Girl Talk : 5 Reasons Why You CONSTANTLY Get HURT & DISAPPOINTED BY PEOPLE !!

[@ivademus9514]

She’s on point but damn you can hear the hurt in her voice. Some people really did her dirty but she’s ending up on top.

[@iamashleymonique]

Yes. Evaluate people before you allow them space into your life.

[@bargainshopper8080]

Girl Amen !!!!

[@NadiaPink]

I let so many people on my life. That I didn’t vet and they got to go.

[@sandreyagriffin3355]

Yes ma’am just like a relationship!!!!!!

[@supa4]

repent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand Jesus loves you GOD Bless

[@supa4]

@@bargainshopper8080 repent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand Jesus loves you GOD Bless

[@iamashleymonique]

Girl these talks are ALWAYS on point.

[@deeshaLuvv]

literally😮‍💨🤌🏼

[@rosefrancis2043]

Yeah babe

[@StevieBowers91]

And always right when I need them! 🎉👏🥰💯

[@supa4]

repent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand Jesus loves you GOD Bless

[@supa4]

@@rosefrancis2043 repent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand Jesus loves you GOD Bless

[@rosefrancis2043]

Am a person who likes to pour my whole heart out to people . And end up being heartbroken 💔😔 But Nowadays am learning to give myself the love ❤️, care and all kindness I can ask for. Thanks babe bella I take you as my therapist, counselor, inspiration name it to continue moving forward 🚶🏻‍♀️

[@schaeannsalmon]

Every point was on point fr!

[@NakaiSunshine]

*I’m

[@kthename08]

Same here!

[@supa4]

repent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand Jesus loves you GOD Bless

[@supa4]

@@schaeannsalmon repent for the kingdom of heaven is at hand Jesus loves you GOD Bless

[@kittenmayz611]

After my divorce I’ve learned not to get attached, you can love someone without getting ATTACHED, always be willing to leave & be prepared for them to leave you. Never get comfortable

[@EdennAmor]

Same here

[@sallylara1102]

💯🎯

[@Lauren_22613]

It is hard for me to accept the fact that most people don’t have the same heart as me. I have been burned so many times for thinking someone wouldn’t do that to me. I was very naïve, but I’ve lived and learned and I keep to myself a lot more…and always think before I tell someone too much or do too much for someone who doesn’t deserve it. Live and learn! Love your videos! ❤️

[@brujalinda]

💯💯

[@Floridastoriess]

Girl this is so meeeee ugh 😞

[@keikei1943]

This is me in a nutshell.

[@mariammbangurah6664]

"You don't respect your own boundaries" it really hits deep 🥺🥺

[@jay-annnoble1284]

It really is scary 😨. Friends, family and past lovers, it's always the ones that are closest to you. As soon as they are mad at you, he throws all that stuff in your face. It really hurts, I am not going to lie.

[@delantey_]

People that know about you can hurt you

[@actuallycold]

Growing up, my mom never had these pep talks with me. Never told me taught me how much I was worth , or how to respect myself. At 21 years old I don't completely understand my worth or how to respect myself/ body , but I appreciate you for getting me started !

[@stayonvaca1227]

Totally can relate. You got this💪🏾💯

[@delantey_]

You will learn a lot from her especially if you didn’t get that in your household She’s my big sister

[@-m9198]

Oh this makes sense why I was being taken advantage of 😭

[@latricefloyd755]

I really needed this one. I own my business and people look at me like an atm. Im so damn tired of being there for everyone financially and being used. Learning to set boundaries all across the board. Even in love as well

[@humilis42]

This was me at one point. Not only do they want money, they want to be associated with you in order to look good. I’m at the the point that I don’t want to meet new people. It’s too much ….. people are not genuine anymore.

[@LibertyMadison]

I was in that situation. I now do all my “giving through helping nonprofits or homeless people”

[@humilis42]

@@LibertyMadison Yes, it’s more rewarding.

[@iamashleymonique]

Girl you have to guard your heart at ALL times.

[@tamekadavis6641]

As women we have to love our self first always.💯💕

[@iamashleymonique]

Gotta have boundaries!!! GOTTA have boundaries.

[@rosabellabearden2733]

Reason #1 I've done way too many times so I'm learning that not everyone has the same heart as myself.

[@mvgoldie]

SO SPOT ON! … can’t trust nobodyyyyy! “God will NEVER repeat back what you told him”. everything you mentioned i’m going through. my “man” of 3.5 years switched up on me like i didn’t mean anything to him… the painnnn girl. but i know God has something greater on the other side of this. thank you for this reminder.

