Paul CALLS OUT Made in Chelsea Miles on his behaviour | Celebs Go Dating

[@lukethomasdillon3762]

Miles wants girls to fancy him even though he doesnt fancy them back

[@beyondlondon8600]

Narcissism and control

[@thehoneyeffect]

yep, feeds his huge ego....he's pretty though so he could get away with acting like a fuckboy for years...he'd probably end up destroying his soul in the process

[@lukethomasdillon3762]

@@thehoneyeffect he’s a good looking fella so I feel like he thinks he can just chat waffle with girls and kind of just coast by with bland playful chat. I’m glad Paul clocked it

[@beyondlondon8600]

@@thehoneyeffect his father also enables him by belittling and brushing off accusations against Miles of being selfish, dishonest and a gameplayer, as funny or untrue.

[@Micsq4lv]

Miles has a void. Avoid the void, ladies. Do not fawn a black hole. Miles needs to go to therapy, with his father - they will never be that brave.

[@ladom6315]

Paul's advice is actually amazing, especially at the end when he clarifies some things. He's definitely a natural mentor and holding someone accountable as well as giving someone standards to reach is a really good thing. How else can we grow if others don't do that for us?

[@mandapandajane]

usually we can grow from our own mistakes and actions... but some people as rich as they are, can't afford it

[@bambina5604]

@@mandapandajane that's a really good way of putting it

[@persephoneastrology7115]

Paul very delicately told him he has narcissistic traits

[@Micsq4lv]

And then his father told him he gave those narcissistic traits to him. And Miles didn’t listen either time.

[@DarlingSofie]

Everyone gets a reality check at some point in their lives. This was his.

[@louisetaylorhales287]

I don’t think he received it or will ulter his ways though. He’s happy how he is clearly.

[@DarlingSofie]

@@louisetaylorhales287 Very true. It will probably take a while for any of those words to hit home.

[@rosk.wilburn5847]

Finally.

[@rosk.wilburn5847]

@@louisetaylorhales287 well he gas made money acting like a f boy on tv for years.

[@kendaljones7068]

100% Agree with you x

[@dr.nainayeri4706]

He's so bang on about miles. I have always said miles is very selfish and self absorbed. He is so good at deflecting responsibility for anything he does. Messing with people's relationships, cheating.. it's hard to watch sometimes

[@deeshan9844]

Miles to Paul: "You've slandered my character. It's very insulting and I don't take it lightly." Miles to Dad: "If he sees selfishness in me it's probably because yeah, I am a bit selfish." LOL

[@supernova7848]

😂😂😂😂 that was hilarious!

[@Thomas-mb3dj]

Imagine getting badly offended when someone gives you constructive criticism. He couldn't even articulate a solid defence and ran away when he knew deep down it was true. Guys remember don't let your emotions control you and see when someone is coming from. Your emotions may not always be correct to the truth of reality

[@smithhoowe]

Defense not Defence, please do not be offended by my constructive criticism.

[@Thomas-mb3dj]

@@smithhoowe I'm English mate, it's the correct spelling 🤣.

[@rosk.wilburn5847]

He is super needy

[@mandapandajane]

I could not be happier that this was said. And his reaction... priceless

[@supernova7848]

His reaction was no reaction

[@maheshunlimited]

I always thought he has narcissistic personality disorder. He knows how to mirror people and be charming and social without actually revealing anything about himself... But I also don't think there's more to him than a person who really loves being pretty and getting short lived attention.

[@amerikanka]

People can have a couple of narcissistic traits and not full blown NPD. we have to be careful with that. Miles seems to me to have avoidant attachment. Many avoidant people, including myself, have a hard time getting into committed relationships due to childhood neglect and typically emotional abuse. Avoidant people stay single for very long--notice he's the only man on the show that hasn't had a committed relationship in the entirety of his time on the series. Also, avoidant people can enjoy short lived flings and casual romances because we have feelings of discomfort around sharing too much of our time with people. It makes sense that he was in a relationship with Maeva because it was long distance, AND she behaves anxiously attached, two relationship dynamics avoidants can get in a cycle of accepting. Of all the men from the history of MIC, I think Spencer Matthews had more traits of npd if we're gonna speculate, although I really don't like to do that. But people with NPD are codependent and need relationships in order to have a partner they can control, manipulate or feel better than. And Spencer was rarely single. He had a cycle of love bombing women, gaslighting them, blame-shifting, and discarding them on autopilot with a merry go round of new girls coming in just as another relationship ended. So he seems to fulfill that speculative diagnosis way more, but i still feel uncomfortable saying he has NPD because we don't spend enough quality time with these people to say that

[@maheshunlimited]

@@amerikanka I remember Miles early seasons he was cute and somewhat unproblematic, and then he got popular online and had a physical body transformation to basically streamline all the compliments he got on his looks. I think having that much attention went to his head and he takes it as happiness. So much of his personality was built on his looks, It's hard to think what miles would be like if he wasn't good looking.

