ASMR Asking You 55 DEEP Personal Questions

[@emisat8970]

Fantastic questions, Pamela. Thank you! Icebreakers: I1: Aisle seat. I get restless. I2: My phone lol. I3: Too hot. Deep questions: Q1: Lose the ability to lie. It doesn't say I can't leave parts of the truth out. Q2: Yes. I was suspended for fooling around with matches. No one was hurt but I still cringe at it now. Q3: Inb4 "more wishes." (I KNEW IT) Anyway, 1. Accelerated learning -- having stuff handed to me is boring, I want to experience the journey too, but I don't have a lifetime. 2. Good health for me and people I care for, and 3. for this world to be more than the boring dystopia it is. Q4: My violin probably. Haven't used it for months, still love it more than life. Q5: Objectively speaking I've lead a privileged life compared to the vast majority of humanity. Hasn't felt it at times but it's the truth. Q6: My father, I guess? Q7: Garden work. Every time I weed my flower beds I seriously consider just giving up, but my fiancee does the more physical stuff so I never do. Q8: To an extent. Religion was humanity's first attempt at psychological care and ontological security. For some people it still works and I'm glad for it, but it's not personally for me. Q9: Basically the same as now. Just with a different surname. (And I'll be 33 😭) Q10: I couldn't pick just one thing. Maybe that could be my answer: "Can I have unlimited access to your archives?" Q11: Honesty, humor, and good moral character. I never want my partner to fear telling me something. Life is meant to be enjoyed and it's easier if you can see the lighter side of things. And I want a good man, in the literal sense, not the sense of "high worth" like some people judge their partners by. Q12: No. Fame is just opening yourself and your talent up to more ways to be exploited. Q13: Know every foreign language. Q14: Planning. Improvisation is a good skill also, but I've always found it beneficial to think things through thoroughly first. Q15: The Napoleonic wars. I've become an expert via osmosis thanks to my partner's being an absolute nerd for them. Q16: A bear I made with my sister when we were both kids. It's a happy memory of her. Q17: I'm really not sure. Maybe my mapmaking? It's a good outlet and it's how I met my partner. Q18: I don't know if the US has it but there's a show here in the UK called 'Who Wants to be a Millionaire,' which I feel has a fair amount of challenge and help. Q19: Invest it, probably. Q20: That depends. Is this planet earth like or requires sealed environments? As I don't feel like I could stand how different it would feel. Q21: Three. Haku from Spirited Away on my spine, a quote from LOTR on my inside forearm, and a butterfly for my sister. I hide them all though. My parents would genuinely murder me as tattoos are for criminals where they come from. Q22: I don't like celebrating my birthday. (YES, YOU UNDERSTAND!) Q23: Swimming. It's relaxing but I don't get time for it. Q24: Not as far as I'm aware. Q25: Money, I suppose. Memories make you who you are, you can't give them up. Q26: I'm a cynic, so I fully expect things to be worse. Between climate change, our inability to concieve of a better system than capitalism, technology enabling new ways to oppress people/steal their livelihoods etc -- I believe the future is bleak. Q27: Mentioned earlier: Accelerated learning. Absorbing years of experience and knowledge in weeks. Deeper questions: Q28: I've no idea. Genuinely. Q29: Take time to calm down. There is no way I can appreciate someone's POV (which makes resolution impossible) if I'm angry and seeing it in the worst light. Q30: No. Twenty years isn't as long as it sounds, and the last year or so would be full of dread as your time runs out. Q31: I ask them to reschedule if possible. We wait ages to see each other anyway, what's a bit longer. Q32: I sleep in the same bed as my best friend. Absolutely no way. Q33: My parents telling me about my sister's passing while I was at university just before my exams. It wasn't a good time. Q34: Nothing occurs to me tbh. I act the same regardless of company. Q35: I'd prefer not to answer that. Q36: It's not vital, but it definitely helps. I try not to talk about them as it never ends well. Q37: University. I hated nearly every minute of something that's supposed to be the making of a young adult. Q38: Finding more friends. I'm not socially that great. Q39: "Rich" is a class signifier and not actually always related to your wealth. You can be very wealthy and still not "rich" in the UK. Q40: Depends on the vibe I'm feeling on the day. Q41: Yes, and it was useless. My therapist was not empathetic. Q42: Feeling at ease and completed. At the start of a relationship your feelings are all over the place and it's exciting, but over time, those feelings fade and that person becomes a fixture of your life who knows you inside and out. An anchor. Your refuge from the world. Someone you can't imagine life without because you rely on them and they rely on you. And yes, I do. Q43: I know this sounds strange but nothing actually comes to mind. Q44: Putting my name down as a guarantor for a friend. I don't regret it but it was objectively dumb. Q45: I'm not sure. I can't pick one memory above another. Q46: The inevitable talk about children. I don't want them, but I'm sure my partner does and it won't be an easy conversation. Q47: Sticking with university despite my troubles. I wasn't going to fail after all that effort. Q48: I don't know tbh. Q49: What you said. Q50: I've always wanted to ask Mary whether she had any inkling her affair would birth one world spanning religion, and influenced another. Q51: If it's something I can change, talk to me. If it's something I can't, just let me cry and deal with it in my own time. Q52: Everything has more or less worked out for me in the end, amazingly. But I'm not looking forward to the future despite not even being 30.

