Penn Badgley REVEALS His Dating RED FLAGS 😱 🚩 | YOU Season 4: Part 2 Interview

Penn Badgley YOU Interview!
YOU Season 4 Part 2
We asked Penn Badgley and the cast of YOU season 4 to reveal some of their dating red flags!
Does finding Joe Goldberg attractive mean you're a red flag?? Is liking Harry Potter a red flag?? Is wearing socks to bed a red flag?? Penn Badgley, Tati Gabrielle and Amy Leigh Hickman from YOU season 4 will help you avoid those walking red flags 🚩😂
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[@IGVPresents]

Wasn’t expecting a VAR reference from Penn Badgley I won’t lie 😂 You Season 4 Part 1 is available to watch on Netflix now!

[@trishacollymore4397]

What's VAR?

[@whosdevin]

Value at risk?

[@darkrider3952]

@@trishacollymore4397 Video Assistant Referee. Used in football usually to review fouls and offsides that aren’t obvious to the refs and linesmen on the pitch.

[@nadim2911]

@@whosdevin bruh

[@raul2169]

Interviewer: is someone killing a family of 4 a red flag? Penn: again, It depends on the context

[@BaDazai]

😅 If the family of 4 are the killers from Chainsaw Massacre then yes, context would make sense!

[@windydayys]

joe moment

[@moonbatt]

🤣🤣🤣

[@mariyabardarska5895]

😂😂 the guy is open minded, it's why I love him. Like what if it was self defense? What if it was the Hitlers and by killing 4 he saved millions? You just don't know 🤷🏻

[@mollyowen6094]

Surprised he did not level w/ having an avatar photo in car at this rate ☠️

[@mr.eicats2356]

I appreciate Penn trying to normalize being poor and not make that a red flag

[@ava-jl1ll]

Agreed.

[@contentkeeper8769]

Touch grass immediately.

[@paigew6707]

Lmao Penn needs context for everything, love an open minded man!

[@justinseibert]

I appreciate Penn's slowness to cast judgement in this video. There's value within going slow and trying to understand someone's situation or preferences, which seems to be how Penn is approaching the answers to these questions!

[@Babyblue115]

Yes true, but also I thought about why the women in this interview was so quick to calling something a red flag and I think it´s because women are conditioned to judge men quicker on their red flags because they have to protect themselves and remove themselves from any situation where they could be potentially harmed/attacked. So let´s appreciate the slowness to cast judgement from Penn but also not judge the women in this video for being quick to judge.

[@Babyblue115]

I also assumed that the people in the video where straight and that might be false. But still, this was just from another perspective.

[@bichen-up-ur]

good quality as an actor to keep multiple factors and points of view in mind

[@ajiththomas2465]

​@@Babyblue115 Based and true comment.

[@eleo_b]

I liked his view on the housing situation, knowing that a lot of people don’t have a choice

[@emmiebunny04]

In my opinion, finding Joe attractive isn't a red flag. The show conditions you to find him charming. If we saw the show from Becks or Mariennes eyes, we would 100% think he is insane and not find him attractive. But because we see the show from his eyes, we see how Joe views himself. And because Joe sees himself as a hero who is forced to do bad things, we start to see him as that. The show relies on our trust in a main character who in any other context would be completely detestable. And that is the genius of the show. We want to see him succeed since we identify with him more than any other character. And Penn Badgley just has a lot of natural charm and charisma which makes us less likely to see him as a bad person.

[@finpin2622]

True, although I will say I still find it weird when people root too hard for Joe. Even though we're seeing things mostly through his perspective, we STILL see the cracks in his facade and all his hypocrisy. So it's fun to watch him do what he does, and in a way you're like "MAN just stop murdering please" but for me, I'm not rooting for him to succeed 🤣 I want to see that man in peril. Finding him hot is fine, hoping he gets a redemption arc and gets to live a happy life after everything .... Is a bit weird.

[@NataliaPessoaXOXOMAKE]

@@finpin2622yeah I’m the same. I don’t understand people that are rooting for him hard??? Like… he’s crazy y’all. No thanks.

