understand how a Mother gets so dickmatized that she abandons her children's feelings for a stranger getting into her life. Disgusting.

[@ashleyskitchen7186]

Their mom is an enabler for her husband.

[@mangoyacho]

@@MistyEE21 😂I laughed so much after reading your comment. I have learnt a new word indeed!

[@MistyEE21]

@@mangoyacho 🤣🤣🤣giirrllll, make it make sense!!

[@natashacashaw9803]

What about his son? The look on his face screaming that he was waiting on a apology that hurt so bad🥹

[@ashleyskitchen7186]

He don't care about his kids or that lady kids, he just want that woman 🤣

[@meganharris583]

Wish Tracy were to touch on this!

[@rena2471]

This is by far the best show, with an actual therapist that is helping people and not stirring or enticing drama for tv.

[@AlwaysLisaLisa]

love the way she presents herself, her even manner in her therapy approach is refreshing

[@meh2481]

Yesss she guides them which is the goal of a therapist to guide not lead . And open a space for tough discussions. They also don't say who's right and who's wrong. Or wag fingers at people

[@nicoleanagnostou7719]

Facts!

[@riosworld700]

She’s really good at getting to the core issues.. Quickly👍🏿

[@romellep6572]

❤Love it!!!!

[@Queen-of-the-Burbs]

I can’t imagine marrying someone that didn’t get along with my children. And she a therapist? Yikes.

[@EconomicWarfare]

She's psychotic and desperate!

[@ms.ajones7168]

Right! Aint no way! Thats so crazy to me! Im not trying to judge her but some women just settle for any thing! Let me finish watching tho lol 🤦‍♀

[@latashaboyd6593]

I a good therapist has a therapist clearly she doesn't

[@cyleaseabrook8211]

A school counselor is different from a license therapist. School Counselors cannot diagnose from the DSM-5

[@ardeniarichardson7918]

I never would he’s abusing them.

[@goddessondemand3089]

Girl run !!! If you think you can fix him… you can’t sis … run and run fast ! That man has 5 kids and no relationships with any of them 👀

[@lalablue1414]

Thank you. She’s choosing to ignore the red flags! I feel so bad for her kids. RUN! He’s going to turn on you… in a bad way.

[@DianaIvery]

Some people just want to be in a relationship so badly they ignore all the red flags 😢

[@ashleyskitchen7186]

Right, rubbing his head while talking to his woman crazy 🤣

[@elaine21bok]

I love the aunt and those children on both sides are very articulate and bold. Somebody did something right.

[@lafunn6756]

I agree! 💯

[@Leniloveyeshua3483]

I do not agree. That is not her kids or relationship. She has to help and not be the problem and is not for her to say what is to much when it comes to the boys parenting

[@JaNaeSmith-vk7uk]

I agree

[@AlwaysLisaLisa]

yep. We are all perfectly imperfect

[@s.p529]

She doesn’t see the red flags? This man doesn’t even sound/look safe. And her comforting him like a child is alerting.

[@deec5133]

Yep, I see serious problems ahead. 😗

[@Monieloved1]

Right.

[@twylamoses1471]

Well they been engaged 4 yrs that’s says alot

[@EconomicWarfare]

She'll end up on a crime show soon. Watch!

[@galerich5316]

RUN KIM! RUN KIM! RUN KIM!!!!!!

[@Magique88888]

He is jealous of the boys for having a softer mother and wants her all to himself so she can mother him. That's exactly what was shown. When he got quiet, she sat there with him but didn't show that same care for her sons from what was shown. His wife is his new mother.

[@natashascofield5437]

You hit the nail on the head. Her comforting him makes me sick. He's a grown man smh.

[@danyelgarcia3689]

Interesting 🧐

[@SunshineKK99]

True! He doesn't want her to share her love with her own children...

[@brielax4441]

My initial thought was that's disgusting but diving deeper into that mindset, it's actually sad how he is suffering from arrested development.