[@pamelaasmr]

@@emisat8970 great answers!

[@Gnoomie06]

Ooh this is crazy, but right when you talked about the question being asked in your meeting, the foam cutout gameshow came into my mind before you even started to explain it, and it was the weirdest experience I’ve had all day. Now I’m too fired up to go to sleep 😂

[@thatphatguy2394]

I think it's called Hole in the Wall

[@elsasalah]

And I'm so glad she mentioned it like it was the show I was completely obsessed with as a kid and completely forgot about it. Right when she mentioned it, a wave of nostalgia hit me. Brb binge watching the show again and crying 😭

[@thatphatguy2394]

One question that really stood out was Where do yourself in 5 years? I genuinely have 0 clue where I'm gonna be in 5 years. I'm about to turn 19 in 10 days. I graduate college and become an aircraft mechanic in a year. I know I wanna stay where I am right after i graduate for a couple years, but 5 years, I have no idea where I'll be. I'm honestly kinda scared to find out. I dont wanna leave my friends, my family, my home. I honestly can say I don't want to grow up, if I could hit a pause button on time rn I 100% would.

[@samueldchubb7617]

I really like how you add your own answer sometimes

[@yeoldasmrchannel307]

Perfect timing!!! Love it ❤

[@MisheelAriunbold.]

I'm so happy that this video has a cc

[@larafreitas5791]

I agree sooo hard on the birthday thing!! I hate any holidays/special dates where you're expected to feel a specific way (and specially perform a certain feeling for other people). new year's eve for example also stresses me out

[@ezrapaul3974]

I really appreciate the time and effort you put into these videos

[@Papayiaaa]

My answers!! 1. Window 2. My PJO/HoO books (they're my safe space lmao) 3. Too hot, all the way --- 4. Lose the ability to lie since believing everything would make you soo foolish and easy to manipulate -- 5. Nope! -- 6. I would do the notebook trick! Where you write a couple of wishes in a notebook and just wish for everything in that notebook to come true! -- 7. My dogs

[@axel_vms]

