Paris & Kathy's INTENSE Therapy Sessions: Paris in Love RECAP (S1, E8) | Paris in Love | E!

Paris Hilton opens up to a mind architect about her worst nightmare while Kathy Hilton attends her first therapy session. Emotions run high on Paris in Love!
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Fashion icon, entrepreneur and global phenom Paris Hilton prepares to add a new title to her collection: bride. Finding love with Carter Reum, a successful venture capitalist, has brought Paris into the next phase of her life as she hopes to walk down the aisle with the man of her dreams. From bridal dress shopping and choosing the venue to designing her dream destination wedding and participating in her bachelorette party, Paris discovers that the road to the altar has a few unexpected twists and turns along the way. With the help of her family and friends, the former “Simple Life” songstress hopes to find her own “happily ever after.”
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Paris & Kathy's INTENSE Therapy Sessions: Paris in Love RECAP (S1, E8) | Paris in Love | E!
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[@eentertainment]

So nice to see Paris & Kathy on a healing journey😌

[@artisthusnatalal3099]

Yess ! 😍❤

[@wally6914]

It really is. I just hope that they continue to grow

[@TTSantiago821]

That hellium Balloon voice is a clear sign of how she disassociates at times.

[@silvietee7447]

And she struggles to keep it consistent.

[@Sugaree0310]

She’s admitted it’s not her real voice. That hers persona

[@hayley8715]

Her Mum does baby talk sometimes too.

[@jeanc9868]

She does it because she's shy usually I think

[@Narges1802]

Its a very girly/feminine way to speak to your man sometimes

[@wally6914]

Kathy's therapist almost made me cry. She's so in tuned. Me and my family need therapy like this. We are a mess

[@issapg9002]

Any therapy can help you, give it a try. You deserve to heal. ❣

[@bleh3039]

Honey that’s every family, no family is perfect

[@md8388]

💯

[@lorimiller4301]

Be careful who you go to. Some therapy is very harmful if the person doing it is sick themselves. They can cause huge setbacks. Remember they are there for you. If you don't like them, don't go back. Trust yourself.

[@elizabethwilk9615]

A therapist messed up my friends son more. He was doing some drugs and the therapist said: you are mom is too controlling - smoking pit is ok. Well he move on from pot and stop listening to his mom with that reaffirmation then had a psychotic attack and went missing - fortunately his mom found him in a park and put him in rehab. I don’t trust a lot of therapist - do research and ask questions.

[@sarahcampbell8071]

I love how Carter is so tuned in to Paris he knows when shes not saying how she feels or what shes thinking

[@berry6467]

Because he wants her the Hilton name association. He’ll do anything to secure and elevate his legacy while abandoning his other daughter.

[@sarahcampbell8071]

@berry6467 no he loves her.

[@klg6917]

I agree… I never really “got him”? Probably obviously bc we never see him on tv, but he does seem to be able to read her well

[@tesshowdieshell6553]

Carter and Paris are so freaking cute together. So glad she is happy and growing.

[@cassiephillips9011]

I love that she’s constantly wearing butterflies 🦋,it’s almost like her saying she’s been in a metaphorically changing place and now she’s this spiritually, beautiful,truly happy butterfly !True love is a pure ,powerful ,healing force that can teach us so much about ourselves good and bad!!!!

[@NWYVR]

Nope. It's the monarch butterfly. Look it up in connection with MK Ultra

[@thebrunetteinroom7]

Lol. You guys are all nuts. They aren’t that deep. Shallow as sht.

[@lrlavalais2068]

You've got a long way to go if you think that the butterfly represents something else. Not only that, Paris is not even a real woman and neither is his brother Nikki Hilton who is was his handler at one time, and now it's the so called husband who is also inverted. Don't be fooled by these CHARACTERS.The deception is just as deep as the rabbit hole.

[@alishaostrowski5250]

​@@NWYVRwow 😮 thank u for saying what I wanted too

[@SowingSeedsWithChristy]

And yet there are lots of MK things without butterflies so her choice to wear them can still carry significance. Just saying. 🦋

[@Zôfiëmakeup]

Kathy’s therapy is kinda breaking the therapist code by telling her everything and being the only one talking instead of allowing Kathy to make her own breakthroughs and understand her emotions and actions on her own

[@Serenityblu23]

I would love a therapist like that. All mine did was tell me about her own problems.

