Paano Ba 'To: Paano Mag-Move On Kung Hindi Naman Naging Kayo?

Paano ba mag-move on, kung hindi naman naging kayo?? Gusto nang mag-move on ni Mr. “Silent G Pala Ang Pag-Asa” pero hindi niya alam kung paano. My good friend Rain Dagala admits na nangyari na sa kanya ito ng maraming beses, NBSB siya but very happy, and he shares practical advice to all of us. Kaya mong mag-move on!
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Rain Dagala
Instagram and Twitter: @rainierdagala
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Produced, shot, and edited by me!
Shot using a Samsung S8
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Music: Rock Angel
Artist: Joaquim Karud
(No copyright music)

[@ryanemmanuelvlogs]

very timely, this days uso yang ganyan kasi marami ngaun na magpapakita ng attachment ng concern, even time, pero when you are looking or asking for commitment di kaya ibalik, I've been with that situation and yes di madali pero pag makikita mo na ikaw ung talo, na di na ikaw to, di na tama mga nangyayari you will decide to let go, and move on sa situation kung saan nakapako ka.. and you will realize na mahalaga talaga ang self love before loving someone...

[@charis1211]

Super relate!!! Stop communicating. And it helps if may bago tao na nagbibigag ng kilig. Pero kilig lang dapat walang attachment, do not repeat same thing.

[@jobellefranzescandor8732]

Grabe, masakit talaga na yung iniiyakan mo wala lang sa kanya. You struggle the pain only to yourselves. You face the battle alone. Di ka naman pwede magdemand sa kanya ng ganito ganyan. Mahirap pero kailangan mong iaccept ang mga bagay bagay for you to move forward. Then, time will come you'll realize na di nya deserve ang mga luha mo. Kaya cheer up! Your family loves you! God loves you!

[@johnmichael1370]

TRUT

[@shifernandez5210]

Wow. Ang galing niya. I've been asking people how to move on from someone who didn't love me back...and now, nandito lang pala yung sagot na hinahanap ng puso ko. Yung totoo. Yung walang sugarcoating. Wow... Thank you so much for this Mrs. Intal! 😢😢😢

[@fatzsalem5794]

ay grabe sobrang laking tulong to sakin ngayun. dumistansya na ko kasi may gf na siya. di na rin kami nag uusap. good thing na hindi ko sinabi sa knya what I really feel about him. tama na yung nasaktan ako dahil bumalik siya sa ex nya. hindi na rin nya deserve na malaman pa. hahahaah tama yun, if he likes you talaga, gagawa ng move yan. lastly, lilipas din yan. mind over matter. hindi ka naman masasaktan kung hindi ka nagmamahal. thats part of love.

[@StevenNicoCariaso]

This is so true!!! wag natin masyadong ibuhos lahat lahat magtira para sa sarili para kapag natapos ang akala nating pagibig sa hindi mo inaasahang panahon or pagkakataon, meron ka pa ring naitira para sa sarili mo na pwede mong gamitin para magsimula ulit.

[@lalagirl211]

Once you realize you deserve better moving on is the best option. Sometimes you gotta leave people behind And sometimes we let go of people even though we still want them in our life because we realize, THEY LET GO FIRST. - Snake Princess and medyo. Maldito

[@karendizon6000]

Ang sakit, puro sampal sa mukha pero sobrang true lahat. Very relevant sa panahon ngayon where labels are unimportant na.

[@mabelleflora]

" Start with the fact that you deserve better" Pak na pak mesheket pero kakayanin chaaaar. Galing :)

[@chippychezcurlz1]

Korek pasamantala yan

[@RCreations.01]

That moment when you already know what he is saying but gets you reminded of everything. This is so nice :-)

[@johnkenethvictoria6651]

You deserve someone better, but start by being the better version of yourself first. I fell inlove with my brother's friend years ago. We had mutual understanding pero that's all he could offer. Syempre masakit kasi I gave my all. Naghabol ako sa kanya for a long time pero I realized that I am too strong to chase after a person kaya I stopped bugging him. I blocked him on all my social media accounts and I changed my number. Iniwasan ko din yung events na alam jong magkikita kami. The last we met was in 2014, and we met again just this new year's eve. During the time na hindi kami nagkikita, nagfocus ako sa sarili ko. Though may hard times talaga pero pinipilit kong kayanin. Worth it naman, nung nagkita kami wala nang sakit, medyo natawa pa ko kasi nasabi ko na "di ko maisip kung pano ako nafall sayo noon" ng walang bahid ng bitterness. Nakakapagusap na kami ngayon. Ibang iba na ako ngayon sa ako noon. Kaya thankful din ako na nakilala ko sya kasi kahit pano nakatulong sya para magmature ako. Acceptance talaga ang key sa pagmo-move on.

