Is It Love Or Infatuation? (Real Love Is Not Rushed)

[@godsoriginal4540]

What may seem insane to the human brain may take you to the faith hall of fame. Man that's good!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Haha yeah it is!!

[@samstout6505]

“ Faith is radical because faith in God and waiting for God doesn’t look rational to the unredeemed mind.” So, so true! Love that!

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊❤️

[@michaelspann3983]

Blessed by Paul and Morgan and to be a part of their ministry🙌 Much love to the audience-you all are a blessing. BTW Paul does a ridiculously good job with editing 👏

[@PaulandMorgan]

Awe Mikey😊🙏 we’re really grateful to have you alongside us brother! You’re an awesome man of God and one cool cat!

[@caroelizau]

Aww we love seeing you on the channel! 🙌🙌🙌

[@catewilliams3530]

I have Great admiration for you. Your eloquence in scripture is impressive. Your spirit is so mature

[@wxracer23]

Have you and Paul kissed?

[@deirdraharris7905]

I really love this topic. Society has made love/romance an idol which isnt it's rightful place. We have to be careful not to let the sparkly glamourous idea of love cause us to awaken love or rush. One thing God told me recently is this....."you won't have to strive" (yes I just quoted god, lol) That let me know that I don't have to grasp, Chase, follow, or strive. I can just be me, doing my purpose, loving God, loving people and God will full fill my desire for companionship. Also I think we have to realize that we do sacrifice things for marriage also. Things are are precious now may not be the same within a marriage. Some view marriage as a finish line of sorts like if your single you haven't made it yet. All that in saying that I'm big on enjoying the season your given and playing the hand your dealt. Sorry that's long. It's just what's in my heart!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Thanks for sharing, Deirdra!

[@kemdiegekeze9320]

Very well said. Thanks for sharing Deirdra.

[@theyincorporated5711]

Deirdra Harris I know what you’re trying to say, but I can’t help be feel as though me being single all my life means “I haven’t made it”

[@deirdraharris7905]

bradford brevard I have so been there!!!!! Praying for you and specifically revelation from God that you can rest in his peace as you walk this journey

[@eliwiggins6377]

I'm 16 years old, and at this age infatuation tends to run the entire relationship. This happened to me when I was 14 and had my first girlfriend. At the time I was in doubt that she was a believer but in a sense I was compromising because of the feelings I had towards her. We got somewhat physical (no sex or kissing but like long hugs holding hands lying on one another etc) very fast and it just made the deceitful feelings stronger. It all ended 3 months later when we got in an arguement about good people (who aren't believers) going to hell or not. Then she called my belief BS (you can guess which point I was arguing). So I quickly found out I made a mistake and we ended the relationship. I can say guys that feelings are really deceitful and you have to see beyond the physical and really examine whether or not you guys are spiritually coherent, because otherwise, it problems....period.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Xzavier Wiggins thanks for sharing that!

[@megalopolis2015]

Very wise.

[@selinarempel1753]

Thanks for sharing this! :)

[@larevival4074]

Lots of good insights for a 16 yr old😇

[@elenahermineregal2824]

But how could you really know who is going to haeven or hell? I think not to judge and leaving this in the hands of the Lord would be wise ;)

[@reneehartwig7897]

I really enjoyed this video. As someone who has been married I'm a Christian, my husband was a baby Christian. Over the years my faith grew and his dwindled. Our marriage was unequally yoked and ended up in divorce. Don't compromise is a great message to tell, don't rush into a marriage . Wait and take your time. x

[@vanessalynn4064]

This is a really great topic. It’s something that I have struggled with. Compromising on morals and values is not a very good idea. I’m learning to wait on God.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Vanessa's World amen. The Lord has got you! 😊

[@SunshineBloom777]

*Seriously love, admire, and appreciate the bold faith you 3 have!!! Keep it up!!! It truly helps!! Romans **1:16**!! “For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek”*

[@PaulandMorgan]

Jake & Mandy thanks guys!❤️

[@lissyturner2622]

Thanks guys ☺️🙌🏼 Love that you spoke about having open hands before the Lord in this! Often times we can try and leech onto something simply because we desire it, and become impatient in the waiting. Wait on the Lord, entrust yourself entirely to Him. He gives good gifts to His children- which might be your singleness in this season! Love Him more deeply in it, treasure Him supreemly, fix your eyes on Him- the pearl of great price 💜