[@LadyTee1464]

Been there done that I have been divorced for two weeks my husband would get mad because I would bend to my kids my grandkids and have a grag out fight about me buying things and before my son died I had not talk to my son in a year because he did not like the relationship so when he ask for a divorce he tells me that died when my son died and that he doesn't even like my daughter and now that the divorce is final he wants to still control and wants me to take him back I don't think so

[@BlackButterfly504]

Amazing how some men go above and beyond for another man child while simultaneously ignoring his own biological kids.

[@Ev_89]

What part of the show was that?

[@danadane5497]

It’s unfortunate that’s what happens because men treat the children on how much they love the mother.

[@danadane5497]

This man is a ticking Tom bomb. His mom started it but the military did him in . His mom doesn’t listen and she is hurt from her past and probably the father.

[@menishiaholden4787]

Because it allows them to “fix”the mistakes through some one else cs who they actually hurt

[@EconomicWarfare]

You are tripping! He can't stand any of those boys and they loathe him. 💯

[@communityengagement-bp7jc]

The mother running over to save her man from his mother while her own son is going through it is wild.

[@naturerazzi7shi495]

So cringy. His anger issues are still so raw despite having therapy for over two decades!!!(1997) He gives me the chills!

[@AlwaysLisaLisa]

Sad

[@queenlibra6390]

Wow, bcuz I was thinking this same exact thing when she did that . I'm glad I'm not the only one who saw that.

[@BUMPY_G_JAXON]

Your man is supposed to come 1st yal put these boys 1st then when they get out on the real world they find out ..AS A BLACK MEN U ARE NOTHING.

[@FarmerReLa]

His mom saying he has anger problems is all the red flag I need.

[@tanjelareborn3378]

Me too. That’s my cue to head on out

[@keishawilliams7546]

These women be desperate to have a man

[@gonegirldiaries]

yeapppp

[@kaciousrobinson440]

The insane thing is everyone acted as if the grooms son was NOT THERE!!! He wasn’t mentioned or treated as a child or loving relative! Not even the sons embraced him, nor Kim and she supposed to be a counselor. Yet and still he showed up and stayed for his dad

[@chipo-lweendomwiindilila3689]

I wish he apologized to his son also 💔

[@jessicajay6142]

I was waiting on him to do that

[@evonyevans]

I said the same thing ! You can tell the son was waiting on it, smh.

[@virgo7956]

​@@evonyevans I was waiting too!

[@Ev_89]

We never know what they didn't air. Perspective is everything.

[@deereegray]

@@Ev_89I was thinking the same thing until his son said “the way he apologized to Kim’s sons” and then started crying made me second guess that thought

[@GoddessPower777]

his mom not allowing him to respond is such a narcissistic move. She opened the conversation then he couldn’t respond..calling it disrespect. she’s part of his problem.

[@thefreequency]

I agree. I also think she took this public moment to reclaim a lot of what her son took from her over the years They are definitely a damaged pair. Wishing them healing

[@QueenSugar72]

💯! She bought up an issue/concern and then immediately shut him down!

[@johannleonce7671]

I was MADDD!!!

[@beverlyvantull8452]

@@johannleonce7671 Facts and I'm glad he held strong until session with Ms Tracy

[@Ev_89]

Imagine him as a boy dealing with that. No wonder he has the anger he does. She forced him to have no voice hence his lack of self expression/vulnerability before their session.

[@kaybee2979]

How a man treats their OWN MOTHER is how they are going to EVENTUALLY treat their WIFE or significant other

[@creamekay]

my son saying he ready to move out would have broke me

[@shaunaadams6924]

Especially at such a young age

[@Unique_n_Devine]

Girl I would've dropped him like a hot pocket 💯🤷🏾‍♀️🤣

[@Monieloved1]

With no where to go😂 He's how old?? 😅

[@thelifeofree5613]

15

[@JaNaeSmith-vk7uk]

Same

[@chartwhispers]

He’s mom is trying to prevent from telling his truth. He’s angry from childhood

[@Iolani88]

Nope!! They wouldn’t have my blessing at all. This man didn’t even say 1 word to his own son and his emotions showed. This woman should run!! This man could explode at any time.