great vid ! here's my answers 1. window, i don't like ppl walking next to me for the whole flight 2. basic but my laptop lol 3. too cold, easy to warm up with a blanket or clothes 4. well i believe almost everything im told so 😭 also i think ppl would tell me if i was being lied to so 5. i was expelled from a class once but not school, the teacher expelled me bc i was talking lol 6. first id wish for money (basic), second id wish for the end of famine and world hunger (also basic but that would be awesome) and the third one id wish for everyone i know to be healthy 7. huuh i think my laptop ?? 8. mostly lucky considering the fact that i can afford to travel and live comfortably 9. i'll say my mom even tho we have our high and low moments 10. having a job lol 11. im not religious or anything but if it can bring happiness to ppl it's great 12. i don't see myself anywhere really, in 5y i'll be 23 and this idea terrifies me 💀 13. why are u all shitheads ?? don't u think ppl struggle enough ??? 14. being kind, being funny and being honest 15. absolutely not, i don't like being the center of attention and my mental health wouldn't take critics 💀 16. all the languages, it'll be so much easier to travel 17. hmmm i'll say jokes ??? idk if it make sense but it's a coping mechanism for me so it come naturally 18. my fav band for sure, or my fav video game 19. i don't own a lot of clothes and i don't have a sentimental piece 20. i don't have a specific talent 💀 21. i won't got to any bc i don't want to go on tv or anything that as audience lol 22. id place it mostly and keep a bit to go on vacation with my family 23. no, im fine here 24. i don't but i want a lot of tattoos 25. with friends and family, and a big cake 26. i wish i did most excercising, like going to the gym or run but im too scared to go to the gym and i hate runing, doesn't help that i smoke 27. not that i know 28. all of the money bc i don't have a job so i didn't earn a lot but i made a ton of memories 29. idk but i just hope the earth won't be destroyed 30. i would like to learn things real fast 31. did my family accept me and generally am i happy 32. talk because i the ppl im fighting with don't talk it'll just make me angrier 33. yes, i always said id rather live a short and happy life than a long and sad one 34. i still go out with my friend 35. i don't have a best friend so yes 36. when my mom discovered my su1cide letter (kinda deep srry) 37. i eat 😭 38. idk, i try not to have regrets 39. i prefer it but it's not necessary, we don't talk politics a lot but id fell safer if my friend think the same as me 40. high school 41. idk 💀 42. huh idk like if i make 10k a month id be like yeah im doing okay 43. i don't ever feel sexy and i don't want to 44. yes 45. if i feel safe and appreciated with someone ig 46. we don't do tradition but i think christmas 47. i don't take risk, i hate failing 48. i don't remember anything from my childhood really 49. ig tattoos and top surgery 50. idk, i think coming out 51. ive learn to speak more easily in public 52. hard to choose only one but maybe pedro pascal or mads mikkelsen (yes i love old men) 53. an old flirt : was i important to you or was i just a vacation thing my old best friend : did you missed me 54. just do smth else, go out and have fun, probably get drunk 55. hard to answer but i like the ppl surrounding me, i don't like the anxiety and the questions im always having in my heads tanks u for this 🫶🏼

[@TimTheMinnion]

Hello Pamela Thanks for the tingles and the quiz questions I just pressed play and missed the opening of the video, so I misunderstood the premise of the quiz. After digging a hole in the back garden so I could get deep began the quiz and by the way I absolutely aced it. But every time you suggested we get deeper I kept on digging, I'm currently located in an inextricable hole in my garden if any of my neighbour's are reading this please bring a ladder. Thanks for the tingles Have a great week Best wishes Tim

[@spo0kywooky]

Tim, you are awesome

[@TimTheMinnion]

@@spo0kywooky Why thank you, if you ever need to know how to construct a staircase from soil, just ask 👍

[@frankk9311]

I love these videos and perfect timing, just got into bed😊

[@Lostgirl26]

My answers! Icebreakers: 1. Window 2. My dog 3. Too cold Deep questions: 1. Loose the ability to lie 2. No 3. Im not sure 🤣 4. My dog also 5. Lucky 6. Mum 7. Working 8. Yes 9. With a good job and a family. I'll be 26! 10. Not sure 11. Respectful, good humour and takes care of themselves 12. Nope. Got too much anxiety for that 13. Know every language 14. Stress🤣 15. Dogs 16. My blanket that my nan gifted me before she passed 17. Pretending to listen when I'm not 😂 18. Who wants to be a millionaire? 19. Buy a house 20. YES. 21. Yes. 1 on my hand. 22. Partyinggggg🎉🎉 23. Gym 24. No 25. Memories. Goodbye. 26. Just the same tbh. I cant imagine anything different 27. Flying Deeper: 1. Who will I marry? 2. Take time to calm down 3. Yes 4. Invite the friend along 5. Nah 6. Idk 7. Play loud music

[@LiamODonovan-l6e]

Always love your videos, pamela. love your channel, you are a very comforting reassuring person

[@YukikoAimiyo]

The game show you are talking about is called Hole In The Wall.

