Part II: Inside the Gay Bathhouse!

[@williammckenneyiii7817]

Davey Wavey and Leland: you guys are great! Your take on this is hilarious! But also real and real sane. The douche anecdote followed by the Aussie followed by the Josh stalker... just wonderful!

[@laurayu70]

As a Korean, I've been to many bathhouses... but bathhouses in Asia are only for washing

[@paulortiz8063]

That little queen sure is annoying!

[@RedRoseEmoji]

does leland have a twitter or instagram or anything? :0

[@jackyottawa]

The saunas are a pretty intimidating place (especially for younger guys) Best thing for newbies to do is to go with a friend on a slow night just to get the area of the place down and know where everything is. I go with clients on weekdays in the morning so I hardly see anyone. When I do, they're mainly old guys watching me shower. The black-out nights are always fun as well, although I wouldn't recommend a first timer to go on one of those nights alone.

[@JerryFess]

Yeah right Davey - your whole existence revolves around a bathhouse.

[@mrblf652]

They definitely went back. They act like they were horrifed but they definitely both went back.

[@MegaVincentChan]

Damn. So I've never been to a bath house, but if there are guys like this there, I am totally IN!!! Leland ... call me maybe!

[@nycfan2003]

When Leland used the word "pop" for soft drinks, I knew I liked him. I'm from the Midwest. Davey, I enjoy longer segments with other guys. This was great. Tom

[@njohnca]

Maybe bathhouses are past their prime, gay men have so many choices now, but once upon a time it was either the bar or the bathhouse.

[@jeyart94]

no... just him, and he makes it a little bit contagious... but it works for him.

[@quailchow]

how are they stereotyping gay men just by talking about their own experience?

[@petehoover6616]

Good job describing a common experience that folks who aren't gay men don't get to have. (And when you describe what goes on in a gay bathhouse to a straight man, he wishes he had some sort of arrangement like it but none exists)

[@XavierShadowdancer]

By the description of the bathrooms. I know in fact it was Steamworks LOL. Awesome. Love that place.

[@RedNekLvr22]

I think the thing they don't want to say on video is that they don't feel they need-or aren't desperate enough to go to-the bathhouse. I know they say everyone should go once, but you can hear in their voices that they disliked it, if not hated it, for the most part. They more they talked about it the more uncomfortable they acted. I know it's not for everyone, but there is something to be said for getting your rocks off without the bullshit. And Grindr and Growlr are often hard to deal with

[@phoenix3370]

So I was right, Davey did get recognized! Unfortunately I was wrong on Leland did as well. Not by someone that lived in his neighborhood though so I was also right again

[@AskStormi]

you two are amazing together on camera! lol Loved it Davey keep pumping out great vids sir :) XOXO Stormi Rayne.

[@JesseColton]

I swear I had to reread this comment twice before I realized it didn't say "I want to take a leak on Leland."

[@katherine11138]

do more bathhouse vids omg i love them too much!!!!

[@uamusme77]

Even the thought of bathhouses scare the mess out of me. I couldn't bring myself to even go inside one. I will say davey is cute, and his friend leland is super cute as well.

[@xfathi]

lol i just saw leland on "coaster wars: world domination" on the travel channel taking his 19 year old female friend on a coaster in canada LOL.

[@NotContinuum]

Leland is incredibly adorable.

[@rifqi7san]

LELAND is like my idol *_*

[@FerrarisBRILL]

I blame myself for getting addicted :s

[@adamq123]

I think you uploaded this in the wrong channel, didn't you intend to post this video on DaveyWaveyRaw?? ;)

[@sparkymarky710]

Leland is so gorgeous. I would change my life for him

[@derekplaster]

I love the faces you guys we're making! Hilarious!

[@shelberz1]

thank you for doing this video, neat issue/event. the end about the height was SO cute! LMBO =oDD

[@nikoincroatia]

I hope Josh got double-teamed by these two. Lucky bastard.

[@aldo125]

sometimes they offer memeberships where going to a bathouse wont cost you as much as if you dont have a membership

[@koolppl21]

John cena is that you?

