You Won't Believe the Shocking Truth About Philippine Relationships

[@gkschick6804]

Thanks for this video, Paul. Gotta admit I had pre judged Gino and based on this interview, I was wrong. Sorry his marriage didn't work out again. I wish him well sorting out all of his family and relationship issues.

[@user-im8fd1px8o]

no hes a loser that doesnt pay his child support back home in USA

[@TheSchill]

🤣🤣

[@ryanw0345]

@@gkschick6804 yeah right - he left his boys in states to move to another country and married a little skank . Great guy

[@dwayneday6530]

What goes around, comes around

[@TheSchill]

@@dwayneday6530 You can say that.

[@BIGFOOT-BC]

All of the Filipina's say they like to live a simple life. Not true for 99% of them. The status culture is an obsession.

[@steveswell1]

Don't I know it from personal experience. Social media, Fakebook, perceived image, filters, travel photos, multiple accounts, lies, deception, materialism just to show of to friends and family. It's a national obsession especially if they come to the US. Supremely dysfunctional tribalistic psychology. Never again. :)

[@AussieTonythemexican]

@@BIGFOOT-BC it would seem

[@marcozopfi1736]

@MaxsterMax but just like as it in your Name, everything can be stretched out and optimized but only up till it comes to it's "natural MAX". Acceptance of limits and knowing boundaries based on good reason and common sense, plus minimalistic, non luxuries invaded, humble-realistic-non extravagant-mindset on the feminine side of the relationship (lucky)coin, will be positive contributors longterm.

[@GK-wx6xo]

@@BIGFOOT-BC thats women

[@SuperDrJeckyl]

And all Filipinas sell those myths. About them being so sweet and innocent....when most will hop into bed on the first date and it's the land of single mothers. Give a Filipina money and they are just like any other girl in the world. All Filipinas are about one thing....escaping the crippling poverty.

[@sagora3114]

Why marry at all? Im 54 and never felt a strong compulsion to do so. It also legally obligates and complicates your life.

[@mtngrl5859]

If one is a Christian then that alone is a reason to marry. There are many legal reasons to marry as well. My husband and I have a deeper relationship after being married. For those of us with a deep faith, marriage is a sacrament.

[@sagora3114]

@mtngrl5859 yes when it's a special bond but there's just so many dam divorces these days what is it I think it's 50% or more

[@-whackd]

​@@mtngrl5859Christ didn't say anything about marriage, especially modern marriages with family courts and asset sharing. You know nothing about your own prophet haha!

[@Jamie-y7w]

Obviously you haven’t been properly in love

[@jkumpaar]

@@mtngrl5859Just get married in a Christian church, would that be enough?

[@CoachDarren]

Guys don't put your freedom on the line and do jail time in the Philippines for messing with a separated or married woman. I don't care how great, fine, or sexy she is. And if the husband is alive and the relationship doesn't bother him one day he might change his mind and report your ass and have you thrown in jail. It's not worth it plenty of single women in the Philippines

[@garretdoi6218]

It’s not a matter of if, it’s a matter of when, after you spend all that money 💰 💸🤑to build your so called girlfriend thousands of dollars to build her a house 🏡 on the family property; her legal husband, calls the police 👮🏽‍♂️ on you because you are SMASHING his legal wife & you were committing adultry, even though her husband wasn’t around for 10 or so years.. & now he decided to come back into his family’s life, & you get arrested for adultry on a married wife … & her husband says thanks for building my family house 🏡..

[@RT804]

Yeah. No more once married women or single mothers. You have all the power. Stop simping. And the absolute best thing you can do aside from that, is make sure she had money before you met her. Good family, family business she worked at or even owns now, etc. That's the best safeguard. Is she making, and saving, her own money. No debt.

[@garretdoi6218]

@ 💯% correct , most women over their are l👀king for some 1 to bale them out 💵or rescue 🛟 them with deep open 💸 wallets & unlimited 🏧balance @ the machine. So don’t be that, [SUCKER] 🍭 paying for everything in the beginning & end of the relationship; divorced [SUCER] 🍭 guy 👍🏽🤙🏽 😂🤣😆🤭..🫨😳😱😭🤒🤕🤑😵‍💫😵🤡…👍🏽🤙🏽😁

[@REDD_NECKERSON]

There’s THREE RINGS involved in marriage in the Philippines. First you have the ENGAGEMENT RING. Second you have the WEDDING RING. Third you have the SUFFER-RING. "I've got a million of them."

[@marcozopfi1736]

@@REDD_NECKERSON yes, that is true, and now they are both off into further wande-ring/re-explo-ring.

[@albathoughtsofficial]

@@REDD_NECKERSON You are clever and a little bit funny, but are obviously not Filipino nor do you understand Filipino culture... The 3rd ring is not suffering, because Filipinos and especially Filipinas are incredibly resilient, so the 3rd ring is actually Persevering...4) Every marriage and life itself is full of Huge Ups and downs, and the vast majority of Filipino marriages are Enduring, 5) Those marriages are Inspiring because 6) their Love is Unfaltering. Hope you can one day look back on your death bed and have the experience of that kind of deep love and devotion. But it seems you need to look hard in the mirror and maybe do some work on yourself. Wish you the best in 2025!