[@katrinabeloso8652]

Hi po ask ko lang papano kung katrabaho mo yun tao?

[@johnkenethvictoria6651]

@@katrinabeloso8652 hello! I never thought that my comment would get a reply 😅 as for your question, I am a believer that workplace romance always backfire. If you work on the same department or closly working with each other, try not to wear your heart on your sleeves because it may affect the output of your job. Dont get too emotionally attached with this person. You can subtly avoid him by mingling with your other workmates. Iwas iwas lang, ganon. 😂 Hope this would help. Good luck! ♥️♥️♥️

[@katrinabeloso8652]

@@johnkenethvictoria6651 Aun pero tingin mo makakamove on ka naman po sa ganun? Salamat po

[@katrinabeloso8652]

@@johnkenethvictoria6651 ah may messenger po ba kau if ever lang

[@katrinabeloso8652]

@@johnkenethvictoria6651 meron napo ako message pakitingin sa spam

[@harriesriego5673]

Minsan gusto lang tayo kasama ng mga taong gusto natin dahil masaya tayo kasama, yun lang yon, huwag tayong mag expect na baka gusto rin nila tayo. (Advised by my friend) hehe

[@Aoi-chan_Kato273]

yeah! your right.

[@xtina8608]

Sobrang sapul ako dito pero lahat ng sinabi nya tama! 100% korek! Thank you for this!

[@Ayscreams]

Galing! Ginawa ko lahat yan actually and it really worked. Kaya happy na ngayon

[@maruthtiong]

Agree! Dapat unahin mahalin ang sarili para alam mo ang worth mo, at ok din na wag muna makipag usap, mas mabilis mag move on.. :)

[@iraessined]

"Go back to the self love that was lost." ❤️

[@lrcnnpllgr]

I love your guest speaker today omg ❤️ masakit ang sinasabi pero tinatawa haha

[@harveypanFun]

Hahaha..realizations din. Grrr...natawa ako dito kasi I been this kind of situations. Pilit mong minahal yuh Tao na Hindi ka nman mahal nya at the 1st place. Ako yun nagbigay motives eh. Kaya feeling ko Jowa ko siya. Yan tuloy na depressed ako..but na kaya ko nman with the help of my friends and others things or diversity...heheheh. I’m so shame sa Self ko. Thanks for this video.

[@chippychezcurlz1]

Yes stop communicating.. dapat talaga.. whos watching nito smiling until the end galing ha

[@jeffreydiaz227]

yung makahanap ka ng ibang crush or bf/gf ay super effective to easily move on

[@ivieamabuyok5244]

ohhhh yeahhhh,love yoirself first before you give every piece of your heart to someone who you are uncertain with,its hard yet its doable,hmabuhay ang mga umasa at kumapit at eventually nasaktan😁

[@FrederickCabral]

Story of my life!😅 sa totoo lang mahirap talaga magmove on pag ganito kasi ikaw lang din makakaintindin sa ginagawa mo 😁 thanks for this! ❤

[@jaynel19]

Super relate! 😭😢 ung tipong iniyakan ko pa ng bongga ung tipong habang naglalakad ako going sa house ng classmate ko naiyak ako kase i found out na may bet xang iba?! Ang sakit sakit pero anong karapatan ko masaktan? Hinde nga kami. Gosh. Hahha but i survived. Ngau tinatawanan ko nalang kapag naalala ko xa. 😂

[@marksalvana6973]

Super relate... Akala ko kami kasu friends Lang pala gusto no besh sakin. Thank you for advise 🥰😌

[@charlietugano2271]

wala na po bang part 3 to? super nakatulong po to sobra sana may part 3 pa

[@rafbardon]

Momshie Rain FTW!!! eto ung pinaka swak na episode for me ngayon and I am so happy ms bianca na si Rain pa ang special guest mo. He’s also a friend :)

[@sheenavalerie4532]

We had mutual understanding and mutual feelings with each other then suddenly unti unti cyang nanlamig hanggang sa nwala nrin ang communication. Ang sad 😢😢

[@katrinabeloso8652]

Ok na kau?

[@oreobucu]

Ang sakit nun

[@davejerezgonzales520]

How I wish Matagal ko na napanuod to! 🤣🤣🤣 on point! Love it!