[@paulthor6255]

Oooh, the Gay Bathhouse; Such a maze ing fun place to be.😀

[@gentrybrown2032]

So for me it’s way better than grinder… always turns into 50 texts back and forth. Like for real just put me in a room full of dudes. I pick a couple I want and I’m done. No catfishing, no wasted time.

[@dynaco]

gay stereotypes, yes - but why negative? They just are.

[@equalpizzavideos]

this needs to be a tradition

[@oson3061]

Bathhouses sure sound like fun but they aren't very safe with people having random sexual encounters with each other. My alternative is a regular full body massage. I get one every month ^^

[@thefilipinojoe]

VERY NICE! Enjoyed it a lot! See you at the bathhouse. :P

[@danielgoes2lane]

Leland is so cute!

[@MeisterG1979]

The CBC (Club Bath Chain) was pretty hot and fun in the '80's. I was a frequent visitor to the one in Dallas.

[@matticulously]

I thought you were doing an English accent, haha! Best/worst Australian accent I've ever heard. ;D

[@drewholm6113]

I have to be honest. I do not mind bath houses. I goto steamworks in Chicago sometimes. Yes sometimes i play and i live a 3 hours drive from Chicago and been out had a little to much to drink or just tired. So 35 is alot cheaper than a dui or falling asleep at the wheel. I have met alot of kewl people there too.

[@aaronravenwood4217]

you accent voice sounds so much like pinky from pinky and the brain :D

[@Caspian22]

The commenters on the accent obviously aren't family..I was focused more on their hot bods..lol.. Good blog, but it'd be cool if you'd come experience the spa near here, it's not a bathhouse but it's a good and interesting experience..Thanks again for your continued blogging!!!

[@brownbuter]

i bet that tall dark guy was popular at the bathhouse

[@youngforeverandlovingit473]

no if you look very cute and young like me you are super hot in a bath house I am a dream boy for older guys I like 50 plus I look like a little teen boy but I am legal.

[@brownbuter]

gross actually. ..nothing more nasty than a 30 year old trying to look like a 16 year old. ..gross...bcuz it's obvious you're not a teenager

[@youngforeverandlovingit473]

You right I'm not a teenager but I look very young and I love it I have gene hormone disorder I look no more than 20 you wish you had my disorder i do not age like you do i am 50 years old and I feel like 19 super energy and I bet I am more attractive than you if you were 50 and look hot like me you go crazy thats why i like 50 plus helloooo, and if you see me in the bath house you be like every body there chasing me or and in less than 2 years I have been with over 400 men every body thinks I am no older than 19 so you wish you had my disorder look at my videos and learn from an experienced probably I am older than you but I am super hot I am toy boy don't go crazy if you ever see me on the bath house. I am going tonight. And I am legal cooooool I am 5 feet tall 120 pounds super hot toy boy I will record my self and posted on my like videos don't get jealous of the the world's youngest 50 year old gay teenager. The only one year that me...

[@youngforeverandlovingit473]

+brown buter don't get a hard on on me ok.

[@youngforeverandlovingit473]

yes 1967 is my year yuuuuupppeeeee I am still look hot.

[@garyrawlinson1647]

oh contraire

[@blueboymjc]

next time Leland needs to post when he is going to Steamworks in Toronto so we can all give hime the welcome he deserves

[@talusranch990]

Being thrown into an electric Arc furnace with a bunch of red hot steel would be scary too :-). Just think about it makes me hot

[@iFauxPas]

How on earth were they being too critical? The bathhouse obviously isn't really their thing, but they still went in with an open mind and were willing to share their honest opinion. To a lot of people (including myself) the idea of anonymous sex is very unappealing, but at least they gave bathhouses the benefit of the doubt.

[@Miquell84]

I just LOVE Leland! and his smile...