[@laurenjackson2810]

Yeah idk if it’s the editing, but it’s like Kathy said one word & the therapist went on & on & on lol. But more so she was telling Kathy how to feel which isn’t okay. She gave me more Life Coach vibes & way less therapist.

[@jcyensen1236]

Kathy even controls who the therapist is. I hope Paris keeps that therapist she had and has her own therapy session without Kathy also.

[@Nailsnailsnailsallday]

I love Paris voice It goes from helium balloon to her real voice

[@CCassiiBOO]

😭

[@thestumpavarieteeshow]

Yuppp lol. Let alone her husband's "helium" voice that changes as well lol. Sorry, this is so fake of a relationship. The bachelor Bachelorette party was the nail on the coffin. He def wanted some of the holla hoop men that were their 😆 🤣 😂

[@ASMRBYAMALIA]

@@thestumpavarieteeshow he’s not gay

[@MissAnnaG]

all in one breath

[@md8388]

😭😭😭

[@jn8922]

Kathy reminds me of my friend's mother when we were in high school. She looked down on me and my family but let me tell you something, the things her daughter did, I never did - my friend made very bad choices. I love my friend but her mother thinking she was this upper class strict disciplinarian is what messed up her kids so badly. Its so unfair that parents get to say it was the past, I did my best but those issues are embedded into the very fabric of their kid's personality. You can work on your issues and heal for sure but you can't erase your memories.

[@spookytyster4712]

Same story with my best friend from high school. Sammmme thing. Funny how things turn out .

[@felisahenderson3879]

Oh man some kids over e exaggerate...and sometimes you should deal with it and move on a look how they said Kathy mom was

[@felisahenderson3879]

And sometimes a mom being the over protective is to save the lives of the kids and it's ok it's just we expect our kids to be as strong as we are or stronger and it's not the case all the time

[@caffein1110]

I give a shout out to Paris and her mom for saving people who could be held miserable in the horrible school facilities. Paris looks bomb as always.

[@dianacuevas3986]

I really feel for Paris and her mom. Takes a lot of courage to come clean and work through trauma. I hope that she heals herself and her family.

[@sodaniel1]

Kathy is cold…. Paris is a Warm Star 🌟 Shine and Sparkle Paris! Be fun and enjoy the rest of your life

[@erikavaleries]

Baby voice happens to many traumatized women, not just Paris. Especially survivors of sexual abuse

[@liverbirdxoxo1984]

Was looking for this comment.... mine started about age 7! I started to want To regress to a safer time... still do from time to time, I tend to stammer these days...

[@treatmefavourably9825]

@@liverbirdxoxo1984 Good luck.

[@thebrunetteinroom7]

😂😂😂😂😂it’s aging women trying to sound younger. Give me a break! LIES. I know plenty of women who lived that, none of them do this!!!! It’s narcissism

[@sez187]

Yesss.

[@user-nf9xm7is3m]

@@thebrunetteinroom7 you know what is truly narcissistic? Dismissing what could be coping menchaisms of trauma as just narcissist. That's the thing about narcs, everyone else is one...

[@sj8175]

Paris and kathy will never heal. That lain and distrust will always be there. I just want to hug Paris and tell her she is enough

[@KarlaLoves1D]

Aww, this makes me sad. I hope they do. They can afford the best therapists, psychiatrists, etc. That being said, everyone has family issues. I really hope they can work past it and move on. Speaking from my own experience, I find it hard to forgive people who hurt you, but it needs to be done in order to move on.

[@elizabethwilk9615]

I don’t agree they have a great relationship

[@sj8175]

@@elizabethwilk9615 their relationship is just more of them covering it up. Put yourself in Paris' shoes. Her mother let people drag her from her home not once but to multiple facilities and camps just to control her for living in any way that did not fit into her mother's tea party and dresses life style. She survived and succeeded despite her mother . Even her wedding was being made to be about Kathy by Kathy. Behaviors have not changed and no there is no healing there

[@mirjanapucarevic2105]

I think her mother doesn't get it she seemed cold,not aware of ...

[@ASMRBYAMALIA]

Why u gottta be so negative? I can see that kathys trying so that’s a start.