[@abdirahman292]

@@amerikanka can't disagree with your points.

[@rosk.wilburn5847]

The way he treated maeva yikes

[@BBHair1]

Oh that's sad...

[@cormactaylor9539]

Ngl I think he's actually shy-confident. He doesn't have great conversational skills so resorts to flirting. He hides his shyness with fake confidence. He draws in girls because he doesn't know how to not flirt.

[@blondie9422]

I think you’re spot on. I used to be the same with men I fancied and would just say “kiss me!” So we didn’t have to speak

[@rosk.wilburn5847]

Are u high?

[@lesleymbuyikayembe7553]

That's so accurate!!! I know few guys like that

[@deedee-oo5qo]

So true! I don't think he's naturally confident and has to project a different image.

[@jamrockk]

No he's just a player

[@Deedee-ee1sg]

LOL he's spot on. Miles has always been like this, he's so used to having loads of women fawning over him, and he's a player! Add to that he's rich and spoilt!! He's exactly like this on M.I.C LOL.

[@linapesz313]

100%

[@rosk.wilburn5847]

110%

[@thehoneyeffect]

Truth hurts. This was deep and a gift, Paul is brilliant... Listen, you dont wanna get to age 45 and be learning this about yourself better to get that reality check early in life

[@rosk.wilburn5847]

Amen!!!!++

[@Nushka23]

Admits he is selfish to his dad, then denies it to Paul by gaslighting: “I’m not selfish and I’m sorry if that’s what you see”. Severe attachment and ego issues. The father doesn’t seem any better.

[@therantingboy]

Gaslighting is Miles standard operating procedure

[@meganalyssabowden3494]

He is selfish and self obsessed tho🤣 to the point he can’t accept criticism from someone who’s supposed too be critical!

[@rosk.wilburn5847]

Yep.

[@lucasdunn1147]

Word

[@XQN-R]

Literally everything Paul has said is what his cast mates say about him on the show? So why is he surprised unless he’s playing role and forgets to turn it off.

[@shelleysanders9666]

Extremely perceptive & well-expressed by Paul. Sadly Miles has not changed yet & still follows this pattern in the latest ‘Made in Chelsea’ series (Nov/Dec.2022)

[@I.R_Inori]

I agree

[@ashleykamina5802]

and he still hasn't til this day (Nov 23/ Dec 23)

[@samwhitehouse8880]

Mate anyone who’s seen Made in Chelsea’s does not think you’re a perfect guy😂😂

[@jasminelaceyfitz1724]

Most people anit but at surface level he seems a nice guy

[@Justrobschannel]

Paul is great, the way he speaks is amazing

[@naobe5]

Telling a shallow person, leading a shallow life(hello? Reality TV personality 🙄)that he's shallow and superficial??? Groundbreaking!🤣🤣

[@nadiasoho1]

He only accepted the critique when he was complimented highly.

[@Bartizzle739]

He’s a guy who’s clearly not used to someone talking down to him or telling him how they really feel and in a genuine situation.

[@originalyou4069]

I notice his Dad didn't deny it! He just told Miles to not let it 'get him down'...🤭

[@feyrol42]

💀

[@constancewright8375]

Paul was right sorry he just took it the wrong way

[@lesleywright2823]

The truth hurts, he goes crying to daddy after this scene, miles is a spoilt brat, all be it a very handsome spoilt brat 😂

[@blondie9422]

Exactly! His name should be Veruca Nazaire instead of Miles

[@zainss9626]

Albeit **

[@mysterymaverick1982]

The best gift you can give someone is honesty. Well I think it's a iPad. 😂 I love Rob Beckett 🤦‍♀️

[@embisonjones4996]

🤣🤣🤣

[@bch4688]

Hit the nail on the head... Selfish. he's that deluded he believes it's all lies. Wow someone's had an ego bashing lol

[@flexproductions08]

Go cry

[@voguevibes6914]

Its like getting told off by a teacher

[@pancakesandtea]

Miles was seething, because it was the truth and he couldn't handle it.

