PART 1, I was thinking of exit on my wedding day - My husband was seeing a lady in the worship team

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[@meddeck]

Mwikali, I wish you had asked her to talk about the red flags she saw and ignored or 'painted over' as she says, before walking down the aisle. Not the bad omens on her wedding day.

[@carolinekagwira705]

Aaaa

[@eunicewanjira9302]

Hello, I'm Eunice. A Kenyan author. How can I get my book be reviewed on switch?

[@priscillaw1813]

From stories I have heard, most church and over saved guys are abusive and very misogynistic. Church girls take care.

[@WanjiruMuya]

Can't agree more😭🤮

[@bettynthembwa760]

Couldn't agree more...

[@janetwasike3337]

Very true

[@zinhlesibeko2329]

Truth, I was married to a pastor.... Did he not abuse me, isolated me from my friends and family, it only lasted 3 years but it felt like 300 years of running from one family to another

[@priscillaw1813]

@@zinhlesibeko2329 I am so sorry you went through that but I am glad you got out.

[@matunda2008]

OMG! THIS IS MY LONG LOST FRIEND BARBARA!! 😱😱 WHAAAAAT? BARBS, NI MIMI YOUR "BEST BUDDY IN FASHOO.. now in UK" (yes you've guessed right)... Waat? U got married ata sikujua... i need to reach out like juzi... wooi Wajiro!... i love u mama, pole sana! Such things just dont happen to innocent Godly people like u! how??

[@njeriruagos3300]

I just like the way she is laughing at herself. She has been healed thank God!!

[@raychelleinjete4024]

Exactly. this is the best part of the interview. She has healed and is helping people... what a wonderful soul

[@redemptakyuko3984]

@@raychelleinjete4024 00ĺ⁰

[@johnnm3207]

Her Guardian Angel deserves a RAISE, he was working Overtime on her wedding day.

[@phylismanyara9193]

You wouldn't have said it better...

[@dollschronicles4130]

😌😌

[@lizlefic910]

True

[@taureanrosertty8912]

I second you

[@petronellacharityanjoah3220]

Wee... I should hire him too!!!

[@thokogqiba4683]

I ignored the voice saying No on my wedding day too....and lived to regret decades after. I always say animals have an instinct and they don't wait for a second chance to confirm..... they trust their instincts..... we humans ignore the inner voice until it's too late.

[@amjudith]

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[@TNJ-gn2gv]

To be fair, we are taught to ignore our instincts and rationalize things. If you have children, train them that their instincts are there to serve one purpose: To protect them.

[@rethabilesenoge7736]

I am currently in the same position, I don't know what to do

[@TNJ-gn2gv]

@@rethabilesenoge7736 Did your husband cheat? If yes, you can get a divorce. If no, you can still separate. You will need to plan how to leave that man without making it obvious and getting money for yourself without him knowing. First things first, you need to accept and be at peace with your situation. Mourn for what you have lost- your time, dreams, hope for a good and long marriage etc. Secondly, raise your self esteem. This will remind you that you are valuable as a person. Marriage did not make you valuable. Divorce/separation will not make you less valuable or useless. Thirdly, reassure yourself over and over that you matter; that you are not worthless, you are not hopeless and you are not helpless. You may feel like that but it is not permanent. Feelings are never permanent. Fourthly, check your pride. You may start to feel good and be tempted to start being proud or lush out or behave arrogantly towards him. Do not. That is the easiest way to spoil your plans and to get noticed. Finally, after you have done everything you need to do, leave. When you are at a safe distance, at a safe place, tell him about the divorce or separation. (If he is wealthier than your family or you have a family that will not accept your plans or they will cajole/threaten/guilt trip you to stay married, do not go to your family nor tell them where you are.) PS: During this time, a lot of pain and hurt will be experienced. You may be called selfish, inconsiderate, uncompassionate etc. You may be insulted, told you need to hang in there, given examples of people who were going through what you were going and did not divorce/separate etc. Prepare yourself for these responses from your family, his family and him. Also, manipulation through sit downs and reminiscing the "good times" will be used. You may be guilted about "throwing away the marriage after years of marriage. Do not feel guilty when you are not in the wrong. Do not agree to meet ups with your family *no matter what*. Do not agree to see your mother or aunts or your favorite in law etc. These are grounds for ambush. You may need to change your number. If it is a hostile situation, you may need to change your appearance- how you dress etc.) This will be a long tiring journey but you are worth it!! All the best.