[@MimiiiBernales]

OMG Rain! Hellooo!! Missed working with you. Soo nice to see you here 😘❤️

[@RCreations.01]

Hi ate hehe

[@kaaaaareljc]

Watching this again this Dec2019. Huhuhu. Ang sakit. Haaay. Thank you again Ms. Bianca and Rain!

[@aileenbutial4416]

@superbianca nice yung mga advise, kaya lang medyo short yung mga videos 😁

[@ceciliaguevarra8851]

Yeah ang ganda ng advice nyo, bravo! Kaya nga lahat ng kapamilya kaibigan boto sa kanilang friendship now turn into lover they are my friends AfricaA and friend Junjun best match ever their relationship seems goin stronger day by day rhey dont realized their happines and love with each other going three yrs now and the gurl trap the boy so deeply that he cannot escape with the love of the gurl coz he feels bad when not all night talk to a gurl seems like a potion that you cannot ignore it really hurt to the man leaving his bestfriend same time lover its hard to let go of memories behind coz the feelings is mutual. Im so happy for them, they are LDR

[@gogamertv3101]

2021. Repeating this video on and on just to remind myself that i need to accept and have to stop communicating 😞

[@lesliediannewong3138]

it hits me hard hahaha 😂 im in the process of moving on din sa sitwasyong hindi naman naging kami. And im starting to see the outcome. this video makes sense. thank you 😊

[@katrinabeloso8652]

Nakamove on kana po?

[@lelouchbritannia5207]

Thank you Ms. Bianca and sa friend mo. Really appreciate the advice. Actually, I am experiencing this right now and sobrang sakit na parang di ako makahinga, as in. It's hard to move on specially kung lagi kayong nagkikita due to some circumstances like you are workmates, classmates, etc. But I think this quarantine period helps me a lot para finally maka-move on :) I know na di rin ako sasaya kung alam ko na di ako kayang ipaglaban and di kayang mag-commit. Puro pagpapakilig lang :( Godbless you!

[@katrinabeloso8652]

Hello ask ko lang kung nakamove on kana?

[@johnsagala7317]

I really enjoyed watching this, smiling the whole time and learning every bits. Nice, Bianca! He is so smart for the topic.

[@ysag.3067]

Thank you Mr. Rain!!! 🙏🏻😭 lilipas din to

[@danyelagelomyo6864]

Acceptance talaga pinaka una saka marami kapa makikilala na darating sa buhay mo

[@mheanlegaspi3110]

thanks sa vlog na ito nawala unh insecurities

[@pmf2524]

salamat ate b for this vid.ang hirap mag move.on especially pag di naman naging kayo.at ang hirap mag move.on kung kasama mo siya sa trabaho,palagi kayong nagkikita.tapos makikita mo pa siya na may ka.close na iba..tapos nakakaselos sobra pero wala naman akong karapatan mag selos..

[@katrinabeloso8652]

Hello iask ko lang paano ka nagmove?

[@BelleMorales1994]

Same here. kahit wah setup kami tapos may kausap syang iba

[@franciscoabdalaiii1177]

Nature na talaga ng mga babaeng ituring ka lang na kaibigan. Napakawalangya diba? Di man lang iniisip yung mararamdaman. Buti ako never pa ako nabasted kasi as much as possible, gumagawa ako ng paraan to avoid being friendzoned with someone you like.

[@hannahcresilda7689]

Ate B!! You have the greatest set of friends. Thank you for sharing with us such wonderful people in your life 🌻🌻🌻🌻 God bless you more and more and more 🌺

[@andreaong5067]

Omg Rainier Dagala is one of my idols!! Fashion advice naman po haha

[@Kimwon7]

Thank you po... Nakatulong sa akin.. 🧡😌

[@iambear8390]

This is very informative B! Thank you so much. I am looking forward for more. Keep it up!:) you’re doing a wonderful thing with these videos. God bless.

[@monapalad]

omg. ang sarap niyo maging friends siguro. 😇

[@jessicajoymenor2547]

thank you Bianca for making substantial videos.. I'm learning a lot. This video hits me hard but every word is very tasteful not for me to swallow.. Keep inspiring a lot of people through your videos and books :) Godbless

[@onahssi]

Relate relate relate... Ang galing

[@TheTopnotchEngr]

The problem with 3:55 to 4:17 is that the cycle will just happen again. Mahuhulog ka nanaman tapos sa bangang huli'y masasaktan din lang namang muli.