[@padraicdoyle4856]

Love this and posted at just the right time 💤🛌😴

[@Starrysky..i]

Answers till i sleep: Ice breakers: Window sm nicer and wont make me feel anxious My bunny Teddy ive had my wholeee life ❤ Too cold bc if im hot I'll get dizzy and i hate heing dizzy or feeling faint, so cold plus i love snuggling up Loose my ability to lie I'd just become really good at not knowing secrets and not gossiping or anything No but i am still in skl and i hope i never do For him to talk to me again, to make me and my family rich, and to never be sick again My gold earrings and other gold jewellery that i wear every day or maybe expensive shoes Unlucky (i dont believe in luck tho) My little sister (its true i dont get along w her all the time we ALWAYS fight but we are like best friends) I hate revising for latin and also doing maths and science at skl i dont understand and its sooo stressful Yes, i am a christian and i think religion and faith can save peoples lives also give hope and guidance even if it may not be correct I see myself studying in a university doing probably psychology or law (idk alot abt uni) ill be 19 Im not sure id just be scared theyd take me out if i asked smthn too like deep Humor, shows interest in talking to me, is nice to other ppl Well it depends i dont want to be ariana grande famous but to be known can be nice but i dont want to have to put on an act and have people not genuienly know who i am Know all of the languages so i can travel also get a 9 on my gcse latin and not have to worry abt french anymore Finding humor in stuff I dont know i have to do this this year for an exam and the thought of having to choose anything and have people listen disgusts me like i cant physicslly do public speaking Oooh probably a leavers t shirt or a jumper that made me get bullied also associated it with a certain ex bsf i also used to think if i wore it id throw up My debating skills like i get so heated in them and i really just bring the vibes to it Hmmm i dont know any game shoes I would go buy everything ive favourited on vinted Absolutely not (Im getting a bit sleepy now) No im too young for them but i dont think i want any when im older anyway i dont want to regret it i also dont think they look nice (You make sense i feel the same) Happy with my friends ( i agree like i iver anticipate it i do the same for christamsd i get upset if im not feeling as jolly as i should like i have a standard of i need to be happy all the time) I wish i did tennis Yes fun fact i used to have reocurring nightmares whenever ny mums friend came over and id wake up crying bc of the same nightmare downstairs w my mum and her. Kinda crazy it was the same dream and she was always there never other han that tho Loose all the money bc ive already spent it all 😂 Anyways thats enough now guys its late and im tired 😂❤

[@la_domoiselle_s6377]

Yaaay perfect timing, i love u Pam ❤

[@SharkbxitASMR]

This is perfect for bed rn, thank you so much! 💗🌸

[@jazzdamberg8219]

Never been this early and I find my fave type of asmr from you? 🥹🥹

[@YoutubeChannel-hr9yv]

Hii Pamela! Love ur videos! Just a suggestion here, maybe you could try to make these binaural Idk of your mic is capable of doing that though Anyways, keep up the good work ♥️

[@Gamertayson1]

I like the change of the background

[@pamelaasmr]

@@Gamertayson1 this was filmed in my old apartment. Don’t expect to see it again much lol

[@flinstonegummi]

Icebreaker answers 1: aisle seat 2: my water bottle, I have it with me 24/7 and I'm constantly refilling it 3: too cold

[@valwillham79]

you're so real for the birthday thing

[@Jen_Findlay]

Pain space… Sleep well 🌸

[@sakinollerooo]

wonderful workk , thank u 💞

[@tommyc139]

Fantastic question Pamela thank you ❤❤❤❤

[@xkrisalx]

