Paj Tsw Qab Lub Neej~01/20/2024~

Hmong Inspiring Story: The good hearted sister in law that never wants to married.
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[@nkaujhmoobvaj1491]

I wish I have a sister in law like that! You guys are so lucky to have such a wonderful sister! Cherish her because that is one in a million!

[@MoonlightGuardian9]

I think you guys shouldn't pressure Paj Tsw Qab or any single Hmong ladies to get marry. Just because they're single doesn't mean they've miserable life. They're enjoying their freedom and happiness as much as they can. What if they're getting marry and her life is miserable with her husband/his family because you guys pressured her. Will you be happy then? They lives their life, you lives your as you please in a good way. Paj Tsw Qab didn't come and beg or make trouble anyone for anything but she gives and gives as much as she can for anyone who needs her.

[@miabhlub63]

You guys and your children are lucky to have such a caring, loving muam and auntie.

[@katexiong2732]

A very inspiring and beautiful story. She has a kind heart!

[@Lee-zw9rn]

Wow zoo heev li os.!

[@nataliemansfield894]

Our wonderful 1st hmoob mother Theresa. I'm proud 👏 of you sister you sister in law are lucky to have a sister like that. 😊

[@maryly09]

What an inspiration. I wish to be like her too.

[@HnubXg]

You guys are so lucky to have her! 🥹

[@mrsbie1252]

You guys are so lucky to have her as your sister/sil. Love her and respect her choices.

[@myprecious6751]

A beautiful story. Blessings. I can concur to here feelings and thinking. I have a son and daughter. Between my two children I have three grandson and one granddaughter. I was married four times. However it was just in name only. Yes, the longest marriage was 10 days. That's about how long it took to buried my father. I've been divorced for 40 years. I haven't want nor need to remarry. I'm content being single and having my freedom to do as I wish. I'm so much happier abd stress and drama free. I do not need nor want a spouse that complained, whining, controlling, argumentative, annoying. I love my peace and quiet. I see my son and daughter and grandchildren twice a year. We live in different states. I'm always there should they need me. Other than that I travel and do me.

[@mivayang1317]

What a beautiful person with beautiful soul. God bless her life journey with love and joy.

[@jasmineflower7115]

Just like me. I don’t have any kids but I love all my nephews and nieces but as they grew up we’re not as close anymore 😔

[@Rydrsv]

She is so kind and selfless. I hope your family continues to show her a lot of love and appreciation, not only now when she can still give her time and strength to you but also when she’s older and needs care.

[@Mirrasha]

Very inspiring story indeed! Thanks for sharing. When I was young I use to think kind of like the auntie in the story too but I end up married and wasn't able to stay single to take care of my parents.

[@kuvxwb11]

Nej ua nyab tau zoo tshaj tsis tau tu lawv niam lawv txiv. Kuv tus muam mus yuav txiv tau niam pog tsis zoo nrhuab nws lub neej twv tus txiv ua phem rau nws ua rau nws tu siab tag kev cia siab.

[@leejmuam1]

IMO the thought that it is the nyab responsibility to take care of the in-laws is so wrong. Hmong people mind is so backwards. You think that paying $5k for nyab then they are obligated to be your slave. Your children are the one who is obligated to take care of you but nah we would rather blame the nyabs. I'm a mother, a nyab, and a daughter. I would never expect my nyab to be the slave. It is my and my siblings' job to take care of our parents.

[@Mudddd]

I really love all the different series you have. Could you do a “Karma” series? I love Karma stories the most!!!

[@ooinkssies1142]

I dislike hmonh OG’s who always tell another individual to get married. Stop pressuring her to get married. She has already told ya’ll she isn’t getting married so please respect that! 🙄 Ya’ll lucky she still come around bc if it were me I wouldn’t want to be around yall bc I wouldn’t want to hear the same old thing over and over again. Just stop it!!!