[@gandalainsley6467]

@@finpin2622 Well the thing is that nearly all the people in you suck and you don't feel really bad for them. That is why people are rooting for Joe. Its like with Friday the 13 and people rooting for Jason.

[@mariyabardarska5895]

That. And also, Joe as a person is actually quite interesting. Like I don't get what's with all the automatic hate towards him, he kills people yes, we all know that's bad and no one is defending it, but can we move on to discussing something else about him or maybe go a little deeper? If we imagine Joe with the same perso ality traits but growing up in a stable home entertainment and not developing his... Characteristic hobbies, then he's actually a very intelligent, insightful and might I add - compassionate person. He can understand people very well, better than they understand themselves, and if he used those powers for good, he'd be an amazing person. I personally really enjoy his internal monologues and his observations on society. Granted the people we see on the show are their own personal kind of batshit crazy and awful, and are exaggerated versions of real life people, but nonetheless still those musings ring very true with he world we have.

[@Lollipop.er42]

Yes! Penn keeps saying it’s because he is white but it’s a 110% that he’s the main character!!

[@Fallenintospacey]

Socks in bed being a red flag... Dude, I can't sleep if my feet are cold, it's not really something to overthink for me 😂

[@Olivia-bl8ez]

Right ? I can’t sleep if my feet are cold.

[@Ayosh69]

Same here 😂

[@auraliax1323]

i love the cast's personalities so much, penn is understanding of other's point of views and i agree with most of his answers, for example that other people can't afford money or those who didn't watch harry potter lol

[@ashp__]

I'm sorry tati's thought processes through each scenario is hilarious 😭😭

[@aa4488]

Not really

[@laurel1865]

The idea she thinks we’ve all seen Harry Potter because, “what did you watch in your childhood….” 😂😂😂😂😂 I was an adult when those movies came out. Good lord.

[@rekameszaros]

@@laurel1865 she’s 27, I’m her age and anyone’s who a bit younger or older than us didn’t see or read HP is bit weird, not a red flag but definitely an question you will ask them as “how could you avoid it your whole life?”.

[@OMGitsShrimp]

Wearing socks to bed is not a red flag! Some people just have poor circulation and their feet get cold (….like me 😅).

[@Xbitxx]

For real lol. I felt personally attacked on that one. I never viewed people wearing socks to bed as a "weird" thing. So I was surprised to see that they all thought that was a red flag

[@thebookseeker8880]

I am also that person. Im always cold so for me sleeping in socks would be a red flag cuz I dont need another hothouse plant I need someone who is able to warm me haha

[@jead7573]

The single bed one is ridiculous! What’s wrong with sleeping in a single bed in your 20s or even much later in life?? Single person = single bed, just makes sense

[@laurel1865]

It’s whatever makes you comfortable. My daughter has always had a full sized or queen mattress, but that’s so all the sheets are the same.

[@in_theMoment]

The bed part is kinda unfair cause not everyone can afford a new bed and/or not have enough space for a bigger one. Living is getting expensive. I'm almost 20 and never had anything bigger than a twin my entire life

[@xoxokennya]

They said late twenties not early twenties 😭

[@kizz991]

I was thinking what if they don’t have a big enough room for a bigger bed, like maybe a uni dorms might only have single beds for the accommodations you can afford. Some of my friends accommodations are very small bedroom areas with a single bed and maybe a desk. Perfectly fine to me.

[@in_theMoment]

​@@xoxokennyaI must've missed that, but I still stand by my point.

[@starcrysis23]

I didn’t have a full sized bed until I was 26 and it was cuz I was living with someone. I’m poor so I barely have had a mattress at all till then. I slept on a cot with a piece of foam on it, I had a really cheap uncomfortable futon, and had a bunk futon with a twin on top, and all this was after 18. I’m 28 now and have a full sized mattress a friend bought me that’s on the floor because I can’t afford a frame.its pretty cramped with me and my bf and 3 cats. Especially cuz my bf sleeps with a ton of pillows on all sides of him kinda pushing me off lol

[@manaewanae]

Tati the actress that plays marieanne is so real like I love her energy so much

[@emeryjayne]

Cool seeing Tati's actual personality, she seems lovely.