[@SetFree-l4m]

I don't feel the suffering when I'm snoring.

[@johnmurphy647]

That's everywhere

[@johnmurphy647]

​@@albathoughtsofficial nonsense

[@MrTravolta24]

Travelling half-way across the world to marry single mxms?! Or building a house on your gfs / wifes land? You guys are quite comical. Its like you leave your brain on the plane on there flight to PH.

[@frederickmuhlbauer9477]

Obviously you don’t understand the power a sexy young girl has over us geezers

[@RogerMannett]

Stay in Your saturday Night Fever- i dont think your mind can adaptpto an international lifestyle idea, your comments are standard uninformed for the situation

[@RandysContext]

The original problem is leaving 3 young boys in the US - wrong thinking.

[@3777177]

Good point,especially buildinghouses is stupid forXPAT....mostly they areall single moms here, the cute ones for sure...

[@gordonb1737]

Jeez, I see your negativity popping up everywhere. Are you jealous you can't retire abroad? Are you still bitter from getting burnt? Or are you just a bitter person in general?

[@satoshi_yukamoto841]

I thinks its time that youtubers come clean - when a Filipina (99%) gets involved with a westerner they want to get married, and quickle, they want you to take full responsibility for previous children, they want half babies, they want land and they want you to build them a house, they want family support, they never want to worry about bills, bills are your problem and if you're lucky somewhere in all that they also want you. After the man provides all that its still 50/50 whether it works or not without most or all of that listed there is no chance. KZbinrs are selling a dream to western men, who have been screwed over by western women and culture, for views trying to convince them that the Phils is different. Men you need to go into these things with your eyes open.

[@MrTravolta24]

100% correct! Womxn are the same no matter where you go. There's just different version of the same software running.

[@tryscience]

@@MrTravolta24 lol. obviously not here. in the West, a woman won't date you if you don't have the three sixes. They don't dare get into a conversation with you if you don't meet their standards, because lord forbid they might actually like you and get attached, lol. And a 30 year age gap? Forget it. Not to mention the horrific attitude and often less-than-pleasing appearance. Here, an older gentleman can walk up to a pretty grad student and have a fantastic conversation, and even get her number. I've been in the Philippines since August (from the US) and I'll tell you what the difference is like. In the US, the dating scene is so hopeless, many men have simply given up. The difference is as stark as trying to find a flower in the desert, to landing over here and find yourself walking in a field of sunflowers.

[@tryscience]

Date women without children. Lease the land for 25 years in the guy's name, with a 25 year extension and the option to buy (if the guy so chooses, in the Filipina's name). The guy finances, builds, and owns the house. 50 years enough for you? Set limits on familial support. If she can't reach a reasonable agreement, "NEXT !!" Bills here are dirt cheap. In fact I have zero expense for AC and heat based on my geographical choice. In fact, the building has no heater or air conditioner because the temperature is in a constant comfortable range year-round. I also have experience with solar and it's awesome. Marriage is a choice, not a mandatory requirement. If she doesn't want to be a good partner, someone else will be happy to be. Yeah, I think I covered it all.

[@MrTravolta24]

@@tryscience Rent or buy a condo in your name... no land leasing issues to worry about then. Put everything else in your will if you want to leave anything. Add a clause that if you are deleted mysteriously, they get nothing, That covers it all...

[@satoshi_yukamoto841]

@@tryscience That's good advice except for last part "marriage not a mandatory requirement" - if the marriage sours and you think you are just going to turf your wife out on the street and live happily in your LEASED house with a new women, you are living in cuckoo land. Your not filipino and never will be you're a foreigner and the family have a million ways to get you it they want.

[@jonrend]

Taking advice from a man who decides to marry for one year.

[@21stcenturyshowgirl]

what do you mean?

[@jonrend]

@21stcenturyshowgirl the guy comes off as cool and has it all together but decides after 1 year gets divorced to a Filipina. Fuc me.

[@garretdoi6218]

😂🤣😆🤭🤥😵‍💫🙄🫨🥱..🤙🏼👍😁..

[@Gurkha9]

Taking advice from a man without integrity. Lying on camera over the years

[@Airraidcd]

I think they got married this year so not even 1 year of marriage.

[@ryanw0345]

“ dramaguette” 😂. What a bunch of 🤡 these vloggers are

[@SlackHoffman]

Drama 🎭 guette is absolute clown 🤡 world

[@covinaca5312]

Dumaguete is a cesspool of men searching for easy women and women that are looking for money.

[@DavidPaton-s4i]

Bunch of douches 😂🎉

[@brianrussell5378]

He left 3 sons in the US to chase young women that says it all. If you pay child support you get to see your kids unless there is some type of addiction, abuse, criminal activity or a serious problem where you are unable legally to see your children. There was always something about this guy that was way off.

[@danielward1636]

I don't think the father should be forced to pay child support if he does the right thing for his child. Most of the time the child support money gets wasted on the mom partying or just spent on herself. But the system doesn't take this into account.

[@Cab87]

Yes he did not raise his sons for 7 years Why now?? Ohh it's the bachelor course!!