[@venusisorena4512]

Tumpak°°!!! I agreed ~ tama lilipas din yan

[@daiiyoung]

Relate! Haha masakit, oo. Pero salamat sa sakit kasi marami kang marerealize after nun. And mamahalin mo uli ng ayos ung sarili mo, at matatawa ka na lang kasi naging tanga ka in that moment.

[@aprilmorito1123]

Sana si Kakay yung mag aadvice neto

[@jessaaizel2668]

Every single word just hits home.

[@GEORGINA1013]

ouch! silent G!!! kaya dapat defined the relationship talaga!!! #AchingThursday

[@marionencarnacion7517]

kung hindi naging kayo eh di walang dapat ika move on

[@maisienugget1152]

Sakit ha! Close ba tayo?! Haha! Real talk af pero ang laman ng kada salita.

[@keziahdivinagracia4829]

I was getting desperate to send a letter to you ate B (even if idk how) because this is exactly how I am situated. Parang nag-shake lahat ng cells sa katawan ko while watching this vlog huhu salamat po talaga for this very nice concept, i've watched all your vlogs po!!!

[@andreroberson7274]

Bigat talaga sa damdamin pag nawalan n sya bigla ng interes sayo

[@heyitsjoii]

Ohhh crap..relate much...😅 i can learn from this..hahaha nice advice 👍 nice background song..

[@genegoquingco]

Thank you so much for this Bianca! Really needed this :)

[@ecyojenna]

I really love watching your vlogs Ms. Bianca, its very informative and the emojis is so cool 😊 😀 Thanks to you and your guest for sharing life changing experiences and thoughts. I'll keep that in mind 😉

[@louisecarlatorres2367]

this one is the best so far

[@bernvaldez9550]

Sobrang malaman! :) thanks for this Bianca and Rain!

[@angeltatlonghari1158]

paano pag classmates kami kaya ang hirap? ughhhhh hahahahaha pero thankyouuu for this video!! laking help. ❤

[@jhaiihael896]

Been there done that. 😁 Masakit oo kasi umasa ka na akala mo same feelings kayo pero in the end ikaw lng pala nagmamahal but still daming lessons and realizations after that. ☺ Learn to love yourself para next time na magmamahal ka handa ka na. Thank you for this Miss Bianca. ☺

[@ReaAndLouieVlog]

This is really true! Realtalk lang.

[@angielordlinsag402]

Hirap mag move on talaga .lalong lalo na Meron nangyari .kahit walang label.

[@ira0721]

The best paano ba to adviser for me ❤

[@ellachuy187]

I just hope Ms. B meron din paano ba makaka move on if ex mo and friend mo na kasama mo sa office naging sila.🙂

[@erniegatela444]

Aray sakit huhuhu subra salamat sa advice

[@kamea4023]

On point ang advice na to. Galing!👍👍👍 #relate# hahahaha

[@aabelles2513]

Iba 'to. Masakit pero totoo.

[@Ajayboo]

Accept the fact that he /she was never yours. Just like sa moving on sa mga naging magjowa din, in time matatawa ka na lang din sa mga ginawa mo nung mga panahon na inlove na inlove ka sa kanya. Hahahaha. Feel the pain, time will heal naman. Hahaha Hi Ms. Bianca!!!! Ps. San ka nageedit ng videos po? 🤣 super love it! Keep on vlogging. I learned a lot specially sa mga career advice. More werpa!

[@_ohmaiii]

HOY GRABE MURAG SAKIT LAGE BAI HAHAHAHA nag move on nakog hinay bai pero na triggered si aquoh ani na vid huhuhuhu masakeeeet

[@lalagirl211]

ACCEPTANCE IS THE KEY

[@GEORGINA1013]

He was never mine!!! pero andun ako sa pinakalowest point ng life nya. I was there to listened. I was there as a friend. I was there as his best friend. 😢😢😢

[@katrinabeloso8652]

Tama kaso kailangan mo ng magmove tapos galingan sa work divert magfocus kay God kasi pag na idol mo ang tao iiwan ka si God hindi

[@summerlovin3641]

Gusto g gsuto ko tlaga tong segment mo love love love 💕

[@dmram1306]

relatable hahahaha... ganon talaga minsan hanggang closeness lang kayo pwede magkaron..tho may mga reasons kung bakit di naging kayo. But at the end of the day, ang importante nakilala mo sya at naturuan ka nya pano magpahalaga ng walang label...I dont have any regrets now, naka move on na rin by accepting the truth na wala namang kami at hanggang doon na lang yon...masaya ko sa naging frinedship namin...at kahit di kami pwede naging masaya kami kahit sandali...Salamat sayo bui, sana di ka na bitter hahaha... don't feel so sorry about what you have done, napatawad na kita...I hope you found peace by now. Enjoy life!