[@DailyMaddie]

“Love is patient” 🙏🏻🙌🏻 This is amazing!! Thank y’all for sharing this!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Amen! Awe you’re welcome 😊

[@Ashley-yt24]

I love that part about Abraham because he is such a perfect example of literally be willing to sacrifice the person you love more than anything to God, or maybe in our cases a relationship with someone you think you can't live without, and let God step in and decide to save the relationship by saying, stop, you don't have to sacrifice him or her, they are the one I have for you or, they are not the one I promised you, they're not your Isaac, they're Ishmael and Isaac is coming if you'll keep trusting in me and wait for my timing. Thanks, Paul, Morgan & Michael

[@priscilladewey1201]

I’m 21 (22 in a few months) my grandparents are constantly asking me when I’m going to get a boyfriend and get married and tell me I’m not getting any younger. Gets kinda of frustrating but I know they are just saying it because they love me. My answer is always I’m just waiting for God to bring the man along wether that’s soon or years from now I’m waiting. I’m not going to just settle because I’m getting older. I’m waiting on a God’s timing.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Amen😊😊

[@aimee4998]

You're not even "getting older"! You are so young and have lots of time. Kudos for staying strong and patient and having high standards. 💕

[@panlantaw]

Paul and Morgan are like complimentary angles. They snugly fit right next to each other. While the other guy has double-protractor kind of angle. It's like when you've heard him speak his heart on something that'll make you turn your thoughts 360 degrees to be exact. Praise God for you people!

[@gracetruth2927]

That’s great advice!!! I think people can put on airs (be someone they’re not or try to impress) for a little while, but it’s not until you watch their character over time that you truly see who they are. Loved the part about taking a break from seeing them/looking at their social media to see if you still like them. Keep coming out with more content! Can’t wait to watch the next one!

[@jenwilliams-ls8yr]

“The Lord did not put someone in your life who is going to compromise your walk with Him for you to marry them. Thats just not the case!!” -Morgan ❤️Aman!! So good!!

[@Lucia-do9jy]

"guard your heart above all else". Truth.

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊😊

[@rebeccadurden4281]

WOWWWW come on!!! The best advice I’ve ever gotten, my dad told me to take 2 weeks-a month, don’t talk to the guy at all - don’t hang out, anything and if we still have the desire to pursue after that, to go for it. Might be “extreme” for most, but the few times I’ve done it, it always ends up that we don’t haven’t come back together.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Rebecca Harris there you go, sounds like good advice to me :) Great example 😊❤️

[@jovanpando5407]

Extreme? Wow.. This generations standards are too low.

[@rebeccadurden4281]

The Social Theist - Skepticism Unbound I don’t think it’s extreme I just know some might think it is that’s why I clarified! I’ve done it for 2 months.

[@docmadi96]

Ofc if you don’t express interest, he’s gonna look elsewhere. You are not the only one he has in mind you know

[@jovanpando5407]

@@docmadi96 😂

[@michaelamaistry8035]

An example in my own life about this topic is currently happening in my life. So I’m 19 turning 20 and I want to be a missionary. Last year I joined YWAM and did a DTS (discipleship and training school) and during my DTS I started liking a guy who ticked all the boxes of what I wanted in a guy. I prayed about it and I felt like God had given me signs that it was gonna work out. During a DTS you have three months of lectures and then 3 months of outreach in a different country. Once I left for outreach I realised a week in that I actually didn’t “love” the guy at all. Not seeing him and being in a new environment made me realise I liked the idea of him and the idea of a relationship more. He ticked all my boxes and yet I didn’t ask God, if he ticked all of His, for me. Fast forward 3 months I met a guy and we became good friends at another YWAM base. We started liking each other, started praying about it as he is going on outreach for three months and so that means no physical contact and sparse communication and yet I’ve fallen in love with him. From the beginning I gave it up to God and told Him that He needed to be in control of this relationship and it would either grow or die out due to the distance and lack of constant. Being apart (though hard) has truly strengthened our faith in waiting on God for His timing for our relationship and our personal growth in Christ, but also made me realise how when God is at the centre of it; distance, time or anything else is no obstacle when it is in His will. God has truly confirmed to both of us over this time about us being together and we’re praying about marriage and God’s next step for us as couple. This is such and important and not often discussed topic that so many need to hear as it would save a lot of time and heartbreak. Well done guys I truly enjoyed this video !!!