[@Checkedend]

Miles is young and gorgeous, he has girls throwing themselves at him. It does make a person selfish to a degree. I believe its the same for many in his position. Its not OK to hurt someone intentionally but its OK to figure yourself and world out especially at 20 something years old. He is not maliciously trying to be selfish, he will be just fine.

[@tanyalowe7150]

Miles has no insight to his shallow personality. He is young hopefully he will have some cop on in the future.

[@embisonjones4996]

Hahaha..... All the women praising Paul for being honest with him. The reason he's that way is because women have made it easy for him.

[@I.R_Inori]

Finally he gets called out on his behavior. And then 8:19 the voice over 😂

[@hollyann5656]

Yes its about time that someone calls him out for his bullshit

[@shelleysanders9666]

Paul is so, so insightful and articulate, and is totally right. Miles' reaction is to be defensive and not accepting this - no accountability. (This shows immaturity). On reflection he takes a little on board when speaking to his, father. Miles' serial dating will continue unless he finally wakes up. Spencer & Jamie emotionally matured and found fantastic wives.

[@Justrobschannel]

Miles gets criticism and sulks and blames other people

[@thecitizenjoan]

I’ve recently realized how selfish I can be from how I treated my friend and I didn’t like realizing it either, it’s never fun digging up our flaws and imperfections but that’s where seeds of growth are planted. If you choose to be in a relationship you’re choosing to have another person be apart of your world. Choosing True Love is putting someone else’s needs above your own, considering that person to be superior to your own selfish needs. The world is filled with selfishness which is why the divorce rate is so high and people struggle to find a marriage mate, but when you find someone you really love it’s actually easy to not be selfish you want to put them ahead of yourself but it’s hard if you don’t really love the person. I think Miles hasn’t found someone yet he really loves but I hope he does.

[@abigailstubbs]

Miles came off so rude at the end

[@123stephm]

Miles still rude towards end how he leaves the conversation….. he need watch this back evaluate his body language and wants his ego boost by people who are going not tear apart his character. He’s doing the most…

[@BBHair1]

Agree... 👏

[@ellyneilsen2865]

Maybe there is something in Miles’ background that makes him scared to reveal the true him and he’s not ready to give up being a bachelor just yet?

[@lilmizeezee8350]

Probably his ex going off with his best friend...it was on mad ein chelsea 🤣 😮

[@ceejay3497]

Who is this narrator? He is so funny and such mood

[@curlyb9560]

Rob Beckett :o)

[@MandyD445]

The truth is some people are born selfless/altruistic and through interpersonal relationships & various life lessons must learn how to put themselves first. This seems to be the case here. 👁️ Can't help but feel that Miles sees himself as misunderstood. He also seems to have a fear of intimacy&commitment and an idealistic view of what love should be. He seeks perfectionism in himself&the women he dates which obviously doesn't exist yet the quest continues...He doesn't let people in easily as he's been hurt before and this means he's wary about who he interacts with yet simultaneously chases validation in order to feel good enough. Bottom line: low self worth. ✨

[@jojomarch]

Posh boy gets appropriate constructive feedback in a situation he signed up for, posh boy doesn't like feedback so runs to daddy. Cliched much?

[@Micsq4lv]

Made to be ignorant. Wonder if he’ll ever even want to know who he actually is.

[@bzebee5979]

Miles has typical Sagittarius sun and Sagittarius moon male behaviour. Very shallow people.

[@ririririPXN]

Doesn't Miles realised that we actually saw this "big betrayal" from friends and girlfriends on MiC? 👀 Does he genuinely believe that he was dumped by his girlfriend who left him for his best friend? So Miles wants to treat people horribly, they suffer and it doesn't come around to him?

[@BBHair1]

I really thought Miles knew himself, was aware of his traits and 'consciously' doing the things he did because he was simply not ready to settle down... But, it seems he is not aware of how his actions affect others and losing himself in all this tv madness. Sad really as he started out as a kind of nice guy, as far as these people in the public eye can be/are... If I was to give any advice I would say that he got caught up, in the games and trauma/drama of the wrong type of girl and has now become accustomed to the 'false' high that that gives him. He really needs to refocus on who he is and what he wants in a relationship i.e. the mirror of his family relationships and re-track to get back to that. Ultimately, the right type of girl in his head might be the wrong type of girl to spend your life/time with...