[@sayuunibridgetsemanda2617]

@@rethabilesenoge7736 Oooh dear please relax your minds, people talk but what does God says matters, if you are a Christian please keep your faith to God have hope for better its only God that changes situation, marriage is attacked spiritually not physical so depth calls unto depth Love creates love, hate creates hate, change the way you see things relax your minds in the thoughts of the holy Spirit and a way shall be paved. JESUS CHRIST IS LORD

[@miriamongachi5480]

I can relate to her. My wedding is 99.9% similar to yours. I had all the time to walk out, but ignored all that and ended up in tears for 4 years.....glad its all gone and God is a forgiving God, a God of second chances.

[@catherinemuhami4878]

Oh no. Sorry. May God's peace and joy locate you

[@amjudith]

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[@winniemutuku8346]

@Jay Bee oh no😳😳😳

[@justym8747]

@Jay Bee Jesu, 😭😭😭😭and here I am sitting, thinking married people are more blessed and favoured. Thank u God. M learning

[@jaynitahmacharia8142]

This lady is narrating this sad story in a hilarious way aki you are a strong lady

[@jasutrading8157]

Was wondering why she is laughing🙄

[@margaretwanjiku3136]

Ignoring the red flags just because you want to see the best in people will cost you someday

[@wodeyaeric5351]

But that is the essence of marriage--patience, persistence,accommodation and compromise. U can't paint pictures of women as being flawless beings looking out for "redflags--flaws" in men and expect marriages to work it ways. U should be concentrating on how our mothers have been able to hold their marriages long enough to receive us back from failed marriages execusing ourselves by pretexts of "redflags"!! Too much text book approach than common sense!!

[@wodeyaeric5351]

But that is the essence of marriage--patience, persistence,accommodation and compromise. U can't paint pictures of women as being flawless beings looking out for "redflags--flaws" in men and expect marriages to work it ways. U should be concentrating on how our mothers have been able to hold their marriages long enough to receive us back from failed marriages execusing ourselves by pretexts of "redflags"!! Too much text book approach than common sense!!

[@wodeyaeric5351]

Marriage,like driving has a lot to do with navigation. So many things to avoid, prevent, accommodate,compromise if it has to work! Lakini nyinyi mnathani ya kwamba it has to be about you--u have introduced a lot of activism into marriage and forgotten what makes marriages work!!

[@joanokeyo7156]

I agree 💯. If you can't stand the Red flags before a relationship......No amount of miracle will make you accept them later or make them change for you

[@susan4687]

Been a pastor's kid I have seen it all. Am sorry but I am glad you healed.

[@Jmwangi-w]

😢Hugs girl.. We Pk's we see it all

[@annokore738]

I had such an experience in my past relationship. The Holy spirit really warned me 😂😂 all the red flags were everywhere. But Mimi ni nani....but God is merciful. He has given me another chance. I am keenly looking out for His direction

[@wodeyaeric5351]

Watch out,"redflags" as u commonly refer to opposing interests will always be anywhere u will go unless one gets married to oneself to be completely in sync. Otherwise,u introduce somebody else in ur life, prepare to accommodate and make necessary compromises. But as long as u set urselves as standards against which partners should measure,u r not about to settle!!

[@sayuunibridgetsemanda2617]

@@wodeyaeric5351 yes because people marry not out of love but expectations thats why many divorces

[@francyosupo4525]

OMG! Now this is kama vindu, what what? My joy is that the lady has made peace with herself. Keep praying my dear your faith is on another level. And.. isn't she pretty y'all?

[@gugzdlamini5]

Guuuuuys please add subtitles for us as well. I love this show(I also just looooove Kenya), but I lose some of the big moments in the conversation because I don't understand what's being said. Pretty please consider it 🙏🏾. Your topics are so interesting I don't want to lose out on anything. Love you😘

[@winniemutuku8346]

Click CC on the top

[@gugzdlamini5]

@@winniemutuku8346 Oh yes konje! I totally forgot KZbin has that feature 🙈. Thank you sisi.

[@rethabilesenoge7736]

Cc doesn't help

[@winniemutuku8346]

@@rethabilesenoge7736 ooh sorry

[@gugzdlamini5]

@@rethabilesenoge7736 Eish ja it doesn't because it doesn't interpret the Shona into English.