[@sarahjean7441]

The sad thing is there ARE actually people who consider meaningless shit like not having seen a certain movie as a red flag.

[@christophergarrett7082]

I sleep with socks on. I just like having socks on

[@snoozyq9576]

Yea if it's a cold night why not keep your feet warm? It's only logical.

[@Usernameblankslate]

I wear socks to bed … I never thought it was weird 😂

[@nicsssssssss]

I’ll never understand what’s the problem with wearing socks to bed. Peopl always say it’s weird but there isn’t really a justification. Is it weird to wear pjs? It’s the same thing. I just have cold feet.

[@xgise]

Yeah and one of them said socks to bed is like cover under covers, like, have you not heard of PJs? Also my feet don't really get cold, but I feel like socks are comfy especially after clipping my nails, I hate getting my nails snagged on the threads

[@literallyme.realmp4]

after watching this, his intelligence proves me why he plays Joe of all people.

[@faierest]

the way tati talks about astrology ... i love u queen

[@MazMari]

People who say socks in bed is a red flag have never had the beautiful experience of bad circulation in their hands and feet and can actually be woken up because of how painfully cold their feet gets when socks were not initially worn to bed... ...

[@xbchng]

Wearing socks to bed is weird...? 🥺 But it's comfy!

[@snoozyq9576]

People heving a problem with you keeping your feet warm is the real red flag!

[@laurel1865]

It’s like they’ve never heard of winter. 😂😂😂

[@evelinamean3642]

And I will catch a cold if I’m not wearing them. Judging me for keeping me healthy is a red flag😡 🚩

[@LiaaaaaaaaAAAAAHH]

I really love that Pen would ask if someone was Ok if they’ve never seen HP. Some religions and cults can be very strict about the kind of media they allow (surprise surprise witchcraft ain’t their bag). And growing up in that kind of environment can be damaging. It was a very insightful response by Pen.

[@veronicamoravega7754]

ive never watched the whole HP movies justice for us 😂 im perfectly okay 😂

[@sweetlittlebubbles]

My husband had a case of athlete’s foot when we first started sleeping together and he insisted on wearing his socks because he didn’t want to spread it. 🥰 Context is everything.

[@yasselesca]

Yeah, context is everything :). Can you explain to me, why it's weird to wear socks when sleeping? Where I live it's normal. Don't you guys get cold feet?

[@EsoteriaHealing]

I know! People make a big deal out of nothing. My extremities are always cold and i NEED socks.

[@LindseysUke]

Imagine having a dinner party with Penn and Tati

[@evap.5121]

There's a game called red flag or deal breaker. I played it on a date once. and all my answers sounded like Tati's I just can't give you a yes or no answer. 💀 Also Penn's mentally healthy and so logical about everything. I'm so jealous of his wife

[@breecore7]

I wear socks all day and to bed bc my feet are always cold and I don't like when they get sweaty when just wearing slippers 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@uziah1113]

Imagine penn dating someone who’s seen “you” and their just like, man I hope this goes well 😂

[@samantha_nel]

Penn has a wife 😭

[@Rickyross_a]

I wasn’t “ok” for like 19 years of living until I saw Harry Potter for the first time 😂

[@FragranceEmpire]

For a fragrance consisuer like myself I see nothing wrong with getting something I enjoyed for an ex for someone else. But for someone who isn't into fragrance as much as myself it could be a red flag because fragrance for many bring back memories of good times. I've always been hey if you to leave I won't hold ya back kinda guy.

[@dee_1989]

A brit that hasn't seen Harry Potter is a red flag for me

[@xgise]

I don't think it's a red flag, but being a Brit seems to add insult to injury somehow

[@amy_writes_love]

It's funny because I actually didn't grow up watching Harry Potter so my guy now was like YOU have to watch it. I did and my favorite is the last movie. However, I would have hated it if he thought it was a red flag lol. I love that Penn said what he did about it.

[@tae7x]

1:34 she's so real

[@paigeobrien4702]

I dont see penn badgley as attractive but that's because he looks exactly like my brother. Like down to the tooth gap. It's like seeing my brother on screen.