1. If I'm in a hurry, definitely aisle but in general window is nicer but as long as I'm not in the middle seat I'm happy 2. Cats 3. Too hot I guess, considering that I would be too cold no matter how much clothes I put on lol 1. Lose the ability to lie, I hate lies anyway 2. No I was a very good student haha 3. Not to ever have to worry about money, to live a healthy life myself and that others live a healthy life too 4. My laptop I guess 5. It fully depends on what we're looking at, like job/living etc wise definitely lucky, but relationship/mental health etc wise very unlucky 6. Well I'm not like extremely close with anyone, we don't talk every day and don't see each other very often but that's just normal for us, there's nothing wrong between us but my family is just a little introverted lmao 7. Pay rent 8. I don't really believe in anything of that sort myself but I think it is very important for a lot of people so yes 9. No idea and I don't like to think about life like that, I just want to live in the present! I'll also be 31 in 5 years 10. Why do you want to make the lives of people that are already in the worst position - even harder? 11. Loyalty, honesty and kindness 12. No because I'm very self conscious and having people judge everything I say or do, I feel like I wouldn't be able to live with myself as it's already hard now 13. All the languages 14. Friendliness, unfortunately it doesn't come easy for everyone 15. One of my favorite artists probably lol, although 10 minutes would be short 16. I don't think I really have any clothing that's too sentimental, I'd say all the merch I have from different people I love 17. Bellydancing? Idk 18. I don't think I could go to any, just because I'm so scared of embarrassing myself 19. Save most of it for now as I have unpaid student loans etc 20. No 21. I have 20 tattoos and I want more but idk what to get lol, I have all of them on my arms (well one is on the back of my shoulder but all others are on my arms) 22. I don't really celebrate it 23. Exercising, I'm trying to do it but I hate it so much it's hard to get myself to it 24. I don't think so 25. Ughhhh I'd hate both so much, I guess I would say memories because nothing special has happened this year 26. I have no idea and I don't think I even want to know 27. To be able to speak all the languages in the world lol 1. If there will be someone that truly loves and cares about me the way I am 2. Talk 3. After having been unhappy for so long - yes I would take that 4. I'll talk to the person about it and ask if they would also like to come, if not then I would see how they feel - after all I have promised them first so if they want to hang out then, then I will do that and skip the more exciting thing 5. No 6. Probably when I broke up with my first partner 7. I mean I live alone so :D Tbh I don't do anything that I wouldn't do with other people around 8. Letting someone take full control over my life and basically destroy it 9. I'm not very political but when it comes to things like racism, homophobia etc, I don't want that kind of discrimination in my life 10. My former relationships lol 11. I can't think of anything 12. Idk I guess if I had a lot saved at all times, like I do have savings now but a big part of it will be going towards student loans and I pay my bills from there etc, if I didn't have to worry at all about if I will have enough money to live the life I want to live, I would feel rich 13. I don't feel sexy in anything 14. Yes 15. I can't really explain it, I feel a lot of different types of love towards different people 16. Christmas Eve is the only day when we have anything traditional and I'm not a Christmas person but it's nice to spend one day a year together lol 17. I guess traveling alone, turned out amazing, I love doing that 18. I can't name any specific ones 19. I want to be able to travel more 20. I feel like I'm sometimes repeating myself in these haha but agreeing to get into my first relationship 21. I don't think there are any 22. Okay so if I was in a relationship, I would never cheat. But, having a "celebrity hall pass" is something I wouldn't take that seriously because realistically it will never happen and you or your partner are probably not actively wanting to do it anyway. But for me that would be pretty much any of my favorite artists, even though I'm asexual but I'd like to think that because it will never happen, I can say that I would do it if I had the chance lol 23. I don't know honestly 24. Tbh I would rather be alone at those times 25. Right now the least - my body and the most - probably the stability like i have a full time job and routines, i have enough free time, friends etc Thank you for another video! ♥

[@vitoriapaderis7246]

Hi Pamela! Im a teacher and these videos help me a lot!! Thank you for your great work! Kuddos from brazil ❤

[@pamelaasmr]

@@vitoriapaderis7246 thanks for watching!

[@lospigeons]