[@sophia4christ]

May we never ignore the leading of His Holy Spirit. Lord have mercy. 🙏🏽

[@amjudith]

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[@achomgrace1658]

Amen

[@consolataotieno2811]

Amen

[@miriamelphasy9427]

Why am I loving her 😩😩😩😩😩😩 I cry and laugh at the same time. each time she gets emotional I 😢😢 and when she bursts the laughter i am 😂😂😂😂😂😂 dead. Love you popote ulipo darls ❤️

[@snm2222]

This is the story of so many women who marry that saved man of god. It breaks my heart.

[@raychelleinjete4024]

Exactly and many are still trapped in death trap marriages to save their images...

[@virginiawanjiku5106]

This is my story but a bit different. Dealing with a narcissist psychopath is emotionaly and physically draining. I believe someone will see my worth someday

[@kituibarbara112]

Amen

[@carolinemwazi5583]

Before someone sees your worth, learn to see it yourself. I have found my worth in Christ. Once you see how valuable you are to the Lord, you are unstoppable. Read Isaiah 54:5 and following.

[@wodeyaeric5351]

How have u arrived at describing him as a narcissist or psychopath with just one side as given by the author? U should be knowing that the author related with the said man before the eventual wedding and in the process behaving in a manner that didn't necessitate that narcist tendencies she describes. What could have happened in between there now that u lack the man's side of the story? Don't view ur husband through this cognitive filter if u want to stay married. Work on ur marriage without making urself the standard against which ur partner has to conform. A real marriage material person has no business with unnecessary sensitivity to trivialities. A real one transcends,ignores,accommodates ,makes compromises as they cultivate their marriage. Let anybody here tell us how disappointed they r in seeing their parents in their 60s or 70s still married and aging together before we glorify failed marriages. Childish. Marriage is unity of diverse interest and how well we navigate through not an issue one brings one's sensitivity into. Ohhh ameniambia hivo ,ok inamaanisha... Ohhh amefanya hivi,ok inamaanisha... Kwenda uko. Work on marriages.

[@wodeyaeric5351]

@@carolinemwazi5583 U choose marriage to a partner or liberation fights(feminism) and thereby activism against them! Don't confuse the world and mislead millions of people that marriage is impossible. Avoid cascading individual confusion about marriage to the rest of the world. Only confuse urself and individually feel the pain!

[@qutestaha5276]

Virginia,u mean u experienced the same thing😭

[@prisillakimani3590]

I tell people ask God the person you with is the person you meant to be with! God always tells you youjusthappen to listen to him!

[@DrIpelengObGyn]

So true

[@thidekatithe2756]

How you know He answered

[@thatsreality1177]

@@thidekatithe2756 i also wanna know

[@annemary8182]

Ngai! Lord speak loudly so that we may hear you above and beyond our humanly plans and wants

[@annewanganya1683]

Dear Lord! Speechless.. Thanks to God He is always there for His children

[@jesintahwanjiku2412]

I love her voice and story telling skills

[@Am-promise30]

Omg 🙆‍♀️ why didn't anyone told me to come in with porcorns n enjoy this movie?🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ Jeez!!!🤦‍♀️this is a whole 2hrs movie mazee...we want part 2 pls 🙏...🤔😪

[@magdalenenzili9782]

So inspiring n bubbly indeed I just love her fr free please mwikali bring her back we are waiting.😘🤗 N good job mwikali over there u such good listener.

[@mildredtsisika]

But Kuna good marriages too. I think we should seek God for his approval.

[@seleinashurake1498]

Watch part 2

[@gracejohns6108]

Waa hapo... ninge enda solo honeymoon and enjoy my own company😔😏 but huko ni disaster.. Jameni.... Aki hapana hypocrisy kanisani mingi sana..😭😭😭.Mungu weee praise n worship now... Aki God is angry things happening in churches

[@legitboss5813]

So sad, we should learn to stand alone even in the church... Christ should be the only role model to us Christians. He is the only one who searches and knows our hearts

[@joywairimu2372]

You have spoken my mind👍

[@misskarun2548]

same😏😏

[@esthernjeri4439]

I say.....SCATTER!I will not die in the hands of men.....hahahaaa...aki Grace be a comedian...I love your voice n way of expression.

[@maryannenderi5772]

😂🤣😂

[@deborahsusan136]

So it's not only me who heard scaaaateeeer

[@naninanu775]

Scatter greek word

[@tabbiewachira9334]

I don't know what I am feeling right now after watching this. Oh God help us, You created us.