[@GravityDefierforLife]

I think highly of so many people ....and even when it's over , I look at it as a lesson and a blessing. Betrayal Deceit Trials and tribulations honey ❤️😂😘Bless up beautiful!!

[@parisdavis9080]

It’s so weird how you post videos of exactly what I’m going through at the moment! Your like a guardian angel I swear❤️10:14-10:26 is real asf!

[@nancymwakapenda2940]

Yessss😩. She really do be God sent😩❤️

[@ydrculture]

You seem to have a lot of hurt Paige. I will put my thoughts towards helping you reach such a level of happiness that it shows in your voice and your smile. That your next man is so in touch and in yolk with you that NO ONE can tell you this isn't true. Ps: people will do wrong, letting it upset you will only invite more into your life. You welcome what you think about throughout your day.

[@veecee5063]

Well said 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👍🏾💯

[@missfefeloves]

I agree💯

[@xofatima8841]

i love how she gets straight to the point

[@lita8835]

Ok I’m getting chills. This is what I’ve been entering into my search engine trying to find advice on people who take my kindness for granted and not saying no and feeling guilty when I do!!!! This resonates wow amen ♥️

[@LoveYourNatural]

So glad you found this video thank you for watching ❤️❤️

[@luvmarkita4264]

I always say if you can help people you should but I'm learning to use disarmament because people have taken advantage of people I though was my sis or my family. I only give to those who need it (homeless) or don't expect nothing back. It's a hard lesson to learn I'm working on through therapy. Your story sounds familiar.

[@thereal298]

I would love to hear, the whole story of how you moved back in with your mother at 27. How long you had to stay to your success of owning your own home & much more.. ❤️❤️

[@Lovely_Diva]

These are the reasons why I have no friends and have been that way for 2 years. I have so much peace and happiness now. Many people are users and it's good to protect yourself from them!!!

[@sallylara1102]

💯🎯

[@RareArt881]

Yessss!!! Bella no need to be super nice when you know you’re a good person already, self reminder we don’t owe people anything but owe ourselves the world. 🌎🤞🏾✨

[@LoveYourNatural]

Period it’s time we put our foot down and only give where the energy is reciprocated !

[@RareArt881]

@@LoveYourNatural Absolutely agree.

[@brittthecancerqueenempress9137]

Definitely

[@geegeecook5063]

Yeah this is a life lessons. So agree with you about boundaries.We help people who deserve to be help..

[@ggxoxo93]

This is the one! Especially when people know you have a good job or you make a certain amount of $. You want to tell your family and think they would react the way you would but instead they see you as a financial plan for themselves. Over it!

[@ggxoxo93]

Get a therapist and leave your secrets or issues in the office

[@Micahsophia]

Exactly

[@meeezy]

literally the best sister i ever had! thank you for your advice for the past 2 years mama ❤

[@LoveYourNatural]

Love you 🥹❤️ thanks for still watching

[@aliyahlurry2374]

Thats crazy I literally was just talking to my therapist today about this! The hurt is toooooo much && it happens like everyday from different people.

[@aliyahlurry2374]

As you uploaded this, i was talking to my therapist about this topic.

[@Micahsophia]

Therapy really helped with this & taught me all the different type of boundaries i can use daily to protect & love myself daily even if others never appreciate or value me

[@aliyahlurry2374]

@@Micahsophia thats so good🥹❤️i am praying that i master it tooo !! Therapy literally worksssss!!

[@kharyzma4u]

This was a word right here. The scripture is so true. In these days and times we don't know who we can trust 💯 STOP telling people your business. Family is not exempt either. Yes, the Lord is the only one who I give my burdens to. God always has your back!!! 🙏🏽

[@Gracie-ll7lw]

This is so good! Totally me but I have learned not to give of myself and not to trust anyone, majority of people are users, even family and never are there for me so I have cut so many people out of my life and I depend on me for everything! This is all so true, thank you

[@Tanaconasaperson]

OMG SHE FINALLY HIT A MIL 🥰 Congrats bella you deserve this 💖💖💖

[@LoveYourNatural]

Thank you 🙏 ❤️

[@moonflower1191]

Girl, how is it possible that you literally described what I am going through right now! I always say this, you’re like a big sister I never had! God spoke to me through you! It’s not a coincidence!!!! The same amount $300! Right after I forced myself to accept that I need to stop letting people use me! You described the whole situation perfectly like you were me! I actually cried! Thank you Paige! Thank you for your videos❤️🙏🏾 God bless you❤️

[@LoveYourNatural]

That’s because God wanted you to heart this message. He knows you have a good heart but ppl with good hearts tend to get used so he wants you to be careful ….thanks for watching ❤️

[@ms.ashley52]

🎯🎯agreed!!