[@AJEditz12]

he would be the perfect Ted Bundy for Ryan's Murphys Monster sequel.

[@Chloe-fz1nw]

Did someone count how many times Tati says "like" 😂 ? I am interested🤔

[@breebree0123]

Me!!! Lol

[@rachelkat]

She annoys me tbh

[@jarricah7920]

Notice how all the astrology signs that are considered red flags consider astrology a red flag😂😂😂

[@kaimao7599]

Tati Gabrielle is so cultured

[@taurunamedjade6389]

The basement in my apartment is public domain: we do laundry down there

[@lolam4209]

i feel like trimming all his hair and moustache lol

[@hunter4229]

Funny that a lot of the questions here really depends on the culture/country. Living with parents is super normal here in SE Asia.

[@denarendall]

It still feels so strange watching Amy Leigh Hickman as an adult, playing someone other than Carmen - I was obsessed with her and Mia McKenna for a while😂

[@savage_skirt5386]

yeah... i hadn't seen harry potter and then binge watched them all, four or five years ago

[@athenachristinemusic]

With the basement one - I had an ex who wouldn’t show me his room. Why didn’t I run? Who knows 🤣

[@annabethsmith-kingsley2079]

lol when he said, "I"m Kevin Hart", for a second I was like, "hey, that's NOT Mark Normand!"

[@x.invictus6597]

I was hoping Tati Gabrielle would be a bit more eloquent. She’s charming as fuck but yeah.

[@aa4488]

She’s basic

[@drebugsita]

Geesh why so mean and judgmental?! Going off of a few minutes answering some questions for pure entertainment that is your takeaway?! I think you’re judgement speaks to your own lack than hers. She’s clearly a formidable actress

[@x.invictus6597]

@@drebugsita I never criticized her acting skills, I thinks she's a great actress. I said that I didn't expect her to use filler words, i.e. "like" so much due to the fact that she otherwise manages her speech so well. Also, it's "your judgement", not "you're". I don't know where you found meanness in my comment.

[@L4dyShadow320]

I think the living at your parents after your mid-twenties (depending on culture) and calling parents mommy and daddy would be a yellow flag. Because it's like Penn said, I would be interested to find out more context, but it's not necessarily a red flag either. It's important to neither judge nor defend someone's way of life because the circumstances behind it matter. Like living with your parents is a perfect example. You have people either saying "oh red flag I would never date a man who still lives with his parents" or "oh he lives with his parents, but it's just temporary. He's been having a hard time finding work, etc.". So it's important to see it objectively. Like WHY are they living with their parents and at minimum, do they have a full-time job that they have sustained for an extended period of time and/or are they actually actively seeking new employment if they were laid off?

[@jead7573]

To me someone taking that much interest in other people’s relationships with their parents IS a red flag because why would you care whether or not someone lives at home or what they call their parents? Do you not have more important things going on in your Iife to worry about?

[@contentkeeper8769]

Grow up lmao

[@Shady.kt_]

Penn is actually Dan lmao

[@tenderizer7303]

This lady says "like" A LOT

[@OctoganicAngel]

Wait, how the hell is wearing socks in bed even in the realm of red flags? Your toesies get cold sometimes! Underwear if its tighter than boxers definitely a red flag. Gotta let the parts breathe.

[@Lalalalala...]

I did not realize she was part Korean until now 7:44

[@lavettacannon3138]

God, after Part 2, his voice is TRIGGERING af! 🤣

[@CandicePoe]

Penn Badgely, is like look, my agent said it seems like I hate every part I’ve been in. Soooo for the sake of staying rich, nope it’s not a red flag.

[@pitchayapajingjit5212]

I still call my mom, mommy and dad, daddy and that’s it. But to other I refers them as “this is my mom and dad,” not “this is my mommy and daddy.” Lol and with the socks thing omg I don’t think it’s weird, I personally don’t wear them to bed but I know some people gets cold so they wear socks like it’s not that hard. And perhaps they’re used to it from when they were a child or have been taught. And it’s totally normal for a man 20s and up to still sleep in a single bed if he’s single priestly like okay, how are these red flags. I know this is for a comedic purposes and for content and really some of these aren’t actually real red flags

[@talesofthespiritwarriorand1106]

Just because someone does bad things it doesn't mean they aren't attractive, I might dislike someone but it doesn't make them an idiot

[@ravenderose]

Penn from gossip girl, and also from you 😂

[@Anomaleee]

So I can't like a smell?! Y'all tripping. I'm gonna like what I like.