i should be sleeping but who cares? icebreaker 1: window icebreaker 2: a teddybear i stole from my brother when i was born, he was 3 😭 icebreaker 3: too cold, you could always just put more layers on. 1: believe everything, i feel like i would be better off just being corrected all the time instead of telling hard truths is that bad idk? 2: HELL NO, we are GETTING into an ivy league 💪 3: To make my family rich, live in NYC, go to a private school 4: my name is Pearl, so every year for my birthday my rich family members would get me real pearl jewelry thats like hella expensive. I dont even like wearing pearls but i like them 5: Im a bit pessimistic sometimes, i would say some pretty crappy things have happened to me but im lucky for the circumstances im in and have been in because they can be a lot worse 6: my brother probably we are only 3 years apart 7: washing dishes, i stand there for like 20 minutes scrubbing, my fingers get pruny and i sometimes accidentally touch the soggy food while picking up dishes and its EUGH 8: i personally don't have any religion and have never had any, i dont find any value you from it but i respect people who do and if it makes them happy or gives them some worth thats great! 9: ill be 18, so prolly stressing over final exams! 10: I actually have no idea 11: loyal, humor, and how much we have in common like i need a partner i can yap to about all my weird interests 12: No, famous to the point where u get stalkers or creepy fans or just losing yourself to the persona you present to the world is a HARD pass. But also i love to act so thats really hard to decide 😭 13: Know every foreign language, most animals scare me anyways also the idea of an animal talking to me is like so creepy!? 14: writing, ive always been a fast reader ever since kindergarten and id like to think im a creative person so i channel all my ideas into writing 15: the Boston molasses flood. hello??? 21 people died from a MOLASSES FLOOD. thats just insane 16: idk but i have the same twinkle toe Skechers i used to wear in like kindergarten 17: i dont know but people tell me im very quick witted so maybe that counts? 18: jeopardy, i know so much useless information about random things. (also the thing u were talking about i have no idea what the show is but i remember playing a roblox game exactly like that😭) 19: buy my entire Amazon wishlist. 20: If i was in the circumstance where like the earth was being destroyed rapidly yes but if it wasnt then no i think i like earth:, ) 21: no i wish i did tho, when i get my first one i want something like a bumblebee on maybe my forearm or shoulder 22: probably like having a sleepover with my bestfriend and thats pretty much it, i love celebrating with the people i love but i dont want a big party or whatever 23: yoga or pilates!!! When it comes to being healthy i can do the first part and eat healthy but i just CANT work out. I probably forget or just brush it off bc im lazy 24: i hope not 25: money! Ive barely made anything bc i technically dont have a job but i basically am a babysitter with overpriced ratings 26: i feel like our earth probably wont be here because of climate change so maybe humans may have a civilization on another planet but idrc ill be dead 27: i wish i was more flexible, like how cool would it be if i could just break out into a split in the middle of something totally random!? 28: its kinda silly but i wanna know if me and my current bestfriend will still talk after highschool/college 29: im a bit bitter and petty sometimes so i usually hold a grudge for a day then i forget what i was mad about and just get over it 😭 30: no, 20 years to my current age would be 33 and i feel like thats way to young to die and i think the ups and downs of adulthood make you wiser 31: ill do the thing with my friend because i absolutely HATE it when i have to drop plans or when someone does it to me i feel so guilty 32: Yes, a million dollars is a million dollars and i sound messy when i say this but sometimes my bestfriend can annoy me so much and i wont even get into all the bad stuff but hey theres more people 33: not to trauma dump but when my mom had a psychotic episode in 2022 ( I was like 11 ) and got arrested so i had to talk to MULTIPLE social workers about that experience 34: i sing, a lot i mean i belt high notes ignoring the fact i literally live in a duplex and my neighbors can definitely hear me 35: I dont know, i dont think ive lived through it yet 36: I dont even have a political standpoint as im still in school and don't really care about that stuff but i think i know whats right in wrong i my head but i dont think i mind being surrounded by people who have a different opinion unless they make it their whole thing 37: 7th grade ... i know im young and sound silly but i swear that had to be the most traumatic school year ever for me 38: making new friends, definitely not an extrovert and i cant feel comfortable around people i barely know 39: more than 1 million i dont know if that's reaching 40: feel confident in every outfit 💅 (jk idk about that one lmao) 41: yep but i dont go to it anymore because I've gotten a lot better but its still nice to have someone to talk too 42: i think it means to like fully trust the person and be your most true, authentic self with that person and feeling so shame at all. And I've never been in love, let alone never had a crush on someone 43: Every year my dads work company threw this HUGE Christmas party and rented out an arcade for the kids and a banquet and a gift system where u can get them. Sadly we dont go anymore because we are 'too old' (valid) but its really fun looking back on 44: i broke it off with a friend who had a crush on me and i didnt feel the same way but i still liked them as a person but to protect my own peace and hopefully theirs so they can get over me faster i ended our friendship by distancing myself and im happy and so are they so good for them! 45: playing Minecraft with my brother 🥲 or riding my tricyle on my huuuuugeeeee deck 46: i hope i dont sound spoiled when i say this but when i REALLY want something my dad usually gets it for me, like this pair of nike shoes i got for the school year was $160 and my dad bought it for me because he knew i wanted it really bad! 47: it sounds corny but i met my bestfriend by sitting down next to her one day in homeroom i think i was in 5th grade and its been a rollercoaster with her since 48: I dont have much fears but the ones i have i dont think ill EVER get over 49: im 13, 😭 (in all seriousness I've had the same celebrity crush for like 7 years and it is far to shameful to even discuss) 50: i dont know? Maybe i would ask my parents if they have a favorite child lol 51: Eat food, especially like unhealthy junk food like a burger or ice cream cone idk dont use eating as a coping mechanism but it definitely cheers me up eating comfort food 52: i like best that is im privileged and get nice clothes and i get to eat out frequently and i have a very chill dad but what i like least is that i almost never get to go on vacation i mean i might sound like a brat but i feel like sonetimes i might just want a break and go to florida or something (oh em gee its 1am i need to go the bed GOOD NIGHT)