[@ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman]

This is so good! I needed to hear this especially for #2. I have several family members that constantly borrow money from me and my thought process was just like yours, that God blessed me with it so surely I’m supposed to give it if I have it. But NO, I have my own bills and things to take care of. Plus, I’m a single mother who gets help from nobody. Just like you, God made it so I could not depend on anyone else except Him. I had no choice but to stand on my own 2 feet because there’s nobody else around me that could help me. Also, I’ve realized that constantly giving to these people is enabling them. They will never get it together until you put your foot down. And yes, God does not play about his children ‼️

[@gracemat9474]

True. I told one of my ex friend everything and I regret it so much because it turned out that she was casting spells on me and consulting sorcerers to destroy my finances and relationships 😳 I just couldn’t believe it because she pretended to love me… can’t trust nobody

[@RealtalkswitMiks]

I felt this heavy, ppl will bring up ur past and make it ur future when it was dealt with in the past

[@tellmedelmy]

The talking too much one read me for filth!! I needed that so much. I'm 35 now and it took me this long to realize that sharing what you've put up with or been thru is giving others waaaaay too much information and it's not necessary. Wish I knew this sooner but feeling blessed to know it now.

[@faithbasedbiblicalteachingings]

Yes 🙌 lord speak the truth through her definitely telling the truth

[@Kyera4u]

Yes sis, I felt every single word! It’s so key to never share nada with anyone, because the average person doesn’t want to see you excel nor stay afloat. It’s so key for us to normalize silence, and letting your success make the noise. I keep my business totally to myself! It’s one of the best things I’ve ever done. What people don’t know, they can’t attack!

[@robarovoxos7428]

This is exactly what I needed to watch. Thank you

[@arielj.6789]

Your girl talks are so good that I watch them TWICE within 48 hours just so it can sink in deeper. Love You!

[@LoveYourNatural]

Wow that means a lot to me thank you so much for watching and supporting my channel ❤️

[@sagba947]

I been playing this video on repeat it’s so true

[@A.dollyy]

I think for number 2 it depends on who’s asking for the favour, if it’s someone you can go to when you need something then I don’t see the problem on returning the favour if you’re in a good position to. I do agree that doesn’t go for everyone tho, I definitely needed to hear this

[@Annasimpsonnyc]

Bella, 😭 thank you. I’m someone that hardly comment. But I want you to know that THIS hit me super hard in a good way. I’m always helping others and constantly fighting between my boundaries and being of service. I appreciate you from the heart. It gets No realer then this! I’m very close with my relationship with God and that also hit me very hard because lately and sometimes I don’t want to speak to anyone, not even God. So I brought tears to my eyes because your message reminded me to just trust in him. And to go to him with all of my endeavors. Everything else is confusion and as we know confusion God DONT mix….. And we also know that iron sharpens iron. Thank you my spiritual warrior sister I love you dearly. You have no idea thanks for helping and you’re encouraging me to continue on my path. I felt stuck and wanted to exit even being involved with other humans. I got so comfortable being alone and in my own world. But we know that we are made to share our gifts.. I guess I’ll figure it out at some point. With the positive intention and bullseye view. P.s. A soul who is here

[@TIGERTHATROARS]

I’ve been watching your content since I was in highschool and I’m 23 rn and I just want to say never stop doing what you do! Your videos have helped me so much throughout the years, you are truly a real and honest person and I wouldn’t be able to reflect and improve without your advice. When I’m feeling lost you and some other black creators on this platform really come through with meaningful advice. Thank you always and forever❤🤞🏾💯

[@blackrockergurl09]

The revelations part gave me chills! We really are in the last days and it’s scary af!

[@bryybryy_]

When im at my lowest , you’re always there for me . Writing this comment with tears in my eyes . Thank you for your words bella ❤

[@humilis42]

Yes!!! Keep your mouth shut about your secrets! Pay attention to people who bring you someone else’s business. They will carry yours for sure. This video is soooooooo needed!! Thank you, Paige and it’s true that people will be turning against each other, even family. I had a friend ask me if I would ever leave my SO. Ummmm, what? It was such an out of no where question. Keep your mouth shut, I totally agree with this one. People are fishing for information to take to someone else. God gave us 2 ears, 2 eyes and ONE mouth for a reason

[@333lavender]

How did you know I was crying tho? 😭 Really appreciate this video. You are SO right on everything. I know you you know, this is so spot on and specific. We win or we learn💜

[@queenr.480]

Expectations.... I let people show up how they wanna, then I make cuts accordingly. Gotta keep trimming back in order to blossom 🌼 keep your head up Queens 👑

[@quidaloves8012]

I love how you bring your discernments that God give you to the people who are seeking and want to listen I appreciate that from the bottom of my heart because it's all confirmation for me

[@juliettully]

been watching your videos for a while now ❤️ thanks for being the big sister I need. I feel like I can relate a lot and I’m glad I have someone good hearted with good intentions to give me advice. Im 19 years old and when I’m feeling really lost and upset your videos really help me.