[@danielward1636]

@@Cab87 you. Don't know the reason why he left, maybe the Mon is too controlling and he didn't want his kids to see their parents arguing.

[@Cab87]

@@danielward1636 yes I agree with you totally He abandoned his three children for 8 years because his wife was.bad to him so he fled to Philippines salamat

[@danielward1636]

@@Cab87 do you really know what the women in the west are like?

[@GK-wx6xo]

It is bizarre how the marriage broke up so quickly. Clearly there wasn't even an attempt to save it. Really really bizarre.

[@kingmaafa120]

It never started from her perspective

[@PhilippineAdventurer823]

She's probably got dirt on him. He has no choice but to play nice.

[@lmcc0072]

When my ex-wife wanted a divorce years ago I didn’t fight her either. I knew that I had made a big mistake in marrying her and for years I was constantly bending over backwards to “make things work”. It was my get out of jail free card. It basically cost me every cent that I ever made to get out, but it was for the best. I learned from my mistakes and I didn’t repeat them.

[@kingmaafa120]

@ wow deep

[@user-im8fd1px8o]

she was banging other guys

[@ColinDale-v2k]

This guy's " relationship consulting" credibility has been shot to bits... As long as he learns from this 🙏

[@steveswell1]

Who the heck has any relationship cred? hahah

[@ColinDale-v2k]

@@steveswell1 Well not him, obviously. That was where he was supposed to be helping those viewers who were following his channel. He comes across a complete novice. I'm not saying he's not a good guy but for him, he was out of his depth here. These women are ruthless!

[@poorman2457]

​@@steveswell1Gio passed himself as an expert is the issue playa.

[@ssing7113]

@@steveswell1gifting a that for married that are still married. Go look up then divorce rates of virgins at marriage. Sleeping around does something mentally to people… also pair bonding gets destroyed along the way. People stop sleeping around!!! Tell your kids to stay pure and marry the same. And vet their partner

[@tilapiadave3234]

Don't see your point ,, there are numerous people that are experts at helping others but struggle with themselves. When you aren't directly and emotionally involved it is far easier to give logical advice

[@seandayma]

Relationships are challenging enough without the added burden of having an online relationship channel.

[@SuperDrJeckyl]

But online pays, offline doesn’t.

[@newafricanforum]

​@SuperDrJeckyl hehehe. Are u sure. How to teachers and nurses and electricians pay their bills 😂

[@markmielke5283]

They are transactional relationships. The moment you forget this you screwed up big time.

[@kevinadams9468]

AMEN

[@kingmaafa120]

Facts

[@TimmyFrank-m2h]

@markmielke5283 True, but a man's position has always been to provide for a family. as long as you accept the deal and she looks after you. It can still be a good deal.

[@garretdoi6218]

@@TimmyFrank-m2h most times her side of the deal changes & she has regrets or is disappointed 😔..

[@MrTravolta24]

@@markmielke5283 all relationships ever have been transactional since the beginning of time. Anyone that believes otherwise is delusional.

[@jameswelch1054]

Break ups are never great, but it is nice to see how mature people break up, without dragging their dirty laundry into the public.

[@sagora3114]

Two classy people i think

[@enzos711]

Why, esp 60+, would I "want to Get Married" in the Phils, as opposed to "just having a Girl Friend" or Girlfriends .. "Who needs the headaches" (I don't get it ?) ..

[@kingmaafa120]

That part

[@hambone5547]

Lived in Philippines 2007-08. Found out pretty quickly that it was not paradise. I feel like I got out fairly unscathed compared to most of these cats.

[@brucesuperman6120]

Me too I lived there 2014 to 2016 it's actually worse than the usa lol 😅

[@AfterTheGame]

@@brucesuperman6120 Your comment is missing context.

[@RT804]

There are something like 300 countries in the world and maybe only a handful that are not very affordable, for a successful, established American especially. Imagine going to Central or South America to find a woman. Flying under 5 hours instead of traveling 24-30+ hours to the Philippines. There is this kneejerk, almost suicidal empathy for that country with passport bros. "Yeah there's a lot bureaucracy and everyone is on island time" - no it's well beyond that. It took me a long time to realize but everyone not upper middle class or higher in that country remind me of black Americans I grew up with in Chicago. Even black Americans want to escape that so why move 8000 miles to live amongst it? If it's not a condo or gated community with everything you need within a few miles, you messed up.

[@Cosmo4357-mj1tw]

Gio's wife became the boss babe of their relationship.

[@garretdoi6218]

@@Cosmo4357-mj1tw It’s called ware ing 👖 the pants in the house 🏠; or happy wife happy 😃 life..😂🤣😆🤭🫣🫨😳😱..😁

[@KutWrite]

I doubt that was a problem for him.

[@ronniesantamaria496]

Maya's was Bigger

[@sfgoncalves]

Now she is rich

[@AussieTonythemexican]

@@sfgoncalves how?

[@raywelch6954]

Whatever these guys say to do do the opposite. You will be much better off.

[@garretdoi6218]

@@raywelch6954 Just Jim Cramer :)😂🤣😆🤭.. 🫨😳😱🤷🏽‍♂️🤡..😁

[@AcmeRocket]

Marriage is fantastic for everyone as long as its not me.