[@blakeyquakey]

yessss these are my fav goodnight

[@thatphatguy2394]

20:00 HOLE IN THE WALL. I think that show is called hole in the wall

[@will_is_a_ghost3390]

i can sleep tonight because of your video! also just saying i love your window in the background in the other videos but its a lot of work to move the set up and stuff, not that big of a deal lol

[@pamelaasmr]

@@will_is_a_ghost3390 I think this was the last video filmed in my old apartment

[@will_is_a_ghost3390]

ohh okay the outdoors are also so calming to me ❤

[@GoneBoogdahba]

At 20:14 the show you are thinking about is hole in the wall

[@AndreBackAgain]

In 5 years I'm gonna be 23. I'll be either working part-time abroad, or still go to school and live with my parents 🤣

[@sofiagwanmeh1037]

perfect timing sweetheart

[@ThatGirlNoOneKnows]

#13 got me. I'm a cat lady language teacher. Can't choooooose

[@Gondarth]

One of these days, Pam, we're gonna have to see what you're scribbling in your notebook 🤣 I'd say the person I'm closest to is my wife. I talk to my mom regularly. A few times a week, usually. My wife and I actually put her in charge of planning our wedding in 2021 and she absolutely nailed her assignment. I made it clear to everyone during the wedding toasts that she was the hero of the day. As for my wife, I generally consider myself an unfortunate person (ANOTHER QUESTION COVERED!!!), I had a rough upbringing, parents divorced incredibly early, my first high school sucked, in 2018 I had two serious floods that pretty much destroyed my house, not to mention having to plan a wedding in the middle of a health crisis!!!... but when it comes to my wife, I'm super lucky I found someone with the same kind of crazy sense of humor as I do. We just gel so perfectly together, it genuinely amazes people close to us. We can just sit and talk about the dumbest stuff in the universe and we're set for the day. Thirteen years together in October, three years married! As for sentimental clothing, I don't know if "Sentimental" is the right word, but I was helping my mom with a clear-out of her house last year. I found an old Sorcerer Mickey Mouse hat buried in an old wardrobe. I got it on a trip to Disneyland Paris in 2002, and apparently I badgered her for it because my cousin also got one (spoiled brat, I know). I don't think I cared for it that much, but when we found it, I said to myself "This is way too cool to throw out", so now it's a display piece in my house. It doesn't fit me anymore, but I love it!

