My fear is not being in the lift, but being trapped if it gets stuck. Totally different .
@laila-wq1jf3 жыл бұрын
exactly.
@harrycoffeynield69417 жыл бұрын
I can't use lifts. It's the trapped feeling. If there was a hatch to escape in the roof or you could get out easily I'd go in any lift.
@user-pf7bx6lh5p4 жыл бұрын
Same
@Nickwk243 жыл бұрын
Same
@aichacisse93743 жыл бұрын
Same
@drawwithme84883 жыл бұрын
Same
@chenilleoneil12893 жыл бұрын
Same
@sarahbrennan13425 жыл бұрын
No way could I do it.. I have walked up and down 20 flights of stairs rather then get in a lift... it’s the thought of it getting stuck... that’s the fear...
@mw37574 жыл бұрын
I used to be deathly afraid of tight spaces until I became a firefighter and it traing we had to do tight space drills. I didn't want to look like a wimp so I faced my fears and every time it just kept getting easier until I was actually excited to do those drills. Now I'm able to go in all kinds of places that would normally have given me claustrophobia and have zero issues. Just by facing the anxiety and accepting it, it went away for good.
@lqthegod19884 жыл бұрын
Wow I admire you
@sanjayhuded66463 жыл бұрын
Good to know
@panicgripped45288 жыл бұрын
This video assumes that the lift won't actually get stuck. What if the lift actually does get stuck? I don't think I'd survive. I think the panic would kill me.
@maz11167 жыл бұрын
Panic Gripped I am exactly the same
@rtrgamingyt3877 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@sukaranthareja74037 жыл бұрын
true
@adrianjohnson2226 жыл бұрын
The important thing to remember is that panic can't ultimately kill you. If the elevator ever gets stuck, there is a button you can press to call over the intercom for help. What I find helps me when I'm in an inclosed space is if I close my eyes and visualize being in a wide open space, like a grassy plain or a cool airy mountain. Breathing techniques help, and remember; you won't actually run out of air, thats a complete myth. You'd be fine, trust me
@ayesharana55005 жыл бұрын
Same here. I've never ever go in elevator
@bloodvortexx92483 жыл бұрын
The fact that he’s talking in the elevator, is making me nervous!! 🥺
@hopea88293 жыл бұрын
me too
@gagandeepkaur37283 жыл бұрын
Same here, but feel bit relaxed now
@detroit0233 жыл бұрын
I’m trying to overcome this fear completely, I recommend anyone who has this fear to 1st ride it with someone else ( preferably in a glass elevator to start ), and once you feel comfortable, ride solo in a glass elevator preferably bc ability to look out at things will help distract you from focusing on being trapped. After that then I would try to ride a non glass elevator with someone & then solo. Im comfortable with riding in any elevator w/ someone else but solo I do have a little anxiety but the key thing that helps me helped me completely overcome airplanes, crowds, is to train myself to focus on anything else, watch, phone, etc... I was trapped in a small bathroom w/ no way out physically w/ solid walls & doors for 20 min bc lock broke. With no phone or anything to focus on. I did panic for like 15 sec but than prayed bc I’m Christian & somehow my anxiety & fear stopped. So rely on faith if u believe in God bc I’ve been battling claustrophobia since I was a kid & the bathroom incident that happened in my adult years was the toughest battle but I made it through fine. I hope this is encouraging & I would recommend anyone dealing w/ this fear to look into Virtual Reality for therapy w/ Claustrophobia bc it’s new & is said to be helpful & cheaper
@ikramyoussoufi39073 жыл бұрын
Thank you for giving me hope
@BeeLove66453 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Blessings 🙏🏼
@gagandeepkaur37283 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@hameedferoz8804 Жыл бұрын
I was stuck in an Elevator Lift and there was a power loss. I tried calling everyone. Lift started but, no buttons were working. I was really having anxiety attack. I was not afraid that it will fall but i was afraid that if nobody notice it, nobody tries to open it, I dont know how much time I had to be in the elevator. Maaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnn, That was Scary. It was just 5 mins. I am pretty sure I couldnt have survived over 30 minutes. Why cant they have transparent doors?
@k1ruki1974 жыл бұрын
Yes id rather take the stairs
@bloodvortexx9248 Жыл бұрын
Omg. He’s stoping the elevator door from opening! 🥺 this video gave me anxiety!
@snxwfox28555 жыл бұрын
My fear of a elevator is that I get really claustrophobic and I have a feeling the elevator will fall
@Elentinus13 жыл бұрын
Same here
@7Shray5 жыл бұрын
1. Defuse (so what attitude) 2. Allow n accept 3. Demand More 4. Engage (talk) 5. Repeat n practice.
@margretsims13223 жыл бұрын
Did you know Dean Martin once walked up 18 flights of stairs rather than ride in the elevator.....reason he avoided NY and stayed close to Los Angeles.