[@marytapioca]

Paris, "your trauma contributed to who you are." That's so true. Some people are as pretty, but you have that heartache damage that shines through your eyes, and that's absolutely beautiful.

[@user-nf9xm7is3m]

How could heartbreak and damage be beautiful? In my mind it's the opposite.

[@annalam6626]

Kathy didn't hear anything the therapist said. She was listening but she didn't take it to heart you can just see it in her face. And at the end when she says I feel I am that, you know she doesn't see that she was part of the problem

[@jn8922]

It might just be the botox though

[@Rontlc3317]

@@jn8922 I doubt it

[@olgamelo5227]

My feelings entirely.The face of a cold, manipulative narcisist

[@scrappymom7881]

I don't fully agree. You can tell she really loves her daughters, and she wants to fix the trauma, but there's a good chance that everything she is hearing and preparing herself for is very foreign to how she has thought and believed her whole life. Changing a mind set, changing how you cope with things, changing how you show people love and support doesn't happen over night or during a single conversation. My guess is that she's simply taking in what the therapist is saying, trying to figure out how much makes sense right now and how much she has to still think about to figure out how she feels about it all. To me, the look on her face wasn't a blank stare of "whatever, I'm going to continue doing things my way", it was more of a deep, mental processing with the intent to continue processing on her own later.

[@janettripper3132]

Sometimes I’m like .. Is there some type of old, old contract or legal thing that swindled Paris and makes it so she can’t disown this broad.

[@ObservingtheMatrix]

I always knew Paris was gonna come out on top! Such a real one!

[@gemma1874]

Carter is amazing. Very very supportive

[@susanking8409]

Such a good listener.

[@SimoneSimsBooks]

He's a deadbeat. Ask about his first kid.

[@gemma1874]

@@susanking8409 so true

[@shannenspence3318]

I like Paris so much more now...She is just 'normal' now.....No more little voice.....no more 'posing' for a camera.... Just HERSELF. I admire her for talking through all of this trauma. It's not easy talking about deep emotional trauma,and if she can heal that,more power to Paris.

[@susanking8409]

I just finished her book. I could barely stand reading about her struggles, so I have no idea how she survived that.

[@sez187]

Peter is THE BEST! 😍❤ I hear the traumatized little girl in her voice 🥺😥 so proud of her for getting help.

[@janettripper3132]

Yeah. It was so hard for Kathy that night that she then only spent 15 minutes with her daughter for 18 months and didn’t care that she had withered down in body from malnourishment and was crying and begging to be brought home. It’s ridiculous when Kathy still gets domineering with Paris. I would just disown these narcissistic parents. Paris is so forgiving of them. Kathy is showing zero emotion in the session. She’s an ice queen.

[@chrissis1944]

She probably still believe it was the best thing to do 😭😭😭

[@travelseatsyellowlab]

​@chrissis1944 Kathy has said she made the best decision with Paris, and she stands by it to this day.

[@travelseatsyellowlab]

Paris is still in line to inherit a ton of Hilton stocks, cash, real estate, and other property, which she will never jeopardize. Though I have nowhere near the Hilton wealth in my family, but I have a grandparent who rules others with money, property, and the threat of disinheritance for those who don't kiss the ring. He has a manipulative, gatekeeper grandchild from whom he gets input, and who will malign and impugn others to get my grandparent to favor her in his decision-making. Several months ago, for my own peace of mind and strength, I had no option but to cut them loose. Though I haven't been able to make a complete break because other family members are involved, I went Gray Rock. Either simply speaking or keeping conversations at the surface level is the best choice for me.

[@ADDAuntDawnDisorder]

Relationships with moms & sisters can be really hard sometimes.❤️🙏

[@mynameisnotme1866]

I love Paris for her strength to show her traumas from childhood and her experience and hidden suffering . And to expose that , and not only the perfect superficial side of her . Made me be a fan , after seen her documentary ……

[@lulularoar7157]

As a therapist, I do like to let my clients talk and allow space for their own realisations .... Kathy got off lightly there ...