[@JordanjamesX]

I also want to add bathhouses are important maybe not to Leland and Davey but to tons of gay men. Also, bathhouses are not perfect but they are a social space YES some gay men actually form connections in a bathhouse whether friendships or even relationships. I know relationships do not commonly occur in a bathhouse but they do happen. It just means they want to have fun. Nothing wrong with consenting adults having sex. Not everyone wants to waste their Friday or Saturday night in a gay bar.

[@clarencechng511]

is there anyway to see more of Leland he is so cute

[@MVE200]

OMG, Davey, you should take Haley Star to a bathhouse for her birthday ! .........

[@curtisjensen]

Leland & Davey contact me and you can get your next trip to Steamworks for free! I'm the Director of Marketing for the chain and I'll set you up. I'm so glad you guys tried it and that over all it sounds like you had a good time.

[@waltagaskill9721]

hi back in the 60s there was the club baths all over the US the one in fl. was the first one to open i lived there 4 about a mo. lol lov it then i hit the one in NY i meat miss M there that is where she became the gay star any way it was fun then

[@EmilySuydam]

My question was how does he give people the idea that All gay men are sex addicted? Talking about gay men in a bath house isn't talking about every single gay man in the world. Just like if he was talking about straight men who take part in things like a bath house, he wouldn't be talking about every single straight man in the world...He could talk about the subjects you listed too but even those can't represent the entire community.

[@JasonGeldmacher]

I've only been to two. It was definitely an experience.

[@swmacnab]

You should do a show on Chest Hair or Not? Leland could do the vlog cast with you. Do you like him better with or without chest hair? I love him with the chest hair. Question to ask why do men feel compleded to shave their chest? Should they just embrace/love themselves as they are? etc...

[@jdee4325]

Davey I HOPE you left a comment about the dush

[@moblue2899]

dude! please give us links to Leland's instagram or twitter or something

[@zhaneranger]

Your new hair looks good davey!

[@iLOVEpicklesBRO28]

Jeez Davey.... all your vlog buddies wanna get a piece of Leland!!

[@BriggsVanDault]

The lighting here doesn't flatter your cute face at all, Davey. :(

[@MANMARTRE]

They exist for hetero's elsewhere in the world, such as Europe, Asia, Australia, South America...and even in Africa.

[@bradwill614]

sounds like steamworks lol

[@MrRussianov]

i can't keep my eyes off this Leland guy

[@johnlafirst5389]

I Wanna try it but I was scared to do it. NO one will go with me

[@storytellervdwpiper]

davey wavey is coming to a bath house, you never know XD i hope soon in Netherlands :P

[@akaskent]

two hot guys go to a bathhouse and have no sex.

[@DandyDon1]

Colorful Kent A married couple doesn't have sex ever. ;)

[@JordanjamesX]

only one is hot and it is not Davey Wavey.

[@chrismiller4844]

+Colorful Kent Yeah, and don't get HIV. Sounds good to me.

[@JasonQiuMusic]

Leland is so cute!

[@JordanjamesX]

I also want to point out a bathhouse for a lot of gay men is actually more than just sex it is a safe space for gay men to meet each other. Men at the bathhouse don't have to worry about homophobes, or worry about being attacked. Some gay men even form relationships and friendships by meeting someone at a bathhouse. Also, some gay men such as myself I don't like gay bars I hate them they don't do anything for me. The bathhouse to me seems more realistic. Gay bars and clubs are bullshit.

[@mikeydud]