[@katherinewalshnews]

Why does Miles have his father’s number saved by his government name? 😮

[@noella9234]

He does this on made in chelsea aswell. Make girls fall for him, talks them into bed and then ditches them.

[@i.i1215]

Miles got put in his place by a real black man

[@englishrose4388]

That’s a conversation that, if had, should be in private. No cameras. No audience. No show.

[@embisonjones4996]

That's what they sign up for

[@kayayy]

Couldn’t have said it better myself Paul 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Xo.Harvey]

Oh Miles, forever turning it around on himself...he never takes any accountability for his actions! Yes, he is very selfish when it comes to dating.. I believe he is used to getting what he has wanted all his life so he sees no error in his actions. Bout time someone laid it out for him for how it is!

[@rosk.wilburn5847]

Haha so true.

[@ralphlyda4545]

If he leads the ladies on during the date when they actually have no chance with him, why didn’t they say that he should either a) give them a chance, or b) let them know they don’t have a chance before the date is over ?

[@elbt101]

He's using his MIC "my character" speech lol.

[@shangrila1559]

Nobody thinks you are perfect Miles OMG the ego

[@IndigoCosmic]

People are so critical in the comments. He can't help how he looks and the fact that women are always all over him. They seem to always focus on his looks and charm so he may not feel the need to go deep with them 🤷🏽‍♀️At least he's allowing the critique.

[@centigradz2centigradz289]

I'm glad he got the truth from them. He is a narcissist and he lashed out. And Paul backed down. Miles is so selfish and probably scared of rejection. He knows he is good looking and he wants everyone to love him. He gets the affirmation from his dad and so he'll never change. Miles is Leo decaprio. He'll go through the catalogue and wouldn't even b in a long term relationship. Btw I was expecting his dad to b very good looking with a lot of hair. Idk y. But I was expecting him to look like Bruno Mars.

[@robynberry7138]

It’s about time someone calls him out

[@linapesz313]

He is super selfish...even on Made in Chelsea he is self centered...so well...

[@rosk.wilburn5847]

Miles is hyper toxic.

[@malayacarey69]

the unfortunate truth is miles is soooo self absorbed that he will hear all this very good advice and forget it the minute he leaves this program

[@amalali504]

I think there's something about Miles that doesn't like women or feels resentful/distrustful towards them hence the dismissiveness/coldness when they reciprocate his advances . Deep down the irony is that he doesn't like himself and will resist change because it got him this far, lots of attention and surface validation without having skin in the "game" of love.

[@haryel5058]

Miles want a Boyfriend. He doesn’t want to do the job with women

[@nikoletapretargova6331]

Hahaha OMG I thought the same thing

[@lesleymbuyikayembe7553]

Mad

[@lesleymbuyikayembe7553]

Mad

[@jamrockk]

Yeah he seems to be too into himself

[@florence2095]

I understand where Miles is coming from. He’s afraid to be hurt again & has his double brick wall up, He needs a natural, down to earth girl with a great sense of humour. Good luck Miles 🙏💕🐨🐨🦘🦘🇦🇺

[@rubza31]

What is he talking about? Didnt he hurt maeva 1st?

[@TulipaBigDipa]

You mean a girl who will take his 🗑? There’s plenty out there but he won’t respect them & he will get bored. He needs to grow up & evolve then he will meet the girl he thinks he deserves otherwise he’ll be unfulfilled moving from girl to girl, & that’s not on the girl but him.

[@jamrockk]

@@TulipaBigDipa he's for the streets

[@stellatzamouranis9221]

Oh but wait, she is coming... 🇦🇺

[@houseofinri.hoi1959]

I don't think Miles is selfish, I think he's very cautious and he won't get into a relationship if it can't get very serious, and he won't make anyone believe he's Inlove, and he is the way he is out of respect, he doesn't want to hurt anyone. You can't make anyone have a deeper relationship with sumone you don't connect with, bcos if you have a deeper relationship when you don't feel it, then That's misleading. Miles is right to not go deeper with Anyone just bcos he's told you.

[@caradanielle1559]

I really want Paul’s advice on my own dating life please 😂🤭

[@tsewangzang1454]

spot on observation 👌

[@henners1k92]

Miles is spoiled and narcissistic. He even admitted on a recent podcast that he sees his life as "a movie" with him at the centre. No wonder he treats everyone else like they don't exist.