[@elizabethwilk9615]

Don’t agree. She was confronted with her daughter raising hell and in danger and trusted this school that also betrayed her

[@bethkeithley7920]

I got the feeling Kathy was stonewalling a bit. I think the therapist felt pressured to fill the space as Kathy was pretty non-responsive. It's edited do who knows tho. 🤷‍♀️

[@Kp.adventure.traveler]

Also too much talking by the therapist. It's their job to *listen* and guide, not blab on. What a shame.

[@KB-nr3ls]

@@Kp.adventure.traveler go look up the word "stonewalling" and then re-read Beth Keithly's response above. Kathy Hilton was basically avoiding talking about the problem, so yes, because Kathy wouldn't participate, while taping the therapist seems to be talking a lot but only to give Kathy a break. If this was a private therapy session, the therapist most likely would have talked less and not filled in the silent space as a method of gently urging Kathy to be more reflective and self-disclosing. Kathy has probably practiced stonewalling techniques most of her life and gotten away with them because money lends itself to unconfronted power.

[@liannegravitis42]

I agree! I don't like that therapist at all. She's not even letting her talk!!!! She's allowing this lack of accountability

[@jillmccandless403]

I love it! " you don't give yourself enough credit..." "the past doesn't define you it just becomes a part of what makes you strong" (I'm paraphrasing) 🧡

[@ADDAuntDawnDisorder]

Being taken is an extremely traumatic, horrifying & helpless experience that can take a lifetime to get over. Seeing your parents being “ok” with that must be devastating. Sadly, I do believe that they were convinced this was the only way to save their daughter. Alcohol & drug treatment centers teach family members about codependent, enabling & manipulation issues. It is hard all the way around, but shoot … getting over being taken must be VERY difficult. Not a good situation.❤️🙏

[@travelseatsyellowlab]

Rick and Kathy could've managed their daughter at home had they simply spent more time with her. Instead, they were too busy socializing and jet setting, so as a result, their daughter got lost, figuratively. By the time they were attuned to the issues, they were so great that serious intervention became necessary.

[@sherrycorless14]

Paris- Something that I recently learned from my own traumatic experience is, that instead of looking at it like “why did this happen to me?” I Look at it like, “this happened for me.” I hope I’m making sense… But looking at like “this happened for me,” allowed me to understand that yes I was a victim, but this doesn’t define who I am. And that God wants me to experience things for whatever reason in the future. I hope this helps you and I wish you the best in your future endeavors. Much love for you!

[@sizzling_rozes]

Thank you

[@lorimiller4301]

When we're on the Otherside we chose what we're going to go through. We chose our parents too. No one is punished. This is absolutely for our Souls learning. We grow from contrast. We are on a stage for all the souls on the Otherside to watch and learn from as well. Everything is on display. Nothing is hidden. Just do your best and keep trying. Your spirit guide is always available ✨️ learn to trust, they really do love and care for you.

[@ruthyaya]

Kathy's very traumatized and closed off. She's not ready and deeply afraid (as a result defensive) to hear the truth and admit and own her own mistakes and harm she caused for her family.

[@pearlgirl5643]

Money can’t shield you from narcissistic abuse - nothing can but learning about this blight on humanity! KNOW YOUR RIGHTS THEY’RE FREE AND YOU SHOULD BE TOO!

[@bigang869]

I love paris. Ive always loved her!

[@jvalentino6466]

I can tell her mom is a sweep under a rug type. And paris not being vocal n confrontational i feel like she just keeps it to herself and agrees all her life

[@JosannaMonik]

Family dynamics can be fascinating. We tend to balance each other out.

[@Laura22_new]

You guys? OF COURSE she uses a baby voice. She wants to revert to a baby, a little girl, when she was ACTUALLY protected by her parents. When she was a teenager and started to grow up (and get a bit rebellious and not be a perfect little girl) her parents literally paid people to drag her away in a dangerous situation in the middle of the night, and her parents stood by and did nothing. Granted, they thought they were getting her into an effective “scared straight/tough love” program. But the reality is: Paris did not know what was going on and was violently dragged away while her parents looked on and did not help her. Scarred for life. Her baby voice is a coping mechanism that protects her. And later on, after her abusive and traumatic experience, the baby voice gained her popularity and money…her own money, which equaled security. Do you get it yet?

[@thebrunetteinroom7]

😂😂😂it’s what happens when vain shallow women get old. They try to stay young. It’s also very manipulative.