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊😊

[@louisaclarke3286]

Michaela, go YWAM! 🙌 I did a DTS too and am excited to do overseas missions in the future. If you don't mind sharing, what base did you go out of?

[@michaelamaistry8035]

Louisa Clarke hi there 😊 I did my DTS at YWAM Lausanne and later staffed at a base in Germany, Bad Blankenburg.

[@louisaclarke3286]

@@michaelamaistry8035 That's awesome! I did mine in Davos, Switzerland.

[@naomie4050]

Hey ywamers😁 I did a DTS too and staffing now. Really love the testimony! I’m actually going through some things too with a guy right now ! If you don’t mind me asking, with the first guy, did you feel God was giving you specific words or signs about that guy or was it more general, even though you realised how you actually felt after😊 God bless you

[@tabbyrh978]

I feel like half the time Morgan's like the mom trying to keep the kids in line 😂 I recently met a guy at work who I had a crush on, not knowing whether or not he was a Christian...I found out he was and of course my crush intensified because of that and given the fact that he was showing an interest in me. To cut a long story short, it turns out he is a solid Christian but is a bit eh in certain areas and also is in a long-distance relationship with his girlfriend...loads of red flags right there and after talking with my dad, brother, and another guy friend, they advised me to be suuuuuper careful in how I treat him even just as a friend and a fellow Christian. The interesting thing was the minute he casually stated that he had a girlfriend and when I started to notice the imbalances in some of his beliefs, my "feelings" faded: they weren't rooted in knowledge, just in a a picture I had painted in my mind so when knowledge came into the picture and we started talking and getting to the meat of things (the Christian life etc etc etc), I began to see the folly, in a way, of my crush. It was pretty humbling and eye-opening 🙈 And it was also a reminder to not settle as Morgan pointed out, or compromise. Loved this, guys!!! Excited for Part Two on Michael's channel!! Love you guys and keep shining

[@PaulandMorgan]

Wow thanks for sharing that, Tabby. Very interesting and relevant story. Good job consulting others, that’s smart. Yeah we’re excited to see part 2 also!

[@Varaidzo1]

Yes I believe the picture we paint in our minds can be vastly different from the actual person.

[@worldwanderingwhittakers]

Great point Michael about surrendering and offering up what is important to you like a relationship and God being able to then give it back and bless it

[@PaulandMorgan]

Thank you :)

[@violetchadwell]

I'm only 16 but over this past year I fell very in love with a Christian boy who meets a lot of my standards. This video helped me realize that I do in fact love him but that infatuation was also present. He moved away and we broke off the confusing friendship/almost relationship for the most part, which has been very hard on me. But getting my heart broken is made so much easier with the knowledge that I will always love him no matter what and value what I learned from our time together. The Lord placed him in my life for a very good reason, and though I sometimes try to convince myself there's still a chance, though I doubt it, I know it was for good. I'm glad you guys make content like this to guide young adults and teenagers when we are unsure :)

[@jessicafox7047]

Currently being weary of infatuation. It’s a hard well not to fall down!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Jessica Fox 😊👊

[@VihanDamaris]

Love when Michael is on! Good discussion guys.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Thank you! :)

[@freddysmythe421]

Recently had this experience with a girl I dated for 1 month. It was more infatuation and ended up not going anywhere. We amicably stopped dating. Although I was sad, it taught me some valuable lessons. It made me want to get to know the Lord more and have Him lead me through my life (including relationship). I don't want to settle for anything less than what God wants. I also don't want to rush into anything I will regret.

[@terrigreene9164]

You guys are seriously amazing, thank you for speaking the word of God!! I have rushed love twice, and both times I was searching for what God wanted in my life rather than waiting and letting it happen. As soon as a Christian guy would come along I'd get excited and convince myself they were the one. I also convinced myself they had a stronger faith than what they actually had because I thought they were my "dream guy". Guarding your heart might be hard, but like they said (and my dad says this too), love is a choice.

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊❤️

[@emilyvigil5746]

i’m a little late to the game, but I love this video because right now, my boyfriend and I are taking a very short amount of time to not talk and to reconnect in our personal relationships with God. it’s been really cool to see just how much of our relationship is truly love because i am not losing feelings at all, and i’m looking for ways to love him deeper and be more sacrificial. i also love what you guys shared about having your hands open and allowing God to take what you have and bless it, because I have been holding so tightly to what I want and what I think is best, that I haven’t been letting the Lord work and move. I haven’t been letting Him stretch my faith to new heights and depths in Him. Thank you guys soooo much!