[@celloafterdark4173]

"That's a deal breaker ladies!!"

[@novas2905]

okay but with the scent it's like do they make it a point to tell you it's the same exact fragrance as the ex, cuz like that's weird

[@lexibrowning7447]

The red flag for not watching Harry Potter means the person is too young or was “trying” to be too cool. There was no escaping Harry Potter if you’re in the millennial age group. That said, people grow up and change, so there are ones who refused to watch it to be “cool” and aren’t that way anymore yet they still haven’t watched it. They exist but they’re far and few between

[@laurel1865]

I’m gen x and never sat through an entire Harry Potter. I’ve seen bits and pieces because my daughter might catch it ocassionally on tv….. but it’s not a movie I’ve sought out. I might have been almost 30 years old when it came out.

[@yasselesca]

For many religious millenials it was forbidden.

[@emsomatic4044]

Ok.. so in my basement (unit?) is nothing but a tiny black desk and a small worn out matress. the light doesn't worke and the window always open. It does sound and look real bad, but I can explain. It would be so weird if someone was pressing me for that info :'D

[@breakmynose]

I wish I could see Penn act as Ted Bundy, not only bc of his looks, sometimes his mannerisms and laugh resembles him 🫣

[@katelyn4109]

EXACTLY!

[@chickensauce85]

we already have a show about him. move on.

[@talitam.8414]

I think Joe is enough. You don't want the guy to be pigeonholed for the rest of his life.

[@makeitright3810]

Nah this role is enough.

[@contentkeeper8769]

@@chickensauce85Wow you got mad. Don’t be a snowflake. It was just a suggestion. Move on and get a life.

[@fluffycak3s]

K. The Harry Potter question. I have not seen the entire series. I have seen The Goblet of Fire. That is it. LOTR, Star Wars, Star Trek and Harry Potter, I have not seen. Why? Because I was too busy riding my bike with my friends, climbing trees, scrapping my knees, literally spending time outside vs inside. We weren't allowed inside as feral children in the early 2000s. 😂 my parents are divorced and my brother being a teenager at the time, yeah, us kids weren't allowed inside to mess shit up. That and a parents wasn't there so no friends allowed inside, however, I was allowed to go anywhere, as long as I checked in with someone at home. Aka, my oldest brother or mom if she wasn't working nights. Needless to say, I didn't see Harry Potter as a kids because I had other things to do man, riding bikes with my friends and going to the sand pit / sand dunes was an awesome time. ^^ my childhood was in Fort McMurray, Alberta. If anyone sees this and knows what the Beacon Hill sand pit/ sand dune area is before 2016 wildfires, like this comment!

[@Geekyfabulous]

I’m from saudi arabia and for me not having HP in your childhood is a red flag 😂

[@LoveableNiki]

If Joe Goldberg = Lobster Todd, I'll always love Joe Goldberg. 🤣🤣🤣

[@martinee959]

Penn is so smart ❤

[@contentkeeper8769]

Halo effect. He’s not as funny, as smart, nor as nice as you think he is. Stop being biased and grow up.

[@stanminaj1284]

As long as I’ve lived I’ve never been able to sit through an episode of Harry Potter

[@smilealways7767]

He's my dating coach

[@pikabamboo4175]

So socks in bed are a red flag but going shoes full on in bed is not a red flag? please..

[@__elise333]

I agree with penn on all of them 😍

[@ellensmellen11]

I didn't really think any of these were red flags except for maybe the astrology thing cuz I am definitely not in to that.