[@foolsleadtheworld578]

🤣🤣

[@AidaJof]

😂😂😂

[@rubyparchment5523]

Amen.

[@petertosh4748]

Ditto

[@riptide10x60]

Leaving the girl he still loves, moving too another island and suddenly paranoid about safety. Sounds like her ex may be the primary driver of his catastrophic relationship failure

[@mexvette8209]

That was on Gio’s shirt when Maya posted their let collaboration video “catastrophe”.

[@waltgreen8759]

interesting take.

[@RobSanson]

Hmmm

[@tilapiadave3234]

@sleepySUCKS-kf8th She will get her's in the long run

[@charlesbronson5235]

My first thought was the same.

[@Curtis-d6r]

I think his ex wife acts a little to much like western women I don't want my Filipina girlfriend acting like that am trying to escape that and come over there.

[@John-or8ze]

I agree

[@steveswell1]

She used his clout for her own traction. The KZbinr game is not for the feint of heart and once you're "hooked" on the optics, it's near impossible to get out.

[@Mjolnher9]

I am part Filipino. Stop with the western bashing. Filipina women can be far far worst.

[@Curtis-d6r]

@@Mjolnher9 nah my man I don't know about that

[@Mjolnher9]

@@Curtis-d6r absolutely of course. Don't put them on such high a pedestal. Many lack IQ and thinking skills too

[@Gmantrini]

I watched the finale vid, and their dynamic, I believe Geo’s usefulness was outlived by maya. Good luck to all, cheers✌🏾

[@MuckyMucky-z3c]

First an ice cream. Second a baby. Third a ring. Fourth a house.

[@-whackd]

Why do old men wanna get married so much? Is it so you dont have to renew your visa as often?

[@riffraff521]

I first viewed both of your channels several years ago. Both of you have done pretty much everything you said you would not do starting out.

[@BrettPower]

There a joke that's why!

[@steveswell1]

KZbin optics morph brainwave activity and turn normal, healthy individuals into desperados and addicts. Prove me wrong.

[@AussieTonythemexican]

@@riffraff521 Laurel and hardy

[@spider8049]

Exactly

[@spider8049]

Do anything to get views

[@daverobey3378]

I'm confused. What was the "shocking truth"? At best, this video was just a gossip-fest.

[@jackblack5833]

These KZbinrs are not trustworthy to say the least. A separation and devoice are to different things. A legal separation is when a married couple decides to live separately, but remains legally married. A divorce is the legal dissolution of marriage - meaning the court terminates the marriage's legal.

[@tryscience]

I must have missed something. Did they say something contrary to what you wrote?

[@jackblack5833]

@@tryscience i would suggest you go back and listen to the beginning of the video.

[@tryscience]

@jackblack5833 too lazy but thanks anyway

[@jasongriffith6225]

especially bar girls with tats and single moms. booty pics on the internet. More like where is the decency

[@TheSchill]

You never get 100% of the truth from these KZbinrs.

[@keithbenfield9238]

So many lies rolling off the tongues, and B/S

[@AussieTonythemexican]

Yep

[@breavisbarfines]

yes

[@tryscience]

what said, was a lie?

[@Gurkha9]

💯 all BS from the lying king

[@tryscience]

@@Gurkha9 specifics?

[@jessajoypantinople4321]

Depending on the US State you are from: You have to be a resident for a certain amount of time, before the County or state accepts your petition for divorce. (some states is 6 months). In some states, you must serve a summons to the defendent, the person you are divorcing and that person must answer the summons. You must present proof of service to the court. The clerk of the court is the one that mails the a certified copy of the divorce decree to the defendent. The Defendent may also pick up a copy at the court house where the divorce was granted. And/or the defendent may recieve certified copy by mail. Please note: This is not legal advice. Hire an attorney for any legal matters.

[@gordonb1737]

I haven't checked into this myself, but the process could be a little different if married abroad to a foreigner

[@jessajoypantinople4321]

@@gordonb1737 The United States recognizes your marriage in the Philippines. Contact the office of the Attorney General of the state where you live. They can help you and tell you about any documentation you may need to provide to petition the County and state for divorce where you live in the US.

[@WhitExplores]

Hey, Paul. Sincerest condolences regarding May's mother.

[@daletalaplaya5086]

In my opinion it is child abuse to alienate kids from their Dad.

[@PhilippineAdventurer823]

Do you think a dad that moves 9000 miles away from his kids really cares?

[@pa4765]

He escaped by 9000 mi. which is more serious then any of his ex's actions.

[@skidroww1969]

This guy says he lives on income from the 401K Savings Plan that he and his employer funded during his working years. Fair enough. Then he says he is paying social security tax on that income, presumably increasing his future benefit. This is complete nonsense and absolutely false. His benefit won’t increase one cent unless he goes back to work. 401K withdrawals are only subject to income tax, not social security tax, as the social security tax (7.65%) on that money was already paid as it was placed into the 401K. Also, you must pay a 10% tax penalty, in addition to the normal income tax, if withdrawing before the age of 59 1/2 years. There are limited exceptions such as total disability but he doesn’t look completely disabled. I am not calling the guy a liar or a expect everyone to be a tax accountant but what he says here is completely false.