Years ago I worked in a gay bath house near dowtown. I was never in a bath house until I had been out for several years and it was part-time work on weekends which worked out fine for me so I took the job. It was checking guys in, taking their money, giving them their ID cards (if they were new members) dispensing a towel, buzzing the door to let them in and doing laundry. There were minimum rooms so a waiting list was available. I was told by my boss that I could use the bathhouse facilities anytime I wasn't working but after a few weeks, there was no way I was going to take off my clothes and walk around barefoot in a towel. It was a pig sty; the carpets should have been steam cleaned every week but they weren't (finding a pile of crap on the carpet wasn't anything new). They did however drain and scrub out the whirlpool which was no consolation. If a guy rented a room (extra charge) he was given a sheet and each time a room was vacated, the sheet had to be changed and those who worked there didn't enjoy that challenge because we never knew what we would find. At that time smoking was allowed in the rooms and it wasn't uncommon to find puke in the ashtray. There were 2 orgy rooms, one large, one small and those sheets got changed 1x week--should have been every day!!! There was a lounge with TV (no vending machines for condoms or snacks--this was the pre AIDS era) and an 8 mm porn night on Tuesday provided by our local bookstore. The whirlpool looked inviting with adjacent showers and for fun sometime someone would dump detergent in the water for bubbles which went everywhere. There was a work-out area on the second floor (some weights and a bench) and a sunbathing area on the roof for sunny days in the summer. The baths never closed; it was a 24/7 operation. The worst time was after the bars closed at 2:30. Then it got busy and too many of the customers were smashed leading to more complications. My motive for taking the job was of course extra money but I also thought it would be a great place to meet guys and it was but I never saw them again. A lot of married guys frequented the baths so of course dating was out of the question. It was basically a place to go to get off and nothing more. I finally quit because I couldn't take the overnight Saturday shift which was always mine. It wasn't too long afterward the AIDS epidemic hit and the baths quietly closed. The building stood empty for years and the last time I drove by, it had been demolished. I'm not sorry I took the job; it was an experience and a real eye opener.

[@ryanwitwickifaddegon4291]

Yeah they're still around, nothing has changed.

[@markwagner42]

Michael Vanormer Hi

[@imavampire510]

Oh my god! You guys went to Steamworks! Haha! I recognize the flashlight since I work at the Berkeley location! & yes, Thursdays it is still lights out party! Well, at least you guys had an interesting experience :) & no, that guy was not supposed to have his camera with him, since it is all anonymous :P

[@ticosweat]

true "lights out" could be very dangerous. steamworks in chicago has "lights out" party but the exit lights are still on and a few other low level lights. you don't need a flashlight. these guys are very inexperienced.

[@DavidKen878]

I get the feeling Davey goes to bathhouses just for recognition and praise. He doesn't even actually participate.

[@richardb2837]

hes not into that sex scene

[@chrismiller4844]

+MrJTYoung7 And that's a bad thing? Do you mean he doesn't participate in the spread of disease?

[@Kickballkixcereal]

Or he’s just one of those picky gays that only likes other muscular guys

[@JerryFess]

Agreed.

[@2Bdiscovered]

@@Kickballkixcereal HE CAN'T BE TOO PICKY. HE'S SO GAY, EVEN HIS ASSHOLE HAS A LISP.

[@RegalPlatypus]

I'm a bit taken aback by all the negative comments. I'm a younger gay man (

[@CheerGuyJ23]

Does Leland have his own youtube? I'd love to see more of him. He's completely adorable. :)

[@CleberLirio]

Seriously? C'mon... It's not big deal... Bette Middler can tell you all about it.. :-)

[@faeezcassim8611]

Hi Daveywavey good day sorry I don't know what time is on your side am sorry if I woke you up now I would love to know now have you had your blog on KZbin I jast need some info on a iphone I know I will need one if I upload a blog for me am Daveywavey I'm from out of town I'm in SA right now am sorry DaveyWavey I'm South Africa now I would like to know if the law and people are upset over the gay been married on your side please Daveywavey do a check please I enjoy your blog DaveyWavey alot jast the thing is my mom knows about me still I know she needs some time please need some help to make it not hard for her and me

[@chrismiller4844]

This sounds so foul...like seriously, gross.

[@VlaamsSoldat]

Agreed.

[@rpprevost]

What you didn't say is...There is bath house ediquette you should know prior to going. Go with a veteran on your first visit. If you don't know anyone, don't be afraid or embarrassed to ASK the person at the desk. That's why they're there. They will even give you a tour (depending). It doesn't have to be for sex. BHs can be inexpensive lodging when trravelling. It's not a Hilton, but it's not the streets either. Respect each other's kinks, and privacy. Learn the unspoken code of conduct.