[@Laura22_new]

@@thebrunetteinroom7 After she was literally abused, why wouldn’t she try to manipulate (aka control) her surroundings? Of course she lost trust in parents, etc.

[@lindax0879]

I love Paris two voices .

[@Wakanda888]

I hope Paris and Carter have a long and happy marriage because he seems like someone that she truly needs in her life. Many blessings to them.

[@lovedbymyfatherwhoisinheav8485]

Not in just this episode, but every single one I've watched, I say this...Kathy Hilton is the most unlikeable person I've ever seen in my life! I'm sorry, Paris, I know she's your mom, but, MAN, bless your heart!

[@ericag5346]

If I had to guess I think Kathy is narcissistic and it's hard to be around people that act that way and have those traits but we should try to love everyone including their faults.

[@lovedbymyfatherwhoisinheav8485]

@@ericag5346 You're right. I do love how she is in her daughter's life, which shows she truly does love and cares deeply about her, and that says a lot. That was a very unloving thing for me to say and kudos to MY kids for putting up with me!

[@MichaeljWatanabe]

Agreed

[@felisahenderson3879]

I just love her

[@pacificpearl7165]

You should watch her documentary if you haven’t already, it’s insane how much Kathy put her through.

[@dananicole3969]

Kathy hilton seems like a cold fish too me,paris seems much warmer personality than her mom.

[@sherried4219]

wow Paris, you are still gorgeous ,i almost didnt recognize you, i love the new look and your voice . you have grown up nicely , and bless you for coming forward and if one person gets something from this ,its worth it . bless you

[@samanthasmiles9112]

Kathy's therapist needs to stop talking. As a therapist, your supposed to let the person discover their own truths while guiding them.

[@KB-nr3ls]

Kathy Hilton needs to start talking, insteading of stonewalling the therapist. The therapist was letting Kathy off the hook. In real life without a camera present, maybe Kathy would have talked more. If the session had taken place in the therapist's office, the therapist would not have filled in the silent spaces, and probably would have gently urged Kathy to self-disclose more by asking her much deeper secondary questions--that in the therapist's opinion were too pointed/private/embarrassing to ask a client on a "reality" T.V. show. Kathy Hilton needs to get real and let down her guard--but if that happens at all--it is not going to be a breakthrough that is filmed for all the world to see.

[@klg6917]

Eh kind of. Personally, I needed my therapist to start the talking or I would have never opened the lid. I needed some hand holding. And the way my therapist talked was kind of like a mold to me at first, and I started to mimic it. Over time, I didn’t need it anymore and I was able to start communicating better, but sometimes if you’re really stubborn (like myself) it’s helpful to see and hear and witness what therapy “SHOULD” look and sound like. But again, therapy isn’t just like a three for one deal, it takes times

[@nickypirzadeh5076]

We’re not all fortunate like Paris and her husband 😢😢so lovely I hope we all get the love we want and need in this universe 😢

[@olgamelo5227]

I watched Paris documentary and while I could not love her more for her strength, have immense empathy for what she went though and profound admiration for the human being she is. I don't feel the same about her mother. In that documentary I saw a cold, manipulative, narcissistic woman. Ok she was in front of the cameras then and still is in this video but is wearing a mask . All I can see is an emotionless, cold Narcissists lacking in empathy and accountability for what she did to Paris and the abandonment she subjected her to when they put her in that Hell of a school. The reason Paris rebelled as a child in the first place was probably due to the fact that she wanted to get away from the controlling, manipulative, rigid, cold and narcissist mother. Lets not even talk about the father as I haven't seen any of his interviews. I assume he is an enabler, just let Paris mother do what she pleased. They will never accept responsibility for what they did to Paris, the scapegoat. Kathy's certainly did not love Paris as she did "love" Nicky or lets put this way, Kathy projected her shadow in Paris or unconsciously felt jealousy and animosity towards Paris. Nothing that Paris did was right, on the contrary, her light, enormous creativity and determination was a treat to her mediocre mother. So they locked her up to break her spirit! I understand we're trauma bonded and try to forgive our abusers but Narcissists rarely change. I just want to give Paris a big hug and say you;re not alone.