[@thalitadelimaferreira9596]

It was exactly what I needed to hear right now. You guys are an instrument of God through these videos.

[@laurenring4849]

I definitely needed to watch this video! Your videos are so helpful and encouraging ❤

[@PaulandMorgan]

Thank you!

[@kellynorthern3612]

Remember when Paul used to not want a dog, and now squishy is sitting on his lap in the video. Love it! 😂😍

[@PaulandMorgan]

😂🤪

[@monicamarie4986]

The video made me cry, good cry. Michaels point-soooooo true. What Paul’s said about the lord telling him to get bold is what happened to Koty... Koty and I separated ourselves for about a week , prayed and even fasted . When we came back together it was confirmed on both of our ends. He asked me to be his GF we set boundaries , no sexual stuff, sleepovers , staying pst 10 together unless out with friends, (separate beds for a concert) truly we feel God has blessed us for obeying him. To a non Christian,it might seem intense and unrealistic but when you know , you know. Just last week we talked about when we knew...and I can’t believe how our confirmations matched and were literally half of each other confirmations. God put it on my heart that I would know my husband by his scent (prayer) on our first official date I came back crying from the bathroom because I got a HORRIBLE phone call. Instead of asking am I ok. He grabbed my hand and started praying then asked if I was okay. Lol Little intimate things God had showed us over the year of knowing of each other. I can go on... Compromising is what I did for three years, when God told me leave after 3 month my flesh and earthly way of thinking kept me. God is the redeemer of time, Koty and I are older and I wish we met a long time ago but God’s timing.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Awe love hearing that, Monica ❤️

[@clairewilson6594]

Wow I needed this TODAY. I just called & told someone I liked I had feelings & wanted clarity from them. God is on the move

[@PaulandMorgan]

Oh wow so cool!

[@jesuschrististheonlyway1769]

Morgan you look super pretty in this video❤️

[@PaulandMorgan]

Anonymous thank you😊❤️

[@StacieCherill]

🎼the Paul & Morgan the Paul & Morgan Shooowww 🎼🎉

[@PaulandMorgan]

Stacie Cherill Dickson 😄😄

[@karismobley9179]

I always get this stuck in my head XD It's so catchy!!

[@aubreyhubert6671]

Ive messed up but I’ve made the decision to NEVER do those things again and to wait until marriage to do everything and set up strong boundaries in the beginning. I take all your guys advice and put it on the tablet of my heart and I appreciate you guys. I just wanted to say more love

[@saraharless6218]

Definitely needed this video today!!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Awe good❤️

[@nakhiphop]

Thank you for this one as well.

[@caroelizau]

Notification Gang!!! 🤩 So excited to see Michael here again! 💖 Loved this, as always! 😍🤗💖

[@PaulandMorgan]

Thank you, Caroline! We’re glad he’s back!

[@JamesPrime1]

Great message guys. Very encouraging to hear!

[@livingunashamed4869]

Great video guys definitely don't want to rush anything and don't base everything off how you feel. Love is an action not a feeling. Does this person have what you want/need in a future spouse? Just make sure everything is biblical and not want you particular desire if that makes sense. Have to remember we're living for Yahweh not ourselves :).

[@PaulandMorgan]

Kevin B Amen bro so good👊

[@PaulandMorgan]

Hey Guys! Comment and let us know if you’ve had any experience with love vs infatuation or rushing love and what you learned from it. Encourage the Fam!! ❤️ Be sure to watch part 2 on Michael’s channel dropping Friday!

[@Jessie20032]

Paul and Morgan so good! I’m certainly in this right now and waiting on God’s perfect time to bring my future hubby and I together 😁( its been 6yrs or so) don’t worry I’m praying and waiting on God and definitely not rushing or giving my heart away so fast.