@seann8275 Жыл бұрын
A lot of responses are saying, “I’m not afraid of getting in elevators, I’m afraid of being stuck.” I say this with all the love and respect in the world, but that is totally missing the point. That’s like saying, “I’m not afraid of getting on a plane, I’m afraid of it crashing.” The fear of the latter (highly unlikely) scenario causes you to avoid the former (very routine) thing. These kind of rationalizations sound logical, but it is not rational to avoid a routine thing because of a fear of an unlikely worst case scenario. And the way to overcome that fear is to take small steps toward it, by doing exactly the kinds of things suggested by this video. There are scientifically proven strategies for overcoming these fears. Anxiety responds more consistently to therapy than anything else in mental health. There is a version of the future where you don’t have a fear of riding in elevators, but you have to face it. Facing your fear heals your brain, avoiding fear makes it worse.
@davidzaragoza35678 жыл бұрын
Thanks Barry ur videos have really helped me get through a lot. I can't thank you enough
@jeffreyd5084 жыл бұрын
My fear is getting trapped with others and I have to make a doodie. True story btw
@nidhulek4 жыл бұрын
So many people have this fear..
@gojohngo106 Жыл бұрын
Anyone else get sweaty hands while watching this?
@TCFan305 жыл бұрын
I'm claustrophobic of elevators in case the trapdoor opens and I fall into a shark pool.
@mehx_-30355 жыл бұрын
It’s ok that’s not real and it won’t happen
@potrelviewer95363 жыл бұрын
It's not the enclosed space in itself that gives me any type of anxiety, but the speed produced by the elevator whenever it goes down. If it moves upward, I have no issue at all, but I prefer taking the stairs down instead of a "gotta-go-fast" elevator.
@Elentinus13 жыл бұрын
My fear is that when the elevator starts to move I get a panic attack in my chest and when the elevator stops I get a panic attack in my chest
@anasansari03 Жыл бұрын
Sir i don't understand the 3rd step.. Demand more... It'll be really kind if someone explain it
@k1ruki1974 жыл бұрын
Bruh i dont fear the lift i fear like what if the lift gets stuck or what if it starts falling
@Eggos_-ni6qh3 жыл бұрын
I always say well the elevators never Gotten stuck yet so Why would it get stuck the only time I’m in there
@LoisBates-eh7cr21 күн бұрын
There are many things that I avoid because of my phobia. I use stairs, no matter how many, instead of elevators. I will check unfamiliar doors a few times to make sure that I can let myself out when I want to get out. I will not get in the extreme back of vehicles (6 or 7 seaters) If I’m being chauffeured, I will open the window of the car before the engine stops just to ensure that I’m not dependent on the driver to release the locks. I have to medicate to get on a plane but funny enough, I’m not bothered when the plane is airborne but only when it lands and everyone gets up. I will not allow a door to close while I’m using an indoor atm because I’m scared that the button that’s suppose to open the door might stop working so I will use my foot to stop the door from closing completely or have someone hold it open for me. If I’m in a building, could be as large as a shopping mall, my focus is always on the exit signs. I can’t wear a ring or clothes that I can’t remove in seconds. I could go on and on and on. This is a crippling experience, it takes away so much from my social life because the fear of being trapped is always at the fore front of my mind so much so that I avoid doing a lot of things that other persons take for granted.
@gregrocha7 жыл бұрын
This helped me so much! Thank you for uploading this!
@dhruvmehta15488 жыл бұрын
thank you so much sir!
@isabelps8124 жыл бұрын
Trouble is, I can't do this gradual exposure to an MRI machine! I get there and they're expecting me to be totally fine with it, no sympathy whatsoever.
@philipbrailey3 ай бұрын
I only get in one if it’s glass. Otherwise it’s my biggest fear.
@michaelwall40224 жыл бұрын
I have cancer and must take PET scans every four months or so. I am beginning to think that I am actually becoming more anxious. They are not horrible and if I can just dial it down a little bit I think I will be ok. I find elevators uncomfortable but not unbearable right now.. this could help.
@ronturitto27388 жыл бұрын
Brilliant stuff!
@nickb.81786 жыл бұрын
So for my anti claustrophobia i should 1.undefuse 2.unallow 3.demand less 4 dont engage right?
@maureenkidd66294 жыл бұрын
I really felt that.
@steverocksyo5 жыл бұрын
I definitely know how to increase anxiety by pushing myself and shortly after the anxious bit subsides, but I don't like particularly doing that. I mean that's what I do to force myself but it sucks and I would rather it not be a process.