[@AlwaysLisaLisa]

I say address the children in a session as well to lay a foundation for future healing.

[@JaNaeSmith-vk7uk]

I love the auntie. She is ridin for her nephews

[@drclaralpeters]

It’s truly a blessing for them to have her there for them.

[@MistyEE21]

The boys are obviously protective of their Mom but their Mom doesn't have their backs. Great Auntie. Every child needs that kind of Auntie ❤❤

[@letsakas]

i dont think the mom or the step dad are listening and I can see both kids limiting their contact with their mom cause she did choose her man over her kids.

[@bonitaweekes4366]

Children go and leave you alone. They will get women and leave their mother, what is she suppose to do then.

[@Ev_89]

@@bonitaweekes4366 exactly, it's not like they're toddlers.

[@dawnhawkins9699]

@@bonitaweekes4366maybe not be a pick me and pick somebody that can get along with the closet people to her 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@jerrseyy1088]

The issue is, when people purposely distance themselves from their parents, because of negligence from the parent.. then they REPEAT the cycle. They become a David

[@LadyLegendary]

@@bonitaweekes4366 So that means she should pick her angry boyfriend? Parents depend upon children in their elder years.

[@SomaliRoyale]

Honestly, a man can be my soulmate, twin flame and my knight in shining armor but if my child doesn't get along with him...BYE !

[@keylacmckemp1309]

While commendable, be careful, as some children could be spoiled and just want their parents to themselves. You could lose out on a great partner and be alone. Then your children go off to live their lives with someone you don't approve of.

[@ipreferplants]

💯

[@ms.ajones7168]

Period!

[@FlawlessKEY]

@@keylacmckemp1309right

[@kaciousrobinson440]

@@keylacmckemp1309that’s it!!! It all should boil down to the issue at hand, like who’s the problem, what’s the problem and who is able to do the work or except the fix

[@gailsmith836]

Honestly, I never believed in taking the door. However, when the 15 year old said, “I could have just cleaned my room”😂😂😂 ….you know that either that’s the rule in the house or he had been asked to do it several times.

[@Daniellehiu]

I was confused. Did he ask him to clean the room just once before taking off the door? Or give a warning before taking the door?

[@getprettyfit1997]

His room was probably nasty. lol

[@blackbox1911]

Yea I was like yea you could have just cleaned the room but you didn’t

[@Crystal-Love]

I wish this show would come back on‼️

[@ashleyskitchen7186]

Yes, but with a different host.

[@AlainaMoore-sc7xw]

Wow there’s so many hurt people in this episode. Everyone is so deeply hurt, i hope everyone heals and gets the help they need.

[@mrs.bernard5415]

"WE ARE HEALING OUR ANCESTORS" Powerful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@knightowl368]

"We are healing our ancestors when we do the work!" I am putting that in my office when i become a counselor. I love that!

[@kamariasia]

When a man's mama tell you to be careful, I mean, what else do you need? And the Aunt's stare down after the initial family meeting was GOLD!

[@nicklebaby]

It's funny how he has a problem with how his mother disciplined him but the irony is he parents the same way.

[@KhocolatdReamgirl1]

His mom’s parents raised her the same way. It’s a generational curse that needs to be broken.

[@quichequiche4274]

It's not funny. It's usually what happens. Muscle memory is real. And when ur unsure, you fall back into what's familiar, even if it's hurtful.

[@worldpeace0266]

It's usually that way in families😢

[@tobemeis2bfree]

Sure wish he could’ve applied that apology to his own son…. Boy that’s hurtful

[@SunshineKK99]

Whew! Tracy nailed it! The girlfriend went into David's bubble instead of him going into theirs!! Chile

[@StarQualityBrands]

Tracy is my favorite Tv therapist

[@MindsetOfMarge]

“But Conner and CJ that’s your version” YUP!!!!! I love the therapist

[@positivelypinky]

The mom and son therapy scene has me crying on my lunch break. Life is hard and it’s all are first time living, more grace to one another.