[@kristennnnn0902]

This kinda happened to me except i disobeyed God because I knew from the very beginning i wasnt supposed to be with him. i guess i might as well share the story, even though it doesnt completely relate. but ill say it just in case someone who needs to hear it can. this was about eight months ago, and i was sixteen at the time. i met this guy who i really, really liked. probably based more on infatuation. but anyway he was an athiest, and i kept digging myself into a deeper and deeper hole because we flirted alot and whatnot and became close friends. we never officially dated but we both liked each other a lot. i was torn because I knew God was saying, Kristen noo!! but deep down i wanted to date him anyway. i was selfish and put off breaking things off with him. Then i went on a church retreat and i knew God was speaking to me louder and clearer than ever before, because the theme was following Gods plan for your life. so a week after i got back i finally ended things and God was so good, he gave me the words to say, the perfect time, God is so good, He saved me from the countless terrible things that could've happened!!! If you're tempted to date/even plan om dating someone who God doesn't want you to, don't do it, Gods way is ALWAYS best!!!!!! ALWAYS!!! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@heatherch]

@@kristennnnn0902 amen!! what a great testimony (:

[@JohanaFlores13]

Heyyy y'all😊💗💗 About 2 years ago I found myself in a relationship In which I wasn't meant to be. I allowed my emotions and my own desires get the best of me y'all! 😬 That was so silly of me 'cause I thought I knew what was best for me but boy was I wrong!😶 Lol!! Sooooo! I HIGHLY encourage both ladies & gents to continue to just focus on your relationship with God ( cause either way, he's always got to be first in our lives) and ask God for wisdom because our hearts are TRUELY deceitful! I promise that would be the best thing you can do for yourself and your walk with God!!! : ) So yes! Stay focused & Much love!!💘💘💘 The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it? Jeremiah 17:9

[@Almandarina2]

but you decided to get married after 4 months, that's pretty rushed.

[@Anonymous-yq8wd]

I saw this cause i have found that i tend to mistake a crush for smth more and end up must hurting myself, and rrly needed to watch this

[@MidwifeJayde]

Oh yes, every partner I’ve had has been rushed. I’ve come to god over the last 3-4 years and just met a man of God and it’s suuuch a nice and slow and respectful process without expectations and I’m so grateful for the chance to be a part of how it should be done, under God!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Awe so glad to hear that!

[@JongKong_]

Hi, Paul and Morgan My name is Jong from Bangkok, Thailand. I've been subscribed your channel for a few months and this channel is an awesome channel for all believers who want to have a great relationship. I am a christian for 15 years. In 2017, I've moved to Bangna district on the east of Bangkok and God finds me a new church there. On my first day at church, I thought I had a crush on a girl with glasses who came from Taipei and plays bass in the worship team. I've tried not to think that was infatuation and I did act normal. I've never thought about having a relationship. The point is that I don't want to be just like my parents and I thought it's okay to live alone. Until a few months before Christmas. God changed my mind. I asked my pastor for a prayer that I want to have my own family. Later that on a few days before Christmas, I had a chance to talked to the girl on the train while I was going to work. She told me why she wants to live in Bangkok. I knew that it was not just infatuation and I prayed to God about this. On the first Sunday of 2019, I told her in private that I pleased to talk with her and I did ask her out for a date. She said okay and agreed to go for a movie with me. The things are that she texted me to cancel our date because she was busy with some of her family stuff. So, I did ask her again for "How to train your dragon" movie that she is a huge fan. And she texted me back that her friend already booked this movie for her. I want to know your opinion, did I took it so long? Do I have to go on? Is it okay to ask for a bit of advice from her friend? By the way, I pray for you guys that God shall give you new ideas for channel contents and more subscribers who will come to know the love of God. Blessed, Jong

[@linachauser8010]

not personally, but a close friend of ours was so desperate to get married(she was 21) that she met, got engaged to, and married within 5 months. now I that might work for some people, but literally everyone(including her entire family and friend group) saw that he was/ is a lazy jerk. She wouldn't let anyone say anything bad about him, or try to point out to her gently that the dude she wants to marry is a serious jerk. That was the most depressing wedding I have ever attended. She dosn't admit it yet, but she isn't very happy after a year or so. and it will get worse once kids come along. I think Rosalind definitely rushed "love" because she was in la- la- land, and would not listen to advice

[@PaulandMorgan]

Yeah that can hurt, now all we can do is pray for them :)

[@naomiverstraeten172]

Thanks so much.. I had a very hard moment last week, being single my whole life and i just didnt saw God anymore in iT...had coffee before with my two married friends who talked and laughed about there family lifes and i couldnt share iT on that moment and i just crashed afterwards.. i cryed out in my car and said: i need to take action, im becoming to old (30 ;) i need to do something! And than i opened KZbin...... and saw a new released video from that day: this one.. God really used u, Paul, morgen and Michael. Thank u so much. And He is doing that all the time! ^^ After that i felt peace again! God bless u, a message from belgium ^^

[@cobrahotly]

"Real love is not rushed," says the couple that got married literally months after meeting on Tinder.