[@pearlgirl5643]

From one narc abuse survivor to another, I see you👁️ Well done!❤

[@T.020]

Do you think there is still hope? That kathy eventually realized what she did to her first Born? And truly change for the better?

[@pearlgirl5643]

@@T.020 I come from a family of narcissists and if I had her money, I would take it now and run! She’s still being scapegoated by jealous family, and that “nice” husband is going to stifle her until she has enough and leaves!

[@rileyreese3991]

Her mother is totally not owning the responsibility that ultimately caused the trauma for Paris. Her mother is rejecting that. Also that therapy session for Paris, ugh, it wan't fully there. Paris is truly a warrior goddess at this point. But she can't let the mother to control her, Paris doesn't even realise shes a phoenix, shes above her mother and all the others. The therapist should have stayed with her and allowed to feel all the pain, and go deeper to the fact that she feels like her mom is controlling. Yes she is and she is even controlling Paris trauma and healing narrative now just to save her own skin. I wish for deepest healing and strength for Paris, and also if that means she cuts off all communication with her family for some time and calls them out for the BS, she can do it.

[@Yasharal-Instrumentals]

That therapist spoke more than Kathy. I want her money back 😂

[@Camiliconsz]

They are so sweet❤

[@erikavaleries]

Paris, you are wonderful!!!

[@ilétaitunefoi33]

Wearing monarch butterflies when going through therapy... I just hope she is okay

[@shay3223]

Yasss...you noticed too!

[@leeannasloan2292]

First thing I noticed. I wonder if she was programmed at some point and all the stress is coming out of that programming.

[@NWYVR]

🎯 BINGO

[@thebrunetteinroom7]

@@leeannasloan2292 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lrlavalais2068]

Wow, his voice go from man to baby. Deep, deep mind control, trying to break free.

[@Joejoyoyoyo]

These therapy sessions are the most interesting part of pil to me 😊❤

[@melodyp9079]

The fact is no likes confrontation. But sometimes you have to protect yourself

[@neeeenah]

The voice changes kill me 😆

[@SowingSeedsWithChristy]

Congrats Kathy, on being willing to face and deal with what happened to Paris and why she acted out and how it related to legacy parenting, through no fault of your own or your own mother. Sh*t happens in all families. ❤

[@ErikaJensen-g4o]

?

[@ARash-l5h]

I don't know if I feel this way because we share the same birthday but I honestly relate to Paris a lot especially when she mentioned hating confrontation and having trouble saying "no" or feeling nervous or unsure when conflicts happen because I honestly struggled with that too.

[@delilahgreen5946]

Kathy's Therapist did more talking than listening honestly.

[@juliehealingleaf6211]

He'll I feel I can't control anything I'm glad they were strong enough to control their life

[@mariakent8689]

She is a little bit messed up in the head but she is a sweetheart, indeed! I hope she finds peace in her new life with this wonderful guy she married!

[@la381]

Kathy is delusional. Omg. She feels like she IS THAT SAFE PERSON??!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 10:37.

[@ceciliagutierrez230]

Kathy is a real sick human and she doesn't see it. Poor Paris.

[@princess_sprightly]

I love Paris and Carter

[@adwoamk8918]

I feel awful saying this, but I don't think Paris and Carter are going to last, she is having second thoughts the whole way through this thing. I don't know if she is behaving differently because of the cameras but something isn't right she reacts to Carter in the same way as she does her mum, seeing her with her ex- Chris she seemed so happy and enamored completely different from Carter.

[@teannabell9945]

congratulations Paris!

[@oanapuciu]

The kids that come into rich families don't always have the best options.. somehow are trapped in a vicious circle. Her mom so controlling now she "supports" Paris... pff. Fear is more powerful than Love she said as explanation to what she had done to her teen... many children are being abused by their parents in the name of beings scared of loosing the kid.. producing more harm than well. NO fear is not stronger than LOVE! Look at what fear did! And she is nor the only one! She was lucky to have a platform and develop into this business person she is now, but most of victims of abuse don't have opportunities to get some sort of retribution or be somebody that could show up in the world without the burden on the back that you are not good enough... unfortunate what happened to Paris.. hope this has a ripple effect and we learn something out of this! And stop domestic abuse once and for all!

[@Kika1623]

I like the male therapist. He is great. Paris seems to speak in a normal voice around him. Her husband goes into baby talking too.