[@kamys6133]

They need to bring this show back!

[@berthamoore6681]

I watched this show regularly. Not sure how I missed this episode.

[@TheMwendaa]

Same here!

[@teehee83]

I clicked so quickly when I didn’t recognize the couple!

[@GoddessofGreen-]

They rereleasing old episodes instead of just giving us a new season 🙄

[@kionnapink6666]

Me too. I clicked so fast cause I thought it was a new season 😂

[@VSmPharmacy]

I think it's interesting that Kim did not connect with David's son and see the need for him to receive an apology. His pain was obvious. Hopefully, her concern was just edited it out.

[@communityengagement-bp7jc]

The growth in the groom to be accountable was beautiful but he needs to do the same with his son imo.

[@quichequiche4274]

His son did say that his upbringing was good and that he was a good parent. What would he be apologizing for?

[@gogiphum915]

This woman is going to regret downplaying thee obvious red flags

[@royalheritage9254]

Why would the mom make this about her, this lady needs to run. He’s got some serious issues with mom, that aren’t healed. He’s actually a lot like her.

[@KhocolatdReamgirl1]

He needs to heal before he even thinks about marrying anyone.

[@zaynad1034]

Her rubbing on him while he’s arguing with his mom would’ve annoyed me more 🙄

[@elaine21bok]

TH?? 😮😮 I never saw such a thing in my whole entire life! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@shaunaadams6924]

Then to sit in his lap! While the mom was still talking. But want respect from the kids🤦🏾‍♀️

[@goldielocs41]

Not going to lie it would have pissed me off too I'm sorry please don't rub on me while I'm flaming

[@teehee83]

I think she was trying to diffuse the situation but she really just made it worse by overstimulating his already stressed nervous system 😩

[@MissAshleyRenee413]

The violets turn blue line was very weird I get calming your parter down but that was a bit much

[@rambaamadi8256]

I love Ms Tracy she's always on point in humbling way, ❤

[@communityengagement-bp7jc]

The mother's genuine apology was beautiful.

[@Sweet_N_Unique]

When he was apologizing I wish he would’ve included his own son! Because it was most definitely necessary. That would have given him some much needed healing from his own childhood wounds from his father’s parenting or lack thereof.

[@menishiaholden4787]

You wonder why the man is Angry when as a mom you say something so disruptive and can’t hear anything he says. Then he repeats the behavior you taught him.

[@brittanylync]

That head rub bothered me .

[@AlwaysLisaLisa]

yessssszzzzz me too

[@gailsmith836]

It was massaging the shoulders, the sitting on his lap , the childish song about violets. Seriously? Better than her own children were getting.

[@deecool6327]

The was these kids express themselves is amazing. There is definitely hope for a better future not only in this situation but for generations to come from them.

[@chinagurl5850]

The Mom is a gas lighter. She wants an apology bc she hears he apologizes. If someone over talks you AND dismisses your feelings, THEN wants respect bc shes the Mother. Thats hard to digest, hurtful, and confusing. I completely understand why he is angry.

[@thefreequency]

His deafening silence was completely disturbing...like eerie. I understand we all have our ways. That would have scared me though

[@seanjean9677]

His mom doesn’t let him talk! I would explode too!

[@toyiadecorcreations]

He has 5 kids no relationship with any pushed her kids away and brokee their bond with their mom. Then crys about his childhood trauma while he putting her kids through abuse. She has to be blind can even stevie wonder can see these red flags . Lady both your kids are leaving and running away you dont care to comfort your kids

[@tshidithebehli1546]

How isnt she crying. And apologising to her sons. I don't think this will last

[@MoMWifeLifex2]

Can we get a NEW season please!!!!

[@GoddessofGreen-]

Fr! Idk why they haven’t had any new episodes. It’s been years 😂

[@virgo7956]

Thank you! I clicked fast thinking this was it🤦🏾‍♀️

[@chrissyh3270]

More mothers need to heal their children AND APOLOGIZE!!! I love that their was a happy ending!!!!!