[@stormknock960]

This video is really good. Said so much truth that I needed to wake myself up to.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Awe good😊

[@pookiehontas6414]

Such an important topic. Definitely so important to listen for God's voice. He knows the desires of your heart

[@lyndeebrooks724]

It’s so nice that there you guys have so many good Christian advice videos and aren’t afraid to share your faith! How do I as a freshman in high school find good Christian friends at school?

[@PaulandMorgan]

Lyndee Brooks thank you😊 They are out there, be vigilant, you may have to search them out. I would guess there are Christian organizations to get plugged into :)

[@lyndeebrooks724]

Paul and Morgan, thank you! I will work on that and look into that!

[@gigi.c3052]

You have no idea how perfectly timed I needed this video in my life.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Awesome!

[@justinswink4650]

Hi P & M, I'm becoming a patron today! You guys have also encouraged me in what I feel God has called me to do and that is to do a KZbin ministry. I uploaded my first video yesterday! God bless🌟👍🏻

[@PaulandMorgan]

Awe Justin that’s awesome! Love hearing that, congrats! Excited to be on this journey with you😊😊

[@gracestarnes6427]

i don’t know if you guys will see this comment or not, but it’s so cool that y’all live in the same state as me!!! when i found that out i can’t tell you how surprised i was lol. PAUL AND MORGAN LIVE NEAR ME. WHATTTT? i love you guys and you’re such an inspiration to me. thank you for making amazing videos and sharing the Lord’s love with everyone 💞

[@PaulandMorgan]

Aww! That's so awesome! Yay Kentucky natives :D Love and appreciate you :)

[@aubreyhubert6671]

Listen I love you guys I watch every video but I think it’s important to spread more love and to stress to people that we are forgiven and it’s important to make sure it never happens again.

[@joanraciulubega5462]

We love you from Kampala-Uganda!❤ Guarding your heart and my heart is everything to me. Because even after you get married you must guard your heart as a wife and husband for the greater purpose and assignments consequently in your marriage. So thank you guys for that reminder. Personally am deeply blessed by this video. We love you from Kampala

[@thehappyelephant8868]

I love how Paul and Michael are wearing the same shirt.

[@PaulandMorgan]

😜

[@reganshields4960]

Such a great topic! You guys are such an amazing inspiration to all Christians! ♥️

[@PaulandMorgan]

Thank you Regan!

[@HP-jz9jd]

7:42 Everyone, tell them what you’ve learned from Russian love 😂

[@tifearah]

Thank you so much for those advices ! I am curently very close to a guy, he's not christian. The thing is I totally trust God with my life, and the way I met this guy and everything about this relationship is really God's doing. I also always feel at peace when I'm with him. We really have a special connexion, and we've also talked about deep conversations. We've once been separated for 2 weeks and during that time, I still cared a lot. This week he told me he wanted to come to church with me! Which is weird because I didn't invited him, but I really think it's God's work. That would be amazing if you guys could pray for him, for Sunday, and for God to show me what I should do. Thank you again ❤

[@courageouslykristen]

This is totally unrelated but squishy is too cute to handle 😭😍

[@PaulandMorgan]

Baahaha❤️

[@gregorythomasii10]

Hello Paul and Morgan, thank you for the advice. I believe that love isn`t something can just force but has to be given freely. This was very helpful for me. Keep up the good work.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Thank you for your comment! :)

[@elkanjulian1037]

I'm 15 and the girl i've liked from 12 is one that i don't believe likes me. She is literally everything i want but i don't think she likes me because sometimes she is fidgety around me but other times she has that face that i don't like you. She is highkey confusing. One month she would show all the signs that she likes me the next month she wouldn't talk to me like before. I don't know

[@stephanienunes393]

Thank you for this video! It's so helpful! God bless❤

[@PaulandMorgan]

You're so welcome! Praise God :)

[@lillabenko116]

Wow ! I needed this sooo much!!! Thank you guys !!😊😊😘😘💕

[@PaulandMorgan]

Lilla B yayy❤️❤️

[@akuatimpabi6800]

Thanks guys

[@alaynagrace8843]

Morgan you look so classyyyyyy 💁💥

[@PaulandMorgan]

Alayna Grace awe thank you❤️

[@noreentabbu6481]

Just in time! I’ve been in this season of my life. Thank you so much Paul, Morgan and Michael .Yous a blessing! Love yousss!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Noreen Tabbu you’re so welcome! 😊💜we love you back!