[@davenwin1973]

Based on what you described as the place you went, it sounds like you went to Steamworks. They are a clean bath house, & I go to the Chicago location. I would like to check out the Toronto Steamworks, as well as the Berkley, CA location. I however don't recommend Mans Country in Chicago, unless you don't mind a place that doesn't get cleaned properly. It's also run down, due to the fact that it hasn't had much work done to the place, since opening up in the 1970's. Don't know how much longer they'll be in business, as the owner of Man's Country (Chuck Renslow) is in his 80's.

[@allisterfong4867]

Hey guys. I found part one n two very amusing. My first job aside from working at my parents business was at a bathhouse. I’d just come out at 19. Oh the stories.

[@nine110]

What is so great about seeing Leland, is that you have this feeling of approachability with him. He's adorable and appears genuine at heart. More Leland videos, please!

[@iskklenv809]

Here in Manchester , England .. , if you are a student just pay 5 pounds to enter ! =P

[@eddie9492]

Leland is so HOT!! .. Does he have any social networking page he can be followed on?

[@markwagner42]

Eduardo Castañeda. hi

[@markledesma3251]

i like a bath house with a sun deck, a jacuzzi, steam rooms and dark rooms

[@williamf4544]

These places can be quite exiting - no chatting just eye contact - the annonimity of it all - all it needs is a couple of queens mincing about the place chitty chatting to completly kill the mood

[@nlyske]

i couldn't agree more it is very hard to find a partner these days (for serious relationships.

[@mavoisine3]

That tattooed hypocrite probably has been there 200 times. lol No one in Toronto admits to going to the bathhouse. It's a big taboo. In Montreal, it's part of our culture.

[@MarilynRouth]

I think you frequently miss use the term beautiful...

[@pumbaaj]

Sounds like you all are too morally superior for baths. Not all of us are drop dead gorgeous and can find men anywhere. Not all of us act as fashion accessories for straight women. not all of us are out and FAAAABULOUS.

[@rochelleboles4657]

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[@SandPaperCookies]

To each his own, but I don't understand how guys can just have sex with different people all the time. Is one person not enough? I've lost a bit of hope in the gay community around where I live, all they seem to do is hook up with each other and keep count of how many they've been with... I just don't get how they can be so nonchalant about it, just having sex with someone who means nothing to them.

[@Thatdudeoverthere]

I went to a all gay mens resort in my state and I had a terrible experience. They had a steam room so I was like AWESOME I love steam rooms, i was wrinkly from tyhe pool so i needed to dry out a bit. I was stuck in that room for over an hour trying to get out. As soon as I got in the OLD i mean 90 year olds piled in and starting fucking, and its a small room. So in my experience if your trapped loudly proclaim Scuse me i need to get out im feeling dizzy...btw im 25 and wont be going back.

[@clemsonbloke]

Hate to say it but its true. I'd hate to think what these men's employer would think if they found these videos, better yet their parents and family. How can you be some advocate then do videos like this? And whats more in one of the last ones he was talking about going to church? I don't get it.

[@DustinGuillotte]

HAHAHAHA OMG I JUST DIIIIIEEED at the "you just go up to the hole and *makes noise with mouth* and a penis comes through!!" omggg can't stop laughing!

[@FerrarisBRILL]

You've commented like 5 times hon, we get the message. You don't like Grindr or Bathhouses and you also hate Lelan's ink and... you never stop complaining... You're being way too critical and you don't have to watch it, just saying.

[@Wuffskers]

the sucking thing is ridiculous, like really? you couldn't just like gently knock near the hole or something?

[@kittenmoon8425]

Cheep cheep! Cheep! 🐥🐥🐥

[@DustinGuillotte]

My best friend enjoys going to them and he wanted to bring me and my bf so we went and I enjoyed it. I'm not one to really hook-up anonymously, but it was definitely a fun/interesting experience and I'd def go back. I love the excitement of it, plus I love being naked and love that you can walk around in the nude.

[@Msjamiesweetstuff]

No one cares about your religious nonsense. Is this video about religion? No. It has absolutely nothing to do with religion so please take you're religious views to another video.