[@Nini_473]

His own son though. 😢😢😢

[@virgo7956]

Right!! WTF couldn't he apologize to his son and then pull him aside for a private conversation? That's so messed up

[@kanishajohnson4165]

Exactly this man will not change

[@TheBaba1920]

Kim got three sons. That's three men living in the house fighting for power.

[@QueenSugar72]

💯💯💯

[@RawVeganJenNYC]

🎯

[@TheMwendaa]

Three egos. Three masculines Fam. Correct!

[@KKandLex]

Deep

[@naturerazzi7shi495]

Power struggle 💯 He's envious of how cool the boys are. He can't relate

[@pureceeparis]

Tracy! We are carrying these traumas amd patterns from the plantation. So true. We were the victims of the trauma and are working to stop it. Powerful and true.

[@shawnlovely3128]

Her kids were so well spoken in their communication omg

[@FlawlessKEY]

I understood what the youngest was saying. You can’t just move in the house and start changing things up without talking or giving a sheer warning, not blindsiding them and expecting them to like you.

[@TanyaHarris-d8w]

I applaud this man for saying “i have failed” 👏 that’s such a great place to start from 🙏🏽

[@Sophie-fi6dm]

Hold up, so he apologised to his Fiancé's kids, but not his own??!! Make it make sense.!! She needs to stop soothing her man, and start listening to her kids

[@joileyroberts7181]

I like that he's trying to make things right with his girl kids but what about your own kids the groom has alot of work to do as for his soon to be wife stop trying to please david and not think about the kids men will come and go family is forever

[@chelseawarren9894]

Why wasn’t a conversation set up with his son ? I’m confused

[@melee731]

Where are the new seasons!! Love this show!

[@KelesePatton]

I chest was hurtingggggg watching this… I felt for everybody in this situation fr

[@elaine21bok]

Cudos to the groom's mother who kept it a buck all the way regarding her son, the groom. 😊

[@Daniellehiu]

I started off thinking it was him, but as I keep watching I think the groom's mama is problematic. When he was trying to express himself, she started cutting him off. I'm like, can I hear wtf he said?

[@monelwookie1]

That therapy session that he had with his mom was so moving. I got some 2nd hand healing from it 🥹. I’m 40 years old and cannot remember a time that my mother has ever hugged me or told me she loves me. I really appreciated his mother explaining her own childhood pain.

[@Ginaaaa555]

I love Kim's sister ❤

[@RosesKenni]

Kinda didn't like how he didn't acknowledge his own son in that moment

[@mskyndraful]

His mom shutting him down is truly a generational trauma issue. That’s the generation of secrets, beatings and manipulation. It’s literally ridiculous.😔

[@sharesewilliams3222]

Kim has done an excellent job raising her sons!! Wonderful black men in the making 🤎🖤 Beautiful healing happening all around! I’m here for it! Breaking ancestral curses, HEALING

[@kusheran]

Delusional! Kim did NOT do an excellent job. She admitted it. And there is more that she does not know about yet.

[@mees2751]

Broken black men come from broken homes.

[@djsaveaves]

Im glad to see him and his mom come to terms with the lack of love

[@cherylsunshinegreer777]

Seems like he has unresolved issues and his behavior like a child

[@QueenSugar72]

I would NOT marry him! Definitely has anger and control issues!

[@gailsmith836]

It’s been 4 years! They aren’t getting married.

[@blackbox1911]

It’s crazy that yall think dating 4 years is too long

[@QueenSugar72]

@blackbox1911 I didn't mention anything about the time frame so let's not say "y'all". I mentioned his anger issues

[@keshawnfinn5689]

This is the importance of men being in the household with the mother to raise these young kings. Sounds like there was no structure before he moved in. He is trying to build structure but it’s too late. Good episode

[@leirras2797]

It sounds like his parenting is more abrasive than her. You can’t create structure when you just popped up.