[@Psalm_27.4]

Yes, I was just about to comment on the nearly matching shirts, when you mentioned them toward the end of the show!! Very brotherly, yet very stylish!

[@child.of_yeshua3357]

Great advice I needed this

[@southerncatholicgal5548]

I loved this!! Thank y’all sooo much for what you’re doing. 😘

[@PaulandMorgan]

Caroline Willis welcome!❤️

[@faithbradley4224]

Just want to say, whoever is going through something, GOD has got you! Hold on! GOD BLESS EVERYONE ❤️❤️❤️

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊❤️

[@mickeybear2972]

whenever Michael joins you guys, I always sing the theme song as: the Paul and Morgan - the Paul and Morgan show and Michael! lol

[@PaulandMorgan]

Haha

[@livyhendrix1761]

I needed this! Thank you!

[@PaulandMorgan]

You’re welcome😊❤️

[@jennasearle8299]

Yup! Definitely rushed my first relationship and it was a disaster, being more intentional about guarding my heart from here on out!

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊👊

[@joehandmade6825]

Love this video. Thanks for teaching me. Michael uses the Bible every time he speaks. May God bless you all.

[@PaulandMorgan]

Thank you :)

[@gouthamnanda8930]

How will true love build without attraction or infatuation? I think infatuation is the first stage of love.please give me conclusion.

[@acrecords2481]

Really blessed by this video and I'm really thankful that you've been llowing God to use you to impact people like me. ✨💕

[@oxsannapaul9159]

I love this guy's is it love or is it infatuation thank you very much 😁 because when you are young and seeing the things that goes on in the world it tear you away from the Godly morals I was there and I thank God for saving me and I was confused of what is love and I was questioning love and if it was real but then God thought me a lesson guys love you all great show I believe in pure love

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊😊

[@NatalieDiamond]

Faith is so radical, you're right Michael. Loved your touch on this topic😊

[@JMKrech]

Great video! I also love the matching shirts hahaha!

[@labyandshadow6045]

I love you Paul and Morgan 💓💓Thank you for this show

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊❤️

[@gracilie]

I really liked the video. It helped me some, but I'm just going through a very confusing time right now in my relationship. I wish I could put it into words. I want as much advice as I can get... but it's just such a long story. I don't know what to do about it. God bless you guys. Thank you for the video, and no matter what criticisms you get, keep on going!

[@coreyadams8407]

Yessss!!!!🙌🏼 Man! It’s been too long since I’ve been able to actually watch one of ya’ll videos! Love y’all so much and thank you for being a blessing!!!!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Welcome back Corey!

[@GraceUponGraceProductions]

That moment when you haven't watched Paul & Morgan videos in so long and find out that Michael has his own KZbin channel and P&M have a dog 😭😭💙

[@kaitekat25]

I really love your channel! Its really helping with me now! I'm 18 and am just starting to Court my best friend who would also be my first relationship. And this was one of my questions ive been having for awhile!

[@PaulandMorgan]

Awe good😊

[@karismobley9179]

I love what you said about the compromising thing. I totally know what that is like. I've liked this guy for almost 6 years and in middle school we we're "talking". Whatever that means. idek. Middle school relationships are strange ha.. I "friendzoned" because I knew I was too young. Anyway, by the time I got to high school we were best friends and I still really liked him but he didn't know it so we were just great friends. But inside I was only completely infatuated. As long as we were keeping in contact, I figured I was in love and he might be "the one". I thought about him literally all the time, he was always making me laugh and giving me that butterfly feeling. Actually, he was a super nice guy i guess you could say. He would always tell me his deepest secrets. But! When we would go weeks without talking, I would get this empty feeling and it was awful. Eventually I realized how unhealthy that was- that i was not full without him. So I began filling myself up with Jesus and that changed my whole perspective on our "friendship". I realized that all along, I had been compromising my morals and character to fit in with his. It made me feel good when he thought I was a pretty cool girl. But what I realized is why on earth was I letting his opinions define me? Also I held onto him so long and claimed that it was because I didnt want to give up on him. When in reality I didn't want to know what it would feel like if he gave up on me. I am still healing and learning from that experience so if you have any advice on what to do or how to talk to him or if I should talk to him than plz let me know!! I am just glad that I have finally been able to reconize these obvious things after so long

[@natalienicolecomp]

Yay!! New video 😊

[@PaulandMorgan]

Oliver the Bulldog wahoo!!😄

[@Sunday-ex7px]

So how are you supposed to tell the difference between what God is telling and what you think he’s telling you just because you want it to be that way?