[@mariwambui]

She is a good story teller I followed to the end.

[@ruthretoe7232]

I know right

[@Sofia-dl9vw]

Listening to this story in the background as I work from home in Canada. She is so funny omg, I am dying of laughter and yet the story is so sad. Part 2 please!

[@shiqowb5450]

Wow... It's my dream to work in Canada someday.... May God help me

[@winniemutuku8346]

Where are you Sofia. I'm in Alberta.

[@Sofia-dl9vw]

@@winniemutuku8346 Toronto! Where in AB?

[@teckie__songsofworship6680]

May God helps to listen to the instinct voice and may He guide our ways

[@bettynthembwa760]

God was preventing the wedding from taking place..All these are signs.. The caterers kid got sick, the gowns got switched etc..

[@Dkemer-u7f]

Wow this story is almost like mine although I stayed in for 22 years. My wedding day was also full of drama but I also painted white.

[@nayigabrenda7400]

22years and divorced sorry dia

[@nonnyvundhla4715]

l like this woman just the way she talks about her experience

[@ireneodero1492]

This story is so sad, I pray no woman ever goes through this.

[@namulemesumayyah2367]

Ameen

[@palesarobyn6310]

I'm going through it now with four kids it is so hard my faith is waning

[@JanetShie]

She is an excellent story teller

[@rachaelnderitu2187]

what a story?very educative and an eye opener to many,,she is soo strong ,she is agreat woman ,,bring her back for part two.....waiting...pray for her that may God continue keeping her safe even beyond delivery time,shes blessed

[@chananikidstv4749]

Aaaamen

[@ericaadkins3383]

Please don't ignore the red flags. She is 100% accurate.

[@delishbby8542]

Please bring her back. She is lovely. I love her

[@miriamkaranja4972]

Part 2 waiting...... My dear sister never knew the story and every time we meet hug, laugh and am shocked and at the same time thank God because your testimony is speaking.

[@qutestaha5276]

Miriam,huyu ni wa wpi

[@Wanyiha-G.1]

I love her ability to laugh over all this! God is good!

[@amjudith]

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[@maryannenderi5772]

Kabisaaa

[@faithmuthoni17]

🤣🤣it's hilarious and educative at the same time

[@SoulSearch11110]

I'm coming from part 2. She deserved to take her time to tell her story. ❤️

[@WILMA_]

This girl’s storytelling is on a whole other level.

[@marthag9132]

Anafaa ku collaborate na Mkurugenzi🤣🤣🤣

[@maryannenderi5772]

Ikr

[@lavenderflowers1075]

More like 'lady' not 'girl'

[@WILMA_]

@@lavenderflowers1075 - saaaalty!!!

[@yumrecipes4461]

If it was other ladies they would pray God to change him not me

[@agathangenzirabona8339]

Not bad at all the experience gave her a new topic to continue her career as an author

[@kammusic22]

This wasn't marriage how do you fight over politics and cultural issues.

[@sylviawaititu977]

God is faithful you made it out, and He will keep you safe. He loves and will bless you abundantly

[@morganmutuku3928]

Mwikali this lady is hilarious. She is completely healed! And her laughter is infectious

[@klmno9065]

She's not healed yet. She's crying.

[@annemary8182]

True

[@karanjanancy2150]

Bdo.....nt yet healed....

[@DailyBreadnWord]

Ladies in praise and worship need deliverance. Most of them are hypocrites.

[@amjudith]

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[@sarahsam3603]

That's why they are in church😃

[@malaikabibleverse7391]

Lord we need your mercy and we need your sufficient grace

[@dorahmulinge3800]

@@sarahsam3603 lol😅😅, oh well.. True

[@lucychegem367]

Yes

[@edwardsimon2274]

I know these two people, was there myself during the wedding. Funny twist.

[@amekaimbaya7370]

Her laughter is so interesting,it makes the story juicy

[@wodeyaeric5351]

Not as interesting as it is mischievous!!

[@wodeyaeric5351]

There is so much that's not being told to make for an innocent victim!!