[@avril7475]

same

[@LoveYourNatural]

And I feel so honored you feel that way about me I love you guys so much you have no idea 🥺❤️ thanks for watching

[@daysp3]

Love this Bella 💋 I needed this today. I’m a giver and it can be draining I’ve been talking to a guy for a few months and he hasn’t made it official things have been feeling off and I honestly think he’s taking advantage of my kindness… ready to cut him off. Thank you!

[@Jessicahowell1018]

Girl I swearr God is raising a new young generation of evangelist and I definitely feel like you’re one of them 🤩🤩🤩

[@WeLoveDaje]

Crazy this pops up after I just had a mental break down. I needed this, thank you so much! 💕

[@bryannabolognese2995]

She always comes in clutch, I love her ❤

[@taniekadunn8955]

Wow I'm going through this now. I needed to hear this!😪

[@georgiajohnny8028]

Thank you for making this video. I am actually 17, and a senior in high school and your videos have helped navigate friendships throughout high school. Can u pleae make a video on the issues of having just 'guy friends" in high school? God bless💞💞💞

[@spiritualqueen3423]

That’s right!! My mama always taught me to be generous to others and be there to help, but when it comes to me who’s there for me literally nobody but my family, so that’s when I stopped giving to those that don’t deserve it.

[@mkaeganhall3545]

I love these so much i’m on the verge of tears u put everything into a different perspective in the eyes of god and when i think about right now i wouldn’t be the person i am today without what has happened to me

[@itsjustjade1172]

I love how you always include God in your advices, he'll always bless you love

[@The_GrowthChannel]

Babygirl...I want to say a BIG THANK YOU to you for all your advice, you really changed my mentality for the better. I know you have gone through a lot with men and I feel sad you had to experience those things. I feel like you need to leave Queens, honestly, I feel you need to go to a new location, like Italy or Canada or anywhere different. You will get to meet new guys, new people and you will grow even more..... Sending you love from Africa.

[@ritaferreira7212]

I needed to hear this! I was beginning to think that I was the one who deserved the pain. O always helped other people and family and always got stabbed in the back. Thank you so much for being the sister I don't have. You change my life!

[@rebeccaaris9720]

i love you and these videos. you make me strive to be a stronger christian and to have more faith in our Lord ! keep it up.

[@HairdresserOrActor]

girl u gave me chills when u said the last days me and my family been sayin tht for years now and i feel like we so close now any day God can come back with all the chaos goin in the world

[@mangoe_draws6987]

I’m so glad you’re here Paige, you’re like a true sister to me and God is using you to help many other people with these videos

[@cjones4298]

Girl!!!! This is a word! I’ve always been so sweet to people only to get disappointed when they turn out not to be who I thought they were. I had to learn the lessons you talked about . And now I know better!! Thank you for posting ❤️

[@tamarahbernixe]

Aww hun! You make me so proud I know everything I let my guard down I go and get hurt, betrayed I need god more. I feel so alone and well god is here! I need to open up to him thank you for sharing your blessings with us!!! God bless

[@tst.7448]

A breath of fresh air hearing you💟

[@saravnicole]

PREACHHHHH sis love your video’s❤️ i can relate to you 100% its scary out here ppl do ppl so dirty when your have a big heart, but Jehovah gone always spin the block for us😂

[@missautumn1280]

Everyone don’t have your heart. I had to learn that. Loved this video!!

[@martinaelle2287]

I love your girl talks because everything you say comes from your heart and you demonstrate the true loving person you are.❤

[@ReadbyWisteria]

Bella. I’ve been listening to you since I was in high school. Your videos have helped me through SO much! I was dealing with anxiety, depression, friend issues , and boy issues. And your channel helped me feel so much better :) it contributed to me changing my mind about suicide. Keep up the good work!

[@kaylashanalle5719]

God spoke to me through u with this message something I’m going through now.. I love & appreciate all your videos so inspiring 🙏🏽❤️

[@ellieemalone]

I NEEDED to hear this🙌god bless you. I was having a friend come to my only yesterday saying she was gonna be homeless if i didn’t take her in and asking me for money. I almost fell into it but i’ve been a pushover one to many times and this video really made me see this. Thank you queen

[@jeanannmayoalexander8382]

“I’m your only friend, I keep telling you that” 😂 yesss friend!