[@garretdoi6218]

@@skidroww1969 Maybe he’s paying into SSA with his KZbin channel & other work, options?🧐🤔🤷🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️..

[@ragjamrock]

I believe google deducts ssa tax from his adsense revenue.

[@bigwaidave4865]

This guy has lied before on his employment, military and retire retirement status before on other channels been caught red-handed.

[@garretdoi6218]

@@bigwaidave4865 WOW😂🤣🤭😳🤥🫨😱…

[@chrisclecak8572]

He has a tshirt business with a relative plus youtube self employment tax so yes he pays SS and medicare

[@robertcrotty9000]

Generally speaking, the foreigners that have the most success in PH are those that have lots of money. They can handle the inevitable demands of their Filipina wives and girlfriends and still have money left over at month's end to add to savings. Unfortunately, that's not how most of we expats are financially configured. The youtubers tell you $2 ,000 per month, and you're pretty much on your way. Truth is $2,000 per month isn't that much money here, particularly when you factor in healthcare costs and other unplanned expenses. But all that said, I still wouldn't live anywhere else.

[@patrickclark9156]

Would $3500/month work in Phils?

[@robertcrotty9000]

​@patrickclark9156 Yes. Much better, but it's important to save some of that. You'll need it later.

[@purpledream1045]

I am a woman, I think devoice sometimes save people’s life, freedom is very important.

[@d.f.9064]

13:40 Exwives interfering with father's relationships should be criminalized.

[@garretdoi6218]

@@d.f.9064 Ex~wives also tell lies about their fathers, so kid don’t talk to there fathers..🤥😔..

[@jerichojohnson3219]

@@garretdoi6218 right

[@Medic-lx1ne]

We tried to warn him of all the red flags before he got married.

[@craigjordan7835]

Begining at 12:00, the most interesting topic discussed. The toxic egos of divorced parents further damaging the children they share together.

[@garretdoi6218]

👍🤙🏼😁..

[@invisiblerevolution]

PLEASE...... he left his 3 sons. A woman can't keep a REAL MAN away from his children.

[@garretdoi6218]

@ only if she has full custody of all the kids & has TRO on the father..?🫨😳😱🤑

[@dansretirementjourneyphili6794]

There are also positive outcomes for children of divorced parents. I Googled it 😅

[@sciencerefugee3042]

Nice look Paul Keep it that way

[@purplesprigs]

Going to the Philippines to find true love is like climbing into a wood chipper in search of a better life.

[@DoctorSpock358]

I jave a date with Mia tomorrow. I'll let you all know how it goes 😂

[@BB-dp4kh]

Not getting personal..but being separated from his kids was not solely his ex wife fault...moving across town is one thing..but across the pacific...

[@MR.G-N2IT]

Not fun living your life on the internet publicly 🎯 Just to make a buck or two to survive in Philippines 🇵🇭

[@steveswell1]

Oh, man you NAILED it. Selling souls for likes and subscribes. Not for me, honey LOL

[@kingmaafa120]

And switch up ⬆️

[@garretdoi6218]

@@MR.G-N2IT Spot on 🎯💯❤️‍🔥🙅🏽‍♂️🧏🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️😂🤣😆🫣🤭🫨😱🤒🤕🤑..😁

[@paulmackie5622]

you got it

[@gary_in_the_Philippines]

well he must be making plenty of easy youtube income to not only survive but to live in extravagance. will be a jet setter too.

[@jamesalias595]

So we get advice for years about how great Filipina's are and how great your relationship are, only to see that it is no different than anywhere. Okay, I don't know if it is her fault or his fault or both, but it doesn't matter, just the fantasy bubble has popped. We have people with failed relationships telling us how great their new relationship in the Philippines is so much better only to see them have a failed relationship in the Philippines if we wait long enough. One divorce is enough, don't get remarried unless it is final, that is your going to kick the bucket in a few years and you want to give your assets to someone.

[@keith-kb1zl]

I think the divorce rate in the states is up to 60 percent.. if it wasn’t for the fact that a lot of married couples have kids, or divorce lawyers basically rape you I think it would be 80 percent or more 😖😖 I don’t know any of my friends that got married when they were young that are still married..

[@tryscience]

I don't see that at all. You're welcome to speak for yourself, though. The way I see it, Filipina culture is FAR more conducive to lasting relationships (and indeed, allowing the relation to even exist in the first place), versus Western culture that values independence and has sadly embraced toxic attitudes towards men in many cases. That said, cultural differences alone are not enough to prevent some relationships from failing. As wonderful as they are, Filipinas are as human as the rest of us, and sometimes relationships fail because of the man, anyway with no fault of her. (speaking in general here).