[@jonbutt6367]

My situation now..walang label😭so I need to stop this

[@dmram1306]

nasasayo naman yun kung gusto mo pag patuloy pero hanggang kelan diba? Mahirap makipag close pala pag ganon tapos special na tingin nyo sa isat isat kaya lang di talaga pwede hahaha...mutual decision na din. Masakit din nung naputol na communication. Pero masaya din kahit papano yung naging experience. Pero ngayon ok na ok na I've found myself again.

[@laiflores1323]

Thank you for this. :)

[@fredzalob8867]

mashakt.... kc assumera ka.... wooh! relate n relate..

[@diosahjoan2488]

Relate to the nth time -_- Di ko maiwasan na walang communication :"(

[@jypaule8920]

lilipas din to💪🏽.. Hahaha relate na relate ako😂

[@ardefante7891]

Ganda ganda mo superbianca 😍

[@ritchienjapaydelacruz1101]

wow ang ganda.

[@jannielynbarsalote8883]

Ang sakit nito twice tong nangyari sakin 😢😢😢.

[@karenjoyguevarra1027]

Subrang mahal kopa din sya!😭lahat ng sinabi dto ginawa ko but still i failed kase ramdam kodin na palagi padin sya nanjan 😭😭bakit ba kase kapag nagmamahal ka hindi pwedeng hindi ka masasaktan !

[@katrinabeloso8652]

Ask ko lang kung nakamove on na kayo?

[@AlexA-gm9ik]

OMG THIS IS SOOOO HELPFULLLLL 😭😭😭 I LOVE YOUUU BOTH ❤️❤️❤️

[@jeffreysumalde8590]

thanks for advice

[@clairemendoza3922]

thanks ms. bianca this video will help me a lot 😊

[@arwinadalem7713]

salamat po. its help.me po

[@ncl8665]

Came here cuz nasasaktan parin ako sa fact na meron na syang iba pero may gusto parin ako sa kanya. Sana we never have met in the first place kasi ngayun attached na attached parin ako sa kanya and I want to get rid of this feeling :(

[@katrinabeloso8652]

Nakamove on kana ba sa kanya?

[@kamea4023]

Hi Ms Bianca, Pano po if it’s been almost 10yrs na i still miss the guy everyday and madalas i still cry about it. Hndi din po kami naging offical bf gf but we were x something i would say. I had a few relationships after that but I still think about what could have been between the two of us. He is already married with kids. I have a great career, great trusted friends, i go out whenever I can (chill with friends, out of towns/country, bar hopping once in a while, bond with family/relatives). When i think about it, there is no hope na tlga between us kase he is married na but I can’t totally stop thinking about him. Just to be clear po, wala nangyari na intimate between us not because we didn’t want to but because I wanted to do the right thing and wait. Please help po. Thank you.

[@roanjemimah2062]

Awww i super love this! Thank you to the both of you!

[@anthonyvega7055]

Pano mag move on kung palagi mo sya makikita?

[@kimberlycellona2963]

This is relatable!!! Mygosh. Feels 😂💔

[@y-user7857]

ako nga sa lahat ng naging crush ko never man lang kahit 1 sakanila ang naging bf ko diba ang harot ko nagsimula akong magkacrush nung grade 1 ako haha landi ng batangd i don't love to hahahah ang dami nila tapos yung iba mapantrip lang talaga super sobra akong nasaktan talaga kinilig pero sobrang sakit talaga tapos yung iba nlaman ko may gf na sila almost a year nun na nkakamove on ako pag nalaman ko yung crush ko taken napala ang sakit sakit sobra grabe tapos ngayon sobra akong nasasaktan kasi may 2 couple ako na gusto ko sila ang meant to be pero di nangyari ang sakit sakit lang talaga bat ganun never pa akong nagkabf nbsb pero ang dami ko ng naging crush super siguro dahil sa baba ng tingin ko sa sarili ko but now umookay nadin ako kasi mas matimbang ang kaligayahan ng ibang tao para sakin kaysa sa sarili kong kaligayahan

[@kathleencartajena998]

Hi po, what if you found out po na naging rebound ka lang. You thought na naging certain siya but what came out was totally opposite.

[@bangvelvet6418]

Balik nalang tayo sa happy crushes

[@ekosecret321]

Salamat po sa tips

[@elyckaa]

galing galing!! 🙏❤

[@malyn6280]

hi ms bianca, what editor did you use? thanks