[@SilverCatCat13]

I don't think she could have said "like" any more than she did

[@Anonymous-13four]

I had to skip her parts I can’t stand the overuse of “like” nails on a chalk board

[@penelopem499]

I honestly haven't seen Harry Porter and for some reason, I'm not even interested lol. I will watch it though, one day. Just so I don't get left out when I'm within a group of people who brings it up. Also haven't seen High School Musical, or any Barbie movies, stuff like that. I'm so behind for my age y'all 😫

[@sleeze415]

how the hell does a channel with less than 50k subscribers interview all these celebs? Something ain't adding up with this channel.

[@sarahkeirapage9675]

I live with my mother and I’m European and in my north african culture it is OK to stay with our parents when we are grown up. So no, that is not a red flag.

[@sabrinaevans8746]

She keeps saying “ like” between words

[@mundaneamazing]

Is Penn preparing to play Jim Morrison??

[@scordeteyla]

Because my feet get cold

[@ZundelArt]

Okay but what grown up in their right mind would honestly consider not engaging with like one fantasy book series red flag?

[@cristinagil9610]

I barely watched Harry Potter 2 years ago 😅 I couldn’t afford to go to the movies back then 🥲

[@ecstasy3692]

4:23 that's because you're a scorpio sun scorpio moon and scorpio rising penn

[@drebugsita]

Wait, you’re joking right?!

[@simpleplanfan011]

“Normalize not seeing Harry Potter” And this is why I love Penn Badgley.

[@gandalainsley6467]

Its just a movie.

[@simpleplanfan011]

@@gandalainsley6467 I know that but people act like it’s a crime against the universe to never have seen or read Harry Potter.

[@gandalainsley6467]

@@simpleplanfan011 Yeah , it is dumb.

[@Dazzzz4]

When he said, "I would wonder, are they ok?" Did he mean the people saying it's a red flag or people who haven't seen the movies? lol

[@taethetical]

Exactly because I never even watched harry potter until I went to uni, reason being is because my parents are overly religious and could never get away with watching it lol

[@Andy-ne5qi]

I think we're taking labeling things as "red flags" way too intensely. Like a red flag has to be something that points towards a very unhealthy behavior or thought pattern or some issue. Sleeping in socks or in a small bed doesn't really point to anything besides odd preferences in comfort

[@Njbear7453]

Lol

[@zarosderer4447]

you beeing very toxic, red flag.

[@snoozyq9576]

I agree as someone who has ignored very large red flags in the past

[@guitarsea003]

Same. Like a simple preference over something shouldn’t even be tagged as a red flag.

[@emiliawhatmore2608]

It’s not that serious, get a life mate

[@twisterrrrr]

''penn badgley is hot, joe goldberg is not'' someone needs to get that tatted lmao

[@Truthseeker-kc8rd]

That should be a disclaimer before each episode😂

[@kkatip]

Tati is such a great actress because I would have never guessed this was her voice when I watch Sabrina or YOU

[@simonharknesstv]

Someone: *Breathes* Tati Gabrielle: 🚩

[@tgardner11]

I love her so so much. She has a stunning face and just a great aura.

[@simonharknesstv]

@@tgardner11 she’s amazing 😂 loved chatting to her and the cast!

[@u8395]

Penn Bagdley: 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@avikamnarwal]

in indian tati means poop and i cant stop now

[@contentkeeper8769]

Female moment

[@sunside7]

"Compatibility is something that is earned and worked for." Tati's takes are so smart.

[@michellecgb]

The fact that Penn needs to know the context 😂 he’s just like me fr.

[@LimitlessEntertainment826]

4:21 THANK YOU PENN! Star signs and astrology are not inherently a bad thing, but when people judge other or write people off / say bad things about them without actually getting to know them its harmful. It's like judging a book by its cover. Also yeah most people that judge people because of that know barely anything about it

[@scribblemonster370]

I agree to the "know barely anything about it" Part. Because as someone who is a bit much into astrology, these people judging everyone based on just their sun signs is like my last straw lmao. Because behavior is different based on different planets. So at that point, they're just writing people off at a probability of one out of a hundred

[@contentkeeper8769]

It’s weird lmao

[@camerong6681]

All I can say is Tati is an amazing actress if that is what she sounds like in real life

[@pde8444]

Yeah I’m very confused w her voice

[@DonZymex]

This! I like her character in the show and want good things for her.. However.. Now the actress herself tho.. Her I can't stand I've just figured out

[@TM-il8rb]

@@DonZymex why is that?