[@steveswell1]

It's all "grist" for the content mill, sadly. :(

[@eamonkelly36]

I have great ldr there been with my partner for 15 years but i work overseas im horse trainer in uk in away 4months at time been there all the time can wreck youre marriage too abesent makes heart go fonder i do need a sabatical from cebu too as nice as it is thats my story it can be done😅😅

[@garretdoi6218]

@@jamesalias595 It’s called: she played the long game & she waited until you died, & at least she was patient 💵💰💳💎🏧…🤧🤮🤒🤕😷😵‍💫😵🤑..🤣😂😆🤭🫣🫨😱…😁

[@antoniocliffuk]

An Amicable separation within a year of vowing to someone your endless love. What bs. I rekindled my relationship with my children so my new wife and child are out of the picture and no longer needed. Unsubscribed Gio's channel.

[@breavisbarfines]

he didnt rekindle anything with his kids. hes a liar. i think he likes Paul from asian adventure. hes a mo too

[@jackblack5833]

You have critical thinking skills unlike many people.

[@poorman2457]

I think he's using his kids as an excuse.

[@jackblack5833]

@@poorman2457 I agree with you 100%.

[@gary_in_the_Philippines]

He is still married to her no matter what.

[@Deadfoot-Dan]

I saw a beautiful young Filipino girl interviewed by someone (won't say who) 4 years ago who has a beautiful smile and sparkling eyes. I wondered what happened to her and then I found another KZbinr interview her and her new fiance. He is three times her age and seemed indifferent to her thru the interview (done 2 years ago) and her smile was gone. It broke my heart. That is a shocking truth.

[@journeytrials]

Yeah old men from the west are messing the Philippines 🇵🇭 up!

[@78swats]

Hmmm I would like to see both those videos. How to search for those?

[@Mjolnher9]

She just wants his money only. Sad but some are okay being unhappy as long as money is there

[@AussieTonythemexican]

Yep, I seen young Filipinas in Dumaguete with old guys, they looked really distant from grandpar

[@greg13816]

How long was he married for - 2 weeks!

[@dansretirementjourneyphili6794]

I think they were married longer than my 1st wife, but not as long as wife number 2, nor the several in between girlfriends. My third wife is a keeper...17 years...yahoo!

[@gary_in_the_Philippines]

he can't DIVORCE his filipina wife if he married her in the Philippines.

[@dansretirementjourneyphili6794]

​@@gary_in_the_PhilippinesYes, he can. Article 26 of the Philippine Family Code.

[@Gurkha9]

@@gary_in_the_Philippines 100% incorrect 🤣

[@MyLifeThai371]

The two biggest KZbinrs in the Philippines back together again!

[@breavisbarfines]

not even close

[@bannertraveller5879]

would be great to see NED with them

[@BrianMeurer-s8y]

You mean the 2 biggest loosers giving bad advice 🤣🤣🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@PhilippineAdventurer823]

Both in the highlight moments of their lives 🙄

[@jetlaggedlizardtravel]

Good stuff as always Paul.... it's nice seeing two veterans of KZbin have a sit down.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thanks 👍

[@bobbyjames4300]

Apparently being married for one year in the Philippines is the new Silver Anniversary.. congratulations .

[@gary_in_the_Philippines]

He would still be married in the Philippines no divorce.

[@Thephilipcartmelexperience]

Do what you like, man. It's nobody's business but your own. Personally, I would never get married without children and wouldn't leave one until they were grown.

[@devildoge9623]

Ah maybe so... But he makes it everyone's business by living his life online out in the open. In public, leaving people to judge his behaviors.

[@toddt5562]

​@@devildoge9623absolutely.... If you don't want to have public scrutiny of your actions don't run a KZbin channel... 😂

[@jackblack5833]

Stop making it other people's business, idiot. You guys are low lives to say the least.

[@Gurkha9]

​@@devildoge9623Not much choice when YT is his main source of income

[@steveswell1]

My sentiments, spot on. When the ladies ask me why I've never married, I mention the "no children equals no marriage" equation. No further questions, your honor. LOL

[@RajKnowles]

Paul, I think this conversation will be very therapeutic for you in a few years.

[@paulmackie5622]

in a few Yrs? hes on borrowed time as it stands today,JMO

[@geraldgolden2723]

Just stay single and enjoy life!

[@steveswell1]

This should have tons of thumbs ups! :) I'm 68, been with over a hundred girls, women, ladies, chicks, damsels, babes, partners, lovers, etc. and not ONE of them was my "wife". Maybe some other guy's, but not mine. LOL

[@SuperDave-vj9en]

Paul, thanks for a very informative video regarding divorce in the Philippines. Maybe I’m wrong, but the way that you and May get along, I highly doubt that divorce is in your future. I don’t know what goes on behind the scenes, but it appears that the two of you were made for each other. Sometime in the near future I look forward to moving to your area and perhaps meeting you. Stay strong, brother, and keep these videos coming for our enlightenment. Thanks, from the Bay Area, California.

[@msudak4]

I’ve always enjoyed Gio’s videos because they’re very informative and helpful, good luck; I will miss their relationship because they seemed so happy but shit happens, it’s life.

[@tvr286]

advices not to marry and not dating single mums?...