[@olgamelo5227]

Carter is an amazing partner. I'm so glad Paris found someone so supportive. My only advice to him is that he should not put his hand on her shoulder like that when she is triggered or expressing her emotions. For trauma survivors it feels we're being strangled. I watched Paris documentary and what she went though spoke to my heart. After that I went to watch her wedding video. The first thing I noticed is that the dress Paris wore was to please her mother. Children of Narcissistic and controlling mothers become a people pleaser an unable to say no. You still have quite along way to heal Paris, so all of us.

[@texan903]

Paris and Carter are close enough that she wouldn't have had a problem telling him that she didn't want his hand on her shoulder.

[@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607]

What are those cat eye sunglasses Paris is wearing at lunch?

[@tatianag.k.3226]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love Kathy, she doesn't believe a word what the therapist is telling her. I'm pretty sure she knows better, and the therapist is not telling her anything new. Really not a good therapist

[@Klikka1]

I think Kathy is a narcissist, and the therapy is just a show she is making for Paris and also for audience. She is not able to feel empathy.

[@bRoWnsKinfRien]

You are harsh. Kathy has hidden trauma. There's something that goes deep, very deep and far back with Kathy. They don't address it and so that's why they talk around in circles today.

[@jeanc9868]

She needs to feel SAFE & secure!

[@ribhe133]

I don't think a therapist should explain to you exactly what your situation is like, that guy is doing with Paris, a therapist should only guide you to become aware of your situation by yourself. Otherwise, it becomes unethical because a patient has no way of knowing if what their therapist is saying is true or if they're just being manipulated.

[@askfroogle]

My therapist does the same and I find it helpful. I never feel like they’re putting words in mouth and I would say something if I felt it didn’t match what I was thinking or how I was feeling.

[@eddefalcon6429]

Paris he gave you puppy eyes…he ❤❤❤❤you Paris,🤣🤣😂🥳🚀🚀🚀🚀

[@williamblake7]

In Paris’s life, who strangles the most? Paris.

[@Adanishmagahat]

Good Therapist ❤

[@jacquelinemartin9124]

Love Paris ❤

[@n.f.w.withjen7421]

I’ve never been to therapy where the therapist talk so much.

[@jen_ivypixie81]

It's a trauma response. I do the same thing. I hate confertation. I have dealt with abuse.

[@cheryll747]

Proof U can have a billion & still not be satisfied! I think there alot of toxic things about this family, Kathies older sisters don't get along either!!

[@1dontknow4321]

I don’t know how Paris forgave her parents. I would not have been that forgiving. Paris was never a drunk or into drugs, she just embarrassed her parents and they had her kidnapped and sent to that horrible camp. God knows al what happened to her.

[@jvalentino6466]

I can tell her mom is a sweep under a rug type. And paris not being vocal n confrontational i feel like she just keeps it to herself and agrees all her life

[@TheRose087]

She did go through a period of drugs and drink

[@barbriley583]

Kathy has made her whole family nuts…

[@savagesfortruth]

My mom went to a program like this in the 1970- 200’s and it honestly broke my mom spirit and every one around her wanted her to just get over her stay at this type of place and she told me the horror stories of this type of abuse and not having anyone understand what your going through

[@eddefalcon6429]

Paris, you are so my baby sister Emilie. My Mother used to spend HOURS making Emilie’s hair look like Shirley Temple. I guess that is why Emilie is the way she is🤣🤣🤣😂😂👏🥳🥳🚀🚀🚀🚀

[@luiscs2823]

Carter has the voice of an old man 👴

[@truebelieverthasit6265]

omg tjats soo wierd how she goes in and out of that voice..

[@lookinbad2day64]

I just realized that Paris short hair is a wig

[@mscarolynnigro]

Or the long hair is extensions

[@mscarolynnigro]

I like Kathy's therapist .