[@DonZymex]

@@TM-il8rb My brain is just weird like that.. I can't really stand that fast-paced "like"-filled way of speaking :i

[@gerome022]

​@@DonZymex she talks that way, cuz she's trying to censor herself..or she's not well rested, I feel like.

[@chickensauce85]

i dont think it's a red flag to say joe is hot if they're talking about his physical appearance (because he is attractive) but if they are saying he's hot because of his behavior, there's obviously something wrong with them. the woman that called him charming had a point. that's a big part of how he gets away with things (plus it's an unrealistic show). he is charming and it can make you overlook the bad things he's done and how bad and dangerous he truly is. but it's still never ok to call his behavior hot or say that you want someone to do that to you.

[@contentkeeper8769]

Halo effect. He’s not as funny, as smart, nor as nice as you think he is. Stop being biased and grow up.

[@Lysiasolo]

The more interviews I watch of Penn Badgley, the more I fall in love with him!!!!!😭❤️❤️🙈

[@oladeleayoola]

I grew up in the Southeast US and knew many people who weren’t allowed to watch or read Harry Potter as kids for religious reasons. It was strict, too. Getting caught with one of the books was as a physical punishment

[@dailycupofizzy]

I was never allowed to watch Harry Potter. One day I just convinced my mom but my dad was never happy with it. Stole and hid one of my books because of it

[@snoozyq9576]

I had very religious neighbours like this. They saw all our fave movies as being very bad and they were all banned.

[@oladeleayoola]

@@snoozyq9576 my wife wasn’t allowed to watch/read it because it had “magic” and “witches” which was strictly against her parents/grandparents beliefs

[@laurel1865]

Or because we were adults who had no interest in watching or reading kid books.

[@thejennadiaries]

People in our late 20s who don’t have social media anymore actually seems like LESS of a red flag these days. Like it’s refreshing and means they’re not interested in public opinion, they just want to live their lives 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@OMGitsShrimp]

I don’t think calling your parents mommy or daddy is that much of a red flag. Sometimes that’s just what they grew up calling their parents and they’re just used to it.

[@redred7702]

Yeah. I’ve got a bunch of friends who call their parents mommy or daddy. Well to be exact, it’s closer to “mammey” and “daddey”, which is just another of the million ways to call your parents in asian languages.

[@tdelioncourt1268]

I had an ex hate that about me, when he called his parents by their first names (didn't say a thing but I consider it to be so so cold)... like? I'm sorry I grew up in a family were showing affection isn't bad?

[@susalkasarahi]

I feel like in Hispanic culture it’s super normal to be an adult and still call your parents mami and papi. I think only my white American friends call their parents mom and dad.

[@millykay3209]

I feel like here in Australia you’d get bullied hardcore for calling your parents that 😂 It makes me feel icky

[@starcrysis23]

I called my grandmother “grammy” as a kid and I still do. It would take a conscious effort to stop

[@myorangebirthdaycake]

👏PENN👏BADGLEY👏IS👏HOT!👏JOE👏GOLDBERG👏IS👏NOT!👏

[@Dino13]

I hope Marienne comes back in part 2, I love Tati so much I wish she was in more scenes this season. (but I hope she teams up with Ellie to take down Joe or something, I want more of Marienne but I need her to be safe haha)

[@joestar2399]

well :)

[@israahmad1981]

living with parents should be normalized. Its sad how people want to promote families to be distant and separated. also the mommy/daddy question was so stupid. Why make something sweet and innocent so weird. Also the men in their 20s sleeping in a single bed. Oh my these questions were so annoying. Penn’s answers were nice and nonjudgmental though

[@MustafaAli-lb8dq]

That's western thinking to dump their parents. Yes many Muslim live separately but we are connected to our parents till their old age. That is sweet and healthy.

[@EsoteriaHealing]

Ikr? What's wrong with living with your loved ones? Super cringy.

[@GoGoGirl22100]

penn badgley talking about astrology… HE GETS IT. KING