[@mattamuzza]

my answers window my phone or vape too hot believe everything bcs i alr do and i lie a lot no but i got detention a lot more money, my girlfriend to like me more and to live alone my catholic jewelry my late grandma left me more unlucky my little brother waking up for work yes but i’m not religious i’ll be 25 and dead can u pls keep the 50c public transport fares loyalty commitment and physical attraction no bcs i like being a recluse speak to animals learning languages my job in education my ziptie i wear on my wrist since jan 2020 knowing five languages i’m sleeping now

[@tommyc139]

Will you plz do wheel of fortune roleplay plz that's my special request to you Pamela ❤❤❤❤

[@melanyv965]

i don’t know if anyone’s ever told u but u look like alex dunphy from modern family 😭

[@pamelaasmr]

@@melanyv965 I’ve gotten that a good bit on here 😂

[@isawoliver9918]

1.window 2.my body (yea im funny) 3.too hot 4.lose the ability to lie 5.no 6.be able to fly the most different and tasty food in the world to be healthy always, to breathe (im sick right now and im dying 😭😭) im tired bye

[@AngelaBagwell-vh2ej]

no but I did have time out once when I was in school

[@piercingvideos6030]

I wonder what she’s writing on the pages

[@pamelaasmr]

@@piercingvideos6030 nothing

[@blazergamer6425]

20:19 It was called Hole In The Wall

[@tizialaina2882]

YAYYYYY

[@sch15s1]

icebreakers 1 window 2 my phone 3 too cold deep Q 1 lie bcz believing in sm random can be sm so f crazy 2 no 3 first one is that everyone become muslim second good health 4every one third we never die random asf XD 4 idk 5 lucky 6my mom 7 convincing someone who don't care 8 yesss 9 still studying in Spain with a part time job LOL i well be 21 yo i wanna be a doctor so its gonna take me a lot of time studying 10 what is stopping you from helping gaza 11 loves me to death mature can handle hard life find beauty and positive in everything 12 yes because why not 13 know every language 14 every time i wanna buy some clothes or make up and other stuff like that i get the money for it or get the specific thing i wanted to buy 15 ART 16 vangogh clothing collection and other artists 17 i can draw good and sing and cook XD 18 i dont know many shows too pick one 19 alottt 20 yesss 21 NO i like them but its forbidding in my religion 22 eat more than usual and get new stuff 23 sleep enough 24 yes alot eheheh 25 money hhh bcz i have none by now already 26 either destroyed or really good 27 able to remember anything I WANT deeper questions: 1 when i will die but i dont believe in that shi/.]]['l'';l;,,,t 2 depends on who im talking too if idc abt the persone i will say every thing if i care abt them then i need 2 calm down 3 yes i well no hesitation but happiness they way i think it works 4 if the friend is my bff i will go out with her but if not than cancel on the friend 5 iiddkk im not sure 5 m would help me into a lot my friends wont plus my mom is my bff 6 didnt happen yet im a calm person 7 play music and dance wear what ever i want and do crazy make up 8 didnt happen yet 9 important bcz why not 10 my childhood XD just some traumatizing stuff 11 nothing 12 98765432345678900987654345678987654 MD hhhehehehehehe 13 all of them💅💅 14 no never its actually a weird thing in my culture plus my mom is my therapy 15 idk what to say 16 all members of my big family gathering up on holidays 17 leaving someone i really love bcz it was effecting my studies 18 winning a competition and seeing my mom happy also being first in class 19 nothing yet 20 leaving the person i loved the relation with them was taking all my time my health and mental health went down 21 dying soon 22 NO ONE plus i agree with her on her answer soo mucchh 23 my friend does she really love me or just using me and i dont wanna k anything else rn i kinda dont want anything 24 tell me its not my problem blame it on something else just saying to me you are not the problem 25 having ppl that i love around and the least is not having much money this is the first time i answer in a comment section ik this is probably full with weird sentences and mistakes

[@jacobalcuadrado5765]

Deep questions for couples... you're trying to tell me something?? Xd 1 window 2 bike 3 cold / 1 believe all 2 no Not even in high school Xd 3 study a Uni degree, be happy and be intelligent 4 dog 5 fortunate 6 mum 7 losing control 8 a bit 9 another job (35) 11 she likes animals, not feminist and intelligent ❤ 12 not because privacy comes to an end 13 animals, altough I'm already able to talk to them. Xd 14 don't understand too much, languages maybe 16 clock from grandpa Xd I'm tired Pam Ty for the video 🔥🔥💜

[@pamelaasmr]

@@jacobalcuadrado5765 definitely not trying to tell you anything lol

[@mossypancakes]

Saying that one of the most important things for you in a partner is that they dont value equality and womens rights is INSANE dude what the hell 😭

[@AliBoominati]

damn u stoopid