[@luphelele]

I don't know if he's selfish or if he just wasn't particularly attracted to anyone, but because it's a show/job, he has to do something so he keeps the interactions surface. Is it selfish to not find someone you're attracted to?

[@movieviewing]

Hit the nail on the head

[@Natalie-gb8tt]

He never put maeva first. He cheated on her.

[@MagickIsPower]

Miles has never not been selfish.

[@reekachristina4288]

Wow..Miles is one good looking dude and needed a kick in the bum. For realz..its like his main job on Made in Chelsea..get girls all hot for him and then he friendzones them immediately. He played with Maeva's emotions so hard, she ended up with his best friend and will probably marry him too. SMH. Also, Miles accent is like the worst British accent I have ever heard. Not sexy at all. It makes me cringe 😬

[@smithhoowe]

I'm actually with him on this one, I hate how someone can get typecast into a role of "caregiver", "defender", "ego soother" etc., but after spending a lot of time being that person to people it can burn you out. Relationships should be a give and take, and maybe both partners need to find ways to meet each other's needs, even if its better to dish to your Girlfriends about some things than your partner. Some people are just not built to be caretakers, or nurturers, some people are great at it, and other;s are not.

[@emelo24]

Where is Miles jacket from?

[@hugocox4995]

this is dystopian tv wtf xD

[@SolangeLOLable]

Bruh I could have told you he is

[@zarachoudhury6854]

Miles is a narcissist

[@ajaysmith7232]

Best gift an iPad 😂😂😂

[@lili-jv9ku]

I love this guy advisor, he tells it like how it is #bereal

[@TheLivi3]

Brooooo usa here..😮this dude cute on The Courtship show but i knew this guy had some slick with him👀

[@Justrobschannel]

Miles can't handle to truth

[@sarahm4516]

Miles no one see's you on tv and thinks your 'that perfect guy' we see you as a womaniser, who is selfish and self absorbed, the agency was totally right about you.

[@lesleymbuyikayembe7553]

Miles...u got caught out BIG TIME 😬😬😬...maybe... Like he siad all he did was put his ex first before anything....but he cheated but hey let past be the past

[@robynberry7138]

It’s not Gauls it’s exact

[@robynberry7138]

Miles will never get a girlfriend until he can look past himself…. If you can’t have a girlfriend longer than 2 weeks tops then it’s not them it’s you

[@martinataylor7702]

Don t like it because it's true

[@aleemanwar9628]

Paul’s advise goes as follows “Put it in your pants 😜” only joking

[@RBsPOV]

Makes sense.

[@missrubex]

I'm glad Paul told Miles he's selfish but whoosh straight over his head 🤷‍♀️ once again bumming himself up by saying folk think I'm the perfect guy 🤣 no numpty you are not, dream on 🤣

[@Worick_]

This virtue signaling is cringe. Men and women play all sorts of games when it comes to dating, this is nothing new. Guys pretend to be nice and authentic to get into a girls pants all the time, at least he's not pretending to be a nice guy.

[@fattysl26]

Where's the virtue signalling behaviour, he was called out on why he isn't being successful

[@Rosedale153]

Miles is a Leo moon. Most, if not all of them just don’t get it, not fully. They don’t get that people don’t see them as the superstars they believe they are, and therefore hate hearing negative feedback. They want to go about their business how they wish, and expect people to fall at their feet. I’ve seen it countless times.

[@PinoyMN]

The kind of horoscopic essentialism without basis. If the lad is to improve, he ought to seek the kinds of constructive feedback borne out of the experiences Paul has had. Gazing into a crystal ball does not have a promising track record.

[@leonardordel92]

He has no facial hair. How?

[@thecitizenjoan]

I know right I love it 😍

[@Celestynn-ee6mv]

Defensive because he has been spot! He is a narcissist?

[@Joe-vb4pg]

Miles is a narcissist. That’s just a fact, feel sorry for him in a wat as he just struts off. This could have been a course correction.

[@traceytemple8215]

Miles thinks he is gods gift to a woman, 😂 he will end up being a good time boy, that will end up alone

[@ΑντωνηςΜανωλαγκας]

I love Miles

[@sofiacat8070]

Spoilt brat....

[@IndigoCosmic]

Miles is fione😍

[@MedieTC]

Reacts just like a woman

[@teuszy8858]

They are bang out of order