[@paulmackie5622]

@@tvr286 LOL

[@MickJ-b3g]

Careful boys 😭 she's NOT yours it's just your turn

[@CalmDownClown]

Yeah and Now she is Everybodys Turn hey lets go watch her wiggle that Booty on her Channel seems like Now its Raining Men on her Channel , what a Moron he was to put his wife on camera what a Putz

[@Pullback_L]

Wow! Great interview OD! You definitely did a great job with your questioning without overstepping.✊🏾

[@Hooch1514]

If you marry filipina you are legally obligated to support her and her relatives. It's the law but most don't pursue it. Once she married him she gained life support if worse comes to worse financially. This includes school and health. See Filipina Pea video with lawyer on this issue. If he stayed together after only a year he got played. She might care for him but the marriage was not based on love. She stayed long enough to lockin the retirement plan. Get prenuptial and add clause that if youre paying bills for family you get a permissiveblien on any property so you can force a sale later of you get fleeced for taking care of all family including brothers grandkids mother father sisters etc. Its a crazy law but it keeps the gvt from having to support these poor families and abandoned children and women, which is actually more common than ones that stay together. If you meet a filipina and she has a chlid where the father is paying adequate support, if at all, you found a unicorn.

[@danilolabrador2595]

not 100% true... your comment is more of a hate than real facts... little knowledge is dangerous..

[@dannynicart2389]

Having entered into matrimony with a Filipina, whom I encountered while pursuing our graduate studies in North America, I have come to understand that a successful marriage necessitates reciprocity from both partners. When one individual assumes the majority of the responsibilities or consistently prevails in decision-making, it may result in conflicts, much like automobiles that collide when they are only permitted to operate in a singular direction.

[@mtngrl5859]

That's true in all cultures.

[@dazSav]

Hearing ya lads,geez these kids keep changing their ages,who can keep up? Solider on….

[@PhilippineAdventurer823]

😂

[@peterbrittain1963]

why would any man get married these days ? its just your turn , never own more that you can afford to walk away from . just look at the eastman case,,, look where that got him,, he could have waked away,, but now he is swimming with the fishes ....

[@jerichojohnson3219]

clint eastman> who is eastman

[@peterbrittain1963]

@@jerichojohnson3219 Elliot eastman,,, he was kidnapped and killed in subico ,,, google it .. he was told weeks before they were coming for him , and he stayed ,,

[@TheMysterian]

It's good to see you guys .

[@jerrymarshall2728]

It's not easy establishing a relationship with a Filipina, learning her culture and temperament! This past year has been all about trying to mesh together. Some people can do it easily, some never accomplish it.

[@topjames-b8e]

on my 10th year and going strong

[@dumaguetedreaming]

Only 20 years for me and asawa ko.

[@MrSean03839]

Women are pretty much the same with what gets and keeps them anywhere in the world.

[@dansretirementjourneyphili6794]

Us too! 17 years of marriage here...yahoo!

[@peterpangelinan9221]

Filipinas are mean.....😂

[@herbwitt7710]

Thanks Paul for sharing your interview with Geo. I feel bad for Geo and Maya marriage failing. They seemed so happy... I've watched you and Geo for years ❤ Keep the great videos coming Thanks.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

It’s tough to see things fall apart.

[@1clkvideos140]

Regarding Social Security @10:00, you technically qualify for it once you have 40 working quarters in the US. That is just 10 years… it doesn’t have to be continuous either - it can be 10 years out of your whole working life. However, your benefit amount is based on your best 30 years worth of work history. If any of those years are Zeros, they average in as ‘zero’.

[@weldonreed1950]

Videos like this make me question women in the Philippines. Same outcome different scenery. More and more the answer for men is to stay single. Its sad

[@DavidPaton-s4i]

Sad but safe ... I'll take that at this stage .

[@randallzook5570]

Always enjoy your levelheaded outlook on life Paul, keep the videos coming brother.

[@Adventure5619]

400k and 12 months later still waiting of the recognition of divorce. Court system are just slow here as us. But even slower.

[@dangarcia6760]

I would say don’t pat yourself on the back for getting divorced in the Philippines. Anyone who goes to a country that divorce is illegal and provides a loophole is furthering western feminism ideology. That’s a huge “L” in life.

[@gary_in_the_Philippines]

No divorce only annulment (almost impossible to get) is available in the Philippines.

[@Maintenance63]

If you can find a friend, you will be quite lucky.

[@21stcenturyshowgirl]

anywhere in the world...this is so true.

[@21stcenturyshowgirl]

I'm happy he has contact with his children....that is so important.

[@williammontie7058]

Just don't get married is my stance, 61 years old and not looking. Yes, shit happens, I understand

[@natalliaf6387]

this guy abandoned his 3 boys to live in another country? WOW....what a jerk!

[@pa4765]

Agreed. Funny how they glossed over that Incriminating fact.

[@tilapiadave3234]

Abandoned or DRIVEN from his children by a vindictive wife and a system designed to destroy fathers. Stop and try and have a think

[@garretdoi6218]

@@pa4765 yup he could have stayed to fight, to get joint custody..🤔🫣😳😱😩🥺🙄..

[@xyza-zw5km]

Fathering a kid from another man but an absent father to his own kids. 🤦

[@rickmir4100]

great video wish you both a happy life. take care and enjoy life whenever you can, life is so precious.