[@suminahmcfadden4350]

​@@leirras2797Exactly! There was never anything mentioned about her boys lacking structure. He came into their lives and decided that things should look and operate to his liking. That's a recipe for resentment and disaster. Thankfully he now understands his approach was wrong.

[@tkluvtravel]

Thank You

[@BriJenae]

I agree!

[@gailsmith836]

I don’t know if I agree. I’m a single mom with only one son. It was not relaxed, I was at school, I imposed and stuck to curfews. Our house was clean and food was cooked and he was very loved.

[@latoyajibodu5498]

This is beautiful, I'm so happy that he was able to speak to his mom.

[@TheBaba1920]

They don't need to be married. Sorry

[@TheBaba1920]

I retract that statement cause David is doing the work here! I see why kim loves me

[@QueenSugar72]

Agreed!

[@introvertedqueen9759]

David, you did the best you could with what you had. I respect you for being vulnerable and letting those tears flow! This too shall past!!!!

[@Ev_89]

I second this👏🏾

[@bettabsure9480]

💯💯💯💯 Exactly! Everyone seems to be criticizing him but not trying to understand him. We must learn to show empathy for everyone.

[@eileenwatt8283]

I like David's family but not him. When a mom says her son has been disrespectful to her and never apologize, It's a wrap. that's a red flag. A man who mistreats his mom will mistreat his wife, kids step kids and everyone.

[@blackbox1911]

Naw u can see that mama is a piece of work

[@Mizzlibrarian83]

Bring this show back!

[@JermaineRussell-n8z]

This episode was so filling. I loved how it played out. I pray for God’s continued blessings over their lives, union and family. Tracy continue the great work 😊

[@correndaspurlock6808]

This was so hard to watch...and the fact that she's a therapist...lawd!!!

[@tatendamunemo6846]

Generational hurt 😢 … it’s all a horrible cycle. It has to end with someone !!!

[@eshaandthingz]

She should look at herself as a woman dating a man that doesn't have a relationship with his kids etc. I wouldn't and couldn't

[@gailsmith836]

Right! Those kids would be welcome in my home and loved.

[@yagirlshon]

Her twist outs eating though 🤌🏾

[@Diana24245]

I love these episodes!! Keep them coming ❤️

[@drclaralpeters]

Right as they are good for a single person for sure that’s looking forward to getting married or remarried. Then it should be good for married people as well.

[@TheBaba1920]

Where is Iyanla?

[@TheBaba1920]

Tracy got it!

[@teehee83]

Iyanla is not for the thinned skinned so for this show and dynamic I think Tracy is a better fit.

[@JLive-jt6jc]

Not on my watch 😂

[@TheMwendaa]

​​@@JLive-jt6jcahahahahahahaha! I read that in Iyanla's voice....😂😂😂😂

[@lalablack6038]

I screamed, lol... Yeah, this was a family for her...

[@ElaynaAlexander-z5r]

Ummm, why didnt he connect with his own son....trifling

[@kusheran]

"... trifling... " is not helpful, even self-defeating.

[@scherriebanks6238]

For her to be a counselor she sure is clueless about how her sons are feeling and their point of view. She too busy trying to make sure the fiancé is alright.

[@kusheran]

All therapists for black folks agree that if the mom and dad focus on each other the kids are better off. When mom focuses on the kids, they end up fatherless. Let grandma and auntie prioritize the kids. Parents must be unified.

[@snacksclark5277]

She’s not clueless. She’s choosing what’s more important to her.

[@lisa7184]

The children are very wise. I hope the best for the children.

[@talk2flonow261]

Parenting almost grown kids is useless. He can be a friend and the relationship grow over time.

[@karynigwilo2905]

This is what healing looks like ❤

[@ilikebadvide0s]

I love the therapist she’s so good

[@BridgetRobinson045]

Ever body needs therapy before the wedding especially the Groom

[@blackbox1911]

Everybody needs it especially

[@gabriellesullivan9846]

His mom deadass wrong. That was not the time nor place to bring that up.

[@mede6195]

Bring this show back!!!!