[@connieconny3584]

Waiting from the Lord is not easy, it needs patience and a lot of it!!!!.... God help all the ladies waiting from you meet the right men from you

[@joypeace3172]

It was a deep spiritual attack

[@margyblessing]

This sounds like my story with the so called MOG

[@amjudith]

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[@evangelistirenegaita958]

This girl is a strong woman,more grace in your life

[@wodeyaeric5351]

Our morhers' generation are the real strong ladies. This one of ours is of somewhat shaky ones!!

[@teachermichaelofficial7860]

Aki si Mungu tuh anipatie chance ya kupendwa na dem mrembooo hiii design aki....l can be the man there has ever been promise....

[@maggiewangari]

Start being nice now and to people around you...don't wait for a lady for you to be nice...May God hear your prayers.

[@theblessedpaulashow]

Awww May God hear your cry

[@steveirungu3132]

Marriage is a corrupt institution I'm extremely sorry 😐😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔 that's the bitter truth by Steve Irungu Jermaine

[@KenyanAtHeart]

Bring this lady again for a part 2 to finish her story. She is very interesting

[@janetwakio3680]

So sad that men of the cloth are associated with such brutality. I agree with you that young people should look out for the red flags because underneath the cloth is still a man. Watched both episodes & glad you still have a smile & advocate for marriage even after divorce. I am a Pastor's wife & know firsthand that marriage works when with the right person. God bless you & your ministry

[@chananikidstv4749]

Aaaamen

[@msmuthoni5193]

she is a really good storyteller! Thanks for the lesson

[@mercykalendi]

I love her energy.I am going to buy that book! God loves you.I admire to see angels as well

[@chananikidstv4749]

Thank you. Kindly order the books through 0700002797. Thanks

[@sophia4christ]

This man is a narcissist. They are so evil. Smh

[@wodeyaeric5351]

Possibly not a narcissist but got challenges with what he expected a wife to be and what she got. There r people who believe marriage has to be egalitarian (based on equality) and yet it takes divorce for a marriage to be equal. It is only unfortunate that we are told one side of the story. The man would fill in the gaps in this lady's version of what happened and u would appreciate the story better.

[@christinenzioki4588]

@@wodeyaeric5351 I disagree with you. Nothing justifies Violence and throwing stools at another person. A bad person is just a bad person and this is exactly why victims of violence don't speak up. People doubting their stories.

[@wodeyaeric5351]

@@christinenzioki4588 Xtine,i am extremely zero tolerant to violence whatever the context--marital or otherwise. My problem is how sympathies are pouring based on a one-sided story. How do explain a lady's decision to marry this kind of man if this was his nature from word go? In case he behaved differently in the build up to the wedding,what changed after the wedding for stools to begin crossing? This is when I insist that his story would help us come closer to the truth!! Otherwise,the danger with sympathizing with a one sided story is to scare away unmarried girls as if marriage is only violent and nothing else.

[@beckyisaac538]

When you see her laughing, she has healed.

[@aliceo9529]

I kept myself for cooking ugali lol

[@Krizadh]

I understand that kind of guy she is talking of... The mr. Righ looks and composure.. Chizi ni wewe( mimi)

[@vivianhinzano2967]

I have shared this amazing beautiful humble show....ladies.... don't wait to see a miracle from a monster. Flee as fast. Moyowangu Tu.

[@mercywangui1936]

I knew this lady Pastor back then she was like the prettiest lady I wish you could all see her not pregnant beautiful gorgeous woman. So sorry that she went through so much. Grateful that she survived. Glory to God that she's about to be blessed with a baby. The God of wonders has done it for her. Incase you are reading comments And are going through a rough time, God is about to shift you. In Jesus name!

[@michellenjeri9662]

Amen

[@janetkaveke7270]

Amen

[@majorieaddo2217]

Amen

[@chananikidstv4749]

Awwwwww. God bless you!!!

[@monicakyarimpa3196]

Amen

[@hannahlukianoff7479]

😂😂😂😂😂that we were even fighting coz of elections. I'm breaking my ribs😂😂😂😂. 🙋🏾‍♀️ Germany

[@xoxomacx2539]

She really likes colour. I can visualise the Runda home in the village.

[@ThatBeeyatch]

I only watch to see what she is wearing today . This way this lady dresses is my winner . Today she has come looking like The immaculate Mary 😂😂😂

[@amekaimbaya7370]

Why would someone divorce such a nice lady,she is story teller

[@victoriousinspiration3651]

Woooooow! Real Angels like that's Amazing. Glory to Jesus Christ!