[@stephenwise734]

1st time I've seen Paris without the pancake make up, what a difference

[@HaywoodJablomi_420]

I dont like the vibe I get from Carter after watching the show. I got a controlling, manipulative vibe from him and I really hope it wasnt his idea to keep the baby a secret from her whole family. I feel like her kids are going to be raised by nannies. She didnt take any time off from work after Phoneix was born and Carter never asked her to, he kept pushing her to work and thats so weird. She treats her baby like hes a new puppy, it's like "is he changed and fed? Oh good Ill hold him now." And all she ever did was hold him up to mirrors...she never changed him or fed him, she just wanted to hold him like an accessory. Carter is probably going to retire soon so he can focus all of his energy on pushing Paris to work more so he doesn't have to. Even with him being home all the time this season he still had the nanny feeding the baby and changing him...whats the point of being parents if you arent going to do any of the hard parts that make you a parent!? Her two kids are going to be raised fully by nannies. Its already happening. That is so sad and i dont like it at all. Im sure the reason she feels so insecure about being a mom is because shes not doing any of the mom parts, she holds him ...thats it. He mind as well belong to someone else and she is just there to play with him snd hold him after his real mom (the nanny) has changed his diaper and fed him.

[@myaathwal4015]

Love Peter !

[@8gagee]

Kathy looks wonderful, here!

[@forevermarcia]

I know it's probably for show but the way he rubs her and is focused on her, wow. What a man!

[@EE-qn4ks]

He loves her. You can see it.

[@jacquipotgieter5821]

You can have all the money in the world and still be broken.

[@judyisapunk7928]

Kathy absorbed none of that. She is shaking her head but it’s making zero impact on her. She reminds me of my mother during our family therapy sessions. Both her and my mother have obvious cluster B disorders

[@angelsunlight]

I feel the same way about my mom

[@williamblake7]

Joan Chong is like Isabella Rossellini and Paris Hilton. She married a florist.

[@ThatsTheWayItGoes]

The therapist was too arrogant with Kathy. She did all the talking!

[@KB-nr3ls]

Because Kathy wouldn't talk--she was stonewalling the therapist. If in a private session that wasn't being filmed for TV, the therapist wouldn't have let Kathy off the hook. Instead the therapist would not have rescued Kathy and "filled in" the silence spaces.

[@ThatsTheWayItGoes]

@@KB-nr3ls The role of a therapist does not and should not change just because the client acts a certain way or the setting is different. The role of the therapist is not to adjust their behavior simply because the client was not talkative. Perhaps Kathy was not talkative because the therapist was commandeering the whole situation. I disagree with your opinion about the therapist/client dynamic. I also disagree with any notion that it is incumbent upon the therapist to “fill the silence” simply because a client was not speaking to the therapist’s desire.

[@hayley8715]

I can't help but think there is hidden trauma in Kathy too. The nervous tick behaviour, the talking in circles conversations when she wants to avoid something & the blame games go deeper than just her wanting to think positive and have a forward thinking mentality. No one is perfect and I really.enjoy Kathy but it's kinda hard to watch at this point. What is it she wants to dismiss in her mind that bad and it's not Paris' experiences learnt through her book & documentary as goes further back before she knew a lot of things.

[@bRoWnsKinfRien]

True. Kathy seems to have something deep. Very deep. But she also she seems to be pushing it further down and that's why they go around in circles. 😢

[@tenealsimpson4893]

They don't know the meaning of stress give me a break 🤣😂

[@robashsandhu8583]

1:30 omg gorgeous 😍

[@jeanc9868]

I can see how Paris is truly such a baby

[@katjaxxx7353]

Kathy is very controlling - it's hard - I had similar experience

[@pearlgirl5643]

Where did they find these enabling therapists? Controlling people aren’t usually truly trying to “protect” anyone but their ego!

[@wickedwitchoftheeast88]

It depends to be honest abusers control because of their egos but abused people can become controlling due to their traumas. My father is a domestic abuser and was very controlling and as a result in adulthood whenever someone tries to control me I do the opposite but I also need to feel in control of my life after so many years of being controlled I freak out if anything in my life gets out of my control. An ex colleague of mine was abused as a child and as a result she was very protective and controlling of her teenage girls who were rebelling against her because of it not all control freaks do it for ego

[@pearlgirl5643]

Everyone in this family was content to just ride coattails until Paris made the name hot again, and that’s why she was picked to be the family scapegoat, at least Barron doesn’t seem like a narcissist

[@JosannaMonik]

A lot of girls and womens' behaviour that we judge and don't understand, are actually due to trauma/sexual abuse. Even promiscuity.