[@miraclesangnidjo3528]

You'll see signs and confirmation

[@trueworshipper8426]

The peace of God in your decision will be the confirmation. If there's no peace..it's the flesh talking

[@saraa7117]

I once hated a guy so much without any reasons. I just did. Now its been 2.5 year since i started to like him and there hasnt been a day that i forgot about him. I tried to shift my timetable, to not see him or be around him, even deactivated my social media cs i had him there. Hope ill get over him one day cs ik he is not into me. And im not goanna sell myself cheap.

[@amber_cheree3929]

Y'all bless my heart!!!

[@PaulandMorgan]

😊❤️

[@rogercarrico4975]

Excellent topic guys. Would like to see more videos on attraction and compatibility in relationships. Choosing a mate is so terribly important. I happen to believe that organized religion has really failed in this area. Lots more can and should be done. To help educated people on what to expect in marriage. Help with the almost epidemic we have now days. With divorce and broken families. Keep up the good work! 👍

[@Abi-rk5ce]

I love you guys. Keep preaching the truth. !

[@PaulandMorgan]

Thank you Fedna❤️

[@karenohare4413]

Hey guys! I love your videos and think your ministry is amazing, keep doing what y'all doing. I just watched one of your older videos were it was just Paul (and cat statue Morgan) talking about abortion and Carl Lentz and I thought it was great how you opened in prayer. I'm sure you guys pray a lot, especially before your videos but I think it would be really great to see more of it on KZbin. Some Christians see prayer as something you just do on Sundays or when you're really struggling, it would be great to have a whole video about prayer. How often you pray, what for and what it looks like? Does your church have prayer meetings and what do they look like? Are your prayers short and sweet or lengthy discussions? Do you hear a response from the Lord? Thanks if you read through this 😂 love you guys

[@PaulandMorgan]

Hey! That's definitely a great topic. We will for sure cover that!

[@megalopolis2015]

You guys have such a fluffy little scene stealer. :0) My heart is a crazy device. I always have to ask God to take hold of it so I can walk in more obedience to Him--and get a lot more productive things accomplished. That is about all I can say about that. Many blessings to you.

[@PaulandMorgan]

megalopolis2015 haha yes we do! 😛 You just keep asking the Lord for strength and guidance girl. You got this! 💜

[@megalopolis2015]

@@PaulandMorgan Thanks.

[@ximenaibarra3553]

AND YAY MICHAEL IS BACK!!!

[@graciemay6360]

Yay!! Michael’s back!! Fantastic video, y’all are inspiring!!! Thanks for being an encouragement to so many of us❤️❤️❤️😄😄🐥🐥🐥 Also, Morgan, I love your jacket!!:)

[@PaulandMorgan]

Awe thank you Gracie!

[@melissajoeachieng]

Legit paused the video to post Mike's tweet on my whatsapp status😁

[@PaulandMorgan]

Hahaha love it!

[@ashleydowney1222]

Not trying to be nitpicky but Diana Ross and the Supremes first said "You Can't Hurry Love", but I love the Phil Collins version of the song as well. I also really liked this video.

[@courtneyshearin6954]

Spot on advice that pointed towards the Lord and God's Word. Thank you! Love you guys. 💓

[@PaulandMorgan]

Courtney Shearin thank you!

[@rachelortiz1157]

God knew I needed y'all in my life lol I'm actually struggling with this right now and well I've just been praying to God tremendously to help me out cuz this is what happens when you do not listen to Jesus but my God is full of grace and mercy and knows I want to do things right. Thanks guys your videos are always a blessing to my heart and I will try to become a patreon lol because your girl got no work flow yet lol. Love you guys and God bless you 😭🙏❤🤗

[@aubreyhubert6671]

I think you guys need to explain to people that they aren’t bad people if the sinned and lived with someone before they were married and now make the decision. Because some people are guilty and feel bad for sinning and yes we have baggage but we shouldn’t feel stressed that someone won’t want us because of it