[@monicahmwangi8901]

Looking forward to part 2

[@nancyoniala4659]

Never ignore the red flags .Amen

[@zinhlesibeko2329]

I can relate to her story. Wow!!!

[@bettynthembwa760]

Please bring her back... We need to hear more of the story..

[@maryamia9473]

I like how she's laughing at herself🤣she's hilarious. We thank God that you left in one piece🙏God is always speaking to them that are sincere in heart and deligently seek Him, but we never listen unfortunately.

[@junewambui9293]

If this doesn't convince you that Christianity issa scam...I don't know what will😂

[@ashleytusha5492]

What does Christianity have to do with this?

[@judithtwinomugisha8917]

No my dear it's the devils scam. It's not about christianity but we need to always ask God in our every step of life and when it comes to marriage us ladies always get excited and forget to involve God and things get wrong!

[@janetwasike3337]

Kwani mtoto anazaliwa na one month? God have mercy

[@comfiik2856]

haha " I KEPT MYSELF TO COOK UGALI' lol ...

[@jesusisenough6422]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@comfiik2856]

@@jesusisenough6422 😂😂

[@puritymaina8133]

I listened to this lady while being interviewed by Monica Kagoni it's quite hilarious can't mind listen once and again

[@trizahkabui1552]

Am sorry you went through that, I can feel the pain in her voice, woie But she's strong enough to even afford to laugh 😁

[@annemwangi565]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA That part of "he muted my microphone" Sijawahi cheka hivo haki, her laughter is something else.

[@gracekabucho]

Lynn, we need a detailed interview.....

[@amjudith]

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[@dorisjessy5960]

True anafaa kuwa tuko ndio tupate hii story vipoa aki

[@nancykangai1901]

I love the fact that she is a woman of faith and God has not abandoned her

[@carolwambua5250]

I just love how she's telling the story.shes great oo.acha niende kwa part 2

[@carohlynnah4046]

i love this lady she is narrating confidentily

[@mndanu_ke]

Can somebody explain to me what red flags are, because at this point I'm scared of loving

[@clementineonami]

Google more about narcissism, toxic and broken men. Men play games on women and use them without any feeling of guilt. Know your worth and if your gut tells you something is wrong somewhere, don't ignore. When in a healthy relationship you feel secure, cared for and wanted

[@justinamusyoka4986]

Indications that some things are not adding up,you are left with question marks.

[@mndanu_ke]

@@clementineonami ,Okay. Thanks

[@mndanu_ke]

@@justinamusyoka4986 .Thanks

[@pm1647]

Listen to you gut your instincts that's Gods gift to you it tells you when something is wrong

[@_submitted]

Call me crazy but rather than become paranoid ... I think Barbara went through this for the purpose of that book being birthed ... It's key to not ignore red flags though ... Trust me ... I'm engaged and I have no clue if what I say 'naah' to are red flags sometimes ... The first marriage I witnessed (my parents) was abusive and I don't want 😕... I'm trusting God through and through and calling things out immediately I notice and gauging ... working qith him and trying to soberly see if we are on the same page ...

[@isarwatta4165]

Ññ

[@godsown4683]

Good luck

[@klmno9065]

I can relate to this.

[@wisdomlife]

We need this lady back....

[@katekatenes1929]

Mine did a wedding nnnnn here I am healed and happy he did not marriy me

[@m.kkawish2023]

Haki hii ni funnysad story. Storyteller ni wa nguvu n she is very beautiful.

[@preciousoutwesigav5867]

And no one is talking about the flowers on the head

[@janealice4591]

Also wondering why all this bulky flower deco🤣

[@hilenikullakapepo9338]

I think the flowers were for the honeymoon 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@annendutagitaka4748]

This Barbra is just funny😂😂😂😂. An emotional story but a very funny story.

[@annthuo2140]

Aki she is so cute 🥰❤️ n a good story teller

[@yohaneztheos2556]

Interesting interview right here !

[@irenejoyce8456]

No seriously, are you guys listening to her? Girl you are soooo funny. Please start talking to brides at a fee, I’d love to have at my bridal shower. Soooo funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@chananikidstv4749]

Awww. Thank you. Kindly Book her through 0700002797

[@wanguikamau5428]

I have no words..waah 😞

[@catherinemuhami4878]

This is my story narrated at length

[@margaretkasura2571]

Sorry dear

[@Vuvu_Vuyanzi.]

The reason I fear men😔