[@lizrox112]

I’ve only seen two of your videos and I’m obsessed!! I love you so much already it makes me wanna cry😭I rly needed this. ❤️

[@MoisturefortheSoul]

You were absolutely right when you said we get disappointed because “you think everyone has the same heart as you.” Yup. That sums it up.

[@sophianiyifasha4793]

I swear ,everything your saying is what I went through when your a giver it’s hard not give. ❤️👯‍♀️🤞🏽 I would say Know yourself.

[@crystalmoses3471]

I feel that! God provide us with the spirit of discernment!

[@Ms.Classic01]

Girl you speaking "FACTS"!!!🗣🗣🗣💯💯💯💯🥰🥰

[@lanas9Ether]

Ouuu girl u had me at #1 loll, thank you for passing on your wisdom ❤️

[@JS-ld2qd]

Paige you better never stop KZbin and making authentic real genuine videos just like these ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😘

[@john_carter8243]

i LIVE for these talks!

[@deltressacoffey4155]

You right. you speaking to me. Preach girl !!!!

[@Galaxyfi3nd_]

I always come to your videos to heal😭💕💯🦋💐🙏✨ I felt that heavily a blessing to them, a lesson to me

[@HelloKittyGirl9012]

This video was what I needed . Thanks big sis 💕 . Can’t wait to see you and Courtney on Black Inc Crew !!

[@Dasmode22]

I definitely run to god whenever I meet anyone new who runs into my life!!!!! I'm so thankful for these videos, they definitely teach me a lot.

[@ambenoenoh9634]

The big sister I never had😭😭God bless u sis🤞👯‍♀️❤️

[@Stayblessed230]

I really love that you gave this advice 😊. I don’t know if you heard of the Alexis Crawford story where her best friend betrayed her. The saddest story ever It’s important to go to Allah/God first to clarify peoples hearts. Always trust your body and instincts/intuition. Energy doesn’t lie ❣️👌🏾 Boundaries is a secret free weapon that people must have❣️

[@veecee5063]

Wooooow lil sis The Lord was speaking to me through you! Fr💯💯💯🙏🏾💪🏾 It’s like you know me and what I’ve dealt with and deal with now! Keep being obedient to The Lord and speaking from the heart IT’S YOUR CALLING!💯💯💯💪🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 God bless you Paige!♥️♥️♥️🌺👸🏾

[@merazhroberts]

This was so me just being used ,giving too much, telling all my business and getting the short end of the stick.. I have started using some of these very points you stated in this video to distance myself from this toxic energy and notice a huge change in my life. I wish I would ofvseen this video then but better late than never. Thanks for the advice.

[@bel4311]

Her videos are always coming in at the right timesssss

[@bluestripes6037]

Thanks so much for saying this out loud 💜 I am also one of those good hearted people and while I knew that not everyone has a good heart, girl I did not think it was that many people. It definitely has made me more attached to my heavenly father fr

[@ASprinkleOfJericka]

Girl #1 Has Gotten Me Into So Much BS!!! I LOST SO MUCH

[@ItstheBeautifulNia]

Yes 100% we can’t really trust people in this world we live in 2024 ! WE NEED TO FOCUS UP AND BE THE BEST VERSION YOU CAN BE FOR YOU !!! UNDERSTAND WHO FOR YOU AND NOT FOR YOU !!!!!!! Tbh ❤

[@alisaharris8926]

I needed to hear this I have been the person that has financially bailed out family around me and like you I have been forced to be independent and get my stuff together because God has been the one who has had my back.

[@ravennbailey2133]

I love listening to you you always speaking facts fr I love it this is so me I'm so glad you put this up ❤️

[@yvettehenry7902]

So true...that's so me ..its the truth..I'm learning..god guide me🙏🏽 thanks for this video

[@Michelle-et6ru]

I have been feeling the exact same way love this! 🙌🏼 I have been betrayed by sooooooooo many people, ex’s and so called friends, just like you.. this was really helpful as I’m the exact same as you 🥺

[@Zayyiiamm]

I swear I love my big sister 🫱🏽‍🫲🏾❤️I wish somebody had these talks with me when I was younger I’m 22 now everything she speaks on hits home fr🙏🏾🗣

[@Ariela_Serrano]

THIS VIDEO SPEAKS VOLUMES!!! PREACH IT SIS🙌🏼🙌🏼