[@wayneclose5299]

Had a relationship with a married philipina brought her to Canada....just in time for her to find another guy ...so my feelings are leave the philipina in the Philippines and give up on women

[@808BJJ_Black_Belt]

Guys just don’t get married avoid all the stress and headaches

[@edwinp.]

Specially in a country that has no divorce law and a government system that is soooo slow and corrupt.

[@stupadass6989]

Marriage is more than a word ..... It is a life sentence ! haha

[@terryintheislands-wr2yq]

Best of luck to you both

[@picadosinferno]

Gino has been for what in the Philippines? 10 years, so he left when the kids where 10 to 14 years old, and now he wants to be with them? that ship has sailed my friend, I wouldn't want anything to do with you if I was your child.

[@BillsTravels996]

To me a marriage that barely lasts one year was destined to fail in the beginning. Chemistry, love, passion and trust is the glue and reason that brings you together and holds you together. It's possible that each of them had a different reason for getting married and now for one of them that reason is no longer necessary.

[@kevinc8811]

Well said.

[@davidjackson7715]

I'm reading all the comments and fair enough but I've been travelling and living now in the Philippines for 34 years and seen plenty of successful relationships between foreigners and Philippa's, you just don't hear about it on social media,,, anyway good luck 😊😊😊😊😊

[@minnesotasalamander5913]

Thanks for the interview.

[@1bhowdy]

Two very classy gentlemen. I enjoy your advice, opinions and comments so very much. I am not sure if my future involves the Philippines yet, but thanks to you two I would be prepared. Mis Sinceros Agradecimientos!

[@LeroyJenkins-nn5go]

Slick talking BS artists spinning the narrative to save face is more like it

[@PhilippineAdventurer823]

At least we got chicken 🍗

[@paulmackie5622]

yep U got it, Gioe the king of relationship advice on filipinas and Old Dog who got scammed by a bulder, yep kinda guys we Look up too? LMAO

[@DavidAnderson-ev1be]

Can’t stand Geo ask him some questions before he want money on channel, it funny everyone laughing at him , tell s everyone advice and backfires , lot other good channels out there .

[@stuartloggins3691]

I had the problem my ex wouldn't let me see the kids so I moved in next door. I took her power away. Later they all moved in with me and left her alone. She had the house and we had the trailer house. Now they are grown and that sad story is over.

[@paulmackie5622]

maybe we can have a TV series made on Ur story,JMO

[@christopherolsen8044]

Great video Guys

[@alr818]

Good conversation.

[@M.Bodark1608]

Beautiful video,about friendship and life, thanks

[@marttivallila]

The public lives of two bloggers who feel obliged to tell their stories on a daily basis. Personally, I’m more interested in living my life and writing about it. The old-fashioned way.

[@jspice-kl2wc]

Great video and a lot of great information, thank you.

[@tomsewell2462]

Stay tuned for more, "As Valencia Turns" ...(5:00) Especially when your one & only princess immediately becomes the go-to girl for every foreigner in town just off the boat. Grrr!

[@danpenner9424]

No condos on Guimaras Island, but visiting the island from Bacolod or Iloilo is easy and it is a super cool island, great beaches, good roads, and less traffic

[@youwouldvelovedit]

Paul is the bomb. He is just so damn slick 😎🙂.

[@steveswell1]

Some say slick, others would say "slippery". LOL, not me, tho! :)

[@PhilippineAdventurer823]

Well he was a used car salesman after all.

[@richardwillis3304]

My uncle used to say" there's only 2 kinds of car salesmen, crocked and real crocked.

[@spider8049]

Paul is a idot

[@spider8049]

Grown as men do not wear T-shirt’s with crazy ass non sense statements on them, Google that,

[@MK-gr9qz]

This dude give ”naive” a true face... is it even possible to be so naive?? 🙈

[@michaelallen4297]

When is this KZbin drama going to end?

[@craigjordan7835]

when the profit runs out.

[@travelinghobo]

When drama in life ends.

[@thomasclementz8149]

Losers United Philippines are ALL profiting from it!

[@MJC_2112]

When these vloggers finally move on and quit talking about it.

[@Kam_Abroad_FT]

Life is never drama free

[@phil-ammike]

Hello Paul, I’m in Dumaguete until Thursday. Was wondering if you’d like to collaborate.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

That's very kind of you.

[@phil-ammike]

@ Thank you Paul. My flight leaves for Cebu at 11:25 today. Would you be interested in a collaboration the next time I’m here?

[@FrankSouza-ss7cz]

Oh you two guys are trying your best to normalize divorce in the Philippines and thats just because it suots your agenda

[@theghostofpennsylvania_11]

So a woman should be with a wife beating man or a man with an unfaithful wife? Seems like suits your agenda.

[@Eisman57]

No offense to happily married couples in the Philippines but traveling/exploring vloggers are way more interesting. Paulie & Mae are the only stationary PH couple I enjoy watching.

[@DavidPaton-s4i]

"it's me" is ok to viewing also.

[@mikemcquinn6738]

Always enjoy both your videos!!

[@onetalentedman2822]

When people have a problem in there marriage they need to talk to each other & find a solution about there problems.

[@tilapiadave3234]

You have solved all the worlds problems ,, you truly think you are talented ,, LMAO